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That first one is how I avoid fixating on past dumb mistakes, but I often forget the second... good advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:25 PM
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"What a fool that boy was." Who among us can't say the same? So glad I found TRP, or I still would be.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 03:22 PM
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I believe that was a factor in the project.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 03:52 AM
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Yeah, they do. But why did you make this post? Do you think telling them to grow a pair will help or are you just swinging your virtual dick around?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 09:54 PM
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TRP.RED - I think it has been in the sidebar for a while.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 09:52 PM
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I always appreciate advice and conclusions more when there is some science behind it, thanks man. Half the reason I swallowed the red pill was Rollo's evo psych reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 03:16 AM
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Dancing is a socially acceptable way to show mastery of your body. Girls assume that if you can dance well, you can fuck well. They aren't far off - it's all in the hips for both.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 03:12 AM
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A lifestyle of constant partying and traveling requires you to be pretty well off. Getting that requires exactly the opposite approach unless you are extremely lucky - rich parents or your startup got bought by Google or something. Plenty of guys get laid without being Dan Bilzerian.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 02:35 AM
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Assuming you're telling the truth regarding culture and how you do with the pale hotties, maybe they don't want you because they expect you to leave them when a hotter/whiter girl comes along, and they are looking for betabucks more?
/r/askTRP20/08/17 06:19 PM
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Seriously? You made out with one and she obviously cared about the other friend seeing. She doesn't want you bad enough to burn bridges with her friends. She might want you bad enough to do something on the down-low if you isolate.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 10:20 PM
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They don't have to deal with women's bullshit to properly satisfy their sexual urges, but also have all the benefits of being male. Lucky fuckers.
/r/askTRP17/08/17 06:28 PM
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Excellent summary of often repeated points. Only thing I disagree with is where you say to tan - that may help short term, but the sun damage will make you look old much faster.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/17 10:16 PM
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You can start martial arts before you have your body where you want.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 04:18 PM
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... No, there's not. No contact, hard next, fuck someone else.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 01:23 AM
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Ok, dude, first thing: I don't think those are great signals. Second: if you're not into her, why do you care? Third: if you get IOIs from a girl you are into, ask her out. Last: You are setting yourself up to fail by waiting until marriage. Marrying a girl before fucking her is old books thinking. You need to branch out and get some sexual experience. I don't care if you need to stick to fingering and blowjobs for your religious hangups, but even the most sexually conservative married couple I …
/r/askTRP29/07/17 01:22 AM
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I was in a long distance mess some years ago, and we did this sort of thing. The best thing that I found is to paint a picture of what you would do to her. Knowing her kinks helps with that. Tell her what to do in terms of playing with herself, and ask her periodically how she is touching herself. Finally, I would suggest you tell her to ask for permission to climax. Other than that, yeah, go fuck her as well.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 12:37 AM
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Unless you want to lose a lawsuit and your job, do anything but this. Be alpha, you are c-level, just don't talk with any TRP terms or browse TRP on company time/equipment.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:56 PM
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Physical : Laser focus gaze. Zero hesitation in making and holding eye contact. If that doesn't count, then standing/Moving like a martial artist or dancer. Mental : Calm social dominance. If you can show her naturally that you can be in charge in a group setting through social competence, you get status.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:37 PM
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Then just be the hottest guy who asked her today, problem solved.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:32 PM
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I mean to say that when cashiers ask "do you want your receipt?" your line flows more naturally than mine. Mine is better if they have already given you the receipt.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 09:31 PM
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I love that one, too. Flows more naturally when people ask that.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 07:51 PM
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Go search for videos of blatant flirting, you'll probably pick something up. It may not all be teasing, but you ought to recognize the jokingly saying something offensive when you see it.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:53 AM
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When they give you the receipt, look at it and say "hey, something's missing here." She obviously asks "What?" To which you say, "Your number." If she rejects you, she wasn't into you.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:48 AM
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Go fuck two hotter girls and call me in the morning.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:45 AM
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Yeah, but if you are young like OP, you aren't going to be moving out. There are consequences, you may be cut off from parental income.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 05:43 AM
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You are in high school, let your brain develop a bit more and take it slow. Even Steve Jobs dropped out of college, not high school. Pick one thing to improve each year you have left, set yourself some goals with rewards, and stick to them. You'll be way ahead by graduation.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:43 AM
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Guess what, until you have some major clout you're going to have to put on a blue pill facade in the American work culture, ESPECIALLY in California and the Tech industry. Don't shit where you eat. Suck it up and let her play dominant without bending over backwards for her. Because, end of the day, her dad IS the VP.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:40 AM
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You clearly know that the fucking second her Chad said "come over" at 2am she would do it. Abundance, man, get back to slaying strange.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:37 AM
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How the hell do you soft next your mother?
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:35 AM
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Just be stoic and deal with it. If you're that young you don't have that many options anyway.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:34 AM
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She told you a complimentary lie (she wants you to know you matter to her), and then cared that you called her on it (She values your opinion of her and telling you the truth). I wouldn't think too much of it. Keep giving her orgasms and keep an eye out for bigger flags. Isolated, this ain't shit.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 02:32 AM
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He said "Blushing like crazy." Ugh.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 08:48 PM
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Best part is he is laying one girl on her back, and we have zero reference for how hot she is.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 12:46 AM
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Do you put those right together? Because if so, absolute gold.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 12:28 AM
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It just means slow. Lots of guys arrived here because we were slow on picking up the truth before.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:45 PM
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From how it is written he kept it plausible that he wasn't hitting on the other girls... even if everyone knew that was the subtext.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:42 PM
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He's already decided to do an LTR, he might as well strategize appropriately while acknowledging that it's just a risk mitigation measure. It's certainly not 100% proof against cheating but maybe it gives him a .5% increase or decrease.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 07:32 PM
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Go out and do whatever it is you're wanting to do, see who else is there.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 09:39 AM
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Think about them trying to party at 40, and you killing it fit silver fox style at 40. You have twice as much or more time to live that sex drugs and rock'n'roll lifestyle than they do, and you're not wasting your fertile years, either.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:30 PM
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Nutting is not worth being covered in puke, good call.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 07:25 PM
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On #4 - if it matches your preferences I can't see this as a negative. I like BDSM play, a girl who likes it too is going to be more fun to fuck. Other than that, yeah, gotta agree with you.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 09:05 PM
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So, in order for her not to act on it... she needs to have a gut fear reaction.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:18 PM
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Point three response - Culture series?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:34 PM
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And who exactly is enforcing contract terms without a government and rule of law? Jesus fucking Christ, it's like all you AnCaps have never heard of breach of contract. Take a fucking course on law before you start spreading your opinions on it. You absolutely need a monopoly on force backed by a commitment to some principle to have a stable economy. Without that you have no way to enforce previously agreed-upon terms.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:31 PM
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Just because someone had a rich dad doesn't make them alpha. Landowners got to vote because they had resources, and thus got to say what happened to them. Plenty of those men were beta as fuck, the alphas still assorted out and became leaders.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:17 PM
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Get your an-cap bullshit out of here. Government is essential for international reasons. No loose association of anarcho-capitalists is going to match the war fighting power of a state. Also, I don't care how alpha you think you are, you don't want a world where a sneaky fucker can kill you while you're sleeping. There are no lone wolf humans. A real alpha in the modern world uses the tools available. Government is one such tool. Learn to use it, stop whining about taxes.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:13 PM
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She was, from her fucked up perspective, just talking about consent. Which means he flew off the handle, essentially - had to not talk about consent or he was out. Remember, these women think a man should never take offense at their own sexism.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:36 AM
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Difference between buying a fish and paying for lessons.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:14 PM
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Being moved to tears by art is just appreciating good work. Crying over a death, also expected. Crying over her? Fuck that. Never get that attached or non-abundant.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 05:09 PM
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I love the first date cooking dinner together. You order her around the kitchen, chat as you do prep work, then once something is in the oven, smirk, "whatever will we do while we wait for the food," and go for the kiss. Cue escalation, cut off by food being done. Sexual tension continues as you eat, then it's time for fucking. I'm a fucking noob at game, and it's gotten me two first date lays. Great excuse if you start with drinks near your place, too. "I'm hungry. Let me show you this place ne…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 09:53 AM
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I grew up with an idea that I could change the world, but in college I thought it was too hard, and decided to aim for a simple life - wife and kids, mediocre career, focus on video games, books, TV series. I met a girl, and made her my mission - trying to be a White Knight for a broken girl who ultimately had zero appreciation for what I did for her. I've since recognized that the path I saw as possible but difficult is one of the few things I really want to achieve. I could spend all that effo…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 09:42 AM
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You're seriously advocating totally ignoring all Internet options? I've had girls come straight to my place for the first date and fuck me within 15 minutes. Tinder gets you laid. Facebook, Instagram, etc maybe not
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 04:41 AM
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On #4 - sure, I expect the future mother of my kids to pull some stupid shit, wind up divorced or broken up with me (don't marry?), but my future kids are another story. But by all means, don't have any yourself. Leaves more of the world for my kids.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 05:51 PM
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Probably because the women think it will make them sexy... and the men understand that the partnership track model is a fucking racket and you should be an owner, not a worker bee.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:38 PM
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I was thinking about this the other day. I value honesty a lot, so part of my RP awakening was learning how to cope with lying to just about everyone I know, and definitely every woman I wanted to fuck. But I still want to be able to let girls know "the real me," who I am. That probably comes from a place of seeking validation, but I've come to terms with the death of the BP version of that. The RP version is a curated experience of "me." It's truth, but not the whole truth, and maybe mixed in w…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 07:26 PM
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Note that the troll still spilled some truth - guys who are already fucking other hot girls and are poly can afford to be kind, they naturally have preselection and dread in spades, without necessarily having to plan it.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 06:44 PM
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Reproductive fitness includes grandkids and onwards. Kids of drug addicts and single moms don't do so great.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 04:44 AM
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Yeah, but those guys are your team, man. That... makes it different for some guys I guess?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 04:35 AM
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Can confirm girls will message first if you're attractive enough. Still only in good enough shape to get that from girls who are borderline fuckable at best, but I expect the quality of girl goes up as your own quality does.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 10:32 PM
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Still living in BP fantasy land pal... part of the core message is women love differently than men. What you're calling "real love" is non-opportunistic, which is not how women love men.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:52 PM
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Because being a housewife has been hard work since modern appliances... right. Women are unhappier because men are feminized, and because real work is harder than the bullshit work they evolved for - gathering roots and berries while chatting with other women was always easier than hunting. Doesn't change the fact that educating your whole populace gets you out of poverty faster.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:49 PM
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To be fair the main reason for "teach all the girls" is that economies fare better when all their population is educated/productive. It's been discussed before. The secondary effect is more feminism, but most countries that don't educate women are not in danger of going full SJW any time soon.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 03:35 PM
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There's a difference between "walk up and grab them by the pussy" and "walk up, chat, seduce, isolate, escalate, grab by the pussy." The first way only works if you're so physically attractive that women need zero time seeing your dominance to be attracted, every time. Because if they don't want it and you should have known that, it's sexual assault.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 08:35 PM
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You think use of force is beta? Are you insane? The ability to physically overpower someone is a classic alpha trait. It's why we go lift, and why women find those big muscles attractive. The only reason use of force in the modern day is "frame loss" is that one will always lose when one flouts the law and tries to fight the state with force. So one is only a fool for condemning oneself to no gain. That assumption is so rooted in the nature of living in a civilized world with rule of law through…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 07:07 AM
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Dude, you're spot on that if you're a ripped rich suave tall well dressed alpha you'll get the lay, but getting all that shit in order takes time. I want to get laid some while working my way up to that (besides the tall part), so some PUA stuff is nice. Also, we recognize that anti slut defense is a thing. Most of these tricks to get her into your place are plausible deniability for her. Nothing wrong with that. Some girls who are interested enough to fuck you won't be interested enough to get …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 07:20 PM
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You can have those kinds of feelings as long as you don't base your actions around them. I started feeling something for a girl I was seeing, but I didn't let it stop me from looking for more girls, or from ending it when I needed to move for my career.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 09:07 AM
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Depending on age could be good or bad. If you're talking with a 22 year old she's probably not just done with her first relationship... an 18 year old might be.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 03:10 PM
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Yeah, but the whole world won't. You did. What's your excuse?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 07:19 AM
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Thanks man. Yeah, I'm ambivalent about receiving oral, while anything else sexual to do with a guy just thinking about it grosses me out hard. But I am not worried about gay vs straight, I'll be whatever I am. I do know that I'm a Dom, and have beaten a guy before - though it was totally different from beating a girl, which turns me on, and instead it was just kind of neutral and satisfaction at doing a job well. The dominance aspect might do something for me, not sure. Good thinking on asking f…
/r/askTRP29/08/16 06:27 AM
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Alright, thanks. I'll see if she'll just fuck me first as another condition. Payment up front for her fantasy or whatever.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:12 PM
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Any friends who've had it work out? And were there any warning signs they realized in resteospect they had ignored besides just the situation?
/r/askTRP28/08/16 11:14 AM
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See, now this is a valid concern. Have you been burned that way before, or have you read accounts of that? Or is it just speculation?
/r/askTRP28/08/16 11:01 AM
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Ah, you're right, I hadn't considered that before. Glad you know exactly what my boundaries are better than me.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:58 AM
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Yeah, that's what my uncle taught me. Glad you were here to reassure me, that's exactly why I came to AskTRP.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:44 AM
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Holy shit dude it totally didn't occur to me that might be gay. I thought balls had to touch first. They don't teach this stuff well enough in schools, I might have accidentally turned gay from this if you weren't here. Thank you so much.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:43 AM
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I don't see why you're making a big deal out of someone else sucking my dick... it's rather different than if it was reversed, at least in my mind. I'm not desperate, just curious and looking for advice on how to be safe, and well thought out criticism. I've already thoroughly considered the pros and cons of having some other dude involved, and I know what I'm comfortable with. If you don't have advice beyond "dude be less desperate or maybe ur gay," it's not very helpful. I've read and internal…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:37 AM
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Very constructive, thanks.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:36 AM
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Keep in mind that unless you have giant piles of social proof or something, until you've at least met the girl you're not real to her, you're just another name in her overflowing inbox.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 09:08 AM
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I'm not desperate, I've gotten some other lays recently and have other girls looking to meet. Curious about how I'd deal with it, and trying to do it safely and with the option to eject immediately if I'm not down.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 08:23 AM
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I feel you man, there was a while through high school and college where I wished I'd been born gay or a girl. I never thought that I needed to become one, but I saw how easy girls had it and wanted to have it that easy, too. Once I got a girlfriend that stopped, but I've only been actively thankful to be a man since finding TRP and realizing how much my own effort can change my SMV and general quality of life.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 11:03 PM
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I like the comparison between white Knighting and "cool girls." I will say that you can extend the comparison as well. Men with pure alpha traits have trouble keeping girls long-term, as the girl does not get enough comfort and feels used quickly. Similarly, women who rely entirely on their looks have trouble keeping men long term, as the man finds her boring or annoying when she's not sucking his dick. Primary attraction characteristics - body type, facial aesthetics, age, dominance/submissiven…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/16 09:10 PM
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GLO I love you bro but this is just the art vs life debate. Art imitates life, life imitates art. Kids in the fucking Iron Age probably imitated their parents and tore at their clothes and hair when grieving. Everyone copies, no one is 100% original and authentic. Except for humans raised with no culture, who are barely recognizable as human. Copy, steal, act like others. Put your own spin on it. Make your story have a different twist, take it interesting places no human has before.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 08:20 PM
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To be fair women do like to be degraded and abused. But if you're kind, you cuddle her when you've had your fun and make sure she's OK. Then she knows that you're not afraid to hurt her, you just don't want to yet. I've had a few girls now who I was sleeping with say that I'm nice or kind, contrasting it with "nice guys." I think you're on point here, but there's still room to tease and be an asshole. Just... the kind where girls giggle when they say it, instead of screaming it and throwing thin…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 11:27 PM
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I refuse to wait to talk to the cool dudes. They'll like me because I'm on track to become awesome as well. Especially now that it's obvious I'm trying instead of just being a DYEL manlet. Love the advice, though, and I can imagine it being way easier for sure when I totally look the part.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:50 AM
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So fucking true. I know a girl who's easily an 8 dating some fat schlub who I'd rate a 4. I know of a girl who's probably anyone's 9, who's dated really gross fat dudes because... daddy issues. Love the name btw, prepare for battle indeed.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 04:21 AM
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Pick up BJJ or Muay Thai. Those guys will hurt you but only until you say stop, and you'll learn confidence over time. Once you have won dozens of matches and lost hundreds more, random women smaller and weaker than you won't seem like shit.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:56 AM
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Tinder/OKCupid - I know that going out I can probably pull hotter girls, but the effort:reward ratio is really good in online dating so far. Still new enough to sexual success that getting 6s and 7s makes me happy.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 02:53 AM
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Those statistics include people using them improperly - if you're not a fucking idiot condoms work very well, same with the pill.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:55 PM
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I've felt this before in my career. I'll be working on something and feel like it's crap because I compare it to some platonic ideal form or some shit. Then someone else reads it and says "This is perfect, thanks so much, you're such a good writer," or I read something some highly paid person in my field wrote and I have to wonder what the fuck they are doing, as I am pretty sure I could do better. You don't have to be perfect. Just better than the rest. This applies in dating, too, obviously. I…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 10:05 AM
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Everyone who argues the 80/20 split agrees that you still get laid some in the bottom 80%. Just way less often and with way less enthusiasm.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 02:55 PM
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No. But don't let them run your life. It's fake achievement in a realm you won't care about when you put the game down, and that mostly doesn't translate into tangible real world development.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:39 AM
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One of the best bjj athletes I know started out where he couldn't do a lap around the room without breathing hard. Now he wins gold medals at international tournaments. He's also super nice to new students. Most BJJ guys are. Have fun with it, and expect nothing of yourself while taking it seriously and seeing just how well you do.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 04:35 AM
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Yes it does, women don't rate men on a bell curve. They don't perceive you as above average until the 80th percentile.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/16 03:47 AM
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Read the sidebar, lift, take pussy off the pedestal (maybe hire a hooker). Approach.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 01:58 PM
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Envious. I'm envious, too, tbh. Most guys on here can't legally fuck a 16 year old, so they don't get the first fuck in a hot submissive girl. Keep doing what you're doing, fuck the haters.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/16 06:36 AM
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I know it's fucking weeb animu, but I really felt like the anime One Punch Man covers this topic. Main character Saitama is the strongest superhero in the world. Kills every villain in a single punch. He's miserable - or, at least, numb. His life has no struggle, no striving. The one thing that made him feel alive, fighting, he now does effortlessly. The series thus focuses on his search for meaning. He connects with other people, mostly other heroes. He tries to get some societal recognition or…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:54 AM
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Sour grapes much? It may not happen often but the world is a big place. Give the kid advice instead of being shitty.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:43 AM
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Yes, all that together is pretty rare.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:41 AM
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There are more people out there wise to the game than just those on TRP. I know an older guy who sets off every SJW type I know, because he advises young women to marry well instead of pursue a career. Used to be a real stud back in his day... Of course he's only wise to this stuff after being twice divorced. So glad I don't have to learn the biggest lessons by doing.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 07:35 AM
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The guy who has that frame knows what he wants and doesn't care about the rest. He's not interested in marrying this girl or putting a baby in her, he's using her. Being used in return, sure, but getting what he wants. Referenced OP's frame is clearly coming from scarcity, and he's not getting what he wants. That means he's losing, and convincing himself really hard that this will be OK even though he'd change it if he could.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 10:12 PM
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Wow, reading that makes me sick... I was this fucking close to being that guy. All that drivel made sense to me about two years ago, now it's fucking terrifying
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 10:08 PM
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Hey hey hey, don't liken Blue Pill to Blue Bell. That shit is the best ice cream on the planet, people ate it even when they KNEW it was killing people with listeria.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 07:01 PM
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Let the woman decide if she's going to not fuck you, don't decide for her. Act normally, warn them a little ahead of time - i.e. already making out, not quite to clothes off time yet. If they get grossed out and leave, nothing you could do. If they don't... hey, got laid.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 06:51 PM
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Just own being pale as fuck bro. Don't try to be something you're not, or fuck over your long term looks for a tan.
/r/askTRP07/08/16 08:02 AM
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My take on NoPorn and NoFap: If you're in monk mode, MGTOW, whatever - not ready to go and meet real girls - then fap to porn all you want. You need sexual release and you're incapable of earning it for yourself. Do it healthy, buy a fleshlight so you don't deathgrip yourself, don't spend all fucking day jerking it. Once you've improved your SMV some and are starting to learn pickup, cut the porn and masturbation. Now that you're ready to hunt, being hungry is motivation, not just distraction.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:33 PM
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Are those guys sociopaths, or is the killer instinct distinct from that?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:22 PM
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Probably surpass them if they're holding you back.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:04 AM
2

