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don't you realize how contradictory you sound right now? Men don't need dozens of women, just the right one. If she doesn't like him like "that", so what? he's kept his values ​​intact. Just split the bill, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 06:01 AM
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to split the bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:39 AM
1

They should ask
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/26 05:34 AM
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Protect handsome, pretty and attractive young men at all costs, they're an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:58 PM
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Why can't a short man take a joke? Because he has tiny hands, obviously!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 04:11 AM
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Why are you nervous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:22 PM
2

I never understood why men expect kindness from women, but not from men. If a man doesn't greet or smile, he's acting like a man; if a woman doesn't greet or smile, she's acting like a bitch (it happened to me!). I'm going to start distancing myself from men and avoid contact with them because I don't want my kindness to be mistaken for weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:22 PM
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Zzz
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:50 PM
2

Blue pill man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:12 PM
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Tired of men desperate for mediocre love and ocassional sex. Personality matters too! If my father had thought twice (wear a condom), I wouldn't be here. My mother is a rebel at heart and my childhood was traumatized because of her. My father saw the way out, but now I'm the one who has to deal with her forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:49 PM
2

Does conventionally attractive equal white? Understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:34 PM
0

He's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:07 PM
0

I mean I guess, but I hate anything average. I just know those things aren't subjective, If it were, there wouldn't be people struggling to find someone, settling might be like... If a man says he wants those things, I hope he gets them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:14 PM
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Emotional connection? That's easy because we fall in love. it's not something you can achieve overnight, not with just anyone, and casual sex doesn't seem to leave room for something so profound. But to answer your question, I don't think it matters. The language of love (being seen, being heard, being desired) is different for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:38 PM
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But it's their job. If you could have sex without paying for it, would you still think it's better than masturbating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:34 PM
1

Can women have sex every day?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:29 PM
0

How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:25 PM
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I don't blame you; sex was originally designed solely for reproduction. Everything else is just human concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:22 PM
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because even though sex is a pleasure activity, it can be a gross activity if the guy is ugly and unattractive. After all, women are being penetrated. He'd better be handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:18 PM
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Yes, please, stop, please. Don't do it, and convince other men not to. It's annoying, and most of the time, the man who approaches you isn't your type at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:39 AM
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Only for young, tall, handsome men, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:21 PM
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*I don't want or need to feel special or chosen by men. I am enough, and I don't need that kind of validation. *I don't need to feel superior to other women; in fact, by not needing a man in my life, I feel powerful. *I'm not immune to relationship difficulties or breakups,no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:24 PM
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Something casual...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:56 PM
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I can believe it, but when women say the same thing, it's science fiction. Who do these women end up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:29 PM
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No, older women are completely out of the dating market, unless they look like Salma Hayek. That young men (18 to 28 years old) date older women doesn't mean anything, because most of the time they're just looking to have fun, which is fine if both are looking for something casual, which is usually the case. Chad is out of reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:27 PM
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Are you telling me that all short men are single? they're not having sex at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:18 PM
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Most IS not all. What about the rest?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:06 PM
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It exists, unattractive people prove it. We're talking about "how this man can improve his situation compared to women," not "how I can I be sexually attractive by just being me."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:05 PM
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It's not that crazy. It's perfectly believable because men with relationship experience talk about it all the time. The truth is, a long-term relationship would not be possible with this young, beautiful, and slim, but.. cold woman, but no man, especially a young one, would pass up the opportunity. His energy, money, and time would be better invested than with a 30-year-old woman. I'm not making this up. She is 18 years old and the other woman is 30...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:57 PM
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And I partially agree. A short man has a lifetime to improve his situation. Age will never affect men when it comes to dating, never. I know this because I'm not valued for the same things as men in the dating world, which makes sense. If he's not attractive, he can change or compensate for it. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:44 PM
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Would you date a woman you're not attracted to, or would you marry her, only because she's nice? Where are these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:30 PM
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That's true, but men in general look for young, attractive women to date or commit to, always. Men don't care about kindness. They might care, but it's not at the top of their list of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:17 PM
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When did they start dating? Because men seem obsessed with the "young, slim, and beautiful" image, and it's quite easy to achieve that in your twenties (they say). No man proposes to a thirty-year-old woman without dating her for a few years first, giving up his energy, money and time if she's not that attractive anymore. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:11 PM
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Dating is one thing, commitment is quite another.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:58 PM
0

