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Yes, I think Younger girls especially lack the skill to demonstrate attraction. I have had successful approaches with girls who shown disinterest according to this guide.
/r/seduction16/04/23 06:34 PM
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I have the same problem! My wife of 4 years calls me cute! I think she is trying to friend zone me or something. Doesn't matter because we already smashed.
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:20 AM
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Perfect explanation, I gotten dates at the gym, but at max I do one approach a month, and that approach is always after the girl shows interest with repeated eye contact and smile.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:38 AM
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Cold approach is a perishable skill. Personally, I like to sharpen it when I need it because it is too much effort to maintain
/r/seduction03/09/22 04:58 AM
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Is this an alt account of the scammer?
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:02 PM
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I'm average, I get streaks of good game. I just need to be consistent( 5 or more approaches a day) for a week or two to get good game.
/r/seduction07/06/19 12:36 AM
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Remember to follow up quickly.
/r/seduction03/11/18 12:12 AM
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I did daygame sessions up until I met my girlfriend.
/r/seduction12/05/18 03:18 AM
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Honestly, I think indirect cold approach is great at school. For example: The first time you meet her just introduce yourself and talk about random shit. Next time ,depending on your first time, flirt find something in common and ask her out. This is how I met my girlfriend now.
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:21 AM
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I agree, thanks for clarifying.
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:38 PM
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Really looking down? I heard and learned from experience that if I girl makes eye contact and then looks down that is a pretty good sign.
/r/seduction12/03/18 05:31 PM
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Yo, I was suspicious of one girl before because, she immediately asked how old I was paused then said she was 17. I'm 20 by the way. However I have the suspicion if I was 17 she would probably say she is 21.
/r/seduction02/03/18 06:30 AM
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It's an interesting phenomenon. I think it just has to do with how mature a girl is. Maybe young girls depend on the emotional rush. While older girls see the logical value in you. Edit: 20, my phone shows when 1 when posted.
/r/seduction28/01/18 12:08 AM
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Personally,from experience younger girls (18-22) are more difficult. Compared to girls who are 23+. My closing rate was pretty low with younger girls and the flake rate was high. Meanwhile with older girls it would be the opposite.
/r/seduction27/01/18 10:28 PM
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This is actually eye opening, on a good day I can get a few girls to agree to a date. And they show signs of interest. But because of some kind of time frame rule, I would wait too long and they would flake. Although, what works great is agreeing on a specified date and place during the first approach. Bottom line, I am going to try to get my dates within three days of approach.
/r/seduction20/11/17 10:54 AM
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True, I spent my summer going on dates every week. It was not sustainable. I was only taking one summer class, so I had a ton of free time. So, like every other day I would make a one hour commute downtown to a university that I don't attend. I would spend about four hours approaching per day and I would get about one date a day.However, a portion of these girls flaked.As for my weekly date, I would go to it and try to escalate and connect to no avail. Honestly, I learned stuff and had the oppor…
/r/seduction19/11/17 05:31 AM
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I agree, I think anyone who cold approaches, should practice approaching everybody and being social.
/r/seduction15/11/17 07:15 PM
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Audio is more important for frequent recording. However ,we all should occasionally seek the opportunity for a wing to record us to see our own body language. Yeah, I agree with you a discreet camera won't help because it can only record the girl, unless he wants to carefully examine facial reactions, I would recommend having a discreet recording device plus occasionally having a wing record your interaction.
/r/seduction14/10/17 05:29 AM
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I feel like this is so true. I'm in college and getting a date with a girl my age 18-22 is freaking hard. On the other hand post 24 girls have little to no hesitation when it comes to a day two.
/r/seduction07/10/17 05:36 AM
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Honestly, best move. I would also recommend calling if you feel like the interaction is soon to be f*cked. I had this plenty of times, and the girl will most likely flake, so might as well play it risky. Personally, when I feel a girl is just about to ghost me, I just call them, last time I did this girl immediately texted me back and apologized for being busy. Then I ended getting that day 2 with her.
/r/seduction15/09/17 05:06 PM
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For sure, you can have success. Most girls will accept a reasonable excuse at my local campus. However a few will be all on guard about it, if you're not a student. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/09/17 04:29 PM
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Hey I am curious, do you ever daygame at a university that you don't go to? I do it however sometimes a girl gets suspicious when they learn that I don't study at that campus.
/r/seduction15/09/17 12:10 AM
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There is different methods, I recommend that everyone tries different methods. Indirect and direct are both great. Depending on my mood I will do one or the other. Depending on the girl's mindset one will work better than the other, no one is best for all situations. True, that direct is the fastest way with high volume, higher risk, higher reward. Indirect is best in situations with timid girls, opening with a direct compliment can simply intimidate a girl to the point where they are too shy or…
/r/seduction11/09/17 06:23 PM
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It's fine to share your theory on all, but what isn't is your condescending tone. It's toxic and honestly it will discourage newcomers. First, you shit on direct approach like it never works. Additionally, you portray a negative mindset when you write guys actually think this works. Like they really think they are being different when they compliment her clothes or her looks or whatever. like do they really think some cutie on her way to her next destination really wants to be interrupted by som…
/r/seduction28/07/17 04:23 PM
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Declining friendship with anyone because they're beautiful feels like a decision made from insecurity. On the flip side, heartbreak shouldn't automatically be perceived as a bad thing and is a very normal part of personal growth. This. I agree with this so much. To be friends with anyone it is important to be honest with them and yourself. Also, being friends with beautiful woman , the kind you desire, will definitely help you develop as person. This thing really upped my game and mentality.