There's always facial reconstructive surgery.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 07:49 PM
1

So true, man. I know this one guy who is waaaay more attractive than me, he has a girlfriend who I wouldn't give dick unless she paid me. Blows my fucking mind, he should be cleaning house.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 06:49 PM
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It's not lying, it's telling people to not get into a long winded discussion over text. Yes, be natural. Small talk a little. Then move on to meeting up when you've shown you're not a sperg.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 06:37 PM
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My suggestion; go to a new city, or find a new friend group. Spend some time (months at least) apart from people who know BP you. When you come back RP they may see it as a change that happened while you were gone... and that's just who you are now.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 06:27 PM
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Saying that because I'm pulling 5s and 6s easily.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 12:43 AM
1

Eh, I think the 5s and 6s will fuck male 7-8s without a relationship. I'm pretty sure I'm a 7 right now based on the girls I'm pulling.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 05:20 PM
1

Just don't laugh unless she says something funny (rare but some girls do manage it). Keep it to a cocky/funny smirk.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 02:34 AM
1

As an introvert learning game, I naturally do this, it seems. A few girls have remarked on how I am looking at them intensely, or that I hold a gaze when others wouldn't. My favorite response is the one who kept putting her hand in my face like that would make me look away. It's a way to communicate interest without being beta. You look, you pay attention, and then act. It makes her feel sexy and flattered, but not how being told "wow you're so pretty" does. Stare at her face and eyes like you'r…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 02:30 AM
1

Already have, will continue to do so. Thanks for the advice.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:01 PM
3

Mostly true, but the value of making her beg for something she's anticipating really can't be overstated.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 11:00 PM
8

Both of these are true when trying to mate above your SMV. For men, this is when your SMV is too low to get your dick hard with a matching girl. For women, this is all the time, because hypergamy. So for us, we can dodge the relationship if we get our SMV up to where we're happy fucking girls below us - if you're a 9, you can hook up with 8s easily, and 8s should get your dick hard enough. Women are SOL without the discipline (societal pressure) to save themselves for a high value man who has co…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:57 PM
6

Just a white belt, trained maybe 8 months now.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:44 PM
3

I want both, and I'm frustrated that I'm only fucking. I posted a FR a few weeks back about an ONS and since have had some more success, but every time I just fuck the girl until I'm tired and she's sore. Is it good? Yeah. If I had to pick between coming in five minutes or fucking a girl for an hour and a half and not finishing, I'd take what I have right now. If I just wanted to orgasm, I own a fleshlight and a computer, solo orgasms would be easy. But fuck, I still really want to finish while …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:43 PM
7

Had a girl surprised that I did this... she said it was a first. Just leaves me wondering how shit the other guys were. Gonna credit training BJJ for that some - on your back doesn't necessarily mean inferior position.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:30 PM
2

No, you'd rape another tribe's women, but not your own. That shit would start a fight in your own tribe, which is bad business. It's never been a thing that just happened without men wanting to kill the man doing it. The only question was whether the men who would want to kill you for it were dead already.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:05 PM
32

... Is this missing the point or running some A&A?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 07:36 PM
2

There are degrees. I haven't taken a woman to that multiorgasmic state yet, but I consider it a lower level version if the girl gets up afterwards and has to ask where her clothes are.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:10 PM
4

Some guys are just born with the sport fucking gene.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 04:07 PM
1

I'm not hating on dentists here any more than I would on a librarian or computer scientist. But they are not alpha professions. Does it make you automatically beta? No. But it's not something you should bring up. It's fucking boring to most women.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:56 PM
1

What you're describing is not most dentists. You can make it work, like any profession... I know an alpha as fuck computer scientist. But it's not a profession that automatically puts you in the Alpha category.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:54 PM
0

It's just not sexy to be messing with people's teeth. It's important and makes money, but it's always low to medium stakes. No emergency surgeries (surgeon), no big negotiations or trial moments (atttorney/ businessman), no physicality or social proof (personal trainer/construction/bartender/professor). Makes bank, but that alone is beta.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:09 PM
3

I think you may be in a red pill bubble here. I totally get the conquest part, it's why I'm not slavering for VR porn myself. But the average guy is not getting any. He's frustrated. VR porn will give him a more engaged, hotter partner than he thinks he'll ever find IRL, with no risk of rejection. Going back to real life where he strikes out and gets shot down... why would he bother when he can virtually fuck enthusiastic hb9s all day? Will it take out our real competition? No way. Will it reduc…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 08:00 PM
1

True, but that's why you work at it. Get in a good place SMV wise and the problem disappears.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 06:05 PM
1

Easier to avoid if you've got better on tap already.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 03:53 PM
8

I think you're misjudging just how much betas are not getting anything, and just how much VR porn will fool the brain. Current porn is watching someone else fuck hot girls and triggers those beta feelings of "watching the Alpha fuck my girl," VR will let betas feel like real alphas. Who's going to buy a girl a drink when they only get starfish beta sex IRL, and their VR waifu realistically fucks them silly on a moment's notice?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 07:04 AM
1

Then if you want experience you should get the hell out of your podunk town.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:35 PM
2

Dude... good luck not getting doxxed. You have your face in these and everything.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 06:29 PM
1

I think it's very much about push/pull. If the girl is chasing your attention already, ignoring her to do something else you find interesting works. If she's not into you yet, ignoring her will do nothing. Pull her in first, then you push her away and make her chase you.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 04:36 PM
1

Well you won't find out by asking us. Grab her ass and kiss her. If she lets you, she's down. If not, then she's not. Waiting won't make it better.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 09:02 PM
1

Be too busy doing awesome shit and meeting other girls to see her every time she wants to see you. Note: don't act like you're too busy, actually be too busy.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:59 PM
2

It's not doing you any favors, but it could be worse. Get over it and don't use it as an excuse. What else are you going to do, wait to die and be reincarnated tall?
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:55 PM
2

The impression I have from reading on here (take it with a grain of salt) is that you can be overtly sexual after you've fucked her twice if you're being cautious. After once if you're a little reckless. Immediately if you're a model 10/10 and dgaf.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:51 PM
3

This sounds like the right route, frat guys are way less likely to care that you're old and on campus if you're a good time.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 08:46 PM
1

I think the post is good overall and most guys probably need to hear it, I just also think there's not any inherent merit to suffering. Suffering with purpose (exhaustion at the gym, eating what's good for you instead of what tastes best) is noble, but that's because it is wise and difficult. Other kinds of suffering (being an incel, BP cuck) are easier, and attributing nobility to suffering as a whole oversimplifies your point. Still, thanks for the post. I'm reaping a bit this week - booked me…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 06:28 PM
10

I feel like you're kind of on a high horse here. There's nothing noble in suffering. You only get one life, might as well enjoy it. I agree 100% that discipline is key to truly enjoying life, though. Enjoying today at tomorrow's expense is easy, and leads to less satisfaction in the long run. So I take your point about the importance of sowing, I just also think that there's nothing wrong with enjoying the fruits of your labor.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:42 PM
1

I'd believe you more if you hadn't tracked through my comment history just yesterday to be negative and insulting, then played it off as "I'm here for the laughs."
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 05:29 PM
1

I've got a girl coming over Thursday to do just that. Maybe she'll flake, maybe other girls would have said no, but so far it's working. Do you have a better answer or are you just here to be negative?
/r/askTRP20/07/16 06:26 AM
1

No, asshat, I told her early on that I wouldn't do anything she wasn't comfortable with. She said she felt happier and more relaxed than she had in months. Take your speculating and sour grapes elsewhere. Maybe go read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 06:24 AM
1

You should be managing the finances. Don't let her do anything in the household work that is "above" you. Her directing finances, food, deciding when to clean, all of this is effort that should be going into doing those chores and sucking your dick.
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:58 PM
2

"Come by my place, you're helping me cook us dinner."
/r/askTRP19/07/16 02:46 PM
2

They're not doing it for the betas, they're doing it to attract the alphas. So they have to counterbalance the slut signalling by aggressively rejecting anyone they see as beta. "I want to feel sexy (to alphas), that doesn't mean I want sex (with you, disgusting beta scum)."
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 02:09 PM
1

You seriously picked Rowling? Harry Potter has terrible character development and plot consistency. Was it a great read for children? Sure, but she lucked into it, just like Twilight or Fifty Shades. And Merkel, seriously? Vomit, that woman is ruining a continent. Maybe pick someone like Natalie Portman who has acting chops when she's not in Star Wars, and coauthored scientific papers. Or any of a host of other women actually at the top of the female bell curve.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 02:59 PM
2

Look, man, you can only realistically care about a girl's past inasmuch as it predicts her future actions. If those actions never manifest, and you never know about her past, does it matter? Obviously, keep an eye out. Past behavior correlates very highly with future behavior. But if you are vigilant and not seeing any signs, proceed... cautiously.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:49 PM
1

