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| 33 | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail time | Discussion | Tobor_Xes240 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:19 PM |
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| – | Most couples meet from IRL, not onlineLove me a Christmas Day debate on PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 04:58 PM |
| – | Are women actually turned off by Men who have feeling for them?As an elder Millennial, the longest-lasting hetero relationships in my demographic are the ones where it’s obvious that the guy is the more attractive (financially, physically, etc.) of the two. He doesn’t pedestal her, and she recognizes that he is her best-case scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:57 PM |
| 4 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?It’s fun going to a beta-buxx wedding and seeing that all the bride’s guests are women with plus ones and the groom’s guests are mostly single guys going stag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 12:03 AM |
| – | Attractive man have lots of situationshipAs an unattractive man men, we need to accept our faith fate and acknowledge that we are not meant to have sex. FIFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:25 PM |
| – | Attractive man have lots of situationshipLove your username! Maybe after January 20, 2025? Once again, we’ll have a national executive who has paid for sex and enjoyed bigly success to boot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?both men and women, be a lot happier if we understood that the values and personality we need in a partner to make us feel fulfilled and safe and loved is infinitely more valuable than seeking out the hottest, richest person you can find You were right in the original comment that touched this all off in that I am indeed bitter about things I’ve seen as opposed to experienced first-hand. I’m still in the phase of trying to score objectively attractive women, getting one for a few months, and fin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?I’m not blaming women for anything. I’m stating that women, by and large, have difficulty maintaining attraction to men with lower n-counts than themselves. The dudes in question were like me when they got beta buxxed: socially inept, kind of naive, and horny AF. They married recovering carousel riders who wanted many of the same things out of partnership (friendship, support, companionship, etc.) and were willing to give them a chance. But when their wives met coworkers who really got their jui… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?the removal of all personal weapons in America because certain weapons were used in those shootings Holy shit, a blue piller who is a closet NRA nut? Yeah, I’ll take the bait. I donate to Everytown annually and support politicians who advocate for stricter gun laws. Go ahead and seethe 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?I’m upset about the use of legally-purchased firearms at mass shootings at Columbine, Shady Hook, Parkland, and hundreds of other schools. Do you ❤️ how I’ve never experienced a mass shooting myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 07:49 PM |
| – | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?Nah people are still upvoting me because both of you are so annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:57 PM |
| – | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?<image> such an unappealing prospect to me and many committed women Are you even a woman tho? You’re either a 23M or 46M (nice job using multiples, btw) or a Columbia undergrad 🤣🤣🤣 Not sure what your point is, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:43 PM |
| -10 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?Famine taught men to build silos. In an era when exciting new dick is mere swipes away for most women, scarcity isn’t teaching lessons anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:38 PM |
| 5 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?I know. Like most tenets of political conservatism, the Blue Pill works until Red Pill stuff happens to you. Enjoy your privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:22 PM |
| 9 | What happens to women who go through a hoe phase in their 20s later in life?Or they marry (and cheat on) decent, kind men who couldn’t do that. Source: 40M who’s watched multiple friends take the beta-buxx journey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | What is the longest you have ever been in a committed relationship?Did you find out after the fact? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 11:43 PM |
| 2 | What is the longest you have ever been in a committed relationship?20 months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenClearly you’ve never been to the Cactus outside of 29 Palms. She could star in ‘My 600-lb Life’ and have an entire platoon of Marines buying her drinks. EDIT: I guess a 600-lb woman is above average, now that the average American woman weighs 170. But I know that’s not what you meant 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 01:39 AM |
| – | People work harder to impress you when you have more optionsReally excited to read Blue Pillers’ counter arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 12:12 AM |
| 16 | How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not masculine enough?Asian American men are often characterized as effeminate, especially in the pre-woke teen comedies that Millennials grew up on. As a hapa, I’ve had some early-morning “You were my first Asian!” conversations with still-drunk partners. None of them stuck around, in part, because being seen with an Asian guy diminished their stature within their social circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 09:22 PM |
| 0 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenWomen can want what they like, men can choose to be with them or not. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 08:07 AM |
| 0 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenThe consequences of caloric overindulgence literally outweigh those of promiscuity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 07:20 AM |
| 1 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenthank goodness for Trump’s plan to close the Department of Education. That will fix it. A misandrist Trumptard. We’re in uncharted waters now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:22 AM |
| 6 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenHere’s who: There was once a common understanding in our society among men that there are standards of action and behavior to which men should hold themselves. Men, the code dictates, among other things, keep their word, whether in writing or not, men do not take advantage of women, men support their children, and men watch their language, especially around women and children. The code of men is fading. — William J. Bennett, Reagan’s Secretary of Education and Bush Sr.’s drug czar. If you’re a M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:16 AM |
| -1 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenAll of them do! That’s why I’m comfortable in my assertions. I’m also comfortable with people getting laid as much as they want to, provided that they accept responsibility for whatever consequences cum 😉 of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:57 AM |
| 3 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenBased. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:55 AM |
| -3 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenNot interested in moral arguments, because I would certainly lose them. To break my own dry spells, I larp as Chad for landwhales. I’m sure they don’t appreciate my lack of experience either, but they’re getting a fit and successful guy for once, so that assuages their hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:46 AM |
| 5 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenAWDTSG is a testament to how hetero dating culture in the US has devolved into soft harems. Hetero men in their 20s and 30s are either at the center of one (top 10%) or waiting patiently for a participant to [glumly] lower her standards (bottom 90%). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:44 AM |
| 2 | If you are a smart, hard-working, and kind man, that didn't receive much attention or support from women growing up, you should start a business to protect yourself from exploitative womenhoes Not loving that language, tbh. There’s nothing inherently wrong with being sexually prolific. Having dated (and subsequently dumped by) sexually prolific women while being a relatively unsuccessful guy, I can tell you that it certainly makes average guys harder to tolerate since we haven’t had nearly as much playing time as Chad. do men not do the same thing when they have the chance Look at the explosion of “Are We Dating the Same Guy” groups on Facebook - most men don’t have a shot at emb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:26 AM |
| 30 | It feels like women are in one giant collective post-breakup phaseRomantically- and sexually-prolific people (men and women) have always had this level of insight. Social media allows males with little first-hand exposure to women (teenaged boys, incels) to develop similar levels of cynicism towards them, albeit in a vacuum. I do think that women, in general, benefit from knowing what raging misogynists sound like behind closed doors. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?Yeah, my limited experience with LTRs was even more ‘dating’: dishes, laundry, chauffeuring her when her German import was in the shop, curated weekend outings, all for semi-monthly starfish. I was such a simp, it turns my stomach a decade later. That said, a lot of my beta buxx friends are teetering near that in their marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 06:14 AM |
| 0 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?If you stick around long enough, you’ll witness a breakthrough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:36 AM |
| 3 | RP men use dating strategies that attract specific kinds of women, which reinforces their stereotypes about women in a vicious cyclebut only when your self is actually a great conventionally attractive human FIFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Most people don’t care about the culture/gender war.Average voting American. Eligible non-voters outnumbered the turnout for either presidential candidate this cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:21 AM |
| -4 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?That’s her engagement, my guy: “You sound insane.” The only thing left for her to do is call me an inkwell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:18 AM |
| 0 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?Also statistically men cheat more than women so you have less to worry about than she does. Ah yes, the “women good, men bad” narrative perpetuated by those GSS surveys. What really interests me is a more recent and focused survey targeting both adulterers and and jilted spouses. Of the pool of self-reported adulterers, 52% identified as female and only 37% as male (the remainder skipped the gender question or were non-binary). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:16 AM |
