ToastyNathan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you. Friends care	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 08:53 PM
1	Q4everyone: Is your type into you? I rarely meet goth/punk girls, so likely I'm not their type. They also seem to have a higher likelihood of being a lesbian	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/23 07:56 PM
0	When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic. irrelevant	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:54 AM
1	When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic. Why do you think they are pretending?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:27 AM
1	When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic. When all you want is romance and all you get is platonic, it's easy to reach some negative conclusions about what being a friend is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:26 AM
2	When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic. She will be forward. That's how you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:25 AM
6	The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race. You were told this? Or are you reading between the lines?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/23 02:20 AM
2	Title By other women who share that shitty view	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 03:41 AM
1	Title Says who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/01/23 03:17 AM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege Your say that like it's done by pushing a button	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 04:00 AM
1	Rising women's complains today about dating do not add up to the reality of their sexual privilege Desire to be single	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 03:56 AM
1	Female friends should not hesitant to wingman The two times a women offered to wing man for me, both times I was left out to dry and became the odd wheel. I'm sure women make great wing men. I just haven't experienced it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 01:49 AM
3	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives Except they do	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 08:32 PM
3	The women who advise men they should get to know women as "people" first before trying anything also crap on "sneaky nice guys" for having with ulterior motives If you do become friends, genuine friends, and then start to get romantic or sexual feelings and express them, you will be accused of never wanting to be friends in the first place. You will be told that you are a pig for wanting to have sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/22 07:27 PM
1	How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue? I'm not gay, why would I want to fuck myself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 02:54 AM
1	Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles? The ones who like to hang with me are gay. So my options are limited to basically nobody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 01:47 AM
1	Unless a girl tells you expressly that she's looking for a relationship its fair to be coy about whether or not you are because that's the exact same thing she's doing. How is he supposed to be aware of what she thinks?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 07:55 PM
1	The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only". I should get a boat	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 07:47 PM
1	The advice women give here should be prefaced with "for ugly or average men only". Great! Can you convince the rest of the women to start being honest like you just were?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 07:44 PM
1	Personality and social skills went from being overrated to underrated given how much people have started to fixate on looks Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 08:24 PM
1	What was the biggest sign you ever gave to a guy only for him to miss it? Because women wanted equality	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:11 PM
1	I believ that The bar to be considered attractive for a woman is way lower than It is for men Is it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/22 08:07 PM
1	Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in men Where is the dividing line? Because it sure seems like they just don't want to hear anything about my emotions outside of being sad at the end of The Green Mile.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 07:36 PM
1	If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never bother I really wonder if being blunt actually increases the chance of a bad reaction from a guy, or if that guy would react bad regardless of how she rejects him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 07:26 PM
1	Seriously, why does nobody in the “incel discourse” ever recommend going to bars? Dont ever try to date is the advice I get from women constantly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/22 05:56 PM
1	They did it to themselves. I was taught this at my christian high school	/r/PussyPassDenied	20/07/22 03:30 PM
1	CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless Then it's not "no fault divorce" at that point	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 07:44 PM
1	CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless It actually is. All the ceremony and vows are just for decoration. They don't legally bind anything. The marriage contract they sign does legally bind them though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 07:43 PM
1	CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless Woah woah woah. You said no fault divorce. Cheating makes it at fault. That's different.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 07:41 PM
1	CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless According to who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 07:40 PM
2	CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless Bad marriages cause harm to children. It's better for them to have separate but happy parents than misserable but together parents. Marriage is just a financial agreement. All the ceremony and vows are just part of the celebration. You put as much emotional value as you want into it. If it isn't what you expected, why should you be punished for undoing a mistake?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 07:30 PM
2	CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointless What behavior are you trying to deter by doing that? If you want fewer divorces, you will end up with more unhappy marriages. That is what happened before no fault divorce. People stayed in crappy marriages and couldnt leave without significant financial hardship. Why punish someone for making a mistake they couldnt foresee (The mistake being getting married)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/22 06:58 PM
1	[Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice. If thats what they are saying, its not sounding like that. They should try harder to say what they mean.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:32 PM
2	[Debate] At least for men, "just wait, it will happen bro" is terrible advice. Im very confident that waiting wont help	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/22 04:21 PM
2	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Advice on how to process how he was lied to. But you don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:54 PM
2	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Average people don't want to rape their partners because they lied nobody said they wanted to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:12 PM
