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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 09:10 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 08:14 AM
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She should get a lot of money because she co-founded Amazon.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:46 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:42 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:41 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:40 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:40 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:39 AM
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/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:38 AM
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So you believe the debunked myth about her cutting off his finger even though he admitted he did that himself? No one seriously believes in the finger thing. Even Trump said Depp's claim was retarded. Honestly, do you even believe Depp was abused or do you just rally for him because he's a man?
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 06:16 AM
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Can you explain why? I used to be anti-Amber too until I looked at the facts.
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 06:10 AM
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I did not say women have not killed men. There are some very brave women who kill their rapists, abusers, and pimps. Deadbeats dads are the vast majority in many places. Deadbeat moms almost never exist. "B-but women are just as bad as men!" Except in every circumstance, they are not. I don't know why you think the Heard-Depp situation is funny. Why do you think she wasn't abused? You don't watch out for women. Don't lie.
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 05:19 AM
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Can I ask honestly why you do not support her?
/r/AntiFeminists05/01/23 05:16 AM
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You are the reason I'm no longer anti-feminist. You're more concerned about women joking about living in a woman-only world than you are about men actually being terrorists and being a threat to your life.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:46 PM
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I think you misread the word all and changed it to a. Genocide jokes are seen as offensiveto some because thousands of times in history men have tried to kill all of another ethnicity.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:44 PM
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These last several years I have been a set in stone anti-feminist. I somehow managed to realize the truth. If I can do it, there's hope for all women. Feminists are not telling fathers to abandon their children. Men are doing that en masse on their own.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:43 PM
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Sexism against men isn't real. You're actually calling women terrorists lmao.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:42 PM
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It is not a threat, and you know it. The reason I stopped being anti-feminist was because of how blatantly dishonest and hateful men are.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:41 PM
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Do I honestly have to explain this to you or do you understand why what you're saying is dishonest? Are you against free speech by the way?
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:40 PM
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Please find where I said women have never killed anyone. Dads are usually not in the children's lives. Abandoning children is abuse. The lesbian abuse rates thing is a myth. Amber was abused. You're not scared to walk alone at night because of women. Stop capping.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:39 PM
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This is why I stopped being anti-feminist. How could you say something so dumb? Feminism doesn't promote single motherhood. Single motherhood is caused by men who leave women they have sex with and their children. There is no other cause except men.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 08:58 AM
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Joking about genocide is often considered fine since it's dark humor, but a little touchy because it actually happened a lot in real life. Women trying to kill all men has never happened.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 08:51 AM
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>And if u still think its some kind of joke to vent out pain caused by men I have nothing more to say Is it even possible you do not think this?
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:38 AM
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No one would really care if you do. It's just not that offensive. It's annoying that you don't understand why women say kill all men, as if you are also saying kill all women so you can live in a male-only world, as a desperate fantasy to escape the horror and fear of female violence that you face every day. But other than being annoying and proving that you do not sympathize with women's plight, no one will care. No one actually thinks you want to murder all women.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 07:32 AM
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Forgive me if I don't take you seriously after you admit you won't even listen to the other side's point of view. >You think women predators don't exist?🤡 Read my comment, and tell me where you thought I said this.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 06:48 AM
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You figured out that women who say kill all men have men they love deeply, and it's said out of anguish for the trauma men cause them rather than any desire to kill men.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 06:43 AM
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Yes, women say it to vent and release pain. I don't believe any men believe women actually want this.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 06:42 AM
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You know perfectly well why you are wrong. I can't stand talking to people who argue in bad faith. a) No woman has ever said band together and rape all men. Saying rape men is not ok. I could end it here and the argument would be over. Saying rape all men is not ok as a joke. b) Joking about rape and killing are not even remotely the same thing. You can joke to your sister "haha I'm going to kill you!" or make super innocent jokes about Cookie Monster shooting people who steal his cookies. You'r…
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 06:34 AM
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You are the reason women say kill all men. Edit: I believe how reddit works is if the op of a thread blocks you, you can't reply to the entire rest of the thread? Sorry guys I can't respond to you.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:15 AM
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You aren't supposed to take it seriously... She can't scream "it's a joke" any louder if she tried.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:13 AM
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Nice to know you enjoy traumatizing people for literally no benefit to you whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:59 AM
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If a guy somehow manages to not be a perv and not have dominance over a younger woman, then I'd say he's morally ok but it still gives women the ick that he's older (especially since she will have a tough time knowing his true intentions), so he probably should have found a young attractive woman when he was younger himself. Also it encourages other guys who are actually predatory to say, "See, if he can do it, I can too," when we're trying to generally stay away from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:06 PM
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Almost every single guy except the bottom 1% has women attracted to them. And then the bottom 1% have pity "aww he's cute."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:03 PM
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Thanks for the cookie. :D A guy will never not be able to beat you up until he's crippled and 80 years old, so I don't see the point there about a 30 year old being safer than a 20 year old? He still has that power over her, if he were ever to use it it wouldn't matter if he's less strong than another man. So the old guy could beat her up still, AND has the power of being older. Since men are all unsafe (able to beat you up), I was talking about younger men being safer romantically, such as not …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 11:40 AM
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When I hear them justify something by saying men and women aren't the same, it always seems to be some lie about what women "actually" prefer (when they really don't). For example, "it's good to be a promiscious man because women like that" (no we don't). I'd simply ask them what is not the same, and see what they have to say. Maybe they're right, maybe not. My diffferences come from morality. I think it's the same for men and women to be promiscous because promiscuity is morally wrong, and if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:44 AM
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Yes. Men and women are exact opposites here (in this case, not all the time). It would be hypocritcal of me to think it's the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:17 AM
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Before I read this I wrote a comment about how disgusting the term divorce rape is. I didn't know you were actually going to use the term. You're not funny for making light of rape. Stop calling anything that is not rape rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:13 AM
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If you want to cheat on your wife (or husband), and your desire to cheat causes you to divorce, you should lose all your money. Anyway, the courts make the breadwinner give money to the other. Especially if the other person spent all this unpaid labor and time taking care of the breadwinner, the breadwinner's house, and the breadwinner's children. It doesn't matter what gender you are. They just wasted all that time doing labor for you in a marriage that didn't even work. I highly doubt they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:06 AM
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>broke Don't care. Just be pretty. >deadbeat You mean someone who will abandon me and our children? Of course I don't want this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 10:01 AM
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Funny way of saying most marriages have the husband less than 2 years apart from his wife, whether he is older or younger. So the billions of dollars women spent per year on anti-aging is a fringe trend not explained by insecurity? You underestimate how many women are obsessed with the way they look, seem, and appear. They would absolutely choose a man who makes her appear younger. Some women are highly attracted to the aesthetic of younger guys but they feel awkward and like an old hag being ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:03 AM
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Bout is the creepy one. His dead eyes. He looks violent. Oldness isn't creepy itself, but oldness is creepy when he's hitting on you because you want nothing to do with him, and why would he want someone too young for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:53 AM
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Absolutely. Why would I not want to marry pretty young chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:46 AM
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Most women don't care about that. The ones who do are not doing it for the man, but for themselves. They feel the need to be the smaller, cuter, daintier one at all times. Being older makes her feel old and bumbling. Think about it. It doesn't even make sense to prefer 2 years older. What does that look like? How would you know? It has nothing to do with the age of the man, it has to do with her being insecure about her own youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:45 AM
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Looks > status. Almost all women would pick some random unknown pretty young chad over Zelenskyy. The reason he's getting picked over Bout is Bout is not attractive. He has the cartoonish outline of a manly man, like that guy in Rocky 4. (However a lot of women don't like that type in the first place, that's much more male gaze.) But that's nowhere near good enough. His skin is sagging straight off his face. He looks dead inside and unsafe to be around. There's zero beauty to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:38 AM
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Irk. Men keep posting old men and asking women which are attractive. If you want women to like the photos you picked, post a 20 year old guy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:22 AM
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He looks more like the conventional mold but that doesn't mean anyone is visually pleased by him. He's really ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:20 AM
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They're both old men with poor facial features. What did you expect lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:19 AM
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They're both gross. Bout looks creepy and predatory. Zelenskyy looks more "cute" which makes him more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:19 AM
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Forcing yourself to be attracted to someone is the opposite of choosing not to be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:31 AM
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Female separatism unless someone has a better solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:48 AM
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Well yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:19 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:18 AM
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>I demand that older men don't date younger women. >I am not an older man dating a younger woman. Nothing hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:18 AM
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Your arugment makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:18 AM
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Thoughts are more important than actions. Thoughts are truth. What goes on in your head determines if you're a good or bad person. Your actions can be anything from an accident to peer pressure to manipulation to make yourself look a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:17 AM
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Michael Cera is young, smooth, and ugly cute. Pratt is old and gross and just icky due to his age. Most women would rather touch Cera. I always see women care about youth more than men. The idea running around is that it's the opposite, but honestly do you see that in reality? Men are all over a 50 year old woman if she's fit with long hair. Women will say "umm I guess he's considered handsome but not for me" to a 30 year old celebrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:03 AM
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An average guy in his 20s will always be more attractive than a handsome man in his 20s. I'd rather have sex with an ugly guy in his 20s than the most gorgeous 40 year old man on earth. Old men are creepy and gross, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:53 PM
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He would notice if his mom, cousin, or sister was hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:33 PM
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Yes. Attraction is 100% controllable, and your opinions, thoughts, and values form who you are attracted to. You can literally just turn off attraction by changing your tune. Men who say otherwise need serious help. Imagine a doctor not being able to not be attracted to a patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:32 PM
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I'm able to turn it off easily. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:30 PM
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EXACTLY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:30 PM
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Do you agree that under no circumstance should a male be allowed to be a teacher or doctor then? If a man cannot stop thinking about fucking his students or his patients, this profession should be illegal for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:28 PM