That is like if I said I was 6'6" in my profile when I'm more like 5'8". How do women think they can lie about their age by an entire fucking decade?
/r/askTRP18/07/16 01:44 PM
1

Not always true. Source: didn't fuck my ex for years, she still bawled when I broke up with her.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:54 PM
25

"I'll be your gf if you give me that party hat" "LOL pz" First place I learned girls will fuck you out of your hard earned wealth for no return.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 07:42 AM
2

Eh, if it's bothering you, it might be worth getting laser resurfacing or something like that. But remember that even really ugly guys get laid with good game... so it's probably not doing you any favors, but you're not fucked either.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 07:34 AM
2

The sub actually broadly recognizes that truly Dark Triad people are usually really fucked in the head and have trouble being happy. However, they naturally have high success in some areas of life; for this reason we imitate and study them, but don't aspire to truly be like them at a core level.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 05:56 PM
2

That's stupid, enjoy dumping every girl ever. Self control and actions matter.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:40 PM
5

No, she's the one giving you what you want out of a relationship (sex) without you giving her what she should be pursuing (commitment). Fucking her regularly, even if on her terms, with no strings attached, is a win for you. Losing for men is orbiting, providing commitment with no sex.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:34 AM
6

Eh, coming up with a bullshit story isn't immoral, or weak. It's an opener, just another tool in the playbook. Not using it because it's a crutch is like not lifting weights, or not dressing well, or deciding that you'll only pull girls while completely silent.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:32 AM
1

Just because she might want to a little doesn't mean she will
/r/askTRP14/07/16 06:57 PM
1

Yeah, will do something like if there is a next time... as there should be if I keep pursuing action.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 06:22 PM
3

Maybe don't shit on the guy giving you good advice? You come in here asking for help and when someone throws criticism at you, you pull out words you've clearly only heard, never read, and get whiny. 1000 texts is way, way too many. This is Red Pill Truth and has been for a while. Texting does not generate attraction. You're basically asking how to skip all the real work of building attraction and escalating to sex the first time, but that's step one of plating a girl. Do what the other guy said…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:49 PM
1

You'll get there, keep at it. Approach. Always be closing. It will work eventually, and you've got me beat on physique.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 01:33 AM
21

"I'm a professional hermit. Sit on a mountaintop and dispense wisdom to the worthy." "I'm a cat whisperer." "I'm a gay for pay porn star." "I'm a professional 'before' model." Bullshit answers with a smirk to show you don't care.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 09:57 PM
8

Eh, I'd say plain is a 5. She was cute. What the fuck do you care? I enjoyed fucking her. Pressured into having sex isn't the right term, either. Maybe you missed the part where I said she asked to suck my dick? Or the part where she wanted to go a second round enough that she promised she would be quiet? Maybe you've been Chadwick J. Thundercock since age 13, but this was a big step for me. Take your negativity and shove it.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:38 PM
1

I don't see a need to be bigger than my natty friends. You do you bro.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 02:30 PM
5

Holy shit man, do you post anything here that isn't just negative?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:28 AM
2

Yeah I'm not worried about my height, but it's not doing me any huge favors either. I'm pushing for a bulk now and taking creatine, and doing a 4 days a week plan I got off bodybuilding dot com. Thanks for the advice, looking forward to that myself.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:57 AM
8

Well I just meant that I probably should have said something the very next day like "I had a great time last night, looking forward to seeing you again," despite saying that while she was leaving. Instead I waited a few days to say that, and I think that was where I dropped the potential plate.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 02:02 AM
-1

Eh, my bjj friends who are ripped as fuck and fanatically natty would disagree.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 01:20 AM
2

I mean, you still have to approach and talk to them, it's just a densely packed day game venue. What is your problem dude?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 01:19 AM
6

You serious? Fucks sake man, because nice clothes look nice. Wear them. Seriously what the fuck is this question. Go read masculine style on rake, rugged, and refined.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:54 PM
6

I dunno man, I hooked up with a girl last week who was talking about installing it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:14 PM
15

It's about meeting hot girls IRL via an app that is surging in popularity. It's like setting up an instant day game venue.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:13 PM
22

It's a phenomenon that will last a couple weeks at least... and it's a way to meet those introvert girls who are normally at home. No reason not to make use of it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:12 PM
1

Also it's on your phone and requires going outside, so it's got a low barrier to entry.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:07 PM
14

You magnificent bastard, that's very clever. May actually drop some money on lures now.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:05 PM
1

That depends entirely on your definition of big.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 06:01 PM
1

No, that's Dread, and it's how you keep a girl.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 05:05 PM
0

... ask her how old she is before you get her number / take her out to coffee.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:58 PM
3

Dunno. "I'm coming over, and we're fucking" might work. If she refuses, smile politely, walk out, and let her figure out that she fucked up. The only power you have is the willingness to leave. Don't threaten it, just do it. Let her earn it back if it works for you, but an apology for her behavior without a change doesn't get you any more laid.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 07:18 AM
1

If you don't want kids yourself, you don't get what those of us who do are processing. Yes, I know kids are a huge sink of time and money. They can wind up dead before you, or they can have a shitty relationship with you. My brain has such a drive to paternal instincts, though, that it still seems worth trying.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:14 AM
2

Well you take those feelings, feel them really hard, and then don't act on them. I dumped my LTR while still loving her deeply, because I couldn't be happy with her anymore. Goals didn't align. It hurt to see her cry, but that didn't change what had to happen. So you may feel, but you're a man, and now you at least know the risk. The cup is already broken.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 07:10 AM
2

Yeah, exactly. You don't initiate, let her do it. Spend that energy on other girls. If she's fixable, she'll fix herself when you stop feeding her attention. If not, then she was already broken.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:57 AM
5

If she's turning down your requests for sex and you're cuddling her all night, you've lost frame, and she's not being a good plate. Withdraw attention until she behaves, or just next her and find other girls to fuck
/r/askTRP10/07/16 06:42 AM
4

Do you like martial arts at all? I really like BJJ, it's a good sport for thinker types. No concussions either, but still fighting, which is as alpha as it gets. On talking about yourself, no, that's not what you want to be doing exactly. I recommend reading Roosh's "Bang" and "Day Bang." It's helped me figure out game better. Gave me a decent framework at least. Real listening and engagement is still key, though. If you're not adapting to what she's saying, she'll figure out what you're up to. …
/r/askTRP10/07/16 03:18 AM
0

My own mother was impressively non-hypergamous. She ultimately left my father when he was failing to satisfy either part of the Alpha Bucks potential he had shown in young adulthood. Was she hypergamous, generally? For sure. She ended an engagement to be with my dad after he fucked her good. Then she never met a man who impressed her the same way. Can't recall when I learned this. It was too late to do me much good, I had already learned that I didn't care if a girl had a boyfriend, I would take…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 01:50 AM
9

That's the most important thing for sure, but the scale is real. You'll get harder and stay harder if she's hotter.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 01:36 AM
20

Humor, teasing, physicality. Lift. If you have muscles, dress well, and demonstrate confidence, your SMV goes up. Guys who are tall, ripped, and have good facial aesthetics can pull girls without saying a word. But... most guys still mix in talking, dropping interesting bits about themselves that get girls to ask more about that subject, and let the guy show off in a natural way. But not your whole fucking life story, and not the parts that make you seem beta. If you go for physicality quickly -…
/r/askTRP10/07/16 01:32 AM
2

Are you isolating before going for the kiss? If she's just met you and feels like she's in public, she's going to be more resistant.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 10:55 PM
1

You say "could have" like it's not possible any more... but all it takes is getting past the jealousy and trying to learn from him now and be happy for him.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:26 PM
3

Figure out what it is she's trying to get out of you, and stop giving it to her.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 07:20 PM
37

She also probably figures he's out of her league, so she gets more out of it by rejecting this guy and hamstering that she's so valuable she can pass on a guy like that.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 03:13 PM
3

I agree, for sure. Domesticated livestock is like plates. More work up front but if you manage it right, keeps on producing... and end it when it's not worth it anymore.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 07:16 AM
3

Curious - on Black Knighting like that, how often does that work out that way? I'm sure you were doing it for yourself as that's the essence of Black Knighting... but what usually happens when you call a girl to the floor and show her you're wise to the games she's playing on another guy?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:37 PM
17

It takes two things to enjoy being a sugar daddy: enough money that you're not going broke doing it, and a strong ability to delude yourself that the girl likes you. Otherwise you just pay whores by the hour, enjoy their bodies, and then make them leave.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:27 PM
1

Mostly they stuff unhealthy calories in with soda. You can guzzle soda like water if you aren't tracking it, and still not feel full.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:21 PM
9

And yet, some men do just that - hunt, clean, season, cook their own meat. Lots more pick up some of the steps on the way. Obviously there is nothing wrong with buying prostitutes, but you have to admit there is a different itch scratched by getting the thing you want directly instead of with money.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:15 PM
3

... idk about you but Natalie Portman was still fine as fuck with a shaved head in V for Vendetta.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:07 PM
4

Dude if she comes over to your place, escalate to sex. Girls know what it means to come over to your place.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:50 PM
2

Good, you'll get there then
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:20 PM
1

There was a post on TRP pretty recently about the merits of psychedelics in dealing with anxiety and depression. Look it up, think about it.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:14 PM
1

Could be anything. If she's turned off by the condoms she wasn't that into you.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:12 PM
3

Then go lift
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:11 PM
1

I've read conflicting advice on that. Some say to push for the kiss on the first date even if you don't have the logistics for sex. Others say what you just did. I think if I can see the logistics for sex being possible that date but not immediately present, you're right. But if it's not happening that night, I would think it's important to do some physical escalation.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:04 PM
1

I get that you're saying kisses don't count for much, that's why I'm not writing a fucking field report crowing about it. Are you also saying that, yes, girls who you have fucked already will pursue more, but that kisses don't have this effect?
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:26 PM
2

So, you're saying "you guys make me feel bad but you probably are fucking uggos, btw I banged 50 girls, and once a 10?" Take your bruised ego and go home, maybe lift and get some game. Slay Swedish pussy, idgaf, but don't whine here about people bragging and then brag yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:46 PM
2

Girl sounds very into you. Just keep your head on straight and remember that you're the prize and can walk away whenever. Nothing wrong with catching feelings so long as you don't tell her about them, and don't act like they control you. Keep the 2:3 ratio in mind.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 03:29 PM
1

Yes, but "can live off that" is treading water. You need to be building something if you ever want to do more than that.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:43 PM
2

Helps to not sign up for wage slavery. First-year associate attorneys are getting reamed even at the most lucrative big law firms. Like in everything else, you want to be an owner. The trick is learning how to drum up clients... this is what partners at big firms do, and IMO learning from them is the only reason to work for firms like that.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:29 PM
1

Here we see the other way to make bank, be an attorney (with clients that pay).
/r/askTRP05/07/16 09:25 PM
1

It's a question of ego. Do you want to sleep with girls who legit want you? This takes an enormous amount of time and effort, and at least half decent genetics. Or do you want to get your dick wet in the hottest girls in the minimum amount of time? This is cheaper but for some unfulfilling. Both strategies are valid ways to get laid, but for me I can only see going for women who actually want me. Besides, if I want kids I need to learn serious game to have a prayer of keeping a family together. …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 06:26 PM
1

It's another dating app and IMO a little worse than Tinder. You don't need to match up with what a girl thinks she wants to plate her. Girls will change their opinions to fit yours if they fall for you anyway. That said, cast a wide net. Keep it low effort and you can get some dates easily.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 04:03 PM
2

I've been there. I broke up with my LTR nearly a year ago in part to try to find that fairy tale love. I had wanted it my whole life up to that point. I've since realized that unconditional love only comes from your parents, maybe siblings. Every other kind of love is conditional. You can create a great love, though. It won't be unconditional, you won't just stumbled into it. You can manage the conditions and make a girl fall for your muscles and game by developing them, and maintaining them. Yo…
/r/askTRP01/07/16 03:59 PM
1

I love the ideas here, but I am not clear on how to apply them to the real world in everyday life. Can you give me some insight?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:40 PM
1

Fair point. I haven't been on PoF, just know that Tinder is pretty vague on that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 03:22 PM
1

They're filtering for guys who dgaf they have kids. It's going to come up eventually, makes sense to put it out there. You're also totally right to next them immediately, you aren't what they are looking for... and they definitely aren't what you're looking for.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 02:33 PM
2

I totally agree. I moved somewhat recently, and it's kind of crazy what being around nobody who knew the old me has done. HB7 I know through work (not shitting where I eat) said I was "forbidding" the other day. That has never been me before. A colleague said that I make friends easily. Again, that is not how anyone who knew the old me would describe me. If you're trying to change your life, make a clean break. Go across the country for work and just know nobody. Without old social patterns to f…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 02:29 PM
3

Seems valid to me, those are the exact things I was thinking would be why to not fuck again without being beta excuses.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:42 PM
1

Well, there's always murder. Invite him over to your place, put on some Huey Lewis. But seriously, what is this guy's position compared to yours? If he's not above you at work, figure out what pushes his buttons. He's clearly got your number and it sounds like he's being a dick, best thing is if you can get him to lose his cool while keeping yours.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:41 PM
2

Yeah demote her priority for sure. She'll get the message and either change her behavior, or you just drop the plate. No reason to give a girl who's pulling this on you priority.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:36 PM
2

I would ask why you aren't screwing your wife again instead - and if there was a good reason then whatever, jerk it to that, but most reasons would not qualify.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:30 PM
2

I've missed workout days before, and I get mad at myself for being so lazy. I take that to the gym the next time and use it to push out one more rep or five more pounds. You may not be able to undo a mistake or regression, but you have a lot of time left on this planet to make up for it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 04:01 PM
1

If you are on track to be the baddest motherfucker on the planet, act like you're already him. Do what he would do, while keeping up with becoming him... fake it til you make it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 03:02 AM
2

Interestingly, an article just went up yesterday about the medical community doing research into how psychedelics can help with mental illnesses, as well as just general wellness. The research seems to say that it's sort of the inverse of a PTSD event, leaving a lasting positive impact on mental processes, behaviors, and life satisfaction. I'm afraid your post combined with that article has made me want to try LSD and psilocybin in a controlled environment with sober people that I trust. Article…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 08:17 PM
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This belongs more on AskTRP, but: You're not necessarily doing anything wrong. Only go for women you are attracted to, for sure. But maybe spend less time looking at model level girls online, or watching pornography. That will help you find girls attractive that are more like 7s or 8s. If that doesn't work, stop chasing pussy and become a millionaire Chad. Then those girls will be begging to get with you, because you'll be the 1%.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 05:04 PM
3

I know girls with the handles "____ monster", "kitten ____ ," and "____ kitty" and you're spot on.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 01:59 PM
1

