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All other interactions with women when you’re not physically attractive to them are very sub optimal. Even among their male friends, women treat and engage with their attractive/fuckable male friends on a completely different level than unattractive/unfuckable male friends. If you’re the unfuckable male friend you quickly notice and feel the difference within circles
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:55 AM
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The fact that you consider 5’11 to 6’2 as medium height says everything about how elitist women’s physical standards for men are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:57 PM
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Whatever that is it’s a shallow art mastered by good looking, hot guys that you hookup with. You’re just not understanding that men need to be good looking and hot in order to do hookups and FwB. The little socializing or whatever you wanna call it is trivial and can be easily done when physical attraction is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:46 PM
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How can you pursue a romantic connection with women if you’re seen as sexually inferior by them? I was a hopeless romantic at 20, fantasizing about doing nice things for a gf/wife before becoming redpilled and then black. Women truly want that romantic stable connection with hot Chads. That’s the reality. If you’re average looking or below, they consider you a fallback option, the compromise, the retirement plan, the provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:41 PM
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Male friendships formed due to being in common proximity and shared interests, shared life struggles, etc. I don’t seek out male friends actively
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:17 PM
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Shallow acquaintances, superficial good vibes socializing and small talk is not “friendship”. Good looking/attractive men can easily socialize and make small talk at gatherings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:14 PM
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You can find common things once you have a sexual or romantic connection with her. You don’t need to seek out platonic friendships actively. In case of long term relationships a lot of “common things” are just codependency and functional stuff. If Im FwB then I’ll be motivated to do other stuff and hang out with a woman. That motivation won’t be there if she considers me unattractive. And even among groups of friends, women treat the attractive/dateable guy friends way more favorably than their …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:54 PM
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Right, so you don’t need platonic friendships to have relationships with women that women also want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:24 PM
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It’s the same thing. Building connections with women requires you to be good looking and preferably tall, else you’re not valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:19 PM
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How the hell do hookups turn into relationships then? Most young women don’t require guys to be friends first. They hookup with a guy they have a crush on or find hot and go from there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:10 PM
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Explain how good looking tall guys with zero interest in having female friends have no problem hopping from one relationship to another? And it’s both short and long term relationships. Their girlfriends are also very into them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:08 PM
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Irl too mediocre looking short out of shape women my age have active dating and sex lives. They have 100s of options. I have zero options
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:19 AM
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Tell me you don’t get to know if 2 people in the office are hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:22 AM
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Degenerate women still hookup with good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 01:20 AM
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They aren’t even boasting. We can see how women in the circles are hooking up with them. When you’re in a circle of people say a workplace, do you not get to know who’s hooking up with whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:34 AM
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So who were women having casual sex with back in the 80s and 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:06 AM
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Yes, but hookups and casual sex were less common overall due to slut shaming and no dating apps connecting ugliest of women to hottest of men for sex. That meant average and below average looking men were more easily able to find long term partners who had not been Chads fucktoy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:56 PM
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Dating apps are real life. Dating apps show what women truly desire in absence of any criticism. The “real life” is not much different anymore. If you can’t get matches on Tinder, you won’t meet the standards of women at clubs and bars, or any woman in your circle seeking hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:50 PM
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Most of us stepped into the game and burned out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:40 PM
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Then why the fuck the only men who are having regular no strings sex with ease; men who have rosters, are Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:41 PM
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Men need to be chads to have casual sex and hookups and FwB.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:35 PM
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Mediocre looking women are doing amazingly well socially and in the dating scene. Things have somehow changed in women’s favor and the world just judges women differently than men now. The benchmarks are different for women. Mediocrity is celebrated in women and hated in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:35 PM
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From a man’s perspective, if you’re not good looking and tall (and preferably White) you can socialize but won’t be valued. The social and sexual aspects of life is just extremely hard for men. Women can be mediocre, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:28 PM
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Women are still having sex with chads
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 10:26 PM
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Most women lie about the importance of height as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:59 PM
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How tall and physically strong he is and how conventionally handsome?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 07:27 PM
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It’s a cope. Men’s peak sexual value is in their late 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:04 AM
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If you knew that a certain lifestyle would mean zero dating and sexual options wouldn’t it deter you from pursuing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:03 AM
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Ugly women are like 5% of the population. According to women, 80% of men are ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:02 AM
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So you saw a few very good looking tall White nomad type guys who got lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 04:01 AM
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How good looking and masculine is your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:59 AM
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Then why do women have relationships with men they don’t have much in common with?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:58 AM
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You can just date the local men wherever you go for short term and move on to another
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:57 AM
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They are male model tier guys who have a lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:56 AM
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Those men had to stay at one place and build a life to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:56 AM
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If sex and relationships aren’t important why do women living alternate lifestyles have active dating and sex lives? Why preach what you don’t practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 03:55 AM
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Do you understand that the situationship youre describing only happens to hot guys above the girls league?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:26 PM
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So those are hot guys who have one situationship with a gf who takes care of him and a few fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:33 PM
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So you agree with hypergamy and women sharing hot guys with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:33 PM
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Only tall white super good looking dudes at festivals with midget ethnic fat girls in fishnet stockings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:34 PM
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Right, so they need to be good looking to get casual sex. Female friends won’t help with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 06:08 PM
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What’s the point of choosing the hottest guys for casual sex then? The vast majority of women only want casual sex with the aesthetically hottest guys exclusively. Why are women so elitist about looks if they just close their eyes during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:42 PM
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So why can’t these struggling men just have casual sex for fun, instead of being told to get female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 03:41 PM
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What do you have casual sex for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:14 AM
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Why do you need to close your eyes? Women who have sex with very good looking men don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:09 AM
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Anything that leads to the conclusion that men face high looks and height standards is blasphemy. It makes women seem shallow and elitist as a group so the whole world will work to bury that narrative. Women’s collective image as the angelic deeper empathetic gender has to be protected at all costs even if it means we have to gaslight generations of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:06 AM
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Women are not suited to monogamy and marriage. They have unlimited sexual options of extremely good looking men, which makes them bored easily and quickly. The mediocre looking woman is like a male celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:52 AM