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Yes it is extremely weird. All I'm hearing is men cannot possibly be doctors. Men should be banned from being doctors. And teachers as well. What's a doctor going to do if he has to examine an attractive patient? I personally think men are completely capable of turning off attraction any time they want, like a normal human being. You have a wife and the hottest woman ever walks by? Who cares? You like your wife. Oh but you say no? You say men cannot control that? Ok, absolutely no male doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:19 PM
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>You can't complain about thing A if you do thing B This argument will never not be dumb. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 11:10 PM
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That was addressed in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:46 AM
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Boys are naturally attracted to older women way more than girls are attracted to older guys. Girls look to a select few older celebrities and then go back to cutie boys their age. Boys' entire attraction is to older mature women. They'd want every girl to look like Pamela Anderson. I would argue girls liking these celebrities has nothing to do with them being older. It's just awkward as hell to be screaming at someone who is the same age as you. The band boy you're freaking out over can't be the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:37 AM
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I agree with this. Humans are naturally monogamous. It's not a magical coincidence that almost everyone strives for monogamy, feels truly genuinely miserable when they or their partner acts non-monogamously, still feels miserable and upset no matter how hard they try to get over it. Promiscuity is caused by trauma, promiscuity causes trauma. People who still say we're not naturally monogamous (but sometimes choose with free will to screw it up) surprise me. However, those arguing for polygamy al…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:30 AM
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No, it was not racially charged. I know you are fully aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:16 AM
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I don't give a flying fuck about their race. You are batshit insane for pretending this is about race. You know perfectly well it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 03:13 AM
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You think black men don't care about their daughters? What? What are you even saying seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 02:42 AM
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They're doing an experiment. You have a daughter. A random man is picked up off the street to be locked alone in a normal size room with her for 5 hours. Are you worried sick or are you "wow this seems really fucking dumb, 99% of men..."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:45 PM
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\^ In case any woman still thinks men are decent human beings. "Not all men!" Nope this is a normal man. He has a regular life and women who know him in real life who have no idea what he's writing on a screen and what he really thinks of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:41 PM
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We know you think that. That's why you murder your wives and and rape women and call them slurs and cosmetically mutiliate them for your pleasure. Hence why you are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:31 PM
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I don't have a personal definition. I don't care about equality. To make women equal to men you'd have to brutally oppress men for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:22 PM
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Now you're making up a definition of equality that suits you. Because you don't want equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:17 PM
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Men are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:57 PM
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No, that's literally equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:51 PM
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This has to be a troll but I honestly think you're an unhinged man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:13 PM
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You imagine women will treat men as men treat women. It's very telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:09 PM
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Women need to get education so they're not dependent on men who come home drunk and beat them to death. There's no desperate push to get men who choose not to study into academia because they're not in danger. For women to be equal, it would have to be only women in academia for the next couple thousand years. Are you sure you want equality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:05 PM
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You are actually insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:50 PM
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Women choose to study more so that means men should push women out of academia again like they've done all of history. Oh and also shut up about pornography because you can't talk about misogyny unless it's about some stupid form of equality. Stop gaslighting women about the term "equality."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:40 PM
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What the actual fuck are you talking about? So you want women to vote that means you can't speak against sex trafficking? It's not about equality. It's about protecting and freeing women from male evil. >It appears only one gender can win You see men not hurting women anymore as males losing. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:31 PM
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Because it was about equality. They wanted women to be legally considered persons just as men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:23 PM
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No... Feminists used to want really basic legal equality, like being able to own bank accounts. You can't fight against deeper things if you don't have those basic levels. Now feminists are fighting against oppression and violence. The equality thing is getting old because men keep gaslighting women on what equality means.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:05 PM
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Men beat him to death. I didn't say monsters deserve to be beaten. I'm a woman and we don't really do the whole violence thing. He should have been in jail. You're still making this about women when this is about evil men. TIL racist means when you recognize that men of every race hate and oppress women of every race. Even racist men will always side with men of other races before they ever side with a woman of their own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:29 PM
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Emmitt Till was a monster. His father was a rapist. Stop worshipping men. >actual slavery where men were raped , sodomized, whipped , and bought and sold to old family dynamics . What men do to women every day. You only give half a fuck when it happens to men. You don't even give a shit what happened to black women in slavery. You said it yourself. It's all about men men men. Don't hide your misogyny behind anti-racism. It's as blinding as the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:21 PM
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No...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:10 PM
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Women of every race are oppressed. Men are not. It's possible for men to be oppressed by other men, but currently they are not in the West. When races oppress other races, women obvious receive the worst of it... Despite anti-racism always being centered around MEN, because men are privileged. Men hate women so much that when black people were enslaved for a historically small period of time, men transformed the earth to help them. It was all about helping black men. They didn't give a shit abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:10 PM
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Them. Not me. Don't preach to the choir.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:21 AM
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Ok go tell them that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:16 AM
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Literally no one means virgin when they say incel. They mean misogynist. Just ask them what they mean and they'll tell you. I hate the stupid term as much as the next person, because it doesn't actually mean celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:14 AM
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Yes. Very much so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:13 AM
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I feel like this type is pretty unique but they coincidentally found a bunch of actresses in the same era who look like it. I've only ever came across like one person who looked remotely like this. It's actually a stretch, it was my history teacher and she looked more like David Bowie than Margot Robbie. I would strongly argue Margot is definitely not generic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:57 AM
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Cavill peaked at 19 in I Capture the Castle. Currently he's an archetypal handsome man, but he used to be beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:45 AM
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Men are worse at it than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:22 PM
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I don't understand why people think this way. I don't want a job making cell phones. That's incredibly boring to me. If I had to, of course I'd be able to do it. Why would anyone think they wouldn't be able to do a job like that? And that's not even what we're talking about. You're saying 4 billion women can't do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:01 PM
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Important in the way that I don't want to date a boy who kissed or had sex with other women. Other than that, not important at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:47 PM
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People think high school is important because they watch too many movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:45 PM
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This doesn't sound accurate at all. This sounds like a "boys/girls have cooties" mindset. Dealing with a boyfriend/girlfriend is the same as dealing with any other person. Romantic partners aren't some weird creatures. Someone who never dated and had a normal social life would do perfectly fine with a boyfriend/girlfriend. I'd prefer someone who never dated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:44 PM
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Not really. Even if someone had a "bad" reason for not dating, people change a lot from the time they are children. Not dating is never a bad thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 10:42 PM
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Feminists don't fight for equality. Equality was an old tagline when feminists were arguing with the law to get women recognized as "persons." Feminism isn't about making everything men and women do the same. It's about liberating women from oppression. I'm against any libfems fighting for "equality."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 06:56 PM
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A chad is a young attractive boy. High school or college age. But really beautiful boys who women love don't give me chad vibes. Chad is more cheap looking. If he has casual sex I think of him as a fuckboy, not a chad. Chad is more of a guy who's just chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 05:07 PM
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That's what I'm saying. Obviously women would be 100% of plumbers if men weren't plumbers... I don't enjoy infrastructure. It's a hellhole everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:44 AM
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Men are the cause of most diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:43 AM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:42 AM
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I can't think of any reason a woman would want to be surrounded by husky sweaty men. Sounds not only awkward and uncomfortable but probably a little scary. You sound like you think women are incapable of doing medium IQ work, rather than they were forced to not do those jobs, and now when they're legally able to they just have no desire to because why would they? There's a stereotype of those workers having posters of strippers in their workshop for a reason. Being surrounded by men like that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:55 PM
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Men enslaved women for all of history. I think you're under the impression women are incapable of doing simple jobs when they were forced not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:51 PM
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You believe it because you get validation from men you think are good. You have no idea how much they despise you and think you are inferior for being a good housewife while they go lay bricks. Once you see how much they hate you for being a woman and think it's funny when you're raped and dead, you'll realize that pleasing these men is not a value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:32 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:27 PM
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I used to be exactly like you. I understand perfectly what he and you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:23 PM
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You don't have to disparage women to get validation from guys. The guys hate you too. They hate women who bend over backwards for them just as much as they hate all other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:18 PM
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He's not going to pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:12 PM
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Men are not better at any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:11 PM
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Why would infrastructure fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 10:11 PM
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Stop trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:32 PM
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Women naturally survive disease and famine better than men when all factors are taken out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:29 PM
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Yeah men kind of are bad. The most dangerous country in the world with only women would become the safest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:28 PM
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No one voted for WWII. Men caused that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:20 PM
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I honestly think you know men are the reason war exists but you like saying this even though you know it doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:08 PM
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Being serious, I don't understand how men being the reason war is a thing, setting up a system where you can just start wars like that, and then getting a handful of women to sit in a chair and have a few discussions with them means anything. Men did every single step to get wars going and then at the very end they elected a woman or two to discuss war with them. That doesn't sound like women are the ones causing wars whatsoever. Guys claim women and men are different, but then say if history wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:07 PM
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This is a hilariously pathetic attempt to cover the fact war is solely caused by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:59 PM
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Attractive blonde kissless virgin here. I'm very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:54 PM
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The one thing I can think of that people care about that men are better at is physically dealing with other criminal men. Women are better at talking to criminals to get them to calm down, but some criminals can't be talked to. Men are really only useful to prevent other men's violence. Women are better at everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:51 PM
1

