ToBeTheFall Archive

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1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? Ok. Legit question. How is custody decided? Is it purely family court judge discretion? Are there certain guidelines that are followed? If so, are they internal department memos? statutes? Regulatory? Directly legislated? If so, at what level of govt is this done? Municipal? County? State? Federal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/19 12:40 AM
1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? Note that this pain is a result of injustice Let’s get into this nuance. Let’s say the custody issue is now 50/50. In this world there is no injustice. It’s fair. But in this world 50% of the dads still don’t have custody. If the pain was just “injustice” their pain would be zero, because there is no injustice. It’s now fair. I think that’s bullshit. I’d wager you think that bull shot too. We probably would both agree those dads still feel pain. I will concede that injustice may add to that pain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/19 06:23 PM
1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? Here’s a story from my life. It’s one anecdote. I’m not saying it’s representative. When I was a young man I was friends with a couple. They were young and dumb. They partied, drank, did drugs, etc. They got pregnant and decided to keep the baby. Being young and involve they thought this could be a new start to them growing up. Our friend group was mostly, “oh god this kid will be fucked. You should get an abortion.” Her family bought them a place to live, and for a little while they did good at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 11:47 PM
1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? Let me rephrase this way. It’s common to see arguments like, “if women can have abortions, men should be able to have paper abortions.” Someone reading this could get the impression that this is equating signing papers with something that’s a bit more intense than signing papers. You’re argument is, “hey it’s not fair for them to think that!” Mine isn’t an argument. I’m not saying, “this gives people the impression.” I’m saying, “yeah, I can see why some people get that impression.” I’m saying, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 10:35 PM
1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? What if I scream No! And it doesn’t really matter anyway!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 08:18 PM
2	Why do men think abortion is so easy? Women worry about ectopic pregnancies. They know what a D&C is. They discuss episiotomies. They know the difference between RU486 and plan B. Many have had scares and have taken one or the other. They know the cramps, puking, risks and complications. But in the MRA world, abortions and pregnancies are just things that woman do to trap men, or do against a man’s will. The above things aren’t discussed. They are considered irrelevant to the point. They are utterly dismissed, if they’re even mentio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 07:49 PM
1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? I googled the name of the sub and the word abortion. No longer have it handy. Googling the comment I quoted might bring it up. I’m not trying to prove anything about that particular post or thread. Rather, I’m trying to show how two people can read the same thing and have very different reactions. One person can read it and say, “we never said it was easy,” and another can read it and say, “by never saying it’s hard, and saying it can be used to escape consequence, you’re implying it’s easy.” It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 07:00 PM
1	Why do men think abortion is so easy? I’m sharing a comment that I think you’d react differently to than OP. I do so because I think it could highlight how people can read the same thing yet walk away with different thoughts. It was from a thread on this sub (I lost the link) where the gist of the original post was to imagine a guy and a girl both say they don’t want kids, then the girl gets pregnant. If she decides to keep it, this forces the man to become a father even though he had no desire to be one. You can guess what follows.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/19 04:21 PM