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:31 AM
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I'll counter that point, you don't have to be actively getting laid but it would definitely help. I kind of feel that this prevents scarcity. It is important to identify do you like this girl or is it me having a scarcity mindset. When I hang out with these girls I compliment their beauty but I am not actively seducing them, because I identify them as friends. I just like being around beautiful woman, so I keep few as friends so I can reliably have beautiful woman in my life, reducing a scarcity…
/r/seduction27/07/17 06:26 AM
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Hey I used to be the same, well still am to a lesser extent. However, just the fact that you need woman in your life to feel normal is indication of how needy you are and neediness destroys attraction even if you're a completely normal guy otherwise. First step, find out why you need attention from woman, talk to a therapist or a friend and deep digging into your mind. Second step, make sure you have a good social circle, at times when I was needy I desperately desired woman, however hanging out…
/r/seduction27/07/17 12:06 AM
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Super cold girls, I did my own experiments and tried emotionally spiking the girl, while it makes them conversationally receptive they stay pretty cold and standoffish in terms of attraction building.
/r/seduction23/07/17 08:10 PM
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I'm about 7/10 Hispanic. I only been approached once in the library while sitting at an open table. I gave her STRONG eye contact and resumed my work. About a minute later she came over to me with her friend and asked for a picture and Snapchat. She was also Hispanic, so kind of a ethnic advantage.
/r/seduction22/07/17 06:50 PM
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At the beginning of the 30 day challenge I was a kissless virgin, now I am only a virgin with a few (first and second) dates lined up. I am hardcase, I'm sure you can do better. During the 30 day challenge I approached at least 3 girls a day, while maintaining my grades. I avoided doing to many cold approaches at school. Edit: This all daygame; I am under 21 in the US.
/r/seduction22/07/17 06:37 PM
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Got the idea here: https://youtu.be/VWtE8TD61rE
/r/seduction22/07/17 08:36 AM
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On a first date I go somewhere I can get something to eat or drink on the go. Then I get them to walk around, which allows for easy kino. The when we finish walking sit down you have the rapport to sit next to them. Although, some girls are against the idea of walking around so it throws a wrench in my plans.
/r/seduction22/07/17 07:25 AM
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I sort of kept stats just for this case. I started at absolute zero at the age of 18. On and off for a few months at time. This time I am on for good. I got a number in my first five approaches. I got my first date after about the first 100. My first kiss at 125. I have a few dates lined up but I am still looking for a girlfriend. My advice from 2 years of f*cking around is that frequency is greater than total number of approaches. The first two years were just flaky numbers and a possible date …
/r/seduction22/07/17 07:11 AM
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Also, what's your age, city population density, and total experience in the game.
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:12 AM
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Wow, are you a natural, just playing the numbers and or good looking?
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:11 AM
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Wow, I have a girl who's flaws I find adorable but I don't have oneitis ANYMORE. I made out with her but she has a bf. For some reason I was completely able to move on and date other girls, she even helps me out and hooks me up with other girls. Now that I think about it, I was only able to move on fluidly because I had an abundance of girls, but when I think of her I still get a slight twinge in my heart. I guess the easiest way to treat oneitis is to talk to multiple girls.
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:44 PM
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For me I know I lack self awareness, so I consider every possibility as an issue. As I was reading Mark Manson's Models, his line about repetitive failure stood out to me, but I ignored it for a long while because I simply had no one to talk to. About a year later I made a friend with a girl I met through pickup, who I was comfortable being emotionally vulnerable with. My main issue was that I was great at lying to myself. I convinced myself I was fine and had no emotional issues, but being extr…
/r/seduction15/07/17 06:40 AM
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On side note, personal opinion, I just going to talk from my personal experience and let me know if it applies to you. I can't do that many good approaches in that span of time because I simply cannot be genuine and authentic with that many women. It is not an issue of approach anxiety. I noticed that I can do about 5 approaches per day before I lose my ability to be genuine. In the past I used to do mass approaching unsuccessfully, but it wasn't till I did some emotional deep digging with a fri…
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:29 AM
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I feel like it will reduce your ability to get laid, just simply because of logistics. Not having your own transportation reduces your dating range and to an extent your ability to spontaneously go places, like yours or her place. In the end it will be a slight obstacle depending on your situation,but nothing too major.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:10 AM
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I noticed that friendly looking average girls get approached often, as informed by said female. I also have met quite a few girls who have never been approached all under the age of 24. In reality there are only a few girls who get approached enough for it to be a nuisance, having a guy approach them. These girls tend to be 8 out of 10 attractiveness, who also dress in a very appealing manner. Long story short, don't worry about it.
