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Grid and Lilith are one and the same. Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:21 PM
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Same as a matter of fact I’ve always tend to see introverted associated with negative personality traits unless the person was someone they just liked or already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 04:31 PM
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I didn’t say that’s what I think. Why do you keep asking questions with statements I’m not making? How the fuck are you telling me what’s in my head when I’m telling you directly what I’m saying? WTF is wrong with you? I said most relationships begin with sex first. “sO iN YoUr HeAd” there’s no need to keep saying that retarded shit when I’m telling you what I’m saying. I’m not arguing that a relationship isn’t legitimate without sex. Reading and comprehension is key. “There’s no reason to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:23 PM
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You keep quoting me out of context and asking me questions with statements I never made. “sO iN YoUr hEaD”. Wtf are you even talking about? You really thought you made a point? I never said they were fucking a lot and then stopped. I also never said anything about the amount of days they were fucking. The amount of days they wait to have sex is irrelevant. If we wait several months and then have sex but we’re not in a relationship that’s still a hookup. I just said they had sex BEFORE they get i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:03 PM
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Most relationships start with sex before the relationship. If they’re just sleeping together until they get into a relationship then what are they doing? Hooking up. Most relationships start with sex first and these women are having sex with the assumption that the man won’t stop dealing with them but knowing at any point that he could stop dealing with them. If they weren’t cool with hookups they’d never take that risk. They’d just wait until a relationship to have sex. That’s not what’s happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 04:22 AM
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Look up “Libel”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:49 AM
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You missed the point where I said most relationships start out as hookups. This is why you shouldn’t quote me out of context (something you seem to have a habit of). I never said they fuck on the first date (again stop misquoting me and argue in good faith for once). Whether they’re waiting one date or several they typically aren’t waiting until a relationship to have sex in most instances. Most people aren’t. Most relationships start out with sex. Sex before a relationship is a hookup. The wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 03:44 AM
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Where are you getting this idea that most women don’t want hookups from? Most relationships start off being hookups. Every relationship of mine did. Most people aren’t waiting until they’re in a relationship to have sex. Women have literally made a word called “situationship” to describe a situation where they’re sleeping with a man who they like who doesn’t like them. And many women complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 05:50 PM
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I guess you missed the “broken homes” part. Regardless it should’ve been done sooner. Idk why yall want to do what is responsible and common sense now and frame it as a revolution. I don’t see how this hurts men though. The men not getting sex will just continue not to get it and the ones getting it will.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:28 PM
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Considering all these broken homes out here and bad mothers yall should’ve been doing this. I don’t see how this is a revolution lol. Not to mention most people can’t really afford kids anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:18 PM
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Same way women use gaslight and narcissist. lol. A lot of misused terms nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:13 PM
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Well that’s her jackass opinion and she’s entitled to it. If she’s one of them people who is weird about men approaching men in a public venue then so be it. Fact is though by definition it wouldn’t be predatory to approach women. And the consent arguments being made are dumb. If you’re in public people may try to talk to you. You pretty much consent to that by going outside. It’s when you ask them to stop and they continue that it’s a problem (which is uncommon). I’m still going to approach and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 06:58 PM
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This is very accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:50 AM
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The “leadership” they usually want is how they define it and when they want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:48 PM
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Honestly? Sometimes it doesn’t seem like anything works. I can see how men can feel hopeless sometimes. Cold, warm, whatever you want to call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:20 AM
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Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:14 AM
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I actually agree with this. I’ll keep saying it find the woman who lust for you and wants to give you “Chad” treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:05 PM
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You wouldn’t have approached those fat guys if you where slim though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:00 AM
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Honestly I’m good on all of that. I’d rather be alone than not be treated like a woman’s “hot guy”. I’m an average guy and I’ve had a taste of that several times. It’s better to be alone than to accept anything less.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:32 AM
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This is all about the men they desire not wanting them back. If these women want a man without these standards who will be serious there’s plenty out there. Life is all about choices and either accepting your position or changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:14 AM
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Definitely not that over exaggerated but a lot of average women have orbiters who are regular dudes who are buying them food and giving them attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:12 AM
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No man who’s got a little bit of common sense believes any of these women are actually for men. It’s painfully clear that they just repeat what they think men want to hear for monetary gain and attention. You can hear it in their tone and their real lives don’t reflect their beliefs. Men know these women are full of shit and call out fake trad cons all the time. The act always slips. The red pill and trad con women every once in a while will talk about how men are not men anymore and how men don…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:27 AM
