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The problem with using media to explore male disposablity is that most people already know. When people in debates bring up workplace fatalities (average 92% male, but swings higher in some countries) it often gets straw manned into "gatekeeping" women from higher earning industries. Meanwhile, the average workplace death is an 18-25 yo inexperienced man, often making peanuts compared to the higher ups, but still risking his life, because his life in inherently considered less valuable by societ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/26 03:14 PM
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No seriously I had a gig at an architecture school, where they had an awareness campaign about the bias against women in architecture. One of their posters was complaining that in the 53 years a certain award has been around, only 6 of the recipients were women. But here's the fuckery. The poster claimed "that's less than 10% of recipients" 6/53= 11.34%. They couldn't even get the math right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 11:44 PM
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I saw that post, the comments, and decided for my own mental well being not to participate. The vitriol throughout the comments section was enough to guarantee, for me at least, that there was no point in engaging. It's the catch 22 of being unable to speak out against hateful rhetoric without being straw manned into the vilest of caricatures.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/26 11:36 PM
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The biggest thing I love about this list is how fresh so many of the studies and articles are. When so many pieces of misandrist rhetoric use shit from the 70s-90s, like the Duluth model of DV, meanwhile nothing in this list is older than 2000, meaning the data is newer, and therfore more accurate to current conditions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/26 02:50 PM
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Google the difference between actus rhea and mens rhea. Essentially guilty act vs guilty mind. To use a reasonable example, a person bends down to pick something up of the ground and blows the ass out of their jeans. Let's ado some pearl clutching and have poor guy be going commando and his balls drop out. Actus rhea, he's just flashed anybody in the vicinity, should be a misdemeanor at least, but mens rhea, he was picking something up of the ground, he wasn't trying to flash the neighborhood. S…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/26 05:58 PM
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skinny without effort FTFY It was always blatant envy and jealousy, without any of the accountability to actually make life changes. Doctors, dieticians, coaches, physical therapists, and more have said for years, it's basic math, calories in, calories out. Ozempic and other semi-glutide meds first made it so that you could be skinny if you could afford it, then demand skyrocketed, to the point south park did their ozempic special, and prices went down with Grey market "Get ozempic cheap online"…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/26 10:52 PM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/ZEODvlg_iGE?si=lPDYd4XwrgRLuRSU This is an excerpt from one of her Ted talks that she shares the "oh shit" moment that she realized that she'd completely written off men's lived experiences in pushing her narrative
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/25 07:33 PM
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The fact that major feminist authors like brene brown and bell hooks have written retractions about their flawed data collection methods, as well as recanted many of their more misandrist ideas, and the mainstream movement is just a giant Frieza meme of "I'll ignore that"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/25 02:07 AM
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If anything, this sub could probably be summed up for feminists with the clip of knuckles the echidna quiping to Amy Rose "You know, Amy, any time someone calls attention to the breaking of gender roles, it ultimately undermines the concept of gender equality by implying that this is an exception and not the status quo. Knuckles: What? Just because I'm a meathead doesn't mean I'm not a feminist. Where the one big change up is that we here usually reject the rhetoric of modern feminists because m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/25 02:45 AM
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Crown v Dodsley 2010 York region Ontario. Look it up and fuck off
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 10:50 PM
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I've seen this exact series of events for years. Little Timmy at 10 being told that "until it's no men, it's all men" when the worst thing he's done it's forget to put away his Legos. I've had a few very clear experiences where speaking for Equality was considered to be offensive: Middle school sex Ed, the topic of genital mutilation as a human rights issue is brought up as part of the curriculum, and simply by asking why western cultures continue to practice male circumcision of its such a huma…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/24 07:43 PM
