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ToBeorToBeBe/r/MGTOW15/04/20 05:12 PM
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Women can date whoever they want. Men can date whoever they want. Pass it on. Edit: Forgot to mention as long as its legal and consensual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 12:08 PM
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don't forget the weekly "are relationships with men worth it?" posts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 05:20 PM
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I can open a pickle jar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 01:43 PM
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I have a box full of forgotten bras and panties that I keep as memorabilia. That probably can be one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:11 PM
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Lmao. The stats and rl speaks for itself. Even a little bump, and the wife is gone. Keep on with the virtue signalling and projection
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:27 PM
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Holy Batman projection. Complete this sentence for me: "I lost my job, I lost my house, I lost my _______". The gender which has evolved through millenia to extarct resources from males (understandably so), and in the modern day, demonstrating clearly so and not even bother hiding it, accusing the other for seeking sole purpose of utility? Meme
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:58 PM
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I've explained it in another comment lol. Half white guy born and raised in SEA. Have white skin, blue eyes and light hair and you are shot right up to the top of the SMV due to blatant white worshipping. Sometimes feel bad for my fully ethnic brethren
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 12:38 AM
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I am a half white guy in born and raised in SEA. I'll be fine no worries ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 06:55 AM
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Damn. There is so many men vying for affection for the average women that she feels nothing and just hops on to the next huh. Only if the average men could do the same. Fix the simp/pickme gap!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:31 PM
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I've been with enough promiscous women that I know they are not LTR material. At this point I've gone monk mode, but if I ever fancy marriage ever I'll just go for an unspoiled women because I can :) Very nuanced situation these fo sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:13 PM
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Preach furthermore to a child of divorce. My mother banished my father to the shadow realm over her feefees. We get to live in his property no longer under his name while he struggles in a studio apartment. Keep on spreading the lie of the greatness of marriage and the subsequent transfer of wealth to the "fairer sex". Hope you take some great risks on some wild mushrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 09:05 PM
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https://www.divorcemag.com/blog/divorce-is-harder-on-men-than-women#:~:text=Men%20experience%20more%20health%20problems,both%20stroke%20and%20heart%20disease Keep worshipping the pussy, simp. They will never think or feel of you the way you think and feel for them. When they turn on you, you will grovel and beg. But know this, once they even entertain the thought of leaving, they have already left.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:35 PM
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Oh, and the reward of marriage is basically umm to get cucked and divorce raped for even just a single misstep? Thoughtprocess level=cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:23 PM
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There is less risk being mauled by a shark in shark infested waters than going into a contract which ends up 50% in shambles initiated 70% by women. Guess which one a sensible man would make. Hey, life is full of taking risks, right??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:45 PM
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You are right. r/MGTOW has as many gyow posts as r/FemaleDatingStrategy has actual dating strategies. Oh the horror. Seems like we've all been lied to. Shame. Seems like I too, now have to post about my bitterness regarding women than never committing to a women, huh. Oh wells
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:27 PM
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You hear that boys? MAN UP and roll over for those who will throw you under the bus and destroy everything you have built and achieved over something as trivial as her feefees. Miss me with that bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:09 PM
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r/antifeminists regularly post feminist content hence they are not anti feminism at all sounds like they arent r/antifeminists , so in fact they actually support feminism!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:01 PM
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Same with pussy that cycles through 100s of cocks nowadays. Most men are just too stupid to realise that due to stupid notions of love or intimacy or monogamy, but we are learning. Thats the whole concept of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:02 AM
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No problem . Keep enforcing the double standard and hamster all you like. Men's sexual history should not be a concern unless its illegal, you know just like women's. Where did the equality go? I thought women wanted equality all this time? That said, have fun getting plated or get together and settle for a shmuck who only saw pussy through a screen. You know just like the woman in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:42 AM
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Prepare for trouble, make it double! https://youtu.be/ZBVrPWwSlRM
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:32 AM
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Correct. This is also why RP is against marriage and pro spinning plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:17 AM
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I dont know. How is it exactly racist? I use it to denote clown world, which means it only means clown world to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:26 AM
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Right, the woman would be just fine with it if she found out that her man only slept with hookers or had gay sex. Just like the situation here, were the man is juuuusst fine knowing that hes being emasculated here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:25 AM