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Self esteem and exposure, as in going place where there are women to approach in a warm manner. I also haven’t cold approached In two years (I’ve had sex with several women since) but I met them all online. Online dating is extremely limited
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:07 AM
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What the subreddit shows me is men shouldn’t get married and men should go deal with women who list for them. These aren’t real issues. This is an issue of that woman not liking him. I’ve seen women do wife shit for dudes who are just fucking them and then go home and do their own chores and cook for themselves. I’m not buying any of this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:48 AM
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You women on this subreddit are chronically online just like these men and it shows. What men in 2025 are expecting this of women in the western world? Women say all the time that it’s not the “1950s” but yall sure do talk like it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:44 AM
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I was never told this. And I never thought this. My real life as a child and in my developmental years didn’t reflect this. As a black kid growing up with other black kids I learned brutally early that your looks and your swag matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:40 AM
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Women can’t blame men here for feeling a bit hopeless then. It’s basically set in stone that a lot of them probably will never be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:36 AM
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This conversation is so pointless. Please deal with women that lust for yall. You’ll never have to deal with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:33 AM
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Men shouldn’t be with women who don’t lust did them. No man should need to give a woman shit for fucking her. If anything she’ll give you shit and make your life easier for fucking her good. Any woman having duty sex with you at any point isn’t a woman you need to be with. I’ve seen too many women in my real life go through hell and high water to fuck who they want to fuck regardless of how they feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:27 AM
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In the first two nobody is insulting her at all or even talking to her. The third one I get but why would the first two (Especially the music) bother you so much? If you’re a slut yourself according to the man you’re having sex with what’s the issue with a man acknowledging his slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:24 AM
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It’s hypocritical like you said so no they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:14 AM
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I think the ones in relationships are doing that to an extent but won’t admit it. I’ve seen it on here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:42 AM
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It’s not a dangerous but that woman has to already be aroused by you off rip. Most building sexual tension on first dates (at least in my experience) is just playing off of the arousal she has for you. The women who I ended up making out with bar side (and sleeping with the same night) like what they saw within minutes. All you have to do at that point is not fuck it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:51 PM
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Get a job… women don’t need men anymore remember? It’s not the 1950s correct? I agree. Get a job, go to school, get a better job. It’s life. Figure it out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:32 AM
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Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:45 PM
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I don’t think most will ever get that. That’s why there’s so many situations-ships, side dudes, accepting being a side chick, dead bedrooms “AF, BB”, paternity fraud. The list goes on. That said it is much more ideal for men to be “B”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:12 PM
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I’ve known several men like this in my personal life. This ain’t just incel rhetoric. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:25 AM
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People over look things when they like someone and want that person to like them and be the person they want them to be. I’ve done this. Many have done this. There’s always signs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:18 PM
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I wouldn’t spend time trying to prove how interesting I am to this woman if I where you. You acknowledge that she’s a misandrist so why try to engage with her productively?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:10 PM
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“Improve to get them (great men) or accept whatever position they’re (you’re) put in”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:43 PM
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That’s life..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:12 AM
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There’s plenty of men out there who would treat you well you and the others who are “de centering men” don’t find them attractive. Nothing wrong with that. Then the men yall do like are causing you trauma. There are men out there who are attractive and won’t cause you trauma but they aren’t common and probably never will be so most women will either have to improve to get them or accept what ever position they’re put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:44 AM
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If she’s sleeping with me I legitimately wouldn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:47 PM
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Good for them honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:18 PM
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Maybe it’s because I’m black and have been dealing with black girls/women (different cultures) but I’ve heard this plenty of times before from childhood age to now being 30. I grew up most of my life in a suburb and heard shit like this. It’s in the music and It’s very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:19 PM
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The “good humans” are using a filter. I think most women more align with the women you see doing drunk street interviews than with the face they put on for everyday life. The way women talk when they’re intoxicated, in the group chats and around their girlfriends is the real them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:05 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:35 PM
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Like I said. Autist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:20 PM
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Sure do. And women like to be whores. So the laws need to be changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:18 PM
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Then there’s no need for you to respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:57 PM
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She has autism..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 10:04 PM
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This woman is autistic….