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There's a funny tiktok where the creator asks a friend for their pronouns and they say they're non binary, and the content creator shows the visceral difference between how non binary people are treated based on their assigned birth gender. Went something like "oh! Non binary afab?" All cheery and bubbly, then switched to a scowl and a vocal tone like talking about a creep and finished "or non binary amab?" With the final caption "that's just cis with extra steps" because while TERF feminists su…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/05/24 11:46 AM
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One of my favorite examples of revisionist feminism is the suffrage movement. It's often touted as one of the big first waves of feminism, yet it was rooted in racist rhetoric. It was groups of white women from well educated backgrounds, usually with wealthy husband's to boot, and they rooted the need for their vote to oppose the black right to vote. To those not aware : https://www.pbs.org/education/blog/unlearning-history-the-womens-suffrage-movement
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/24 09:39 PM
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I actually lean into the racial comparison because of how intersectionality affects demographics. The racist dog whistle of "X% of the population commits X% of crime" used to vilify the black community is somehow different than "X% of the population commit X% of crimes, so all of them must be bad"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/24 11:58 AM
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I had a friend literally shaking with rage as I used beans on a table to show her how ridiculous some assertions she had made were. I took 10 black beans and 10 red kidney beans. I told her, 1 black bean harms 4 kidney beans. This means 40% of kidney beans have been hurt by black beans. With that logic, it makes sense for kidney beans to be scared of black beans, but on the flipside, only one black bean was used to hurt the 4 kidney beans. So 90% of the black beans are innocent. She agreed with …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/24 02:48 AM
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I've often, though often unsuccessfully, tried to explain this concept to many family members and friends. To be viewed through a lense of threat assessment for simply existing is an incredibly alienating experience. To have something as simple as walking on the same sidewalk, or waiting at the same bus stop make people nearby feel unsafe enough to feel the need to FaceTime a friend. Unfortunately most of the time that feeling of being unsafe becomes their focus and they usually pipe off some so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 05:32 PM
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I reached out and reconnected to some family, including a cousin that had been super supportive, one visit he and I just sat drinking and talking until the sun came up. His GF and her sisters endlessly harass and demean him about us "bromancing it up" when in reality we were unpacking 15 years of absence, and the shit that we'd gone through as kids. But in his Gf and her sisters eyes, they turn that outreach and emotional support into something to be ashamed of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/24 04:09 AM
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By recognizing that two things can be true. Yes, many, if not most, women have had negative experiences that have made it harder to interact with men in a variety of ways, but that doesn't give them carte Blanche to treat an entire group in a certain way because of the actions of the individual. To whit, most of my abusers in life have been women, but if I interact with every woman as if they my abusers, I'm treating them unfairly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/24 02:27 PM
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I think Canada is 16 weeks, at 60% pay, but oftentimes employers will bump that up, giving an extra 8 weeks at full pay, but that's the decent workplaces. Most will actively get pissy if you ask for any time off, even if it makes sense. The amount of vitriol I overheard when a coworker took some time off because his mom had terminal bone cancer, and he wanted to help take care of her. People talking about it like he was taking a 3 month vacation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/24 07:17 PM
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Thankfully in Canada it's been changed on the books from "maternity leave" to "parental leave" removing the gender from the term. A common tactic is for both parents to take their leave at staggered intervals. Mom takes last month of pregnancy plus 5 months with baby, dad overlaps a couple weeks with mom so they can adapt, mom returns to work while dad takes over until baby is 8-10 months, then they need to figure out childcare, which can be 3k a month in Ontario, so both parents scramble to get…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/24 05:31 PM
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I'm forever grateful that I avoided alt right incel spaces. Unfortunately their rhetoric mirrors neonazi recruitment strategies to a scary degree. One of the best conversations I had was with a social worker friend of mine, whether I explained the situation a man lives in in a gender neutral description, her reaction was vitriolic, lambasting "men" for the perceived slights in the described situation. The absolute lemon sucking surprised Pikachu face when I told her I was actually talking about …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/23 01:43 AM
