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That's pretty good of you, I gotta get into that mindset.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 08:08 PM
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Hey, I overlooked this comment or didn't get a notification, that's why I replied so late. Thank you for creating a new account just to comment on my thread. I'm sorry about your situation with your ex, and I'm happy that you found a new girl and that you found happiness. You're right about improving myself and picking up hobbies, I'm going to read through the sidebar and I hope that I'll meet a girl that is even better sometime and that I can have a proper relationship again. Many girls that fu…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:01 PM
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I overlooked this comment, but you both make very valid points. I'm going to be on months of drystreaks if I don't fuck her though.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 08:55 PM
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That's a pretty decent conclusion, maybe if I'm starting to need sexual release and no one can give it to me I'll do that, for now I'm just going to sort my life out, aside from girls.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:27 PM
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That's how I felt but I don't take it personal, most people don't analyze posts the way you just did and they just think 'this guy isn't redpilled yet so we have to downvote him'.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:25 PM
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Definitely going to post an update in a few months, thanks for all the kind words, I'm astonished at the amount of support this sub has given.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:25 PM
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Makes a lot of sense and that's the general consensus of this thread, I'm going no contact for a while and maybe if the time is right sometime meet up with her, just to see how things are.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:23 PM
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That's actually a good way to do it, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:22 PM
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You've been in several LTRs, that's rough, them ending like that. Luckily you've seen the light and are focusing on improving yourself. I'm happy that you are feeling better and that you took the time to write me this response. I'm not planning on seeing or dating anyone for a while indeed, not even fuck sluts (unless the opportunity presents itself), I just need some time to collect my thoughts, focus on my studies etc.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:18 PM
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So I should go to prostitutes? Not sure if that's an all time low or a new high for me.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:08 PM
2

Yep you're completely right, I was being foolish and had some weird emotions last night that tried to justify that I could be together with her if I did this. Thank you for your rational replies, at least now I know that it is irrational and I cannot possibly take her back.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:17 PM
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I have the song on repeat right now, it sounds like a cheery song although it isn't. Hope that I'm going to be able to get over it. I'm not even at the burning stage yet, I just have this feeling of sickness, not being able to sleep and eat, red puffy eyes and being able to break down at any moment. I try to hide my emotions from people but have broken down in front of a few people regardless, I hope that what you're saying is true and that I will be able to get over it. I will never make anythi…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:15 PM
1

This is what I'll be aiming for. Guess I'm going to have to make tinder, against all my promises to myself that I never would.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:08 PM
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Realized that you're right, I had some weird emotional rollercoaster last night and thought for some reason it was a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:08 PM
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Thanks for that, I really have to work on getting my emotions under control as I can see myself go berserk when I see her with someone else. It's weird how it seems to be true (I always doubted it and thought it was bullshit) that men are the true romantics and lovers and women use us. I'm sorry that it happened to you and I hope you're in a happier place.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:01 PM
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Misunderstood that, that's a pretty fucked up situation regardless, sorry that happened to you.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:58 PM
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Definitely not looking forward to either.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:57 PM
1

Thanks for the comment and support. People say 'fuck around casually' like it's the easiest thing ever, but the girls I attracted during our relationship were girls that wanted something serious, I never connected with a girl that just wanted to be FWB, they all fall in love/want a relationship, I guess I'm going to have to make Tinder. (Never thought I'd say this)
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:56 PM
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I didn't know a few of these terms, thank you for explaining them thoroughly. All these lessons will be useful for my next relationship, although I cannot see myself liking a girl in the near future, let alone fuck/date one. I hope that I'll get out of this hole soon enough and I'll be able to feel nothing towards this situation and my ex, this feeling truly is the most fucked up feeling but I reckon that if I manage to completely get out of it I become a stronger version of myself.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:55 PM
1