>Women are naturally meant to be weaker, The internalized misogyny is insane. You claim you don't think women are inferior and the first thing you say is that women are meant to be weaker. >b-but women are weaker So the first thing you think of when you think about men and women is something that women are worse at? And that's not misogynistic and biased at all? Not to mention you just said "weaker." What is that supposed to mean? Weaker how? Women are much mentally stronger than men. Women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:38 PM
3

So we can't say "it's legal, it's an adult." Legal and adult can mean anything and it's circular reasoning. Explain why the age of 18 specifically is ok. It seems like when you start thinking about 18 in terms of life, biology, years spent on earth, maturity, etc (rather than just "woop it's legal now"), 18 is clearly way too young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:33 PM
6

"As long as it's legal" is meaningless. So you'd be ok with whatever the law defined? What if they just got rid of the age of consent?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:52 AM
0

No. Men will never do as much work as women because they can't be pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:57 AM
1

About 0.5% of men are high status. Nobody said fat chicks are going to get those guys. but they cna fuck and attract younger women No they don't! This is your fantasy!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:46 AM
-1

Unattractive women get boyfriends easily. Old men cannot attract young women. Male celebrities are usually dating women their age or older, and the rare celebrity exceptions aren't reality for 99.99999% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:39 AM
-1

You can become a celebrity for anything. I talked about men who are famous for their looks, not men who are famous for anything. Can you actually take a step back and realize you misunderstood what I said? Unattractive women do pick up boys for being funny and successful and other things. What planet are you living on?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:33 AM
-1

There's nothing men can do to make up for youth and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:08 AM
1

Men are desired for their youth as much as women. Probably more because mothers ("older" women) are more important than fathers (in this culture where many mothers are single).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:01 AM
0

Are you in the right thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:56 AM
2

We already know age gaps are bad for both men and women. Age gaps of 5 years or more are the most unstable relationships, and have a much higher rate of divorce. No dad is worried about the age of a prom date. We're talking about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:37 AM
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First of all they started off young. But that has nothing to do with the conversation as you can be a celebrity for a large variety of reasons, not just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:36 AM
1

No. I said every man who has ever been known for his looks was just a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:48 PM
1

Literally every man in history who was popular for his looks was very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:25 PM
2

Most women rate beards as gross and unattractive. Other body hair keeps you clean, but beards trap food particles. The only thing a beard is good for is covering his features if he's unattractive or covering up signs of aging. Men are most strong and muscular 25 and under. Think about professional sports where 30 year old athletes are considered ancient. Younger men are more athletic and virile. I don't think skin quality is more important for women at all. This is just a preference and I only l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:21 PM
1

Parental bias means they truly care for them and want what's best for their wellbeing. Why would a man not want a woman dating an older man if he wants what's best for her? That's exactly my point. Men know older men are not good for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:48 PM
1

I have eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:46 PM
3

I don't know what metric you measure looks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 09:43 PM
11

4 isn't hypocritical in the slightest. (At least in my genuine opinion) men age infinitely worse than women. It's not hypocritical that men and women don't look the same... How does that even make sense? Of course they don't look the same. Women are naturally significantly more neotenous than men. In every way from smaller body size to higher pitched voice to more babyish facial features. >"would you let your daughter date an older man" Fully valid question. Basically every man is against age ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:54 PM
1

Most married women delusionally think the man they love is high value and they're happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:29 AM
1

That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:13 AM
1

Most woman aren't looking for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 08:02 AM
1

Women can basically get whoever they want for commitment. You have infinite options in the world for all intents and purposes (you can never meet that many people, so it's never-ending). You're not going to run out of desirable men to marry. If you magically matched every woman in the world to one man so nobody is single, then you'd run out, but that's not how it works. Then you said "there's not enough desirable men to go around." So I answered to that. Some of those men are getting shared arou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:40 AM
1

I don't know anyone who wants a millionaire. I've never even heard of that requirement. Sadly, people don't just date one person. Men and women date multiple people. The desirable men are often getting ran through by many women. There are enough to go around when women share.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:29 PM
2

There aren't that many millionaires. Especially not where most people live. Not many women have millionaire on their list of desired traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:45 PM
1

>So why isn't every woman under 60 married to Paul Rudd. Oh that's right because you can't get commitment from any guy you want. Is this a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:04 PM
1

I understand some women feel insecure about this. They don't have a problem with the guy being younger himself, but they feel old themselves in comparison and they're desperate to appear young. Most women are happy to date younger men. Every couple I know right now, the guy is younger. Unlike height. It's about 50/50 for the man or woman to be younger or older in a relationship (until you get up to large gaps, then it's more likely for the man to be older, but if you're 3 or less years apart, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:58 PM
6

Absolutely. There's no appeal in men even a little bit older than me. Think of those elongated widow years.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:49 PM
3

I'd rather date a younger guy who looks younger. Forced to choose, I'd pick a younger guy who looks older because dating a guy who's actually older than me would be so uncomfortable. As an almost 24 year old, 30 is WAY too old to the point it's unthinkable, and 40 makes me think of my dad. Marrying a 40 year old man would be depressing (unless the woman is also 40). I don't want someone who'll be old and aching when our kids are in kindergarten.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:42 PM
2

Zero porn is acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:32 PM
1

When men say who they're attracted to, all they think about is looks. Women think about everything. Looks is a factor. It is blindingly obvious guys in their teens and early 20s are more physically attractive than 30 year old men, but why would a woman be attracted to them for more than just looks? Women have no problem getting committment from whoever they realistically want at any age under 60. I don't know enough 60+ women to answer how it is for them but very few are searching at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:31 PM
1

Men think about physical attraction only, and they like girls that look way too young. Women think about everything when they look at photos of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:27 AM
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Because 26 year old women don't want 32 year old men. 26 year olds are still basically kids and they date fun people in their peer group. Young people date differently than older people. You can't party with a guy in his 30s. 35 year old women are visually attracted to 21 year old guys, but women are hyper concerned about appearing old and uncool (uncool meaning she's not going to be an It Girl with his 21 year old friends unless she's wicked hot). The same way she feels bumbling and huge if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:30 AM
5

In real life, 35 year old men are dating 35 year old women. And the men are lucky for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:17 AM
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The amount of couples I've seen where I think the man is significantly older than the woman and then I found out they're the same age is outrageous. Men look so much older than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 02:06 AM
1

Again, you're not understanding what this conversation is about. We're talking about NOT being attracted to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 06:25 AM
1

My preferences are completely my choice. But that has nothing to do with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 05:49 AM
1

Are you even serious
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 04:55 AM
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Not even. There was a boy at work who was chad, tall, good hair, good face, everything. Every single girl there hated him because he was rude. (There's about 50 girls at work so large sample size.) He quit work to focus on varsity football to give you an idea what type of cool jock he is. Girls still hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 05:13 AM
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There is no person on earth who doesn't have complete control over who they're attracted to. Don't be dense. When men admit who they are, believe them. Men think it's normal to be attracted to their daughter's friends. Stay away from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:41 AM
0

Attraction is something you have control over. No, it's not logical to find your daughter's friends attractive no matter how pretty they are. Women truly need to separate from men. There is no reason to surround yourself with any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 12:05 AM
1

You don't have to be attracted to someone just because they're attractive. Especially if it's deeply immoral. You should naturally be turned off by that and if you're not you're a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:22 PM
2

Can you explain why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 10:55 PM
0

In the early 80s yes. In the 90s and 00s, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:33 PM
6

"Men imagine a female uprising as women treating men as men treat women."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:54 PM
0

Depp is as far from being hot as he is from being a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:15 PM
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Same with my mom. My parents are divorced and I don't see her, so she didn't affect me growing up at all. She's obsese (not giga landwhale but in the obese range), grey hair, not an impressive face as she smoked and drank a lot and she looks a bit manly with her jawline, she's depressed, 4 children from 3 men, she's late 40s now, and she's easily pulling younger guys in their 30s who look good for their age and have good money. Her husband just died so she immediately snagged a new husband and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:07 PM
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If men are attracted to girls their daughters' age, women sincerely need to separate from men. Men are not worth being around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:44 PM
1

Slutty costumes ruin fun. It's actually pretty creepy you feel the need to bring up it's their choice, as if your first association with clothing is that it's not a choice, like someone roughly ripped the clothes into their body. Obviously their choices are 100% influenced and pressured, but it's weird you need to keep repeating it's a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:46 PM
1

It's almost as if the sluttiness of Halloween is what ruined the fun...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:26 AM
0

"You should mind your own business," says the person with no intention of minding their own business, while they are actively not minding their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:09 AM
1

Why are you trying to push your religion on people?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:09 AM
1

Absolutely. Tradcons are almost as bad as libfems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:08 AM
1

I've lived in multiple states. I can't imagine anyone under 6 being called tall unless it's a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:07 AM
1

It is disgusting to sexualize a Disney character. Nobody dresses slutty for themselves. Liberal feminism is dragging us to hell with these blatant lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:06 AM
1

>I missed out on my entire life and hate sex because I don’t think there’s anything special about being a virgin? Yes. The fact that you don't even understand is... worse? I guess ignorance is bliss, but it's even sadder from a third party perspective. Not feeling how special virginity is isn't something I'd wish upon my worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:56 AM
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Your entire life. You really sound like you hate sex. You're quick to get vicious and that is caused by underlying trouble. But you don't have to drag down others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:48 AM
1

You're not being even remotely genuine. You're lashing out because you feel like you missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:46 AM
1

I genuinely feel so sorry for anyone who feels this way. That's one of the saddest things I've ever heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:38 AM
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It's the feelings you have for someone. I assume you're a young man and you obviously feel emotionally closer to a young woman over an older woman who's way hotter. Guys a lot younger than me are infinitely more attractive than guys my age, but I'd probably have the warmest happiness with someone my age so I can feel really close to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:30 AM
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Even truer with men. Men get much more roughed up, husked, mad, and bitter as they get older. The impact affects them a lot more dramatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:23 AM
1

Bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:18 AM
1

Good don't waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 06:10 AM
1

Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:24 AM
1

Science says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:24 AM
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No, I'm not offended for op... No idea where you got that from. The men who date non-virgins are non-virgins themselves. >Excuse me for using second-person language to talk directly to someone. Should I have phrased my comment as some random statement whispered in the vague direction of the ether? I couldn't have explained it any clearer and you still missed the point this badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:56 AM
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That's not at all what I'm talking about. Your life can be ruined after marriage because 10 years later you find out that your husband is a secret assassin. That has nothing to do with this conversation. Next to 0 means nearly 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:40 AM
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>An attractive man with no hangups about n-count You added in that an "attractive" man will be more attractive to woman. Well duh. A woman who has an n count wants a man who won't care about her n count? Duh again. The problem with what you said is a man who is attractive therefore has options will care about n count. >people who proclaim the “value” of virginity like you This is another way you phrased it so you technically wouldn't sound wrong, but you still snuck in your point which is broadl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:38 AM
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>If sex can ruin your life before marriage it can do so after too, now with a marriage potentially ruining your life too. Only if you divorce. Which is next to 0% chance if you wait for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:28 AM
2

