TiredLaura Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
354	nOt aLlmEn	RANT	TiredLaura	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 05:23 PM
327	Single? Happy?!?	QUEEN SH*T	TiredLaura	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 01:46 AM
94	Painful and confusing thoughts	RANT	TiredLaura	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 03:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	One of the biggest lies sold to women is the importance of upholding the relationship at any cost I know for a fact that the first thing my grandma did, when my grandpa died, was to go out and get herself a pair of jeans and some black lace undergarments. My grandpa wouldn't allow her to wear either. My grandpa wasn't abusive as such, but my grandma definitely didn't have much say about things and couldn't have ditched the marriage even if she would have wanted to.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 08:03 PM
7	New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing. NO!! You do not want to make things work with this loser!! He showed you his true colors, that's not ever going to change in any positive way. You need to kick him to the curb!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 07:52 PM
78	The comment section is a dumpster fire. How dare she to have standards! Some of them are “I see her future buying dog and cat food”, “the higher they fly, lower they fall”, “phd doesn’t buy you class obviously”, etc. Asking a random woman in the street about dick size preferences is blatant sexual harassment and should be reported to the police without delay!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/21 07:22 PM
198	When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over there All the comments here make me think of all the worthless schnooks on "90 days to wed" (name?). They're horrified when they realize that the "easy to control" women they thought they were importing, actually are tough as nails. The show is heavily biased in favor of the poor American men (majority are men) who get "scammed" by these "horrible gold diggers". The women are "gold diggers" when they're not happy with disgustingly filthy living quarters or obnoxious room mates etc. The men all, withou…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 08:54 PM
12	The new dating scam. "Separate" to me means that each person pays for what they eat, not going half/half! Also, how is it awkward to set things right?? I wouldn't accept that at all! Fuck sitting quietly like a "good girl"! And then the asshole has the nerve to go in for a kiss and wants more dates?? Dude needs to take a long walk on a short pier! (god Love that oldie!)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/21 08:01 PM
56	If he’s a mama’s boy, next him. You’ll have two people making your life miserable instead of just the one Nope, no momma is supposed to take care of an asshole son. He better show respect or get the hell out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 05:17 PM
7	If Miranda was a man, no one would have viewed him as the villain. Miranda is exactly like every powerful businessman in every goddamned movie; yet nobody ever considered making a movie called "The devil wears Armani". If a woman in any movie ever behaves like Nate, she's "evil" and "unsupportive" and the male protagonist invariably gets rid of her, in favor of a girl who looks at him with unadulterated admiration. She also typically has a "hobby type" job, so nothing that can make her as powerful or wealthy as he is.... I really am too old for this shit...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 05:13 PM
8	' gOlD DigGeR ' Why would you want him to do anything but hit the road and not let the door hit him in the ass on his way out?? He's shown his true colors. Why even think that this is some kind of anomaly? This is his true self. Whatever "nice guy" stuff he did before, it was all an act. This is what he really is; the other him just had a coat of varnish over the assholery.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 05:04 PM
19	When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matches Major creepozoids! "I want someone who's not her own person and challenges my assholery. I want a childbride that can't make any demands because I make sure she hasn't had time to get a career or a stable financial situation, and is completely dependent on me." Eeeww, yuck, disgusting! gagging violently	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/07/21 04:50 PM
248	Women are conditioned to think that their unhappiness in relationships is normal Society has conditioned women to believe that something is wrong with them if they're not in a relationship with a man. A single woman is an anomaly. Why? Because if women were to find out how perfectly happy they can be without a man in their lives, the NVM of the world would be in deep shit. All alone with nobody to handle their shit. It's a fact that married men live longer than unmarried men, but unmarried women live longer than married women...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 06:22 PM
26	I Married a Homeless Man Living Under a Bush Is it just me, but the guy stank of sweat and filth and she kissed him?? If you don't wash your hands, you're not likely to clean your teeth. I'm gagging as I write this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 06:09 PM
6	Don't be with a man you cannot trust You're not even the last resort; you're the extension of her implied duty to always cater to her huband's needs,no matter what. You're the means to this end. He expects her to transfer her "wifely duties" (well most of them) to someone else, so that he never has to stand without someone handling his shit. If she had to stay in the hospital for some time, he'd expect her to make sure that some other woman come and take care of the kids, clean the house and cook for him and the kids. And take time…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/07/21 05:41 PM
8	This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things. Ok go ahead, if you meant me :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 06:27 PM
72	This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things. Allowed doesn't equal accepted. Especially when the woman initiates it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 03:30 PM