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Gender discourse desperately needs to acknowledge that women are shallower, way more selective, elitist and find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa. Are you willing to accept that or does it light firecrackers in your bad place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 04:47 PM
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If ALL the men she’s fucking are emotionally unavailable there is a pattern that needs to be studied. The pattern 90% of times is that she’s going for hot guys above her relationship league.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:38 AM
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So she needs to understand super hot guys have low standards for sex and she’s most likely fucking men above her league. What’s wrong with being aware of this fact rather than wondering why hot guys don’t commit? You are free to fuck the hot guys you really want, but why lament their lack of commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:26 AM
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Is it vulnerability or not being visually attracted to the guy enough? Like they need to keep lights off so they can fantasize about super good looking men they really desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 08:22 AM
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Why is keeping the lights on such a big deal for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 07:25 AM
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So why are women framing the fact the they end more relationships as a character failing of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 12:41 PM
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Most women react very negatively to unattractive men approaching them. Their egos get hurt very badly. They feel he has committed a grave sin/crime. They feel a deep level of disgust. They insult him by reminding him his caliber is too low. They say “How dare he thinks he stands a chance with me?”. They badmouth him in the workplace, circle telling every woman he’s a creep, a pervert. They can even complain about him to HR. Many are now shaming them on social media even.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:21 PM
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Compare single men vs single women. Which group has more sex and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 01:08 PM
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Who’s blaming women? Women react far more negatively to men they’re not attracted to than genders reversed scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:46 PM
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You’re asking men to be happy single and celibate. I’m telling you that single women aren’t celibate so sex is important to them. If sex wasn’t important, single women would remain celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:45 PM
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The fact that 1, 2 and 3 don’t work for you means you’re physically unattractive. They all work for good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:51 AM
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Maybe it’s because you’re a f’n woman and you can literally ask all your male friends and acquaintances that you want to fuck / date and 70% will say yes, the other 30% will politely laugh it off with zero impact on your relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:50 AM
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Not being good looking, not being tall enough, not having a good physique are the most common reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:47 AM
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Why aren’t women celibate then if you think sex isn’t important?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:46 AM
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wtf do you mean by that? You don’t have your looks, height, ethnicity, body standards for men you want to date?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:42 AM
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How are you coping?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:41 AM
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Yes, but mutual attraction takes zero effort for casual sex takes zero effort on women’s part. I can get on Grindr and find 100 gays to fuck within a week who’ll show up at the door. To fuck a prostitute I’ll have to do some research, pick her up negotiate the rate, pay her $200 (which is more than one days after tax wage for average ppl). That is more effort
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:24 PM
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I see women having casual sex: one night stands, Tinder hookups, short term flings and FwB/booty calls. They never have to build an emotional connection with the guy. What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 05:03 PM
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I know, but men who pay for sex still deserve more respect than women who have casual sex. At least the men have to earn money and pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:44 PM
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Paying for sex is still harder and takes more effort than a woman needs to get laid casually. Does it mean women’s sexual experiences are low value and deserve disrespect?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 10:10 PM
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Why is it a hard way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:45 PM
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And may I ask what the fuck are those reasons that offends a male feminist like yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:44 PM
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What’s your looks height body stats
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:03 PM
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Women of color worship white man’s cock. Almost put on Earth to worship white mens cocks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 07:03 PM
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Women aren’t being celibate in greater numbers but men are. With relationships no longer needed, why is celibacy only affecting one gender more?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:06 PM
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So why can every woman identify when a woman is “way outta the league” of the guy she’s married to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:47 AM
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The only women saying they prefer smaller ones are riddled with vaginisimus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:44 AM
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The only women saying they prefer smaller ones are riddled with vaginisimus
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:44 AM
0

Most women do except the one diseased with vaginisimjs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 04:43 AM
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Most women are average looking and they are not easy to access. The average looking 25 year old woman in the HR job is dating tall handsome fit confident outgoing men in the US. She is dating a man who is better than her in almost every aspect. Why are you more concerned with how a small minority of super hot women and rich sugar daddies date than how the vast majority dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:58 AM
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Again, what age group are you talking about and are you referring to gold digger type arrangements? Because you can literally go to any big downtown and see young couples in their 20s and 30s - university crowd, young professionals etc - and you’ll rarely see women dating men less attractive than themselves. It’s always good looking, tall, fit guys with an equally attractive girl or some girl who looks like anything. I can show you examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:26 AM
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I don’t see young women dating men who are less attractive than themselves in the US. Most young women date men who are 2 points above them looks wise. So 5/10 girls usually date guys who are 7s. Are you based in a South American country?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:34 PM
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Her effort into appearance is offset by the man looks height physique. That’s a fair exchange. Are you saying your friends dates ugly physically unattractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:39 PM
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I’m saying that the barriers and benchmarks for women to get casually fucked are immensely lower because men have very low standards for beauty and personality when it comes to casual sex. I can get on Grindr and find 100 gay men to casually fuck by end of the week. Why tf are you scared to admit that it’s not that women are awesome that they can get casual sex so easily. It’s men’s standards that are extremely low? Is it an ego thing for you? Like your ego gets hurt if someone says mediocre wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:48 PM
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How do below average obese women with low self esteem, boring personalities, mundane lifestyle get fucked left and right off dating apps? Men need to be good looking fit and confident charming to get casual sex. Women can be pathetic in every aspect (looks and personality) and still get fucked casually off dating apps. How tf is that possible? Are you f’n scared of something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:24 PM
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Why can’t it be about forced sex with good looking hot masculine men if that’s your instinct? In prehistoric times Chads raped women technically so it’s part of your subconscious. Or you just want to get hard fucked by hot masculine men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 04:09 PM
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No. I regularly see guys who are 8s doing FwB with girls who are 3s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:45 PM
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So how do you explain why unremarkable and mediocre looking men can’t have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:37 PM
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Why the hell are you lying man? On average men swipe right 46% Millions of men are swiping right almost half of the profiles they come across. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:45 PM
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Then how do ugly obese midget women get decent looking young fit guys on Tinder willing to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:18 PM
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Why the fuck does it matter long term or short term? How is that not real fucking life if 60% of women found their sex partners on apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:50 AM
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So show me the survey conducted by women that says 5” is the perfect length as opposed to 7.25” that the surveys conducted by men showed. 7” dick is 95 percentile Women’s ideal dick size is possessed by only 5% of men. Let that sink in
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:46 AM
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Then why tf are you insisting that the surveys are unreliable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:42 AM
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They asked what length girth do you like in your c**t and the women mentioned the measurements. How the fuck can you manipulate numbers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:31 AM
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The men did not twist women’s answers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:21 AM