My dad is 6'3 so I can easily tell who's the same height as him. But I agree with your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:23 AM
1

Not as much of an aversion as I do. But you don't see me being scared of people having healthy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:22 AM
1

I'm just talking about giving people advice to have a good life. You seem to have weird ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:20 AM
-1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:19 AM
1

People can make their own decisions by the time they are toddlers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:18 AM
2

For almost everyone, sex is not the same after and before marriage. Are you not getting better at sex at all? Why is it the same? I personally don't care about sex before marriage if you going to get married. It's just that most people ruin their lives by having sex before marriage so it's a good precaution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:18 AM
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If you were compatible in other ways and loved each other, you'll have good sex. Sex before marriage does not help you see what sex will be like after marriage, but it does decrease satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:01 AM
1

I don't know why you think helping people is dictating. It sounds like a lazy excuse not to help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:58 AM
-1

Most people are not as lucky as you. You should help out others, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:53 AM
-2

Yeah, in the whole US. Not in the area I live in. You're misusing buzzwords when I'm actually just explaining people's life experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:48 AM
2

Yes that's really messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:42 AM
0

Not where I live. There are plenty of tall men. Maybe it has more to do with the fact that women are attracted to younger boys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:34 AM
0

The most disgusting thing to me is when people say virginity is not valued by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:33 AM
-1

The best thing you can do now is encourage other people to not have sex before marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:31 AM
0

This is just a paragraph of insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:22 AM
1

I agree sex before marriage is an extremely stupid decision. But you need to start focusing on men's virginity, not women's.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:20 AM
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Non-virgins are valuable to freaks and perverts. Virgins are valuable to normal marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:19 AM
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"Making sure you're compatible" is the dumbest thing. Your compatibility can change two months after you get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:18 AM
-1

If you're seriously worried about sexual compatibility, do not under any circumstance have sex before marriage. Couples who have sex before marriage have lower sexual satisfaction, lower relationship satisfaction overall, have sex less frequently, and are more likely to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:16 AM
1

All things you do change you. Especially something as serious as sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:15 AM
0

Not having sex is not a made up construct...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:13 AM
2

Love is not inherently valuable either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:13 AM
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Don't date men because you never know their intentions. They even admit this. Imagine how much worse they don't admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:12 AM
4

I like how you said boasting, because that's exactly what it is. They brag they can catch a 6'3 guy, but basically all the guys I see get attention are 5'7 - 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:52 PM
1

I agree that women don't want casual sex, and men are 100% to blame for promiscuity as they are the only ones who push it and want it. But saying women don't feel love? Wtf? That has nothing to do with the rest of your argument. You ruined a good point by saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:46 PM
1

I wish I could live where you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:37 PM
1

(Side note, slutty costumes are not girls' fault because they're trained since birth their value comes from sex, told if they don't dress slutty it means they're ugly and jealous, it's hard to find cute clothes in stores that aren't slutty, etc.) Slutty Halloween costumes are the most boring thing in existence. There's not enough CLOTH on the freaking costume to make it creative and decorated. They all look the same. It ruined the vibe of Halloween. Now everything is just boring, and it's super …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:00 PM
-1

They are completely correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 05:45 PM
1

Yeah girls I know are much more happy/comfortable with younger guys because we're all zoomers. Guys in their mid to late 20s seem SO old. I'm 23 almost 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:09 AM
1

That is absolutely disgusting that you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:00 AM
1

Capeshit actors are attractive to straight men their age and older. Not to women. Most of them started off young and are only still in the movies because the franchise is continuing, not because they still look good. The decline they experienced is very noticeable. They are still wrinkly even with their botox and heavy makeup. What do you mean which is it? I explained Hollywood pushes as much pedophilia they can get away with. The directors are perverts and often select actresses for their perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:58 AM
1

Probably, and my point is almost all women look different in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:51 AM
1

I assure you you did not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:45 PM
1

Almost all women wear makeup. Almost all women take literally 500 selfies and cherrypick the best one to post. Young models are photoshopped to hell and back.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:43 PM
1

Dude you think Drake, Mick Jagger, Michael Jackson, Idris Elba don't have girls going nuts at 35? Absolutely not. This is next level delusion. Mick Jagger and Michael Jackson are cool characters. They're not known for their looks. Their style, sure. Their face, no. No one thinks Drake or Idris Elba are hot lmfao. but you know who he was fucking? 12 year old girls. Who they meet at "parties" (in Hollywood, you know what that means.) Hemsworth is famous because he's a capeshit actor. Straight dude…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:42 PM
1

2 is a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:14 PM
1

I wouldn't call someone promsicous for having 1 partner in life even if they broke up. They stayed single after. 0-1 is not promiscuous. 2+ is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:04 PM
1

Rock stars that appeal to women, and not old boomer men, are very young. Early 20s. At least they were at the height of their fame and when they actually got female shrieking. Elvis, the Beatles, the Rolling Stones. All started off as teenagers and reached mega success in their early 20s. I don't hear women talk about Chris Hemsworth. Only men. He's a capeshit actor. He was not even old in the orginal Thor. He was 26 during filming. He looks so much worse in later movies. you said it yourself, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:01 PM
1

So if their traits change you'll just dump them, huh? That's not love. Love is when you care for the person themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:04 PM
1

Women are more feminine than men no matter what age. This is nonsense. Couples where the woman is younger still have traditional gender roles. In fact in Victorian times (the time everything was super traditional), older women were known as more feminine and submissive, and younger women were wild and fussy and masculine and less likely to respect a man. I find still today, older women are significantly more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:03 PM
1

Then you turn around and think women actually like older men instead of using him for his money while being attracted to younger guys. Something I've noticed by actually listening to girls who date slightly older boys... (Half of girls I know are dating younger boys, so it's the same, but anyway...) A woman who dates older men feels insecure about how pretty/cute she is, and she doesn't want a guy who makes her look older in comparison. If you ask girls who date boys a mere year older, they say …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:59 PM
1

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:43 PM
1

You can't love someone if what you love is some trait about them. That trait isn't them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:39 PM
1

Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:39 PM
1

I'm perfectly aware laws against rape are "unnatural," and men would be raping women more if they could get away with it. In real life people prefer their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:35 PM
1

Claiming you love someone for their personality is shallow. Their personality can change tomorrow. Everyone gains a few new personality traits every few years. Personality is fickle. Not only that, but it's just liking someone for your own entertainment. YOU enjoy their personality. Now if you love someone, wouldn't you love their personality too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:31 PM
1

Sorry 22 year olds don't want to date you...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:28 PM
1

Is she going to have a partner in the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:27 PM
1

There is nothing more unnatural than age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:27 PM
1

You can like any qualities (as you should). Liking the person for having those qualities is shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:26 PM
1

Childbirth is the leading cause of death for 18 year old girls. It is infinitely better for a 45 year old woman to get pregnant. 18 year olds' hips aren't even fully widened. It is no longer longer the leading cause of death for girls over 20, because their bodies are more ready. Their bodies aren't fully ready for birth until 25. It is the exact opposite for men. An 18 year old boy is perfectly fine for giving sperm. He is healthy with no threat of death. A 45 year old man's sperm has significa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 07:26 PM
2

Youre misusing the term circular reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:22 AM
3

You're just repeating it's the same without addressing the reasons I already gave why it's not the same when it's two different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:11 AM
2

So you understand why women don't want it since they're not doing it to men? Saying you don't know about it (first of all we do know about it) is the same argument as not wanting to get shot in your sleep. You won't know if you die but you don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:00 AM
5

You wouldn't say that if you were the one being constantly thought of as a sex toy by gay men you're disturbed by. And yes your thoughts do affect your actions in real life so I don't know why you're saying it doesn't. The sole purpose of thoughts is to translate them into real life. It happens with or without you doing it on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:44 AM
5

