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DiscussionToLiveandDieinL8/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 06:57 PM
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IMO the UK dating scene is very grim at the moment. Maybe everyone is just in hibernation lol or we’ve all got hardly any money, but both the online and IRL scenes seem quite desolate at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:45 PM
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Just to clarify I didn’t actually have “no fat chicks in my bio” 😆. My bio was totally about me, as I know that listing things you want, or worse don’t want, in a partner always comes off quite demanding and abrasive. In my bio mentioned active activities I enjoyed and demonstrated it in my photos (playing basketball and rock climbing). I understand that both men and women can shoot their shot, but honestly I don’t know how people who are clearly very inactive can think that someone who is would…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:12 PM
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I mean my experiences with dating apps are no less real than my experiences IRL; they’re just quite different to the point that it was a little frustrating and I wanted to see if any men had similar experiences. And of course I’d be lying (any man would) if I said I wasn’t taking it all a little too personally. My thought process now is that except for guys on either end of the hot/ugly spectrum the crossover between IRL and online dating is basically non existent, so equating success IRL with e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:37 PM
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I spoke about this in the thread I made- I generally have and have had much better success IRL. However in recent years my opportunities for IRL dating have dwindled for a variety of factors so I decided to use apps for the first time in about five years. It’s definitely much more difficult and less fruitful than my past experiences; hence why I made that post. I think the idea of meeting people in person is something that obviously everyone should be trying to do; it’s what I’ve done for years …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:12 PM
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This is what I mean when I talk about how what’s average has changed. A below average woman gets treated way beyond that level when using dating apps. Do they recognise what’s going on? Or do they just think that they’re actually being treated in accordance with their status? It’s definitely the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:31 PM
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Tbh that thread was what convinced me to delete the apps lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:32 PM
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Honestly I got some private messages from both men and women and all were actually really supportive. I think those kind of threads just can’t help but attract the “well, it’s obviously your profile/you” rhetoric. Especially because I committed the cardinal sin of not being happy that I was getting only “chubby” women liking my profile. And using the word chubby, was extremely polite on my part. The funniest part to me was people saying that based on my post they could tell I was obviously givin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:31 PM
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I posted a thread about my experiences on another sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/109113s/honestly_i_think_being_an_average_possibly/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf There’s even pictures of me in the comments because I got messages off people saying I was probably ugly and that fat girls were all I should hope for. I didn’t post the pictures to try and suggest I was a male model, I posted them because as I said in my OP I feel like I’m an average guy and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:44 AM
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Didn’t think it was worthy of its own thread, but I found this interesting: https://www.cnbc.com/2022/12/19/kidults-biggest-sales-driver-toy-industry.html Is the infantilisation of society an under-discussed aspect of the changing dynamics between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 08:50 PM
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You’re at university. Honestly, this does more than “skew” your opinions. Postgraduate life is just insanely different to the point that it’s almost worthless comparing the two experiences. I know guys from uni who got laid a couple of times a term, who since graduating have been laid a couple of times in YEARS. They get hardly any dating app action and only seem to get success through bars and occasionally friendship groups. Uni life is just different man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:58 PM
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Whenever you see a guy on this sub or a dating subreddit say something like “I’m an above average guy but get no matches”, do you believe them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 10:52 AM
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Hahaha dude I came to post this exact thread. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/ye2flu/am_i_gross_and_disgusting_for_setting_age_range/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This is an absolute shit show.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:59 PM
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The fact you’d go as low as 18 is surprising to me. Don’t mean that in a judgemental way either lol, it just doesn’t seem typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:14 AM
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Based on something that I’m reading a lot about recently and the fact it’s not worthy of its own thread I’ll ask here: If you have or hypothetically were going to set up a dating profile what age range would you search for? And following that, what age range do you believe a 30 year old man should set his potential matches search for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:51 AM
