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You're still young and can change things and become your best self and rewrite your reality.
/r/seduction16/05/21 06:03 AM
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You are a wonderful human being. Thank you for your post 😁. I'm so glad for you that you did. And hey we approach regardless of outcome, right my good man? You approached and you attracted her and you owned the situation. Friggin number close and date close. The interaction was amazing unto its own, and that is something that will stay with you and empower you. Keep up the great work. You are a high value man and embody positive Masculinity. A game aware alpha. You both shared a beautiful wonder…
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:09 PM
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Why are you being such an ass hole? Fan fiction? What an absolute boar you are. That is not "kinda the main point" you toxic beta twat. The main point is posting a field report that again goes to prove what Mystery and Style and RSD Max and Tyler and so many mPUA's have shown us through their infield applied research. He did something brave and wonderful. He deserves our support and admiration for being a real man and putting himself out there. Too many either don't know or have somehow forgotte…
/r/seduction11/05/21 02:55 PM
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Third this. There is a whole 'nother book on that topic. Authenticity (Harvard Business School). Very powerful idea in psychology. Though this book is in the context of business and organizations. But the principles still apply. Another book I highly recommend and is reccomend by Neil Strauss/Style who wrote the Game: The psychology of influence, by Dr. Robert Cialdini. A must read. It's steeped and based in science. Authenticity Influence
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:39 PM
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Thank you :) Glad to hear that you enjoyed it. I like that 👌 my new tag line : The "Modern Renaissance Man" _^
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:56 AM
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The funny thing is that evolutionarily speaking the tendency to be able to pass on genetic material faster would have ensured survival. Whereas those who last longer, in a prehistoric environment, would have been more likely to die out or be selected against, since the environment would have favored the ability to pass on your genetic material as quickly as possible, or risk being eaten or attacked by animals before completing the act. But in a modern environment, lasting longer is more tied to …
/r/seduction03/05/21 10:15 PM
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Sounds like a classic case of different adult attachment styles. I urge you to read this book: Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and how it Can Help You Find--and Keep--love Book by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller Attached
/r/seduction02/05/21 05:01 PM
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This is a common retort. It doesn't mean she has one. Its a shit test. Most cases she's just testing to see if you'll be able to pass the weed out phase. This is like the most classic retort ever. There are ways to disable this line. Usually if she's smiling and responding well to your approach, she's practically inviting you what with all the Indicators of interest she's throwing at you like a bazooka cannon. Not to mention all the IOI's she shot at the tattoo man. Great of you to have hopped i…
/r/seduction02/05/21 03:37 PM
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Plenty you can do. Even if you're below average. Learn some Game/pick up. There's so much you can do. Read through some of my comments for book reccs.
/r/seduction02/05/21 05:00 AM
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Mystery method is not a maybe. It's a must. Those books are great. Rational male is a must (there are 3). All these books are top notch. There are more than 6. https://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/top-six-game-books/
/r/TheRedPill30/04/21 05:42 PM
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As Tom Torerro would say "don't hide your cock" You need to follow Mystery's M3 model . You are just building comfort and rapport but you're not building attraction. If you haven't already read it , read the Game by Neil Strauss, and then read the Mystery Method (as well as the pickup artist and Revelationsl and the Rules of The Game. If you want to go beyond and become better and truly live find Neil Strauss's book list and buy and read every single title. https://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/top-s…
/r/seduction30/04/21 04:15 PM
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Thanks for asking :) it's important to ask.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:52 PM
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So what if it takes time? Do you expect to know how to do anything instantly ? Be realistic. If you care enough then you will make the time. And what you read in game, what you own, becomes a part of you. Like driving a car. You can't forget that. But you need to love the material live the material . Be drawn to it, want it more than anything. Make it your Bible. Then it will be written into your heart. Yes sure you may forget some stuff but not what matters most. That stays a part of you. It's …
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:23 PM
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It doesn't matter if your hot. And 2-5%? Where are are getting these numbers . Patently false. You can be a 3 foot tall ugly bald guy . Doesn't matter. If you know your game you win almost every time . Some women aren't meant for us and we aren't meant for some women. So That small percentage is controlled for. But everyone else is susceptible to the game. Everyone. And if you know how to attract a woman (m3 model look it up) then she will want you. Period. Between a game educated man and a cele…
/r/seduction27/04/21 11:56 AM
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Indications/indicators of interest. Like she touches your hand or flips her hair or touches her cheek or raises her chin and bares her neck to you, or touches your hand. Something she does to show you she's interested or attracted. Three of those generally is a sign of encouragement and means you can usually proceed to next step in the model or escalate. It's likes a real time positive feedback so you can read the situation. Buy yourself a copy of the mystery method/the pick up artist. And the g…
/r/seduction27/04/21 10:57 AM
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Numbers yes. But women are just as sexual as men. And actually you do have control over whether or not she wants to sleep with you. If you attract her enough she'll want to sleep with you and have your babies. That's what game is in many respects about. Though it's much deeper than that. Most women are willing on average. You just have to know how.