What if she's not pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:55 PM
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Can she be old and ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:53 PM
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Let's see how they'll deny it. Edit: I want young men to start dating below-average women, only then will I believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:50 PM
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I bumped into a tall, handsome young man wearing a tank top. Wow, what big arms! I think I'm going to faint. Plus, he was really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:29 PM
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He can't bully attractive women, attractive men, or unattractive men; they're all his equals. He'll intimidate unattractive women because, despite being his equals, they reject him. He craves power, so he'll attack these unattractive creatures. He'll fail to convince them to go out with him by insulting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:30 PM
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real life experiences matter
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:04 PM
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I mean, as long as men expect less from women...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 08:58 PM
2

What does infertility have to do with libido? Do people with no kids lack libido?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:15 PM
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Heterosexual women do desire male bodies, but this isn't po-rnography. We were created the way we are because, comparatively, we take more risks than men. No matter how much you try to justify it, someone already thought of it. I love handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:01 PM
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How many women did he ask out?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:48 PM
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Right? Like do something!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:25 AM
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Because men aren't portrayed as beautiful, attractive, or handsome human beings. A handsome man is hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:06 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:58 PM
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It may be something typical of the new generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:55 PM
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If I say that I'm only attracted to tall men, would men take it the wrong way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:49 PM
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I agree. I'll never understand why looks only matter when we're young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 10:25 PM
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Yeah it's complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:34 PM
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I mean... I like men, I'm attracted to them, but above all, I like young, handsome men. I won't go into details, but when I see a handsome man on the street or on social media, I know what I need in that moment. I don't know what other women think, but for me, casual sex is a definite no if he's not handsome, so marriage is a "no way" if there's no attraction whatsoever. Women desire male bodies, but we're not men. We function differently, as it should be by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:59 PM
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I agree, desperate women do exist, and they often pair up with desperate men. The clock is ticking... Marriage is a last resort, so it's not a trick unless the man allows it. Both partners should make this clear, but men really need to understand this need: "Sex is essential to me, even after..." If they make this clear, hopefully, they'll begin to understand why women should also prioritize beauty. Attractive men have more sex for a reason and kids are made by...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:23 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:55 AM
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I agree, if sex remains essential even after having children, that couple isn't compatible. Men should be upfront about it and make it clear from the start how important sex is to them; it's common knowledge, but some women still don't get it. These days, women prioritize looks over personality (as it always should have been, you know?) because of situations like that. Illness, the death of loved ones, job loss... life goes on and things change. Men need to understand this; if they don't, well, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:55 AM
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Is a yes-or-no answer personal? As I see it, it's an attempt to pry into other people's private (sexual) lives by offering an opinion that "doesn't come from much life experience." That's what "personal" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:35 AM
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Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:14 AM
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Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:13 AM
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Look, I agree that's why I'm only attracted to very handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:09 PM
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I'm seeing couples everywhere right now. The trick to find someone is to not be picky, men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:28 PM
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Reported. This is not a debate at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:36 PM
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Leave women alone, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:03 AM
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You see...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:03 AM
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There are signs, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:23 PM
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Same experience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:27 AM
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Are you...?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:57 AM
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Reddit?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:21 AM
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beauty is subjective, ugliness is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:57 PM
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That's what I'm trying to understand: what happens when we all get older and sex stops being a priority? Should we get divorced? This "sex or get out" approach will only leave more single men out of the dating market, because if there's no sexual attraction, there's no sex. As it should be and always should have been. Edit: I'm not attracted to eldery bodies, ew
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:46 PM
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Sexual compatibility changes as we age. You may lose interest in sex, not now but in your 60's?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 09:35 PM
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Blue pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:28 PM
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Does this push and pull technique work on short, ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:31 AM
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Tell me how
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:51 AM
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PAY FOR IT
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 01:41 AM
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What's the point? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 05:11 AM
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Yeah, dating costs money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 12:49 AM
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Of course, we're not going to be desired by everyone, but there are traits we like because we're attracted to masculine men or feminine women. I don't know much about biology, but it's there. And I think we can't avoid it. All these gender issues and dating seem to be broken because we're not playing the game that was designed for us. We resent each other (not me, haha). And I was not talking about these "guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:09 AM
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Men don't like women with... hair. Most find it disgusting. Maybe you like them like that...? That's why it's pointless to express these ideas; nobody seems capable of talking about anything, really lol "Nobody stops these 'nice' guys from dating fat, old women." See how easy it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:08 AM
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And it doesn't matter; it doesn't work. Those same men would expect women to be nurturing because it's a feminine trait. The same goes for women who shave completely. No one in today's society (2026) questions why men can have hair on their butts, but women can't. No one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:48 AM
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A man asking a woman out is masculine; it's a masculine trait. Why would any man disagree with that? I don't know... Because it takes guts to do it, and my brain goes and says "that's tough so is he"....there's nothing more masculine than asking a woman out. All my respect and admiration to these guys. (I just saw a video)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:46 AM
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Saved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:16 AM
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PPD, we should be able to talk about it but we won't talk about it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:22 AM
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Everyone loves beauty and money, what a surprise! So men aren't any less superficial than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 12:06 AM
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If you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:54 PM
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It's easy to believe that women don't like men when you've never experienced it. If you had both parents at home, you wouldn't doubt that men and women are attracted to each other. But I understand why men, especially younger ones, are confused. "If women really liked men, they would make sex, dating and relationships easier for them" Why? So can the same men call her slut because it turns out she was also confused about all this sex, dating and relationships stuff? Men aren't unloved or unwante…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:48 AM
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Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:46 AM
2