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I came here to say this. Women seem terrified by the fact that 30 year old men can easily date downwards in age and that a lot of early-mid 20’s women are happy to be snatched up by men in their early 30’s (and of course I mean the “right” man, not just any man). People (women) may think a 30 and a 22/23 year old is gross, but if that couple stays together that age gap at 35 and 27/28 means absolutely nothing to anyone not on this subreddit. I know it’s a cliche to say that women mature faster t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:42 AM
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That’s reasonable. Yet reading through this thread there are women who seem to think the idea of any man, whether they are interested in them or not, going to see a sex worker is abhorrent. I can comfortably accept any woman not wanting to be with a specific man who has paid for sex. But applying broad brush strokes to the issue is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:01 PM
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An extension to this question should be do women think ugly, undesirable men are better off paying for it or continuing to fail in the dating game?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:21 PM
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Using the age old formula of 1/2 age +7, do women really think a 30 year old man dating a 22/23 year old woman is inherently wrong? I know dating apps aren’t the be all and end all but honestly, the women in their late 20’s-early 30’s have this jaded look in their eye that those between 22-25 just simply don’t. It’s not surprising all men chase after those girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:31 PM
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Is 30 and 23 really a big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:57 PM
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I think it’s very naive to think thirty something men are mostly seeking thirty something women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:25 AM
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The problem with this is people confuse policies with ideologies. The majority of my male friendship group support free healthcare, higher tax rates for the wealthy, abortion as a fundamental right, gay marriage , separation of church and state, equality for all etc etc. What we don’t care about is overt wokeness and attacks on masculinity. Most men, I would suggest, support all the things I’ve mentioned. But once a woman starts pontificating on the evils of toxic masculinity and the “patriarchy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:09 AM
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Lol imagine thinking Paul Newman or Robert Redford wouldn’t clean up today. Claiming it’s women obsessing over mens physique standards is projection. Focus on muscles is massively a male gaze issue. This is the way body works when it comes to success with women. If you’re in ridiculously good shape women notice and a majority find it attractive - but they won’t care if your face is that of a cave troll. If you’re in normal shape (not obese) or slightly above normal (athletic/workout a few days a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:11 PM
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Objectively hot? Not a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:59 AM
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The problem with using celebrities is the beauty standards are way different (especially in the entertainment industry). I’ll give you a good example. Hughie, played by Jack Quaid, from The Boys. I don’t think anyone would really say he was handsome or particularly attractive. He’s totally average. Or is he? He did a video with red letter media a few months ago (https://youtu.be/At1EOyY5Hpo) and he absolutely moggs everyone in the video, all of whom I would say are really average looking. Admitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 06:06 PM
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I think past 25, age gaps tend to matter less. For instance an eight year gap between a 20 and 28 year old seems massive. An eight year gap between a 27 year old and 35 year old doesn’t really seem like a big deal. It’s about life experience, maturity and compatibility at that point- things most people in their early twenties have very little of. As for men ageing better than women, there is definitely some scientific basis behind this stereotype. But really, the average members of the populatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:40 AM
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Now you look like a 16th century Dauphin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:31 AM
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Lol I feel that bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:24 PM
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Nah I get that. It was more a hypothetical question really. Like, I wouldn’t advocate going out and getting tattoo sleeves, piercings and listening to music you hate just to get women. I just think it’s definitely one sub culture in society where a vibe/style seems more important than conventional attractiveness. It’s about a “look” rather than looks YGM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:26 PM
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Yeah this makes sense. Honestly the friends that I go to these bars with probably look like absolute squares to everyone else in there lol. But like I said, we like the atmosphere and the music. We all just look very clean cut and probably boring, but I would definitely say at least two of my friends are easily two of the conventionally best looking dudes whenever we go to these places. They just don’t fit the niche at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:24 PM
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Completely random subjective observation and subsequent opinion, but does anyone else think alternative/goth girls are the group that often pair up with the dweebiest men? And for men struggling that’s a niche they should try and tap in to? I know the “alternative girl” thing is a bit of a cliche and not all girls with tattoos and who wear black are the kinky freaks the internet likes to fetishise them as. But honestly there’s a few bars/clubs in my city (a fairly large city) which cater specifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:42 PM