Technically we do usually respond with memes, just not shitty image macros. Original memetic theory is about the spread of ideas, and which are most fit. TRP core theories are very memetically fit, because they accurately describe the world and bring utility to the knower. It's an idea that is unlikely to be forgotten once known, which is part of why we call it the Red Pill. So, yeah, we spread the good word whenever someone shows up, and try to give them the advice they need, even if it's not w…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 12:48 PM
1

The main allure of rope is suspensions, from my experience. I don't get it, but I'm not a sub.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:53 PM
8

Simple color system. Yellow is hold on, back off. Red is full stop. Blue is technical, like have to shit and don't want to shit on the bed.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:48 PM
2

A lot of it is also technical skill with toys and rope and such. But that's good, yeah. It's true of most of the Dominants who get into communities. I couldn't cum my first time until I blindfolded and handcuffed my girl, so... yeah. I get you.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:36 PM
2

Sure, you should feel that way about your value as a person overall. But be realistic regarding your SMV. You wouldn't pick a fight with a BJJ black belt when you're just starting out. By the same token, don't jump into a kink community as a noob and expect to immediately be able to compete with the experienced Dominants. If you're already spinning plates and have your physique on lock, go for it. But it's a hunting ground, and you may run into a bigger predator who's been in the game longer.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:59 PM
1

Don't schedule anything until she's free. Then escalate that time. Meanwhile keep finding other girls. Abundance is key.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 02:11 PM
4

Careful with low self worth girls. They will tell you that "you deserve better" when they fuck up. They will be super needy and get sad if you don't keep giving them comfort. It's very easy to slip into full comfort mode, at which point all sexual tension is destroyed. If you LTR her and try to improve her self worth, she'll change her tune, think you're a beta, and leave you. In short, unless you want to help some other dude have a better version of her, stay alpha and dgaf if she's sad. Build …
/r/askTRP23/06/16 02:07 PM
1

I agree 100%, hypergamous instincts can only be minimized, not removed.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 12:05 AM
5

Sure, that's the strategy. But there are probably other guys already trying just that. On the other hand if you're single, into bdsm, and want to learn, the older dudes with multiple slave girls are probably good mentors.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 09:45 PM
2

I don't care if this happened or not, it's a damned good story.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 09:18 PM
3

That's the thing, man, they emotionally know it, but rationally they don't. That's the power of the hamster, the power of rationalization.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 05:50 PM
1

Fuck the haters man you ran solid game and kept frame. Even the greats don't expect to always get a first date lay.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:27 PM
1

Height isn't a death sentence but it's an uphill battle... But easy is boring anyway. Good on you bro.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:26 PM
6

As a parallel, if your girl is hot and gets into a kink community, the "It's just play" mentality can fuck up a relationship. She'll be in higher demand, and unless you're the hottest or most dominant man in the kink community, you will start to seem more beta. Only join these if you are already spinning plates and you want to pick up a few more.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:24 PM
2

Submissive won't fix crazy, no, but there's nothing wrong with a girl wanting to be Dommed hard.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:21 PM
3

I'll second this as someone who's been in an LTR with a sick girl. It's not easy. Your frame can fall apart really quickly in the face of medical realities. Could be good practice for holding emotional frame when she's losing her shit, but it will tear you up inside if you care about this girl. Think hard about what you're doing, and remember that if this relationship isn't working for you anymore, you have every right to leave. You don't owe it to her to take care of her.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 05:18 PM
2

Yes, but when that happens to TRP members we don't get people put away, because our beliefs are taboo and the Healthy at Any Size movement isn't. It's not applied evenly, despite consequences usually being much higher for us here than some fat slut.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 01:48 PM
1

Ah, no, I didn't. Read the post, which didn't mention that it was in fact being investigated as a homicide.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 03:14 PM
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It looks like it was more than just a one off comment, and included talking about raping her. So it was a little more than the initial sniping and joking. That said, I think this shouldn't be a crime, more an issue for moderators or site managers. The Internet is a place where people tell you to kill yourself for being bad at a video game. If you don't like it, don't read it.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:32 PM
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Hello again anger, thought I was mostly past you. How is this not being looked at as a homicide? Are we that deep into the "women are wonderful" narrative? EDIT: OK, good, world is sane, should have clicked the link instead of just reading the post.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:29 PM
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Do you need every field report to be about how much pussy a guy smashed? The idea is to show that even a guy with relatively weak game like me is still miles ahead of a lot of society.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 12:52 PM
8

Roosh's advice in Bang is to do a cold read sort of thing. "Let me guess, you're ______," or sarcastically/seriously say "You look like you're having the most fun here," depending on whether she actually seems to be having a good time. Cold reads either impress a girl that you guessed right, or get her qualifying to you. Sometimes both.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 05:31 AM
2

Yeah, this ice cream was earned by eating 0% fat Greek yogurt earlier... and I'm only eating two servings, not a pint.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 04:13 AM
9

Don't have to be all that ripped for a v-neck to look decent / better than other t-shirts. Sure it's better if ripped, and bad if fat, but just slim and a little muscular is all you need.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:41 AM
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It can go the other way, too. I and my siblings have a great relationship with our mom and dad both. We're probably the best thing in both of their lives now that they're around 60. Would they have been better off in the meantime not having us? I doubt it. They both wanted kids, neither are the type to do cruises and such. But not everyone is like my family.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 02:02 AM
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I agree in general, but if you know some girl is 18 and in a club with a fake ID that got past the bouncers, would you rat her out? That's about the equivalent here for me, except she was t-minus two weeks from 21.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 12:16 AM
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There's some luck in just being who you are, genetically. Some men have tall genes, some are born rich, others had dads who taught them TRP truth from boyhood. But relying on what you didn't earn and complaining about how lucky someone else is... that's lazy and whining. Make the best of what you have.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 10:57 PM
3

You're spot on that most people won't want to wake up. So we put this stuff here for those who have already been awakened by reality, the men who are looking for answers. I sure as shit wasn't ready for this message until my Disney bullshit "omni vincit amor" beliefs were shattered by a long, slow betrayal. But once I woke up a little, this sub was here for me. If someone had tried to shove it down my throat earlier, I might have never checked it out when I was ready to listen. So, you may do mo…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 09:26 PM
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I don't think it's a good idea to do this. You won't get support. If you have feelings for the girl, and she leaves over this, your emotional state will be even worse. It's a lose-lose, and only makes sense if you have no friends or family to rely on... at which point what the fuck are you doing, go make some male friends. They'll help a bro out b/c they can actually remember that you're not usually in need of support and this is just a low point. Women will forget all your previous strength. Ma…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 09:09 PM
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It's informed by the "women are mysterious" myth, which is another facet of the equalism myth. "Women don't act like men, but are the same due to equalism being indisputably true; therefore their actions that don't fit with equalism are just chaotic and you only attract women through chance." It's pretty dumb, yeah.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 09:02 PM
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Lol, she was two weeks out and had already switched her armband for one that let her get booze. No risk to me, bro. Was just not being a buzz kill. Wouldn't do that shit in another setting, obviously. You're generally right.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 08:12 PM
1

Not exactly what I meant with the comment, more meant most parents who don't care for their children properly are a real mess overall. But good luck getting your marriage back on track/exiting and rebuilding.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:06 PM
3

You're using shaming language and arguments of morality to put down someone else's material success.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 02:47 PM
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You're spot on. And some men are still losers. I'm still not enough of a winner to get real sex at a satisfactory frequency. But if I keep jerking it to porn forever, it's too easy to stay a loser. I've been cutting way back on porn and masturbation (once every two weeks or so instead of nearly every day), and I'm pushing myself out of my comfort zone to get what I actually want. I'm sick of feeling like a loser as I go toss some tissues in the trash can.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 07:20 PM
2

First girl I ever asked out in person, well before TRP. I walk up to her desk after class. I open my mouth. My vision goes black, and I feel like I'm about to pass out. "Hey, would you go on a date with me?" "Sure. See, that wasn't so hard, was it?" She'd known I was interested for months, apparently. Needless to say, I was beta as fuck on the date and didn't escalate at all. She wasn't attracted to me at all. Do I regret it? No way, she wasn't even that cute. What I regret is not going for the …
/r/askTRP17/06/16 11:34 PM
10

Asian girls are super willing to get a lot of surgery to look better. It doesn't have the same stigma as in the west. Only starts happening with fake tits and in older women over here.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 01:31 PM
8

"I have to return some video tapes."
/r/askTRP17/06/16 01:27 PM
1

There is a very recent post on body weight fitness. Doesn't require going to the gym. That said, people at the gym are usually positive about out of shape people being there... everyone started out of shape at some point.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 06:59 PM
3

Dated a girl who wanted me to basically be her father figure... but not in a sexual way, just platonic affection and endless emotional support. Even as BP as I was, I knew that wasn't what I wanted at all. Daddy issues are super common but the worse they are, the bigger the red flag.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 09:23 PM
1

Probably better off asking in finance subreddit.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:02 AM
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"If by FWB you mean you're at my place in 10 minutes wearing nothing but an overcoat when I text you, and otherwise I don't hear from you, maybe we could work something out."
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 02:56 AM
3

Sure, this is a learnable skill like any other. Most people want the same general things. Validation from someone they respect is common. Power is another. Hedonistic pleasures like sex or drugs are also frequently good levers to pull. Of course, to dish out these rewards you have to have access to these things already. To give meaningful validation, you have to be a person who commands respect, and who seems to have discerning taste. Drugs and sex require connections and money. Some of the skil…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:47 AM
1

Right, so no friends when powerful. I reiterate - if you're living that way, why do you want friends? Not to say do or don't have friends, just that the person described doesn't seem likely to seek out true friends.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 12:07 AM
1

That sounds pretty lone wolf and self sufficient... do you want friends at all in that case?
/r/askTRP14/06/16 09:19 PM
1

If you're only just out of high school, there is plenty of reading you can do to better yourself while you can't lift. Train your brain - read philosophy, ethics, history. Learn a new language. Learn to code - everyone should have some understanding of coding in the digital age. Re read the sidebar, or get some books on pickup. Up your style; pick out new clothes that don't suck. Learn to cook more healthy, tasty meals. Pick and choose any of these and the two weeks will fly by. Then get back to…
/r/askTRP14/06/16 09:08 PM
1

Yes it definitely is laughing at the idea that they have it easy or haven't had to work to achieve success. And you're right that not every rock star is living the sex drugs rock'n'roll life; many go beta and get oneitis. Success isn't free or easy... most musicians don't make it big because they lack dedication or talent.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 05:38 PM
1

You know Dire Straits wrote the song based on comments from a hardware store employee who was talking about them on TV, right?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 05:22 PM
2

I like most of your post, but I find it very amusing that you include an argument for a God in a post titled "Men are logical." Magical thinking isn't logical, and the church is and always has been a tool to control others.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:57 PM
3

Most of the universe is happy to kill you with vacuum, gravity, heat, rapidly moving objects, poisonous substances, intense pressure, and strange energies that give you cancer. Even here on hospitable Earth, there are plenty of things alive and dead that will kill you if you let them. If you don't deserve to even be alive, why should you think you deserve to be happy? Go make it happen instead.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 04:00 PM
2

My impression of the song was always that of an envious low level worker at an appliance store thinking it must be so easy to be a rock star compared to his own blue collar crap job... like anyone who picks up a guitar can be a rock star. Basically it's a bitter beta diminishing the work of a rock star in writing and playing music. "I could have done that but guitar was too faggy for me."
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 03:56 PM
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Starting Strength is a standard in the community. Read the sidebar, it's been posted about a lot. Check out the fitness subreddit as well. There is a recent post on body weight fitness, too. Look around a bit more dude.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:55 PM
1

The unexamined life is super alpha bro
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:53 PM
2

Writing a journal or diary is good for reflecting on life, what you're achieving... where you came from. Watching a video I recorded of myself shortly before finding TRP and comparing the bitterness and frustration I felt then to the hope and satisfaction I've been feeling due to pursuing a path of self improvement was really eye opening. It made those old feelings real again and reinforced how much better my life has gotten since.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 06:53 PM
1

Career has been on track for me already, but as for life, yeah. I'm around your age and found TRP about a year ago. Got an 18 year old's # today, and a 19 year old's last week. They probably won't respond, but... gotta try right? Get out there. You have loads of time, you're a man. You ain't old yet.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:30 AM
2

I tend to agree with you. We're wired to have children. Not every person becomes a good parent, but many of those don't have their shit together when a baby crashes into their lives.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 03:11 AM
3

"Settle for" is a euphemism in English that means she stopped trying and took the deal available (you) even though she didn't really want it. Basically you're being "better than nothing" instead of actually being wanted.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 01:52 PM
2

I mix garlic, paprika, salt, basil, pepper, and dried parsley into Parmesan cheese for a crust on baked chicken breast, for example. Garlic salt and some paprika make brown rice or quinoa much less bland. Look around for recipes that include them, buy them, maybe experiment some. I'm not a master by any means, but I find enough information online to make my food taste better.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 12:49 PM
1

Ah, I've just seen a lot of comments with tons of up votes in other subreddits that have some TRP truth in them. Lots of people picking up bits and pieces of it without swallowing the whole message. Probably still subject to BP conditioning in regards to their own lives, though; pedestalizing their oneitis, thinking they found a unicorn, etc. The good news is that it's pretty much impossible to revert to BP once you swallow TRP, so we're only going to keep growing... assuming men find TRP faster…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 05:10 PM
5

Looking strong dude but careful about posting photos here, don't want to get doxxed.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 04:00 PM
2

Lots of Greek yogurt, chicken breast, and some dishes with chicken thighs. Cheese, milk. I spice everything I cook, usually based on recipes online. Spices are expensive, but it's 100% worth it to enjoy every meal.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:58 PM
2

I know I've been seeing a lot of smart guys my age figuring out at least the lifting side of things. Whether they'll ever swallow the intersexual dynamics part... hard to say. The sub numbers are growing, and a lot of the sentiment is leaking into mainstream culture.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:55 PM
2

80% is a tad higher than likely - probably 30-40% at most. Your point stands, though; don't make excuses.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 03:52 PM
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It's not rape, she enjoyed it until he was done with her. It's not molestation, or they'd have said she was a minor, not a teenager. It's not abuse of power, there was no implication he threatened her at all. You can't be responsible for a woman's irrational fears, or every black man out after dark would be liable for civil assault. She's an adult and allowed to make her own fucking choices. Or we can go back to chaperones for any unmarried woman so that they are never alone with a man, because …
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 09:35 PM
7

If it's the military, where there is a clear chain of command and regulations about fraternization, then yeah it's a problem. In theater it's a time honored tradition to fuck your cast.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:06 PM
1

