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This is pretty huge, if true. Red pillers in shambles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:47 AM
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Glad you have standards. Sadly I can't say the same for all guys/girls our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 12:03 AM
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You should probably stay off this subreddit. Too many bitter dejected single men/women, who are here arguing which group is responsible for their dating woes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:57 PM
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True. I hate to say it social media has fucked with my generations social skills. The average dude back then could at least hold a non akward conversation with a stranger. The average dude back then would at least make an effort to talk to people. Nowadays, everyone just wants to use Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:32 PM
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Beta hubby, because I think in the end of the day it brings more fulfilment Lmao. Tell that to the men in r/DeadBedrooms. Ask them if the fulfillment they get from being in a sexless relationship is better than being a fuck boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:28 PM
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Okay. But even in real life, it's the same thing. Guys will sleep with any lady that puts out, but women will only sleep with men who are exceptional. No one denies that it's easier getting laid in as a woman, and this wouldn't be the case if ladies dated down as often as men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 07:25 PM
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Unfathomably based.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 06:02 PM
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My guy, I'm replying to someone who begs to differ. I know this is common knowledge, but someone disagrees and that's why I'm saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:59 PM
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Point me at a single instance of a guy who isn't desperate incel pining for such a girl. Let me tell you: there aren't any. Men don't like ugly girls anymore than girls like ugly guys. Try making a tinder account as an ugly girl and ugly guy. Than look at which gets more matches. Then you'll see, that men will swipe right on an ugly girl, but women will never swipe right on an ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:14 PM
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a therapist would probably just encourage and help support a lot of those “red pill” pieces of advice, Do therapists even give dating advice on how to talk women? If they did, im pretty sure pick up artistry wouldn't have become a thing. In any case, I'm pretty sure the primary purpose of therapy is providing an outlet for mental health and support. Not advice on dating. The closest therapy gets to dating advice is self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:40 AM
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This joke is stupid. Your really telling me if you could see a better version of something you like, you wouldnt try and see what it was? Replace levels 1 through 6 with women of increasing attractiveness and you will see men on the 6th floor as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:25 AM
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It's also very common for guys to say they've slept with a lot of taken women and they seem almost proud of it. What is up with this? Disguisting. Fuck any dude that's proud of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:13 AM
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Wow. I did not expect to see something so relatable today. I swear I could have written this, lmao. Yeah, as one person who went through the same shit to another, I also hope you never have to go through that again. It's basically prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:52 AM
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Dating apps are not the real world. Most men statistically do end up in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:39 PM
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Right wing men are fucking morons. They'll circlejerk to male leaders that notorious for affairs and corruption while complaining about how disrespectful it is for a female leader to party. They have no self awareness, because if they did they wouldn't be conservative.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:11 PM
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Women can be happy single unlike men since they can just buy sex toys and be satisfied on that alone It's only jaded femcels out of failed relationships or edgy teenage girls saying this. No one that isn't actually spite driven is gonna try and argue that women are better off being single for everm Most these ladies are either gonna die lonely, or settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:05 PM
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Nothing. 16 year old me was a stubborn fucking idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:00 PM
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Okay, so it wasn't until your grandmother's generation, that women finally financially liberated. So why didn't these higher standards exist during your mother's generation? Why was your mother abiding by a standard that was clearly eliminated at the age of 5? Bro, you clarifying that oppression happened during grandma's time period doesn't change the fact that your still ignoring my questions. I'm Gen Z too, and I would argue social media has had an infinitely stronger effect on our generation,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:23 AM
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20 years ago the “young people” were gen X. Who grew up with mothers who couldn’t have bank accounts. I love it how you didn't say "ladies of Gen X" but Gen X's mothers. Women in the US were allowed to have bank accounts in the 1960s. Your telling me it took 60 years for women to have standards for men besides just basic finances? Lady, if it was really just "do more than basic finances" we would have seen these standards in the 90s. Yall ain't recently oppressed. Yall just entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:42 PM
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Yes, but ultimately men still have to pay for what women can get for free. Yeah sex isn't a prize for women, but that's because it's so easily available to them. Point is, ugly girls still have it easier than uglys guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:47 PM