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I feel like turning 30 doesn’t mean what it once did a generation ago. A lot of people are not having kids and getting married anymore in their 20’s. People know what skin care is and know to avoid too much sun exposure. People know what a healthy diet is and too exercise more whilst drinking less and never smoking. If they can afford it, people dodge the soul crushing, stress inducing lifestyle of the Mon-Fri 9-5. I agree there’s still a sort of societal stigma around being in your 30’s and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 09:20 AM
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Is there anything new to be learned from Emily Ratajkowski’s husband cheating on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:12 PM
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I flip back and forth on my opinions on this because on the one hand it would be better if women did more approaching (I know it won’t happen, at least not directly) and if online dating wasn’t so brutal for average guys, but on the other sometimes people do just want to go about their day and not be bothered at all (whether the intention is a good one or not). Really it is quite tricky, as this advice to me is dependent on IOI’s. However if you don’t get them, where does that leave you? Women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 09:42 AM
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Yeah I can’t lie, I checked out your ASMR YouTube and felt like the FBI were adding me to a register and that Chris Hanson was about to burst in any moment. But like you said, I think people are just so used to younger women applying makeup that definitely ages them that you forget that a fresh faced early 20’s human being should indeed look young. Add to that (at least where I’m from) the amount of sunbed use that goes on is absolutely insane and ages people tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 07:31 PM
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Just want to say as a fellow UK bro your username is killing me… or at least it would be if I was an OAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:40 PM
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I still don’t know what this sub classes as a “large age gap”. If it’s above ten years, then I hardly know anyone in this position to make an informed opinion on how these relationships work. It’s just not that common from what I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 01:32 PM
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They basically rehash the same talking points over and over as though they’re talking about stuff people don’t already know. I view it the same way I view only fans. I don’t blame the content creators. I blame the gullible target markets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:35 PM
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I mean, there’s probably plenty of boys who could turn round and say “when I’m with my girl, she pays more attention to her phone than me”. That’s literally just the nature of the beast now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 03:26 PM
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Oh Jesus Christ. Hairstyle and skincare threads as being the sources of men’s dating woes only a few hours apart. Is it one of those days?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:57 AM
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I mean for everything you say, I could literally give thousands of examples of women younger than 30 who have completely ruined their skin with sunbed use and many unnecessary cosmetic procedures. This advice should apply to everybody. I do find the modern obsession with neoteny, anti-ageing and just generally thinking we can cheat and forget about death laughable. It may not be today or tomorrow but at some point you’re going to look old with a turkey neck. I’m not saying people shouldn’t take …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:54 AM
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These stories are pointless because we have no idea what any of these people look like. He could be slaying Moby Dick’s for all we know. Or he could be lying about his success rate. Or he could genuinely be an exception to very well established rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:12 PM
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If a man is considered attractive only with a full beard, are they truly attractive? Or should top tier men be able to pull off both a beard and the clean shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:57 PM
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I’d recommend something like Dark Souls. You can ease into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:12 PM
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You could say anyone debating anyone on the internet is behaving irrationally and should probably make better use of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 10:34 PM
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As a dude I have to say that comparing Sheeran to Pique is a bit mad. I imagine Shakira would feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 07:44 AM
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The problem with cold approach is it’s got a terrible reputation because of PUA’s and absolute socially inept creeps setting themselves daily targets of “today I will approach 100 women and start a conversation”. Some of them are even filming it for “educational purposes”. https://youtu.be/g-2ocZGvsqw This is so painful to watch. These guys are basically just shooting their shot over and over and I do understand why to an extent- people refer to it as exposure therapy. You get rejected 98 times …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 10:15 PM
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It’s not that she’s overrated, it’s that the scaling system of 1-10 is completely broken. At least for women. And it’s broken because it doesn’t really matter as has been proven countless times on this sub. A true 3/10 woman will get laid. She will get tinder matches. She will go on dates. A 5/10 man will struggle to do all those things. As others have mentioned for women the only scale that matter is a binary yes or no. So if you have countless men chasing after 3/4 out of 10’s, of course when …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:57 PM