People aren't objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:35 AM
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You can't kill someone after they killed you. (You're already dead.) You can't say hi to someone after they have already said hi to you. No it's not valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:35 AM
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If she has 1 partner she was a virgin when she met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:40 AM
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You're horrific at logic. You cannot just replace a word in someone's sentence with a different word and think it means the same thing......
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:16 AM
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No, that's not what predator means. Taking advantage of someone is called taking advantage of someone. It sounds goofy to call someone who always asks you for favors and doesn't return them a "predator." Predator means hunter. So a sexual predator picks a weaker prey to sexually abuse. If you want someone because of the way they look young, that's wanting someone because they're young. Do women just need to separate from men then? If there's nothing we can do about it, is separatism the answer? …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:14 AM
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I read the whole thing. Nowhere does she say anything against age gaps. I sadly suspect she's pro age gap and dating whoever you want. She should be against age gaps for the sake of younger women, but oh well. She just doesn't want women to be pressured to get surgery to look like a child and not be comfortable with who they are. She's ridiculously gorgeous. If men her age think that's old that scares me. It physically relieves my brain to see women who look their age and don't want to kill them…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:03 AM
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That's not what predator means. Men are desperate to say women are the same as them. Predator is short for sexual predator. There's nothing sexual and violent about wanting to be rich. Wanting someone because they look younger is the same as wanting someone because they are younger. Thinking younger women are more attractive is the same as wanting them because they are younger. If you think older people have baggage, you have too much baggage to be dating a younger person. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:51 AM
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You so out of touch with reality it's depressing. You still convince yourself it's those spooky old hags who don't want men to date younger women, when EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. a person is against it, it's a young woman disturbed by older men. Your imaginary old women you think are against age gaps because they're jealous and rejected do not exist. That is a fantasy in your head to cover up the fact young women are creeped out and disgusted by older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:44 AM
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I very clearly did not say it is immoral to want x while not having x. I never said it's bad to like green eyes when you have blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:40 AM
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Well, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:09 AM
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It's still showing skin/tight clothes, but women don't care to sexualize and objectify men as much as men do women, so it's not perceived the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:37 AM
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Please quote where I said "women can have whatever standards they want." I don't think a man wanting a smarter, richer woman means he thinks woman are subhuman. Everyone wants money. Wouldn't you want your parents to be rich? Wouldn't it be cool if your sister/brother won the lottery and s/he bought you nice stuff? It's almost like money and youth are not the same thing. You aren't acting intelligent enough to have a logical discussion and you try to throw two things together that have nothing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:27 AM
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There is no middle ground between virginity and promiscuous. No, men need to leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:20 AM
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Wealth is not a moral value. It's how much money you have. Height is not a moral value. It's how you were born. Being nice is morality. You can't expect someone to be nice to you if you're not nice to them. Bitches aren't real. It's a slur. That's the only example you gave that makes sense, but you couldn't help but be bitter at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:18 AM
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Liking someone for their money, body, height, humor, looks, etc is just shallow. Liking someone because they're barely legal is predatory and dangerous. I don't care if a man wants a woman for her money, although he probably won't be happy. It's not even slightly comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:14 AM
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There are exceptions to everything but in general 30 year old women don't scare anyone, while 30 year old men regularly make women uncomfortable. I'm explaining why peple are usually ok with older women dating younger men. There can be exceptions that are not ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:10 AM
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No. Not even a little bit. Men who have more partners are worse at sex. If you want to be good at sex get one partner and perfect having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:30 PM
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I would never use insecure because it's a blindingly stupid insult. Insecure is when you are afraid of what others think about you. Some of these things are misogynistic, as in lacking empathy for women and seeing women as toys. Requiring virginity when you are not a virgin is morally messed up. You could possibly choose someone who is a virgin by coincidence who hasn't got around to it yet, and they don't have emotional feelings about sex at all. (But then what's the point if they don't even ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:29 PM
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Your worth has nothing to do with your partner. It's not about your worth. It's about sharing deeply emotional experiences in your life with someone and making the best of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:09 PM
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Awesome, I'm so hapy for you. That's exactly how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:08 PM
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I haven't deliberately asked, but I'm not hearing stories about sex when they talk about that kind of stuff. I know they're not having sex with him nor trying to get it. They get flustered merely talking about him and then they don't want to hook up with him. (Maybe some of them fantasize about it but they don't want to pursue it? Idk.) They flirt with him a lot but it's more "omg you're so hot, please see me." Casual sex IS a very weird thing and a lot of people aren't comfortable with it despi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 05:32 AM
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My friend is easily in the top 1% of attractive boys. 1% is too low. He's way better than only 99 others. He's one of the most beautiful humans I've ever seen. He's fit (huge gym bro), funny, easy to talk to, sweet, charming, etc. My female friends and acquaintances are obsessed with him and go way out of their way to talk to him, but no one wants to fuck him. I don't know what it is lol but girls just don't want sex with boys. I really feel like a lot people are either lying about the sex they …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:31 AM
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I don't want to bother you. I wish more than anything you can feel ok with what happened, better yet not even think about it. I just want you to stop blatantly trying to convince yourself and others it's fine and continuing the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:41 AM
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I assure you I did not. I know what my own opinion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:36 AM
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Oh yeah you don't sound bothered AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:36 AM
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No I didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:27 AM
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I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:23 AM
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I knew I should have stopped reading after you brought up your insecurity obsession. If you can't argue without using fake insults you know have nothing to do with the topic, why should I talk to you? There's other people who can actually discuss this without sounding outlandishly bitter and getting viciously defensive. Sounds like you're thoroughly bothered by what your husband did to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:16 AM
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I didn't know your height had anything to do with your morality. Do evil people get shorter or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:14 AM
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You sound desperate to make light of this. If he wouldn't have loved you without having sex with other people, he is not for you. I have to fight against you because you're hurting people. I'm glad you feel ok, but you are preventing people from solving this problem by pretending there's no problem at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 03:14 AM
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Women are more than disgusted by men high high n counts. I get synaesthesia his dick has smelly particles inside and on it and is breaking off his body because it's so rotten. The person you're talking to is talking about the misogyny of wanting a virgin woman but not being a virgin for her, which would cause her unreal pain if she loved you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:10 AM
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I am the best of all the partners my partner has had This is still a coping mechanism for the fact that you would never want your partner to have had other partners. To say you're the best, you're still thinking and rationalizing and comforting yourself about how in your lives it is not just you two. I don't wish for anyone to feel bad about their partner's past, but it bothers everyone, even if some people keep those feelings lowkey. If we could be more honest about how this hurts everyone, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:04 AM
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You should be more worried about being compared if s/he had 3 or 4 relationships before you. If s/he had 50 other wo/men s/he won't even remember them, and you will stand out in a sea of nobodies. With 3 or 4 people, s/he can actually remember the cuddly feelings and events shared with them. I don't understand worrying about being "compared" though. Aren't you more hurt by the fact that your intimacy is not just between you two? There's no point in looking for low n count non-virgins. Being with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 01:55 AM
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TIL being insecure is when you read scientific studies. I'm just laughing at people who actually try to use insecure as an insult at this point. People who have more sexual partners don't enjoy sex more. Promiscuous have a horrible relationship with sex and it makes them feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:07 PM
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People worried about being compared to past partners don't want virgins. A virgin woman would be a nightmare to insecure men. Especially with all these complaints about virgins romanticizing sex and expecting it to be magical. Even more so nowadays when virginity is against the grain and a virgin is more likely to be confident and know what they want. A person who just goes with the flow and doesn't have strong opinions or thoughts about sex probably wouldn't be a virgin. That is the type of par…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:51 AM
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There is no scenario I can imagine up where caring about past partners could be insecurity. It literally just has nothing to do with insecurity. Insecure is an insult, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:27 AM
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22 years olds ARE kids. Not basically. They literally are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:44 PM
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Women love twinks. People at my job are ages 16-24. The older girls are crazy over this 16 year old boy because he's pretty. They ignore the objectively handsome guys in their 20s to flirt with this 16 year old. 16 is legal here but oof. I see it EVERY time. Girls are always encircling some young twink and patting his long hair and flirting and what not. It's always the younger cute boys that get this maniac obsession from women. I saw an instagram reel with like 167k likes yesterday about a col…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:41 AM
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Women have always liked younger men. They're more attractive. Any woman who wants a boyfriend a year or two older is just trying to make herself look cuter/daintier in comparison. It has nothing to do with the guy. She's conscious of how she will be perceived by everyone else as the sweet young one. She thinks that's appealing as a woman. If she's older she's insecure it will make her feel uncute and bumbling, like a girl that's really tall. Do you really think "women are attracted to guys a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:23 AM
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Wanting your partner to have morals you don't possess is hypocritical. Especially when your morality or lack thereof has a huge impact on your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:37 PM
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Probably because they want casual friends or old friends to be able to find it without being afraid to follow. DMs from anyone you're not following get hidden in your requests. You can delete any comments under your photos. I get why you'd want it private but many people just don't care enough to change the setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:28 AM
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People who have public instagrams are probably just posting innocent stuff that isn't private. I understand wanting it public or private. I just don't see any deeper meaning behind having it public. Especially young people who grew up with social media wouldn't make it private unless they had a problem with stalking or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:54 AM
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This is minor but totally disagree on the public instagram account. It's set to public automatically. Almost everyone I know's is public. I find the private ones are posting bad stuff they don't want their parents to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:45 AM
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They have a pornified view of the world. They're creepy promiscuous men who'd be willing to have sex with basically anybody. To them it's consensual/wanted, and they have no empathy for those who didn't want it. They think their promiscuity illness is normal and no sex can be undesired.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:37 PM
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I hate to say it, but men don't care about low n count either. All I'm saying is women care about it the same as men. (In my experience, women actually care about it more. I see a lot more women hating on fuckboys than men disliking promiscuous women.) I wish men wanted virgin women, but men are happy to have women who have had sex with a lot of other guys. I hate the term incel, but if you ask women what they mean by it, it has nothing to do with celibacy. They just mean creepy loser misogynist…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:51 PM
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Non-virgin men have no idea what they're doing. They're never going to become good at sex either if they do casual sex, because that's like trying to get good at the flute by picking it up 5 minutes once a month and playing Hot Cross Buns. You actually have to get into it (a long term relationship) to get good.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:43 PM
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I never said kids don't have jobs and drive and pay bills and stuff. It doesn't make you not a kid. A lot of kids do that very young, like 14-16. In the past even younger, like 8-9. What you do doesn't affect if you're a kid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:40 PM
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Incels are usually not virgins. And they're addicted to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:38 PM
