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Though I do know Gen Z has a strange anti-sex puritanical streak and seems to think until you’re 25 you’re a child If you met our 25 year Olds you wouldn't question that perception so much. A lot of our generation are deeply affected by sex in negative ways. Some of it experienced first hand others vicariously through others. And between the Truman Show that dating is these days, the emotional damage of damn near everyone, and the hyper-awareness of all these social ills that aren't getting bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:54 PM
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The point, originally, from what I've seen was simply to demystify dating. That's it. The conclusions they come to are their own, but it's basically about secularizing romance, killing magical thinking. Seeing the world for how it is is not something that comes naturally to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 09:47 PM
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You're lashing out at me for explaining what other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 05:16 PM
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It is so weird you guys always assume infinite spite and malice to women for everything How is it weird when spite and malice are consistently part of their interactions with women. Women don't tend to like men much. like we’re not even human. Everybody worth listening to knows women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:23 PM
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Do you regularly ask other women why they don't make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:06 PM
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You made a post about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:39 PM
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I didn't say they weren't emotions. Men are incredibly emotional. Yes they are, and it's our gender role to make that not your problem. Some men fail and they are judged extensively for it. And most men eventually fail, because this is not a humane expectation for them to follow. But all the same, they do do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:00 PM
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And for anyone that claims to be a feminist and actually wants a better society, they need to learn how to manage and fight this kind of a hypocrisy. Because that's how women lose people on almost everything. Double standards, making demands of others that they would not tolerate for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:40 PM
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Could you actually explain what you think the difference is?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:37 PM
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The thing is men don't act like that when it's about their feelings Men are constantly suppressing every emotion they've got. We regularly dismiss our own emotions as unimportant, counterproductive, harmful to others. It's called containment. And we do it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:26 PM
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Because collective resentment of an entire gender is not a passive or harmless act. Organizing women to be more openly prejudiced against men is a weaponization of grievances. It's just like how right wingers use individual acts of crime to justify deportations and imprisonment of migrants and minorities. Just because you feel like all you want is justice doesn't mean that's what you're actually fighting for. When you refuse to be specific in who you're attacking, you hurt innocent people. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:22 PM
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I've been in that position before with some of my female friends. I don't care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:05 PM
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I'm trying to find a way to say this that doesn't sound condescending, so I'll just be blunt. "Don't give anything that you will be upset if another misuses/misinterprets/misplaces it." That's my personal philosophy on any kind of charity. It works for money, time, gifts, advice. I'm not going to tell you think like me, but that's how I try to avoid resenting other people for abusing my kindness. Supporting people that don't know you well enough to know when you are and aren't interested in them…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 06:19 PM
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And IRL, if you give some men an ounce of kindness they mistake it as you being into them. Sadly it sucks cuz you try and be a friend and they reject that unless you're offering sex with that friendship Look, I can't know the specifics of what situations you've been in, but this isn't always the case. I think women rely too much on other people to assume their intentions without them saying otherwise. It's not just understood that you're not interested, and it can't be. In most men's lives, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:52 PM
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But a lot of these men want to be miserable and make sure they stay there I think what's missing in these conversations is faith in other people. That's why everyone is dismissive or apathetic. The healthiest conversations online are always between people who remember the humanity of the other person they're speaking to. And things are so bad that many people do not consider the opposite sex to be fully human. Many women would never be so openly cruel to another woman as they would be to a man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:26 PM
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Dude. Nooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:49 PM
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in public. Well yeah, you never know what's going on behind closed doors. But if you have an understanding of people, you can usually tell who's sincere. Akash got push back in his own space, his own show, for going to bat for his wife so much. The wife was on a completely unrelated woman-oriented podcast. And she didn't speak like she was resentful or mistreated. She simply did not respect him and took him for granted as an afterthought to the parts of her life that she thought were actually in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:31 PM
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That's not why he went viral. He went viral because he's a very prominent wife guy (always has something positive to say about her, loves her to death, grateful she's in his life.) And his wife went on a podcast and started reminiscing about all the other men she's slept with, acted like her husband didn't even exist. The situation highlighted a lot of narratives in dating that manosphere types tend to circle back to. Because she's living proof for the kinds of people who thought Akash was getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 11:14 PM
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And to piggy back on the question of why they're proud of it. It contrasts with the women who are just as unhealthily discriminatory as these men are unhealthily indiscriminate. Women are seen as picky, impractical, and unsympathetic. If you see yourself as a good man or are trying to be, it's very easy to align with the extreme opposites of these traits. Give people a chance, do what makes sense for your situation/don't look a horse in the mouth/take what you can get, and think of how other peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:55 PM
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Fairness and practicality. Those are two things that most men value on some level. What is more fair than giving other people a shot. What is more practical than to date who likes you. It is unhealthy, but it mirrors the dysfunction that modern dating creates. There are many men who have absolutely nothing going on. If you combine those basic values with the circumstances many men are in romantically, it's very predictable that some are going to end up like this. -------- I'm not engaging with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:51 PM
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Compare that to guys who may be less likely to "go there" when it comes to sharing those details, which makes them more emotionally isolated as well. One of the funniest and most memorable shorts/tiktoks/reels that I've ever seen was this one. And this is generally how that kind of conversation goes. Guys can go there, it's just that the question of how much you're willing to take is left up to the individual. You can't just make someone else's relationship your business. Sometimes women barge i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:31 AM
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If people dedicated time and resources to studying and surveying men's trauma, they'd find that this is common, for men to be emotionally abused. It's hard to think of a relationship with a woman in my life that hasn't entailed taking some kind of treatment on the chin that would be unacceptable from myself. Men get used to double standards and they're not going to hold out for the day that they're going to be treated fairly. Men struggle to leave because it's just not something they can find an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:06 AM
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when you’ll never meet her or be in her socioeconomic group? You underestimate my ability to gold-dig. Why are so many people angry at 8/10 rich girl Jessica in Miami I think it's easy in a time of frustration to project responsibility for what you lack onto those who have what you desire. I don't think it helps that social media platforms and spreads a lot of mutually antagonistic attitudes among men and women. It's never just that there's a pretty person on the other side of the country, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:46 PM
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That's fair. I think the biggest issue is luck. Very true. If we all got lucky, subs like this wouldn't exist. Having problems with dating sometimes feels like having problems with fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:31 PM
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No curves. Too tall. Deep voice. Too muscular. Broad shoulders. Infertile. And just a thought, there's an aspect of this kind of "gender-based social value" that can only be countered by the opposite gender taking the pressure off. I think a good way to see if something counts as emasculation or defeminization (I guess that's the best word) is if it's something someone could say "no one wants/would want you because of X". No one wants a woman with no hair. No one wants a man/woman who can't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 04:00 PM
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So there isn’t a sense of less than a woman that hits. I disagree. It definitely existed, and there are vestiges of these attitudes in certain places. It's just that the social expectations that make that feeling possible have mostly been challenged or removed in most of the country. Whenever a woman has been shamed for being unmarried by a certain age, barren and unable to have children. And then those same women internalize those feelings of shame, that's the equivalent. I think a lot of moder…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 10:59 AM
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