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Men don’t exclude women for sex based on nipple sizes. Men’s ability to get laid is directly tied to their penis size. Guys with big dicks get laid more and very easily
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:54 AM
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What’s the size that’s most pleasurable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:54 AM
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Why do men with big dicks get laid so much more and so easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:53 AM
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The studies surveyed women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 04:51 AM
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A 3/10 guy gets zero matches on dating apps. They literally don’t work for below average looking men. Millions of men are saying this on the internet. Why don’t you believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:42 AM
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It means that a 3/10 won’t even crap on a guy who’s below 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:38 AM
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A 3/10 woman can easily fuck 7 and 8/10 guys. Isn’t that incredible? A 3/10 woman easily regularly fucking guys way above her league?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:32 AM
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How the fuck do below average looking short fat women get 1000s of matches then if men are also shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:31 AM
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What makes you think women don’t have FwB and short term relationships with super hot men way above their leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:30 AM
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Why are you so ignorant and dishonest? Shy men paired up because there was no hookup culture or dating apps before and women had to pair up with their compatible matches. Couples were set up by families and communities and looks and status compatibility was ensured. Today any below average looking woman ( I know this will light firecrackers in your behind because I’m suggesting women can be below average looking) can easily hookup with male models. Assortative mating is destroyed now. Women don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:18 AM
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So why don’t dating apps defeat women? Why don’t they suppress women? Why do women thrive on dating apps? Why don’t men become hyper shallow hyper elitist about looks on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:13 AM
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No. Most women are on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:12 AM
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Why the fuck online dating only defeats men? Why don’t men become hyper shallow hyper elitist about looks when they get on a dating app? Why does it only trigger women to be hyper shallow and hyper elitist? Just give this a thought for a second. It won’t kill you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:10 AM
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Your daughters will have insanely high looks and height standards for boyfriends but you won’t study that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:09 AM
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They are not assuming. We have seen examples all our lives how women go out of the way to humiliate and insult men who approach them when they don’t find them good looking enough Why can’t you accept this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:08 AM
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Why is it not reality when 60% of women found their sex partner from a dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:06 AM
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Right, so it’s a looks issue. The incels and manosphere are right. Men need to be good looking to have sexual relationships on equal terms
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:44 PM
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But women’s looks and height requirements are not reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:33 PM
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For casual sex and FwB, women absolutely don’t give a fuck about maturity, status, importance etc. They just want the biggest, baddest, hottest motherfucker around
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:32 PM
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GenZ men are having less sex. GenZ women are having more sex than any other generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:21 PM
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Again they’re not preaching what they practice. You keep saying “we don’t care about sex” yet most of you still have sex relatively frequently with attractive/hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:10 PM
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Who are single women having sex with? Who are they having FwB, situationships and short term flings with? What’s different about those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:47 PM
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Please be honest and look around you. Look at single women in their 20, 30s and 40s in your circle, work, etc. How many of them are celibate and waiting for their next long term relationship/ marriage to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:45 PM
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Then how are single women happier than single men and have active sex lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:26 PM
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Hey, how the fuck do below average looking, obese, short as midget women get fucked left and right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:18 PM
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Why are the looks height fitness lifestyle confidence benchmarks for men are immensely higher than for women in the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:18 PM
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So women are collectively sharing men in FwB and situationships? What is different about the men you do FwB and short term flings with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:17 PM
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How do ugly, obese, short broke GenZ women have active dating and sex lives while GenZ men need to be good looking, fit and tall to get a handful of options? What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:16 PM
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So women are collectively sharing men in FwB and situationships? What is different about the men you do FwB and short term flings with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:14 PM
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So women are collectively sharing men in FwB and situationships? What is different about the men you do FwB and short term flings with?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:14 PM
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So they are collectively sharing men in FwB and situationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:13 PM
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How are men getting worse if women’s looks and height standards keep going higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:11 PM
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So it’s something preferable to an average dick? You will have sex with a big dick guy without requiring any other effort or time from him because of the experience itself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:47 PM
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What if a guy has an 8 inch dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:22 AM
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Why do you have to be snarky about it? Why not be open and honest? Who are you scared of?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:10 AM
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Also the women looking for providers have reasonable requirements for looks and height, while the women doing 50:50 would be elitist and hyper shallow (dating app level hypergamous) about looks and height so clearly not interested in the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:56 AM
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Also the women looking for providers have reasonable requirements for looks and height, while the women doing 50:50 would be elitist and hyper shallow (dating app level hypergamous) about looks and height so clearly not interested in the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:56 AM
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Also the women looking for providers have reasonable requirements for looks and height, while the women doing 50:50 would be elitist and hyper shallow (dating app level hypergamous) about looks and height so clearly not interested in the same men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:54 AM
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They can be fixed if most men could just get laid as easily as women. Men are insecure because they need to STAND OUT in a few ways to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:31 AM
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So you’re busy hooking up with Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:22 AM
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The men who are getting casual sex are a small minority and the soy boys aren’t able to get a single girlfriend, so the current situation is not mutually exclusive with most men becoming soy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:20 AM
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So you prefer hot much younger men for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 09:44 PM
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Never been on a college campus?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:30 PM
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Women are extremely shallow and elitist about looks so when you call a guy “average looking” it’s very likely he’s well above average. Women consider 80% of men ugly/unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:29 PM
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Yes. Not just the 10% but 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:27 PM
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The men who want to build a life together are less physically attractive than the men available to you for casual sex (all variations of it)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:26 PM
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Why are more women than men engaging in casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:24 PM
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Women are not complaining about average looking men wanting only sex. They are complaining about good looking, tall, hot guys who have women lined up to date/fuck them. This can be taught in 8th grade science class
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:22 PM
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Women aren’t lacking sex and male companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:01 PM
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True. Women can be lonely too but never celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:58 AM
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That’s not how it works irl. Irl women put you in categories depending on how good looking/hot you are. <image> Just read women’s answers to this question. If a guy is not super good looking, he will have to date women with long term intent and only then get laid after forming an “emotional bond”. The SAME woman will fuck a super hot guy casually on the 1st date or in a FwB arrangement . Again, just read women’s answers if you don’t believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:28 PM