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:56 PM
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She argues and bad faith then leaves when she’s wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:52 PM
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Again men stop arguing with women on this and lobby for political change on this issue. This argument comes up all the time and is the ultimate gaslight. Men and honest women understand why this is necessary. Stop arguing with them. Get the laws changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:49 PM
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Underrated answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:51 AM
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Im not but if that makes you feel cool and you don’t want to have a discussion then ok…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:39 PM
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Exploit it? You lost me there. Consenting adults can’t get “exploited”. Yall have trouble compartmentalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:33 PM
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It’s kind of hard to have a strict standard at 60+ nobody wants a 60 year old man or woman. Off topic here’s how a 40 plus year old woman can win if she’s trying to get someone in their 20s. Be fit, dress great all the time (even when around the house), be a great cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:53 AM
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Older women are great to date. They have things and can cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:41 AM
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They sure can as long as they’re not harassing them. You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:26 AM
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“Of course it’s MY opinion”. “Everyone knows it’s creepy”. These two things contradict each other. Is it your opinion or everyone’s opinion that it’s creepy? If you think this topic being on this sub everyday means it’s wide spread you seriously need to go outside. Age gap dating isn’t very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:18 AM
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And not everything in the human experience revolves around your opinion. I didn’t even give a chart or a data point. I simply said that’s your opinion… Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:12 AM
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That’s your opinion. That’s the point I’m making. There’s a legal difference between the two. If you don’t like it fine but no law has been broken and older men who can date like that (even though it’s uncommon and most men aren’t trying to date that young) are going to do it no matter how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:07 AM
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Who decides who is “grown grown” though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:57 AM
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Go somewhere where they don’t then….
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:26 PM
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Or you can just ignore them. Just as I ignore feminist and liberals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:11 PM
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You’ll be alright…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:14 AM
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Stop having kids. Idk why people complain about this. You can just not have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:28 AM
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You added that other stuff. I’m just saying alcohol takes away inhibitions and sex workers tend to be very open about who they are. It’s respectable in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:56 PM
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They’re the most honest women from what I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:35 PM
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All this thread is showing me is that hoes and fwb’s are just more fun. Relationships are exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 07:44 PM
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But statistically there’s more single moms than dads. So be objective here. What’s happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 01:45 AM
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I don’t even know what truffles are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 08:00 AM
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I don’t. Lmaooo. That was my boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:24 PM
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Neither. It’s just a pass time for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:18 PM
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Don’t have one. For the longest I’d joke and say it was Optimus prime though. I don’t watch hero movies or content so I couldn’t give you a favorite hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:16 PM
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I think that’s the average black man’s opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:36 PM
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I like them slim man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:34 PM
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Booty. Still the butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:34 PM
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To Rent it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:33 PM
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5 years? Buy a duplex. 10 years? Ride out the rest of my career until retirement? 50 years? Not sure. I’d be pretty old at that point. Hopefully I live that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:24 PM
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The booty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:22 PM
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Italian cold cut with everything on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:19 PM
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I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:10 PM
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IPA’s are disgusting. But if it’s all you have and you like it go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:06 PM
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Average Black man here. Ask me anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:05 PM
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Drink some alcohol and put some good music on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:04 PM
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So the women in the house make everyone miserable when they’re unhappy??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:35 PM
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You shouldn’t have to fight to see something that’s rightfully yours. The laws need to change and men need to lobby for that change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:27 PM
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This is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 09:26 PM
