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I care about men being sexually abused, sue me.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/24 07:57 PM
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Alright sorry I guess I'm just not listening enough after 20 years of being on the internet. Here is a female author of notoriously pro-feminist and pro-woke Buzzfeed calling out a male director for calling sexual assault against a male character "hilarious." https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/stephaniesoteriou/the-boys-sexual-assault-scene-controversy-showrunner
/r/PussyPassDenied13/10/24 03:11 AM
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Is it a pussypass denied if the conditions that enabled female predators still exist? There is still a perception that women cannot be abusers and men cannot be victims of abuse. If we do not target this social harm, there will still be countless predators able to take advantage of sexism. I do not see a few convictions as a win that the system is working when I know that if a woman raped me, almost everyone around me and DEFINITELY on the internet would be chanting "hell yeah dude thats so hot …
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/24 06:20 PM
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So what is the answer to my question? Imagine a woman predator decided to abuse children and they actually had no concept of how gender would interact with their sentencing. Is it still a pussypass denied?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/24 06:01 PM
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Sexual predators being caught = good. Question: is every female sexual predator being caught a "pussy pass denied"? If yes, why? Are we assuming that each of these people committing the crime thought that they could get away with them due to sexism? Or is it that the sexism covers them regardless of their mindstate, making it still a "win" for equality? I dunno, its just a weird way to look at it. Not everything has to be a gender battlefield. Sometimes women are just horrible people. And if soc…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/10/24 02:45 PM
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do you individually do things that bolster the impacts of systemic racism and the patriarchy?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/23 11:49 PM
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The most frustrating part about the whole amber heard situation is how the average person clearly cant handle the conversation. Its like there has to be one victim and one abuser. In reality, many abusers are victims themselves, either in the past or present. Many abusive relationships are two way, etc. It sucks that the default assumption is that a man can never be a victim. It also sucks that the default prescription is determining guilt and giving that person career/social destruction. You kn…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/22 10:50 PM
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I know im late to this thread but theres also something to say about the void left by the male gaze, aka men never being able to feel like a proper sexual being. Women have been shown way too many times how to be attractive, sexy, etc. But for men its often hard to even know when you are attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/22 10:46 PM
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valerie solanas was the person who shot andy warhol, an actually mental person who nobody takes seriously. calm down.
/r/AntiFeminists01/11/22 10:34 PM
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watching everyone in this sub get radicalized by a barely 10 second video with no context and no indication the woman is a feminist. amazin.
/r/AntiFeminists01/11/22 10:33 PM
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ur a poopoo head
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/22 10:24 PM
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no true scotsman be like
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/22 10:09 PM
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ive seen antifeminists do misogyny plus the other too. is that the antifeminist triad?
/r/AntiFeminists10/10/22 08:47 PM
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there are 6000000 trillion different things femimists can talk about. its also only going to be relevant when a draft is happening in the world. ive seen a lot of pushback on both ukraine and russia because of their expectation for only men to fight and die in a war they likely didnt choose.
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/22 01:20 AM
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im a feminist and i complain about it
/r/AntiFeminists28/09/22 11:58 PM
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because i came here lightly attacking the post and circlejerkers dont like that
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/22 01:59 PM
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you using tinder? i kinda felt similarly while i was on campus, but you have to agree the sampling bias is pretty relevant. dating apps and cities are gonna have a lot of very loudly boring people
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 11:43 PM
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if its in a comment section like this, i reply to them stating that its bodyshaming and bad. sometimes i'll get upvoted, other times people will reply "ok but its a bad person so who cares lol" yeah, i dont blame you for just rolling your eyes, but i try to say something. chances are there are a lot of peoplr who agree but are too afraid to say it.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 10:05 PM
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ok i looked around and most women arent like this. do you have better proof?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 10:02 PM
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i know you definitely dont generalize women! you seem cool. just be careful about this sub though, its full of people who love to generalize way too much.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:18 PM
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it just bothers me that, if there's not even an attempt to admit this is a minority or not representative of the gender as a whole, it does nothing but fuel baseless sexism on both sides.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:08 PM
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when i see feminists doing this i always make sure to call it out. definitely the most frustrating thing to deal with because we should be better than that.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 07:58 PM
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not internalized mysoginy but a list of things that create an imaginary person who does not represent women on average aka theres literally no point to this lol. "men complain about women not wanting sex, but all they do is refuse to do housework, watch football, punch holes in walls and get alcohol poison" wowie i just owned everyone on this sub lol men amirite?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 07:57 PM
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the reality is most feminists do not support the draft.
/r/AntiFeminists19/07/22 01:31 PM
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god damn this "they" person sounds really horrible. Seems like everyone in this thread had a bad run in with "them"
/r/MensRights14/07/22 05:58 PM
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I've seen articles about men being killed, harassed, abused, raped, all the time. They always get picked up by MRA media and youtubers looking to make money by being fake outraged by article headlines.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:16 PM
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At this point it just sounds like an Australia problem lol why is everything you link from there?
/r/MensRights08/07/22 07:36 AM
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youve given me one organization and one principal so idk what to say. They sound bad I guess. Still not convinced its inherent to feminism
/r/MensRights08/07/22 06:43 AM
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I just don't see feminists talking about it in the first place. I don't assume they support it unless they explicitly say so.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 03:29 AM
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I'm not surprised it was created and pushed by feminists originally. I'm asking for evidence that it is still endorsed by prominent feminist organizations in full.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 02:36 AM
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In that case I'm still just going to wait for you to list the feminist organizations which still fully endorse the Duluth model. Men being socialized into abuse does not necessitate that only men can be abusers AND feminists also acknowledge that women often use patriarchal power systems to hurt men and women. The best argument you can make here is just "there's a certain type of feminism which refuses to acknowledge abuse from women", not "all feminists ignore abuse from women" or "ignoring the…