| -2 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?Saying that men in relationships are getting a worse deal is offensive and insulting to women. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 It’s offensive and insulting to you because of how accustomed you are to hearing the reverse in the echo chamber of Western MSM. In the words of Brian Simms, the first openly-LGBT person elected to the General Assembly in the Commonwealth of Pennsylvania: When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 03:07 AM |
| 5 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?I feel like being inexperienced actually leads to loving [women] less, how do you know you’ve got the best when you literally haven’t experienced anything else? This is the difference between abundance and scarcity mindsets. Men who rarely get sex appreciate the women willing to fuck us, so much so that we overlook a lot of flaws in order to enter formal relationships with them. Sex and intimacy is probably the highest thing on my list when looking for a LTR, so yes, the men that end up in the L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?I have been happily married to my favorite person for 19 years. Congrats! Had you met him in a context where only a short fling was possible (during your travel), would you still have fucked him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 01:33 AM |
| 8 | Do women who engaged in lots of casual sex, inherently love the man they wind up marrying, differently than those who did not?Maintaining a formal relationship requires far more resources (time, logistical, financial, monetary) than maintaining informal/casual/ONS. And for most men in formal relationships, the frequency of sex decreases. So the guys capable of forming casual relationships or just spinning plates are literally getting more bang for their buck. The difference is that she loves the relationship guy - something, I understand to most men of this sub, is either impossible or irrelevant (as the only thing tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Will the recent election in the US change how you choose your sex partners?There’s been a lot of threads about 4B or 4N or boycotting sex with men who didn’t vote or voted incorrectly and so on. Are any of you actually making a serious change to your sex life due to the election? If so what are you changing in terms of your sex life and how you select your sex partners? Starving Artist Chad will have to PPB like the rest of us Sigmas | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 08:41 PM |
| – | Do you know who your dating Ally is?There’s some wisdom with starting your search among the audience most likely to accept you in the first place. Comedienne Issa Rae for caught hell for suggesting that hetero Asian men and Black women pair off because they are the least desirable demographics for straight Tinder users. She wasn’t wrong though. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:11 PM |
| – | Do you know who your dating Ally is?My guy is putting the Malcolm X on that ass - “by any means necessary.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 07:50 PM |
| – | Do you know who your dating Ally is?I love this! College or post grad, urban or suburban AA men are the best allies (70.6% of them went for Harris)! College or post grad, urban or suburban Asian men are second best at 64.9%! No matter what size you are, there’s a guy that fits you[r lifestyle and political identity]! 😉 sauce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 07:38 PM |
| – | Women: You're dating a guy and find out he's excited to attend a "White Dudes for Kamala" event. Do you question his sexuality?You OK, OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: would you like being apporached in a bar when you are with your girl friends for a night out? If so, how?I like those odds! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Men - would you rather be a single mother or a childfree woman, and why?Between being a single, full-time mom and being childfree, definitely childfree. Full-time parenting is a huuuuuuge cockblock. As someone who has dated single, part-time moms, it’s not a terrible deal with your ex is solvent and sane. Of course, I want kids of my own and they wanted me to remain childfree, which is why they didn’t work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?The disconnect with a lot of guys on here (including me) is that sex is inherently scarce, so we’re gonna keep it on a pedestal no matter what belief system we follow. I agree in theory that emotional labor and sexual access don’t have to be fulfilled by the same person, but it’s pretty hard for us to obtain the latter without performing the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 08:50 PM |
| 6 | How honest are you with your sexual history, and how honest would you want your partner to be?We come here asking women to acknowledge their hypergamous nature and she’s obliging us. What would you have her do? She’s saving the time and energy of guys who aren’t into that. Her lifestyle is wild by my standards too but she has the decency to be transparent, which is all we can really ask for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 08:45 PM |
| 23 | Guys who did escorts - did/would you tell your SO?Why can’t a female SW enjoy intercourse with a male client who cannot find a sex partner via traditional courtship? It may be unlikely, but so is a 30+ n count woman remaining monogamous but we can’t write that out! As usual, BP worldview defaults to villainizing romantically unsuccessful men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 09:23 PM |
| 9 | Q4M: Would you choose a deep emotional connection with your gf? Or for just primal "Chad" lust?1 is emotional labor, performed only when he’s out of her league or when she needs resources + safety from him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 09:21 PM |
| 17 | Q4M: Would you choose a deep emotional connection with your gf? Or for just primal "Chad" lust?Omg 2 in a heartbeat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 08:49 PM |
| 11 | The Reason Most People Don’t Enjoy Dating Is Women’s Unmanaged Expectations, and Top Men Who Exploit ItBased | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 07:35 PM |
| -4 | Women, if a man left you because he wasn't the best you've ever had, would you be offended?Y’all say some wild shit whilst drunk or post-cordial. The dudes that come up then are exactly why proto-beta guys like me bail. Also, “you should have met me in high school/college” is something Chad never hears. Because he’s the one she’s talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 03:02 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?I’m being sarcastic and hoping she takes the bait. Women care about concealing their body count, but when we do it (specifically in the context of hiding visits with SWs), the past somehow becomes everybody’s business. u/attendquoi wants to minimize her chances of falling for an LVM average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 07:06 PM |
| – | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?No she’s for past partners (AKA one’s body count) being nobody’s business. And hopefully, STI checks and paternity checks being mandatory. I could live with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/24 06:51 PM |
| – | Women don't want 'better than them', they want 'better than other men' (especially with regards to height).Oddly heart-warming anecdote for PPD. Good luck to the both of you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 07:57 PM |
| – | Women don’t put more effort into their appearanceBased. Women choose to go on dates. We must earn them - there are marked thresholds a guy must cross (height, income, race, neurological) before actually participating in the SMP instead of watching from the sidelines. INB4 “entitled” - I wrote earned. After all, your attraction can’t be negotiated, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?Are you approaching the conventionally ugly women? You’ve got to build momentum somehow - try going NoFap for a few weeks; it’ll make you thirstier than a Marine on shore leave. You won’t discriminate and you’ll be a lot more pragmatic about your cold approaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 07:39 PM |
| – | Do you think it is a good idea to try to be extra macho to get women's attention?Even women who don’t have any tattoos like them. There was a guy who used to hang around here (jax006) who said he got a sleeve and it upped his SMV instantly. The way he described himself was kind of like you - professionally successful, but reeked of beta due to years of rejection in his teens and twenties. EDIT: Saw OP’s history - he admitted he’s in poor shape. That’s the first hurdle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men?The AI tech you need is to detect women who are showing interest in you and choosing signals. The glasses let you know who to talk to, not, and when to give up, or ask to exchange contact info. A lot of pickup game is choosing who best to waste your time trying with. …users found that their units only worked in remote Myanmar and in the Darien Gap, despite both being regions with spotty mobile data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Will this be the next tech revolution in the dating market for men?By doing an entire digital analyses of the surroundings and of the female in front of you [these XR glasses] could gather information you normally wouldn’t know and give you suggestions or advise on what to do or say accuse him of. These XR glasses would be completely undistinguishable from a normal pair of reading or sun glasses so as to be subtle. Thoughts? The likeliest scenario: Paola of AWDTSG fame builds a database with our faces, LinkedIn profiles, and pr0n histories. AI will read our hei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 11:19 AM |
| 3 | Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/partiesYeah that’s been a factor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 08:18 PM |