/r/seduction27/04/21 03:10 AM
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Without the right books and guidance you'll wander alone in the desert for far too long. First you read then you practice.
/r/seduction27/04/21 02:38 AM
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Look at my post below.
/r/seduction27/04/21 02:37 AM
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I resent this comment. Because it's very possible. And PUA is the real deal. Intergender social dynamics. But to your point, the op should learn the fundamentals first. Also bounce by definition doesn't mean taking her home. You can bounce locations within a club or from location to location. And eventually yes that's the goal. Take a look at the expanded M3 Model.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:51 PM
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Also don't be a freaking robot with only canned lines. It helps to have a few routines memorized but make them your own.. Have fun with her learn some memory tricks impress her with your perfect memory (pegging). Have her pick a number between 1 and 10... read her mind (statistically it will be 5.. lol) Look up on Google the old pua forum posts. Styles kiss close. Etc . Some classic pua date games.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:24 PM
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That's to your second question. Bit it helps for both. Analyze your date what's going on in the interaction. Also a sexual relationship is defined as repeated like three times. Most people today are very sexually liberated. If you can get her home it helps. Not the biggest deal or the main point but it helps if you use the Mystey method M3 model (look it up) and the 7 hour rule as well as the 5 second rule. You need to make her feel all that stuff. Take her on a journey , if you bounce around a …
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:22 PM
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Have to admit, it makes for a pretty smooth punchline 😉
/r/seduction20/04/21 06:02 PM
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🙂
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:31 PM
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Penguin 🐧 smooth.
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:31 PM
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You're right, though internet speech has also entered the spoken English.
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:29 PM
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Ess Ohh in speech. And also significant other . But people will understand you I believe if you say Ess Ohh . And if they don't, you can always follow it up with Significnt other. But contextually I'm sure most people will understand you.
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:27 PM
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Half the battle is won by knowing 🙌💪👏 the other half by applying what we know and growing by experience :). So my good man you've won much of the battle already 🙂
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:22 PM
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Much truth my good man much truth 🙏. Push pull is the overall strategy. But a neg is a tactic. And a very powerful one. One that is very tricky to understand at first so it's imperative that we define very carefully and then drill until it becomes second nature. We use similar language in order to establish a common body of literature so that we all know what we're talking about. One of my masters once taught that language is for communication, so as long as we understand eachother then there's …
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:20 PM
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Figured it out :) apparently a hashtag in the beginning makes the paragraph bold.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:30 PM
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I don't know how it got bolded 😅 I'll try reposting.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:29 PM
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That's what we call a neg :) and you're on point with the no outcome dependence.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:25 PM
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Too true.
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:24 PM
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Legend . That's awesome man. 👌 great that you put yourself out there and exercised your masculine energy. Happy for you that it turned out so nicely :) . There's something to the idea of conveying that you don't really want anything from someone when going up to them. Usually people can be guarded up the wazoo since they're first thought is like what the heck does this person want from me. But you just appreciated her feminine energy and acknowledged what she was putting out into the world, and …
/r/seduction20/04/21 12:23 PM
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I see what you mean now. Thank you for explaining 😊
/r/seduction20/04/21 02:35 AM
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There is definitely such a thing as text game. Once you do inner game it sort of piles up and can come out in a mega way when you need the mojo. I've pulled with that before. Built up attraction and pumped up the buying temperature like you wouldn't believe. Then bounced it to a date at a bar, and all that attraction translated into our in person date. And the rest as they say was history _^
/r/seduction19/04/21 09:59 PM
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My best friends brother is now married to a woman who he cold approached on Facebook. She is a celebrity newsanchor so very high value. It's definitely possible. Just need the right approach.