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It sounds good. And yet they literally are still having them. Again there’s more of them parenting kids than men. I wish you were right. Most of y’all shouldn’t have kids anyway considering all the women I’m seeing diddling with kids and just the general decline of western women’s mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:42 PM
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Women parent more kids is what I’m saying than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:12 AM
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Birth rates are plummeting but women have way more children than men. It’s not one for one. So what you’re saying isn’t fully true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:09 AM
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Take these women to a bar and call it a night. If she’s really into you fast food is fine as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:46 PM
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I genuinely don’t believe me take you on dates. How can you speak on something you haven’t experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:45 PM
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Quirky white girl humor got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:16 AM
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What does that mean? Is that geeky Reddit chick lingo? Kind of like “oof”. I’m dead serious. I don’t know what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 06:09 AM
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Still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:49 AM
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Who ever Stacy is, still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:46 AM
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Right now none. Just left my girl. I’m just glad she finally stop bothering me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:45 AM
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Who cares? I’m not doing that shit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:34 AM
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The fact that you’ve got a mod in here trying to censor a conversation that needs to be had about the abuse men experience (because it’s holding women accountable and could lead to change) is ridiculous. So when men agree on something that’s against a particular type of woman it’s circle jerking? But you’ve got women on here who can post rage bait content and argue in bad faith (yall know who they are) who never get their content removed or censored. The men here should go to r/mensrights to voi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:28 PM
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No it wouldn’t. I’ve seen a video of a woman road raging that says other wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:23 PM
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I think that question needs to be asked more here. I think a lot of times a woman may go into a relationship with an “ugly guy” with preconceived notions and be more hypersensitive to anything he does “wrong” because she just isn’t attracted to him. I think those men pick up on that and that’s where the “mistreatment and insecurity” comes from. Overall I really don’t think women should date men they don’t find attractive. It’s a shitty thing to do. You’re subconsciously not going to treat someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:49 AM
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Also respond to the entire statement not a quote out of context. Again like I said the other day this isn’t witty what you’re doing here. That’s not how you debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:36 PM
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And? They’re not the same and you’re having a hard time understanding that or just don’t want to admit you are wrong. A generalization is not the same as saying all. Seems like you’re not denying they are making generalization’s. So why keep complaining constantly that men here say “AWALT”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:34 PM
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Most men on this subreddit don’t say “AWALT”. Men here make generalizations and because you clearly don’t understand what that means (ie:our interaction the other day) you spaz about men here saying “aWaLt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:22 PM
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Yeah seriously. She does this often. That’s why I told her you don’t look witty not being able to admit you’re wrong you look foolish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:13 AM
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Just be a logical adult and say you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:22 PM
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But that’s a difference though. Do words not matter? You’re someone who believes in being accurate correct? They’re not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:21 PM
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In general literally means “for the most part”. It’s not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:19 PM
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I never said AWALT. If you’re going to quote someone do it properly. That’s what intelligent people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 04:03 PM
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You’re not as witty as you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:56 PM
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Then women in general are shallow. This is a crazy phenomenon. If she’s into you can get away with a lot more. Otherwise you’re creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:29 PM
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What is “witch hunting”?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:55 PM
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It’s not one for one. Idk how women still don’t understand basic biology. Here’s an example One man can impregnate nine women leave them. You’ll have one single father and nine single mothers. Considering women have more kids than men this is happening to one extent or another. A smaller amount of men are impregnating a larger amount of women. Not saying this is how ALL women get kids because I know you’ll try to argue that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:31 PM
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“I’m allergic to latex”. Ive heard that more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:27 PM
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No I understood and I agree. I say the same about single moms. I’m not a single dad so idc about this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with thinking this. I feel the same way about single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:25 PM
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Do you think men who end up with bad women (who they eventually dump) actually like good women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:23 PM
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I agree so long as socially and legally it is ok for a man to do the same. I think a man’s happiness is paramount
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 05:17 PM
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Unrelated question?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:32 AM
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My brain..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 02:26 AM