/r/seduction24/06/17 03:25 AM
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She need that Vitamin D ;)
/r/seduction18/06/17 05:18 PM
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Also, please post question like this on askseddit.
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:16 AM
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It's fine, what is way more important is how it fits. Personally, from someone who started at 17 I wouldn't dedicate much time to sarging seriously. Girls at that age are just so fickle and sentimental about dating. Focus on other methods of game and self development.
/r/seduction13/06/17 02:12 AM
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I haven't read what you have written yet. But I am kind of worried this will happen to me once I run the course of a LTR. So, I have been keeping a notebook of my note-able approaches, and I have many personal guidelines developed. Hopefully, that plus a 30 day challenge well put me right back into the zone.
/r/seduction12/06/17 06:44 AM
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I like RSD Max's mindset, he says your only goal is to tell the girl she is attractive. Everything else is a bonus. In this specific case you can just tell yourself " It is okay if I mess up by staying for too long, potentially messing up this interaction by staying in set will benefit me in the long term.".
/r/seduction09/06/17 06:24 PM
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Have a few practice sets where your goal is to stay for a set amount of time. In this practice sets give yourself permission to mess up the interaction. It seems that you bail because you are afraid of messing up the interaction.
/r/seduction09/06/17 03:09 PM
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Wait, what is wrong with San Jose?
/r/seduction23/05/17 05:39 PM
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I wish I knew this my first 18 years of life.
/r/seduction22/05/17 11:04 PM
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You these kind of interactions occur when you are not proactive, you should not be waiting for a girl to drop hints, you should be the one demonstrating intent.
/r/seduction22/05/17 06:47 PM
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" Don't go chasing butterflies, tend to your garden and the butterflies will come."
/r/seduction20/05/17 06:58 AM
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I been approached a few times but I can't tell if there girl is extremely friendly or is actually trying to make a move.
/r/seduction20/05/17 03:39 AM
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What do you think you should do?
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:33 AM
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My first attempt- super cringy. I knew this girl from a program and I asked her to walk with me. I was nervously quiet. I was choked up and only by the end of the walk I mustered up , " Hey, -------- if you wouldn't mind, do you want to hold hands." . I was absolutely clueless andy only romantic role model was basically anime and comedy.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:33 AM
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Yeah, set up a date or phone call and build attraction then, but not over text especially when they aren't yet aware of your intention. Although, I flirt over text I only do so after making my intentions clear.
/r/seduction09/05/17 07:14 PM
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Honestly, yes , but I only get this with older girls (25+). Currently I am 19 and I feel like I can't compete with older guys who have careers, nice cars, well travelled and etc. But I still approach because it's fun , but I usually don't ask them out.
/r/seduction04/05/17 06:06 PM
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I used to think the same, but recently ,as a result of talking to multiple girls, I can be really horny but not desperate at the same time, I feel like it good to learn to be able to control your urges and use them effectively.
/r/seduction04/05/17 03:10 AM
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I used to be logical like you. Give it up. Honestly, I only improved from talking to a lot of girls and developing an abundance mindset. While, doing this my flow just developed to the point I don't even think about moves I just do what I feel like.
/r/seduction03/05/17 08:15 AM
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True, I guess you have to go to a densely populated place, I did like two sets in one hour at a Barnes and Noble in a mall, but hey you can just read books for free in the meanwhile.
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:54 PM
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Bookstore is good and so is the library
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:42 PM
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Honestly, you can do a "perfect" set and the girl will not be attracted to you. A point of game is to be able to grow attraction, but you can't grow what is not there.
/r/seduction23/04/17 12:22 AM
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From my experience, I started to question Snapchat as well. Younger girls don't really like doing phonecalls in the beginning of an interaction. So, your communication for day 2's is through message. Snapchat can do that and has an added bonus of being able to share your story. It could be a great opportunity to demonstrate value. However, I still prefer a phone number, it show more intent. Also, I don't care to use Snapchat as a tool. However, if my flake senses tingle I just go for the Snapcha…
/r/seduction12/04/17 04:06 AM
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I had a similar feeling, but I just haven't been able to put it into tangible words.However, this is the reason I took up meditation seriously. I want to be able to stay calm and not allow my 'lizard brain' and their beauty to effect my decision making.
/r/seduction21/03/17 12:06 AM
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Going to use this with the cute girl in my class.
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:45 PM
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I would be interested in a basic physical/kino guide. Perhaps along the linea of what kind of touches and good time to touch.
/r/seduction14/12/16 12:55 PM
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Next time start kino immediately on the first interaction. Just start with something light and gradually increase kino as you feel appropriate. This way when it comes to the point, where you have to do the deed, touching is not this foreign thing.
/r/seduction12/12/16 08:17 AM
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Approach Anxiety is a result of your ego being challenged. Personally, when you practice approach, don't rate 1-10. Just do a yes or no rate. You will approach a lot more. Remember to have fun!
/r/seduction20/10/15 05:38 AM
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