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Wait, are you saying this as a woman? Go get coddled more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:25 PM
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Because we’re just looking for a “shot” in the near term. Do you wanna go out for “pizza” or “do you wanna go out for pineapple and celery pizza on rye dough?” Cast a wide net, pick what you want. Try what you want. There’s some common theme you’ll pick up on eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:22 PM
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Because there’s always a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:17 PM
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Just because we don’t like a certain kinda woman, doesn’t mean we don’t love any. We’re not the ones with #killallmen or I hate men tik tok videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:05 PM
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Considering the amount of coddling you need (your feelings over truth), the body positivity movement (all sizes are healthy and beautiful except men), and the constant flip flopping between brave and strong but fearful and oppressed… no. It depends on how you answer. Pretend you’re alone and no one’s watching and you’re not looking for social approval. If I asked you what 10 times 10 is and you said I feel it’s 100… Just say what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 11:00 PM
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A good amount of incels are probably virgins at this point. I know it’s mostly a mindset or attitude. Still funny how the main insult is “Nyah Nyah Nyah Nyah Nyah Nyah, you can’t fuck us!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 11:01 AM
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I want a super modern woman. To the front lines! I got bread to bake.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 03:31 AM
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I’ll add to it. Women want men to be better in every way. If it’s so creepy, go ahead and date down already. Get a man more feminine than you. Shorter as well. Let him be the breadloser. Let him be the virgin with a pure dick. Be the teacher. The mentor. Get a man so weak, you’d snap him in half. Now these are extremes. Couldn’t even go equal. That’s how much better he has to be at all times. The age gap thing is stupid. It’s just one of those things they don’t wanna publicly admit but hypocriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 01:10 AM
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The sex that doesn’t have to ask out but gets asked out wants tell you how it is. Then they get mad at all of us for the few guys they said yes to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 04:50 PM
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Because a woman knows what she wants for herself and she knows if other women want the same for her and themselves, they’ll agree on a set of things. When I tell them, you’re right, I want you to make decisions for yourself and to want what you want… just like me. Then all they see is a penis because the penis already got what they wanted for the past thousands of years, it’s my turn to suffer or not get what I want (at least to pursue it). Really, if we just all went libertarian with a small l,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:38 PM
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Yeah, LTR just means having to find one. Short term, just get your D wet at least by one new person a month. You don’t need them all!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 07:16 PM
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In another life, you’re my rock. Thanks for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:39 AM
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Fuck, this is why the 6 girl is perfect. She’s above average but not so high up, she’s become spoiled and entitled. Where are you my perfect 6? I wanna simp for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:35 AM
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It still ends in an empty apartment. “Have a party!” Ok, to be more specific. It’s the empty bedroom when the day is done that people can’t handle. You can have all the close connections out there. You can have a long talk in your living room with a buddy or volunteer and get all that validation and meaning. When your day sucks (throw in a major life change like disease or massive struggles ahead) and lay awake in bed with no distractions, that’s where your dog, your mmorpg achievements, your ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:30 PM
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I’m a millionaire. You don’t need a lot of money or free healthcare or cheaper education. You can just read books and exercise in your studio apartment. Tons of ways to get smarter without the degree. If you don’t do anything or consume anything fun, you’ll be alive for a long time. You don’t need fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:19 PM
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You’re living the equal dream! Get her a gun to cover you as you close quarters on an intruder with your machete. Now you’re protecting each other as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:01 PM
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I think this stuff exists when problems arise. Of course we’re not talking about it face to face. If I talk long enough to anyone and kinda lead the conversation, they’ll say what red pillers or fdsers say all the time. They can form their own conclusions from the majority of stories out there. Ask a man about divorce. Ask a woman about just being a housewife. They just don’t actively think about it or engage in it as much as we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:49 AM
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Women are strong and independent. Gender roles don’t exist. They could stop being dainty. They should be the ones conceal carrying and getting muscled up. Part of being a man is preparing yourself for the world alone. Women wanted in on that. You can’t just ask for one thing. You get it all. They are not our responsibility. We no longer need to provide (they have jobs now) and no longer need to protect. They no longer need to cook or clean. Accept modernism. Equality at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:45 AM