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Every dateable woman is also fuckable casually. Why isn’t every “husband material” not fuckable casually to women? Why are the standards for “casually fuckable” higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:59 PM
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They can’t ask for casual sex because they will be immediately told to fuck off. They are completely shut out of the world of casual sex and pursuing long term relationships is their only choice. Why is that so? Like why is there categorization of men but not women when it comes to casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:35 PM
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That girl doesn’t need to be more physically attractive than the wife material. Why does the hookup /FwB guy need to be more physically attractive than the husband material ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:02 AM
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It’s not about dinners but time, effort and emotional investment. Did some men have to put in way more time, effort, and emotional investment/commitment before you had sex with them? Like did you tell or think with some men that you’ll only have sex if there’s a serious relationship or commitment from his side, but with others you had sex without any such expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:00 AM
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Both Stacy and Becky don’t have to put in any effort, time, or emotional labor to have sex, because men are either sexually attracted or they aren’t. Why is the distinction only among men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:57 AM
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Then why the fuck did you say “Men have the same mentality” initially? Men don’t have the same mentality if ugly fat women get fucked casually left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:53 AM
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How is casual sexual “pretty privilege” when no such categorization exists for women? The ugliest fattest shortest boring women get casually laid left and right and for women it’s actually the opposite: it’s way easier to get casually laid with men than find ones for serious relationships. It’s not pretty privilege. It’s gender privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:16 PM
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What’s casual sex? It’s not just one night stands. It’s just sex you do in the dating process. You go on a couple dates with a guy who’s really hot, you just hookup and see where things go. Most young women do this nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:47 PM
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Why do millions of men say that they are required to to put in a long time, great effort, emotional labor, commitment in order to get laid, while the same women fucked other men casually and quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:45 PM
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Why don’t mediocre looking / normie guys don’t get casually laid? Why is their only option to get laid in a long term relationship? Why doesn’t that limitation apply to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:44 PM
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This is literally the behavior of most stable educated and careered women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:14 PM
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How do ugly, fat, short, boring women get casual sex so easily? Who the fuck told you women need to be “Femme Fatale” to get casually laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:12 PM
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We come across 100s of women in our lives who are cheating on their husbands. We come across them in workplace, neighborhood, friends circle, or they’re cheating with a guy we know. We often get to find out who their husbands are and what they look like. The men they cheat with are almost always younger, better looking, hotter, etc. Their husbands are almost always normies or oofy doofy types
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:11 PM
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Why do women date men they don’t find sexually attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:07 PM
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So why is men’s collective experience such that they feel they are literally put into categories: Guys who get casual sex VS guys who have to get into a long term relationship to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:07 PM
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Did you ever date men who had to do those things in order to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:04 PM
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Why can’t the same woman want different things from different men based on how physically attractive/hot the man is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:03 PM
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The men they have casual sex with are way more attractive than the men they marry. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:01 PM
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Why aren’t you genuinely sexually attracted to the men you date for long term? Men never date women they don’t want to have sex with. Why is it different for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:01 PM
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So why do women date men who they know/think won’t get the job done?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:00 PM
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Men will have sex with every woman they date - for long term or casual. Men literally don’t require any effort from one group of women before having sex. Why do women require effort, time and commitment from one group of men but not the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:58 PM
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What does it mean then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:56 PM
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Why date men you’re not sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:55 PM
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Men don’t ask the “relationship material” women to put more effort for sex. Mens FwB are not more physically attractive than their wives and long term partners. What’s the missing piece?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:54 PM
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He wouldn’t be a virgin if the same man were gay
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:48 PM
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Then why are way fewer single women than single men are celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:49 PM
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Then why are they preaching men that sex and romantic relationships aren’t important? They should be instead saying: “Tough luck guys. Sex and relationships require you to bring good looks and hotness and we women find very few men attractive enough nowadays. We’re women so we’re incredibly advantaged and can have our pick even if we’re not good looking ourselves. Life isn’t fair so deal with it”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 06:20 PM
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They have a network of friends but they’re still casually dating men and have sex. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:29 PM
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If you’re a mediocre looking guy, there are no women who’ll be physically attracted to you. You will have to somehow bribe your way into their life if you want a relationship. You’ll have to create reasons. You can’t be upfront like good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:28 PM
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Why do women romantically and sexually prefer men who fit into the traditionally masculine mold? Why do women endorse patriarchy via their sexual and romantic preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:25 PM
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Why the hell do you run to the “you’re not entitled to sex” rhetoric? I’m saying women mis diagnose men’s loneliness epidemic as something that can be wholly cured by platonic relationships, when in reality it’s a romantic loneliness and celibacy issue. I’m pointing out women’s double speak: They aren’t celibate themselves yet prescribe men to seek fulfillment in non sexual relationships only. We already know we’re not entitled to sex and romantic relationships. We know it requires sexual curren…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:18 PM
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When women check out and flirt with other men it very easily leads to actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 05:11 PM
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Idk, most women say that they have higher physical attraction standards for hookups and FwB then for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:07 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:05 AM
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Men can’t fuck hot women on demand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:04 AM
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You don’t have higher attraction standards for hookups and fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:03 AM
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Unless you’re a super good looking guy, no women will want to go on coffee dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:00 AM
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Men’s loneliness epidemic is romantic loneliness and sexual frustration. Women are not preaching what they practice. They aren’t celibate yet they tell men to seek fulfillment in platonic relationships alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:59 AM
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Women can only love good looking tall men. The sooner you understand this the better
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:57 AM
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What “fallout” do women face when dating men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:51 PM
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What fallout do women face? You just move on to the next boyfriend in no time if one doesn’t act exactly as per your whims. And why are women preaching something they’re not practicing? Single women aren’t celibate. They are casually dating and fucking men. How can you preach men to find happiness within themselves and with each other when you’re no celibate yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:42 AM
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Women are physically attracted to fewer men. Women face the exact same dilemma of friendships with super hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 06:34 AM
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But why do women love such men? Why are so many women want to have sex with hot misogynistic men? We just want to be what women desire more
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:37 PM
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Most women seem content being Chads cum dumpster. I’ve seen far too many comments from women here mocking men for being jealous of their ability to get fucked by hot guys way above their leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:30 PM
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So a man needs to “chase girls” while a woman in his exact situation needs to open a dating app and have 100s of guys offering to go on a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:10 PM