48	This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things. True! I'm glad though, that the women who broke free are largely raising their sons differently, or at least trying. They're still fighting an uphill battle.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 02:54 PM
11	With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from me My Muslim friends put it the best way: "A man with one wife, has one woman laughing at him behind his back. A man with four wives has four women laughing at him. And contrary to what he thinks when he hears the wives arguing about sleeping arrangements; they're not arguing about who GETS to sleep with him, but who HAS to sleep with him."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 02:48 PM
5	God help the woman married to this man What is the current rate for divorce lawyers? I see one in his future.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 02:43 PM
103	I’m not advocating robbery, but… Men: "I don't like hairy legs. I don't like hairy armpits. I don't like a hairy vagina." (it's vulva motherfucker!!) Also men: Looks like he just evolved to an upright position, hairy as fuck. "I'm a maaan! Hair is natural!" (No, I'm not of the hairy persuation, but I'll be damned if a man who doesn't shave his armpits and doesn't do some serious manscaping, is going to tell me that I'm too hairy!)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 02:34 PM
189	This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things. I can relat so much. I'm not Indian or North African, but I was married to a North African man. Most of my circle of friends I had in my life were either North African or married to one. Once I decided to divorce him, I became a paria, because I would "give women ideas". The women were so gaslighted or deep in internalized misogyny that they decided to believe their men, even though they knew that the nasty rumors my ex and his friends spred weren't true. Fast forward 10 years and 9 out of 10 of…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 02:26 PM
5	“So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…” It's not the mirror you need to worry about throwing out! You need to throw out that horrid "man" of yours! What if you end up havings kids from him?? Kick him to the curb!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 02:11 PM
10	Translation: “I have no plans for my future but I will abide to yours until I find the next best thing” A guy with serious daddy-issues; why would he otherwise date someone whose father he could be?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/07/21 09:22 PM
22	Couldn't have said it better And off I go to dye my hair again!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 10:11 PM
50	"He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest) Because they want a woman who's sacrificed her whole life for them. Someone without a career, doesn't give up anything for them. If someone with a great career gives it up, it means they're really great, cause, you know, she gave up her career for him. That also gives you the unverbalised notion that if she's unhappy, it's on her, cause she thought he was great enough to give up her life for. If she's unhappy with such a great guy, she's doing something wrong. There are so many layers to this. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 12:27 PM
6	If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her. I'd say it's more of a way to avoid the implied concent to anything. You don't have to deal with his expectations in the same way because "you're not sending mixed signals". How accepting a plate of food signals sexual availability, is beyond me, but scrotes. On the other hand, looking too sexy also apparently signals sex av too. Not looking sexy or really dolled up on the other hand, is almost insulting, cause, you know, you force him to go out with someone he can't show off to other scrotes. N…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 12:19 PM
3	POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you. My fuckthat-ometer just went through the roof! Why should a young, beautiful woman waste her best years catering to an old scrote as a sex puppet and broodmare?? Those are the years she should dedicate to studies, travelling, form different kinds of relationships and come into her own. I'd like to know what this creep thinks women, after 20 years with a scrote like this, should do? They never had a life of their own, kids are in college and they sit there with an aging man, who lusts after anoth…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/21 12:10 PM
219	Dr. Jess just out there spewing straight facts as usual. Funny thing is that these are the very same people who talk loud and wide about how muslims treat women and girls like possessions, and hold themselves up as a prime example of a man who respects and honors women. In fact they're of the same ilk. They're just as obsessed with whom their daughters have sex or dates. How often do you see memes etc of dads telling their sons that they can't date until hey're 30 "hehehe I'm so funny". It's a recurring "joke" in movies and shows. You don't have m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/06/21 09:55 AM
50	How do you end a date early? When I was younger I would have made like the quintessential "good girl" and just stuck it out until he signaled that the date was over. I was too insecure to turn a man down. As I got older I found that thanking for dinner/coffee/whatever and ending the date, got easier. There's definitely something to be said for getting older and have ever less fucks to give. I'm not about to waste my time with someone who just makes me feel "meh" at best.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 05:59 PM
202	Never stop getting the bag Queens! 💰 Don't put all your eggs in one bastard...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 05:33 PM
2	This is FDS Queen mood for life right here. Excellent! That means I'm doing my shit RIGHT!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:36 PM
4	What every woman wants to hear Nah girl, not what I would like to hear! She was what HE needed, but was he ever what SHE needed? Or did he take for granted that her sole happiness was in being needed by him?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:34 PM