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It means clown world, a popular epithet of the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:23 AM
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Women want their standards to be rigid and be given the benefit of the doubt for past sexual transgressions. Women want men standards to be malleable and to accept them for whatever and will not give men benefit of the doubt for their past sexual trangressions. If you could not infer that from my post and bring in what, confidence?? I dont know how else to make you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:21 AM
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If he was truly Alpha, he would realise he has been relegated to beta status and leave. Men out here be tolerating such blatant disrespect and living with it; if a woman was put in this position she would bitch about it, cry about it, claim she is in an abusive relationship and leave. And women say men are the one with fragile egos. 🤡🌍
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:16 AM
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Right. I can only pray that he leaves. The girlfriend is probably gonna but post on r/relationship_advice or FDS and the women are gonna echo "fRaGiLe mAlE eGo" and somehow she did nothing wrong (we are seeing that in this very thread) and she is better off without him. The sad reality is shes just gonna find another shmuck because men are disposable and dick is aplenty. Beta gonna beta, simp gonna simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:45 AM
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This is exactly my point. Men do all of these in the past, other women: Digusting worthless scrote, never be with him!! He is trash!! Women do all of these in the past, other women: Oh honey, the past is the past. If a man cannot accept that, he is a digusting worthless scrote and not deserving of you! You should find a man who will accept you for you! You go kweeeen!! Never settle for less!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:33 AM
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B-b-b-but the past is the past??? Women can literally have multiple gangbangs and an army of women will shame her boyfriend for not being accepting of her current self and "the past is the past" but god forbid if the boyfriend have had any dubious sexual encounters in the past...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:28 AM
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Those who use TRP strategies are unhappy to begin with. Might as well use it and get something away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 07:16 AM
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The past is the past! unless the man in the relationship: Admits that he had homosexual sex with a man before Admits that he was heavily addicted to hardcore porn before Admits that he exclusively had sexual relations with only hookers before Etc etc Then the past is not the past! He is a disgusting lying scrote!! Leave him kweeen!! Never settle for less!! 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:27 AM
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I am hapa from South East Asia, they have white fever bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:28 AM
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Oh please, look at my post history. I dont pay shit for women because I literally cant afford to. Women go through hoops and obstacles to be WITH me. I just want leave this polygamous lifestyle behind because frankly it's become meaningless and unfulfilling. If I cant have what I want, I'll just get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:26 AM
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I browse it so I can be indeed have a mutually respectable and loving relationship with a partner if I ever get to it...it's kinda hard to find that within all the 'male depravity' and 'drop the guy if he even hesitates to kiss your feet kweeen' posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:12 AM
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I'm hapa. I didnt get the height but I did get white skin and blue eyes, so I still have some pull. Also I dont p&d my women and actually rock their world (or so they tell me) so they always come back. In retrospect Im still gucci but the real GG should be reserved for the local Asian men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:48 AM
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Yeah I hear you. When they see the 6'0, blonde, beautiful blue eyed Chad all the 5'7, dark haired dark eyed local men are invisible. Whiter fever is rampant here, they lose all sense of reason and betray their traditional upbringing so they can lockdown White Chad; what they dont realise that to my Chad roomies its all number games and an actual competition on who can score the most women, something I cannot fathom doing to my girls. I have zero sympathy for these women but I do sympathize for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:41 AM
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I am from an SEA country and I have 2 tree-like white roomies; they bring in like a different local girl home every weekend. Basically r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen content generators. Good on ya for sticking to your race.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:22 AM
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Whom do you deem more attractive in general: White men or Asian men Whom would you rather be with if given a choice: White man or Asian man
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:13 AM
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Don't disrespect a Nurgle Greater Daemon like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:22 PM
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Next up, water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:18 PM
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Any one who thinks that they have "won over" someone who whips out their dick or tits easily is either delusional (beta) or probably has a kink like you described (alpha). idubbz is a content creator with a massive following and a role model to some - ofcourse they are going to want to empathize with him and shield him from the precedents that his girlfriend set. Think of it like this - an only fans girl with a large following whose boyfriend is actively cheating on her. She says it's okay and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:43 AM
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You mean someone who dangles a human being like a carrot on a stick and still retain her is an alpha? Sure. This is the classic case of the AF/BB strategy, you know a term that redpillers coined. Not to even mention that there are men that are in as many relationships where he has no said dominance over their partner and just have to tolerate or begrudgingly accept their girlfriend selling her wares online (see idubbbz), ya know the betas that you described. I am not sure why you brought this up…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:55 AM