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Why are you scared to admit it’s because he’s a man and dating immensely harder for men who aren’t conventionally attractive than for women in the same situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:56 PM
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A large number of men do want to settle down in their 20s. These men are not good looking and tall enough for the hookup culture that suits women. And the men on the sidelines do care. Why do you there’s so much debate in Manosphere about women’s sexual past? Men are not aiming for women above their leagues anymore. A 24 year old 5/10 woman wants absolutely nothing to do with her looks match and exclusively does hookups with 8s and 9s who only see her as a cum dumpster. She marries the 5/10 at 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:52 PM
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So in the south, young women aren’t hooking up and doing situationships with super hot guys ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:46 PM
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Most women in their 20s have switched to the stituationship model so they can date hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:45 PM
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Which one would you prefer to be personally? A) A super hot model like young woman with a beautiful body and face, who’s admired by thousands of men, but someone who hates men and is very selfish in relationships Vs B) A facially unattractive, short, fat, out of shape woman who no man is sexually and romantically attracted to, but is friendly and kind to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:43 PM
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Which one would you prefer to be personally? A) A super hot model like young woman with a beautiful body and face, who’s admired by thousands of men, but someone who hates men and is very selfish in relationships Vs B) A facially unattractive, short, fat, out of shape woman who no man is sexually and romantically attracted to, but is friendly and kind to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:42 PM
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Why do women prefer the hot misogynist to the ugly but respectful guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:38 PM
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Which one would you prefer to be personally? A) A super hot model like young woman with perky tits curvy ass, hot face but someone who hates men and is very selfish in relationships Vs B) A facially unattractive, short, fat, out of shape woman who no man is attracted to but is friendly and kind to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:37 PM
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Why do women love A immensely more than B? Ever thought about that? What’s wrong in wanting to be what women prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:12 PM
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Why are you able to get laid and relationships, but your brother can’t? Why is he so disadvantaged compared to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:09 PM
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Why do women love A immensely more than B? Every thought about that? What’s wrong in wanting to be what women prefer?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:07 PM
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Misogynistic men have women lined up to date them for short term and long term in every corner of the world. Respectful ugly men are depressed incels most of their lives. While you personally fuck dozens of hot guys for fun, why’d you want your son to have marriage his only option at 37?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:06 PM
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He’s talking about conventional attractiveness. A conventionally attractive man is attractive to most women. Why the fuck are you pretending physical attractiveness is completely subjective?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:05 PM
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Why do women prefer the misogynistic son?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:03 PM
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Good looking misogynistic men not only get short term relationships, amazing sex lives, but also love and long term relationships. It’s all within their control. Women are always lined up to marry them. Your ugly son will be a depressed incel almost all his life and even if he gets chosen by a woman she’ll be compromising on her sexual attraction. She’s be someone who has had her fun with guy A. Why would you want your son to be so disadvantaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:03 PM
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So you’re ok his life is ruined and he rots away as a depressed incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:00 PM
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I’d probably prefer B, however ugly fat women get laid left and right and are sexually successful
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:59 AM
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Life is easy mode for women isn’t it. But it does point out that men need parents more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:58 AM
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Why would you want your son to compensate and get scraps and not the man who’s naturally sexually desirable to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:57 AM
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Most women are shallow. Initial attraction is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:54 AM
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Ugly fat women get laid left and right though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 11:53 AM
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Sex is relevant because if men could get laid as easily as women, fewer men than women would be interested in long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:04 PM
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Lower middle class women have active sex lives despite being single. Why are you leaving out sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:33 PM
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So who are the men, women choosing to have casual sex with? Who are they hooking up and FwB with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:09 AM
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Why are more women than men having casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:42 AM
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What if sex is the main reason men seek romantic relationships? I feel if men could get sexual validation and casually sex as easily as women, they’ll be even less interested in romantic relationships than women are currently. I still don’t see how the sexual imbalance will be lessened by men becoming less romantically needy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:43 AM
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You don’t fuck hot young dudes on the side?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:41 PM
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I’m talking about the vast majority of women. You’re a rare breed who’s aware. I was asking your opinion on why the majority of women are making men’s frustration worse by gaslighting them about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:39 PM
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Why are way more women than men having casual sex then if it’s not important to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:33 PM
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<image> What tf do you think about the fact that ugly, obese, midget women have 1000s of men willing to hookup with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:30 PM
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How do they create their own cages when they face immensely more pressure than women to be good looking, tall, fit, confident, successful in order to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:30 PM
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Why are women making men’s frustration worse by gaslighting them and denying that men have it immensely harder and face more pressure to be good looking and competent than women? Why are they still perpetuating the lies that men who struggle aren’t nice and it has nothing to do with their looks and height?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:28 PM
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Then why aren’t you celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:25 PM
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It’s not sympathy but acknowledgment of the FACT that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good looking, tall, fit, sociable, successful, confident, etc in order to have dating & sexual opportunities. It’s not sympathy but an awareness of the fact that the benchmarks for men are insanely higher than for women. I want you to stop and consider that the female version of the man you casually insult as “incel” is getting laid left and right. And once you realize that you won’t casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:24 PM
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Are you celibate then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:18 PM
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The women here are saying they only want to fuck super hot dudes and men need to cope. Why are you still blaming men’s supposed character defects?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:16 PM
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Being feminist won’t get them laid. Being good looking, tall, hot will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:08 PM
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Men struggle in dating due to not being good looking/hot enough as comment OP proves. She needs to be viscerally attracted to a man to bother with saying. She’s saying why date a 7 when 9s and 10s are available. You’re saying men who aren’t physically hot are monsters and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:07 PM
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Do you believe in anti natalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 11:00 PM
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If men stop looking for romantic validation, what will be the impact on the sexual market?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:59 PM
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The average man never had 100s of dating options at any point in history. Why are you so dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:55 PM
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Ugly, obese, midget women have 100s of men willing to date them. How easier do you want it to be for women? How low should men’s standards be? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:55 PM
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Why do women insult men and call them incels for saying the same thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:54 PM
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<image> How much easier do you want it to be for women? How low should men’s standards be?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:53 PM
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Why do you think women, feminists, leftists insult men for saying exactly what you’ve said?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 10:45 PM
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I live abroad. Country doesn’t matter. A man’s looks do. A good looking guy can casually fuck girls in Pakistan easily
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:34 PM
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She won’t take this from every partner
