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Usually in cases like this the mother never actually sees any of the money the biological father would be paying out. It's a payment he'll make directly to the state to pay back what she's received.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 03:09 PM
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I have to say, I used this direct approach my WHOLE life. Most men didn't respond well. Either they would appreciate the directness, or they would run in terror because I was too aggressive. I encountered a lot of guys who wanted to "hook up" and the word "date" was a little too intense for them. They were cool with "hang out" or "meet up" or any number of vague terms. But if I said the word "date" they suddenly reacted like I was trying to rope them in. So really it was a lot of hit and miss fo…
/r/MensRights08/04/13 07:02 PM
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There are women who are open to that idea and who do live their lives that way. My boyfriend is an introvert. I'm an extrovert. When we first started talking, I thought he was handsome, and funny, and genuine. So I said,"Would you like to go on a date with me?" Not,"Let's hang out." or anything remotely vague lol. I was very direct with my intentions.
/r/MensRights08/04/13 04:33 PM
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This thinking starts on the play ground. How many times have you heard of a little boy saying,"So and so chased me on the playground today and hit me." And the reaction that comes back,"Oh, that just means she likes you." Reverse that scenario to a little boy hitting a little girl and I have no doubt there would be punishment for that boy. As there should be. The problem is, when no punishment comes for the little girls. We teach them from the start that it's "different" when a girl hits a boy. …
/r/MensRights06/04/13 04:43 PM
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I feel like I have to repeat myself SO much around here. At no point have I said what she did was justified. It is absolutely NOT. There was some question as to whether or not what he did should be considered cheating. It wasn't a question of what level of betrayal this fell on, I was simply saying what he did was absolutely cheating. She's still crazy, but he did cheat. Doesn't justify what she did.
/r/MensRights05/04/13 09:34 PM
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That's mostly due to the whole "war on drugs" fiasco. A LOT of our prisoners are there because of drug convictions. With out pulling up the pages, off the top of my head I think I recall something like half of our 6 million prisoners are there on drug charges. 3/4 of that number are there on possession charges. So we spend $45,000 a year per inmate to house these people in jail, for possession charges. Keeping in mind by the way, that it cost about $12,000 a year to send a kid to college on fina…
/r/MensRights05/04/13 02:36 AM
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How on earth is that related to what I just said?
/r/MensRights04/04/13 10:56 PM
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I don't think at any point I said any of that makes what she did okay. Why do you zealots keep trying to put words into my mouth? And you might want to check into your claims. There are many cases where special circumstances change the out come of sentencing.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 10:39 PM
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Men get off with light sentences often too. This isn't a sexist issue. Just two weeks ago in my home town a man was convicted of sexual assault against a minor. He was sentenced to 6 months, to be served on weekends. Their reasoning had something to do with him being a local business owner and needing to operate his business.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 09:42 PM
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I don't know... do you expect your boyfriend or girlfriend to remain faithful? Essentially that's what they were at that point. He had made his intentions to get back together pretty clear. I know some people play fast and loose with their sex lives, but generally if I am having sex with some one, I expect to be the ONLY person they're having sex with. If this were a hook up, and then she wigged out that he "cheated", then that would probably seem pretty silly. They were married, and had been to…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 07:41 PM
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Thanks for clearing that up. I just thought it was in really bad taste when I saw it, so I ignored it. Understanding a little more about what the book is about does change the intent in my eyes.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 07:31 PM
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Now, reading the article, it does say it was about more than just infidelity. It had something to do with their two daughters he had in the Philippians right? He had been promising he would bring them back, and that the couple would be getting back together, and then she discovered the other woman. Of course still not justified at all, but do any of you think the addition of the children being involved changes the absurdity of the story at all? It's absolutely absurd to kill some one for cheatin…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 07:10 PM
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I was hoping to come to Men's Rights and find a lot of cool articles or selfposts. I was disappointed to find them as anti-female over here as those feminists are anti-male. So I guess the road runs both ways. If only there were a place that was really interested in improving men's rights, and not just in bashing women.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:52 PM
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I will not debate if she should have killed him or not, because that's an absolute. There's no way killing him should have been okay. He wasn't harming or threatening her in any manner. He hurt her feelings. But lets not get silly here, he did cheat. He didn't deserve to die for it, but he was cheating.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:48 PM
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That's the worst. I'm sitting here picturing here standing next to the stove and WAITING for the water to boil. I can't believe at no point she just turned it off and walked away, she had SO much time to sit and think about it. What a horrible human being. If some one cheats on you, you leave, you don't kill them.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:44 PM
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Nope, I can promise you, I'll be okay. I really will. My son and I even sat and talked about this very issue last night and he literally laughed and said,"Really mom? Some people get mad about it? It's not that big of a deal to me." He's really okay with circumcision and so am I. And there are plenty of adult males who have been circumcised and they're okay with it too. Their mother's haven't gone into any sort of existential crisis over their choice lol... really, thanks for your concern, but I…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:41 PM