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Exactly the point that goes right over their heads. If you have a problem with men, have a problem with men, but when you're interacting with an individual, judge them for the quality of their character, not the color of their gender reveal (to riff of MLK lol)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/11/23 01:30 PM
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Thank you so so much for being a female voice to the blind biases held by society against boys/ men. I had a similar experience, but as a then 13 y/o boy I was literally shouted down by the presenter before being told to leave. The reason? I dared to question "why does society permit, or even suggest male circumcision, especially on infants that cannot consent, but the UN lists genital cutting as a human rights crime, regardless of gender?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/10/23 08:58 PM
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Only problem is the way society views it, it wouldn't be taken seriously. Just look at the language chosen in SA against minors. Older male to younger female, language will be "pedophile teacher rapes drunk 14 year old girl" vs older female and younger male "teacher seduces boy, 14, after supplying alcohol" In an adult setting, it would literally be ignored, or outright ridiculed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/09/23 02:18 PM
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The problem, and nuance, is that the following statements are all true. Women have the right to dress/ act/ behave how they want without their state of dress/ behaviors being taken as implied consent (ie. The slut shaming of "what was the victim wearing?") By entering a public sphere, you implicitly consent to being seen, interacted with, recorded by security cameras, etc etc. Thoughts aren't crimes. If a man sees an attractive woman in a nice outfit, he's allowed to think she's attractive, to t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/23 02:15 AM
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The language used in the headline is intentionally inflammatory. My first thought was that these would be the charges laid in a shaken baby syndrome case. All the same points line up; New mother ✅️ Child under 1yr ✅️ Hospitalized with brain damage✅️ The difference is the language used. Instead of "woman walks free after assaulting 11 month old son" it might read "mother charged with assault causing harm in shaken baby case" The first buries the lede trying to incite outrage, the second immediate…
/r/PussyPass18/04/23 11:23 AM
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Agreed, the whole attempted rebuttal screamed "no true Scotsman"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/23 09:06 AM
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It's less the laws and more the engineering/ social bias. A great example I use of being aware of my privileges is that I am the default model. Average high, average weight, right-hand dominant male. Everything from door frame width, car seat measurements, and ergonomics are all designed around that baseline, but that makes it so that those that don't fit that mold are left to figure out solutions. Left-handed individuals, for example, suffer more tool related injuries for the tools being design…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/23 03:42 PM
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Another great counter point to the wage gap is the death gap. Men make more because we're more willing to do the dirty, dangerous, or distasteful jobs that compensate for those hardships. The wage gap statistic almost always uses corporate examples, like numbers of female executives, but there's silence on the fact that 97% of trash collectors are male. 87% of workplace injuries and 92% of workplace fatalities are male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 03:10 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ, imagine telling women that their hormonal outbursts during menstruation or menopause should be treated with hysterectomy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/21 05:02 PM
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To me is just a way to shift the narrative in feminisms favor with anecdotes to create a shared sense of commiseration. Reinforcing the "in-group" of women vs the "out-group" of men. The narrative goes from women not setting healthy boundaries and expectations of their partner (like shared parental responsibility) to men just being inept "man children" further it creates the gender wide narrative that men are incapable of xyz things, rather than the fact that that specific man is struggling with…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 10:26 PM
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The sad part is, I'm not even surprised
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 01:37 PM
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My fuck, the mental gymnastics are top tier. Fewer men in university/ university educated (to a 3:1 ratio at one school) and rather than the fact that a school is 75% one gender, they'd rather focus on treating those 25% men as sex objects. It honestly reads like some "nice guy" incel posts. Hookup culture has long favored women as the overly desired sex, yet they don't like the table being reversed and not being treated like some goddess on a pedestal. Glorifying one school where the men wake u…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 12:00 PM