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I completely agree. A lot of times we (men and women), look for perfection where, if he had compromised on one or two things, we could have been in really happy relationships. But alas. Such is life. Live and learn as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:34 PM
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A safe space
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:40 AM
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Based. Women love a guy who can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:39 AM
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I always use salt, pepper, garlic and thyme. Simply but perfect. Hope the steak you ate was just as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:37 AM
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Bro, most you ladies are genuinely fucking awful at dropping hints. No, it is not easy for us guys to tell the difference between "No" and "Noooooooo." And any dude with his head on straight isn't gonna take the 50/50 risk between either getting called out for sexual harrassment or getting to know you. He'll just move onto some other lady that doesn't play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:35 AM
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I agree. I can't imagine ever being this open on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:30 AM
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I'd break up fast lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:28 AM
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Does anyone else wonder if there's any chance dating as a whole will get better in the next ten to twenty years?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:17 AM
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Toxic masculinity includes shit like making fun of your male friends for crying. How can we, as men, stimultaneously complain about how men get no mental support, while also defending toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:14 AM
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Men notice this too. But then when brought up many are told "it's okay Timothy. remember, personality is what really counts." Now obviously if timothy isn't a dumbfuck, he'll notice grandma is just being nice. But sadly because most men here are on the same mental caliber as Timothy, they have to literally be told that looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:12 AM
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The difference is: being shot or raped is a violation of your human rights. Find a sexual partner on the other hand is not a violation of your rights. Infact, mandating a sexual partner would be violating the rights of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:06 AM
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I absolutely agree. But we always seem to acknowledge this when it comes to ugly men. Nobody ever says this when someone is advocating the difficult dating standards of fat/elderly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 07:04 AM
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I think the question was directed more at the femcels who say men are nothing but anchors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:53 AM
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Idk who would be blackmailing this poor man to be with me, but there's no way he'd be with me by his own volition. Bro idgaf how bad you think you might be. But there is definitely someone out there that probably finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:52 AM
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Nah fuck that. If women started insulting short guys all men on here would start bitching about it's publicly unacceptable to insult fat women. How about we just stick to respectful honesty instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:50 AM
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It’s because the “need” for men ie when women couldn’t have bank accounts in their name, is gone. See, I'm skeptical of this narrative because 20 years ago this was all true and sexless still wasnt as high as it is today. My theory is that social media and the internet has massively reduced real life social interactions between men and women, and that has made it harder for both men and women to get along today. Instead that's been replaced by online dating, which doesn't even come close to repl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:46 AM
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Completely fair standards. I'm sure you'll find a good man eventually!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:40 AM
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Do everything the red pill says, but for a woman. Maximize your market sexual value through extreme self improvement. Hit the gym and give yourself the body you deserve that other women will hate you for. This is crucial, not just because it will massively improve what you bring to the table, but also because it will improve your mental/physical health. Secondly, learn how to socialize. Do this through talking to strangers at school/work/hobbies. Do this and make friends in the process. Over tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:28 AM
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Not gonna lie, I'm surprised by the pity. I actually didn't think most ladies knew or gave a shit. Your an observantly good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 06:01 AM
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Bro, ugly girl is definitely above ugly guy. Not even close. Ugly girl has all the negatives of ugly guy, expect for at least the fact that she can still pull off getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 05:59 AM
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Pretty sure both men and women go on dates for sex, unless your asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:03 AM
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The answer is simple. Those men are fucking retarded. They want to live in a world where all women are virgins and whores at the same time. A world where girls will sleep with them on first date, but will also have a really low body count for marriage (while he gets to sleep around however much he wants). Those men suffer from Female Body Count Disorder (FBCD for short), a severe mental illness where a man's ego is contingent on his wife's purity (whatever the fuck that means). If your man has F…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:39 AM
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I agree. Arguing is hella addictive. Also it's nice to hear the female perspective on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:29 AM