1	Women, how do you expect a man to meet a woman? I have heard both from the same women	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 04:09 PM
3	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. he doesn't care that the woman lied about her sexual history no, he explicitly does care that she lied. that is what people are trying to tell you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:52 PM
2	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Are you telling men its their fault for women lying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:50 PM
2	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. You are thinking about it from a single perspective. they didnt say you were single	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:47 PM
2	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. If he forgave that based on the belief that she never gave that sex to anyone else, that's his own fault. its his fault that she lied?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:37 PM
2	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. But it doesn't change the value she has brought to your life in the past 10 years. yes it does	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:35 PM
1	Man finds out fiancé used to be more adventurous in bed. Refuses to explore sexually with him. How should he feel? Thoughts and discussion. Its the lying about it that gets most people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/22 03:32 PM
18	If a woman continues to multi-date after going on a date with you, she's not into you. All of these responses make me believe I dont know the true definition of what "dating" someone is. I thought it implied exclusivity. Apparently not? This kind of shit isnt really taught and I tend to have a hard time understanding these soft concepts. Should I really expect someone else, and myself, to be dating multiple people in the beginning? I always thought of those beginning as being friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/22 06:25 PM
1	Being a lesbian, is 10x worse than being a straight man in terms of dating, and it makes me angry when they talk about how bad "THEY" got it. Try the bottom 70%	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 04:13 PM
2	The silencing of TRP on Reddit and social media as a whole proves how enormously biased our culture is against males now At this point, Twitter, Reddit etc are more of a digital public square than a private platform. no, they are not. and they cannot be managed as if they were. Websites are just a computer you can access from another via IP address. Its a privately owned computer. As in you have a privilege, not a right, to use it. Follow the rules listed and you will be allowed into the computer. It sucks sometimes, but in order to let you have your websites remain untouched by others, it has to be this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/22 03:46 PM
1	women are attracted to both looks and personality. John Cena are you sure about dat?.gif	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 04:24 PM
1	If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attracted experience with losing weight says otherwise	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 04:30 PM
27	Regarding the post about women being “paranoid” about assault, what are things that women do in this regard that upset you? Its derailing the conversation. Womens negative experiences dont cancel out mens negative experiences. Experience doesnt work that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 04:12 PM
1	The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world I would have gone to a prostitute a while ago if it A) didn't run the risk of human trafficking. And B) were well regulated by some kind of health department.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:23 PM
1	The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern world What does shaming someone going to do that helps? As far as I can tell, it just makes you look like a dick at best	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:16 PM
3	What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill? Where can I buy tickets?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:01 PM
2	What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill? It's derailing	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 08:00 PM
2	What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill? It's only a mild exaggeration	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 07:59 PM
3	What makes men gravitate towards Redpill? What got you interested (if you are interested) in redpill? Lack of genuine sources for help in dating IMO. What places can a guy go to for help in that area without encountering toxic behavior? At the time, red pill was the closest thing to that despite the toxicity. I found /r/bropill recently and really enjoy it. It's a hell of a lot less toxic and great for looking for advise as a guy in many aspects of life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 07:56 PM
15	If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attracted So can we stop saying that women are attracted to funny men now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 07:48 PM
1	If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attracted IDK how many times I heard the phrase "you are SO funny" only to be disapointed that it didnt mean she was attracted to me. I wish the myth of having good humor being attractive never came into my head.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 05:25 PM
2	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them a man rejecting someone is abuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 06:37 PM
1	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them rejection is abuse? im just kinda confused at what point you are making.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 05:02 PM
3	What's y'all's opinion on female friends? I didnt realize how good a female friend could be until I got an actually good female friend in my mid 20s. She has been such a good influence on me. I felt comfortable around her. She was great for building my confidence and practicing compliments to women. I never felt like she was trying to lead me on like female friends in high school. I felt like an equal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 04:20 PM
1	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them I think people are trying to compare apples to oranges when talking about a mans dating troubles and a womans dating troubles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 04:04 PM
0	The threat of violence and sexual assault, while real, is dramatically overblown and overused by women as an excuse for misandrist behavior and to generalize the entire male population, most of which is harmless to them Male rejection is terrifying to be on the other end of. what does this have to do with the topic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 04:00 PM
10	Woman; have you ever given advice to your male friends regarding attracting Woman? I need you as a friend. Either it isnt happening to me, or my friends dont want to tell me that a woman is showing interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 06:35 PM