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Sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:37 AM
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People in those spaces don’t seem to take dating seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 11:31 PM
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Sometimes life’s not fair. Do what you can with what you have. The debates on here about attraction are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:15 PM
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I’d have one foot in the door and one foot out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:12 PM
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I threw the party of the century!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:08 PM
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Black pillers gotta eat too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:02 PM
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It sure is man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:46 PM
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Oh yeah it is Halloween.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:41 PM
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How do you figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:40 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:38 PM
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PPD! What’s up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:37 PM
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PPD! What’s up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:37 PM
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Did he use “dread game”? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:37 PM
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I follow 3 out of 4 of these things. (I don’t smile in pictures) I’ve got 68 matches on BLK right now And about 36 when I used hinge for a few months. (I was more picky on hinge). A lot of them weren’t my type. Or the dates didn’t turn to much if I we did go on a date or they ghost. Maybe that’s just a low match number. I’ve had some success though. Idk I say this to say dating apps are a tool but shouldn’t be the main way of dating if you can help it. Matches don’t mean as much as you think. Ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:48 PM
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Negative propaganda against black men to keep them from voting for a political candidate was also done by the Klan in the early 20th century. It’s not just someone being mean. And no other group is being told by a former president they don’t like the women in their respective race and hate their mothers. It’s not being a victim it’s just what it is. Don’t ask me for proof btw or I’ll think your trolling look it up or be ignorant and deny a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:57 AM
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If she dosent think you’re the sexiest man alive you shouldn’t deal with her. A personality will be projected on you based on how you look. Even your level of intelligence. I’ve been called smart by women who found me attractive despite struggling in grade school and not going to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 03:08 PM
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I haven’t had a parasite friend in years now. But yes men need to learn to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 06:14 AM
1

Anyone here like nfl football? Favorite team?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:22 PM
1

They must’ve shut it down. I was just on one two years ago though. Maybe they could put a link in the mega thread to discord to discuss a topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:12 PM
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I got a deep voice I’d be straight. I know any vocal debate would turn into insults though. I’d love to talk to some of these people though. Two in particular (ones a mod)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:08 PM
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True but I’ve been on lives like this on Reddit. Just block them or cut their mic. I think it’d be entertaining to see some of the more polarizing people on here (we know they are) debate the users of this subreddit. I could see it turning into ad hominem attacks quickly though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 07:04 PM
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I get that but it’d be more convenient on here. Especially since this subreddit seems to have main characters and people who know each other on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:52 PM
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It can. I’ve been in live chats like that before. This was two years ago though. Not sure how to set one up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:50 PM
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Old enough. I’m around your age and did the same thing to my shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:16 PM
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Yeah but I’d love to do it on this sub Reddit. Too bad the mods don’t engage us often
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:15 PM
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It comes with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:11 PM
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I got a proposed idea for this sub. How about a live on mic chat (no video) discussing specific topics. Obviously it would have to be moderated well but I think it’d be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:10 PM
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So then a man who’s fit and muscular with a not so great face would also be above Average then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:32 PM
1

Simps like sleeping in. They need the rest lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:29 PM
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Men need to be willing with every fiber in their being to be single and die alone if they can’t find the type of women they want. I’ve tried to deal with women who didn’t fit everything I wanted. It dosent feel great. Even if you’re just sleeping with them. Also get rid of parasitic “friends”. At almost 30 I’d rather be alone than do that again. “but women decide who has sex”. Cool. Idc….
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:18 PM
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Anyone who can disprove her bs or show her where her logic is flawed is a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:05 AM
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This OP ask everyone to prove and show evidence of any claim they make but the second you ask them to do the same they claim you’re trolling. She would be trolling by her own logic because she can also simply research every thing she ask for evidence for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 02:02 AM
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If asking for proof is trolling then by your own logic you’re a troll. Your logic isn’t sound and is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:59 AM