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Awwwwww. Your my friend too u/ashpr0ulx.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 09:30 PM
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Bro, I got family who are hijabis. Being a hijabi is not easy, it comes with a great degree of social pressures and stigma. Yes living your life by Quran is harder. But that still doesn't make being a hijabi in the West easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:21 PM
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Based. Lmao We are all dopamine junkies who get off proving each other wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:14 PM
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Dude, if a girl wears a hijab, it's a sign that she takes her religion seriously. Otherwise, if she was willing to compromise her religion she wouldn't be wearing the hijab in the first place. Also hijabis are really religious. I know, because I come from an Islamic background. The hijabs in the West, are legit more religious than the men. They are the backbone of Islamic communities are also the most rigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:13 PM
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Bro they're conservatives. Of course they're fucking retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:09 PM
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Dude, most women buy sex toys that are around 5.5-6 inches. Believe it or not, not every girl is into the idea of getting her uterus battery rammed. The obsession for large dicks is pushed more by men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:08 PM
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FDS is the most red pilling shit I ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:06 PM
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Dude, your not gonna cop a hijabi without also getting Islam. She'll leave your ass if your not into the religion like she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:05 PM
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Nah you don't have to be perfect. You just need to be a good person and try to be the best version of yourself. Most guys don't give a shit about your friend group or there lack of provided none of them cause us or you any problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:45 PM
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Q4W: Why do you even bother with this sub when there is so much vitriol here towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 06:41 PM
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I didn't realize how true this was until I learned that the reason they have Chris Hemsworth shirtless was for the men and not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:49 AM
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Well it makes sense does it. The bottom 80% of women are competing for the top 20% of men. If the population is split 50/50 between men and women, and if women aren't willing to date their looksmatch, than the logical conclusion is that women who can't get with the top 20% are gonna be celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:19 AM
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I call bullshit. Have you ever seen funny guys? They could look average as shit and they pull like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:11 AM
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We need spread this around a lot more. Too many women genuinely believe the bar is on the floor for men. I'd love to see how they respond to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:09 AM
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Same advice for undesirable men. You need to up your value by becoming more attractive and making yourself more avaliable Hit the gym, become fit. Follow some youtube channels on how to dress well and wear make up. Then get on dating apps and set up dates. Make sure you look out for red flags and make sure you have clear boundaries. Don't be afraid to tell the guy no. Don't settle for a fucking manchild. Don't go into the relationship expecting him to change. Don't put up with anything less than…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 09:53 PM
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binge drinking Anyone wanna go to Alcoholics Anonymous with me to meet women? /s
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:02 AM
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I dont think PUA community died, I think it just transformed into something. Like, I would say the self improvement community is the new transformation of that.
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:54 AM
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you bringing up sleeping with said coworker either shows you’re projecting or that you don’t know how to read. Lmao. Okay Armchair Physiological Andy. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:31 AM
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if you’re secure in yourself and your relationship, your partner finding someone else attractive and telling a friend that they have a hot coworker shouldn’t be an issue imo. Bruh Did you even read my first and second comment? Or did you just assume what you wanted to hear and interject that into the discussion? No offense, but I literally said: there's nothing wrong with feeling attraction, or even talking about it. It's how you talk about the people your attracted to. Talking about how attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:21 AM
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What in God's name are you doing at 22 to make 400k? Also, wtf do I have to do to get there too? Signed: A random 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:11 AM
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By insecurity, I presume you mean me, feeling more threatened by her sexualizing her coworker than a random celebrity? I mean, I dont know about you but I think we all judge actions based on proximity and circumstances. I dont think that kind of calculation is an insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:08 AM
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There's a lot more you can add to the list: Men don't have to live up to the same besuty standards the way women. Shower once a day? No face routine? Same shirt and pants for the third day in a row? Don't worry, this is normal for men. Most women can't get away with shit like this. The average woman puts way more effort into her hygiene than the average man. And yeah, this isn't to say beauty standards for men aren't fucked as well (eg: height). They avsolutely are, but that doesnt change the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:00 AM