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She’s above average- meaning she’s a 6, maybe a 7 if she really tickles your fancy. Most of the time when someone says average (referring to women) on this sub, they mean a pretty(ish) face and not fat. Actual sub 5’s of both sexes and their experiences are never really discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:44 PM
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Appreciate the honesty man. I’m arbitrarily holding off on juice till I reach 30, but after that I’m going to really look into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 09:09 PM
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I work in health. Your stats are impressive but your FFMI is a bit sketchy. Are you natty or on juice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:27 PM
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Natty or juice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:22 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, she was obviously attractive from the start. But I think from season 4 she hit a ridiculous peak- so much so that FHM readers voted her the sexiest woman in the world! I think there’s an episode in season 4 where she goes off on her own and deals with a guy who has a talking tattoo? She is insanely hot around that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:46 PM
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For me I’d probably go with Emily Blunt. Throw in Natalie Portman, Ana de Armas, Lily Collins, Emilia Clarke, Margot Robbie, Fan Bingbing. I’d say they’re my “classy” choices. The kind where if I suddenly became an attractive, high status, wealthy male I’d want to date. Then I think you have celebrities who at some point in time have just had something else about them- I guess it’s just total sex appeal. And generally this is more lustful. Which I think attests to the fact that with celebrities …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 08:21 PM
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I mean, I really don’t think that. I shared the link on the basis that I’m wondering if the kinds of people who share their vaccination status and the kinds of people who use pictures where they’re wearing masks actually think it’s increasing their fuckability.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:49 PM
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And if the person you’re chatting to is immunocompromised and unable to be vaccinated?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:24 PM
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https://twitter.com/therecount/status/1395760549170978817?s=20 Is “I’m vaccinated” going to be the new virtue signalling thing people put into their dating profiles in lieu of a personality or any actual hobbies or interests? I mean, are people actually going to do this? Or is this out of touch boomers coming up with shit they think will be “hip” amongst the youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:43 PM
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Wrong. People who already friendzoned you will not suddenly want to bang you. But if you meet someone new you have a much better chance of them being into you if you’re slim/athletic/ in shape rather than overweight/obese. In fact when I lost weight, I even got with some girls who I casually knew (say I saw them every few months/ a few times a year). They couldn’t believe how different I looked and it was pretty obvious from their initial reactions they were attracted to the new me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:31 AM
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If someone has to be physically attractive to you in order for you to be able to be attracted to them, you're probably just shallow. You literally said if you want a potential partner to be physically attractive it makes you shallow. I would argue it makes you a normal human. Is focusing solely on looks a recipe for a successful relationship or disaster? It's probably the latter, we can agree on that. And I'd go further and say I could quite easily be swayed to the notion that saying looks are i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:06 PM
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Jesus Christ. Yes, someone’s attractiveness isn’t really an indicator of how good a long term partner they will be. But if I don’t want to fuck them daily at least for a few years then it’s a friendship not a romantic relationship. At best it could be like a platonic, asexual coupling. But who wants that? It is perfectly possible for people you find physically attractive to have good personalities/have their shit together. Despite what the internet may say hot people do have interests, they do h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:41 PM
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I don’t discount height. Like everything that gets debated on this sub people want to only deal in absolutes. Hence the Height>Face shouts which are ludicrous. Would I rather be this guy than someone 5”3 with a better face? Yes. Would I rather be a 5”10-6”0 guy with a better face than this 6”7 average looking dude? Yes. There’s a balance to be struck. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 05:17 PM
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Look at the third picture, this dude is chubby- at least in the face. The only thing above average is his height. Don’t want to be too mean but if people are thinking this dude is a killer you must either be a homunculus or just have no standards. Also there’s no evidence of what his dates even look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:07 PM
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Exactly. But this just goes back to a majority of women’s complete lack of understanding of what it takes a man to acquire a “good” physique. That physique was not a dad bod. It was a dude who’s normally about 10-12% body fat having a relaxing holiday and floating at around 15-20% body fat. He was still in shape. His chest was still further out than his belly. His shoulder muscles were still visible. It’s the classic female mentality of “I don’t want to lift weights because I don’t want to get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:48 PM