| 13 | Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/partiesrandom pointless altercations Yeah that’s one aspect that’s kind of overlooked - physically underwhelming men are the perfect target for assholes looking to blow off a little steam or practice dominant behavior. I roll with a bunch of [pretty awesome] elder Millenial rice/curry-cels and we’ve had several episodes of involuntary contact with drunken ex-frat guys. My favorite concluded with a guy trying to buy us a round after he started fucking with our token Sri Lankan before realizing he was ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the ways in which we shame each other's dating preferencesMore like an Asian guy with a conventionally-attractive white gf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:51 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the ways in which we shame each other's dating preferencesOr even consider dating guys who are open about being “bi” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child aloneBarrier to entries are lower, but try finding a reliable babysitter once they find out they’re taking care of a foster kid (not the kid’s fault obviously). Even single parents need a few hours off to get some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child aloneIt is difficult, from both an economic and a logistical perspective. That said, I have sufficient resources to make it possible (by sacrificing in other areas obvs). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child alonetraditional women No thanks, I want to be part of a dual income household that engages in premarital sex. Also I’m a pretty big libtard and fundamentalist Christian women would call me a f*ggot 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Question for men who have trouble getting women: how is your platonic social life?Do you have a lot of male friends? Do your male friends have girlfriends/wives? Yes, I have male friends from HS, undergrad, grad school, and former jobs. 90% are married (I’m 40). The other 10% is my near-incel wolfpack, mostly work friends. They are all some combination of short and South/East/Southeast Asian (I live in the mid Atlantic US). Do you have female friends? Yes, I have female friends from HS, undergrad, grad school, and former jobs. 95% of them are in LTRs or married. The rest are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child aloneSince I only have photos to go on, I’m making some assumptions WRT their body composition. Obviously if I had chosen to attempt meeting them, I would have an opportunity to test said assumptions. EDIT: I run, lift, and fast on a semi-regular basis, and the pictures on my profile demonstrate my BMI (sitting on 22 atm). I am not prediabetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:56 PM |
| 12 | Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child aloneSimply going by incoming “likes” on various apps, folx facing any combination of the following challenges: - 2 or more pre-existing offspring - 50+ y/o (I’m a decade younger) - prediabetic lifestyle I would add little value to their life, mainly due to my lack of interest in dating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 08:37 PM |
| 25 | Pro Life Men; if it were possible, would you raise the child aloneThinking about adoption right now. Nobody who might make a good mom (and sexual partner) is interested in me, and I’d make one helluva dad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreIt’s true - I was there for all of it 🤣. Society always needs someone upon whom to look down. In the US, that burden was once shouldered by various immigrant (involuntary and voluntary) populations. Now that diversity is valued (as it should be, I’m Hapa for instance), lonely and awkward men are a convenient punching bag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 02:57 AM |
| 26 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreIn 2012 (ie pre #MeToo), I was escorted out of a DC bar after asking a female patron how her night was going. No physical contact, crowding, or blocking her escape route. Just an ugly-ish guy shooting his shot. I got a wordless about face from her, so I went to the bar to get a round for me and my friends. I felt a tap on my shoulder, turned around half-hoping to see her, and instead found myself looking up at a bouncer. He told me that I needed to leave the establishment. My incel adjacent wolf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Men should want to have lesbian besties like women have gay bestiesLesbian photogs and outdoorspeople are the ultimate gearheads. I volunteer with a few and am grateful they they let me borrow their Gucci shit for camping trips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How would dating change if heterosexual women found simps to be attractive and sexually arousing?Simps don’t assault women. We’re literally nice guys who want everyone, especially our [hypothetical] partners, to be happy. If women were attracted to us, they’re not going to get hurt. INB4 “not beating us is the bare minimum”: Most violence against women is perpetrated by current or former husbands or intimate partners. More than 640 million or 26 per cent of women aged 15 and older have been subjected to intimate partner violence. sauce In the real world, women don’t choose simps, so we aren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:14 AM |
| 1 | How would dating change if heterosexual women found simps to be attractive and sexually arousing?Reported acts of domestic violence against hetero men would climb dramatically, while reported acts of domestic violence against hetero women would fall equally dramatically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 09:33 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else (all genders) get torn between wanting to be a slut and actually having something serious with one partner?Enjoy it for the rest of us! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:57 PM |
| 9 | "I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos)I know legions of these men from grad school, running club, current and former jobs, in my fucking condo complex… We’re all some combination of East/South Asian, short, or working in the trades. Methinks the lady is missing a few qualifying adjectives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 09:39 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Screencapped that so I can throw it your face when it’s your turn to be butthurt 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:41 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?What’s stopping you from giving yourself permission to be happy Imagine giving that pep talk to a woman who’s gone through multiple rounds of IVF and cannot conceive. Nobody’s owed a partner towards whom they’re attracted, but the absence of one can’t be just erased from your waking life. I met an amazing woman last year who is putting herself out there despite her cerebral palsy. She doesn’t want anyone’s sympathy, but she was brave enough to admit that yeah, the situation that OP gleefully des… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedIndian men Chadpreet or nah? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 05:58 PM |
| 16 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedI’ve been to several beta bucks weddings. One of the most glaring signs is that the bride’s guests all have +1s and the groom’s guests are all single guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Would prostitution be accepted if customers admitted to it more often?If this guy is working with professional escorts only, asking for consent, and using protection, then 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 07:30 AM |
| 0 | Would prostitution be accepted if customers admitted to it more often?Sex work is work. Prostitutes aren’t ’used,’ they are patronized by their clients. INB4 ‘prostitutes are victims of human trafficking’ - even if they are, they’re not being ‘used’ - us autists use a fleshlight, not a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 05:41 AM |
| 8 | How common is it for single women wanting to hookup at weddings?Despite being a LVM, I’ve been able to pull it off 2X with women whom I subsequently attempted to court long-distance (and failed). In both cases, I was good friends already with the groom and bride and wasn’t trying to meet anyone. But the combination of open bars, my obvious social capital, and the inevitable outcome independence from living several states away made me look a lot cooler than I actually am. I look back on those days quite fondly. And Blue Pillers aren’t completely wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Ranking your own SMV/RMVRMV is for relationships. For hetero men, RMV is more about resource, emotional intelligence, and kindness. SMV is all about aesthetics and occasionally, game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Ranking your own SMV/RMV5 SMV Going by TrueRateMe comments. My lived experience is 1-4 matches/month on Hinge, normies ignoring me at bars and developing friend vibes within my social network, and landwhales feeling looksmatched enough to hit on me in bars. nice, masculine frame No, just my shoulders are broader than my waist and my love handles are non-apparent (which takes IF, not gonna lie) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Ranking your own SMV/RMV40M, SMV - 5, RMV - 8.5 Pros: - 5’11 - above median income in high COL region of the US (~$90K) - only debt is mortgage - BMI of 21 with quasi V shaped torso from running and lifting - large friend group and gets invited out to events on monthly basis - graduate degree - no baby mamas/ no ex-wife Cons: - half Asian male in a white-worshipping culture - weak jawline from mouth breathing/ sleep apnea - depression requires Wellbutrin - little LTR experience - unwilling to date women heavier than my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Well y’all sound like a power couple. 💪🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:48 PM |
| -1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Body composition is more important than bmi. No shit, but I’m not conversant in body comp so how should I expect a hypothetical partner to be? BMI is a decent heuristic for: Do I really need pizza tonight? Why not do a salad or just go to bed hungry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:49 PM |
| -1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?My standards are exactly what I bring to the table: - no pre-existing children - reasonable amount of debt (mortgage) - a job - sub 25 27 BMI (I’ve leaned out to ~20 but I don’t like skinny bitches) - enjoys going to concerts As others have pointed out, these sort of checklists offend women because I’m not Chad and therefore, I should simply be satisfied with anyone who deigns talk to me and possesses two X chromosomes. Attraction cannot be negotiated. Is only applicable to homely heterosexual m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it really so bad if virgin guys are forced to go for women with experience?It’s really awesome for the guy. More often than not, it sucks for the woman since she’s had better. More than that, no small part of a guy’s SMV comes from his ability to recruit partners. Since virgins-by-circumstance have never been chosen, their SMV takes a huge hit - and some women take it very poorly when they find themselves linked (physically or socially) with a low SMV guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 08:55 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menShe’s not wrong that these outcomes are possible. I am exactly what she’s talking about. I guess it is misandry, but it’s an area of improvement for late bloomers. We don’t need to wear our shame, frustration, and loneliness on our sleeve IRL (although it’s cathartic doing it on Reddit). Frankly, a lot of us in the global West should just start saving for a week in Nevada and leave it all there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | “Psych Hacks” method for securing a high value man or commitment - lure him in with s*x, add value later.This is how ex-carouselers lock down a Good Man. As for the women still riding in search of a Top Man, may the odds be ever in your favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 04:25 PM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer men40M late bloomer hereto man here. None of these characteristics are guaranteed in a late bloomer male, but OP is correct in that they occur often among our population🤣. Like any other participant in the SMP, we have to highlight our upside and minimize (or outright conceal) any downside. Learning “game” (or whatever the kids call it these days) is how men like me feign the experience and instinct of more prolific men, at least in the motions leading up to the bedroom. The fact that the mere poss… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex so important to men in the early stages of dating?Your guy’s eccentricities aside (whining - wtf?), sex - let alone sex with a woman towards whom we are attracted - is scarce. So blowing (figuratively) a promising first date by asking for it doesn’t feel like much of a risk, since a getting rejected would still feel like a typical weekend night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 11:32 AM |