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Every time I use the search function, I am bombarded by them no matter how far down I scroll. It kinda has lost it's novelty after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:14 AM
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Wow. Just wow. So many red flags, but I guess red flags arent red flags when used as supporting material against an argument. The hamster is strong with you. The boyfriend might as well put her in a zoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 08:03 AM
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Can you confirm this? Yes. I literally have only two criteria for a casual sex partner, basically don't be ugly and don't be obese. Is sex really that valueless for most men? I can't speak for other men, but for me it depends; Casual sex, it's just one of many, and has turned into only a small dopamine rush instance to me. LTR sex, I'd treasure it forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:47 PM
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Sure some of them just want to have casual sex when they aren't getting any, some just straight up get disillusioned by women and suppress their true feelings etc...alot of nuances sure, but in the end it's all cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:18 PM
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Yes. They believe that all women ride the chad carousel and are hypergamous, and the only way to even "the game" is to do it "spin plates" and not give commitment. It's a coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:33 PM
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In my personal experience, female sexual harassment is very real at my workplace. Then again, it's overwhemingly directed at me due to my physical appearance and my locality; in my opinion the reverse is probably more common and no one ever deserves to be put in such a position.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:06 PM
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To me personally, my self worth is tied more to how much I can provide for my family and my contributions to society. That being said, I do feel a little validated on the fact that women find me attractive. How much sex you have / are able to have Alot. Women always approach me, be it for dating or relationships. I have never had to do the reverse. The quality of the sex you are having / able to have Varies on a case by case basis. They always come back, so I know I am at least doing something r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 10:17 AM
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When I said alot if war movies, I meant alot of war movies American, British, French, Russian, German, Japanese, Hungarian, Chinese movies etc; any movie based on war I watch, provided it contains subtitles. Also I am pretty big on history so I know who did what, mostly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:38 PM
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I don't watch porn but I do watch a lot of war movies. No I still don't like war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:22 PM
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Two wrongs make a right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:11 AM
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Women: My body my choice! I am going to ride around on the CC and do anyone and everyone whom definitely won't commit to me! Men: Okay but you ain't getting my commitment. Women: Men won't commit to me. I am going on OnlyFans. Funny how commitment issues coincide with the sexual revolution? Men caused the problem smh. Do women have any accountabilty for anything at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:50 AM
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Oh wow, the typical "who hurt you" NPC response. I can take care of myself like I am doing already, and her if I ever get around to it. You are welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:10 PM
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Immature mind games? Gaslighting someone for a having a critera by calling him insecure isnt immature mind games? Your partner hasn't asked, sure. Clearly that's not in his criteria. He didnt asked for my n count, oh wow what a strong and secure man! Men who ask n count because thats his criteria: Why are you asking!! Why are you being so insecure!!! Women who wouldn't date anyone thats below 6'10: You go sis! Queen shit! Never settle for less!! I have only had sexual encounters with multiple FW…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:57 PM
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Why are you, a woman who failed at her marriage, think your opinion is at all valid and should be considered on a thread geared to men regarding one of the most important decisions in his life? Would you listen to a strange man giving his opinion whether you should get pregnant or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:33 PM
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How is anyone to vet and determine commitment if topics that interest them are gaslighted by" the past is the no one's business but mine?" I have five ex husbands, you didn't need to know. The past is no one's business but mine! I've had multiple sexual harassment allegations by multiple people, but they never stuck. You didn't need to know! The past is no one's business but mine!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:17 PM
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So women are absolutely convinced porn changes how men view sex but sleeping around excessively would not change how women view sex? Why is a man who maybe values intimacy highly and doesn't have sex outside of relationships, and as such want a low n count woman (aka having a standard, you know like how women do) to commit to is always, always shamed for it, namely iNsEcUriTy or FrAgIlE mAlE eGo!! Why are always men shamed for having standards over and over again? COMMITMENT IS NO JOKE. Especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:41 PM
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I have plenty of FWBs due to commitment issues (difficult circumstances), but if I ever got the stage of being actually being able to commit I would go for experienced or mildy experienced. Id be lying if I said my FWBs(promiscuous) are commitment material. Any non-virgin man looking for a virgin woman is double-standards at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 07:06 PM
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If you couldn't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best~~
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 04:51 PM