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What is a dad bod though? Remember when Jason momoa was photographed on the beach and people lamented his “dad bod”? That was most definitely not a dad bod. It was a guy in shape, tall with good muscle mass, but carrying more body fat than people were accustomed to from him due to his role as a superhero. Now compare that to the types of dad bods you’d see at your nearest beach or local swimming pool. Pot bellies, skinny arms, hairy backs. Women find that attractive do they? I’m sceptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:20 AM
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Look at kumail nanjiani. The guy is in his 40’s and in less than a year got in better shape than 99% of the population, including people who’ve worked out for years. Yes, he’s an actor. He has the best trainers, all the time to train and chefs to cook his food. But this is a man with obviously no history of exercising regularly and really looking at his diet. He jumped straight from slob to jacked. He hadn’t even attempted to get his natural gains in, he just jumped straight to the enhanced vers…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:50 PM
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I like a woman that is intelligent and sure of themselves. Someone you can talk with and get something back. But most important? She has to laugh at my jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 09:19 AM
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Is this Batman?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:37 PM
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Lmao I came to post the same comment. I’m just surprised he didn’t put “natural” in there to really complete the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:34 PM
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Reminds me of the great philosophers Bill and Ted. “All we are, is dust in the wind dude”. Deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 12:34 AM
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You’re correct. The key thing about looksmaxing or self improvement is that you should be doing as much as you can and as much as you want. Just don’t tell anyone about it and when the results speak for themselves and people ask always, always play it down. You lift 6 days a week, do fasted cardio and watch what you eat. Great for you! It’s hip to be square. Just don’t bore everyone by telling them about it. You’ve started putting on clay face masks and exfoliating your skin twice a week. Fantas…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 11:24 PM
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Most of the women I know say that if a guy asks them out and then wants to go Dutch on the first date they dry up real quick. It’s important to know this is first date we’re talking about here. If the guy is paying all the time and the woman isn’t even offering to split then he needs to walk away ASAP. I always remember seeing a video of a dating coach (I know, I know but this was good advice IMO) saying that on the first date if the guy doesn’t pay he was raised wrong but if the lady doesn’t at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:30 PM
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I take your experience, but 16 and 24 seems very different to 22 and 28 to me. 16, whatever the legalities about age of consent in country to country, is incredibly young. If that dude knew you were 16 and was still interested in pursuing you I’d be wary of a guy like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:35 PM
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This got me thinking- say you’re out and get talking/flirting with a guy you find attractive. You’ve really hit it off. Are you saying when you find out his age and as an example (as I don’t know how old you are), you’re 22 and he’s 28, you’re just going to say “sorry but you are passed my arbitrary age threshold. This conversation is terminated”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 11:37 AM
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Someone like Hassan Piker springs to mind. Whether he’s a total Chad is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:31 PM
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I think when people say older man, there’s two types that are relevant. There’s the guy who has maxed out financially and has his shit together- but he still looks his age. Then there’s guys who are around 30 but are still hot. Francisco Lachowski as an example. When people talk (read, cope) about older men being attractive it’s always from a resource perspective- resources which are used to compensate for their looks. Of course any girl who’s early 20’s will go for the hottest guy, preferably a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 06:26 PM
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Why do all the captions read like they were written by a homosexual male?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 03:19 AM
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I feel like this is more related to the fact that women refrain from approaching a majority of the time. Women drool over good looking men all the time. Some of those women have no problems approaching men they find attractive. The majority will give off signals and wait to be approached. That’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:00 PM
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As a man, I know that in general our photos are much worse- simply because most men don’t spend every occasion thinking “hey why don’t you take a photo of me here!l”. Then, when we create our profiles on Tinder etc we suddenly realise that we don’t even have five good pictures. Plus, it’s socially acceptable for women to use filters/take as many selfies as they like and upload them. That’s just how it is. For us guys on the other hand, filters and selfies are seen as lazy, low effort and unattra…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 06:57 PM
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People obsess over looks because there is a difference between pure, carnal lust and someone sleeping with you because you’re a provider for them. That’s the feeling guys want- it’s why a lot of men refuse to turn to prostitution. They want sex but they want to be wanted; to be desired. To have a woman come up to them in the club, whisper something in their ear then be making out in the taxi on the way back to her place. It’s a fantasy yes, for most men, but it happens to chads and that’s what p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:06 AM