Too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:44 AM
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Money, power? More access to young, attractive women? What I understand is that these men are men, and when it comes to dating and sex they aren't that different. What does Leo DiCaprio have to do with the average man? Nothing! But his feelings toward women are the same. do you understand the difference between a blue collar worker man and a blue collar worker woman? Because I bet those men know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:43 AM
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They are men. If men are not equal, then what are the differences? Do you mean women in both questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:43 AM
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Who are the average men? They are men, that's what I'm saying, if men are not equal, what are the differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:01 AM
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There are still more men than women in politics. Therefore, there are reasons why women receive more support than men. The same is true for single mothers or even more so. What I'm trying to say is: show me the privileges women have over men today, and I'm in. What I don't want to see is a group of men voting against women's rights because they don't receive the same treatment as the handsome, tall Chad. As long as women retain their rights to work and drive, I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:58 AM
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I support equal rights and opportunities for both genders. In my country men retire later than women. I don't like this because It doesn't promote equality, which feminists should have always fought for, but they won't. From what I understand, It was men who voted in favor of allowing women to retire earlier(at the congress), so that these married women could care for their men in their old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:51 AM
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I would like to know what are those female privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:24 AM
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What kind of social events? He should prioritize fun and a high chance of socializing. Approaching a girl isn't like going to social events. He can't talk to women, he's never asked a girl out in his life, he's a virgin. Something's broken, and it's his responsibility to fix it, ONLY if he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:54 AM
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What is he doing to overcome it? I know what it's like to live with anxiety, but if dating is important to him, he needs to start making moves. He's not getting any younger, and women aren't getting any more patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:50 PM
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Strange...too perfect to be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:37 PM
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Fear of uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:10 PM
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No, they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:05 PM
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She's not ignoring you (ghosting )because she has other options; she's not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:46 PM
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You can't convince a woman to love or desire you. YOU CAN'T. "I don't know how to flirt"; nobody does, because flirting only works if there's mutual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 11:42 PM
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A guy approached me yesterday. All they know about me is my body, and I'm not looking for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 12:05 AM
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You like them asian
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 06:59 PM
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They always forget this part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 01:13 AM
2

Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:39 PM
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I feel safe and because I'm very excited to see and meet this person outside. Edit: I mean, I can't do that at home yet. It always depends on what you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:23 PM
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Women have every right to complain, just like men, when it comes to dating. And, of course, it's not that big a deal for men. "One or two friends," because men don't care if she's his girlfriend or the girl he's just sleeping with. But she does, which is why it's essential to meet his parents too, lol (even) before having sex. It's the best, if not the only, way to avoid fuckbois. Not need to make it official but like "hey mom, dad, she's Isabella" Men admire those who have sex, not those who se…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:20 PM
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That doesn't make sense. Why would a guy introduce a girl to his friends AND parents without knowing if there's a future between them? Maybe you want to see if you two are compatible, and sex is essential for a romantic relationship to work long-term. We're back to square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:07 AM
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I haven't read it all but generally, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:09 AM
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Who are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:10 AM
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Nobody says autistic men shouldn't develop, exactly. So they know what to do... Alright , no relationships. Are we talking about one date or dating in general (kisses, sex and all that)? Because dating a person with autism is difficult and, at times, exhausting. If a chance is all it takes these men better give women something to eat because saying "yet most women choose to be superficial" won't work. And I said "relationship" because "an autistic guy can make a good romantic partner" implies th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 10:28 PM
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Sure, they can be a good romantic partner, but dating an autistic person is a challenge in itself. For example, I could ask a cute guy out and say, "give me a chance," but he might not be attracted to overweight women. Weight is something I can improve, but it won't happen overnight. You're trying to prove that women, especially young women, are shallow because they won't jump into a relationship with an autistic person. Compatibility matters, and unless this guy is attractive, handsome, or at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:20 PM
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Give them a chance for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:03 PM
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Look I'm not going to dismiss your experience, I believe you. She was a dancer, so they're more exposed to showing their skin, even in winter. But I'm also a woman who has razors (!) for every part of her body. Men don't shave their armpits, legs or buttocks. That's an effort. Women don't simply exist as some men claim. <,-Still wasn't that much Did she tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:52 PM
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But you haven't lived with one. How do you know it's not (that) difficult? Unless you shave that often—legs, armpits, butt—there's no way you'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:16 PM
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Okay? But what's wrong with that? Really? Just because we live in this multicultural world doesn't mean men should shame women for only dating their own kind. It's harder, sure, but then what? It's not bad, and I don't see any problem with it. Are you equally attracted to women of all races?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 06:10 PM
1

And you know it because...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:58 PM
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Race?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 05:52 PM
1

Please please don't date ( if you hate men or if you hate women)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:31 PM
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What makes a guy boring (to me) is if he's too quiet, he lacks confidence in his voice, he's a dry person, if he's afraid of being watched, if he stays home, if he plays video games, if he doesn't play sports, if he never smiles or interacts with people, if he avoids parties, if he avoids dancing, or if he's shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:23 PM
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You talk about finding a solution (?) How difficult is it for a man to make friends? And, in your opinion, how can men solve this? Let's imagine women can't help at all. How can men, collectively, solve this epidemic of male loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:02 AM
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What's male loneliness? I hear it everywhere...but don't see It...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:32 PM
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I'm curious,why it was easier for the average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 05:51 PM
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But I don't mean breaking up with her. And that's the dishonesty I was referring to. Young men, in general, love women with long hair. Yes, I've never heard or seen men being tempted to deeply desire a young woman with short hair. If women like one type of man, men like one type of woman. If she likes tall men, he loves girls with long hair. I mean, I asked him if these girls were his first choices, and he doesn't seem to know how to answer, which is fine, but I don't really like lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:57 PM
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Men should not settle down with women they're not attracted to...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:41 PM
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Short short hair, not able to grow it, are these women your first option?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 07:03 PM
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No lies please...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:58 PM
3

Do you like women with short hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:57 PM
3

No lies please...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 06:57 PM
2

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:17 PM
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Stay away from OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 02:58 AM
2

Men don't care too much about height...they're usually taller. But what about weight, skin color, hair, if she's pretty or not, if she's educated or if she's younger? Not you personally but how true It is that women, only young women have requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:08 PM
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Women should start telling the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:02 PM
1

Do you have an arbitrary (no necessary) numerical cutoffs? If not, it's ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:58 PM
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I mean, the problem is not the lack of women. What I'm saying is women are not products or some robots. They are people with autonomy and women are choosing to remain single if the man they're looking for doesn't exist. Putting more women on earth will not change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:27 PM
1

Do you have a type?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 07:27 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:03 PM
2

Did she know that you cheated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:56 PM
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You wouldn't take men's complaints more (?) seriously if they said what they mean. You are not able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:15 PM
1