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Same age as you OP, and had teachers try to get physical with me until i made it very clear, lay hands on me I'll lay hands back. Then once said teachers got in shit for "assaulting a minor" they wised up pretty fuckin quick. One of my last suspensions from high school a teacher tried to get physical and i gave the clear warning "you put your hands on me, and i will lay you out, then have you charged with assault. Get out of my way." To put this in context (cause it reads like r/iamverybadass) i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/21 12:16 PM
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Unless the subject of child bearing is discussed then it's not fully relevant. A lot of trans individuals have a lot of trauma around their life pre transition. It's unreasonable to ask someone to disclose their life trauma in pursuing a relationship. If/ when a trans person discloses is up to each individual, especially considering the risk of violent reaction. For younger trans people, a simple "i don't like talking about my childhood" can suffice for older trans people that transitioned later…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 04:21 PM
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Disclaimer: haven't seen it myself yet. From what I've seen online from critics is that he goes hard on the TERF philosophy. While the logic is there for some terf attitudes, three attitudes are without empathy or compassion. (Common terf issue is mtf trans using the women's rest room, especially if they haven't had bottom surgery) Personally it comes as shock humor in the trailers, and i disagree with the TERF mentality. The only person a trans individual should have to disclose to is their doc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/21 01:34 PM
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ItS InTerNaliZed PatRiarChy! Not like people are responsible for their own beliefs /s
/r/PussyPass07/08/21 10:49 AM
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Trawling through my old comments this reply stuck out to me and you're 100% correct, in a way. Dressing as a "16th century samurai" is, in my mind, acceptable, you don't need to be a specific historical character, because the position of samurai was more a career than culturally unique. Every culture has a warrior caste that makes up their folklore, and specially samurai have their own heroes, including Yusuke, the black samurai, so dressing as a warrior gets a pass. Geisha, in a similar vein, i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/21 02:35 AM
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Was just watching superstore and they did a Halloween episode with a great woke moment, culture is not a costume, but a person of that culture should be acceptable. The one that made me laugh hardest was pasty dumb white guy dressed "Jamaican" at first, gets called out, so switches up to "then I'm Bob Marley" puts on an over the top stereotype accent for a contest, then drops a fact bomb about the slave trade that went through Jamaica.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/21 12:11 PM
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Legit, i liked her music before the whole scandal dropped, specifically scrubbed her from my music feeds and told my wedding DJ not to play anything by her afterwards.
/r/PussyPass15/02/21 09:32 PM
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I don't want to take the resources away, I want to expand them to be more inclusive. For example, as a male survivor of sexual assault, I'd love to be able to attend some form of group therapy for sexual assault survivors, however the majority of those groups forbid men from attending, because for women to share their traumas with men in attendance can be triggering. I recognize this fact, but it doesn't change the fact that my gender excludes me from resources that could dramatically assist me …
/r/PussyPass09/02/21 10:26 PM
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By the poster specially targeting violence against women and girls it specifically disenfranchises the boys (and men) subject to domestic violence. Growing up I was constantly physically abused by my mother, including being put through a window by my throat, but no resources ever took my abuse seriously. My stepfather endured years of emotional and financial abuse, yet when my mother went to Cuba with her fling and he asked for a divorce, she took everything and he's left with less than nothing,…
/r/PussyPass09/02/21 02:25 PM
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Wanted to post it to r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates but they don't show cross posting
/r/PussyPass08/02/21 02:40 PM
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Actually had an eye opening conversation with a friend who's Han Chinese. Born and raised Canadian, but his parents are both originally from China. He shared that the type of "subhuman" rhetoric that anti semites and nazis spew is actually very similar to the comments between different ethnic groups in SEA. So much bad blood from literall millenia of warfare, racial injustices (Japan and Korea have some serious bad blood) he also shares his his mom wouldn't care if he brought a white girl, or a …
/r/PussyPass14/01/21 07:06 PM
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So THAT'S why I got banned. There was a thread about contraceptives and how it's sexist and patriarchal for a boyfriend/ husband to ask his wife to use hormonal birth control. The sad part is that I agreed, saying I took the surgical option. No messy condoms, no unpredictable hormones, win win.
