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I think the mentality has very few true ideals.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/26 08:48 PM
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I would say it really depends on the person. There genuinely are some red people who have ventured into the extreme side of things and harbour some hateful and dangerous thoughts. However, in my opinion, all red people are just very difficult to have any type of relationship with and will inevitably sabotage it. Including friendships with those who aren’t red pilled. They focus too much on power dynamics and tend to not have a mutual respect for others.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/26 08:24 PM
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I think it stems from the idea that people in general Want a partner that has traits they admire. Sometimes it’s traits that they don’t possess in themselves, whether that’s patience, or overwhelming kindness, or being able to make meaningful connections with people quickly, or whatever. Sometimes it’s traits they possess, but rarely find in other people. In my opinion, it’s been bastardized into “women only want men who are better than them!” Which isn’t true, like you’ve said. I also know of p…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/26 09:44 PM
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Being nice and respectful is not the only thing that goes into attraction. I’ve “friend zoned” a couple of women for the exact same reason. They were really nice and respectful, but there wasn’t anything there spark wise. I’ve also completely written off women who acted nonchalant and non caring for the same reason.
/r/ExRedPill15/04/25 02:45 AM
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I was going to say stop watching porn because it subconsciously makes you think you should be attracted to women outside of your league, but you’re just a cunt so it really doesn’t matter if you do or don’t give it up
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 12:30 AM
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I was going to make a point about how porn sets you up to think you’re in a higher league than you actually are. If you’re constantly watching 10/10 women fuck, subconsciously your brain is going to start having an inflated standard. Turns out OP is just a cunt.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/25 12:29 AM
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Do you watch porn?
/r/ExRedPill01/03/25 03:27 PM
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Are you talking to women in your league in person? Or do you mean on dating apps? Because there have been a lot of girls that I didn’t initially find attractive based on what they posted on their apps, and then absolutely fell in love with them in person. They didn’t look the same as they did on the app, and then their personality was like an extra boost as well.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/25 02:57 AM
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I think the hard part of the cold approach is not knowing the approacher when considering accepting a date. Your goal of a cold approach shouldn’t be “I need to get this girl’s number”, it should be “I want to have a genuine interaction with this person and see where it goes”. I don’t know where the idea that the only goal is getting someone’s number came from, because you’re not going to be successful. Don’t even use this stupid lingo. It makes it inauthentic. Just walk up to women and have a c…
/r/ExRedPill11/07/24 05:19 AM
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People aren’t naturally funny, charismatic, or charming. They were born into an environment that let them grow those traits. You can still become a funny person, it just takes practice. With that said, there are also women out there like you or who are attracted to men like you. Yes, there are less of them. Especially in the online dating world where 90% of men are straight forward, charming, and funny. Women attracted to traits like yours tend to avoid online dating. It’s all about putting your…
/r/ExRedPill22/05/24 12:32 AM
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Attraction can’t change easily. Be a friend to her, but don’t tie her down. You’re being selfish again man. Stop that shit and just let her go.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 10:12 PM
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Stop being selfish.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 06:36 PM
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Don’t tie her down when there’s a man out there who can appreciate her completely. I know you’re trying to be what you think is a good thing, but it’s really fucking selfish to stay in a relationship with someone you’re not attracted to like that. She deserves better than that. If you don’t start off fully attached to each other, it’ll fizzle out really quickly for both of you.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 06:34 PM
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Unfortunately, you might get used or any of your other fears. A lot of the time, there aren’t many clear signs that it’s happening until it’s too late, but that’s the downside of looking for a partner. I want you to know that there are a LOT of genuinely good people out there though who won’t use you or cheat on you. Unfortunately, you hear about the shitty relationships more often than the good ones. I also want to say, don’t be afraid of ending up alone. That IS how you put yourself into a min…
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:14 PM
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Attraction is a weird thing. If you aren’t attracted to someone, you just aren’t attracted to them. And forcing yourself to be attracted to someone who is genuine, and generous, and caring isn’t the answer, that person deserves someone who is actually attracted to them and loves them. Most of the time, if someone isn’t physically attracted to someone else, the romantic spark dies off pretty quickly.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:08 PM
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It is. If it’s the right person, it’ll take up your time in a good way. If you’re both not healthy, it can get codependent and obsessive.
/r/ExRedPill30/03/24 06:56 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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