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I don't think it's really been excused. She has served time. She was punished for her crime. If they used it to completely excuse away her crime, she wouldn't have been convicted. She didn't serve as much time as she might have here in the states, but I'm getting the impression that has less to do with her being a woman, and more to do with the Canadian justice system. They just don't seem to have as harsh of penalties for certain things as we might here. And that's on them to decide. It works f…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:38 PM
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All you can do is speculate though, because you have NO idea how a man would react to being impregnated by his father at the age of 15. You might be able to find a man who was raped by his father at 15 though, and I'm pretty sure that guy would be royally fucked up too. This place would be taken a LOT more seriously if EVERYTHING wasn't a gender issue. If people actually brought up REAL situations that were relevant to Men's Rights. Instead what I see around here is a lot of,"Look at what this w…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 06:33 PM
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Well you just seem to know everything about me don't you :) I guess there's no need for me to speak, you know it all.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:40 PM
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The reason things become sterotypes is because there usually is quite a bit of truth in them. I think he did a good job of explaining that he wasn't saying ALL men or ALL women do this, but he's pretty right on with his "generalizations".
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:33 PM
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You should have read a few more comments and then you would have seen that I am absolutely not anti LGTB. I'm pretty much the opposite. Quite being defensive.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:32 PM
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That government money is ALSO paid by women. You've completely missed the point here, and this is not a platform for you to express what is obviously your misogynistic view point.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:27 PM
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Yup
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:22 PM
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I see that judging is your area of expertise. You must be right then.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:21 PM
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You're describing a VERY specific kind of situation, and you seem to be under the impression that happens a LOT more often than it does. I'm surprised that as a woman you really think we all just run around getting pregnant on purpose lol.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:21 PM
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You seem to think that by calling me a bitch over and over you're going to get a rise out of me. That's not how I operate. Try a different tactic, you might get better results.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:18 PM
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I hope this comment doesn't get buried because you've made a lot of very good, well thought out points, for it having been just off the top of your head :) I did stress sons specifically in my post because I was speaking to the message we send our sons when we downplay the importance of fathers, but you're absolutely right about daughters needing their dads too. I don't have a study to site, but just from my personal experience, women with absent fathers tend to have a LOT more self esteem probl…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 03:14 AM
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"It takes a village" is one of the many mottos I live by.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:13 AM
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What's interesting to me is I'm willing to bet that if a woman who DIDN'T want to have a baby went out and had an abortion with out her partner's permission, you'd be just as infuriated. If you have sex with ANY one, as an adult you should know that one of the possible outcomes of that, despite all of our medical marvels and ways of preventing it, is a baby. If you as an adult, know that a baby is possible, and aren't willing to have a baby, you need to either make sure your partner is on board …
/r/MensRights04/04/13 02:00 AM
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I'm mostly just and advocate of having two parents in the home. I honestly believe two women, two men or a man and a woman are all capable of raising children in a loving and supportive environment. It's just easier all around when you have two parents supporting one another. As long as a boy/girl has positive male/female role models in their lives, they're probably going to do just fine. The biggest point I was trying to make with this post though is that we need to STOP sending the message to …
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:36 AM
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No worries, I'm not on the defensive. I was just pointing out the reasons why I choose to upvote or downvote some one.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:33 AM
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Reddiquette on Downvoting this is the "Don't" lis: "In regard to voting Downvote an otherwise acceptable post because you don't personally like it. Think before you downvote and take a moment to ensure you're downvoting someone because they are not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. If you simply take a moment to stop, think and examine your reasons for downvoting, rather than doing so out of an emotional reaction, you will ensure that your downvotes are given for good reasons…
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:23 AM
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Oh don't worry, I go over there and rustle their jimmies from time to time too. I'm all about equality. What's good for the goose is good for the gander right? I honestly don't mean to start trouble. I would rather these discussions go the route of being calm, reasonable exchanges. I know these can be sensitive topics though, and I don't expect people to completely remove their emotions from it. But I do wish it were easier to have mature conversations with some of them.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:13 AM
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I do :) I actually upvoted a couple of his comments on this thread that I DO agree with. I try not to be overly emotional in these kinds of threads, it tends to cloud my judgment. So taking the emotion that this man has evoked in me out of the equation, he had several points I was compelled to agree with. I do not agree with his tactics however.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 12:09 AM
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And yet you've continued to seek me out and CONTINUE this conversation in an inappropriate forum. If you don't want to maintain a conversation with me, why have you persisted?