20 years and she does that, unbelievable. Have you never had sex with your ex since you broke up with her, yet she does all your chores? Don't you ever get tempted or feel like it could work out if you tried it?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:51 PM
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Porn and flirting is a huge difference from taking a dick from a random guy while still showing signs of love and affection towards me, giving me reason to believe nothing is wrong and I should not cheat.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:16 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I know that I'm in a very emotional state right now which is why I still have a bluepill mindset. A small part of my brain is being rational but the emotional part is overwhelming. I might have to take a few weeks just to think things over and come to terms with what happened. Until I am able to control my emotions I am not going to be able to swallow the red pill, and I found that talking to people on this thread and in private messages really helped me get out of the d…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:15 PM
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That's painful to read, this thread is filled with stories of guys that got cheated on my their LTR SO. I can't believe so many people are in the same boat as I am, I wouldn't wish this feeling upon my worst enemy. Your ex tried to stay best friends with you even after she cheated? Mine is trying to at least be best friends with me as well, if not reopen the relationship. I'm strongly debating to go either no contact with her or stay FWB with her while focussing on my life. I still love her and …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:13 PM
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I did learn a lot about the way you need to behave in a relationship and what are errors and good things to do. I made tons of errors in my relationship, I'll admit that. At times I wasn't as good of a boyfriend as I should have been. Regardless, she still loved me and I sitll loved her, that's why she was so special. I'm sure that any other girl would have at least broken up with me but her love was unconditional, she went through some dark times with me and betrayed me when I was at my most vu…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:10 PM
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Jesus, 7 years is something I cannot fanthom. How can someone that has been with you for 7 years do something like that to you. I respect (although no one else on this subreddit will) you for giving her a second chance, that must have been one of the hardest things you have ever done. The fact that she cheated twice is beyond fucked up. Thank you for sharing your story, I hope you're in a good place now.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 01:06 PM
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Jesus dude, that must hurt so much. That girl just literally traded you in and didn't give a shit about how you felt, after 3 years of being with you? I wish I could say I can't imagine how you feel, but seems like we're in the same boat. The world truly is a fucked up place, have you had relationships after that/been able to trust people afterwards?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:57 PM
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Not being able to trust anyone, at least not your SO feels really bad, but I guess it's true. The world is a pretty fucked up place.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:55 PM
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You're right and she definitely still loves me, I can't say if she'll ever do it again but by the looks of it she realizes her mistake . I'm in a very tough situation right now and I'm extremely emotional. I want to at least fuck someone else so we're even if I even get back with her.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 12:00 AM
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If I had money I'd give you gold, I'm smiling at your posts haha
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:51 PM
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That's a genius idea, definitely will use it. It must suck having a family against you, especially Israelis. At least her mother told you to fall out of love, and you gave your own spin to it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:46 PM
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I'm Chad as well though, pretty sure I will kill that guy instead of him killing me. That's the problem. I'm not used to these feelings in the slightest. Did your exs lovers really beat you?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:43 PM
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I'm happy that you say it's not personal. As of now I'm considering "taking her back" given that I get to fuck around and she doesn't. I don't know if I'm able to do it because I still feel for her but fuck me if I don't try, having a FWB that will do anything and fucking girls on the side. I'm leaning on my younger brother that tries to get it (he's 18 and not really into girls yet). My closest friends abandoned me, shows you not to trust anyone.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:42 PM
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What are her intentions? She's saying she will do anything to make me feel better. How do I turn this into my advantage (i.e. I get to fuck you don't)
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:34 PM
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This is what I've decided I'm doing. Now I need to find a girl and get her to have casual sex.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:32 PM
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Thanks man, very motivating and one of the few posts that make me smile. I hope you'll meet many women on your journey.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:30 PM
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I'm trying but I burned all bridges because I thought we wouldn't break up anytime soon. How difficult is it to start a casual sex relation with other girls?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:29 PM
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Can't I turn her into my FWB while she can't fuck others and I can? Gotta be able to manipulate that shit somehow.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:25 PM
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Yep same here, she was sooooo different but ended up being a slut.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:23 PM
1

How do I downgrade her to hoe, given that she can't fuck others? Currently working on it. Kinda want to get out of this that I can fuck people and she can't.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:22 PM
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Do threads get automatically archived? I think I want to look back at this in a few years. But yes, tl;dr above average social guy gets fucked over by his highschool sweetheart. I know the worst is still to come because I'm still in denial, which really fucking sucks. I just want this feeling to be over with but it's only going to get worse.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:09 PM
1