| – | Men, who would you rather marry?Option 2 easily. If you’ve spent most of your life jumping from dry spell to dry spell, the prospect of consistent and high-quality sex with an attractive woman is enticing. Sure I may be missing out on a rewarding, loving relationship but I don’t know what that would feel like since I’ve never been in one. What I do know is that I have a great network of friends through school, jobs, and hobbies. In this hypothetical scenario, I’d just keep doing me while forking over some of my paycheck to thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 05:10 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeForgot about him. Good Lord, this PA victim had it easy compared to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 01:23 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeRight, and Emmett Till wasn’t arrested for being an African American man in an elevator. His accuser had to manufacture a crime. Obviously Till’s story has much more historical import than this one, but Carolyn Bryant apologists used the same logic you are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:58 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeTo him and to any guy, that distinction was immaterial. Urumova chose him because he appeared “creepy” - her very own words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:41 PM |
| – | Yes Virginia, appearing ‘creepy’ in public can get you jail timeA privilege that the actual victim did not get to enjoy. Bucks County is aggressive on rape charges (generally against men) because they want potential offenders to think twice. You would think that they would want false rape accusers to think twice, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Study: Western women and men show similarities and differences when choosing a foreign partnerJokic is going to dominate. Nugs by 40. That’s actually funnier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Study: Western women and men show similarities and differences when choosing a foreign partnerIf writing that out helps you feel better about your own pathetic life, I will have done some good here. Be blessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Study: Western women and men show similarities and differences when choosing a foreign partnerYou are way too confident in your disposition. You need to really sit and think about the things you say man, it’s disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Study: Western women and men show similarities and differences when choosing a foreign partnerSo Spanish senoritas are lovin’ on that 🍆 from across the Strait of Gibraltar! No wonder the anti-immigration movement is so strong there 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 05:11 AM |
| 7 | Study: Western women and men show similarities and differences when choosing a foreign partnerIn a westernized SMP, phenotypes common in Asian men are less likely to attract marital partners. Conversely, phenotypes common in Asian women motivate heightened levels of mating interest among heterosexual men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughI did this at REI for the employee discount and some of my colleagues got salty (understandably) when I admitted what my day job was. My guy was popular because he was willing to open consistently, and because he helped some of his colleagues apply for better-paying, white-collar jobs. Genuinely good dude that DC women overlooked for years because he wasn’t Chad(preet). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 10:57 PM |
| 9 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughSince when is sharing anecdotes ‘pushing a narrative’? On a post in another sub, you’re complaining about how your career isn’t respected by people of your culture since it isn’t dependent upon a college degree. As a Asian American, I get that. But using your own logic, that’s ’pushing a narrative’ too. INB4 ‘looking at my post history is creepy.’ It’s not - it’s how we hold each other accountable for coherence and intellectual consistency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 11:42 AM |
| 7 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughThus the ‘I guess’ 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 11:32 AM |
| 7 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughthe loser men that work alongside them Good point. Men are economically shamed for entering the trades and actively discriminated against during the college admissions process, but most American women want a college-educated white collar guy who outearns them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do women who have casual sex morally condemn prostitution?I would argue the bigger suckers are men having to hook up with women they aren’t even attracted to That’s fine. We’re just grateful to get laid. Frankly, I see a lot of non-Chads pairing off with near-landwhales just so they can keep getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:07 AM |
| 10 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughPretty sure Tyrone never got turned down because some Black men write, perform, and rejoice in misogynistic rap lyrics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 04:01 AM |
| 27 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughYep. And the one of the biggest issues facing American women right now is their own unwillingness to socialize with men towards whom they are not immediately attracted. If I can match with Chad on the apps, why waste a single syllable talking to Pradeep who’s standing in front of me? No rice, no curry tee hee | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 03:59 AM |
| 21 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughOne of my grad school buddies took a part time job as a barista in order to talk to meet women. He’s a cyber security engineer by day, so he was covering ass early shifts on weekends or Sunday evenings. At bars, women would simply turn around if he attempted to talk to them (he’s a short Indian American from Houston). As a barista, all the customers had to interact with him. His now wife got to know him through the barista job and even admitted that she left swiped him on Tinder. It’s a cute sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 03:40 AM |
| 18 | Just getting yourself out there is not enough40M. I’m in a large running club in a DC suburb. Overall it’s wonderful but the Red Black Pills come at you fast and hard: while most of the members are already married or in relationships, pretty much all the single guys are East-, South-, or Southeast Asian men. I’ve been in the club for two years and the only single guys who ‘met’ a teammate running were tall white guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?I respect everyone’s unique taste and don’t deny that my own has hampered my ability to find a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 07:26 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"?Absolutely. Looks fade and you eventually become roommates anyway, as the fat acceptance movement tells me while encouraging me to pair off with a woman who weighs more than I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:26 PM |
| -1 | South Korea is officially taking steps to address its low birth rate. Do you think they’ll be successful?They should just offer permanent residency to single men who can pass for Caucasian. My buds who taught in English in South Korea all ended up with partners out of their [historical] league - and were enthusiastic about having kids with them. Basically, Korean and Japanese women got snow fever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:51 PM |
| – | How would legal prostitution change society in America?What can I say, I support the US worker. And there is zero chance that a worker in a legal Nevada brothel is doing anything against her will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Is this actually good datng advice fo women?It’s great advice for women in that it’s actionable (in Western SMPs, at least) and variety really is the spice of life (Esther Perel fanboi 🤘). Leave no Chad behind amirite? Obviously this isn’t in the best interests of the guys with whom Sandberg acolytes deign to finally settled down. As an elder millennial, I’ve watched several imbalanced n-count LTRs implode around me. In every case, the woman’s previous sexual abundance caused her to resent her partner’s sheer lack of experience (and conse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Is this actually good datng advice fo women?Husband #2 died in 2015. She definitely redefined “sexy” like you wrote after her first marriage ended, but that second marriage ended through no fault of her own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?the general “you”….most women have engaged in one night stands and hook ups | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 09:15 PM |
| – | Do You Notice Marked Differences Between People On Dating Apps Vs The General Population?The women, yes. Most guys I know are swiping right on women whom they’d overlook in a bar (until last call). The apps tend to magnify a woman’s SMV due to the gender imbalance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 09:13 PM |
| -1 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?Totally fair. Plenty of men feel similarly (not me, I think it’s great if all parties are on the same page). Of course, that’s why concealing one’s sexual past is so important if you want to appeal to beaus who would be repulsed by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How would legal prostitution change society in America?Thank you for your service. I mean that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:49 PM |
| 3 | How would legal prostitution change society in America?Yeah, an hour at a legal brothel costs as much as 6 months worth of dates for an average guy. But at least you’re guaranteed a happy ending! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 08:28 PM |
| – | should we put virgins in a national registry?Can another dude take that V card? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 07:30 PM |
