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A lot of people will get into a relationship thinking it will make them happy. They do the same thing with buying an expensive car, home or some other toy. What ends up happening a lot though is they're often not happy with themselves to begin with and it creates tension between a couple in a negative way. All of a sudden the man (or woman) will try and point the blame on various things that aren't making them happy. So it's not really about 'accepting' being alone, but you should be approaching…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 11:52 AM
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We live in a very anti-social society/world now. When I was a kid/teenager I had tons more friends, girls included and had no problems getting dates and everything seemed to flow along way more normal than today. Even being a bit more shy I had no choice but to talk with everyone with no smartphone involved and I had basically no anxiety about it and neither did anyone else. Once social media and smartphones came around, people have become increasingly tense and more non-social in my experience.…
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 12:35 PM
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Well if they're gonna shame you over that then don't bother with them. Pretty simple. They just want to bring you down to their level but you don't need to be some reprobate who sleeps around every week like they do. Thats why they are single to begin with.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/20 12:43 PM
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To me its not. Maybe it is to you. If you think losing it will just make you king of the jungle and every girl will like you more after I can tell you its only 1 small piece of the puzzle. Having the negative mindset though won't help you, you have to turn that part of your brain off or it will give you more anxiety and turn people off more in general. You just have to accept the fact and live with it and stop making it out to be some big thing.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/20 12:10 PM
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What does this have to do with ex-redpill? Also, I think you are way overthinking it. Being a virgin is not even a big deal, it only is a big deal if you keep telling yourself that. If a girl shames you for that, she is not worth your time IMO. You need to change your mindset and not make a big deal out of this stuff.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/20 11:51 AM
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A lot of people (including myself) got turned off from religion for years because Christianity and others have a lot of denominations that makes the whole thing very confusing and the media and other groups will paint things a certain way. Until you actually go seeking the truth, you don't really know what to believe. But you're right, it really is like walking into a whole other world when you start learning more about it. Its a unique experience that way. For me, I got really turned on to the …
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 06:07 PM
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Correct, I very much felt the same way. I really think spirtiuality is on the decline, especially in the Western world. I'm older than you (27) but if I could back to being 20 when I first discovered TRP, I would have done things differently I believe so I'm glad you are finding fulfillment in something else. TRP ultimately destroyed most of my social life, relationships and other things in my life. I follow a pastor now who has some really amazing sermons on dating/marriage, MGTOW and TRP stuff…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 04:38 PM
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Its hard to read your post but I'll try and give a perspective on someone who became religious after TRP stuff: "Banging" lots of girls left me unsatisified, empty and feeling worthless in the long run. After a while it becomes about as fulfilling as masturbation. I would gladly trade it all for being with a single woman where we form a more true bond together. I regret ever swallowing TRP for the most part, it is not the answer to all your problems. The reality is, it takes work and effort to f…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/20 03:56 PM
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No, its way more complicated than that. Rome fell for many reasons and one of the biggest was because of economic factors like debt and waging wars for many years.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/20 02:39 PM
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Wow, you pretty much described most of my life. I too became a hermit on my quest of constant self improvement, constant red pill swallowing and other voodoo junk on that sub. I can say that I did learn some lessons from it, but the hardest lesson is realizing that a lot of it is meaningless now. I'm just happy I came to my senses sooner than later, so hopefully I can build a normal relationship and also rebuild a social circle over the coming years.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 02:11 PM
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That's all it is really. A bunch of wicked and mainly weak men sitting behind computers trying to guide themselves to some profound perfect 'manly' life and looking for others to agree with them. They act like they should deserve some perfect love life while not even being close to perfect themselves. They slut shame women while consistently bragging about having multiple partners or "plates" and then wonder why they can't establish a long lasting relationship with any single woman. They are onl…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/20 02:08 PM
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You can't sit around and compare yourself constantly. It takes time. Stop expecting instant gratification, it takes years to build yourself up at anything you do in life. Everyone starts at the bottom at some point.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 06:18 PM
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If you're not happy with yourself or by yourself, you won't be happy with someone else if that is what you are thinking in your head. Been there done that. You need to get in a position where you feel good about yourself each day you wake up and all the other stuff falls into place much better.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:12 PM
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Was just going to say this. Unless they are hot and litterred in tattoos, most of them can be very inexperienced.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:37 PM