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By a very small minority of men… I’m gonna get pissed the same way any race gets mad when labeled/generalized/blamed for simply being a man. I didn’t rape anyone so they can fuck off if they wanna make it seem like everyone is just congratulating rapists. Here’s another stat. 99.9% of the people who protect the country, investigate crimes, find justice, put out fires, provide security at night, are men. So yeah, if I’m gonna take blame, I want the blame for these too. I’m a rapist apparently so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:40 AM
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It is such a minority of men who rape. It’s so weird how the same women will get mad about generalizing a whole race or anything. If I get scared of x race coming towards me, I’m a racist. If you get scared of a man, you’re… not a sexist. Yes, it is 100% that of the time you’re assaulted or harassed it was a man. 100% of 0.0001% of men. You pass plenty of men who didn’t do shit. In fact, the ones who didn’t do shit are the ones who heard you and are probably now afraid to startle you in any way.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:31 AM
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Well, I haven’t heard anyone argue getting laid off opening a door. I have heard women getting mad if you do shit like that for them due to the independent strong thing they’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:18 AM
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That sounds magical. I like you and you like me. Let’s do things together that are fun and repeat!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 07:13 AM
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Really just need an app that lets you put in most recent std test, background check, detailed pictures from all angles, etc. Just meet up and lay back or thrust or squat up and down then leave. I wish they’d just make prostitution legal already with an app and all the regulations so we can remove all the hassles. Do most unattractive women pay for sex? I’d love for top tier genetic men to have a job. Gives muscly men a side gig too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:06 PM
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We’ll just have to add something free before preschool and kindergarten then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 08:00 PM
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Unpredictable can go both ways. Mysterious? Like secretive or dark brooding? Does unattached mean emotionally unavailable? Maybe it’s not all bad. I just wish some women knew what they were getting into. There’s too many videos of them being surprised by what happens with a man like that. Have your fun but don’t fall in love. Women need their own version of pump and dump. But maybe that’s why they get “attached.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:02 AM
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Don’t judge it by a subreddit? Men who actually went their own way aren’t in there. These men are still “transitioning.” Or maybe stuck in the rage portion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:41 PM
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You, the person who considers everything rape can’t use words like triggered. Did I just tell you what to do? That’s almost synonymous with rape in some way. A few more somersaults and twists and we can get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:18 AM
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I only have issue with the perceptive thing. No. Too many women I know fall for violent men or rapists or winners they think they can get to commit. And too many men I know who self improved with some sort of strategy that seemed to work for them. I’ll leave it at 50/50. They can be perceptive but not any better than men. I’ll
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:11 AM
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I use deadlift cues when I’m about to bust. Full lockout, like a hip thrust, glutes engaged. Lifting friend doesn’t look at me the same. There’s my overshare for the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:53 AM
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But just to be safe, between my friends and I anyway, we just assume all her friends know us inside out. Like that guy said, it’s generalized talk and it would be social outcast behavior for men. I only have one friend where we go into specific details because we probably are the weirder ones of the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 06:49 AM
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If I asked you to pick between chocolate or vanilla, I think the point is to pick between those 2 instead of but none of them are strawberry. But I also understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:43 PM
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Let’s just change always to some but a significant some. Isn’t that a strawman? Of course no one out loud says I WANT AN ABUSIVE PSYCHOPATH. They do like them dangerous looking. They just don’t know how dangerous they might be until after. Just don’t dismiss it and say we said always. Anyway, yes, you don’t have to be a raging misogynist but I think the take away is that it’s funny that you could be and it works REALLY well. Don’t berate me for making the observation. Take it up with the selecto…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 05:36 PM
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A good amount. The way they would call out THESE FUCKING STRAIGHT WHITE CHRISTIAN MALES! I can see feminists actively shit on Christianity and all the traditional 50’s crap but they’ll say never say anything about Islam and patriarchy. It’s cool to shit on Christians. Go ahead and shit on Muslims. These fucking STRAIGHT BROWN MUSLIM MALES! Let me use Europe. I’ve talked plenty enough with women there. They’re proudly atheist and lol Americans with their sky god jokes. We don’t pray and you’d get…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:19 PM