| -2 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?sharing STDs like a bag of chips Using SWs as a punching bag, are we? Consider the following: Canada permits people suffering from physical handicaps to work with intimacy coaches to fulfill that layer of Maslow’s hierarchy so do the Netherlands some US states permit surrogate therapy EDIT: color me shocked that women want to dismantle any laws that might threaten the pussy cartel, even if said laws were established in gynocentric Western democracies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Would women date men who actually followed the advice of frequenting escorts?It’s not in my date’s best interests for me to know about how she took on the entire offensive line one crazy night during junior year. It’s not in my best interests for my date to know about how I’ve been sugaring on Seeking Arrangements since my latest promotion. The past doesn’t matter. Amirite, ladies? ***INB4 “muh STIs.” Obviously staying clean or being transparent about your STIs is part of the social contract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Guys are not intimidated by her job / status. They just don't want to compete constantly with other "high performers"nah, too good, better give up Oddly enough, I know a few guys who are so successful and accomplished that pretty much all women nearby have given up on accepting a date from them. I can’t quite put my finger on why: all women on the apps claim to be below 5’8 and love ethnic cuisine - why wouldn’t they love a guy who is a convenient 1-2 inches taller than they are and grew up cooking Korean, Vietnamese, or Tamil food 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/24 02:16 PM |
| – | If you would have to make a Dating Location Tier list, how would you make it?makes their heart ‘jump’ Or more likely just gives them the ‘ole tingles 🌊 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Why Do People Use Dating Apps?to determine if you want to speak with them That’s a choice female users get to make. For cis het women, the beauty of apps is that men below your looks threshold can be simply glossed over. IRL, we still get a shot at making you laugh during a fleeting interaction at the bar. Online, we are silent and easily forgotten. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Why Do People Use Dating Apps?For certain demographics, they provide easy access to attention, food, entertainment, and/or sex. For the bottom 80% of cis het guys, they offer a catalog of plausibly single women in our geographic area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:52 PM |
| – | Why is high body count in women a turnoff for men but (usually) not the other way around?Sex positivity is usually a green flag, and in a Western hetero SMP, that attribute generally correlates with higher n-counts. The men who are vocal about a preference for lower (or nonexistent) n-count partners generally come from a place of fear: their own sexual performance will be deemed inferior to that of a previous partner(s), the memory of whom may undermine the current relationship or worse, render them a cuckhold. While some women obviously feel similarly, the preferences demonstrated … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Would you be comfortable dating a woman significantly smarter than you?Love me a good gender-swap prompt! Absolutely, because I like learning and am comfortable about admitting my ignorance. Unfortunately I’m far closer to Billy Beta than Chad, so a relative paucity of intellect is chalked up as a weakness instead of an endearing quality. Halo effect is a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Can you explain why complaints from both gender are so similar ?No, but larger forces in the SMP drive individual behavior. My Hinge profile is incredibly popular with single moms ranging from early 30s to 50+; no other demographic displays the slightest interest. Since Hinge profiles display an approximate timeframe for a user’s latest swipes, I am aware that women with lifestyles similar to my own (childless, own home, healthy BMI & active lifestyle, etc) are on the app and swiping. They just allocate their finite supply of right swipes for better men than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 06:30 PM |
| – | I think that "slayers" or men who sleep around are low value because it means they never got validation in childhood and probably have fried dopamine receptors.Fish don’t recognize good fishermen - they either take the bait or don’t. Shitty fishermen recognize our betters because they always come home with a catch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 04:48 PM |
| – | Your "league" is who will commit to you, not who would hit it99% of women will only sleep with a guy if they’re open to a relationship with him, however unlikely it would be for him to commit. For women in their prime, of course that’s Chad, which is why they endure situationships with him. It’s only after a decade or so of physical weathering, weight gain, and possibly raising Chad Jr that the prospect of monthly star-fishing for Billy Beta in exchange for some stability and extra income doesn’t sound so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 03:13 PM |
| 3 | How well do women actually handle sexual rejection. If they can handle it better than men what are the reasons and what can men learn from that?If they’re aware of an obvious SMV asymmetry (i.e. Chad + non-Stacey), they take it quite well and find comfort in the fact that they tried. As they should - it takes a lot of courage to put yourself out there and acknowledge romantic interest when there’s little chance of reciprocity. On the other hand, getting rejected by a guy whom they perceive to be a looksmatch absolutely floors them. “Perceive” being the operative word here - decades of participation trophies, “the future is female” solip… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Opinion on a woman saying she'll take anyone at this point ?Even Chadpreet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | What is it about women that makes it easier for them to move on/move on faster, and for "smaller" reasons than men?Abundance of apparent options + 12 years of childhood indoctrination that they deserve the world (“the future is female”) + extra income for skills they actually don’t possess (DEI + gender quotas) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Do older men 35+ have trouble dating woman in their mid 20’s?40M. 5’11. BMI of 23.9. Above-median comp plan in a high COL region of the US. The inbound likes from sub-30 YO women on Hinge and Bumble come from morbidly obese chicks, generally with kids. It’s that or somewhat fit, cougarish fifty-somethings. I swipe right on the latter, start a convo, and watch it peter out as Chad works his magic in another chat. Women in my own demographic never match with me. Rinse and repeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:07 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: For the men here who have suffered with dating struggles where they want to find a partner but can't, were you able to open up to your male friends about your struggles? If so, how did they respond? And do you believe we should talk more about this as men?Most of my friend circle still coupled up met pre Tinder (and thus, all hetero dating apps ~2014?). Undergrad, work, mutual friends, or kickball brought them together (we’re all elder Millennials). There’s also my near-incel Wolfpack. The latter camp often asks the former for advice. The former always gives some pabulum about “just be yourself,” with an aside of “thank god that [partner’s name] met me before the apps.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:58 PM |
| – | "Everybody dies alone" No shit, but a lot of men are spending their prime years aloneMost women have a hard time fathoming dying alone with no memories or experiences with others to look back on through the suffering you may have endured in your life. the US, Black women can fathom it quite well: In 1970, 35.6% of Black men and 27.7% of Black women were never married, but by 2020, these percentages had jumped to 51.4% for Black men and 47.5% for Black women. While the percentage of all adults who were never married increased by 7.6% for men and 7.9% women, the corresponding chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:45 PM |
| – | Should the manosphere be held accountable for misogynistic mass violence?I don’t hold 4th wave feminists responsible for Elizabeth Holmes’ hubris and inflated ego, which led to her perpetuating a complete and massive fraud. So no, a movement is not defined by its worst actors (explicitly or implicitly). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of woman have issues with neediness or clinginess than men?Based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of woman have issues with neediness or clinginess than men?What kind of org expects IT PMs to “help around the job site?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Is it easier in 2024 for an autistic man to make a fortune than get into a romantic relationship.Oh yeah, then accruing a fortune is waaay easier (albeit difficult in itself). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 05:00 PM |
| – | Is it easier in 2024 for an autistic man to make a fortune than get into a romantic relationship.Depends on the parameters of “a romantic relationship.” Can our hypothetical STEMlord autist find a woman who will fuck him exclusively and perform emotional labor on his behalf? Absolutely. She may be conventionally unattractive, burdened with another man’s offspring, and/or originally from the Global South, but yes , she exists if he searches long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Disappointed in misleading articles about childless women recently, does anybody why these are being pumped out recently?Amazing answer, btw. I live for comebacks like that one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Dating as an autistic manAutistic men from the global West are the golden ticket for women stuck in the global South. Nobody ever told us that our inability to recognize social cues also makes us impervious to shame. And that’s exactly what we need in order to drive a green card bargain that actually sticks. Onwards and upwards! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Men’s standards are just as problematic as women’s.accept FIFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 12:52 AM |
| 10 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?Average single man of marriageable age here. We absolutely matter: we pay more in taxes than we receive in benefits (won’t flip for another 2 decades for me), we prop up insurance schemes by paying premiums without making claims, we hold most of the jobs that keep the lights on: mining, water treatment, garbage collection, electrical linemen, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Sexual promiscuity alone doesn’t matter.Women who have high body counts and have had a lot of casual sex, but have never pursued a serious relationship by their late 20s/early 30s are pretty uncommon. Agreed, and no shade on them. The distinction I’m making is that casual sex is an option for most women in that age bracket and always with men of much higher SMV than themselves. By contrast, most of their male contemporaries have been searching for (and failing to find) LTRs so we can get sex at all. Pew Research Center found that 63% … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Sexual promiscuity alone doesn’t matter.Serving as Billy Beta for a Stacey nearing her Wall is about the best RP indoctrination you can have. Bottom 80% men know that a sexually adventurous woman can land men 4-5 pts above her, at least for an evening. While I love that thirst, I know that my turn only comes when the fun is over. As far as male promiscuity goes, a man’s lack of sexual history is a red flag because it signals that in a free and open SMP, women took their business elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 04:14 AM |