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Why not find out for yourself? Contrary to what you read on here, in the media, or anywhere else these days may not necessarily be true for you. That means that going to college may actually be better than you think, or it could be worse. College is very expensive (assuming you're American) and its not really worth going if you're not going to make something out of it to benefit you. You really should think it over, maybe deal with your 'mental illness' before even signing up. I had a similar pr…
/r/askTRP23/04/19 02:18 PM
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I mean you could, but whats the point? You're in a god damn college man. You are surrounded by so many girls and you should be focused on school and getting that done too.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:51 PM
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Yes, I can barely read your post.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 06:30 PM
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lol
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:38 PM
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It's because this sub and its ideas is largely a hivemind. There's nothing wrong with doing anything you enjoy, you don't need to listen to any of the shit people say on here if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 11:30 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm a MGTOW type cause I dared to challenge the TRP lifting hivemind. I never said not to lift or that its a bad thing, but what I'm really getting at in my original post is that it almost seems like guys on here treat it as like an essential requirement. Its overrated and way less important than anyone on here wants to admit. I've seen countless guys who I know for a fact never lifted a weight before and still are able to pull countless beautiful girls. Why? Because they've become fina…
/r/askTRP11/04/19 10:51 AM
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Sure, it helps. But doing it for 20+ hours a week like I've seen some guys claim is ridiculous to me. Either they have a ton of free time or they're trying too hard. I've found better ways to make use of time and raised my SMV much more outside of the gym. You don't need to be a hulk, just need to be in shape and its done enough for me that way.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:43 AM
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Honestly, some of the lifting shit is really silly. Some guys seem convinced that will fix all your problems, but I think its pretty pathetic that a man will go to the gym in hopes a woman will like him more. I do lift and it has helped me in various ways, but having more money and being more successful outside of the gym has personally helped me way more than being a god damn gym rat ever would.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 09:27 PM
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When it comes to the vast majority women, you really gotta talk to them like children. I'm not even joking. I always had the autistic approach where I'd try and talk about something that I'd talk to a guy about, like something actual intellectually stimulating and it just doesn't fly well at all. You gotta bring it down a few notches though, talk about stuff that can be funny or just really low key that makes them 'comfortable'. You have to almost make it seem like shes talking to herself, I can…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:27 PM
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Sounds to me like a way out of the office. I would just go, you have nothing to lose in my books. It doesn't need to be some serious date or anything. Just treat her like a 'bro'.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 03:23 PM
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I unfortunately seem to attract these types the most. I have no idea why. I'm guessing because I'm the complete opposite of them in many ways. They're almost always trashy/slutty girls and usually have 'problems' of some nature. Either from the past, family, daddy issues, etc. Tattoos almost always seem to signify some memory or 'chapter' in ones life it seems.. but I think a lot of it is just to be 'unique' or 'trendy', I dunno. I think my favourite was one girl who had 2 revolver/pistol tattoo…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 01:47 PM
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I'm actually surprised people can't find other outlets from this shit. I was around some blue pilled type guys recently and they were shocked to find out that I didn't play video games very often and were really interested to know 'what I do all day'. I do lots of other stuff; reading, lifting, playing music, making extra money, etc. Its really not hard, my recommendation to you would be just unplug your computer for a week and fill in your time somehow. You would not believe how much free time …
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:43 PM
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Start creating goals. Start taking responsibility for your worthless life that you lead now. Right now you're basically dead because you have no plan in place. Until you figure this out, you're gonna be lost for years. Me personally I had passion in things from a young age so maybe I was lucky but I still had to work hard to get to where I wanted to be. Right now you're only in this position because you let yourself get there, so its time for you to fix it. No one on here or any books can fix yo…
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:05 AM
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Its all in your head. You just have to keep trying til it works. For me personally I just drink to reduce anxiety a lot of the time. I don't get loaded, but a beer or 2 really calms me down and takes away all my anxiety by like 95%.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 04:30 PM
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You're in STEM man, this is basically the highest and most competitive major (arguably). You are surrounded by autists, many of which are smart, study a lot, and don't give a shit about socializing. Yes its a pain in the ass, but the pay off if you can work through it is worth it from my experience. I graduated from a STEM program 2 years ago and life has gotten better each month. I'm finally making a good income where I was able to leave my parents house and finally start bringing girls home to…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:25 PM
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Stoics?
