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Is this on the sidebar? It should be on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 12:04 AM
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Which is why alimony should be capped.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 02:39 PM
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so all the men through time who have gotten married and raised a family, they all have been the bitch? For most of this time, their wives didn't have daddy government subsidizing divorce. TRP isn't against marriage, we simply understand the risks better than most people and want others to understand them as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:00 AM
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The point I was trying to argue is that having a barrier to enter the economy is counterproductive.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 11:50 PM
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I've never understood how kids today are so retarded to have borrowed as much money as they did. To me, it's like pretending high school costs money to attend, then having easy-to-obtain non-dischargable (bankruptcy) loans. Schools notice this and start rising prices of everything much faster than the rate of inflation "because they can". You get to the point where a high school diploma is not only a requirement, you need one just to get your foot in the door. Now you 'don't understand' why peop…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 09:33 PM
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Something else to think about how would a basic income affect inflation? This TED talk explains what gives a dollar value It may be possible to completely fund a fully fledged UBI with quantitative easing and not run into hyperinflation, maybe it's only good for a partial UBI. I guess it comes down to how much the circulation of wealth affects inflation, since using the money that's already in the system won't affect inflation nearly as much; but also how much inflation we can deal with before i…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 03:10 AM
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It's cheaper to pay them just enough so they "barely get by" rather than deal with the costs that come with crime, healthcare, jails, homelessness, means-tested welfare, etc. They're only useless because we're holding poverty over their heads, thereby forcing them into work that they are simply not suited for. If you want to save money down the road, UBI is the answer here. Sadly, some people lack the ability to forego short term solutions for better long term ones.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:02 PM
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The only way I ever see this happening is well after technological underemployment is underway and first world countries start looking at UBI schemes as a way to share the new technological wealth with a starving population. If states abolished child support laws right now the adverse effects without a replacement would be pretty drastic. We already have plenty of children in poverty as it is. Once kids receive unconditional child support (~$300 monthly) from the government, there will be no nee…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 02:22 PM
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What happened? We gave feminism a blank check.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 07:17 PM
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but this chick didn't even hint that she was in a relationship until my dick was literally in her mouth. Hahah. This makes me think of a situation where you invite a friend over for a BBQ and halfway through they're like, "oh btw im vegan".
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 02:51 PM
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Nofap. Foreskin renewal (RENEWAL not removal) will probably help but it'll take a long, long time before you notice any positive effects. Find a partner that's willing to put the effort in.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:14 AM
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I really hope we don't figure out immortality during our time.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:30 AM
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Respect: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. Whenever I see people say with pride "I respect women", I ask myself what fuck have they done to earn that. Men are expected to respect women. That's just pedestallization being meta. Am I for equality? Yes. Am I going to worship you just because you have a vagina? No.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:40 PM
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If PE is a serious problem, buy a fleshlight and use it instead of your hand for a few months. Get an intense texture (super-ribbed). I bought one at an early age (16) which lead to retarded ejaculation (basically the opposite of PE) when it came to real sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:29 PM
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A part of me also feels sorry. If GLO posts about you and feels sorry about it, you REALLY need to reevaluate your life.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 10:26 PM
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It might not be cash, but you're paying for it one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 06:18 AM
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Bring an extra marker too. You'll need it.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 09:26 AM
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It's fucking hiliarious how she thinks women have a special bond with the child but men don't. AWALT goddammit.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 02:28 PM
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Good idea but it'll never last. Feminism will eventually strangle the entire world and ruin all women. I give places like Japan two generations max before women go down the shitter. I pity our children & grandchildren.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:26 PM
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As fucked as the modern woman is, men are always gonna get it worse because we're the ones that put up with the backlash bullshit. Date an ugly chick and you get a shitty personality. Date a hot chick and you get a cum dumpster. More often than not, you get a mixture of both. Still yet, for every 300lb land whale there's at least 5 guys that are desperate enough to put a ring on that. The only way to win is not to play.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:24 AM
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It's so fucking ironic that men are the ones feeling shame even though it's not their commitment; while women feel absolutely nothing (read: hamster away) as they break the most significant boundary in the relationship world.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 08:25 PM
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One thing I've noticed so far is that the amount of RP knowledge that people correlate with is always affected by number of relationships had and age is a good indicator of how many they've been in.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 04:03 PM
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I don't masturbate much so its not a desensitized dick issue. You don't have to masturbate to desensitize your dick. Circumcision does that for you.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 11:27 PM
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Plate the waitress then have her bring you lunch. Seeing you have access to a high SMV woman then watching how she bends over backwards for you might just make his balls plop back into his sack.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/15 09:53 PM
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General rule of thumb: If they talk about rape openly - they weren't raped. Real rape victims bury that shit deep.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:41 AM