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The problem I have with responses like this it’s so absolute. I get it, as an average man, I should take what I can get. But even I have specific desires. I see it as I like gym girls. Not just healthy fit but gym fit. I’ll assume generally they’d want the same. Everyone here talks in a vacuum. I like lifting. It’s a hobby. I can “meet” women at the gym. It’s a non sexual conversation starter for me to gauge their interest. Everyone here talks like life is a tinder profile and everything is algo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:57 PM
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This can be true but also the reverse. They put themselves out there and it hurt because putting yourself out there is initiating first and even if it was a yes, you pay to play. Then if they fail enough times, they slowly give up. If I was a woman, I’d put myself out there too if it meant just working on being as pretty as possible and you get people to come up to you. The closest to rejection you face is if you accidentally signal too hard to a guy you find really attractive and they notice an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:44 PM
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Because they need to make their argument sound right. All feminists are unattractive, fat, and were inappropriately touched by their uncles is how I start all my arguments regarding women’s rights after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 06:29 PM
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Like in the workplace, they’re just gonna pick the cushiest positions but bitch the loudest. They might die in the military but it’ll be in an accident inside the base during peacetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:48 PM
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Who dies protecting you? You’re as useless as children. We’re all men but that doesn’t mean were allies. If men from country 1 wants to start shit with us men in country 2, what do you want us to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:47 PM
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They died oppressing women. Women couldn’t make money and were forced to sit at home while he had fun dying at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:39 PM
2

Let’s not be so dismissive. All the groups are made up of ex husbands, people who do get laid but maybe hate the few times they got burned, yes incels too, people looking to understand and level up, and everything in between. Would you like it if we just said feminists are all rape victims and ugly chicks? Yes, both sides dismiss what anyone has to offer. And both sides use examples of themselves being the good guy and the other being bad. At this point, I don’t even know who’s happy since I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 11:37 PM
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Yes. It’s a war out there. The coming shift will be a doozy. I just don’t know what or when or who.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 08:38 AM
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You know, if you didn’t use absolutes, it wouldn’t make one want to argue. It looks dismissive and misses some of the point. Let me apply some of his points to a specific situation. Watch… See, not 100% of women but some say that a man should pay for the date because these women work hard to do their make up, skin care, etc just for the date. So this goes against the looking good for me argument. You certainly DO do things for our attention. Sure, it is comfy. Sweat pants are comfy. I heard our …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:40 AM
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Stop taking all the opinions together and mixing them up. Those aren’t the same men all the time. Go ahead and work. Just give up the previous privileges. Pay for something. Be a provider for a “house husband.” Just stop acting like a “boss bitch.” Or… go ahead and act like a boss bitch but stop saying it intimidates men. The same way you’re not attracted to a flamboyant feminine weak man, most men (especially the winners you love) don’t want an angry masculine “strong” woman. Funny how when you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 09:24 PM
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Whatever is convenient to the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:50 PM
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I really do feel it comes from our love of celebrities and movies here in the US. I agree with the coffee date thing (it makes sense) m but there’s still a part of me that has the “expensive dinner” to impress her scenario running through my head. I’m picturing Walk Street traders, mafia guys, drug dealers on the come up, 1940’s black and white talking pictures, etc. Jazzy pianist, fancy waiter, ordering in French or whatever, etc. Impressing her that you know the owner and you have a usual tabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:47 PM
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But who’s got the numbers if we took the whole world into account? Not everything modern is the way to go but if I had to imagine most of the world, most people are fine with eating in front of each other. Are we specifically talking dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:36 PM
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No. Everything. Yes. I don’t have anything interesting to add. It’s simple for me. We’re living in modern times with modern women. Whether you as a woman supported feminism or not, you stayed silent and let them speak for you. They pushed equality and you benefitted from it. Here comes the parts about equality you won’t like or maybe you’ll miss. Equal to a man so get treated like one. You hate “tradition” and “old fashioned” anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 02:30 PM
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Do you feel like a lot of things are forced? Is everything like rape to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 08:10 PM
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Can we be friends? You pay. I won’t. You open doors. I won’t. Why care right? Also I’m gonna complain about how I wish I had better friends and the 100 potential friends I can choose from all suck. Hmph! Also why don’t you tell them that? The whole point of their movement is comparison and striving for equality in whatever they perceive as unfair or oppression. Then when things get better, the eternal struggle continues. This is like the pickme girl thing but instead a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:53 PM