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All these mental gymnastics to avoid the fact we need to start relentlessly mocking men who have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:23 AM
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"Hatred" is in quotes. Women don't hate men, or all men, or whatever. Women feel sick to their stomachs and feel rage at how men treat women. That's not hatred. Nobody feels this way towards men because of a few personal relationships that sucked. By that logic you should love men/women because of the relationships you had that were good. It's more of the "men terrorizing the earth and treating women as subhuman" thing that makes them feel this way. Most women who feel this way have men in the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:18 AM
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"Hating" men is frustration at how men terrorize women every day. It's not actual hatred, like how men hate women. Why do you think promiscuous women are morally right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:03 AM
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Misandry isn't real. Consent doesn't determine morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:54 AM
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I said I want to finally blame men for their own promiscuity. Not talk about fake issues that only exist in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:49 AM
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You replied to the wrong thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:31 AM
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Can we just talk about men for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:23 AM
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I'm not going to blame women for what men do. Men need to stop sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:59 AM
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I'm tired of blaming women for what men do. Men need to be responsible for their own immorality for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:46 AM
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Bruh lol Muslims are not virgins. Even the devout ones are not. Muslim men aren't shamed for promiscuity by their culture at all. Their culture praises men having many wives, and they certainly don't care about a man's virginity and care for his wife. Christians or secular White people are much more likely to be virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:44 AM
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I didn't say only women get shamed. Women absolutely DESPISE fuckboys. It's men that are giving fuckboys slack and that needs to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:43 AM
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Yes that's unbelievably messed up. People are not your toys to use, discard, abuse, and traumatize for something as pathetic as sexual pleasure. It's literally evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:40 AM
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If sex is easy for an attractive man, he should be shunned and shamed if he chooses to do it, because he is just doing what is easy to him. Resisting sex would be difficult for him and should be praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:35 AM
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I'd rather die than have a non-virgin husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:32 AM
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I'm talking about sexual loyalty/purity. Virgin, doesn't lust after other women, doesn't watch porn, etc. A man who sincerely does these things because he loves his wife will certainly have the other good traits too. A man's purity is his most important trait because it's integral to romantic love. Being with your wife is your love for her. But a man could have another good trait and still cheat on his wife, so the other trait doesn't matter. That makes his purity/love the most important.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:31 AM
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No. The Muslim girls I know are more promiscuous than usual. Wanting sex to be happy has nothing to do with religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:27 AM
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>What a man does need to get laid? What a woman does need to get laid? A body. Sex organs. There's nothing else you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:25 AM
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All virgin women are looking for virgin men. I don't want my husband to have had sex with other women. That's insane. It's literally sex. That's my husband. It's common sense I don't want him to have fucked someone else. It would be excruciating since I really love him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:24 AM
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The only problem I have is when you imply women don't want low n count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:21 AM
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Women care a lot more about their partner not being promiscuous than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:20 AM
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Purity is the most important value a man can have. If he's going to hurt the woman who gives her life to him, then he's festering human garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:17 AM
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You literally can celebrate things as good that are not difficult to do. Sex with more than one person is wrong because it's taking an intimate activity and destroying it, hurting the person who loves you, and hurting your own physical and mental health. Saying promiscuity is bad because of how easy or hard it is just means you think it's not even bad in the first place. You must know that's not the reason promiscuity is bad, or you wouldn't even be discussing it. How many other things are you m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:16 AM
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Yeah and throw non-virgin men in the trash too. No one wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:10 AM
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Your brain is still developing in your 40s. I don't know how you could say 25 year olds aren't children. Have you ever met them? There's kids in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:37 AM
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If I understand correctly, size 7 in the UK is a size 9 US. 9 is the average women's shoe size in America. Meaning it's VERY normal to be 10 or 11 (8 or 9 UK). I don't know why shoe companies act like 9 is so big. I'm only an 8 and I think I have pretty small feet. Shoes in stores seem so tiny though, like for thin flippered children. It's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:36 PM
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Tall women are more aesthetically pleasing than short/medium women. I'm only 5'5 but taller women have more of a presence that makes them attractive. Models are tall. It's also elegant so you're not stumpy looking (nothing wrong with being stumpy though lol). Put two beautiful women next to each other in a photoshoot and the taller one will automatically look better. I don't even like tall guys. Tall women are just nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:32 PM
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You seem to just hate children that you think "acting like a child" means negative traits. You have a brutal view of humanity where a child being pushed to survive makes them not a child. They were very much children despite how hard they worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:27 PM
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Mid 20s is absolutely not an adult. That's a big kid. Only 7 year olds think that's an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:14 AM
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https://medicalxpress.com/news/2010-12-brain-fully-mature-30s-40s.html
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:53 AM
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Men and women are literally not the same. It would be inconsistent of me to be okay with both. It's either one or the other, based on my views. Other people can have a different view that is consistent for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:53 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:05 AM
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EXACTLY. You couldn't have said it any better. The only reason raging pedophiles in government decide that 18 year old children are up and ready for fucking is because they want children to go to war as soon as possible. That's the reason 18 year old kids are legally "adults." It's messed up to send a child to war, so why not just call them an adult and make it okay? If you're not protected from war you're not protected from sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:53 AM
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19 is a child. I am not a liberal so I don't care about choice even if she was grown.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:19 AM
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That's called grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:08 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:06 AM
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That's terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:05 AM
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30 and 22-24 is evil. 30 and 25-26 is really pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:47 AM
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Age gaps aren't a thing in real life. Almost everyone is dating someone very close in age to them. Even in Hollywood, most couples are near the same age. We're hyperfocusing on the age gaps just so we can discuss them. We forget how uncommon they are. >The issue is that some women think a 30 year old dude dating any more than 3-4 years below his age is "predatory" Me. I'm some women. That's creepy. Leave young women alone. No one cares if you're 50 and 55. It's the mindset of a 30 year old man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:30 AM
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If the guy is older yeah it's predatory. Your brain doesn't develop until your 40s but that's irrelevant. Balding men have a habit of going after girls in their 20s with predatory motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:23 AM
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Agree. I don't have any problem with a man valuing youth. If you want to marry a 24 year old because you want 10 children, AWESOME! More power to you. As long as you are also 24. If you're 30 then get lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:57 AM
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This is just desperate. You think if you repeat it it'll become true. No, older women are not jealous. It's very young women like myself that keep speaking out against age gaps and how we hate them and it's creepy and wrong and uncomfortable. I've NEVER heard a jealous older woman talk about this even once. Nowhere. Not in real life, not online. These jealous old hags you invented do not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:55 AM
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How would dating the same gender eliminate power imbalances? Gays are notorious for having huge age gaps. I'm explaining why I'm perfectly ok with older woman younger man, but older man younger woman disgusts me. That's literally what I just said. Women date younger men because they think they're sweet and fun, while men who date younger women for perverted and hateful reasons. I've never once seen an exception. And if I do see an exception, it will be just that, an exception. You can disagree w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:46 PM
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You literally just said it. Incest between two consenting adults is fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:43 PM
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WHAT MENTAL GYMNASTICS? Are you not able to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:48 PM
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WHAT mental gymnastics? Do you know what the term means? A few women can be creepy towards younger men, that's the exception. All men I've seen so far admit their reasons for wanting younger women are creepy and sexual. For women it's usually "aww he's sweet." Men start ranting about sexual reasons and how he sees women his age as subhuman. I'm not talking about 50 year olds hitting on schoolboys. I'm talking about actual women and men in relationships where the man is younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:34 PM
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If you'll just explain to me. What did I say that was remotely mental gymnastics? Everything is super consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:07 PM
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It's not hypocritical lol. Men and women are different. Men already have more dominance over a woman even if they're the same age, let alone older. Men openly admit their reasons for going for younger women are sexual. First of all, a woman going after younger men is just subverting something that men have put in place for a long time, so don't expect people to care. Second and more importantly, women who go after young men just think they're cute and bubbly. I've never heard weird sexual reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:57 PM
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I disagree. I think it's exactly like incest. It's almost as if we have different points of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:35 PM
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Women's SMV is the fact they're female. That's all they need. Men are desperate and promiscuous, so just being a woman will always be enough. Youth and looks is a bonus but it's not needed. Men will have sex with a piece of bread. SMV basically isn't even real for women because it's all the same for us. Men on the other hand are judged almost entirely on their youth and looks. You always being unattractive and now you're trying really hard to get women in no way invalidates that younger men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:03 AM
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Can you seriously not understand that saying someone is too immature for an age gap is like saying someone is too immature for incest?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:26 PM
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If by manly you mean more scruffy and saggy, and less beautiful and vibrant, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:39 PM
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That's what I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:16 AM
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Hot girls in their 20s don't get hit on by 30 year olds. >Your comment on "never seeing an attractive man in their 30s" speaks for itself lmao Tell me what you mean by this because I actually don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:42 AM
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Then don't make statements with hidden premises and expect us to accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:31 AM
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I've never seen an attractive man in his 30s. >Men in their 30s who are attractive hit on attractive girls in their 20s. I don't believe this for one second.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:31 AM
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Trust me, me and my friends(mid 20s) are not being hit on by creepy old 30 year olds. We're being hit on by 15 year olds. This fantasy where 30 year old men are interacting with 20 year olds is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:17 AM
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I'm not even trying to be right. I'm trying to understand your point of view. How do you think this is a question of 25 year olds' maturity? The definition of adult is subjective. You didn't even explain why an adult is mature enough for this. If an adult is "mature" enough for age gaps, they are mature enough for incent. Can they not make their own decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:21 AM
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It is unbelievably stupid when men spew garbage like, "30 year old women hate 20 year old women because they're taking all the 30 year old men!" Just LMAO. First of all I've never even suspected an older woman of acting hostile to me even once. There's an abundance of men of any age and women are always capable of getting whoever they want. Almost all 20 year olds are dating someone their own age. There are not enough 20 year olds willing to date older men for the top 5% of 30 year old men to ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:47 PM
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Men's SMV is their youth and looks. Most men are living paycheck to paycheck. And most women are having too much fun with hot chads (who probably have rich parents anyway) to care about the very few men who have enough money, and don't look wrinkly enough yet, to make a small subset of daddy issues women sacrifice chad for cash (and she still probably cheats on him with chad anyway). Some people are so focused on trying to push men and women as opposites in every way that they are doing backflip…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:37 PM
-1