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 06:35 AM
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<image> This is a borderline obese woman. In America she gets fucked left and right by tall lean fit looking dudes. Where the fuck do you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:36 PM
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lol, I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:31 PM
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They talk about it with their guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:29 PM
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You must look like a male model if women are nice to you in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 03:28 PM
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Hookups precede relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:56 PM
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I wouldn’t undermine the shallowness and elitism of women when it comes to men’s looks and bodies. Their brains are cooked from hooking up with extremely good looking and genetically blessed men. They will not shy away from making you feel like complete shit if you’re average in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:27 PM
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Nicer women only exist in your head. Real life is cutthroat for men. There are no nice women in the dating/hookup scene
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:22 PM
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They usually say this the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:21 PM
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Yes. It’s common for women to backhandedly comment on penis size. Every man who’s average or below average has experienced this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:57 AM
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Normal dick size to women is still above average. It’s 6 inches, relatively thick, gets hard on demand, good for 3 times in a session I have 5.5, average girth and I’ve been told by multiple women that it’s kinda small.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:30 AM
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Large is 7 inches and above
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 09:17 AM
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Dominate and use her ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:02 AM
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Every guy who has a larger dick says women are pleasantly surprised when they find out he’s bigger and want to keep seeing him for sex even if things don’t work out. These guys never have a problem getting FwBs How’s this possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 05:35 AM
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If men are jerking off to unrealistically beautiful women, why are the same men willing to casually fuck ugly obese women on Tinder? Compare like with like. Jerking off and casual sex go together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:01 PM
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Even for relationships when I look at young early 20s couples, 8 out of 10 couples I see in college towns and public places, the guy is super handsome, tall straight out of cookie cutter, and the girl looks like anything. The girl can be short, fat, out of shape, facially mediocre. Why is that? Why are men being cornered by elitist looks standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:58 PM
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Again, who are you to say that women who are happily hooking up with hot guys aren’t happy? Why shouldn’t we believe them but a 3rd person?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:13 PM
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They don’t have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:44 AM
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So if women face more pressure to look good, why below average / mediocre looking women get laid 100x more easily than below average / mediocre looking men? The pressure certainly isn’t coming from men’s sexual preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:44 AM
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Then why do so many women enjoy their casual sex life? What about conventionally unattractive girls who are high fiving themselves in college for hooking up with tall handsome guys? I have seen those women all my life. Why are you portraying them as victims when they benefit from men’s low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:40 AM
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Sure, but the analogy would be slightly different. Imagine if you were poor but saw that some poor people could enjoy luxury things. You’d try to understand why. Then you find out that they are given heavy discounts and free things. When you talk about the different pricing for different groups of people most people deny it and others tell you you don’t know how to bargain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 04:00 AM
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Because I’m straight
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:51 AM
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For casual sex, the physical benchmarks for men are way higher. Below average looking, short, fat women can get laid left and right. Their male version can’t. Why do you say “not physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:40 PM
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Literally girls of all shapes sizes, levels of attractiveness and ethnicities have no problems hopping in and out of relationships at will. If men had high beauty standards I wouldn’t see short borderline obese girls with tall good looking boyfriends on their arms everywhere. I think you’re from an older generation and don’t realize todays dating dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:36 PM
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So you’re saying unless there is lifelong commitment or marriage, all other forms of connections and relationships mean nothing? How long does the average “relationship” of a 20 something last? How many relationships since a girl starts dating lead to marriage? You’re writing everything off because it doesn’t lead to marriage, to downplay how easy it is for girls to get into these relationships (short term or medium term).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 08:33 PM
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So men are horny and have low standards then. Not that women who get laid are all subjectively beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:09 PM
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Do men have very low standards for casual sex or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:08 PM
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I’m a 3 face wise and short. Zero women want to have casual sex with me. I am no woman’s type for casual sex. Why does beauty subjectivity not benefit me in the slightest? How come out of millions of women zero find me physically attractive according to their “subjective taste”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:00 PM
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So why do conventionally unattractive men have no women interested in having casual sex with them? Why does beauty subjectivity only benefit women when it comes to casual sex, but men must adhere to the extremely narrow conventional attractiveness definition to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:08 PM
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You’re putting words in my mouth. Do you disagree that the attractiveness barrier for men to have casual sex is way higher than for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:00 PM
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Because I also want to have casual sex, but I can’t, so I can’t help but notice what qualities are needed to obtain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:09 PM
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It’s natural for humans to compare. If 2 groups of people want the same thing, but the barriers for one group are immensely higher, naturally they will notice and make comparisons. This goes not just for sex but every other thing in economics, politics, cultural/social power, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:48 PM
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They don’t have to choose me. I understand they have unlimited options of fucking good looking hot men regardless of their own looks. I know and accept that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher than for women. I know that I need to be better than a woman - physically, socially, mentally - to get laid. I know that I need to stand out among men to get casually laid and they don’t need to stand out among women. I know life isn’t fair to men in this aspect. What do we disagree upon?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:43 PM
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I feel like society expects men to know this reality deep down but also not talk about it nor use it as a reason for their struggles so as to not upset women. women’s gender politics is so strong that any aspect of life where men have it harder cannot be talked about without the man being labelled a misogynist and an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:40 PM
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Society makes it clear when a man bags someone above his league. Most men with hot wives can admit and laugh at themselves. Although such mismatched pairing are less common today We are just afraid to tell women who do the same in casual sex context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:33 PM
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Wouldn’t that mean that since the supply of women is smaller, a small number of promiscuous women would end up sleeping with a large number of men? In reality the number of men who end up having casual sex is smaller than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:04 PM
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I’m not asking or expecting others to fix my mental problems. I’m asking people to acknowledge a fact. It’s about intellectual honesty. Yes, my feelings might be attached to people acknowledging that fact. That’s besides the point. Truth is a virtue in itself. Do you agree that men face immensely higher benchmarks for looks and personality than women in order to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:01 PM
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So you agree that I need to be better than women in every aspect - physical, social, mental - to get laid? That the benchmarks for me are higher than women’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:18 AM
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If you have to ask, you’re not good looking enough. That’s the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:15 AM
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When I tell this to women who have casual sex, they get offended. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:14 AM
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I can come to terms with the reality that women can get laid easily and men can’t, if society and women wholeheartedly accept that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be attractive - physically, mentally, and socially. I don’t see this happening. Women are having fun insulting men who can’t get laid as “incels” What’s the reason behind their dishonesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:12 AM
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The men they hook up with are always above average or conventionally good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:08 AM