/r/MensRights08/07/22 12:33 AM
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This is very weird logic lol. Dude if you think "any feminist group that matters" adopts Duluth then you need to prove it. I've been googling it and on the wiki page it looks like there has been a ton of criticism levied at the Duluth model. The co-founder of it addressed some of the criticism and acknowledged that it doesn't always exist within reality. It isn't something that screams of "feminism" either, like it's main purpose is a tool for understanding domestic violence. DV exists within a …
/r/MensRights07/07/22 04:46 PM
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if ur making that much of a strong claim you should at least be able to give me a couple names.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 10:22 AM
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...in that case it would be there decisions stopping it? Which probably come from cultural reasons during their uprbringing and a little bit of genetics.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:47 AM
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What do you mean by "all feminist groups that matter" support duluth? Do you have a list?
/r/MensRights07/07/22 04:29 AM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:30 AM
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Yeah this is just one of the unfortunate things that doesn't get talked about a lot. Women joining the workforce is a great thing but it needs to coincide with the responsibility of acknowledging some men want to be househusbands/only have part time jobs.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 01:10 AM
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Imagine I kept saying shit to you like "anti feminists voted for donald trump because they hate women and equality." There's no good response to this statement if you identify as an anti-feminist and 1. haven't voted for donald trump, 2. don't hate women, and 3. don't hate equality. I don't like the Duluth Model. I don't like presuming men can only be abusers. I am still a feminist and I know many people who share these same beliefs. Maybe don't throw away an entire social movement because you h…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 12:32 AM
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Interpret my comment as literally as possible. If female representation is not at parity with male then something is stopping it from happening. It might be something you see as justified but it's still a barrier.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 12:28 AM
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It means it just leads to the viewer having a worse view of women
/r/MensRights06/07/22 10:35 PM
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Because energy is a highly profitable industry that women can and should be part of
/r/MensRights06/07/22 09:31 PM
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Objectification I think plays into a lot of very specific forms of pornography which go out of their way to dehumanize women. Someone irresponsible consuming a lot of porn where women are called sluts or whores is bad. Racialized porn tends to have ACTUAL slurs in the title. I'm sure as a libertarian you wouldn't want such pornography to be illegal, but you can still see the harm in something like this. Like I said before I'm still pro sex work so I can imagine prostitution and porn that doesn't…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 09:30 PM
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Toxic femininity exists and I talk about it. "Toxic humanity" is inherently so broad that it just becomes a useless term, what do you mean by it? And no I do not hate men, I even consider that many male abusers are only abusers because they are bought into a gendered system that compels them to abuse, if that's not a high level of empathy for men then idk what to say. Btw that's just what it means to believe in toxic masculinity. I want to remove the toxicity from masculinity, not the masculinit…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:35 PM
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I feel like this is moreso a criticism of cancel culture in general than feminism because we've seen people lose their careers for things other than domestic abuse/rape claims but fair criticism. I definitely don't want someone's livelihood to be affected AT LEAST until we have heard both sides of the story.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:33 PM
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Oh I guess I didn't pick up on this but I'm a pro-sex work feminist. Not even doubting you that you've met anti sw feminists because they are pretty common but I guess you should know there's a consistant way to be a feminist and pro sex work. I definitely would want to regulate it more but I'm not inherently against porn and prostitution.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:31 PM
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Because I as a man dont want to do 100% of the work and my partner do 0%?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:47 PM
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still not bringing up any laws lol
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:20 PM
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Sounds like there are no actually laws in your way then. Stop pretending to be oppressed. Just be successful, nothing is stopping you. :)
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:14 PM
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is there any law preventing men from being successful in business?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:07 PM
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So there's nothing stopping men from being successful in this supposed "matriarchy", right?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:01 PM
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are u saying men can be stopped from being successful in life if people say mean words? youre starting to sound like a feminist
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:54 PM
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Are the 5% of oil workers who are female just super buff then? I'm not even sure that's a physically demanding job. It might be the risk aversion thing but I think that helps my point even more. There are massive barriers to women gaining as much muscle mass as men but risk aversion can be trained.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:48 PM
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I understand there are genetics at play but the issue is that we still select for different traits of men and women by gender. So let's say the difference in risk aversion is 60 to 40, with men having the higher amount on average. Now if our culture starts segregating and selecting for exclusively men to do all the risky jobs, claiming that women should stay in the home or not even try such jobs, the difference is going to end up looking more like 90 to 10. So I'm going to need data that looks m…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:34 PM
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Feel like I can just repeat what most people have been saying here: most sexist laws are gone by 2021, and while you can complain about them there is nothing stopping the average man from becoming financially independent from women if he chooses to. Just make good choices and the matriarchy can never hurt you, because apparently the only time sexism exists is when sexist laws exist.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:20 PM
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Those sound like shitty feminists and I disagree with them.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:12 PM
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why are you acting like I said no sexist laws exist
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:11 PM
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I don't know how to reply because in my experience I have only seen feminists PUSH BACK against benevolent sexism. It sounds like you've had a few bad interactions with feminists and now you are unwilling to see the movement in any positive light. Benevolent sexism as a policy only makes sense if you believe women are like children, obviously feminists at large don't support that.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:10 PM
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Obviously something is stopping women from being financially independent since more men are financially independent than women. You might think those barriers are justified but that's a lot different from thinking there is no barrier.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:07 PM
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Women could be financially independent in the middle ages too bud. That doesn't mean they are free from barriers.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:05 PM
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can you give me a study showing that women are biologically programmed to not like oil rigs
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:04 PM
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Do u know what most means
/r/MensRights06/07/22 02:03 PM
0