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But you can use the search bar and Google amongst other searching methods on the internet to find anything you ask to be clarified on here. So why do you ask people to show evidence instead of doing research? You would be trolling by your own logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 11:04 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ythPRFjOCo I simply wanted you to show proof of AWALT being a common sentiment in this subreddit. Especially since you’re someone who likes to ask for evidence so clearly you’re a person who likes proof of any statement made. Cool. I’m the same way. I’m relatively new here and haven’t seen that sentiment often. And yet you acted like you were a victim of trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:50 PM
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I won’t go that far. I’m actually here to figure out her “logic”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:38 PM
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Couldn’t someone tell you the same thing though?There are people who think you’re an asshole and should STFU when you get backlash for your post. So why wouldn’t you? And don’t say it because you don’t act like a victim. Just the other day you acted like you were a victim of trolling when I simply wanted to have a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 09:19 PM
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If they’re saying these things in forums in which these topics are discussed then does it matter if “nobody asked”? Technically nobody “asked” you to post this and yet here you are. People can voice their opinion regardless of if someone “asked” or not. That’s a ridiculous reason to have an issue with them voicing their preference. Now if you just don’t like how it’s said that’s different. Still though generally nobody is walking up to women and saying these things. I’m a black man and I see wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:43 PM
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You’re not simple minded but you’re assuming that the white women who change their mind about Kamala are doing it because their husbands hate women? Why is not voting Kamala associated with hating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:34 PM
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Has nothing to do with bravery. It’s their right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:29 PM
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White women need to vote for who ever they want to vote for. If its trump then cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:11 PM
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Too many false stats are quoted here and ok podcast. Most men live regular lives. Incels are an extreme minority. 60% of men are incels? Yall are nuts. Also Not having sex means your life is ruined?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:30 PM
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AWALT isn’t leading to men’s lives being ruined. There are men who think like that who are doing just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:23 PM
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I could say the same thing to you when you ask men of proof when they make statements about this sub and women in general. Clearly you don’t pay attention to this sub or issues between the sexes or you’d never need clarification and proof of everything. But you tend to ask for it very often. That said I know very little about the manosphere so I’ve asked and I’m asking again show proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:20 PM
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Stop skimming? You mean like how you continue to quote only part of what I’m saying? When you do that there’s no context to the quote. You’re saying they’re mad because they’re questioning your opinions in this sub Reddit. You do the same thing through your post. So by your own logic you’re mad. Obviously people can date without being sexist just like they can date without cheating. They’re social issues between the sexes and this is a sub about dating and relationships. “Oh I see! You think men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:17 PM
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Women should really relax more around men. The majority of single men engaging you don’t want you. Just be cordial. Too many women think every man may want them. Even I’ve been accused of being interested in a woman I never wanted for simply being cordial (she was being friendly as well). Now I get people that tell me I always look like I want to kill someone or act cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 07:00 PM
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What’s the bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:36 PM
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No I’m responding to someone on purplepilldebate. We’re not on a mansphere page. Regardless I need her to respond. I know very little about the “manosphere”. So I need proof of these things, proof of the men who say “AWALT” and proof of the reason she gave they say it. Nothing else needs to be argued.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:22 PM
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But you’re accusing men of being mad when they’re doing the same thing you’re doing. You’re mad by your own logic. This subreddit is about dating and relationships. This is what the men talk about in this space.. Why would men saying AWALT or “wanting shitty women” or talking about paternity fraud bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:02 PM
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What guys? Quote them. I don’t know anything about the manosphere. I don’t indulge in that content. So I need you to show proof. It’s just like when men make claims on here you conveniently don’t know that they’re talking about. Which is fine some people are hermits but I need proof of what you’re saying. Also you tend to quote only part of people responses and respond to the out of context quote. I asked another question. How do you figure that’s what men mean when they say “AWALT”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:57 PM
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I could say the same to you. Why do you get bothered about topics such as AWALT and paternity fraud to where you must constantly argue them on here? If they’re mad then by your logic so are you. You’re on here posting about your issues with what the men are saying on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:53 PM
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The third one is the point. Most of these women shouldn’t be having kids in the first place. If it’s not two people who aren’t into each other, who both agree they want kids and can financially can support them they shouldn’t have kids. It would also incentivize women to be as picky as men must be on who they have kids with. And it would incentivize couples to stay together and pick better partners to guarantee the happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:51 PM
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Yes you do. You always ask for proof. So you should be able to provide proof. What men are saying AWALT? Where is your proof that’s what men mean when they say AWALT?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:46 PM
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Why does that bother you though? You gotta stop letting little things like men saying AWALT bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:43 PM
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Men are unsafe unless they’re desirable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:31 PM