Why "having a partner" is more important? What's the difference between "having friends or your family" and "having a partner"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:07 PM
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Which is more important?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:04 PM
1

I don't understand. Friends are not equally important as a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:36 PM
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"...compromise on non-dealbreakers." For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:33 PM
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Why do you think they are easier to maintain than romantic relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:31 PM
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Would you say the same thing about deadbedrooms? Would you say that a woman not wanting to have sex anymore in a relationship IS anormal?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 05:38 PM
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This is a dangerous affirmation. What's "nuturing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 11:55 PM
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But most men are not that attractive, what can these men do if waiting is not an option?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 05:09 PM
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No men should settle and then feel thankful for being second BEST. I always say it, men should love themselves more. I don't think i'm proving anything. I want men and women to feel loved and desired. That's human. "...promiscuous past but the make the guy wait" Because they can. If men could control they need for sex, they'd be winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:44 PM
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"I don't see any other reason for a girl to withold sex or any form of intimacy unless she's not properly into you" And this is the reason why women don't date whoever appears. Women don't swipe right to every guy they see on dating apps because there'll be intimacy. Women are not attracted (sexually) to most men, they know is a waste of time and dating someone can be fun. I understand the resentment when It comes to dating with no results(the deed) but there's still resentment regardless (no da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 04:01 PM
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Alright, what all those things have to do with what i've said? Not kissing or holding hands? Work from home? Where did you get this idea? Did i said " i don't need a man"? Did i said " i will live in the woods now"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:29 AM
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Do they care about me? Society "resources"? What resources?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:30 PM
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"What can you do about It?" stop kissing and holding hands in public? That would be a start. Or better, create jobs (work from home) for these people. Only for these people. I don't want to go outside ever again. Just to see what i'm missing out... "Nobody cares about them", right, why should they care about society then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:41 PM
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Yes, i hate this feeling of not being desired. If you're a woman ( i'm a woman) and has always had a boyfriend, how can you understand it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:53 PM
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Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:40 PM
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Do you know what you want? What if she wanted to go slowly, but that was very slow for your taste and she simply decide to cut for good? Of course IS annoying because It matters. The point is, you weren't dating anyway. You're not at uni to fuck around or be someone's emotional test drive. She cut for good, for you and for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:04 PM
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Same with women dating men. No one wants to date a person with backward intentions, no one. But that what dating IS all about. We want to impress the person we're into. That's It. No one is getting married like right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:20 PM
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No, never..that's why i hate attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:53 PM
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But if you werent into her, she was right in letting you go. I mean, if she was putting much effort to be with you but you were (he was)...there, not giving, not effort, nada...It makes sense to me. I'd be hurt so the BEST thing to do IS cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:49 PM
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This sounds like vent..where's the debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:47 PM
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Sorry but what do you mean with external factor? what is It? who's talking about having sex 24/7? We're not kids anymore, the attractiveness is the first thing you see and if a man is not having any success in his 20's and all of a sudden he's having It in his 30's, naturally he's going to have some questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:59 AM
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what else they have to offer? If they're not sexually attractive what do they have? I understand the frustration and that's why i gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:30 AM
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"...be proud of your success" what success?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:21 AM
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I read the book years ago... What you're saying is what Esther Vilar says in her book. These are not your words, these are not your thoughts. She talks about a very specific woman, so you're talking about this woman. Traditional men and women are not in this room. What you're saying is cultural, not traditional. My opinion based on the post. Sex is the reason why men do the things they do. Sex is the reason why they beg. That need of having sex with a young, pretty woman is the reason why men ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 02:53 PM
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This is what I don't understand too. If he's not upset but depressed (depression is real), find the solution. One is pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:53 AM
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"What should men do if he has no success in dating" Give up, move on, improve yourself without hurting anyone in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:00 PM
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I don't think so. They want empathy but i am having a hard time to understand and see how they want women to show empathy. I'm new here so i don't know much about what's going on but as a woman who has never dated someone, I understand the frustration. And i accept it and move on with my life. I tried to find answers and i found them. Instead of keep kicking "a dead horse", i accept it and move on. I can't expect a person who don't know anything about me, unless i tell them, to show a bit of com…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:03 PM
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Because they eventually find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:34 PM
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