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Nah, not really. Mostly it's all about execution. For example: "Omg! I saw Chris Hemsworth and he was gorgeous." Totally fine. Just an expression of attraction and no indication of cheating. "Omg! I saw Chris Hemsworth, and I could imagine getting some alone time with him!" This one is yikes. There's an expression for cheating so it's a nope. But also, consider, ones a celeb and the others a coworker. My girl has no chance of cheating on me with a celeb, so her crushing on him is less of a threa…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:38 AM
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Welcome back! Congratulations on touching grass and relapsing into gender war degeneracy. Can't wait to see you on the 234th post about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:28 AM
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Your paid for what you bring to the table. Even if your the smartest guy in the room, if you don't have any other marketable skill set, your still just as useful as the dumbest guy in the room. If you wanna get the job you deserve, find a marketable skillset that will bring you more at the table. This can be done through learning a trade, going to a professional school, or through doing it all on your by opening up your own buissness. Good luck. Intelligence is a tool that is only as useful as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:25 AM
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Look, we're all human. It's normal for us to get attracted to others, even when we're in a relationship. When it starts crossing boundaries is when we start to act on it. Personally, for me, talking about how attractive your coworker is to your friends is pushing the line. Like, yeah your not cheating, but you are openly expressing attraction for another person while being in a relationship, and that's hitting the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 06:20 AM
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My guy, you literally have a guidance counselor to getting laid but are sittings dry up in the Sahara. Ask your bro to teach you some game. Ask him for help on how to talk to girls. Or at the very least, ask him to introduce you to girls. If he's not a piece of shit, he'll help you out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:09 AM
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Based and Logic pilled. Good job OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:26 AM
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Alright, but how does this translate into society? Does the common man/woman go out of their way to destroy the family? Obviously not. I dont doubt that there is atleast one feminist who wants to do away with it. But it doesn't suggest what you think it does.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 05:45 PM
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Who exactly is planning to destroy family/society and why??? I think people just wanna do what they want without thinking much of the consequences. I dont think there's some grand conspiracy to destroy the family.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 05:37 AM
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Let's be real here, if female dominated subreddits were held to the same standard against aexism that male dominated subreddits are....most of em would get banned. No fucking subreddit you could get away with unironically saying "All Women Are Trash."
/r/MensRights20/06/22 05:31 AM
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See, this shit right here I why i automatically disregard everything I see on social media unless it's from a reputable source. I simply do not have the time to fact check everything I see online the way you did so I just assume it's bullshit and move on. That being said, I appreciate the effort you put here to try and educate other men on being factually correct.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 05:28 AM
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Ngl fam. The way you used it was absolutely bussing. Fr fr ong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 06:42 PM
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Absolutely not. Women still have to deal significantly more sexual harassment than men. Are more likely to be talked down on or taken less seriously than if they were men. Still have to deal with the deceptiveness of people trying to get into their pants. And yeah, sure they aren't lonely, and get less shit for crying and stuff. But just because you have a different set of privileges and problems doesn't mean you life is on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:13 PM
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Honestly for me, it was a bunch of things. Double standards in dating and social norms. And the straight up normalization and promotion of misandry online. Shit like #AllMenAreTrash and ridiculous narratives about the patriarchy have really fucked up the way I used to feel about supporting radical feminism. I guess the biggest thing that turned me away from feminism was just the really toxic attitude towards men. It became more like getting back at men and blaming them for the state of the world…
/r/MensRights18/06/22 07:25 AM
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A therapist is usually 200 dollars per hour. Pretty sure the sex worker is cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:21 AM
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True to an extent. Like, if sex is the only thing hold a relationship together than yeah, it's gonna fail. That being said, sex enhances relationships and is important for them. A healthy relationship is with someone you love and can have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:19 AM
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No offense but this is totally ridiculous. Let the kid have a chance at life first before you randomly decide he's worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:18 AM
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What evidence do you have to say that misogynists get laid more than everyone else? Show me the homeless fat ass who brings home women because he hates them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:07 AM
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XXL Booty Blaster 2000 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:23 AM
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But it’s not possible for me to look good, by this sub’s men’s stated standards Please for the love of God don't base your world view off what people here tell you is attractive. It takes a very "ahem" unique mind to be in this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:22 AM
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We could more white pilling nowadays...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:18 AM