/r/MensRights03/04/13 11:15 PM
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Finally! Some one actually called some one a bitch in this conversation! And guess what? It wasn't me. You are on an emotionally charged rant right now. You are unreasonable, and being vindictive. I don't like you as a person. I am free to say that. I don't remember anything requiring me to like every one here. I think it may be best if we just strive to avoid one another in the future.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 11:06 PM
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Thank you. This is my point. They can be upset with me, and we can disagree, but please do it in context on a relevant post. I've said a few times I am more than happy to continue this conversation where it was started. But hijacking and derailing other posts (that ARE just as important and relevant to men's rights by the way) is against Reddiquette for a reason.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:59 PM
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THIS is the most frustrating to me. I began this discussion with them on another thread, and I've made it clear that I'm happy to continue that discussion on THAT thread, where it is relevant. But they keep insisting on following me to other posts to continue the argument, out of context, while mass downvoting everything in my user history in their downtime.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:55 PM
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I would like to, yes. In private? Or is there a thread you want me to head over to?
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:34 PM
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Will do :) They're both a couple of pretty awesome fellas and I'm very proud of them. And thank you.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:32 PM
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I JUST said I did in fact say that. What I denied is calling any one a whiny bitch, which I did not. You're welcome to comb through my comments at length, you will not find such a statement from me. If I had said "men are bitter and pathetic" that would have been sexist. I was referring to a very specific group of men, and I made an observation based on my opinion.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:31 PM
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Yup, and I stand by that. You do sound very bitter and pathetic. That doesn't make me sexist, that makes me observant. Just like I would call a feminist complaining about a man holding open a door "bitter". Like I said, you guys are just as bad as feminist, I don't like them either.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:19 PM
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I do remember you now. I had to go back through three pages of replies to find yours, and yes I did simply miss your post. I'm doing a multitude of things WHILE replying here, so I occasionally leave a tab open with the intention of reading it when I can give it my full attention rather than just browsing through it. I did that with your link and I haven't had the chance to read it yet. *edit: typo
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:10 PM
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It's honestly possible I've just missed them, or didn't have anything to say in reply. I've gotten a LOT of replies on various topics today. I don't speak every time the opportunity is presented because it isn't always necessary. Some times it's just better to stay quite on some things because it can be impossible to have a logical conversation with someone who is so obviously emotionally driven by a subject. What hypocrisy was it you believe was pointed out by the way?