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Clubs and bars only work for good looking and preferably tall men. Hookup apps like Tinder only work for good looking men. The men who are “rotting away in celibacy” put themselves out there and failed miserably. The standards for men in these situations are elitist. I used the adjectives to illustrate the different benchmarks men and women are held against. Why are you averse to acknowledging that the benchmarks - physical, social, mental - required for casual sex are immensely higher for men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:01 AM
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I can see those men. Those men are very good looking. Men need to be good looking to have casual sex, women don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:30 AM
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So why are fewer men than women able to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 10:30 AM
2

Why are billions of women having sex with men? Who are they having sex with? Who are those men? I want to be those men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 09:59 AM
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“Ugly” according to women is above average statistically. Women consider 80% of men ugly / physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:57 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:34 AM
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So why are way more young women than young men engage in casual sex? On college campuses, majority of girls have casual hookups and FwB compared to a much smaller number of boys. Why isn’t the situation the other way round if the risks for women are so over-arching?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:20 AM
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So why are the barriers to casual sex so immensely higher for me as a man? Why can’t I afford to have the same shortcomings - physical, mental, social - as women in order to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:08 AM
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Why are women so averse to acknowledge this? Look at the comments here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:05 AM
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How do I explain that women with all the shortcomings I have - physical, mental, social - and then some can get laid left and right but I can’t? What’s the explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:04 AM
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The ugliest of girls were hooking up with hot guys in dorms in middle of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:59 AM
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When you insult a man by calling him an “incel” are you cognizant of the fact that his female version is getting laid left and right? You don’t see the irony of using the term incel in context of this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:58 AM
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Why can’t she accept that yeah, she’s a beneficiary of men’s low standards for casual sex, and that men don’t have it that easy? What’s wrong with accepting her privilege? Unless she hates men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:50 AM
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The first step to cure to jealousy is getting an explanation. How do I explain to myself that women with all the shortcomings that I have (physical, mental, social) are getting laid left and right. Once I have that explanation, I can move forward. What is that explanation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:48 AM
1

Have you ever lived on a college campus?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:42 AM
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So if an ugly woman brags about her casual sex life and I tell her that men’s pathetically low standards for sex allow her this life, why would she insult me and call me an incel instead of wholeheartedly acknowledging the reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:30 AM
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If this is something most people realize in high school, explain this: When an ugly woman brags about her hedonistic life and you tell her that men’s low sexual standards allow her this life., she and other women will insult you and call you an incel, instead of acknowledging it. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:28 AM
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Yes. I can prove this to you. When an ugly woman brags about her hedonistic life and you tell her that men’s low sexual standards allow her this life., she and other women will insult you and cal you an incel, instead of acknowledging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:26 AM
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So there is an explanation. What’s the explanation for why ugly, fat, broke, low self esteemed, boring women get laid left and right, while their male versions can’t? They aren’t billionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:25 AM
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I’m not trying to get around that. I’m just asking why stating that the attractiveness barriers to sex are immensely higher for men displeases most women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:23 AM
0

So why can’t most women acknowledge this wholeheartedly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:21 AM
1

I’m talking about heterosexual sex. The barriers to heterosexual sex are immensely higher for men than for women Why can’t men NOTICE this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:20 AM
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The women alive today in Western society are enjoying casual sex, hookups, FwB of their own will. Why are you bringing up history? The average man died in a war or defending his tribe at 20. What’s the relevance here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:18 AM
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Other women in the comments are saying maybe she’s beautiful to the men she’s casually fucking Which one is it? All women are beautiful OR men have pathetically low standards for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:11 AM
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@Have you considered that people have different preferences and what’s “ugly” to you obviously isn’t “ugly” to their sexual partners?“ Why doesn’t that work for men? If people’s preferences are so variable why don’t conventionally unattractive guys find women for casual sex? I’m a 3/10 in looks and short. Zero women want to have casual sex with me. Why don’t varying preferences benefit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:08 AM
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Ugly girls who are 2s and 3s are having casual sex with guys who are 7s and 8s. I’m a 3 in looks and kinda short. The girls who are my looks matches don’t want casual sex with me. They do it with 7s and 8s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:05 AM
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If you see broke people enjoying on yachts, while you as a middle class person can’t wouldn’t you be confused and want an explanation for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:03 AM
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I care because I want to have casual sex too but the barriers to casual sex are immensely higher for me than for this person (woman). Am I not allowed to NOTICE that the barriers are immensely higher for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:01 AM
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I care because I want to have casual sex too but the barriers to casual sex are immensely higher for me than for this person (woman). Am I not allowed to NOTICE that the barriers are immensely higher for me?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 06:00 AM
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Why do billions of straight women have vaginal sex, yet next no none straight men want to be pegged? Who are the women having vaginal sex with? Why is it so normal for women to have vaginal sex then if they’re the objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:57 AM
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I want casual sex as a man. Sex is sex. She’s enjoying casual sex as a woman like millions do. I don’t see your point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:55 AM
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But in reality, why are women still able to have sex like its second nature? Women aren’t choosing celibacy. They have way more casual sex than men. Ultimately men have to cope with lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:14 PM
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I have a Blackpll Facebook page. I covertly share TikTok examples with commentary off my page onto feminist and women’s groups and these grown women violently support the worst behaviors in GenZ women’s TikToks . Same with women’s subs on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:07 AM
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Men want equality. Women want preferential treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:32 AM
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If it’s rage bait, why does every woman support it? You post the worst behavior of women and women in comments will still support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:30 AM
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It’s possible like you said individuals with trauma tend to become sexually promiscuous, but since most men can’t get casual sex they turn towards cuckoldry to channel that desire. Women on the other hand (including the ugliest ones) just become promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 07:25 AM
3

What? How do they regain control via cuckolding when it’s just humiliation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 05:54 AM
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Beta Buxx is a real thing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:14 PM
2

It is in many cases as women are married to men they wouldn’t fuck casually in an open market .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:41 AM
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The only correct answer. In the US the ugliest of women will consider me a settling down option at best and treat me like instantly replaceable garbage. Why not travel to a country where I can be beta buxx to women who are younger, attractive, polite, and considerate? Love and lust are things only the very good looking men can experience
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 05:33 AM
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There are many women specially above 33 who also want lifestyle/activity boyfriends. These are men they’re not fully physically attracted to but because they share the lifestyle and interests they date them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:41 PM
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What if the guy is really good looking/ hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 12:11 AM
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So why don’t ugly promiscuous women recognize their privilege and thanks men’s low standards? Instead they punch down on men calling them incels
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:25 AM
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Why would a woman seriously date a guy who’s not attractive enough for hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:08 AM
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So when you look at married couples in their late 30s and beyond, why do you see men of all shapes, sizes and levels of attractiveness as someone’s husband? Whenever I or someone from manosphere brings up hypergamy and the fact that women are shallower, selective, more elitist than men and find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa, women’s retort is “go outside and see married couples” Where’s the disconnect?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:48 AM