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I don't see those quotes as the real US green party. The US gp doesn't even have a manifesto, nor has any US gp candidate ever taken office. UK has had one gp parliament member since 2015. I imagine if US ever takes interest in green party we'll probably end up copying UK's manifesto but with minor adjustments. http://issuu.com/lifework/docs/minimaniissuu?e=7496317/7612527 http://greenparty.org.uk/values/
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 08:06 PM
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Do you know how many people voted that were between the ages of 18-29 in 2014? 13%. 1 per every 7.6 people voted in the elections. Do you know why? Look at their voting options. Democrat or republican. Both are morally and literally corrupt. Both suck ass. You can't run as independent because you probably don't have enough money to let people know what you stand for. And why should they care? You're probably just another "career politician" they keep hearing about anyways. Only the green party w…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 07:41 PM
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CJ340 Wholly unacceptable levels of men, women and children are currently imprisoned at great cost to their future rehabilitation, as well as to their families, the taxpayer and society in general. The Green Party is therefore committed to significantly reducing the prison population. I support the Green Party because they are the only party with a step in the right direction. I certainly believe that they will put every effort towards getting men out of prison that don't belong. Even though CJ3…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:49 PM
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Paternity tests are far worse (to them) than a pre-nup is.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 03:47 AM
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One of the best FR's I've ever read. 10/10 11/10 with rice
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 12:27 AM
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Feminist: "How can you possibly believe such awful things about women?" Reformed BP Man: "GayLubeOil fucked my wife in the ass." Anyone that's ever had sexual relations with women will be able to tell you that women in relationships are the easiest ones to fuck. Hell, I lost my virginity to a girl and most of the women I've been with were in relationships. It's funny how you always find out that she has a boyfriend after you've jizzed on her tits.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 10:51 PM
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You should shut the fuck up and go back to the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 09:06 PM
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Yeah, this was definitely written by a man. I'd go so far as to say it was written by him in hopes that his wife would read it. It's really sad how easily men fall into the trap where they're scared to say anything negative to their wives. Just this past week, I've seen the "guess I'm sleeping on the couch tonight" at least three times. I read the comments in hopes of seeing something like, "guys, never leave your bed for the couch 'cause she's pissed at you, she will lose respect for you no mat…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 03:00 AM
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When you left, it created an emotional void in her, which she filled with another guy. THIS IS NOT INHERENTLY BAD. So according to Ask "Men", another man's penis in your LTR isn't inherently bad, guys.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 09:38 PM
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He is disgusted, not weak.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:53 PM
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You need to post in /r/askTRP.
/r/ThankTRP12/09/14 11:08 AM
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I wouldn't verbally ask for it, that takes her fun out of it. I'd ask her to sit in my lap and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:06 PM
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Asking seems weird That's your problem.
/r/askTRP08/09/14 04:01 PM
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A morning BJ after anal? Well played.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 09:32 PM
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I want BJs from my GF. How should I approach this? "Suck on my dick." Problem solved.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:08 AM
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I have not seen the show. Sexually promiscuous women find less happiness in relationships down the road. After your relationship passes the "honeymoon phase", the chances of her becoming bored with you increase dramatically simply because she has past experiences to reflect upon. Virgin women are ideal, not a requirement. Virgin women show self-control, self-respect, respect traditional values, and haven't been ruined by shitty partners. Women with low partner counts also reflect these values. A…
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:46 AM
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Agree & Amplify is your best friend.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:20 AM
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The best type of girl to settle down with is a slut Are you trolling or are you really this dumb? You can't make a ho into a housewife.
/r/askTRP03/09/14 07:18 AM
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Isn't there a glaring inherent contradiction here? No, the subjects are different. By studies and statistics being complicated and variable to change, I was speaking about the ones about women being more sexually promiscuous than men, or something similar. When I said you could verify a theory (AFBB) with personal experiences, that's because AFBB is blatantly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 04:39 AM
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This honestly confuses me, because I thought that the reference to studies and statistics were the type of posts to be taken literally; it sounds like you're telling me, "If a redpiller mentions statistics or studies, don't believe that he or she is literally referring you to statistics or studies.". Doesn't this undermine the self-advocacy for truth, science and self-correction that the red pill espouses? The problem with studies and statistics when they concern topics like gender dynamics, is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/14 02:58 AM
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shouldn't we take statistics with a few more grains of salt than we currently take them with? The biggest misconception from non-TRP people is that we don't already do this. You're not supposed to take every single post from TRP to it's literal meaning; you're meant to calibrate the core values of what the poster is trying to make a point out of. This is male communication in it's purest form. It simply doesn't matter whether a certain statistic is from correlation or causation because it's simp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/14 09:38 AM
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Each guy has their own definition. A slut outside of the confines of a relationship is a woman that gives it up easy (1st date.) It's not necessarily about the number, but more about how easy she gave it up. Coincidentally, an easy fuck is almost always accompanied by a high partner count. A slut inside the confines of a relationship seeks situations where she's tempted to cheat (backpacking through Europe with another dude.) In the right circumstance, with the right man, even a good girl would …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:46 PM
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Hamsterdam? Did you coin that term? This needs to become meta as we refer to 2XC.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 01:46 PM
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Most of them are probably men pretending to be women. Hahaha. It's like TBP gives away little cards with shit like: TRP is probably _____. So you can fill it in, submit to a random thread and feel like you actually accomplished something.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 01:35 PM