38	The popular saying "Sex is like pizza, even if it's bad it's pretty good" is proof that men just do not see the world the same way as women. Ladies, we're talking about the people who invented microwave sex! "Oh come on! I'll just put it in for a minute!" Bad sex is not worth the time, effort, mess! Pretty good sex is not worth the time, effort and mess! Only great sex is worth the time, effort and mess. However, a good book, a box of chocolates and a drink is always a better deal than any sex. And less messy. And you don't get the "Did you cum?" (Dude, if you couldn't hear me, I didn't cum!)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/06/21 08:10 PM
77	That time I walked out before a date even started. I've been called fat at a time when I (5"8) weighed 110lbs... It's some kind of a go to "insult" no matter what the circumstances. If they can't come up with a witty answer or arguement, they'll readily resort to name-calling. Grown "men"...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 07:21 PM
46	Men always talk about natural selection and animals. Well here is proof of their 'nature'. They also conveniently forget that most males in a group of primates don't have access to any females at all...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 03:27 PM
31	Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’ "Looking out for her" by wishing for her to be assaulted so she'll understand how much he cares. Cut to camera 2: 10 years later She's at the hospital for the 4th time in 6 months. This time with "only" two broken ribs and a black eye, but it was "her fault for making him upset, she knows he doesn't like her to say hi to the mailman". I'm so sick of how women second guess their gut feelings, because society tells them they're responsible for the relationship and his behaviour! And how a woman sh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/06/21 03:20 PM
13	Why I will never allow a gun owning man in my home All DVs are misunderstandings. He's god and she hasn't understood that...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/06/21 06:32 PM
49	Why are there so many stories of shitty men not respecting women’s’ bodily autonomy? And then when she gets pregnant, he expects her to give up her life, work, dreams and aspirations. He wants a child with a built in nanny and maid. No way would he even consider being the primary carer. What a huge pile of steaming shit he is! She needs to get out!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/06/21 02:40 PM
81	nOt aLlmEn I worked in a driving school for 5 years, and of those students who overrated their abilities, 98% where male. Women almost always underestimated themselves instead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 07:24 PM
8	Yikes, OF is just so very lucrative 🙄 This is sad beyond words! Taking your clothes off for leering creeps and then be pleased with being able to buy a MD meal... This isn't empowerment, it's exploatation pure and simple. Most of the OF girls are still very young, at an age where they're not yet mature enough to understand the long term ramifications. Once they do, it's too late and their lives can be destroyed because of things that may, at that point, be years back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 09:52 PM
8	I'm 25 years old. What advice would older women give me? First of all: don't look to date at all. Cultivate your own interests, get your own circle of friends and do you. Live your life as if men don't exist. When you have a truly fulfilling life, in your own right, will you be able to pick a great guy to date. If it takes two years or ten, it doesn't matter. Don't fall for the "boilogical clock" trope. Enjoy your life! Don't settle! When people tell you that you need to lower your standards, cause you're being picky and asking for the impossible of m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 09:42 PM
180	Trading her self-respect for a Lego set Is this guy thinking that his buddy's deal is somehow wholesome or what?? It's pathetic on every single level! And why would anybody be so desperate to be married, that they'll settle for a man baby? Nothing wrong with Lego, but entering into married life with someone, who demands toys to agree to commit to her... smh	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 06:07 PM
12	OLD - is it LV behavior when men ask this? What’s your experience/opinions on it? Asking a lot about your childhood is a way of finding out about any trauma you may carry. Trauma is an excellent trigger point later on, when they want to control you. It always seems like "just wanting to get to know you better", but in actual fact they're scouting for vulnerabilities. Anything you tell them about your past, can, and will, be weaponized at some point. Childhood trauma = vulnerable. Happy childhood = accusations of being spoilt and entitled. One way or another, they'll use what …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 03:23 PM
2	Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈 I'm laughing so hard rn!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 04:53 AM
83	Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING. I love this, dear sister! I could never express this so well myself, so I'm grateful you did. As a gen x woman who's opted out of the entire dating/mating/cis togetherness thing, I watch in horror at what the young women and girls of today have to put up with. Things in the 80's weren't all peaches and cream, but the things young girls today are expected to accept, are way beyond anything that most of us had to deal with, in terms of sexuality. It frightens me. Being the mother of an amazing you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 10:34 PM
48	Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈 He wants a woman with perky boobs; meanwhile his ballsack dangles at his knees...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 09:47 PM
5	Why is it that women get shamed for being "gold diggers" (even though they aren't) but men can get away with using women so much? Answer: Patriarchy. No man can stand the idea of a woman having her own money. Money of her own means she's not dependent on him. Any time she asks him to contribute with money or labor of any kind, she's a gold digger or "high maintenance". (Especially when it comes to nasty stuff like child support...) He makes sure to rid her of any money she's got, and then calls her a money grabbing bitch for wanting him to give back to her. Men constantly come up with new ways of sucking women dry, financially, emotionally, p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 04:02 PM