| 0 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?When I was in undergrad, I had a handful of classmates from the UAE. This was back in the mid aughts at an ACC school, so women pretty much ignored them. And yet, they didn’t seem lonely or thirsty. Unbeknownst to us, they were getting plenty of notches in 🇩🇪, 🇳🇱, 🇹🇭, and God knows where else during holidays. Shit they probably understood women better than some of my Chadlite pals in the “good” fraternities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 03:56 AM |
| 97 | Why do so many women insist that the bar is so low?/thread The guys near the floor aren’t counted in the dating pool. So the “bar” is really “can Chad wash himself regularly, keep a job, and clean his place before I come over?” The real “bar is the floor” situation is when the “bar” is USCIS and there’s a green card in play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Question for older guys 35+. What is your experience with the wall?Because the only people willing to consider me have none of those qualities anymore. Sometimes it’s by circumstance, sometimes it’s by neglect, so not assigning blame. Also, I went back to grad school in early 30s, so my prime years were spent working, studying, and watching any eligible classmates share the smattering of Chads in my cohort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Question for older guys 35+. What is your experience with the wall?I love dating women my own age. Unfortunately, I also love dating women who are putting the same level of sustained effort into their physical, professional, and social lives. I’ve been working on my body, my money, and my readiness as a father (mortgage, 401K, life insurance premiums on point) since I was 22. 18 years later, the pool of contemporaries willing to consider me are 0/3 and looking for Billy Bailout. No thanks, might as well shoot for younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Question for older guys 35+. What is your experience with the wall?I’ve been a perennial “supporting character” in most of my mixed-gender social groups. I go to good concerts, hang in good bars, and am attractive enough to reflect well on you when you need a wingman or platonic date. However, prior to 37-38, I was the guy that women approached when they were curious about my taller, whiter, Chad-lier friends. Cut to NYE 2023, a Wall-adjacent acquaintance and I struck up a drunken convo at a party. I’d known of her for years, watching her slide from a stout kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 04:38 PM |
| 4 | Adjust your seduction strategy to play to your strengths. This is “being yourself”Sometimes your strength is “US citizen with steady income and no incumbent partners.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 09:37 PM |
| -2 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.I get it, and everyone deserves the right to pursue the most fulfilling life possible for them - provided that their fulfillment isn’t detrimental to others. Most heterosexual men enjoy sex, and would gladly trade some level of autonomy and resources in order to have consistent access to it. Luckily for us, some of your peers enjoy the fruits of our labor (in the office, in the gym, and around the house) so much that they’ll consent to weekly starfish to keep us around. So that’s how it’s been g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 01:50 AM |
| 1 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?HVKV learn the lingo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 10:14 PM |
| -1 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?My Stacey is a Nordic model looking to live that Nordic model lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Yeah now I feel bad for Swiss physicians. Medicine is hard AF, and the same skillsets applied in a different industry and country would yield much higher personal gains. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:34 PM |
| 10 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?I have Swiss cousins, and they’ve told me that while there’s a flatter income distribution - physicians still make more than school teachers, but it’s not like the US, where: - the former can own multiple properties by the end of their careers - the latter often work second jobs to stay solvent despite getting postgraduate degrees Does this track with your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:17 PM |
| -1 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Where I live, the title “consultant” generally connotes a high-salaried, well-educated desk jockey working at McKinsey, BCG, or one of the Big Four (Google it). Some of my buddies who were virtually telemarketers used it with great success, until difficult topics like attending expensive friend weddings or distant music festivals came up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 06:12 PM |
| 3 | To the women who have dated or are dating a guy with less relationship experience than you, what is it like ?Why are you insulting this woman for sharing her perspective? Frankly, it’s tough to get anyone on here to acknowledge that they’re traumatized by previous relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?queen as an epithet Your internalized misogyny is showing 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/24 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?Nice attempt at deflection: the correct analog to “symmetrical labia” is “big dick.” Who cares about the actual reproductive organs? EDIT: holy shit your participation in Female Dating Strategy is…on brand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:08 PM |
| 5 | Men of this sub, do you believe that most men have practically no standards?While it’s hyperbolic to claim that men have “no standards,” but it’s very fair to say that we are far more willing to pursue formal relationships with women whose life accomplishments pale in comparison to our own. Do you see any memes about men demanding women with advanced degrees, making six figures, and/or a symmetrical labia? Do you know why there’s no male equivalent for r/whereareallthegoodmen? Men understand that dating is a marketplace, not a build-a-bear workshop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?For the same reasons women jump from Chad to Chad on the carousel - they think that some day, someone will recognize all of their heretofore unnoticed qualities and jump into a relationship with their delusional ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that most people cannot lower their standards biologically?In the short term, going r/NoFap helps men. Also being in environments with few women in general (prison, military deployment, San Jose) will do the trick. Not sure if women can lower their standards: as evidenced by angelbaby993’s’s top-rated comment, hetero women grow to resent a man whom they chose to date based on his potential to be a stable, kind partner. Bottom 80% stepdads raising Chad’s offspring know this all too well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:36 PM |
| 5 | When guys say they can’t find a girl, is it because you’re not finding 1st dates or not being able to find a commitment?To think that the “Stacey” archetype encompasses somewhat overweight single moms is tantamount to claiming that the vast majority of single women in the US qualify as Stacey. Which is obviously not the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:26 AM |
| 12 | When guys say they can’t find a girl, is it because you’re not finding 1st dates or not being able to find a commitment?First dates. Of course, I’m picky: 5’10, 173 lbs, and looking for a woman with a sub 28 BMI (I’m 24.8) and no greater than 1 child (I have 0). According to Hinge X and Bumble Premium, obese mothers of 3+ are ready to marry me sight unseen. So that’s reassuring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex"here it is. Now we need a German speaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 12:58 PM |
| 0 | Can we talk about the phenomenon of childless stepdads who are actually good?His observations aren’t really for you - don’t worry about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 12:16 PM |
| 2 | I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex"Yes, they recognize sex workers’ right to practice their craft (in a safe, regulated environment like any other industry). The nerve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex"so it might not be relevant for other countries and women who are not German In my limited personal experience, German women are highly educated, self-aware, and pragmatic. If you don’t think they’re a representative sample of women, you must be a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 08:09 PM |
| -2 | Would you date a woman that slept with your friend before you were exclusive?Only if I get to be the first through the back door. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 11:52 AM |
| 2 | I think paying, if possible, is much better for rich smart men than marrying or even "free sex"Escort opponents shouldn’t care what OP thinks about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 02:22 PM |
| 6 | Have you ever been abused, sexually assaulted or harassed by a woman?40M. Had an asscheek pinched by a landwhale during a professional event (?!?) The sponsors put on a cover band, so the reception hall turned into a dance floor. I know it was her because I spun around and saw her beaming. Didn’t want to start shit so I just skedaddled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | With the growing ideological divide between men and women and increasing bitterness, is heterosexuality becoming inferior?South Korea’s People Power Party took the Presidency in 2022 with a self-described “anti-feminist” candidate. Far from being a reactionary, he’s a typical pro-business, anti-Communist establishment type who indulges in bashing feminists and dismantling any explicitly pro-female programs and policies. His mostly male followers love him, and since they weren’t participating in the SMP before the election anyways, South Korean women cannot moderate their views under threat of withdrawing from sex. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Late bloomer men should absolutely not date younger womenhormonal, impulsive younger woman Wow, paternalistic much? You sure you’re a hetero woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do you care what men masturbate to?Agreed, which is why we need to police the thoughts of female academics so we don’t get another Amy Bishop. After all, thoughts inform actions. Just think of the children! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:42 PM |