It's more narcissism than homosexuality. Seriously though there's nothing gay about wearing clothes that fit right... and if there was, why would that be a problem? If I wanted to fuck dudes what business would it be of yours? You can have your own praxeology, maybe you think a man should be creative every day, or that a man should always carry a gun. But I have mine and I want to keep my life in line with it.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:16 PM
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Because they're hot and willing, and he can. Get that "creepy" shit out of here. If you want to discuss the ethical issues of fucking an underling, fine, but that doesn't make the guy a "creep." The story posted here doesn't suggest he threatened implicitly or explicitly to use his position against them if they didn't fuck him. He just gamed them hard and left them, and they got pissed off.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 06:07 PM
1

Oh god you're right, thank you for telling us this. I've never been shamed before, so this was a huge wakeup call. I'll unsubscribe right away and go make a Tumblr about how oppressed women are, and how all men should die or change genders.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 05:58 PM
4

I've been rolling with Roosh's strategic model from Day Bang and liking it. It's obviously not the only way to run day game, but I'm liking the results so far, and it makes intuitive sense to me. The biggest theme I got from it is "don't scare the cat;" that a woman approached during the day is easily lost if you push too fast. He details some good ways to warm up conversation without getting so personal right off the bat, as well as how to get her to make the conversation more personal, ultimat…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:54 PM
1

If you have a strong prescription, go for contacts. Small eyes aren't sexy.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:46 PM
1

That's just the floor price for suits man. Compare online, maybe you'll find some deals there, but good staple clothes ain't cheap.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:45 PM
1

I've regretted shoe purchases only when I cheap out. Every expensive pair of shoes I've bought have been 100% worth.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:44 PM
1

It depends on the style you're going for. If you're more dressy, maybe a briefcase would be good. Middle of the road, messenger bag. Dressed down, backpack is fine. Just don't wear a backpack with anything you would wear dress shoes with.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:41 PM
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It's just more bullshit shaming language to push 30+ men into wifing up post-wall women. 18 is either old enough or not. If an 18 year old can fuck a 22 year old college athlete, she can fuck a 50 year old fine, too.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 03:34 PM
3

Nah man it's just your body, what do you need it for anyway?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 01:29 PM
1

Right, most of those are just objectively better at achieving my goals than the alternative. Philosophy informs my goals, the red pill praxeology informs my methods.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 01:08 PM
5

If he was already in shape but just didn't understand the female mind, it's very believable. Especially if the plates are only 6s and 7s.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 07:40 PM
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I've been approaching TRP and self-improvement not as "I'll do this thing so I reach a result, then I'm done," but rather as, "This is closer to how my life should be lived, and I am building a habit." A man should exercise regularly; a man should practice fighting; a man should approach every attractive woman he sees if it is at all feasible to talk long enough for a proper opener, and it won't detract from his mission; a man should manage his nutrition carefully; a man should be consistently d…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 04:54 PM
1

Well, good, then, you clearly have a better deal than most who enlist - I still don't see how that makes not joining the military auto beta bucks.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:43 AM
3

I guess blow off a hooker while skydiving.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 03:04 AM
2

Dude I don't know how it's super alpha to fight and die for someone else's profit... or be in an institution known for high divorce rates, low transferability of many skills, and a long commitment. You can do it if you want, obviously, but it's not like every other option is hopelessly beta by comparison.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:56 AM
6

Plenty on here about seeking out unicorns. Look for women with strong father figures, parents still together, low n-count, and no mental illnesses. Just remember all women are, at the very least, like the typical bar/club slut. It's a spectrum.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:12 AM
1

A - a week isn't too long, do whatever B - next, not every girl is into you, can't change that; obviously can change some with lifting etc, but still next C - Give her another date maybe but up your physical escalation. If she puts you off, next D - one text, two text, no response, next
/r/askTRP06/06/16 09:00 PM
1

That's basically the MGTOW argument. You can do that, nobody here cares. Or buy a RealDoll, whatever. Some of us enjoy the chase, though.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:53 PM
-1

I agree six months often seems a little short, but most of those are like, tall and mostly in shape guys who were already running some weak game, rather than none at all. The journey is a little longer if you're not tall or already ripped. That said, I'm nearly a year out from finding TRP, and loving life. Recently talked with a cute 19 year old. I'm pushing 30. A year ago I would have decided she was too young for me. Instead, she was the third number close I got in a weekend, and the most obvi…
/r/askTRP06/06/16 08:50 PM
4

Well, they usually are pretty satisfied with themselves until their reality is shattered, sure. I know I was when I was a BP idiot.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:40 PM
1

I have to agree from a practical standpoint; bait and switch will create strong negative emotions, which can result in the woman being more likely to push the state into action against you. Being straightforward, besides the morality advantage some care about, keeps life-ruining dramatics away. Ain't no pussy worth the state coming down on your head.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:06 PM
2

They're still human, just not men. You're still buying into equalism if you think women have to be the same as men to be people. Complementarity is a thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:00 PM
1

One of my exes was really into D/s. She had brought up the idea of living the full slave lifestyle. At the time, I did not want to even try that. Her needs were complicated due to a medical condition, and I still didn't have a handle on my own life back then. I felt incompetent to order her life and my own every day. Now I think I could handle it. One more reason women like older men.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 07:54 PM
3

Chill bro they're still people, just different from you and me. You can be honest, but it won't get you the same results. If you're honest while knowing this because you value honesty more than the results, that's up to the individual. The problem of course is that BP conditioning tells you that it is categorically wrong while excusing similar behavior from women, or tells you that lying doesn't work.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:46 PM
3

Sure, but the decision seemed rational to her with the information she had. She doesn't know that she'll be miserable years later.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 04:20 PM
0

The linked OP clearly never read any of the many times it has been said "TRP is a toolbox." Take what you like from it. I try to keep that in mind whenever I see conspiracy theories or racism or pro-Trump-ism. I read it critically, keep it in the back of my mind, and then dismiss it if it has low predictive power as a theory. I'll admit I'm a little more racist now than before TRP. Meanwhile, the core tenets of sexual dynamics keep proving effective at predicting outcomes in my daily life.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 02:49 PM
2

You can tell them you love them if you do. But you make them say it first (and mean it) every time. Show it instead by fucking her good. And if you think she's worth it, by not cheating on her despite opportunities she knows you have.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 01:35 AM
1

Man, that was a brutal read. Reminds me in some ways of the shit I put myself through trying to "save" my ex as well. Solid BP example but IDK if TRP needs more of these, they're everywhere.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 04:55 PM
3

I'm gonna go with "Thanks TRP" for that one.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 08:43 PM
5

I don't have an older brother, but I can say that being an older brother can help as well. Brotherhood is essential. But it's not the shared water of the womb that binds me and my brother the closest, it's our shared history and experiences growing up. You can share in hardships and experiences with men you have no biological relationship to, and they will still be your true brother. An older or more experienced role model is of course always helpful, but much of the benefit is just from having …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:14 PM
7

While the source post is bullshit, the principle is true. A man can go from picture 1 to picture 2 with enough hard work and time... just probably not 8 months.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:45 PM
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Dude, grats on having worked to get ripped, and grats on figuring out some game and swallowing the Red Pill. You're right that having fun and being outcome independent is the fast track to projecting confidence and slaying pussy. But you're fucking blind if you don't think you're tall at six feet two inches, and if you don't think it puts your dating life on easy mode compared to being shorter.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:41 PM
4

The other day I read a name and didn't recognize it, but the author of the piece used the name like I should have. It was the CEO of Goldmann-Sachs. Every time some Congressman I've never heard of shows up on the news, I get that same feeling. This person matters immensely within their own world, and may even impact mine. They're hugely successful in their endeavors, and yet, I don't have any idea who they are. I wouldn't know if they died, or really care. Succeed for yourself, or don't bother. …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 03:19 PM
1

I think there's nothing wrong with some light consumerism and low effort recreation... so long as it is in moderation. I agree that doing exclusively that kind of stuff wastes your potential. I know I can't be out doing BJJ every night, my body can't handle that yet. So on some of my off nights I read a book, watch TV, play video games, or hang out with friends. On others I practice running game. That said, if you're not recovering from high mental or physical exertion, you should be exhausting …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 06:04 PM
2

They had a shared group activity that he was really good at, and in a position of authority. Some light teasing and paying more attention to other girls in the group.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 04:41 AM
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It was a pretty standard Netflix and chill situation. She came over to his apartment for Netflix after he had run some social circle game on her, he escalated physically, action happened. She asked him afterwards how often he did this... he gave a vague response implying it had happened before, though it had not.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 03:03 AM
1

I think some of that comes down to the difference between want and need. I want the girl I approached to talk with me, make out with me, fuck me, etc. If I didn't want it, I wouldn't approach. If I don't need it, though, I'll be happy even if that does not happen.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 12:07 PM
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I'll tell you that I know a guy who lost his with a plate after his TRP awakening, and she had no idea.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/16 11:54 AM
1

I feel like the only way to get around this hangup is to make friends with some tall dudes and dominate your friendship dynamic. I had a good friend back in high school who was taller than me by a fair bit. Interacting with him again now, I've realized just how much I led our conversations and activities. I think going forward I'm going to intentionally cultivate friends like that, and I advise other short guys to do the same.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 06:39 PM
46

Learned something new about Magikarp today.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 03:36 PM
5

I know exactly what you mean by entity thinking. As early as middle school I knew that eating more and working out would get me more muscles... but only on an intellectual level. It wasn't until I put in some time and effort that I really internalized how much I could change about myself.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 03:34 PM
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Haha, whatever dude, I'm improving myself and will keep doing so, but expecting to be 30 times better on any meaningful objective measure after a year of work is unrealistic. Nobody goes from deadlifting 40 pounds to 1200 in a year. That doesn't mean don't do deadlifts, obviously.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 02:28 PM
1

Hell yes, flexible dieting. It's such a sweet feeling to hit my macro goals at the end of a day by eating half a sleeve of cookies. Rest of the day has to be like pure yogurt and chicken breast, but it's satisfying and pleasurable.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:30 PM
3

I get what you're saying, but 1% a day is not really feasible, and many improvements you can make in your life have diminishing returns.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:25 PM
1

It reads as though you vacuum seal it before cooking it.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 06:26 PM
1

The whole premise of the "in Soviet Russia, noun verbs you" meme is that it was a fucked up, backwards regime where official policy often made no sense or was counterproductive.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 03:56 PM
13

Wear your sunscreen, brush your teeth, take your vitamins, lift.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 07:11 PM
1

Solid proof? Jesus man if it feels off, end it. Maybe rules are slightly different with the expense of a divorce, but abundance mentality, man!
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:59 PM
1

That stuff is for people who can be friends with you despite you showing weakness. Basically, you keep a public face on for your girl, and only really let the mask down with trusted male friends.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:56 PM
1

For some perspective... I dumped a girl close to a year ago for somewhat similar reasons. Still felt miserable right afterwards. Now? It's almost funny. Definitely not miserable anymore. Keep focusing on yourself and your emotional state will fix itself.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:53 PM
1

Oh, for sure. But you'll win the fight, and carry yourself with confidence, because you know you will.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:14 PM
2

I think you're better off learning to fight for dominance contests. I know dudes who are 150 or less who could probably wreck most liftbros in a fight, because they trained BJJ four years. And they're cut, too.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 11:44 PM
1

Man, even if she is there, she has to be supporting you all the way, which means relieving stress, not creating it. My ex was with me from when I had no degree through getting my law degree, but she was NOT HELPING when I was busting my ass. Good luck finding a woman who will sink her best party years into you enthusiastically while you are focusing on improving instead of her bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:41 PM
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The "enjoy the decline" attitude is mostly created by recognizing that public political discourse is still way too focused on pro-feminism ideals for us to start some kind of movement for change. The only thing one can actually affect is one's own life, so the advice is to stop trying to go all men's rights activist and focus on enjoying your life. If you feel like you need to do something, as many in this sub do (or the experienced guys who have made it wouldn't be here contributing for noobs l…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:16 AM
0

Achilles did get into the shit that killed him because Agamemnon took his favorite slave girl, but other than that this post is a stretch.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 12:03 AM
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TRP advances male sexual strategy interests... so why would we not resemble, at least superficially, the opposite ideology that advances female sexual strategy interests?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 01:17 PM
3

I'd love to have a mother for my kids. I just don't think giving her all the force of the american legal system to use against me is a very good idea. Most women aren't out to divorce the men they marry, either, I imagine, but the problem is she'll rewrite history. Her vows are all prefaced with "Right now I intend to..." This is why I'm excited to see more posts covering how to have and raise kids while protecting yourself as best you can.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:03 PM
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If that contractual obligation to support a child universally came with the right to see them/spend time with them, then you'd have something closer to nature. Instead, you can be on the hook and never see your kid. Many on the sub advocate just abstaining from recreation, yes. Personally, I don't want to do that. But I also don't want to hand my nuts to some girl on a silver platter. I've already experienced what it's like when a girl thinks you won't leave her, it doesn't go well. So I'm eager…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 05:54 AM
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I guess find some driven young professionals who are also into lifting and going out... dunno if you guys have them in Spain, there's a decent portion of those in the U.S.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 11:33 PM
1

Human-looking and -feeling robots are not that far off if they don't need to be social, and even closer to reality if you include VR options. That only really works for male sexuality, though. As we all know, female attraction includes things like status, preselection, and dominance. A robot that you can turn off is never going to be realistically dominant. In short, I think sex-bots will be a thing only for men, and women will be starving for attention from a dominant man.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 08:00 PM
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Make a new circle of friends. You'll meet the guys who want to go out on a Tuesday night by going out on a tuesday night. Don't just go out to cruise for girls (still do that), keep an eye out for new friends.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:43 PM
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Man there's nothing wrong with making friends with a natural "chad." Get to know them and they have something going on in their life that you can find interesting.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:38 PM
3