/r/PussyPass31/10/20 10:36 AM
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Dude, I got banned from Female dating strategy for commenting in a thread about how the responsibility of contraceptives lies with both partners. My comment was that: "I took the surgical option. No condoms for me, no artificial hormones for her, win win." And I got banned for that.... Like what?
/r/PussyPass13/09/20 02:25 PM
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Except in context like this, to avoid a liability suit from dude, the show would NEED to take all appropriate legal action. He signed up for a reality TV show, not fight club
/r/PussyPass20/02/20 10:13 PM
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And all it would've taken is one rear naked choke by either of those guys and she would've gone night night. Justifiable use of force
/r/PussyPass27/12/19 07:08 AM
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Dealt with this shit in high school nearly ten years ago. I was in the midst of a sex crimes trial where I was the plaintiff, so imagine my surprise when I hear through the grapevine my recent ex is saying I raped her. My reaction was to march down to the school cop and say "this is slander and defamation. Either tell her to press charges or to cease and desist."
/r/PussyPass26/10/19 10:26 AM
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Ok, I'm gonna go out on a limb here, this ain't no pussy pass. One woman heard another woman going into hysterics while working her last shift and didn't do her job properly, ie: comforting the caller, letting them know help is en route etc etc. Her give a fuck was well and truly checked out, but what's the dispatcher going to do? Call fuckin captain America? Was it a cold heated bitch move? 100%. Would a male dispatcher receive heavier scrutiny when again, they're manning a phone on their last …
/r/PussyPass31/08/19 08:15 PM
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This is literally going to get personnel killed in combat. Fantastic scene in GI Jane that the master chief chews her out for not being able to lift herself out of the water. Compared to his commendation for pulling 3 men out of a burning tank.
/r/PussyPass24/06/19 08:42 AM
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https://fox13now.com/2019/05/07/logan-man-dies-from-beating-after-being-accused-of-sexual-assault-on-a-cvtd-bus/
/r/PussyPass12/05/19 06:20 AM
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She lacks the depth and warmth. These are the women that need a clean cold slap in the face with reality.
/r/PussyPass12/05/19 03:55 AM
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Bruh, right in the article, police reviewed cctv footage, and determined it was outright fabricated.
/r/PussyPass12/05/19 03:54 AM
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Dozens out of the US in the past 5 years. Wanna see how minorities are treated? YouTube bootyhole man (funny as shit but also sad)
/r/PussyPass24/04/19 10:28 PM
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That's the problem though. You still always need boots on the ground. Air strikes are Nice fancy toys, but who's clearing hostiles out of schools and hospitals? Not chappie that's for damn sure. If a selective service/draft were to ever be instituted it'd need to be mandatory for all without legitimate medical waiver. Graduate high school, take a one year course. 6 weeks basic. Culture shock from civilian to service. 6 weeks military history and tactics. 2 weeks r&r with mandatory "fun runs" on …
/r/PussyPass05/03/19 05:42 AM
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This type of treatment to a human being is a literal war crime. She locked this animal in a kitchen by tying a rope to the knob and a hook, and piled food and treats outside the door. That's like handcuffing a man to a post in the ground and putting an open bottle of water 6 inches away from their maximum reach with feet. That dog could definitely smell its food on the other side of that door. With no water dehydration killed her, but this is horrifying. My literal worst fear for cause of death …
/r/PussyPass18/02/19 07:43 AM
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The fact that there was a co accused means that there was likely conspiracy after the fact. Iud be putting this into appeals for years.
/r/PussyPass26/01/19 12:13 PM
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It means she was handed a 90 day (apx) sentence. She'll be obligated to show up Friday evening, go through processing, spend Saturday and Sunday night's and usually released 7 am Monday, but they may permit a Sunday release to allow for job obligations. Usually this is done in the case of dui or misdemeanor possession, especially in single income households that the breadwinner has been charged. It's immoral and unethical to a judge to say "sorry kids, moms gonna be waitressing for 3 months and …
/r/PussyPass30/10/18 11:22 AM
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