/r/MensRights03/04/13 10:06 PM
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It's also really frustrating to be discussing this out of context. I really think the GM conversation needs to be kept on that thread, and I will gladly discuss it there. But to follow me from thread to thread as I post is not only immature, it's against Reddiquette.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:58 PM
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Well, what is the intent of performing the procedure? Because, as I said in the other post, one of my biggest problems with FGM is not just the way it's performed, but also the reasons for which it's done. It's almost always to limit or completely eliminate sexual pleasure for women. Even though some men talk about a reduction of sexual pleasure because of a circumcision, I don't believe it's ever been the intent of any one to destroy sexual pleasure and oppress men by circumcising them. Can you…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:56 PM
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AND from a woman ;)
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:51 PM
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Now it's YOUR turn to put words in my mouth? SEVERAL times I said that MGM AND FGM are equally horrible. But I personally don't feel that male circumcision, performed correctly by a professional is the same as genital mutilation.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:43 PM
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It takes a village. When I was doing it "on my own" I was never truly on my own. I had my brother, who is a wonderful uncle and very active in my son's life. I had two grandpas who would do anything to be part of his life. My son's father is a Marine, so his absence is more due to his job taking him away and less so because of us not being together. I have no doubt that if he lived closer, he'd be a constant figure in our son's life. But in his absence, every male family member (and a few close …
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:22 PM
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I know when I was out in the ugly dating world I was ALWAYS worried that a man would think I was looking for some one to support us because I had a kid. And to be honest, I did quite often encounter men who had that kind of attitude. There really needs to be some attitude adjustments on BOTH ends.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:12 PM
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I think for some women it's also a defensive emotional response to say they don't "need" a man. It's an attempt to appear strong, because we've been lead to believe in recent years that women who "need" men are weak. There's nothing wrong with needing a partner, or support. But some times single moms are perceived as just trying to "hook a man" to "support their kids". In an attempt to avoid being classified as that type of woman, some women have gone the extreme opposite to prove that's not wha…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 09:11 PM
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Again, I've never called any one a whiny bitch, but you are REALLY good at putting words in my mouth. You are not the type of person a rational discussion can be had with. It's unfortunate.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 08:55 PM
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By the way, I agree with you on this post. I disagreed with you on the other post. At NO point did I downvote you however, because that's not how intelligent conversations are had on Reddit. You downvote someone when their comment adds nothing to the discussion, not because you don't agree with them. Downvoting people you disagree with basically comes off as trying to "hide" their opinion on the bottom where no one else can see it. If you believe in your point, and you have the words to back it …
/r/MensRights03/04/13 08:45 PM
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No, but my son was circumcised. You don't get to change the meaning of what was done and imply that I abused my son because you get your panties in a bunch over your missing 2 centimeters of foreskin. THAT is why you will never be taken seriously by any one outside of this little circle jerk you guys have going on here.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 08:35 PM
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Just because I think one issue you harp on isn't something I agree with, doesn't mean I don't understand the overall need to bring awareness to other issues concerning misandry. Like I said in the other post, I'm MUCH more likely to speak out for men's rights than I am for women's rights because I do see there is a need to do so. And in response to what you said BEFORE you edited it to say something completely different, "Most women today don't seem to have any understanding how important a posi…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 08:25 PM
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Yup, insulting me as a mother is definitely going to get your point across. Very mature.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 08:04 PM
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I was extremely grateful when two weeks into dating my boyfriend said to me,"So when do I get to meet your son." He's one of those good men. He had the good fortune to have been raised by an AMAZING step father himself, and takes pride in following in his footsteps. He's taken on a role that wasn't his responsibility, and he did it with out complaint or reservation. My son is better for it. My boyfriend had to teach me to not try to kiss my son's "boo boo's" at the skatepark in front of his budd…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 07:51 PM
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I really don't know if it matters, but I AM a woman who was a single mom for many years. Raising a son on my own it quickly became apparent to me just how important a father is to his son. I would never want my son growing up thinking it's not important for him to be there for his children. I wouldn't want my son growing up thinking he was unimportant PERIOD, as is the case so often with young men raised by bitter single women. And then they stand around wondering why so many men have no interes…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 07:24 PM
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I think you're mistaking my position. I push for men's rights far more than I ever do for women's rights. I believe in equality for both sexes. There was a time when women's rights was a necessary fight, but the tide has begun to turn and now men are in a position of subservience in many cases. I am a mother of a young boy, who will some day be a man. I would love to see him grow up in a world with a TRULY equal playing field.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 07:07 PM
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I think what's most offensive is comparing it to female genital mutilation. That's where you guys really go wrong. You cannot possibly think the two are in the same category. Even if you believe male circumcision is wrong, you can't by any stretch of the imagination compare it to what's done to young girls all over the world, with broken glass, while being held down by grandmothers and aunts. It's just NOT the same thing. Any time someone tries to make an extreme comparison like that, their argu…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 05:46 PM
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I hate to break into this party here, but my boyfriend who is uncircumcised just found out that as an adult he'll likely have to get it done because of medical reasons. We don't know for sure that's the case yet, but it's looking that way. Some times it's medically necessary, like it or not. Show me all the articles you want, but we're living it right now. It's incredibly painful for him, and he is horrified that he's got to get it done. He honestly wishes his mother had just done it when he was…
/r/MensRights03/04/13 05:31 PM
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