Everybody here talking about martial arts, I'm just gonna say get your shit right and crush the bar next time. Manage your time better while studying for it. Sorry you failed, but now you have more information about what it takes to pass. So go do it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:34 PM
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This is a fallacy - there is no reason to count how much someone has maintained their genes after 32 generations by how much of their genetics exists in one of their descendants, you ought to count it by measuring how much exists in all their descendants. That said, the point is well made that your descendants may not be anything like you, and seeking immortality in them is a silly thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 07:26 PM
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You've got to understand, there are three ways a girl can see you as a man: 1 - Beta: not attractive, can be a friend maybe but will never be physically intimate 2 - Attainable alpha: attractive, but she is seeing you eye fuck her as well so she's pretty sure you won't just shut down her signals and will escalate if she looks at you right. 3 - Unattainable alpha: attractive, but for whatever reason she thinks you're not into her to the point that if she made her interest clear, she'd get rejecte…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 01:14 PM
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Once you're getting enough sex, more seems unnecessary, and then unwelcome. Sort of like food. When you're starving for either, you feel like you could partake all day and be fine, but when it comes down to it you really can't.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 12:14 PM
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Hell yeah man, half the reason I need to be remembering to approach is to calibrate my intuitive social thinking. I spent most of my life stuck in BP mode, and if I'm not approaching women with a RP mindset, I'm never going to get to the level of DGAF conversation OP is talking about having.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 10:06 AM
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I'm dubious about this. Certainly sugars are responsible for the obesity epidemic in the U.S., but that is at least in part because it's really really easy to drink calories compared to eating them. I could idly guzzle an extra thousand calories of soda if I bought a Big Gulp. It's really easy to start losing weight by cutting soda. I would definitely advise cutting sugary drinks for anyone whose main goal is to lose a large excess of body fat. All that said... my dad's been on a paleo diet for …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 09:01 AM
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Rollo doesn't make very much money from his site man. He's not selling shirts, his book isn't overpriced - it's basically just a condensed version of what he has up for free online. And if you haven't read his theory posts, what are you doing? He's been in the sidebar forever. He's got really easily understandable theory, replete with examples, written with good logical progression and a high degree of issue specificity/focus. In short, go read it.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 04:54 AM
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Men have to approach most of the time. A lot of your attractiveness is dependent on how you act, not just how you look... and the confidence to approach is part of how you act. How you approach matters, too. Don't approach like "whoa, maybe this princess will like me," approach like "sup babe, this is your lucky day."
/r/askTRP25/04/16 05:42 AM
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I've found that so long as I am careful in my phrasing, I can get people to agree to some of the more baseline TRP truths. Spelling out too much at once, or going too far in the reasoning, however, raises red flags.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 09:04 PM
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Well you escalate like you do with any other girl. If she's interested, she'll respond positively. If she's not, she won't. If you don't escalate, she'll stay firmly in the "not responding positively" camp the vast majority of the time.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/16 06:51 PM
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You practice what's forced and awkward until it isn't. That's kind of the whole point of practicing something you're bad at. Eventually it won't feel so forced and awkward. Make a game of it. Black knight. Tell extravagant lies. Get people to tell you their life story and then walk away. Anything to get practice at doing something other than being awkward. Eventually you'll learn what gets people to like you.
/r/askTRP23/04/16 08:07 AM
2

You're absolutely right, modern society has taken Briffault's Law and reinforced it with societal legal penalties.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:30 PM
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Of course not, they look at what you did most recently. But the grades determine how your early trajectory looks. Better grades means better schools, better schools mean better connections, better starting jobs, better lateral transfers and long term career prospects. Obviously you can throw it all down the shitter and then nobody cares what your fucking high school grades were, but you're going further with a 4.0 than a 2.7.
/r/askTRP22/04/16 06:23 AM
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Don't get married, there's no reason to "play on hard mode" especially if you don't feel ready to be a father yet. My current plan - spend the next decade practicing TRP via spinning plates and maybe some LTRs. Absolutely no to getting married. Re-evaluate once I'm pushing 40 whether I like that lifestyle enough to give up on having kids, or if I want to be a single dad via IVF and surrogates or whatever. You're only just hitting your stride, don't bow out of the game yet. Play the field while y…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:17 AM
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I'm practically an ex-cuck, yes. Never again, thanks TRP. Just glad I didn't go so far as to do that in marriage or with kids. What I was trying to illustrate is how seeking that idealized love that women are incapable of will ruin what love they are capable of. How do you perceive me as plugged-in/projecting? I'm blind to whatever you're seeing; either you're mistaken or I have more growing to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:07 AM
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Lesser actions can be judged by morality, as that social calculus matters in reaching goals like survival and reproduction. But all is fair in love and war, because if you die or fail to reproduce, you lose at the biggest game. The only way people have made this work in war is to penalize deserters so harshly that it is more certain to die when you desert than if you stay and fight. In many societies through history, violating the terms of the marital contract carried the same penalty, for the s…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:39 AM
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Briffault's Law can be legislated against in society. In many societies through history, a woman's association was limited by culture to the man she was married to on threat of violence, and that marriage choice was made by her father. Obviously, that doesn't mean cheating didn't happen. But like a good wall keeps a ceiling from obeying the pressures of the law of gravity and falling on your head, social mores that encourage monogamy resist Briffault's Law.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 05:06 AM
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I know a girl who's been dating a guy for a few months now. When she's around him, she makes every effort to be all smiles. They play stupid couple games with each other and are sickeningly cute at times. The reason it sickens me is that I've known for months that she's not in love with him. She hates spending time with him, but can't dump him without worrying that he'll kill himself over it, and that she'll blame herself for it. As far as I can tell, the guy has no idea. He has no other social …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:29 AM
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My ex loved me in some way, or at least claimed to, even while I was dumping her for not loving me how I wanted her to. She wanted us to be in an open relationship, and I, being BP as all hell, figured I could at least see how that worked. I had let myself go, and didn't have the time, energy, game, or physique to pursue new women. She, meanwhile, basically found two new boyfriends. One of them let her feel very dominant, he was an omega male bitch boy who liked to cross dress and be whipped. Sh…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:22 AM
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You'll only ever have a healthy relationship if both parties refuse to play that game. Sounds like a prisoner's dilemma to me. How do those usually work out again? Oh, right.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 04:04 AM
2

IDK, the Tumblrinaction sub does literally that as their flair.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 04:03 AM
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It's because Gaston can't read, and Belle won't date down. Belle falls for the Beast when he shows her that he's not just a hairy monster that could eat her alive, he also has a huge library.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 04:37 AM
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Some will. My ex told me she wanted me to be more dominant. The problem was that by doing so in response to that request, it rang hollow to her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 04:04 AM
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Dude it's like loving a cat. It's going to shit in a box, it's going to scratch up your furniture, it's going to scratch and bite you for no reason at least a few times. You can still love the cat and just accept that it's a cat. A woman will shit test you, try to beta-fy you, and there's a pretty good chance she'll cheat on you at some point. You can love them anyway, because it feels way better than hating them. Just don't let those feelings dictate your actions.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 03:59 PM
1

Holy crap dude, dump her and find another girl. Get some abundance mentality going. I don't care if you love her, you're a man, put your feelings aside and act rationally. Use your feelings, don't let them use you.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:55 PM
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IDK about you but I get off on choking girls, too. They're much quieter then.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 07:57 AM
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I mean... I cared about her a lot still. I still wanted her to be happy, I just realized that she was not making me happy in return; that I was in fact miserable and had been for months. So I took my love for her out of the equation of "what do I do going forward." I'm somewhat proud of it because I figured that shit out all by myself before finding TRP, but also really annoyed at how long it took me. Fuckin' A I was such a BP idiot.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 02:41 AM
2

You build muscle when you're sleeping... you can break it down all you want but if you don't sleep you won't build any.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:28 PM
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There's nothing wrong with loving women so long as you don't let your feelings dictate your actions. I still loved my ex-gf as I was dumping her.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 08:35 PM
9

They sent me a survey asking me how important the reversibility aspect was. It's kind of the only reason I'd go for VasalGel over a regular vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 06:50 PM
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Even after finding TRP, I've found my empathy centers lighting up hard for women who I am sexually interested in. That shit gets me in trouble, fast. I've found that when I can get myself into an abundance mentality state, this objectification happens almost automatically. Once I'm comparison shopping, the pros and cons of particular girls to me matter a lot more. I'll try to keep this in mind, as I think it would be a good way to jump-start abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 06:47 PM
3

This is absolutely the best way to get past being angry about it, for sure. But the subreddit exists for lots of reasons, which includes sometimes being a little angry about the equalist lies we almost all tried to follow pre-TRP.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 10:54 PM
5

This happened to me, except I was too busy with school to deal with it as it started (as I had before with her attraction to other friends, and even my brother), and too fucking Blue Pill to deal with it properly afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 10:46 PM
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I have found that the best way is to always be thinking about how you're going to meet and approach the next girl, not how you're going to get back the one who just soft-rejected you. Every time I get some ambiguous rejection from a girl ("I'm busy" being the most common; hard to tell if they're blowing smoke given I run in legal circles and people are working 80 hour weeks), it's easier to get my mind off it and my head back in the game instead of feels land if I find some other chick I'm also …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 06:21 PM
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It's worse than the prisoner's dilemma for non-defectors, actually. First to defect gets the full prize, other side loses the option. So long as you defect first you're at no risk, unlike in the traditional dilemma. That and the large stakes (1/5 your likely lifespan?) means that you aren't going to play that game very often, so there's no potential upside to playing it honorably and no way to really use tit-for-tat to educate the other players.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 02:11 AM
3

Do you need to habla espanol?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 04:56 AM
3

I think a lot of what you're talking about can be abstracted well to other fields. Do good work through an efficient and repeatable process, build skills and accumulate templates to save time on tasks you're doing over and over, and lots of general business/dealing with clients suggestions. Thanks much.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 10:00 AM
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I put good odds on you already knowing since it seems like you've planned this out, but talk with a family law attorney about informal or "common law" marriages and how they're treated in your state. Socially and ceremonially marrying a woman without signing the papers can be treated like signing the papers in some states... which means divorce rape.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 09:46 AM
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Thanks, I needed this kick in the ass reminder a little. Just got done with some hellish, unavoidable work, and this convinced me to spend 2-3 nights out of this week going and sarging at bars instead of staying in and playing video games.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 11:15 AM
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It's a front row seat to drama and gossip.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 03:08 PM
1

I feel bad for submissive males who don't know what they're getting into, because they've bought the equalist narrative 100%. I have an ex-LTR who was a switch. When she was domming someone - never me, not my thing - she was very sadistic, and very much into humiliation. I almost feel like it was an extension of her bratty side, as she was very much a bratty submissive who wanted someone to force her to submit through force of personality. I also think it might have something to do with the vali…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 04:13 AM
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The OP didn't say anything about the woman being immoral. He focused entirely on how this is bad for the man. The general message of the forum is to back off from morality, because it's not helpful, it only leads to anger. I read the OP as talking about it being stupid that the man is happily sabotaging himself. We talk about what's effective at realizing goals, and what's not. Consensus is that submissive behavior from a man like fetching wine for his gf usually leads to disgust from the woman,…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 02:03 AM
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Holy shit, I thought I was pedantic. There's a core purpose to the subreddit, a topic of discussion that is central to "why post on this board." This defines the subreddit, as distinct from others.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:08 AM
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The entire point is that you don't have to know this person to draw conclusions about what his life is likely like, and where it's likely to go. A guy who's waiting on his woman hand and foot is very likely walking a Blue Pill path where he's being used, and will get divorce raped/cuckolded. It's not irrelevant that you're bi, and I checked your post history because I was trying to get a feel for who you are and how you're missing the point. As a bisexual person you've had experiences with men a…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 12:06 AM
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Did you even read the official rules? Don't moralize at me. On sharing TRP - of course you can share some parts of it, if you do it subtly and carefully. I was introduced to TRP by a close friend. But none of us has any duty to do so. It's all free here on the internet and in the general manosphere, it's mostly a question of whether people will come to it with an open mind. As for "stop fucking these types of women," I'll do what I want, thanks. Do you think they're going to change their minds b…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:59 PM
1

TRP has a set definition. TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. It's rule fucking zero in the official rules, learn to read before you start spouting off nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:19 PM
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I answered you in my first response. It's not about morality. It's about whether what the guy is doing here appears to be aligned with his goals, which are presumptively to have a lasting relationship where his emotional and sexual needs are met. I know your own goals are different since you want to get railed out by other guys, and that's fine, but you clearly don't get what we're doing here.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:18 PM
1

I don't agree with the title of your post, or the TL;DR, but your lessons learned is on point. Companies aren't "alpha," they're amorphous and impersonal. No woman is getting tingles for a company. Many working women do get their support from a company, which means the pressure on them to lock down Beta Bux diminishes a lot in their 20's, and commensurately raises their pursuit of Alpha Fucks. As for low-IQ men - most women aren't actively looking for someone with low IQ. You're better off being…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 08:50 PM
1

For fuck's sake man it's a Blue Pill Example tagged post. What did you expect? If you don't care to see examples of just how deep in the matrix some guys are, don't open up Blue Pill Example posts.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 08:38 PM
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Did you miss the memo that we're men talking about male sexual strategy? We can judge women for enacting theirs as much as we like to here... especially since they're the ones who keep pushing the lie of the equalist relationship being an ideal one. Besides that, OP is mostly criticizing the man for being so unaware of the role he's playing in the relationship. Women are gonna do what they're gonna do, but it's flagged as a Blue Pill Example because WOW, this guy is whipped.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 06:04 PM
1

It seems likely to end in dissatisfaction for the man. This is TRP, and we talk about male sexual strategy. Sure, women have always used men as providers. A lot of those men have been cuckolded. Is that good for men? Is that good for the man in this situation? No fuckin' way. Women who are happily submissive to their man are never cuckolded because you can't do that to a woman. The only way to equivalently waste their resources is to make them think you're a winner, then later show them that the…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 05:58 PM
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I don't think attorneys are likely to disappear any time soon, for a few reasons. One - Courts are not going to be replacing judges with computers any time soon. So long as there are human judges, there will be a need for human attorneys to train up into the role. Corollary: Humans are going to be used in the courtroom until it's feasible for an attorney-bot to outperform an attorney. I find this to be an extremely remote possibility, as much rides on being persuasive in person. Two - Clients ha…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 10:23 AM
2

I'll use a U.S. law evidence principle here - fiction is hearsay. It's not useful in proving the truth of the matter asserted. It is, however, useful in proving other things, like mindset or the expectations of the audience it's addressed to. It doesn't really matter whether the singer has ever wanted an ex back because of post-selection so long as her audience identifies with the message.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 12:13 AM
4

"Cycle" could refer to steroids, or it could refer to the bulk/cut cycle.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:07 PM
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I think that depends on how you're looking at it. For example, the other day I heard some pop-junk song that had me laughing about how thoroughly it showed off post-selection - I think it was "Want U Back" or something, with a girl singing about how she wanted her ex back now that he was with some new hottie while she was still alone. Does that prove post-selection? No, and it probably doesn't merit its own post. But it's an interesting reference point that can be valid in a comment on an existi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:53 PM
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We can and should debate about what is to our benefit, but the core message serves as a baseline assumption for being here. If you want to debate the core message, there's PurplePillDebate for that.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:48 PM
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Equality of opportunity is what most people want. A chance to work hard and earn something for themselves. Many feel like that chance does not exist for them, due to circumstances outside of their control. This isn't strictly true. It's very hard for people to get out of poverty/bootstrap themselves. I doubt very much that I could have achieved what I have so far in life under different circumstances. But I admit it would not have been impossible. To not push for equality of opportunity one must…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 01:54 AM
5

The non-TRP term I've usually seen for it is ForeverAlone. I have a couple of friends who are pretty resigned to this, and have basically stopped bothering with girls. If I didn't want something different for myself, I could see myself doing like them and focusing exclusively on the easy pleasures of games and dank memes.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:46 PM
9