Privilege is like when you are riding a bike and the wind is pushing you. You think it's all you. You only notice the wind when it's against you.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:29 AM
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What do you think patriarchy means? Feminists can't remove the patriarchy unless women can become financially independent.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:29 AM
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You're starting to sound like a feminist. Isn't the pressure men feel to be earners bullshit? Men and women should share that burden equally!
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:19 AM
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Why did u reply to me twice lol. And yes I would support that as long as male privilege is erased at the same time, that way men and women would finally be equal. :)
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:09 AM
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Why do women and men make different career decisions?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:05 AM
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Rights on paper are only good if they actually exist in practice. You might have rights to equal wages but there's still a wage gap.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 07:01 AM
1

very confused why you are getting downvoted. Shouldn't people be happy that a feminist supported Depp?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:38 AM
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Hi, I'm one of "them" and I'll give you a non-insult answer. There are a handful of legal cases other people have brought up here but the vast majority of progress is now social. Most of the egregiously sexist laws of the past luckily no longer exist, but sexism doesn't just end immediately afterward. Men in this subreddit know this, as they may complain about nonlegal gender issues. For example, the average person perceiving a man as only being capable of domestic abuse or sexual violence. Ther…
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:37 AM
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That's not true, anyone feminist who talks about toxic masculinity knows that it's only a small number of men who benefit. The average man is not invisible to us, most men are victims of toxic masculinity and we have a lot of empathy for them.
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:34 AM
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This is a really weird case where you are getting downvoted for making a steelman counterargument but upvoted when you admit that's what you're doing? I feel like this is what you'd expect in an echochamber too lol barely anyone is replying to you
/r/MensRights06/07/22 06:32 AM
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"anyone can be raped" "youre a dyke" This subreddit isn't sending its best lmao. Grow up.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/10/21 04:27 AM
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wowie
/r/PussyPass17/08/21 02:07 PM
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Boomer captions. 2016 mindset.
/r/PussyPass17/08/21 06:13 AM
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I'm not jealous of people stuck in 2016, so no.
/r/PussyPass17/08/21 02:01 AM
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Literal boomer meme.
/r/PussyPass16/08/21 05:59 PM
0