I clearly said I don't trust 25 year olds' maturity. It's just weird you're phrasing it as a maturity issue, as if choosing to be incestual is a maturity issue and not just something that's wrong. Age gaps ae wrong. I don't care if a kid is mature enough to pick it or not. They're clearly not mature enough, but that has nothing to do with it. Blaming age gaps on the young person's maturity is "what if the child consents tho." It's victim blaming. No. Why do YOU want to be with such a young woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:30 PM
1

I'm not for the freedom of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:27 PM
1

How about no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:03 AM
2

"Not old enough to decide who they want to date" is a weird way to put it. At 25 are you old enough to decide to date your brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:24 AM
4

The legal definition of adult is only so because bloodsucking demons want children to go to war as early as possible. It has nothing to do with what's okay or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:55 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:05 PM
2

23 year old girls look like babies. Try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:56 PM
4

Imagine thinking women have hit the wall by 35 lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:45 PM
6

>shaming men into dating older, less attractive women NOBODY is asking men to date older less attractive women. They're saying date women the same age as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:43 PM
6

If she's 35 then sure. She knows what she's doing, and it's not that bad. Being a predator is not the same as liking money. Everyone wants money. A man who thinks women his own age are "old" sees women as subhuman. But if she's 25 she's absolutely being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:39 PM
3

I'm only 23 so I can't really answer. I still don't have older guys hitting on me (Thank God). I get more attention from teenage boys now than I did when I was a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:28 PM
2

Pitt peaked in Dallas (1987).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:27 PM
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You're not thinking about why it's easy for women to lose their virginity. It's easy for women to lose it because more men are willing to take it. You should be focusing on men's promiscuity. Women are doing what men ask them to do. Men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:23 PM
0

Strawman. No one asked you to date a 90 year old with magical powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:28 AM
0

Why are you talking about 18 year olds and sexualizing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:28 AM
-1

What don't you understand about how "I support consenting adults" is an absolutely meaningless phrase?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:46 AM
-1

No. Men hit the wall at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:23 AM
3

You're admitting you need to stay far away from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:15 AM
3

If you don't know what's ok, then leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:57 PM
1

Like a woman who's way too young for you? Leave her alone and walk away. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:47 PM
2

Depp hit the wall after Nightmare on Elm Street. He was acceptable until about 26 then became hideous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:39 PM
1

Chris Hemsworth has a fair amount of prettiness to his face. He even has long blonde hair. Still, he's way too old and masculine for most women. He's an action hero that appeals to the male gaze. He's a capeshit actor. You'll rarely hear women talk about him. Ryan Gosling is super feminine. Wtf are you talking about. Harry Styles is ULTRA feminine. He's literally like a girl. Especially when he was 17 and at the height of his fame. Chris Pratt appeals to journalists 10 years older than him becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:38 PM
3

We're talking about the age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:28 PM
2

So tomorrow when the age of consent gets changed to 3, you will be ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:37 PM
1

According to you.... That's YOUR claim not mine. Yeah, people with 1 sexual partner in life have more experience having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:26 PM
1

Women aren't usually sexually attracted to masculinity. Women like pretty/hot boys. Women don't think about sex when meeting boys. Don't project your horniness onto women. Appealing, attractive, beautiful, and pretty all mean you would want sex if you had feelings for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:24 PM
0

Johnny Depp is currently so ugly he could play a troll with no makeup added.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:22 PM
2

No. It is absolutely harassment for a 35 year old man to hit on a 22 year old. If he thinks she's the peak of attractiveness that's his problem. Don't make it hers. Leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:15 PM
0

This is a non-opinion. The definition of adult can change in two seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:13 PM
1

No idea who Matt Bomer is but I looked up his wikipedia photo and my first thought was "Old." He still has teenage boy facial features but ew. Something about men makes them look so boring when they get older. He still looks good for his age but he lost his "oomph."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:08 PM
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Usually hot refers to the face. You need good hair and a decent frame to be hot but women are talking about the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:05 PM
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Cute means he's very appealing, attractive, beautiful, and pretty. I'm not interested in a man who's not cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:59 PM
0

Yeah it's literally when a woman thinks you are NOT pretty or hot or cute or attractive or appealing at all, but you have a regular facial form and look fine. That's what handsome is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:57 PM
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You're right, handsome is not a compliment. Coming from a woman, it usually means, "Your features are in the correct place on your face but I'm not attracted to you and you have no appeal."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:55 PM
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*was 40 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:53 PM
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Most women prefer pretty men to handsome, sexy, or hot men. So definitely yes. Actually when women say hot they usually mean pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:51 PM
1

Or a few years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:50 PM
1

Two is the coping number. You don't want high standards (virgin) because you'll be heartbroken if they're not. You don't want one past partner because so close yet so far hurts the worst. Expecting two is enough so you don't get emotionally destroyed, but as low as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:50 PM
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I have literally never NOT known a young woman to not be GAGGING when an older guy hits on them. I've even had many friends (early 20s) tell me they had some 26ish year old hit on them and they were like, "He's hot but ew it's so creepy!" That's a small gap and it's still gross to us. Even if it's a hot guy they say no. Young women are INSANELY sensitive to age gaps. It triggers every alarm in our bodies. I can't believe men seriously convince themselves women are into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:38 PM
1

It's always a good thing to wait for sex until you're married.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:29 PM
1

How is that personal? OP was very detailed in being open about his sex life and I agreed with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:27 PM
4

I agree. You're definitely not a chad. Just a loose man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:25 AM
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Realistically he will not get his high sex drive met with more than one woman. He can only meet it with one woman. A monogamous couple has infinitely more sex than you ever could with hook ups or multiple relationships. Women wanting sex with their husband once or more a day is extremely normal. Especially for couples who were virgins for marriage. Waiting for marriage increases the amount of sex you have during marriage. A man who wants sex about 10 times a week would never be able to meet that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:54 PM
1

If being the town bicycle is good, it's good no matter who you are. It's either good or it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:38 PM
0

Do men desire sex with attractive women more than ugly women? If yes, it would make it better for women to have more partners. A lot more. Yes, it's still relatively easy for an ugly woman to have partners, but having even more partners shows that a woman is highly attractive. That's the logic here. The double standard for promiscuity will never make sense no matter how you spin it. It's either bad when no one does it or equally bad when both do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:36 AM
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If men stopped raping women thousands of years ago, the earth would be a lot more intelligent and attractive right now. And less violent. We can safely blame men raping women and children for basically every problem in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:33 AM
2

You're close but pregnancy and breastfeeding does not cause sagginess in breasts at all. Excess weight gain causes sagginess. A regular pregnancy doesn't make you gain enough weight for that to happen. But a lot of women do gain excess weight during pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:30 AM
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The double standard in promiscuity is manufactured. Men don't want a promiscuous partner, and neither do women. Men controlled the culture, and they wanted to whatever they want, while making women be appealing for them. It has nothing to do with biology. If it's good to produce many offspring, it's good for both genders. Your genes want to be passed on no matter you gender. However, humans are not a species that does well if you have offspring with different women. We're super monogamous. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:28 AM
1

I do have high schooler friends (from work) and they obviously don't want non-virgin boys. I also have late 20s/early 30s friends and they don't want a non-virgin man either. They're not religious at all. Girls just don't like their boyfriend's dick in other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:10 PM
1

I made myself clear. Casual sex destroys people's lives worse than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:19 AM
1

This sub has very different views than the normal population.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:18 AM
1

Only people with something wrong with them would think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:01 AM
1

When women freak out about incels, they mean misogynists. They're not freaking out about virgins. Ask any woman who uses the term. They say the same thing every time, "Yeah incel doesn't describe it, but it's a term that gets under their skin." "I agree virginity is not a problem, it's their behavior towards women." "I just use the term because of the incel tears subreddit." Literally none of them actually mean involuntary celibate when they say it, let alone celibate. Male celibacy is a treasur…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:35 AM
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It destroys people's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:30 AM
1

It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:30 AM
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I assure you I am exactly like other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:29 AM
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"Success," if your idea of success is promiscuity, is very easy. Just go ask women to have sex. The ugly, most annoying, unpopular guys in high school had a ton of casual sex. It never surprised me because back then I innately knew that sleeping around was something ugly boys did, and having a LTR with Giga Stacy was something the hot boys strived for. Most attractive boys are really sweet. There were a few attractive jerks and girls talked a lot of trash on them and didn't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:14 AM
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They're exactly the same. You didn't mention if Person B had a handsome face or not. You never said if he was smart from genes or just studying. I'd choose to have daughters with a sperm donor so I wouldn't have to worry about genetic aggression. Face and intelligence would be most important. I don't want poor sight but eh most people do anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:06 AM
0

Insulting evil behavior that destroys people's lives is just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:01 AM
1

How does consent make something ok? You can consent to hurting yourself and other people. No I'm not religious. Virginity is just the most important thing a man can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:00 AM
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Because it was written into the story that Jack was a virgin. It's literally in the script. Being young does not make you "look like a virgin." You are just a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:58 PM
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Uh, no. That literally never happens in real life. Even this "incels" you see online are either 15 years old or they're NOT virgins. Seriously go ask them, they'll be like "yeah I had sex with 1 or 2 girls but that was last year so it doesn't count." You're listening to bitter non-virgin men talk badly about virignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:57 PM
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A promiscuous man obviously has no idea about himself or what he wants in sex. Promiscuity is something men who are uncomfortable with themselves do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:56 PM
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Because the person you're in love with not literally sticking their dick in someone else is pretty atttractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:54 PM
2

I would only go for a virgin over 25. I'd rather die alone than even consider a non-virgin man over 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:53 PM
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I do not care about people that post on a fetish tinder subreddit. If that's what you base your view of virginity on, you're going to have an awful life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:52 PM
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He definitely looked 23, not like a teen. And what is your question? Yeah, no one wants an old infertile man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:50 PM
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No I'm an adult woman. Women don't like non-virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:49 PM
2

You are a non-virgin man I assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:48 PM
2