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Poor photos/ no hygiene These guys rarely get a gf unless they're super lucky. Messy room/ ignoring boundaries/ sexist/ manipulative These things often aren't apparant until after the lady really gets to know the guy. So if your super hot, but an asshole, you could get away with most of this up until she gets to know you. Point is, this list reinforces the idea that the bar for men is super low in terms of behaviour if your hot enough in terms of looks. Since afterall, most of these deficits wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:14 AM
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average well-adjusted guy with a healthy social life, a dating history, and a balanced work/home life the bar is pretty low as you just naturally meet a lot more people. Lmao. Then why do so many average normal guys go to PUA for dating advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:01 AM
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She also duped him up until he was emotionally invested. She pretended to be everything he wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:55 AM
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The bar is so low for men Said the by straight women who have literally no experience trying to ask women out. It's like men saying sexual harassment for women isn't that bad. How the fuck would a man know? Same thing applies here. Just because you know some loser your friend dated doesn't mean that every loser has it that easy. Also that loser probably had something going for him if he was able to pull your friend (eg: funny, emotionally intelligent, mysterious, hot, whatever).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 07:53 AM
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At the same time, your making it sound like there is no benefit to being a decent human being. While just world hypothesis is bs, the merits of being good in life far exceed the bad, and this extends to dating as well. Abusive relationships don't last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:01 AM
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dating is terrible for men, so please bugger off with you ‘it is unfair’. Great. You lose all legitimacy when crying about the unfairness of dating as a male when you don't care about unfairness going the other way. Maybe women should ignore the grievances of men. You've clearly made it clear that you give a shit about double standards towards them, why should they do the same to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:49 PM
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men but it’s been proven that women with high body counts make for less stable marriages A lot those "high body counts" could be the result of women who have shitty personalities and promote endless break ups, and so therefore they are more likely to have a divorce. It isn't necessarily proof that high body count = bad s/o. Also women initiate 80% of divorces People keep bringing this up, but I don't get what it means. Why is this significant?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:40 AM
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I fuck with Islam 90% though Agreed. Islam is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:35 AM
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I know that. But what biological/psychological disparities justify slut shaming? Or in simple words. What makes women so different from men, that sleeping around suddenly makes them bad people?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:35 AM
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The double standard on women when it comes to slut shaming is by far the worst. Society simultaneously tells women to be whores and virgins at the same time. "If she doesnt sleep with me by the third date im out." "Ew. She slept with 12 guys!? She's such a whore." Add in the fact sleeping around is encouraged by pop/mainstream culture, but slut shaming is universally pushed by the same men who partake in that culture, it's actually fucking disgusting. Unless men are willing to commit to monogamy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:09 AM
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Why not? Also, why is this standard only imposed on women? Do you a guy sleeping around in his 20s makes him a bad husband/father in his 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:59 AM
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It's not his fault women don't like him. To an extent. Attraction is built around two things. Looks, and how you act. The former you have no control over aside from being healthy, so it's not your fault if they don't like you because of that. The latter, on the other hand, is entirely your control. A handsome guy can fuck his chances purely by inconsiderate or a dumbass for a single moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:50 AM
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When I was a kid, I used to laugh at animals for having such stupid fucking mating rituals. Ironically enough, we would have the entire animal kingdom go up in tears if they saw how much shit we had to do to pull off a mate. How the fuck did we as a species survive this long?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:41 AM
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Don't you think it's a bit unfair that you got to sleep around your whole life while also explaining to your wife that you think her chasity was important?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:37 AM
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Do most guys not realize the massive contradiction here? Why do guys get to fuck sluts with literally no backlash, but when girls do it they get shamed? Why do guys get the benefit of demanding monogamy when (if given the opportunity) they will be just as polygamous themselves. And yes, I understand that women are gatekeepers of sex and all that, and guys have to work harder for sex. But the thing is, if we as guys just allowed women to sleep with whoever they wanted, maybe it'd be easier for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:32 AM
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I agree that no one should settle if your not attracted to them. But there should be some limits to this idea. If you aren't gonna settle until the other person is literally perfect, then your settling for a lifetime of self induced loneliness. At some point, we all have to settle in some manner or another. And then what happens when you do find the perfect person, and both you grow old and change? What happens if you don't find him attractive anymore cause he ain't what he used to be? At some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:35 AM
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