lmao
/r/PussyPass16/08/21 02:15 AM
0

what does this have to do with nuking afghanistan
/r/PussyPass15/08/21 08:24 PM
0

Yeah, the guy saying we shouldn't randomly nuke countries is lacking information. If only you were the top general in the US, all foreign policy problems would have been solved by now. You're way smarter than all the people in all the past US administrations.
/r/PussyPass15/08/21 04:57 PM
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Nuclear war is mutually assured destruction. You're not saving anybody, you're just a moron with no actual solutions.
/r/PussyPass15/08/21 04:27 PM
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Average registered voter in the US
/r/PussyPass15/08/21 04:40 AM
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Women don't want to sign up for the draft because no one wants to sign up for the draft. They don't want it to exist. If you want a true example of hypocrisy, you need to show a woman who wants only men to remain in the draft.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/21 08:43 PM
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:)
/r/PussyPassDenied23/07/20 12:41 PM
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/r/menslib
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/20 06:05 PM
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The point is to show how people who will never get pregnant have the privilege of never being personally affected by the legislation. So yes, anybody can say or believe whatever they want, but being someone who can't get pregnant and wanting to make abortion illegal nationwide or statewide is terrible from the perspective of people who were forced to have kids or who are afraid of that happening in the future.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 08:40 PM
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If they have a pregnant partner, it's not their choice.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 08:31 PM
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If they're talking about men, then they're wrong. If they're talking about males (aka biological sex) then they're correct. It's possible that some amount of feminists were imprecise with their language at some point, but if you ask for clarification they're 99% of the time going to not be transphobic, unless you're talking to TERFs or something.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 08:13 PM
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???? I already told you. If a guy is pregnant, then yes, their female partner's opinion of abortion doesn't matter. That directly addresses your question.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 08:08 PM
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Have fun with your echo chamber then. Its pretty clear that you just want to believe whatever makes you feel good, without actually talking to the other side.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 08:05 PM
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I mean I identify as a feminist, if that counts. But I invite you to go to a sub like /r/askfeminists, give this hypothetical, and see what they say. At least do that before pretending like you already know the answer.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 07:57 PM
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The core idea is that the pregnant person gets to decide. So yes, if a trans man got knocked up by someone while dating a woman (This is a weird open relationship I know) then yes, feminists/lefty people will say that the woman's opinion of the abortion doesn't matter. It's ultimately the choice of the trans dude.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 07:54 PM
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Lefties will say that the person who is pregnant has the choice, not their partner. They just say men because usually its men who are anti-abortion and try to get their partners to keep a child they don't want. You are imagining hypocrisy that doesn't even exist.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 07:35 PM
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If a trans man gets pregnant, then its their choice to have an abortion
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/20 07:24 PM
1

what
/r/PussyPass22/06/20 02:04 PM
41

Well here's another suggestion: maybe we shouldn't beat people to death? Let things go to trial lmao
/r/PussyPass21/06/20 06:29 PM
2