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Whatever fear people have is up to them to decide to take seriously. I decided being falsely accused scares me more than a joke. I know jokes are the precursor to genocide and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:59 PM
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But you bitch and moan there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:53 PM
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Probably but it’s funny as fuck. It’s the men’s version of metoo. I’m afraid she’ll false accuse me of rape! It’s the look behind me if I’m being followed! Buddy system guys! Make it three, her word against both of yours isn’t enough. We need to tattletale more often and cry on command. That’s one way to “be more vulnerable” as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:51 PM
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Have you seen the goalpost of what is considered offensive? Just accept that the killjoys are in charge now with their supernatural powers of crying on command and redefining words to their benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 01:45 PM
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So you gonna stop all the women that sign up to do it? If no woman ever wants to do it, they wouldn’t. You better include banning sex work online and real life as well. A lot of things don’t contribute anything to the world. It’s all luxury entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:14 AM
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Here I am just watching X-art keeping it nice and clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:11 AM
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The majority of mainstream porn is consenting adults. Banning it isn’t gonna stop the traffickers. In fact, it’ll be huge for them. Stop equating some asshole leaking nudes to the porn industry. Slavery still exists. Not all work is legal. Wanna ban work?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:10 AM
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Because we can openly talk about it. You guys keep your shit to yourselves. You keep an acceptable agreeable public opinion but personally, live as hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:06 AM
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Because banning things works so well! Ban mean words while you’re at it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:05 AM
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Yeah, they’re anti porn because a man is producing it and benefitting off it. But if it’s onlyfans… then it’s all ok. What happened to women just wanting to have control of their lives? That includes the traditional route of housewife and anal queen. Feminism is becoming more of a Puritan movement. Bunch of contradictory hypocritical beliefs like the religions they criticize. Just girls wanting to rebel against Daddy and anything he likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:04 AM
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Is this really a question? You might as well wonder why we have violent action movies (acting/entertainment/consensual) vs a guide on how to beat up random people (real/illegal/non-consensual). Go fix something real where the victims are a plenty and super obvious. Porn has it’s faults but Jesus, most of them are there of their own volition. Hey guys, I got paid to have several men pee in my mouth! I didn’t I know how to say no! Please save me from myself and ban the whole industry!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:00 AM
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Women are the ones who want men to be better in every way. Money, power, status, looks, height, strength (physical and emotional), ability, etc. You want to be empowered independent women? Provide and protect a dependent man. Or whatever, keep being a hypocritical contradictory coward. Show us how you don’t need no man and how a man needs you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:02 PM
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Men are thirsty because we look/stare/gawk at women. We look before we ask. Women’s thirst is different. They want to be looked at by men. They get looked at before getting asked. Online proves it with how much men look at porn or stare at girls on twitch or consume onlyfans content. Even the tinder strategy of just matching anyone. Look how women are on social media. Modeling, fitness, make up, and signing up for tinder for validation. Does it have to be repeated or just observed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:53 PM
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Yeah so hard to cook and clean compared being this high earning have it altogether man. If I had a do over, I’ll take cooking and cleaning over how much you have to build yourself up and what’s expected of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:40 PM
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That’s cause it goes against every fiber in their being. In video games, front line looks for supports. Warriors look for healers. A high income woman thinking a high income man wants more income is stupid. They wanted to be masculine so fulfill the protector/provider role.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:33 PM
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No to all. I’m willing to adapt. They want to be modern so be modern in every way. Stop being annoyingly traditional while being annoyingly modern. Pick one. It’s only easy to say “but biology” because it benefits you. You can’t have it both ways if you’re gonna espouse equality. I would take feminism more seriously if it advocated for 50% across the board. 50% of the workforce but mostly cushy jobs. It’s hard to do shared housework when it’s mostly men doing backbreaking jobs while women just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 02:29 PM
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At least they get to see a real patriarchy in action. Easy for them to criticize having never done shit or be expected to. Back to sitting with the children again but here it's men and women until invaders come. You guys ever think that you could lose a fight when protecting? Even in a life or death situation, you are just entitled to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 02:30 AM
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