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Does your boyfriend know about the sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:02 PM
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Of course I know this. I just didn’t know that arm length was another criteria by which women rule out men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:23 PM
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His arms are too short? Or he is in general? Pretty sure he’s at least 6ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:59 PM
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Longer hair and you’ll look like Karl urban
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:16 PM
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Any pics of PPD posters? Finding out what people look like and if it influences their opinions could be interesting... No fat chicks though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 09:06 PM
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“What is the best life Conan?” “To crush your enemies -- See them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of their women!" Someone’s been watching too many Arnold movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 04:40 PM
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I think a fair question would be what would you like a man to do in regards to approaching you? Time, place, occasion? Let’s say an 8/9 approaches you on your walk around the lake- what are you thinking and how are you responding? Are you receptive or are you still put off even if the man is attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 05:16 PM
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Meanwhile his current partner operates her own account on only fans...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:27 PM
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Perhaps. Which if true is another reason why imploring men to invest so much in self improvement JUST to hopefully attract women is inherently flawed. People should be doing stuff listed in the OP anyway for their own benefits. You shouldn’t be exercising and brushing your teeth just for women. You postulate that women don’t need tinder advice because they don’t want to fuck as much. But they also don’t need tinder help because... well they just don’t do they? Is that because they don’t want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 08:39 PM
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And TBF, if MGTOW spent more time on helping men actually live the “no women, independent live life on my own terms” fantasy they talk about and less time bitching about women, maybe people would take them more seriously. When I read the original article, I was wondering if the author believed the concept of MGTOW was inherently flawed or whether the primary issue with the movement is the way the message is conveyed. Focus on yourself, accomplish your goals, happiness lies in your own hands, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 08:22 PM
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Everyone should looksmax. It doesn’t mean you’ll have success. There’s only so much you can do with your genetics. Anytime I see something like this I always think about the tinder subreddit. They have a weekly thread on there, a profile review thread. So many average men posting asking for help. Yes, some of them have poor profiles and pictures. But a lot of them are making a lot of effort (even buying DSLR’s for gods sake just to take some dating profile pictures) and still they hardly get any…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 08:21 PM
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I agree with you about online being just the tip of the iceberg. I go out of LTR a in 2019, which towards the end was incredibly stressful and placed a huge financial burden on me. Since then I have no desire to get into another LTR. Some would probably call me a commitment phobe, others would even say I’m MGTOW. But I never would have thought of any of these labels if I didn’t spend my time on Reddit lol. How many men (and women) have had conversations with their friends along the lines of “bro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 08:05 PM
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From a MGTOW standpoint, focusing on yourself and your happiness is a far better use of time than focusing on someone else’s. Completely agree- but this clearly shouldn’t be seen as just a MGTOW viewpoint should it? That’s a very universal thing. So this brings me back to something I asked about the article- is the author deliberately misrepresenting MGTOW or is this one of those truths that unfortunately is hidden beneath a surface of misogynistic content? If MGTOW framed themselves around that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:45 PM
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I don’t think you should be able to at any given moment demand access to your partners phone. It’s creepy and controlling. However as an example (and it’s an example that has happened to me) let’s say your phone battery was low/it was totally dead and you asked to borrow your partners phone. If they refuse or overly question you then this is a definite red flag. Really though if it gets to the point in a relationship where you’re suspicious of your partner and want to go snooping, it’s probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 05:42 PM
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I think it’s probably because they don’t have to put any effort in. The majority of men swipe right on anything they want to have sex with. Women have no reason to put effort into their bios because they have all the power anyway when it comes to OLD. If men were more selective then women might actually have to put in a bit more effort. As it is right now there’s no reason for them to. Rather than stopping so low as to sell themselves to men, as you say they instead opt to list THEIR requirement…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 06:02 PM
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Cold approach for me is very nuanced but I don’t think it’s completely dead in the water in 2020 (well maybe currently in the middle of a pandemic it is). I think people need to move away from the mentality that cold approaching means taking a night out mentality into the daytime. I rarely cold approach, but I do so if I get some decent eye contact/a smile from a girl I find attractive. I also never lead with the usual “I just had to come say hi to you because you’re very attractive” line. The i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 11:51 AM