They do, but sensationalist and clickbait headlines are always going to favor the stupid ones. "Im a feminist and we need to bring more attention to male rape victims" doesn't get too many clicks. You can go to a few of the feminist subs right now and see that men's rights are accepted, they may not always be the main focus but they are still important.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/20 11:03 PM
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Unless she penetrates them, which usually doesn't happen. We really need to change these laws, because of the double standard it creates. When a man rapes, all the articles say "charged with rape." When a woman rapes, all the articles say "allegedly had sex with." If we truly care about things like defamation then this is unacceptable.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/20 07:44 PM
4

Most feminists overwhelmingly agree that mens issues matter and are important.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/20 07:41 PM
1

Would you ever say that about a female student?
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/20 07:38 PM
2

The thing is that sometimes in these posts I see people shitting on the journalists. They're the wrong target for abuse, you have to protest the law.
/r/PussyPass11/05/20 07:45 PM
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Its true. Do you think all journalists are just purposefully leaving out the word rape because they hate men or something? These headlines already sound shitty even without the word rape. Its just a stupid legal thing.
/r/PussyPass11/05/20 06:45 PM
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Ugh how many times do we have to go over this? Nobody calls it rape when its a woman brcause legally rape requires penetration. Calling it rape in an article like this would leave journalists open to lawsuits, and that would be pretty bad. The thing to get upset over is the way this is categorized legally.
/r/PussyPass11/05/20 03:42 PM
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?
/r/PussyPass01/05/20 08:50 PM
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Yes because why would you support women being drafted if you don't want the draft in the first place?
/r/PussyPass01/05/20 07:16 PM
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Yes, anyone who thinks "the draft should exist forever and with only men" is a boomer, including maybe even some older generation feminists.
/r/PussyPass01/05/20 06:22 PM
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If you read the article it literally says "Some feminists agree that women should be drafted if a draft exists, while others say that the draft shouldn't exist in the first place" Where's the pussypass?
/r/PussyPass01/05/20 05:29 PM
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FeelsBadMan
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/20 01:49 PM
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Well if you look at how the draft was actually utilized in the US, it was more like a dad forcing his 18 year old son to rob another persons house...
/r/PussyPassDenied02/01/20 06:37 AM
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One joke.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/12/19 04:26 PM
1

The argument is that hypersexual video game depictions of women increases real life sexism against women, while violence in video games does not cause violence.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/19 07:26 PM
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wait so even if a girl uses an object and forces it into someone it still doesnt count??? wowowowow
/r/PussyPass26/07/19 03:07 AM
8

I remember some posts here being linked from MGTOW already oof
/r/PussyPassDenied21/07/19 11:53 AM
1

So you think all taxation is theft then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 03:59 PM
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Dude in prder to refute his belief in whatever form of libertarianism he holds i need to get extremely foundational and talk about rights vs utility and total happiness and all of that. I don’t even think I could ever change his mind on that but its only after that where I can even begin to talk about why distributing free contraceptives is a beneficial thing for society.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 03:30 PM
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If you can show me a study that demonstrates that poor people can just choose to not be poor en masse by making better decisions then id really love to see that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 02:09 PM
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Oh so you’re basically just a libertarian and you’d rather just let people who make bad decisions die. Ok then dude, have fun living in the world of Ayn Rand. Let me know when you grow up so we can continue this convo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 01:41 PM
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Telling poor people just to make better choices hasn’t seemed to work for the entirety of human history. It’s pretty unrealistic to expect it. If we really want to lower the amount of unwanted pregancies then we need to find away to distribute free birth control in poorer areas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 01:24 PM
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Poorer people have less access to contraceptives
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/06/19 05:55 AM
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OOF
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/19 03:00 PM
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That’s what people normally say when they see a man being abused by a woman. “He probably did something to deserve it.” Imagine seeing a girl walking around with two black eyes in public, and everyone comments “oh she probably deserved it lol”
/r/PussyPass28/01/19 03:17 PM
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then it wouldnt be rape...
/r/PussyPass13/01/19 05:17 AM
2

Really the only requirement I have is a weight requirement but apparently this makes me a shallow asshole lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/18 03:59 PM
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This kinda stuff is depressing but then I remember that women like this with such high standards are probably gonna die alone oof
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/18 03:36 PM
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What is “mixed race”? It means you look hispanic but want more attention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/18 02:04 PM
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Bad Bot
/r/PussyPass01/10/18 10:18 PM
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