/r/askTRP31/03/19 01:34 PM
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The way I got over this is just by accepting that no matter how much I improve, someone or something is always going to be better than me. Some girl will be hotter, some guy will be richer or more "alpha", whatever the case is. Its an endless battle to the 'top'. Even though I've moved up a lot - the reality is tons of others are still above me. Its all up to you to take responsibility and improve as much as you can. Don't look at it as competing against others or being inferior so to say, look …
/r/askTRP23/03/19 01:13 PM
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I've played the guitar for years. Its improved my hand strength, coordination and dexterity significantly. Its also taught me a ton of discipline, more so than anything else I've tried to learn because it requires a ton of attention span to learn. I used to be terrible with my hands (played video games for YEARS) and the guitar took away all my awkwardness I had with my hands (motor skills). Once you get good enough you can start playing shows, which lets you meet a lot of people and girls of co…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 01:09 PM
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Yup. I live in a city with more and more immigrants and I've continually lost interest in Western women more and more. The women from other countries (Eastern Europe, South East Asia, etc) treat me better far more often, they usually are in way better shape and it drives a lot of the sluts around crazy when they see me with one. I used to be sort of anti-immigration when I was younger, but as I've gotten older I've seen how its increased competition for both men and women.. which to me is honest…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:55 PM
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This phase happened to me when I really started making more money and being more successful. Like, just the shock of actually having an income and all the thoughts in my head. I could finally consider buying a place and moving out, just all that shit that I worked so hard to get to. I lost a ton of interest in women, friends, you name it. Sort of just sacrificed all of that to get to where I am. To me I guess it was all just a phase. Once I reached my goals financially, I stopped putting in so m…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:41 PM
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Yeah I guess its just way different. My company its the opposite, we struggle to find enough good local programmers and it actually costs us more money to outsource a lot of the time. I think it will depend on the business model/project also, the odd hours of outsourcing fuck up our daily operations a lot because of the timezone differences. I had a co-worker from China who left to work in California and she told me that tech jobs are all over the place in the area she went to (works at Facebook…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:05 PM
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I'm around your age so I'll comment on is the programming thing. By the time I was in my early 20s, I already knew how to program in multiple languages. I have a good paying job, but be prepared to put in a lot of hours to get it down well. I started programming as a youth but also played a lot of video games, both of which fucked my social skills up a lot of course. Try it for at least a few months to a year, if you can't get it down after a year move on to something else. You're not behind exa…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 05:01 PM
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Not true at all. It totally depends where you live. A lot of places that have outsourced tech jobs have gotten more expensive each year. For example, wages have risen a lot in India, so its becoming less affordable to outsource. Good companies have learned to cut corners in every country they operate in, and a lot of governments have imposed outsourcing regulations. Where I live in Canada, my tech company is forced to hire and maintain a certain number of local staff before outsourcing. Maybe it…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 04:54 PM
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Lots of truth in your post and well put together. I'm surprised how little so much of this stuff is obvious to a lot of younger guys these days. I'm 25 now and discovered TRP back when I was 20 or so after coming off a crazy "relationship" and you're exactly right, every single year/day gets better the more time you invest into getting better. I'm getting closer and closer each year to being well established and everything gets easier all the time when it comes to women and life in general. My i…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 02:46 PM
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I worked with this one black guy at a retail store who was insanely confident to hit on women. He was a fucking master at it. He'd approach any woman customer rubbing his hands together and giving the most deep stare you'd ever see. It sounds creepy as fuck but he was also extremely attractive and just really dominant looking. He was married as well and never took things to the next level (I mean, they were customers lol) but he was insanely smooth talking and could get any woman smiling that ca…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 01:37 AM
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It's possible I guess, if it is, it seems like a fairly smart bot considering the timing of replies so far.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 07:33 PM
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Exactly what I've been thinking. The thing is, I know most guys would respond in a "excited" way at this point, which is what I'm wanting to avoid. I don't want to stretch it at all, or slip up. I also really don't want to ask questions. I like your suggestion, it's definitely simple, but something tells me I should lead her and tell her where to meet me, not even bother asking (maybe that's too bold?). If I say "k", I was thinking in my head she might come back with a question that way, I like …
/r/askTRP29/07/17 06:58 PM
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