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Don’t necessarily disagree with you. OLD is king among my age group (20’s), but I will say that I have met and dated far more attractive women in person than on OLD. Honestly there were times on tinder where I could swipe through dozens of profiles and not be that attracted to any of them, both from pictures and terrible bios. Honestly I don’t know if where you rank on a scale of 1-10 determines which method is superior for each individual, but like I said I’ve had most of my success in person. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:32 AM
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Well you’d think so? And yet only fans continues to grow. There’s problem some psychoanalysis that could be done as to why guys give money to these girls, it’s probably a whole other thread itself. Maybe they feel more of a connection to these girls. Maybe it feels more “real”. I don’t really know and I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:50 PM
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I said in my original comment people need to differentiate between porn work and other sex work (camming, only fans etc). When I talk about self control I’m talking specifically about people like the OP complaining that women who cam or use only fans are using the “Life is easy now button”. It’s easy because thirsty, lonely dudes are craving any form of female interaction so they hand over money just for a little picture or video. If you have no problem with women using these sites to earn money…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:38 PM
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The problem with this whole argument boils down to the last paragraph. Men don’t want their daughters, sisters, wives, mothers doing it but so long as it’s some random they’ll still beat off to it anyway. And if men will still continue to watch it, women will continue to do it. Could you argue women are exploiting men’s horniness and loneliness for financial gain? Well, yeah. But maybe it’s about time we, as men, started exercising some actual self control. I agree that a majority of women are n…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:53 AM
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Based Zeus put out a video the other week about how by watching these types of videos (he acknowledged his own channel does the same thing) is pretty much nothing more than procrastinating unless you actually take action. You might as well be masturbating instead. Unless you apply what you learn from these videos into real life then you’re wasting your time. I guess they’re interesting to watch from time to time but the lessons to be learned from them are minuscule. Even then to answer your ques…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:35 PM
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He can’t get circumcised?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:30 PM
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In this instance I just don’t see what the OP would ever gain by confessing to using an escort to a potential long term partner. Not a chance they would find out from any other source. Unless he’s a famous celebrity in which case an escort might sell her story then he just needs to do what he thinks is right for his sexual needs and keep his mouth shut. The fact he’s posting about it here tells me he probably wouldn’t be able to do the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:37 PM
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Everybody keeps their mouth shut and only blows their loads during sex= solution. Neither men or women gain anything by being honest when it comes to sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:51 PM
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Don’t dispute it. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:33 PM
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How does it impact his SMV/RMV if no-one knows about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:13 PM
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Speaking as a man, I’m with you 100%. My own personal theory and experience based on mostly anecdotal evidence is that men are hornier than woman in general, but only in so much as we’ll lower our standards and get with multiple partners because new= exciting. But in any relationship I’ve had and from speaking to friends, if a woman is into you or into her man then she’s on another level much to the point where the man has no need for porn or masturbation and it’s a detriment if he wants to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:05 PM
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That rule is basically a meme. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/fo4rvj/profile_review_week_of_march_24_2020/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf The actual advice in the thread I was referencing is much more blue pilled than just those rules and you know it. Of course telling Jay the 4/10 with the lazy eye and receding hairline to just “be attractive” is a bit redundant isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 05:35 PM
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If you want to see evidence of women “misleading” men I would advise anybody to head on over to the tinder subreddit. Each week there’s a “profile review” thread. Firstly it’s 99% of guys posting in it looking for advice. Women don’t need to and we all know why that is and don’t need to get into it. The pertinent point is this; Each post is generally made by an average looking guy. Many are also made by quite ugly goes. The post mostly goes along the lines of “here’s my pics, not getting many/an…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:56 PM
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Bingo. I’d say the only “game” anyone needs to be aware of is when you’re being flirted with. That may sound easier than done but if you’re not a social autist then it really isn’t that complicated. If a woman is into you they will make it clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:06 PM