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Abso-fucking-lutely not. I love women. Idc. I love how they smile, I love how they sound, I love how they giggle, I love how they feel, I love how they smell, I love how they can be so caring in an uncaring world...I couldn go on and on. Most humans don't value what we have until we have lost it. Sure, a sexbot sound appealing, you can do whatever you like whenever you like, will always be up for it, will never revoke consent and the like. But honestly...deep down you will always know and feel, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:58 PM
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When did I ever say or imply they (in the same lenght I) are a criminal? Yes, I’ve met plenty of children that grew up in broken homes. They’re doing fine now. Jobs, married, kids, just like everyone else. Wow you met the unicorns. Maybe I/we have some hope climbing out of the cesspool after all. Maybe you should ask them why they didnt take up single parenting like their single parent. Sorry. Men aren’t needed. That ship sailed decades ago. Move on. Stop obsessing about what other women are doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:32 PM
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Children of divorced parents are functioning tax paying citizens What a low bar. I am a functioning tax paying citizen. Barely so. Everyone in my circle is. Truth is also we are still also inherently already placed in the lower end of society? If we dont work we would be disposed without a thought, and then have to rely on the mother alone and/or genorousity of others, which is a slippery slope to poverty and crime. Same could be said with heck of a lot more crime and mental disfunction Most are…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:01 PM
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What about your children's choices? Broken home creates broken people, does that not limit their choices? They have to compete against the children of positive nuclear families in an already competetive market! There is a reason for the saying "it takes a village to raise a child!" It's funny how my mother's choice has robbed me the abilty to make any of my own, but obviously I will never tell her that because I love her with all my heart. Yet it dictates every faucet of my life and thats not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:12 PM
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Women thinking fathers arent needed for families and vice-versa, child support, alimony and welfare states transcend boundaries. I am equally confused why you only gave US statistics. Is Reddit UScentric or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 02:04 PM
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Just like a child with an absent mother will have mommy issues; a child with an absent father will have daddy issues! If you intend to start a broken non-nuclear family, the child turns out to be broken more often than not! The statistics are at your fingertips! Don't you dare say otherwise because I was placed in a wellness group by the government with similar situation people and the stories are all the same! I acknowledge that seeking long-term partners arent viable as people can become more …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:51 PM
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I am not from the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 01:15 PM
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Take away alimony, child support and the welfare state, then we can determine who needs what. Feminists argue that ~85% divorcee moms are their childreen teeter just just above poverty; somehow even with alimony and child support. I have seen this in myself on a feminst subreddit. Women mostly initiate divorces, women most affected. I am not even going to mention single moms offspring born out of wedlock or 'exploring sexuality' phase. I know the reality, because I am one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:55 PM
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The complete and utter domination of a defenseless human being is like a drug to sociopaths. Whats new.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:32 AM
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I agree with you on the attraction/desire part, and I appreciate you coming to my side; but the whole thing is not confrontational as you make it out to be. I was wrong, he/she was wrong coming from a position of misinterpretation, as such no harm no foul. We acknowledge our mistakes (atleast I know I did) and we go on our merry way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:18 PM
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Erm no, I get plenty of action. The way I worded the the original post made it seem like I said the other women that slept with me did not want to do it with me. I got made aware of that interpration by someone else and I can see it now why its kinda memey. Sorry for the confusions all round!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:01 PM
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Bruh, she is saying Tyrone's kid is aged 6.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 03:23 PM
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Ah okay. That makes sense. Truth is I have never pursued a woman in my life; it was they who initiated it with me. The way she acted was different. I cannot put it into words. What I said is how I can describe it the closest, and how I actually felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:05 PM
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Okay, I have limited social interaction due to my life; so what am I missing here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:59 PM
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Some women actually want and like sex. If that blows your mind then too bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 10:24 AM
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I cannot commit due to difficult circumstances. Id be lying if I said the women who pursue casual sex with me are comittment material either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:16 AM
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She actually wanted it. When she came into my apartment, the first thing she did was throw down her clothes. The pure unadulterated lust in her eyes; is something I'll never forget in my lifetime. I live a somewhat hard life, so actually feeling genuinely desired for the first time in my life sent all the chemicals pinging all over my brain. I got undressed, she literally jumped onto me, and I reciprocated her any and all desire in kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 12:17 AM
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I have numerous FWBs that have upgraded themselves from ONSs from my workplace
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 11:50 PM
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