1	Woman; have you ever given advice to your male friends regarding attracting Woman? my problem with this is that it assumes way too much about what the person's' mindset is. How do you know they arent already following that advice? How do you know they arent respecting themselves? Maybe they could just not understand what they are doing wrong. But you dont really wanna hear that you are not helping anyone with this kind of advice (see how snarky that comes across? regardless of your advice, nobody will follow it if you are a dink about it).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 06:34 PM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Its because the kind of advice that would be useful only comes with a lot of understanding and information of the individual. Advice from online forums are WAY too generalized to actually be any help. It ends up being "just be better" which is garbage advice at best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/22 10:16 PM
3	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man I see you were not listening	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 08:02 PM
8	Transgender men are our greatest source to confirm what cis-men already knew about dating as a man yes. that is what they said. were you not listening?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 04:16 PM
1	There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner. Damn, you really don't see the problem, huh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 10:00 PM
2	There is something seriously wrong with society if people in their youth and most child bearing ages are involving in casual sex rather than building a family with a partner. You shamed people. Don't be in denial	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/21 09:51 PM
1	All things being equal, do you believe a woman being a virgin in her mid 20s a red flag or turn off? If I did, Id be a hypocrite. So I dont.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:34 PM
1	How important it's preselection (mate copying) as attribute for a men? So as a dude aproaching his 30s with no sex, should I try to hide it? Do I lie about it? Do I be honest and just accept that I wont be attractive to anyone now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:31 PM
1	How important it's preselection (mate copying) as attribute for a men? Im approaching 30....do you have any suggestions for escorts?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 11:29 PM
1	When did you stop trusting men? oh god, why did I look?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:43 PM
2	When did you stop trusting men? Would you still be friends with them? If I was dating a woman and she needed to transition into a man, IDK if I would continue dating them. Id try to stay friends, but I know I wouldnt have the same kind of love I did if she doesnt transition to being a man. Not being attracted because they transitioned is fine and perfectly normal for many people. Hating them and not trusting them because they transitioned is a bit bigoted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 10:41 PM
1	What exactly did TRP teach you that normal dating advice doesn't? I got specifics. I asked about things like chemistry and flirting. The only advice I got before would be "be yourself", which is garbage advice at best, and 'fake it till you make it'. Thats it. No answers to questions about what any of that means or why I should do it. Also learned about timing and how long is too long to ask a woman out. Normal advice tells me to ask any woman anywhere or dont ask at all. No inbetween or grey area.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/21 07:47 PM
14	In your opinion. When you look at the men around you. What do you think is causing the modern sexlessnes of under 30 men? Im gonna need my friends to start pointing out women who express interest in me. As far as I can tell, there is no clue or hint that communicates interest at all. Every time I thought I saw a signal, I ended up being told that she was just being friendly. If I cant tell, Im gonna end up forever alone (TM)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 08:10 PM
2	Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag. so what does being trans have to do with it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 06:51 PM
2	Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag. Johnny Bravo playing the dude getting women feels wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 06:48 PM
2	The premise behind the red pill is correct, but the solutions offered by the blue pill are the answer "be yourself" is so vague and broad that it's useless as advice. Being myself isn't getting me the results I want. the other side of the "advice" spectrum is "fake it till you make it". I also think this is too vague and broad to be of any use	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/21 06:04 PM
10	You should make an OLD account of the opposite sex before even attempting to comment/give advice on dating for that respective sex. good bot	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/21 10:22 PM
3	What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism? Nobody is asking about stoicism though. The question is about feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:55 PM
2	If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women. They typically overlap. no they don't	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 10:29 PM
4	If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women. what better food? we only have ham sandwiches	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 10:28 PM
1	How often do girls reject guys based on looks alone? Reading that thread made me sad for me	/r/seduction	26/05/21 10:46 PM
1	Women will respect your courage Do you really think a woman is going to be angry at being approached by a guy that tells her she's attractive? also, yes. It has happened before to me. But in hindsight, I think im just unlucky.	/r/seduction	26/05/21 09:25 PM
1	Women will respect your courage There's NOTHING and I SAY NOTHING WRONG with this. You're not being pushy, you're not trying to manipulate her, you're not trying to follow her home. Can you put this in mantra form so I can repeat it to myself?	/r/seduction	26/05/21 09:24 PM
2	Women will respect your courage TBH, I dont think anyone knows where a woman can be safely asked out. I have heard excuses for literally every location a person can meet women. Dont hit on girls at a club because they just want to hang with thier girlfriends. Dont hit on her at work for obvious reasons. Dont hit on a coworker for more obvious reasons. Dont ask out your friend or you will ruin the relationship. Dont ask out a stranger because they dont even know you. Im convinced nobody knows what they are talking about after h…	/r/seduction	26/05/21 09:21 PM
1	Why A Judge Dismissed U.S. Women's Soccer Team's Claim Of Unequal Pay : NPR why?	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/04/21 05:56 PM
1	Female teacher suspended over photo of her foot on a 10-year-old black student's neck, on the day of Derek Chauvin’s guilty verdict From what Im reading here, sounds like it was just a joke in poor taste and not any kind of stand against anything. The teacher sounds remorseful and now seems aware of what they were doing. I believe there was no malice intent. Doesnt make it look good though. Even as a joke, i wouldn't feel comfortable with a teacher joking about that. I totally understand the initial anger about it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/04/21 05:53 PM
4	I think this belongs here. (If OP is a boy) Schools dont care. At best, a suspension for both. At worst. The dude gets expelled.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/11/19 08:42 PM