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Is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:20 AM
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If you prioritize your sexual attraction in dating then why are so many men in beta bux situations? Why are so many men sayin they get a sexually inferior treatment by the women they date (made to wait, jump through hoops, invest emotionally, provide support in different ways to get sex) Why don’t you women have a binary system of sexual attraction - You’re attracted to a guy or you’re not? Why are you operating a hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:05 AM
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Would you have accepted FwB offer from all your boyfriends if they made that offer on the 2nd or 3rd date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:57 AM
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Ok. Let me rephrase the question because I understand that there can certainly be a case where you have a crush on a really hot/attractive guy who doesn’t want commitment so you even agree to be FwB with him. But I request you to look back at ALL your serious boyfriends/relationships. How many were they in total and how many would pass the FwB test I described above in early stages of dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:16 AM
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This is why hookups are a litmus test for men to avoid this situation. You probably didn’t hookup with this guy casually and he had to date/pursue you for a longer time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:09 AM
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If women behaved consistently about sex and had a binary system like men do instead of a sexual hierarchy, men’s insecurities around sexual past will also go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:42 PM
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Do you think women who think like you (husbands are always hookup+husband material) are in the minority or majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:40 PM
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What physical traits did he lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:39 PM
1

So why are women dismissing men’s concern that casual sex guys are privileged over long term guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:37 PM
1

So the FwB guy is so good looking, hot, genetically superior that you don’t even care if he’s putting in the effort to please you in bed and you put on a performance for him. You fuck him as a reward for his good looks alone..for merely existing. He is your true physical ideal. You enjoy his physicality so much that you don’t care about his sexual effort. The boyfriend material is not good looking, hot genetically superior enough to get you into that mode. Question: If the boyfriend material - t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:35 PM
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“Letting other guys inside her casually” implies there are some men who are so good looking, hot, superior and privileged that she didn’t require any time, effort, emotional investment, support that I as a long term guy is expected to do before having sex. You do have way higher benchmarks for the casual sex guys don’t you? They are a special group of men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:29 PM
1

Any ugly obese woman can be a whore. Men need to be very good looking to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:26 PM
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Bars and clubs are for good looking tall fit men. Husbands come in all shapes, sizes, heights body types and ethnicities.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:23 PM
1

So no attraction no prospect of long term relationship and marriage either?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:22 PM
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Then why are the benchmarks for casual sex so much higher and elitist than benchmarks for a “healthy relationship”? Why is casual sex, FwB arrangements only available to top tier looking men, men who stand out, men with extraordinary abilities and traits, men who are immensely privileged? Why is it easier technically easier to find a committed relationship than be a fuck buddy for the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:21 PM
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Why are you women dating men you’re not physically attracted to in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:15 PM
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Married to men they wouldn’t have chosen for casual hookups /FwB because they’re not super good looking/hot enough? Why didnt the “nice husbands” enjoy a life of casual sex and hedonism their wives did prior to marriage? What’s the reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:13 PM
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Married to men you wouldn’t have chosen for casual hookups /FwB because they’re not super good looking/hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:12 PM
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Let’s say a TRULY husband material guy you’re going on dates with tells you he doesn’t want commitment/marriage and only wants to be the hookup/FwB. Will he ALWAYS make the cut for hookups /FwB or will you suddenly think “I framed you as a truly husband material because you’re a well rounded guy, but you’re certainly not good-looking/hot/gorgeous/sexy enough to just have a casual recreational sex arrangement. You don’t make the cut for FwB” You’re saying a lot of us aren’t “truly husband materia…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:10 PM
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So the traits required for casual relationships are usually missing in boyfriends/husbands? What are those traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:00 PM
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So why are you going on dates with men you don’t want to immediately fuck like you want to fuck the hookup/FwB guys? Are you admitting your physical attractiveness bar for husband material is a lot lower than for hookups/FwB?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:44 PM
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Why do women have sex with guys (hookups /FwB) who see them as walking fleshlights?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:42 PM
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Were the boyfriend and husband material guys good enough to be “dial a dick appointment” guys? If not then why? Let’s say the husband/bf material explicitly told you he can’t commit. isn’t interested in anything serious, and just wants FwB. Would you continue as FwB or were they not hot, gorgeous, well hung, amazing in bed enough to justify wasting sex counts on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:36 PM
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Chads don’t have to give head. I know Chads who hate giving head and they have 30 women on their FwB roster a phone call away
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:31 PM
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Then why are most former sluts married to men who never enjoyed the hedonism and casual sex? Why are they married to completely different kind of men than the ones they had casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:46 AM
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Similar reason as why former s***s marry men who never had a wild sexual past
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:29 AM
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4/5 in women’s eyes is actually a 7 statistically. I hope you understand how elitist women are when rating men’s looks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:27 AM
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“Can you translate this?” A lot of women on this sub have said that when dating for a long term relationship/ marriage, the sexual attraction has to grow after knowing the guy well and having an emotional bond, because the guy often isn’t good looking /hot enough for just hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:13 AM
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Then there’s no harm in hooking up with the relationship material then seeing if it leads to more. Unless of course you don’t consider relationship material hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:11 PM
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Right. They are more attractive than relationship material
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:50 PM
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I get that. And that’s how you find activity partners or maybe friends. Dating requires you to be a woman’s physical type. That’s the biggest bottleneck. Not some hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:27 PM
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You don’t have FwB guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:20 PM
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I’m talking about dating apps only. 5% men get 90% likes. The other 15% men get 10% likes and get lucky once in a blue moon. The vast majority get zero So why are women hyperfixated on hottest men on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:40 AM
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So why do 5% of men get 95% of likes on dating apps? What does it mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:29 AM
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Most men love FwB. Why can’t you just narrow in on a few FwBs?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:35 AM
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Don’t you think because of these challenges women would actually swipe right on more average looking men, yet 90% of all likes from women go to 5% hottest men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:34 AM
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How is interest in table top gaming make a guy more sexually attractive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:32 AM
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So you hookup and then see where things go
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:31 AM
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Way more women than men have casual sex, hookups, flings and FwB. You need to stop lying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:52 AM
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Her mindset represent the hate men receive online for not wanting to date single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:15 PM
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Why do women insult men for not wanting to date single mothers?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:14 PM
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This is not about personal preferences. You are unwilling to acknowledge the cultural bigotry against men for avoiding single mothers when they are childfree themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:14 PM
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So if men had high standards, how will you women have casual sex with hot guys way above your leagues? You laugh at men having low standards for sex but loathe to admit you’re a beneficiary of said low standards
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:10 PM
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The irony is that women aren’t remaining single or celibate more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:09 PM
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There’s no correlation between women’s looks/attractiveness and their sex/social lives. Women have life on trainee mode. Just being born woman means unlimited dating sexual romantic opportunities with above average looking men
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