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The people on here are extreme idiots and yet you feel the need to argue with them daily. You don’t just bring it up you’re on here daily. You don’t move on. You’ve argued similar topics more than once (I’ve seen your page) so again clearly it bothers you. Why are you letting a bunch of neurodivergent men with extreme views bother you? You’ve gotten examples several times on several topics and never address them. Hence why people don’t do it. You argue in bad faith. Either way stop letting men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:41 PM
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Clearly the shit on here bothers you. All you do with your time is post here. I can tell by your page
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:28 AM
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Saying something exists means it bothers you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:20 AM
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Dosent matter we’re talking about men insulting women being accepted. If just not voting for a woman is sexist and not accepted then surely insulting them isn’t unless most other women don’t like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:03 AM
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Exactly. I literally said this in my head. You can’t even vote the wrong way without being called a sexist. Insulting women in this day and age? Forget about it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:55 AM
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Yeah so long as enough women dislike those women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:54 AM
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No man is saying they want a slave. And it’s not allowed here anyway. She can leave. So why even bring it up? Maybe you need to get off the internet. Fuck the pills. What are real life men saying and doing? Also too often yall make a man wanting a woman to adhere to his leadership into “she has no opinion” as if he’s holding her lips shut. Yall always have an opinion and a say. It’s 2024 everyone hears women. Everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:46 AM
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This is actually true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:43 AM
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They actually didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:42 AM
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Nobody believes that. The problem is y’all compare that hypothetical man with one who wants a traditional household or just wants a woman who is cooperative. It’s not being obtuse. Yall aren’t forced to do shit. It’s a ridiculous analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:02 AM
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There is no woman getting treated like a slave in America. She can literally leave the relationship. Even if she’s broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:01 PM
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Nobody ever uses that word in the context of slavery. There are no women in relationships in America that are literal slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 08:09 PM
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The “douchebag” is better place to be than the guy she wants to settle with. These guys want to be the douchebag. Call it what you want but u don’t blame them. It shows they’re desired. Nobody cares about character when just hooking up without vetting or dating. Who she’s willing to hook up with quickly is usually who she desires the most sexually. Exceptions to everything obviously but that’s how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:44 PM
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They want women to desire them character aside..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:14 PM
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I just said it. They want women to desire them character aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:31 PM
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They want women to desire them character aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:29 PM
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I don’t blame them everyone wants to be highly desired. The other side isn’t a good place to be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:41 PM
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Deal with the women and people who celebrate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:04 AM
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I got wife treatment from the women I was casual with though. I’m offering dick and how I look. I think you over estimate how much men care about this. Most of us aren’t as pressed about kids or marriage as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:16 PM
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It’s better for these men to get someone who’s into them who may be a point or two under looks wise than to have to claw and scrape for a looks match who wouldn’t be into what that man naturally is. My casual flings happened because those women wanted sex and so did I. In my experience if you fuck get good enough you don’t have to invest shit to get a relationship or relationship treatment. Men shouldn’t pay for desire because it’s not possible. Men shouldn’t even get hookers or go to strip club…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 05:43 AM
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Society isn’t conducive to traditional dating for anyone. Men don’t need to be dating traditionally in today’s society. Also I’ve had several FWB who were my looks match and I’ve known others who can say the same. Besides that though men need to adapt a more modern approach to dating. Get with the women who lust for them. If she lust for you in 2024 you really only need to show up. Material things won’t build sexual arousal or attraction and that’s the only thing important in dating in today’s a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:55 AM
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And corny too lmaoo. I’m done here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:42 AM
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I’m not trolling you’re just ignorant you used the word generalization incorrectly and are now attempting to cover up for it by being sarcastic and condescending. It dosent work when you’re dense. “I don’t pick up strangers period”. The point isn’t the gender. The point is you don’t pick up strangers because it potentially isnt safe despite most people men or women not being killers or rapist. I used men as an example. You make generalizations on people MEN would be included in people. But you’r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:38 AM
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I wish more women empathized with this. Like we’re not making it up. Women are generally giving it up quickly with NSA to the men they desire. And in 2024 it’s the best way to tell if a woman is into you because most are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:27 PM