The "!!!!!1" didn't tip you off?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 10:51 PM
1

Pre-TRP, it broke my heart to break up with my LTR when I couldn't handle her bullshit anymore and it was ruining my ability to become the person I wanted to be. But I did it anyway. I was able to do that because I'm a man, and I can separate my feelings and logic. You're doing the same thing. Keep doing it. Nothing for it but to remember that you're more than your emotions.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 08:59 AM
23

You're not going to get a lot of understanding here regarding pro-Sanders opinion. A lot of the subreddit still operates on feels before reals, and can't stand the idea of a guy who isn't constantly aggressive being considered "alpha" or good for the country. TRP finds Sanders disgusting/Blue Pill for standing down at a rally for Black Lives Matter protesters, regardless of anything else in his record - consistently resisting the typical political temptations and standing by his beliefs for deca…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:45 AM
8

Look, it's really simple - libertarians don't understand the term "market failure."
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:34 AM
13

I'm generally left on my social policies, but I feel like the "pay in more than you take out" requirement for voting would be a good way to balance out a system that does provide substantial assistance to those who need it.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:23 PM
6

No. Fuck the haters.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:16 PM
1

Yeah, I'm seeing the same kind of posts on Facebook here, with some of my friends talking about going to protest it. Just confirms Rule 38 further - no fucking way am I doing anything TRP-affiliated in public, it's pure social suicide.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 06:18 PM
-5

I'm not going to own a gun for personal defense. Not because I think they're TOO SCARY, but because I understand statistics. I've taken some shooting lessons, and I'm aware that by not choosing to go armed I am, to some extent, vulnerable to external threats. However, if you're actually rational and not just feeling, you can look at statistics for gun violence and see the truth: it is extremely rare for gun owners to save themselves from a situation due to packing heat. Anecdotes like the AskTRP…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 10:38 PM
2

Basically you usually don't get a solid dental plan worth a damn from your employer. The standard of care for dentistry and orthodontics is pretty high in the U.S., but usually you wind up paying out of pocket... this can get pretty expensive, but not as much as non-dental coverage. Lots of kids in the U.S. get braces to fix dental issues. It's so common that people view an adult with braces as looking less mature.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:27 AM
6

I'd say if you get no numbers or responses after 15 approaches, you either need to spend some time working on your SMV outside of Game, or you really need to work on your Game.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:30 AM
28

Your purpose is that you're awesome and you're going to make their day better just by being in it.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:31 AM
1

Do you know if the law has been litigated in other state courts? You're likely to get sued for custody in the state court where you reside, I'm curious to see what state courts do in terms of deference for surrogacy. I'd look it up on Lexis/Westlaw myself, but I don't have an active subscription for the next few months.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:24 AM
2

Enjoy this article with statistics from the United States Sentencing Commission. The graph on page 121 suggests that men are 30% more likely to be imprisoned than women, with a huge (over 100%) increase in likelihood of imprisonment for drug-related offenses. There are lots of articles addressing this sort of thing in legal journals, I know I edited a few talking about other sentencing issues when I was on my school's Law Review.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 08:17 PM
3

Ah, you're right, I've never seen a woman attracted to a man who cold approached her. Women only sleep with men who they've never met. You cold approach everyone you meet, that's what meeting someone is, for fuck's sake. You're just usually not purposeful about it. If you're goal-oriented you get purposeful about it and go actively be social, and approach when it's not handed to you by pre-existing excuses to meet. Women go out looking to be approached by men with that purpose. The places where …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 05:09 AM
5

Well it's not that it's not her fault, it's that women just shouldn't be held to the same standards you'd hold a man to. It's like if I judged my cat for shitting in a box instead of a toilet.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:28 PM
2

If a girl's hot enough, I imagine she's not used to getting serious alpha tingles since even most natural alphas will lose their abundance mentality. If OP had been framed around that, I'd like it a lot more. "Remember kids, if you see a 9, you probably won't get her because you're going to lose your abundance mentality like a BP bitch. Keep it solid if you want to bag the serious hotties."
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:23 PM
1

I get that most of us aren't going to be Rollo (making bank doing branding for alcohol, dealing with high-end clubs constantly and hot pour girls), but you can discuss the costs of choosing certain options without saying that you're doomed. Taking risks is what makes us men, and telling others that it's not worth it is different from telling you the odds and helping you make an informed decision about your lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 06:17 PM
6

This is so stupid, what is the point of this? You come here to tell people who are trying to do something difficult, that takes effort - improving SMV and Game - that the rewards are not as promised? What, do you think there's some big risk of men getting there, fucking lots of 7s and 8s, but not a lot of 9s, and then they just go Blue Pill again? Further, how do you know what's worth it to some people? Maybe it's not that high a cost to some of us. Maybe some of us will be satisfied with 8's, s…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 09:35 AM
3

Yes, to get around prenuptial agreements.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:40 AM
1

From a guy who also tends towards explaining when not thinking about it: Don't explain, just do.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:59 PM
1

Positivity and negativity aren't inherently masculine or feminine traits. Absolutely be positive with yourself and don't beat yourself up over past mistakes, focus on learning from them and moving on.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:57 PM
1

"Street harassers" are not running pickup with any competence, so yeah, it's begging. Imagine if you wanted clothes but didn't seem to be desperate to get any, so you go into a store and pay money for some. The store gets your money, you get clothes, nobody was powerless. I've never made my own clothes in my life, but I don't feel powerless to obtain clothing. Learning pickup is acquiring power, starting to learn it is admitting that you were previously powerless. Telling people that they are al…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:53 PM
1

I was thinking in the context of children playing it. I've historically done well at massaging people into trades that aren't really to their benefit by glossing the advantages to me (say, I can build houses immediately and they can't). If we're talking about having kids play it to develop machiavellian social skills, children very frequently have maturity issues, too. If lying and deceit are explicitly part of the game, they tend to be less upset and more willing to play again.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 10:46 PM
2

Almost nobody advocates actually going full Dark Triad as a lifestyle. It's usually framed as taking what works from how they manipulate people. Only sociopaths are really content with acting like sociopaths all the time. You can do some comfort, you can do some beta behaviors. But as Rollo says, you can't do beta with a side of alpha. It comes off forced and fake. You can do alpha with some very judicious use of beta.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:53 PM
8

Not to put too fine a point on it, but Monopoly sucks. The goals in trading are too blatant, and the game fosters resentment that slowly grows. Not fun, teaches that manipulation gets people upset with you. Other fun social manipulation / lying games include Diplomacy, Werewolf, Small World, Munchkin, and The Resistance. I actually like Diplomacy and Werewolf (One Night is fast and can be played with fewer people) for honing your manipulation skills the most, as there's less crunch. You can win …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:59 PM
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You gotta make time for it. Leave early, make time so that you can stop and chat up a girl, grab coffee or something. Watch videos on day game, you'll find most on-the-street stuff deals with exactly this kind of situation.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:33 AM
3

I've been lifting around six months now and people around me are noticing the physical changes. And honestly I've been pretty crap about it for the most part, not really tracking my calories or macros other than a general "eat more, focus on protein," until just this last week. I noticed some changes in my physique at around 3 months, but it wasn't really satisfying until now. Of course, now I just want more. I believe it's generally faster to see results if you're heavy than if you're skinnyfat…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 06:31 AM
5

OK, take some student loans out and go get a degree in CS. Or was years of your time not included in "anything?"
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:12 AM
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Money can't buy you happiness, but it can buy a lot of things that let you be happy. Poverty buys you a lot of sadness and not much else. And my point was that OP is talking about bankers with wives who are taking all their money. Do you really think the average banker is in it for the good feelings like a teacher or something? I'm well aware of the richer in spirit thing, that following what you care about in life is the way to be, but TRP advocates that, as well. But if you chase money and it …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:04 AM
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Holy crap dude, do you think those bankers are really as happy as they expected to be? They've probably worked really hard to get where they are, and they can't keep from having financial troubles anyway because they're beta. It only gets worse if they get frivorced. TRP focuses on reality not feel-good "but he's richer in spirit than you" unfalsifiable claims. The cold truth is that those guys are probably unhappy. And OP still has years to get married and pop out kids if he wants to, because m…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:59 AM
12

Trusts are freaking sweet, you can do so much with them to provide for people you care about but who can't manage money for shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:55 AM
3

Blue Pill as fuck bro. Get in shape. Sure, it's a numbers game regardless, but for fuck's sake you only have one body. Get it right.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:36 PM
12

I used this one recently, it went over ok. Advice I was given in my field report on the night suggested that after the mediocre reception that got, a good way to play it is: "If I still think you're still cool at the end of the night, we can go back to my place and get you a drink there. I have a great bottle of _____."
/r/askTRP26/01/16 08:54 PM
13

If you're looking for cold Machiavellian advice: Continue letting her think you're doing an LDR, keep drama minimum while you're still in town. Make a few token calls/texts once you leave town. After a bit, tell her that it's too much for you, you miss her too much when you talk to her, you have to break it off. Make sure to act really beta about it so she's turned off.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:15 PM
1

What makes a good career isn't "having a passion" for it. Very few people's passions are marketable, and most of those that are have high competition to get anything like decent pay. What makes a good career is it being in demand economically - this coincides pretty well with something being hard/boring. Comp Sci is that. Stick with Comp Sci. Not fitting in with the other CS students is not a big deal. You say your girlfriend is supportive - does that mean she talks with you about your problems …
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:38 PM
4

You're 15... you don't need to be dealing with some suicidal girl. You need to be getting your shit together, building your own life. You want to be her dom, her lord and master? She's not interested in getting that from a guy who's also sitting through third period physics with her, she wants that from a guy who is in his 20's, drives his own car, and has been with lots of other girls. If you think she's actually suicidal - as in, she's regularly engaging in more minor forms of self-harm, or ha…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:33 PM
1

Look up sebaceous filaments. You probably have the same little black pore things every other human being that isn't photoshopped does. There's no permanent fix, they're normal.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 04:23 PM
23

Evolving to Charizard, clearly. Mega is too recent unless OP is a lawyer at 17.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:19 PM
3

This is really low on details, so I guess I'll go through a list of typical reasons she might be texting you. Validation - you were a beta and she wants to get validation from you. Backup plan - she wants you as a backup plan if shit goes wrong with her current bf, because you were only kind of beta Still wants you - she wants to get in your pants again because her current guy is boring and you alpha widowed her a bit by breaking up with her Any of these could apply, can't tell you which without…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 05:34 AM
2

Women don't pick just one between AF/BB, is it that surprising that feminism as a whole does the same with victimhood & independence?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 12:15 AM
2

This is best done with non-fiction, rather than fiction, but any reading of book-length material will build concentration better than flipping through twitter-length blurbs.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 11:52 PM
2

Y'know, you're right, every last woman on the planet has actually already sucked a dick by the time you get to her, because Santa Chad visits them in the night and sexes her up. Fuck's sake man, I'm not saying she's a unicorn or won't follow hypergamy, just that she's playing more traditional than the average woman.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:08 PM
1

I've never explicitly talked to him about this, I've heard it from his ex-roommate who introduced me to TRP, and who knew both of them quite well.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 09:40 PM
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Your red pill fervor is appreciated, comrade, but you're making a lot of assumptions about people you don't know. Do I think she'll never cheat on him? Hard to say, people change, and AWALT. Is she a unicorn? No fucking way, my friend is going to have to perform to keep her attention and affection. But you're basically saying because every dog may decide to bite you, they all should be treated like an abused fighting dog. Part of the point of TRP and analysing the impacts of feminism is recogniz…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 09:21 PM
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I have a friend who recently got married to a very traditional christian girl. She claimed to be saving herself for marriage, and I believe that to be true... because while she didn't sleep with him during the years they were together leading up to it, they were regularly engaging in oral and fingering. I guess what I'm saying is, she stuck to her principles. She's disciplined in other areas of life. But she didn't make him wait for sexual release, she just set down a boundary. Rollo has said an…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 08:13 PM
1

I guess it depends on how this other guy is doing that. If other people are laughing about it, my own tendency would be to try to find the humor in it, perhaps Agree and Amplify? I'm not that experienced with AMOGing personally, but if the guy's just giving you shit, you treat it the same way as like a male shit test. When guys at my BJJ gym teasingly said to me "don't hurt him" when I go up against someone two belts higher than me, I went along with it, acknowledging the humor and the fact that…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 06:40 PM
1

That's true, and it's useful food for thought.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:06 PM
1

Let's begin with the question facing our panel: What is sex for? The first answer that most people give is that sex is for procreation. Now suppose that we were to point out the unreality of this answer by suggesting that if the purpose of sex was procreation there would be no way to account for our experience of year 'round estrus since procreation is efficiently accomplished in infrahuman species even when limited to one month out of the year. Perhaps I'm misreading this quote from the OP, but…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:25 PM
1

Mmm, it's good to learn when to be honest and when to lie. I like to be in situations where the truth benefits me the most, as then there's zero risk of a discovered lie harming me... but that's not always the situation I find myself in. I default heavily to honesty, because I feel like society would work best if everyone was always brutally honest with each other. TRP teaches and my own experience confirms, however, that this strategy doesn't work so great with women. Approaching a girl and say…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 05:16 PM
12

Would I? No way, I wanna fuck a biological woman. Do I give a shit if someone else does? Also no. If you can get it up for a trans-girl who still has a dick, go nuts, stick your dick in her butt, IDGAF. Does it make you a little gay? Probably, so what? See Ron White's bit about this. I have transgender friends who aren't insane SJWs who understand if you mix up their pronouns or whatever the fuck, so long as you make some effort. Most LGBT people that aren't regressive-left SJWs understand that …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 04:16 PM
2

If they are saying you have a big ego, they have some feeling about you. They've noticed you. It's like if a girl calls you an asshole - it's all about how she says it, and what she does around it. If she says you have a big ego with a big smile on her face and giving you "fuck me" eyes, she's commenting on something she finds attractive. If she's disgusted, she thinks you're faking it.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:52 PM
1

Sounds like your natural tendency is to be Machiavellian and lie to your own benefit. Don't feel bad about that. It's OK to lead a girl on like that, there aren't any rules or laws saying you can't. I mean, hell, if you want to avoid pushing her away and hurting her feelings, but still convey that you're not available, just say that you've realized you don't have time for dating right now, you're too busy with other things, but you'd still like to keep hooking up.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:45 PM
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AMOGing is essentially a frame war for who's the bigger alpha. If you can hold frame enough that the other guy seems childish, immature, or foolish - if you actually seem like you don't care, not just putting on a front - then yeah, you'll be fine. If it gets to you and people can read it in your body language or some shift in the way you're talking, playing like it doesn't affect you is going to come off as insincere and maybe cowardly, as you clearly are being affected but not confronting him …
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:41 PM
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You haven't generated enough attraction. If that same girl liked you more, she wouldn't be making excuses why she couldn't fuck you, she'd be making excuses to fuck you. If you're getting the first date but not the second, you're probably running bad game relative to the rest of your SMV, i.e. you look fit/have a nice face, but you come off as a beta.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:37 PM
1