| 28 | A word for someone who struggles to get laid AND doesn't hate the opposite sex?Thank you. The term was coined by a Canadian lesbian for Christ sakes. The fact that women (and men) use it as a pejorative exclusively against hetero men is proof that a man’s access to sex does indeed determine his stature in the eyes of women (and woe to us who were deemed unworthy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you think anyone's opinion will change?I think young people (Gen Z and later) are facing an entirely different dating market than their predecessors, even Millennials. Blue pill rhetoric still applied in my early 20s: even as a dateless late bloomer until undergrad, I was able to lose my V-card to a classmate who enjoyed being in my study group. And one of the hottest women I’ve banged was a fellow millennial colleague who got over my Asian-ness and quasi dad bod because we enjoyed working together. My younger cousins are second-gene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 02:07 AM |
| – | If a man wouldn’t want the women in his life being in porn, then his feelings about porn are pretty anti-porn.Well stated. I too was always confused about this issue until I understood the difference between a woman’s sexual attraction and the pool of men willing to date her. Women quietly (or maybe loudly) play a status game against other women around who is with the most exclusive catch of a man. They want their friends to find their man extremely desirable, but also very choosy, and remain faithful to her - making her very special. A winner. This is why many women feel very torn about dating a decent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Is dating a "free market"?Euro-Atlantic democracies Love this version of the “global West” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 11:52 PM |
| -1 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?Men like myself and OP are invisible to sexually enlightened women so they’re not gauging us for shit 🤣. When my female friends tell me about their slutty phases (one got Eiffel Tower’d freshman year), they do it for shock value and because, in their eyes, I’m just “one of the gals.” If they tell their fiancées, more power to ‘em, but those dudes are probably BBs. The truth would destroy them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:46 PM |
| 0 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?Well, you missed out on a very liberated woman. Whether or not that’s your cup of tea is a personal decision and there are tons of downsides besides STIs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 12:24 PM |
| 0 | What turned you off dating people you were initially interested in or had dates with?Then I found out that she had been in multiple threesomes, had sex with at least 30 people that I'd known about, and very likely more than that. Did she tell you about the 3-ways? If so, you never had a chance with her in the first place. Women don’t admit to shit like that in front of guys they like. If you heard about these exploits from someone else, how do you know they’re a credible source? You don’t sound like someone who would be able to elicit that info out of her girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 11:08 AM |
| 2 | How has your image of how life 'should' go contrasted with your actual lived reality? Do you feel as though you've missed seemingly 'obvious' milestones/rites of passage for someone at your stage of life? Have you 'fallen through the cracks' and how do you regard your future prospect?MBA from an M7 is A+ networking, but you’ll be a decade older than the rest of your cohort. And you’ll get into six figure debt. Invest in yourself with personal training, therapy, and whatever else you need to pass for an easygoing, fun, and fit silver fox. If you build him, the single moms will come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 02:37 PM |
| – | Where in the US can you still find someone who isnt shallow?Women ignored me until I was in my mid 30s. I pay for premium Hinge and Bumble for lolz, and most of my incoming likes come from women my age or older. Judging by the inevitable kid in tow, they chose someone else before deciding that I deserved a shot. By and large, I decline to match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:27 AM |
| – | Where in the US can you still find someone who isnt shallow?Political parties in the global West offer radically different visions of how men and women should co-exist in society: - pro-birth movements seek to hamper women’s economic freedom by yoking them with unwanted children - fourth wave feminists leverage historical grievances to create de facto wealth extraction from men through affirmative action in scholarships/college admission, “diversity” quotas at work, and automatic presumption of guilt when SA and DV accusations are levied against men Righ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:17 AM |
| – | Where in the US can you still find someone who isnt shallow?waited too long OP may be correct that dating is unlikely in his immediate future. 63% of American men between 18 and 30 are single. As opposed to 34% of women in the same bracket. My point was that he needs to discover himself while he waits for his turn to participate in the SMP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you ever want to feel sexy just for yourself?As an average guy, I’m a human doing. I’m not attractive enough to be lusted after, but I get value by being useful. Women are human beings - we appreciate them for merely existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 03:54 AM |
| 6 | Is passport sis a real thing or just a meme?Here’s a short documentary on the phenomenon. The guy’s expressions are sooo telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 02:21 AM |
| – | Where in the US can you still find someone who isnt shallow?Dude, enjoy being young and single. Travel. Talk to strangers. You’re too young to be in this sub. You may well die alone but there’s a lot of living to do before that. And celibacy does get bearable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you ever want to feel sexy just for yourself?Yeah. It’s a recent development, born out of 3 years of mostly remote work. I work better when I feel good about myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Q4M: Do you ever want to feel sexy just for yourself?Yeah I enjoy looking sharp on occasion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:28 PM |
| – | You don’t have to be top-tier, just not bottom-tier.People, both male and female, who aren't top tier for their social class have always had to make lifelong compromises [on] what they really want in order to accomplish major goals like financial security, marriage and kids. You're probably not going to have the sort of car, house, job, spouse or kids you really want if you're second rate. Maybe you can have one or two things you really want…scarcity is one of humanity's major drivers. You desire the thing that is better but scarce. But it costs.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Is maturbation looked down upon for men?Guys know that for the most part, Lefty is a poor substitute for a partner. As such, we only engage her when there’s no one else. There’s a direct and inverse correlation between Lefty’s workload and a guy’s love life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:45 PM |
| 11 | The problem with dating advice today is that people are seen as trophies rather than investmentsIn my experience, both genders want to be: - treated by partners like investments (i.e. have our flaws accepted, have our potential as individuals get recognized and nurtured, and be held onto for long term) - introduced to partners like prizes (i.e. “I have such a great personality and/or rich inner life, therefore I deserve Chad/Stacey despite my shortcomings.”) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Why does no one link stats or supporting evidence for their positions?Check out r/blackpillscience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 05:16 PM |
| 22 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Apps are hetero women’s dread game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Stepdad duty. Green cards. Emotional tampon. Tons of openings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?Cause he’s not a car? He’s a person, arguably he’s increasing with value with every year and the experience and knowledge that comes with it. When my fiancé finds out that I boosted my n-count through several debauched weekends at the Bunny Ranch (which cost so much that I could only afford a cubic zirconia stone instead of a diamond), I hope my friends defend me similarly. If this is how you truly feel about people then he dodged a massive bullet Damn right I did! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:10 AM |
| 0 | It is wise to take an interest in the hypergamic development of even the people you're not planning on marryingThe best way to encourage women to pursue long-term partnerships with earnest, hardworking, and yet romantically-challenged men is to encourage them to get knocked up by a Chad afflicted by “avoidant attachment” and chronic unemployment first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Do unattractive women get hit up for sex more than attractive ones?In my naïveté, I wanted to believe this guy. You calling BS on him killed that. I respect your benevolent misogyny candor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?Had sex, and grateful for it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 10:14 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?Icks squelch any internal dialog about compatibility, shared values, or even endearing quirks. I built up my superficial qualities (career, finances, body) in order to better compete for educated, non-obese, and childless women. Where I live, that particular demo can afford to have all the icks they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think AI humanoid girlfriends will be popular in the future?AI humanoid gfs are the next step in OnlyFans-esque parasocial relationships. AI will construct the perfect performer based on your vidya history, and the avatar (onscreen or physical) will be more responsive, compassionate, and low-maintenance than her human counterpart could ever hope to be. Thank God that Biden is rebuilding our energy grid to accommodate all the extra server farms needed to keep American men in some simulacrum of romantic fulfillment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?Not yet! I’m admittedly a poor lay - all the Cosmo articles in the world won’t help a guy who can’t get more than 2-3 reps with the same partner before she balks. And good lovers are made, not born. Background: 40M, 5’10, fit, above median income in HCOL area. I only learned how to hold frame in my late 30s - before then I was a perennial grad student and simp. Dating and sex only took off in my mid 30s when A) I started taking diet and lifting seriously B) income took off, and C) the women to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 06:31 PM |