As in never again have an invested relationship?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:05 PM
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Thanks, I won't respond to her cries for attention for now, I first need to collect myself and get out of this dark place.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:05 PM
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I figured that if we both still loved each other, at least her loving me, going no contact and then sending her a letter after a while where I collect my thoughts and tell her how I felt, telling her that I felt like I lost my best friend and some anecdotes from our relationship will at least make her realise what she did and what she's missing. If I don't she'll probably continue fucking Chad to get over me.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 07:03 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement. I was considering writing her a letter once I have collected my thoughts, as I'm sure she still has feelings for me and I want her to know what I'm going through without continuously texting her.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:48 PM
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We don't have a relationship as of now as I already broke up with her. She keeps trying to reinstate contact, asking how I am and that she's sorry.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:47 PM
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I was with her for 3 years and we were best buddies next to having a relationship. I really thought she was the one.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:47 PM
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You're 100% right about all those things. I still can't believe it but it's true. Feels pretty fucked up though.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:19 PM
2

I will try to meditate, but it strikes me as unfair that we have to go through all of this trouble when girls can just fuck random guys meeting them within a day and not lose sleep over it at night.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:17 PM
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I don't know how to quote, but, "Here is where you can rejoice at being wrong. You dont have to cheat! You just have to nonverbally communicate that you could at any time, and she will stay faithfull because that puts you on the pedestal." That's what I kept on reading on this subreddit which is why I never believed TRP. Don't put your girl on a pedestal. It is pretty common knowledge within our circles that I can get plenty of girls (she's pretty attractive so she can get guys easily as well). …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:12 PM
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You're right that I am being emotional when I should be rational. It's difficult to come to terms with the fact that a girl I talked with every day for 3 years, shared my most important moments with and could always count and rely on was able to do this to me. I'm secretly hoping there is some sort of karma and I will be able to fuck 3 girls within 2 weeks and get back with her not feeling like such an idiot. Doubt that will happen, and I will feel inferior, meaning I will have to cut contact..
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:06 PM
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I actually smiled reading your reply. Thank you for cheering me up a little. I'm sorry that you went through so much with her and she still ended up cheating. You are right that we are not that special, and the thought scares me because I thought I had it all figured out and my life was amazing, and suddenly I lost everything. It's difficult to come to terms with this, I don't think I'll ever be able to trust anyone ever again, hopefully the bad feelings will fade but they will definitely leave …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:00 PM
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Thanks for your elaborate reply. I'm really not looking forward to having to live with this feeling for the rest of my life, but I suppose I am forced to. I wish it never happened or I at least never knew and we broke it off, so I could get over it without knowing what happened. I'm still lifting and improving myself. Multiple people recommended me to cut her out of my life, but we were so close, she wasn't just my girlfriend, she was my best friend, my buddy that I could always rely on and alwa…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:44 PM
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I'm more sad about the connection and about her being this shy innocent girl when we met and her turning into... this.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:40 PM
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I will not ask her to open it up because I would not be able to handle that. I'm still 'in love' with her as we had a perfect connection, she is still in love with me (at least I think she is). Going no contact mode will be very difficult, she called me 4 times today asking if I was ok, which makes me think she still cares about me.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:40 PM
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That's the problem, when we started dating she always told me she wouldn't even kiss outside of a relationship because that would make her feel bad and used. She was the most perfect innocent thing when we started dating, which is why this caught me off-guard this bad. I never expected her to be able to do a thing like this. If I go no contact mode I think I will still be feeling sad knowing that she's out there fucking people while I am not (I cannot fuck girls without being emotionally attache…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:03 PM
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I was young and naive. Guess this will sober me up.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:51 PM
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I'm not going to change who I am for a girl though, if she truly felt that way, which is possibe, I guess I am to blame but it's still a very shitty thing to do to someone.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 04:50 PM
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I feel so bad for the first guy he's messing with...
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 07:17 PM
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