Every promiscuous male I know in real life is ugly af.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:48 PM
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For example, the most famous attractive male character of all time (Leo from Titanic) oozed virginity. That's what women want. If he had "I had sex in the past" vibes, he would have been deeply unattractive to the point of ruining the story. He was attractive because he had a pretty face and he wanted only Rose. That's the most famous romantic male character of all time women fawn over. Someone who is a virgin and wants one woman only. He pretty much straight up said he was a virgin when he said…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:32 PM
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You didn't have to lie. You as a man hate virginity and you convinced yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:16 PM
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Promiscuity is not about opportunity. It is about the immorality of taking an intimate experience and sharing it around. No one cares if you do something that's easy to do. "Promiscuity is bad for women because it's easy for them to do it." Dude what? Nothing makes less sense than that. Promiscuity is bad because sex is intimate and people dislike when you don't treat it as meaningful. It applies to men and women. Men just made up a culture where they, as heterosexual men, want women to do good,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:09 PM
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Most men want a woman who has some experience and talent. I highly agree with everything you said except this. No one in their right mind wants a husband/wife who has experience having sex with other people. "Talent" is just pleasing your partner, which is different for every person. Past sex won't help you with this new person who has new preferences. In fact it will make it worse. You'll be the best learner of their preferences if you were with only them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 07:03 PM
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The same people who foolishly think there's something wrong with a virign man think there's something wrong with a virgin woman too. It's not different based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:59 PM
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A promiscuous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:58 PM
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This is so far from the truth it's hilarious. Virginal men are the most attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:55 PM
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It is MORE than ok to bash people who have casual sex. Casual sex is one of the most immoral things you can do. What is not ok is requiring a romantic partner to have morals you do not possess (i.e. she's a virgin while you are not).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:54 PM
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Then they wouldn't be watching porn if it has nothing to do with the other guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:50 PM
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Again, I'm not talking about LTR. I'm talking about what men find attractive. Do most men not watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:31 PM
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Thats what I'm saying. Men enjoy other men's dicks in a woman they want. They want to do it because they see another man doing it. A football team wouldn't be fucking the girl if they didn't like her body count. You're creating a paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:04 PM
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It's not about LTR. (Many) men think it's hot when a woman they're attracted to currently has another man's dick in her right now (porn). Men are a very cucked gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:37 PM
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I didn't say they were the same... Mgtow is men giving up on women (but that only means marriage, most of them have degenerate sex). The red pill is men butchering evolutionary psychology to suit their promiscuity, pedophilia, bitterness, etc. Manosphere ideologies are not conservative whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:36 AM
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They wouldn't and they don't. Proof is in the pudding. Women do not act like this in real life. Women would be absolutely nauseated by fucking the same guy all their teammates did. Only men find that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:49 AM
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Women in porn are intentionally not that attractive. Porn producers are not scouting beautiful women. Men are not admiring the beauty of porn actresses. They're there to be objects, not to be good looking. That's why "too pretty for porn" is a phrase. Men cannot admit that women are rational beings. That's why you think everything is jealousy. "You're just jealous/insecure" is almost never the correct answer to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:33 AM
1

Hasn't anyone noticed the hot popular girls at school almost always have long term boyfriends? They hook up less than the average girls. Which in turn means the hot popular boys have long term girlfriends too and are not getting ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:24 AM
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What you don't understand is not everyone likes casual sex. In fact, does anyone? Even the people who have casual sex are having a miserable time with it. Casual sex sucks. You feel dirty, it's stressful, you feel empty, and you just want to be loved. So no, having the ability to get casual sex (according to you, being attractive*) does not mean whatsoever that you will have casual sex. Attractive people are normal people with emotions who probably don't want to be pumped and dumped. *Ugly peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:21 AM
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Redpilled and the red pill are not the same thing. The red pill (mgtow whatever) is not a conservative ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:11 AM
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Stuff like this makes me realize women hate promiscuity in men so much more than men do in women. Guys think a girl fucking the entire football team is hot. Women would be flabbergastedly disgusted by him and call the guy a gross asshole if he fucked an entire woman's sports team. He'd get outcasted and they wouldn't even speak to him socially. (The woman's team wouldn't even do that in the first place.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:41 PM
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It's only good if you were a virgin and never kissed your girlfriend. Otherwise what the heck were you doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:37 PM
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I don't think it happens often that people get straight up rejected and told it's because of promiscuity. Reason 1: If it is because of promiscuity, the rejector probably won't say that part out loud, so you'll never know. Reason 2: If promiscuity was a deal breaker, they would stay away in the first place and the person probably can read signals and they wouldn't get to the point where they need to get rejected. But it's extremely common for a man or woman to "reject" (far in advance before you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:36 PM
2

I disagree completely. Guys who are attractive to women in real life are either frat boyish Trump supporters or twinky apolitical guys who may or may not pretend to be liberalish. Have you even met anyone with redpill views in real life? Redpill guys online keep saying they're attractive, and that got to your head because they repeated it. They're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:27 PM
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I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:07 PM
1

People literally, physically, scientifically are not adults until 25 at least. They're not real adults until 35ish or later. 35 is a young adult. 25 could be a baby adult, basically a child though. The brain is not fully developed by 25. It is still developing in your 40s. The only reason 18 is called an adult is because they want children to be shipped off to war as young as possible. 18 is in no way whatsoever an adult except legally, which is a meaningless definition that could change tomorro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:57 PM
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The reason I keep stating my preference against a promiscuous man is because I want other women to have an easier time getting a good husband. Maybe we'll influence men to act better if we keep saying what we want. Promiscuous men literally aren't able to bond like a normal man. This is common sense. Having multiple partners will never feel the same as having one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:52 PM
2

Virginity is the only thing that gives men value. Non-virgin men are automatically worthless (unless married of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 03:15 AM
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There is nothing more uncomplementary than a non-virgin and a virgin. The non-virgin will ruin it. No one deserves a non-virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:17 AM
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experienced man This euphemism always cracks me up. A guy who is experienced in having sex with other women. I want to vomit at the thought of that. Some guys really think experience thrusting your hips and getting dumped is a good thing. Non-virgin guys are the scum of the earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:15 AM
2

Uh, no. Male virginity is universally seen as hot, cute, and admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:13 AM
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A non-virgin wanting a virgin isn't about wanting different traits. Virginity isn't just a "trait." It's a moral value. You're asking for a partner to have morals you do not possess. It makes you a hypocrite. Reason two, there is no reason to want virginity unless you are a virgin. The point of virginity is to have a loving, whole marriage. If you're not a virgin man, you already ruined that. Reason three, you can't desire a value in a partner and then actively destroy it. You're not waving a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:11 AM
2

Explain to me your conspiracy theory where you think having sex or not isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:05 AM
0

It is circular logic. Saying it's ok because it's legal is literally just saying, "It's ok because it's ok (according to the law)." Age of consent is a bad concept that's merely a last resort for a promiscuous, pedophilic society. There is no age where it's always ok to have sex with [x age]. The reason the law says it's legal for 30 year olds to have sex with 18 year olds is because they want very young children (18) to go to war as soon as possible. Then they claim if you can get hauled off to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:02 AM
1

In my experience, the prettiest girls have boyfriends like 2 inches taller than them, so pretty short in comparison. The nerdy girls have nerdy boyfriends who happen to be 6'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 03:06 AM
1

I know that's a thing on tinder, but is it a thing in real life? All the guys my friends are dating/say are hot are like 5'6-5'9.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:52 AM
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I mean idk I'm 5'5 and 6 feet is way too tall. I'm used to tall people... my dad is 6'3, my cousin 6'4, my friend 6'8. But romantically, 6 feet is giant. There's no appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:36 AM
1

He's not clean. He's a non-virgin. Experienced in what? Fucking other women? Stop using euphemisms. No, I do not want someone who's experienced in fucking his ex girlfriend and a one night stand. Get real. Confident? If he had confidence he would have waited for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:34 AM
1

I never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:33 AM
2

Your 18 year old daughter and a 50 year old beer gut man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:29 AM
3

I'm 23 and a lot of my friends are 16-18 years old. I know them from work. I love them but even I see them as little kids. Furthermore, I'm a strange case: Very young looking and acting. Didn't go to college. Moved to a different state after high school. Covid happened. Years of my life feel paused. It feels like the high schoolers are the same age as me... But they're still so little at the same time. So I am the most similar to them, I'm only 23, and they're STILL babies to me??? Imagine how y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:22 AM
1

True. There's so much online debate about it, but in real life, nearly everybody thinks age gaps are gross, and nearly everybody is dating someone within a few years of them at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:21 AM
1

I'm in my early-mid 20s and I don't know one person who wouldn't have any issue with dating a 30 year old. Ick. 20 and 30 is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:20 AM
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Yeah exactly. TRP men pretend to care about divorce statistics, but age gaps of over 5 years are an absolutely massive increase in divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:18 AM
2

Ok, the legal age is now 3. "Wait no no, I meant 18!" Ok, then explain why 18 is ok without using the circular logic "it's legal, you're an adult." Explain why it should be legal, why it should be considered an adult, why any adult can have sex with any other adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:17 AM
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>I’m a man with a 99th percentile body count. Retching aside, you must be gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:13 AM
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Lmao the dirty dildo is talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:11 AM
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Every argument against virginity is getting old. "Urghh you want to share intimate experiences with someone you love? Booo, grrr, blaaah." Get a grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:10 AM
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Nobody cares about female promiscuity until you stop male promiscuity, which is far more deadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:08 AM
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Hey look, a talking dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:07 AM
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The word "insecure" is pathetic and doesn't properly describe anything. I don't think you're insecure at all. You're just a misogynist who wants to have it good because you're a man but you think women should suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:05 AM
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What is this obsession with height that comes from men? I've never heard a woman comment on height in real life ever. Let alone call it disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:03 AM
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No. It's weird to not care that other women used your boyfriend as a dildo. Have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:02 AM
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I would think that's awesome. An unmarried 30 year old man should be a virgin. If he's a non-virgin, we know he failed. Doesn't get hugged? Does he not have a family and friends? That's sad. Living with your parents your whole life is normal. Most cultures do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:58 PM
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Thinking virginity is off-putting is rapist behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:58 PM
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30 is so young. People are weird. 30 is basically a big kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:57 PM
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Being a virgin at any time is a personal choice. Incels do not exist. You should see how high standards "incels" have. They're literally calling gorgeous women ugly. They could get laid so easily if they went out. They're not even asking anyone. They're on the internet all day. Virginity is never not a choice, which makes losing your virginity from hookup culture morally unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:56 PM
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