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:35 PM
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I'd also add that they participate in the Sexual market/inter gender social dynamics arena from much younger ages, so by the time a man is 18 and a woman is 18, she has years of experience already. So we study game and intergender social dynamics to level the playing field and crash course our way to level ground , and come up to speed. Then we can take it even further as we gain that enlightenment and unplug ourselves from the matrix, and gain a competitive advantage in the sexual market place.
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:41 PM
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Incongruent? That's a curious notion. Incongruent in relation to what precisely? To one's old unpolished unenlightened self? As long as you're being thoughtful about your interactions I don't see why it's an issue to worry about. It definitely helps to push yourself to light up a few thousand watts. Over time you build the best self that you're aiming towards. It's okay to polish your self , and find your best self. It pays to think about what you want and who you want to be. Build a new self im…
/r/seduction19/04/21 06:13 PM
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It's great to learn. There's lots to learn and we don't always have all the answers ourself. So it's a boon to learn by example and have a place to talk about things that are important to you. Why do you think it's bad to take advice from others? It's definitely a good thing to have a place to compare notes and self analyze.
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:37 PM
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Great point you're making. Always important to think about and self analyze the underlying motivations behind our actions and feelings.
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:27 PM
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I know just what you mean. One time I was on the train in NYC, and this young woman walks on. I don't know what it was that struck me so about her, but to me, in that moment, she may as well have been the most beautiful woman that I'd ever seen. Like an angel just walked into my life. My mental jaw dropped and I was just awe struck. There was just something about her, and at that stage in my life, pre game and pre my intergender social dynamics education, I didn't know what to do with that. She …
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:02 PM
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When anyone worth their weight refers to pick up, they mean mystery, style, RSD TYLER ( not to discount them but I dont mention Tod Valentine or Tom Torerro though they add value and others b/c mostly they tend to be derivative) of course this list isn't exclusive, but the point here is verified and unique MPUA's who contribute original research, or build on existing research. Everything boils down to Mystery the God father of PUA. Ross Jeffieries the father of PUA was clever in using NLP mindse…
/r/seduction09/05/17 05:46 PM
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Only as it relates to trash talking PUA/positive masculinity. But otherwise you have some good things to say. Which by the way all comes from the Pua community:)
/r/seduction09/05/17 03:18 PM
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SUPER IMPORTANT PSA: For your own sake do yourself justice and internalize this field tested and clinically proven truth: Anyone who tell you that PUA/positive masculinity isn't the way to go is a low order MegaAFC plugged into and ego-invested in the matrix trying to drag you down when your finally escaping the AFC Beta mindset propaganda (tomassi) disregard them they're lying to you. ----Sage/Impact
/r/seduction09/05/17 03:07 PM
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You can make her want to kiss you with kino escalation compliance hoops and building sexual tension. But don't over think things and get caught up in your head space , breathe through tension, enjoy the moment. Aggressive and pushy is not good , but positive masculinity is the way to go (tomassi). A man leads and designs the woman's experience, but always calibrate. If you sense discomfort take a step back recalibrate then react accordingly(RSD/mystery) Push pull/hook and release/ Ghost and flam…
/r/seduction09/05/17 02:57 PM
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My pleasure. We're all on this journey together. Stay strong and know that you're not alone and there's an entire community to back you up on your self growth : )
/r/seduction09/05/17 01:59 PM
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Don't rely on this buffer. Don't say that she isn't in to you and use that as an excuse not to analyse and calibrate a better way to react and respond. If you were the best pua in the world you would bag 80% of the woman in the world. You can become better, just gotta shed your negative layers, rid yourself of limiting beliefs. Watch some Tyler and Julian RSD to inspire you. Don't run away from this , face it directly.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:46 PM
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To quote mystery it's a form of ASD or anti slut defense. You need to stop relating to women on male to male pole, her emotions and body language are speaking to you, you have to respond in kind. Not on a rational intellectual level. Not to say that they aren't capable, rather chemistry is emotional not rational(deida) Buy yourself a copy of rollo tomassi's the rational male. Also david deida' s superior male. Have you read mystery method? Buy yourself a copy. If she would kiss you in the beginn…
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:08 PM
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