| 4 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsgood nice guys Need to stop identifying as such and start prioritizing themselves, even to the point of physical violence to protect our space/resources. One advantage we have over a grown man who still indulges in bullying tactics is that he pretty much assumes everyone around him is a simp/pussy. Proving him wrong [successfully] feels amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now?3 degrees based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 08:02 PM |
| 0 | Predictions for how the dating market will look 100yrs from now?It depends on how effectively UBI + progressive taxation are implemented. Middle class occupations are going to be wiped out, at least in the Global West where white-collar professionals are overcompensated relative to the value we add. A lot of us will be working the last jobs left to be automated: delivering babies, wiping asses of the elderly, and putting up buildings. A good UBI scheme would allow women and Gigachads to keep sport fucking one another until they both hit the wall. A century f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 08:59 PM |
| 11 | What Things do You Do to Support the Opposite Sex?39M. I make automatic monthly gifts to Planned Parenthood and to Emily’s List because I am pro-mothers’ lives and not simply pro-birth. To support ALL genders, I’d like to find a transparently-run Title IX defense fund to protect students whose guilt is assumed under the current implementation of Title IX (and yes, most “defendants” right now have a Y chromosome). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?My “starter girlfriend” was fatter and less financially successful than I was/am. She got to be with a smart, fit, stable guy who just happened to be too Asian for most women in Arlington County (VA) in 2008. In most cases, the “starter girlfriend” is getting something out of it. And if she put in as much work to keep him around as she would for Chad, maybe her trial period wouldn’t have to end 💡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 02:19 PM |
| – | Women consistently rate themselves as being far more attractive than they are, and despite what people here say men rarely do thisHate speech! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | If men don’t pay for dates are they willing to change their preferences for the sake of equality?I have no idea why you are talking about sneaking around my husband’s back Why is your OP referring to “my haircut” and “my date” if you’re not the one getting the haircut or going on the date? I think your laser work sounds great and would like to do it for my eyebrows. No shade, just pointing out that you reference being married earlier and now you’re chastising men who are still dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | What age is dating truly over for a guy?But at certain age if a guy has never dated or even had sex it's basically too late. In your opinion what age is it over for inexperienced guys? If by “over” you mean “impossible to develop a physically intimate relationship with a looksmatch who isn’t a single mom yet,” I’d say 25-29. Plenty of women will date a virgin who is fitter and lighter than they are. Plenty of single moms will date a virgin, especially if he is fitter and lighter than they are. Plenty of women will date a virgin if the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Why do single and childless men who complain they cannot get dates or relationships also complain about the big numbers of single moms and that they would never date a single mother?Some single mothers understand this. That’s why they date guys they would have otherwise not dated. FIFY And the rest could be paired off with financially stable, kind, and visually uninspiring men if they accepted that getting the first two attributes means she’ll have to “suck like a Hoover” in spite of the third. While it’s rarely considered as a such, raising some other guy’s kid(s) means betraying your own genetic legacy. And contrary to what a lot of misandrist commenters on here believe, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Why do single and childless men who complain they cannot get dates or relationships also complain about the big numbers of single moms and that they would never date a single mother?Single parents of both genders need to accept that their offspring represent an automatic deduction to their RMV and act accordingly if they want to recruit a new partner. It sounds like your partner has the right attitude and I hope her friends and family don’t delude her into thinking she can do “better.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 02:31 PM |
| 15 | Why do single and childless men who complain they cannot get dates or relationships also complain about the big numbers of single moms and that they would never date a single mother?Most stepfathers would never been a single mother's first choice or even noticed if she didn't have any children. Saying writing the quiet part out loud. Props. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Should people with little to no dating experience be allowed to discuss or debate dating issues?touché | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Should people with little to no dating experience be allowed to discuss or debate dating issues?divert avert their eyes Stick to words you know lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Should people with little to no dating experience be allowed to discuss or debate dating issues?it's so hilarious when they write out a whole thesis about what sex, relationships and marriage are like but have never kissed a girl KVHV would have saved you some keystrokes - “kiss virgin hand virgin.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Just out of curiosity, how much of modern dating's problems also stem from a lack of inherent hardship in modern society? All perspectives welcomeChaucer’s Wife of Bath loved doing freaky shit, including getting her ass eaten in public. Just by medieval Chad instead of her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:34 PM |
| 7 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"Also ironically, men who aren't married and start wearing a fake wedding band, start getting more attention from women than if he wasn't, despite nothing has changed about him. When you point it out women will swear up and down that it's some intrinsic essential part of him that changed that women can somehow sense, when the reality is that women have a massive pre-selection bias and will go after men who are already in relationships, because mate-poaching a guy who is already in a relationship … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 02:12 AM |
| 2 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?Beautifully written. What a shame it’s so opaque to the subjects themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 03:33 AM |
| 9 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?People have inherent value - there’s no question about it. That’s why Westernized nations place such importance on “human rights.” Unfortunately, access to employment or to sex are not human rights. As they are finite resources, we allocate them through the labor marketplace and the sexual marketplace, respectively. And in those marketplaces, relative value becomes readily apparent. Digital nomads and passport bros are doing the same thing: leveraging a lower cost of doing business (rents or soc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 03:30 AM |
| 11 | What do women here think of low value men who are aware that they are low value?A lot of social conventions around approaching hetero women in Westernized SMPs assume that men know understand who’s in/ below our league vs who’s out of it. For instance, “Hi, you look great tonight. My name is [Tobor Xes], what’s yours?” is friendly and inviting if you perceive me to be a HVM, or harassment [“Why can’t I just drink with my friends?”] if you perceive me to be a LVM. OP is wondering if women appreciate the self-aware LVMs who leave y’all alone, sparing y’all the discomfort of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Question for singles: What do you imagine doing in a relationship?[lunar]based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Question for singles: What do you imagine doing in a relationship?Splitting a joint while she talks about her day and I do the dishes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a woman who left-swiped you on a dating app?It’s ideal. Something about her initial disgust with me emboldened me to exude waaaay more outcome independence (read: “confidence”) than I would if I was trying to preserve a tenuous attraction. Of course, she eventually monkey-branched… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:15 AM |
| – | What is your take on the PPD survey/demographic results?The hapas I know with Asian dads usually had moms who got ran through during the 70s and 80s. To their [the white moms’] credit, they were brave enough to step out with an Asian man during an era when Hollywood/pop culture was still emasculating us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What is your take on the PPD survey/demographic results?VindictaPOC and Blackladies are interesting EDIT: Whoever downvoted me: why are you uncomfortable with predominantly Black spaces, either IRL or online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 08:14 PM |
| 2 | What is your take on the PPD survey/demographic results?I’m surprised (and impressed) by how few AA women participate on this sub, since they also take an outsize hit in most US SMPs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:43 PM |
| 4 | What is your take on the PPD survey/demographic results?As a US-born Hapa, I was not surprised by the over-representation of Asian respondents (12%, although we represent 7.2% of the US population). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | What are realistic options / solutions for men who can not compete in today's dating market?Stepfathering and inshore geoarbitrage. Passport bro-ing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:01 AM |
| – | Why do women in general prefer being an orbiter of a high value man over being in a relationship with a lower value man?During grad school (Econ), my favorite study group imploded when two of the organizers discovered that they were in the same harem (obviously they didn’t use that term 😉). As far as I could tell, their disappointment wasn’t with the guy in question, but rather with each other - competing for him was a form a betrayal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | How many women have you asked out?39M. DC ‘burbs. 5’11. 170. $90K/year. 6 asked out (1 IRL, 5 from apps). 4 accepted (all apps). 1 fucked (and then ghosted me because I’m still inexperienced and an unsatisfactory lay). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 12:25 AM |
| 0 | What icks/turn offs do you have for womenHow often do I compare a woman’s beauty to Lizzo’s IRL? About as often as she finds a “new man on the Minnesota Vikings.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 09:20 PM |
| 13 | What icks/turn offs do you have for womenShe is an incomparable beauty: women insist that she’s beautiful, but get salty if you compare them to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Where are the impartial women?u\houstongradengineer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 01:55 AM |
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