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Fucking obviously hence why I said “example”. Women seem to lack an understanding of analogies. Also saying “all” would make it no longer a generalization. General means most. (Look up the definition of remain ignorant). I used bees as an example because you said you don’t generalize at all. I’ll use gender though most men aren’t rapist or killers but You don’t pick up random men on the side of the road though. Someone could call that a negative generalization of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:22 PM
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Everyone generalizes it literally keeps you alive. It’s why you won’t put your hand in a beehive for example. Yes there are people who can play with bees and not get stung but in general people who do this get stung.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 11:07 PM
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Yall really gotta personalizing generalizations. Also I’ve never seen a woman disagree with the statement “women are beautiful” so clearly yall have no problem with generalizations if they’re positive in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:56 PM
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A lot of people in PPD have a negative opinion of black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 01:11 AM
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None of this is true..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:40 PM
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If you have a pre conceived bias against black men than of course it isn’t going to work out. The divest types always do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:47 AM
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I literally said in the original post I made “put out quickly for the men who are everything you want” and yet you keep arguing compatibility. If she’s not compatible she shouldn’t put out and he shouldn’t continue dealing with her if she dosent. You can find out very quickly if you’re compatible with someone or not. Why do you think second and third dates either happen or don’t happen. Compatibility. If it really took long to find compatibility then people wouldn’t cut each other off after the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:56 PM
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It actually is that casual though. Most people aren’t waiting until relationships and especially not marriage to have sex. That’s not just something I’m saying. That’s modern dating. You’re arguing something that’s already happening. And it’s weird because so often on here a lot of women will argue against traditional dating but now you’re basically arguing for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:51 PM
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You’ll never know everything about anyone ever. Obviously. That’s not what I said I said “anything you NEED to know” you can know on a date. If there are women who still date traditionally and expect men to be traditional that’s fine so long as they’re virgins and traditional themselves. I take it you’re one of those considering you’re saying “she’s waiting for marriage” to have sex? Because most women are not waiting for marriage to have sex. I literally made it a point to say “ticks all your b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:28 PM
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That’s a traditional way of dating. It’s not the 1950s anymore (as women like to say) and I agree. Women nowadays (in general) put out quickly for the men they are most attracted to. There’s no stigma behind doing it anymore and women don’t need men for resources. That’s dating in 2024. So you’re telling women to not put out for a man who she desires and ticks all her boxes? And what exactly would you be waiting for if he ticks all your boxes? Anything you need to know about him can be found out…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:07 PM
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If man is going to let you go it dosent matter how long you make him wait for sex. If he only wants sex he will wait you out. A lot of men that stop dealing with women who don’t put out simply don’t think the woman is attracted to them and don’t want to do the whole “build attraction” thing because alot of the time it dosent workout or it’s just a woman trying to play the AFBB game. Women need to be trying to lock down the man who fits everything she wants in a sexual and relationship partner. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:40 PM
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You’re correct about that. They also validate each other delusions. Women don’t like gay men at all. The first thing they do to insult a man they disagree with is to come for his sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:20 PM
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You’re missing the point still. It dosent have to involve degradation to YOU. If it’s degrading to him or he just dosent like doing it that’s his boundary. And if that makes him a shit lover than women who don’t go past their sexual boundaries to please a man are shit lovers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 07:15 PM
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You have an entire movement with government backing dedicated to making sure men can’t say things you don’t like. Men don’t have that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:10 PM
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When we say women go off of emotion more than logic yall say that’s misogyny. And that’s just one example.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:26 PM
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I could care less actually and most men could care less. It’s women with all these movements saying things like “mansplaining” and “locker room talk” shouldn’t be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:24 PM
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And they get cancelled or lose their job. Women be critical of men anywhere in any space and it’s accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:16 PM
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Women do the same thing. Especially feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:15 PM
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Saying it’s misandrist would be a statement of fact if it’s male hating language. But you should be allowed to do that. In turn I should be allowed to use misogynistic language. Publicly women are allowed to speak in that manner men aren’t so they come here to speak anonymously. Everything you’re saying about men you could say at your job in front of men and not get fired. You can literally say anything about men and not lose your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:36 PM
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The problem is one side is able to speak more freely than the other. If women can publicly speak about men in the manner they do men should be allowed to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:26 PM
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That’s kind of the point. These things can’t be said publicly and in America women are absolutely babies because nobody can be honest with them without getting cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:24 PM
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Men don’t care if women join the 4B movement. It’s not nearly as big as people make it out to be and men on Reddit aren’t the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:21 PM
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