Oh, for sure, I agree with you. I'm putting in the time for self-improvement as well. I do think, however, that Game inherently raises your SMV as you internalize it. Social dominance can be a huge factor in perceived personal value in all markets, not just the sexual one. The PUA tricks part of Game is short term, but once you understand why they work, you get long term value and can ad lib more effectively. It's kind of like cooking and following recipes.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 03:29 PM
2

You're 18, maybe your body will handle it. I'm 28 and I tried to do something similar with BJJ, and found that realistically I couldn't do that much right away. I'm working up to that level of exertion, but it's still kicking my ass. Give it a try, and if it's too much, back off a bit for a while as your body gets into better shape. You can always ramp it up again later when you can handle more and need that extra stress.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 02:15 PM
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I think TRP has covered frequently that porn/erotica presents perhaps an overly-rosy view of sex. Women don't always climax, some men have trouble getting it up, hell some men have trouble climaxing, too. But that doesn't mean that sex is doomed to be just that. It's something you can practice and get better at. If you're not that into your partner, or just think "well I'm bad at sex," you're going to suck, just like any other thing you don't practice. The article makes some big mistakes. The bi…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 01:47 PM
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If you enjoy fucking her and spending time with her more than your other plates by enough that you're wishing you were with her instead of the other plates, that's a decent reason. If that changes once you hop into an LTR, then go back to plates. Having feels for a girl is fine, just like it's fine to have feels for a cat. But every time I pet my cat and cuddle it, I'm aware that it may decide today is the day to bite/claw me. Do the same with your girl. Enjoy those feels, but remember to keep t…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 01:53 AM
3

I started with The Rational Male; I spent more than a few days reading through all the archived posts. I feel like that was the best starting point to avoid bitterness and get a good starting grasp on theory.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:58 AM
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Insecurity isn't necessarily immaturity. She is probably just accurately reading that she's not your only source of sex. What you've said so far - obedient, horny, capable of housework - sounds like a good starting point for a checklist for what makes an LTR. Just keep in mind that whatever you decide, LTRs are TRP on hard mode. Don't think she's a unicorn, or any different from any other woman. She loves how you make her feel, which includes things like that you can get other women easily. Fina…
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:54 AM
1

She's expecting me to qualify, say "oh, no no, I don't think that." Alternatively it might be a comfort test, where that is what she wants to hear. The great thing is that the right answer to both is to dismiss the test as silly. Another commenter suggested I use some Agree & Amplify - "Well yeah, and I think I'm prettier than you, too, but that doesn't seem to bother you as much. (smirk)" I considered saying something similar, along the lines of "Oh yeah, I like my girls dumb as a post."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:38 AM
1

Go out and approach some girls. Do more of what works, do less of what doesn't. Take part in the 30 day challenges. Write a field report about what you did, see what kind of feedback you get.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:32 AM
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The thing is, while "SMV not high enough" is just about always an answer to why you didn't get the girl, it's not the only answer. Game lets you shift your percentage upwards by allowing you to raise your perceived SMV and social intelligence. It may not get you the same results that Brad Pitt would get if he was cruising your local bar, but it may give you 5% more success... and if you open 100 women, that's 5 successes.
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:29 AM
3

OK, but writing a guide for the natural Chad Thundercock does literally nobody any good. The guy who was born with looks, intelligence, and Alpha attitude isn't going to be on here looking for advice, and everyone else can't go back in time and win the genetic lottery. If you're arguing that TRP's self-help advice doesn't do anyone any good, I'd beg to differ. I know a RL friend who used TRP to move from "I don't understand, I feel like girls are into me but I can't do anything about it," to los…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:13 AM
1

I feel like you want to be this guy, but feel like you can't because of rules/society. He's breaking the rules as you see them, and you're upset. This is really typical of people who still haven't fully internalized the Red Pill. What you need to realize is, those rules you think exist aren't real. If you want to be getting the results he's getting, start doing what he's doing. Work harder, ignore rules that aren't enforced, be selfish.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 10:06 PM
1

IDK man watch some RSD videos or something, it's not as hard as you are making it out to be. You're probably just doing it wrong. Read more stuff on here, go out and try again. If London is actually that bad and you're not exaggerating, go somewhere else. Your accent will probably get you laid in the U.S. if you have any game at all and are actually in shape.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:29 PM
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I asked this question directly of the TRP mods a while back. I'll share their answer with you. This isn't information they disclose - get some karma on the account, lurk more, try again later.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 08:28 PM
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Oh, yeah, I'm not worried about it. It was a plus, but she's basically indistinguishable from any other attractive girl who can keep up with me. There are more of those turning 18 every year. Besides, that's a feature I care about more for an LTR. I'm really only in the market for plates right now, so it's a small loss.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 08:20 PM
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Hah, yeah, I'd read the same article.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:53 PM
2

IDK man, you kinda have to just grow a pair and approach. The sooner the better. I approached literally as soon as I realized I was attracted to Blonde. It's the same self-discipline it takes to step into a freezing cold shower, or put the soda down and get a cup of water instead. If it helps, remember that your brain is wired for social anxiety in a tribal culture, where being ostracized means being left alone in nature and probably dying. You don't live there. Your brain is lying to you about …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:50 PM
1

I actually managed to find some abundance mentality before getting TRP. I ended my first and only LTR because it wasn't working. I spent over five years with that girl, wanted to marry her and have 2.5 children, everything. After casting those dreams aside because reality was staring me in the face, it's pretty easy to move on from some chick I've only talked to for a few hours.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:34 PM
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If it scares the shit out of you, you should try it... that's the only way it'll get more normal. I had been to bars to hang with friends a couple of times before this, and if I hadn't had that experience I'd have felt way more nervous. After this, I think I'll be more comfortable next time.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 04:29 PM
2

Thanks, that's really helpful. I've already been trying the whole "look good whenever I go out" thing, but for now that's basically just getting groceries (and going to BJJ, but that has a uniform).
/r/askTRP23/01/16 04:28 PM
2

How do you improve your day-game opportunities if you're working 9-5 every day? Just make a point of going out for lunch, or... what? Hang out at the mall on saturday or something? I try to game whenever I run into a girl that's attractive, but that's infrequent enough I feel like I need to be purposeful in spending more time where I can meet new people. It does not help matters that I live in a city that doesn't have much mass transit or foot traffic.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 04:02 PM
1

I'm not really clear on how to isolate effectively, it doesn't get as much coverage as some other aspects of game. Is it as simple as just "Hey, come with me for a second." ? On going back to my place - I don't have my own place at the moment, moved back in with parents while finishing my law degree. I'll keep that advice in mind for when I do. That night, there was added complication in that Friend was in from out of town and staying at Blonde's place. Really uncertain on how to F-close with th…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:45 PM
2

Heh, thanks. I was alternating between laughing and kicking myself for my mistakes on that three hour walk home. Probably looked like a crazy person.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:38 PM
1

If I could do it over: I'd smile, nod, "Sure, whatever you say." Keep going like she didn't say it.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:13 PM
1

This is exactly the kind of feedback I was hoping for, thanks! I thought at the time that the smarter-than-me thing was more of a comfort test, but I know that how I handled it, I still blew it. The only thing I could think that I should have done differently was treat it more like a shit test and pull something like pressure flip or agree and amplify. Other hindsight quips I thought of, "I do. Do you think you're smarter than me, then?" "Oh, yeah, I like 'em dumb as a post (shit eating grin)." …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:11 PM
3

Well, my goal for the evening was to get out there and approach. I would have been quite happy with how things turned out if not for getting my car towed. I did wind up having fun, overall, but I don't think being goal-oriented is bad.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 02:08 PM
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We had banter about the kind of statistical analysis that lets Amazon send you advertisements for diapers and cribs before you know you're pregnant, just by tracking your browsing habits and correlating data. I legit liked this girl, which was part of what sunk me. I was expecting to chat up some average intelligence girl who couldn't keep up.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:01 AM
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On the green lights: with how she said it (smiling, direct eye contact), it was clear she was considering ditching her friend or taking me back to her place. I didn't mention staying after dropping off Blonde and Friend, she got to thinking that on her own. I've read many times on here that "I'm not going to sleep with you" is just about the clearest sign that she's thinking about sleeping with you that you can get. For whatever reason, I didn't have that internalized at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 08:42 AM
3

I'm going to suggest you not try to revenge fuck/pump-n-dump your ex down the line. You're way better off going no-contact. Your new life shouldn't be about getting revenge on her, it should be about getting what you actually want out of life. Besides, no matter what you do to her, she'll never really understand what she put you through, and she won't be sorry.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:26 PM
1

I don't have any personal experience dealing with that level of anger, but I did see a documentary I was linked through TRP sources about men who have had that experience. Consider watching it. I can't promise it will give you any answers, but it may help you understand it/feel less alone in dealing with it.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:19 PM
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This is a wild-ass guess: Women are willing to find other women attractive sexually, but mostly don't pursue them in relationships. This is because they want to be dominated, and men do that better than women. I've known a lot of women in my age group who are "bisexual but heteroromantic," which means they'd sleep with a girl but can't be bothered to and are never like "omg I want to date that girl." It's probably some kind of evolved way to cope with being stuck in one guy's harem. As for stric…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 02:41 AM
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Now Ben is an old mutual friend of ours I’ve never liked or got along with What the shit is this? Ben's a mutual friend who he never liked or got along with? That doesn't sound like a friend. It sounds like someone his wife wants to keep around as a "friend" so she can fuck him again if he ever changes his mind.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 03:37 PM
3

I believe you, but the thing is while I want to sleep with hot women, I don't only want to sleep with hot women. I'd rather take risks in life that end poorly in bankruptcy proceedings than risks that end poorly in jail or shot over territory or some junkie's next fix. I think that's a really important thing to keep in mind when pursuing a TRP lifestyle - you could get women easier, but you're building a life for yourself first and foremost.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 08:13 AM
2

The question isn't whether you want it, everyone wants everything good in life. I want to be a master of three different martial arts and parkour, so that I'm a real life friggin' ninja. I also want to eat delicious food, have a ripped body, sleep with hot women, play great video games, watch interesting TV shows, spend time with friends, and have "fuck you" money. But I don't have time to do all of those things, so it comes down to priorities and which of those things are acquirable RIGHT NOW a…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 02:36 AM
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I feel like the male resentment is more about exploitation than it is about purely being subordinate. If you mentor a male subordinate and he feels like you're helping him learn something valuable while he's working for you, he'll respect you and like his job. This is how you get loyalty in military groups to "the old man." If you treat a male subordinate like he's a replaceable drone, he'll feel exploited and resent you. This is how you get disloyalty in military groups, leading to the historic…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 10:39 PM
3

What I've read suggests that "Hi, my name is dispatcherselfish," is super typical and not really interesting. She doesn't care who you are yet, you're sort of qualifying yourself. Start by just saying "Hi." See how she responds. Talk to her for a bit, make small talk. Weather, local sports team, powerball jackpot, whatever. Ask for her name, smile, nod, whatever, don't tell her yours. Tell her yours when she asks in response. Another suggestion I've seen given is to do cold-reading. Guess at wha…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:17 AM
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I'm 28, I spend time doing BJJ - good manly bonding experience, making friends there - and do tabletop roleplaying games with other friends on most weekends. Pick up a social hobby, and you'll necessarily meet people who want to be social.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 05:07 AM
3

And some men don't love women, either. It's more a statement of generalities and capacity.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:46 AM
1

I've seen this in my own local kink community - there are a couple of guys who have multiple girls, all quite pretty, who they're fucking on the regular. Some of them are exclusive to the guy, some aren't, but the common factor is the guys are basically spinning a lot of plates. The craziest part is that they're not even that physically attractive, and I'm not sure how much they know about game. They are, however, really good at selling the Dominant/submissive fantasy, and very technically profi…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:54 PM
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Rollo's said it a lot. Men love women. Women love children.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:17 AM
1

Check out this guide that was posted on TRP a couple of months ago.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 12:15 PM
2

I wouldn't be surprised if part of the problem with loyal women is exactly what you're describing - some level of evolutionarily beneficial behavior where women's feelings for a particular man dissipate if they've been fucked enough but aren't pregnant. We're not evolved for modern society.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 05:21 AM
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"As loyal as they possibly get" is not likely to be found today, but history has (apocryphal) examples of women who would kill themselves rather than be unfaithful. I'd say your best shot is to find a girl to whom you are in the top 1%. Women have their own ideas about what makes a man high-SMV, and lots of it is universal. But if you find one who likes the particulars of you, you reduce the pool of men who could potentially snatch her away. And while women will branch swing and cheat, there's r…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 08:54 AM
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If by "true RP Profession" you mean that being personally driven can get you places, yes, absolutely. Most people still wind up making the partners at their firm lots of money and never seeing the real fruits of their labor, but some do better. Lots of the best/brightest work for a while for big firms, then break off and start their own practice once they've gotten some experience, both with the rain-making/sales side and the actual practice side.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:42 AM
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Before my RP awakening, I interviewed for some Big Law firms. I didn't get any callbacks despite my resume, and I think it all came down to one thing - they asked how I had done so well, and I didn't tell them "I worked my ass off, that's how." They realized I didn't want to work my ass off for them even before I did. If some girl is looking for her betabux, and you aren't about to be him, well... good! You don't match. Go find some girl who wants to party with you for a while.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:19 AM
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I'm pretty sure this would go over better in askTRP. And when you post there, give some more details about just what you see as discrepancies, so that people can actually answer your specific concerns if they care to.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 06:09 PM
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I'm a law student, and not your lawyer, but my two cents: This is the same school you're attending, yeah? You probably can't sue them for making a good faith investigation on a rape claim. You might be able to do something if you can prove they knew it was false or something, but that's really unlikely. As for the girl, save it until you're done paying your lawyer for this case, then talk to him about it. You don't want to get involved in - and pay for - any more litigation than you have to. And…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:14 AM
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1 - No, have an attorney present; even if there aren't any criminal charges now, you want to be protected against saying anything incriminating that could be used against you in a trial. 2 - Consult with your attorney first. 3 - "Basics" means that you 'should not be worried', so you will tell them what they want to know and be screwed over. 4 - Yes, absolutely, if there's a way to reschedule this until you've found an attorney, do so.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:27 PM
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These are good reminders. I messed up on this tonight, told a girl she had beautiful eyes. Pretty sure my mistakes for the night truly were: SMV not high enough. Not reading IOIs well enough to close. Only so much one can do with a girl who's 28 and feeling the need to settle down, but... I know if I was ten pounds heavier with 5% less body fat, she'd probably have given me her number. TL;DR Go lift.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 10:53 AM
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