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Spot on. Also despite what modern feminism would tell you most women know that their value is based on their appearance. And I’m not talking about external value- it’s how most of them judge themselves and how they judge the competitors. Their beauty/sexuality is the primary thing they have to offer a potential partner; their raw, physical appearance. That’s it. And they will do whatever they can to maximise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:41 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/edrky5/when_is_it_okay_for_unattractive_men_to_approach/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf People care. I know this subreddit isn’t indicative of the whole world but cold approaching has garnered a really bad reputation in recent years. I referenced that I’m from the UK. About half a year ago the BBC released a half hour documentary on pick up artists. Now I know that your average man saying hi to a woman is not PUA, but the po…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:32 PM
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I don’t entirely disagree. But then you get into the realm of going out clubbing just for the sake of it to try and meet women. And all advice, from both men and women, is that going out “on the pull” (to use an English expression) is never a route for success as you end up trying to force the interaction and come off as desperate. Also the fact is that most guys, and I would suggest even Chads, don’t actually enjoy the clubbing experience that much. The difference is Chads get success, most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:18 PM
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You wonder why men don’t approach anymore? Whenever the topic arises on here I would suggest that a majority of women say they find cold approaching uncomfortable. In the UK (where I am) I’d argue that unless the setting is totally right (meaning generally that alcohol is involved and it’s a social setting like a club) it’s frowned upon for a stranger to approach another stranger and is regarded as odd behaviour. Now like with most things that get debated here, the better looking you are the les…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 09:02 PM
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This issue all ties in with how we rate women and men. When people are talking about observing couples and a majority of the time finding the woman more attractive this is just complete social bias. In general I think people (especially other men) are awful at realising/rating the attractiveness of men in general. Even at celebrity status you still get many, many men who don’t get the hype around someone like Robert Pattinson because he’s “weird looking”. These are the same type of people who pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:18 PM
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Can’t believe all the advice in here which essentially is boiling down to “shower, haircut, gym”. I thought that meme died a long time ago. When it comes to looksmaxing everyone has a base level of potential. Sub 5’s are not becoming 8’s just because they start working out a little and get a generic high fade haircut. The guy who’s 5”6 won’t magically grow six inches. He’s always going to be 5”6, that’s the hand he’s been dealt and will always be a factor that goes against him. Similarly, losing…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 02:19 PM
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I completely agree when your rating of Shaughna. However I’m not sure how most normies actually rate people anymore, especially women. Her true rating is a 4, but most people seem to like to give women a confidence boost and assign their rating to their made up/instagram filtered self- in which case she’s probably a 6. She was completely outshone looks wise by Molly though, who probably did have a “worse” (subjective as I found Shaughna irritating personally) personality. What’s interesting to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:48 PM
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The issue with this whole example is that everyone on Love Island meets a base, minimum level of attractiveness. Yes, some of the more good looking people might have quite dull personalities but it’s not going to hinder them in the long run as so many people will find them physically attractive and be willing to overlook their mundanity. But the main issue is we’re talking about 6’s (at a minimum), and mostly 7’s and 8’s (the show generally has a few 9’s up its sleeve each season, but only one o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:18 PM
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Most women are actually unattractive. The difference is they’ll either fake their appearance with makeup, manipulate angles and filters for photos and to hide excess weight. Not to mention women are way more open and willing to go for minor cosmetic surgery procedures. Men are catching up now but things like Botox and lip fillers are very much the domain of women. However the biggest factor is unattractive men would be happy to end up with an equally unattractive woman. Whereas unattractive wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 05:53 PM
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Men swipe right on everything (well, mostly everything), but for a woman to end up with “1000” matches as the OP suggests surely she has to be swiping back? Women would be better off being more selective if that was the case. Then their inboxes wouldn’t be full. Now on dating sites which would don’t require a match to be made before a conversation can be started it’s irrefutable that women’s inboxes are overloaded with desperate, thirsty men- many of whom actually repulse the woman. She’ll show …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:15 PM
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Spot on. My best friend from school is half Asian. He’s about 5”10. Was very chubby up until about the age of 17. Lost a lot of weight and kept it off. He’s a physics graduate with a good, well paying job. Despite his weight loss he’s still not physically attractive. He works out a little but mostly runs. His hair is thinning at the age of 28. His face has more definition than when he was chubby but the structure that appeared from his weight loss didn’t exactly turn him into a model. The looksm…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 04:06 PM
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