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When women complain about the lack of good men, that's just them not accepting the fact that they need to change their standards. The wall hits hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 10:45 AM
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That's like a Muslim saying that being an Atheist is harmful to one's self. Do you see how stupid you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/14 10:42 AM
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I get what you're saying, but if he's willing to drop a potential LTR over a shit test (especially one as common as being flirty with an ex), then the number of women that are good enough for an LTR with him are very, very low. He basically misinterpreted this shit test as a red flag.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 08:40 AM
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Marrying a woman who is under 18 (48% chance of divorce within 10 years) The main ideas behind getting with a younger woman is that she's more attractive, and she hasn't been ruined by other men. I'm sure there are many women out there that, if they had avoided certain men, they would have been fantastic marriage material. I'd also like to add that most women that marry under the age of 18 do so with men that are also around the same age range. To put it simply, they're both very inexperienced a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/14 12:53 PM
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The reason why oneitis is bad for you is because of the frame of mind it puts you in, and the side-effects that come with it. You'll find that life is much easier on your end if you have an abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:31 AM
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Does he read TRP? He's using you as an emotional pillar which is a very big no-no.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 04:00 AM
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And California is one of them. I feel sorry for those guys. Damn.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:33 AM
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Pretty soon, all of the naysayers will either act like they agreed with our logic the entire time, or they will say that most of us weren't that misogynistic in the first place and their examples were part of our extremes.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 06:07 AM
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He had drunk a little too much alcohol but I can't fully accept that as an excuse, as much as I try to. You shouldn't. Let's say for a second that he didn't cheat on you - he still crossed a line by going to a house party, getting too drunk, and surrounding himself with temptation while you were not there. Regardless of how much you trust your partner not to cheat, if they really had your best interests at heart, they wouldn't put themselves in this situation in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 11:59 AM
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because so many feminists think that RPW are meek, submissive doormats that dare not let out a peep Because they know the only way they can silence your opinion is if they disqualify you entirely. A feminist wouldn't dare enter a debate with another woman that's seen and heard both sides of the equation.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 11:47 AM
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Two great ways to improve sex performance is kegels and edging. You can also purchase a fleshlight to get used to the feel. The only problem with premature ejaculation is how people handle the situation. Most men would apologize, cry, or do something else to ruin the moment. Just chill the fuck out and have fun man.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 08:12 AM
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If you look closely from left to right, you see: RPW, BP, Feminism, Dude who just found TRP in an /r/askreddit thread. It's scary how accurate this is.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:59 AM
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You won't be able to spot all STD's at a glance though.
/r/askTRP23/08/14 09:01 AM
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Depends what you mean by general quality of life. If you're an attractive woman in her 20s, riding the CC, you're undoubtedly having a lot of fun. If she's having lots of fun, she probably won't stop until she hits the wall. If she partied her youth away, very few high quality men would find her an acceptable mating partner. She'll spend the rest of her days telling her friends how people shouldn't judge her by her number, and the ones sick of her shit will tell her that she shouldn't tell other…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 11:17 PM
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Here's relevant information, the article is from today. http://www.hookingupsmart.com/2014/08/22/relationshipstrategies/past-relationships-may-lower-marital-quality/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 10:57 PM
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Lowest. Common. Denominator. If you were to talk about a subject with 7 billion different variables, how else would you do it if not in generalizations?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 05:02 AM
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You may be right, you might not. Men and women love each other differently, so who knows. I don't condone this behavior either. One thing I do know, is that your chances with women increase dramatically if she knows other women are into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 02:26 AM
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so wut happens to my reproductive organs? Nothing, they're just not designed to fuck an endless stream of random men. Your organs are only half their equation, the topic at hand is about how it influences your body. This concept is foreign to your genetics. Men, however, are designed to be able to fuck an endless stream of women. I'm not saying this behavior is okay for either sex. I'm just trying to explain it from a human biology standpoint. I dunno o.O is one of them happier in general? Yes. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 01:37 AM
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You're thinking short term. As your partner count increases it affects your ability to be a wife. If you take woman A who had sex 100 times but with only one man, and woman B who had sex 100 times but with 100 different men, which one do you think would find greater happiness in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 01:15 AM
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Yeah. That's totally what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 01:07 AM
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That way, you can finally get your asses handed to you by a feminist guy (like me) or (better option) a badass lady who won't put up with your crap. Please sir, don't hit me with your keyboard.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:12 AM
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You would seriously recommend that? What's the point of marrying her when she's 50? What's the point of marrying at all?
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 12:03 AM
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I remember reading a story about a guy in the navy a few decades ago deployed at sea. He said in the beginning there were zero women on the boat, then as soon as women started coming, problems started arising. I can't find the link to the post, but from the top of my head he said that 70% of the women were lazy, 20% were neither good nor bad, and 10% were actually hard workers. He also talked about how 30% of all of the women had to be flown off the ship because they got pregnant. He also talked…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 09:28 PM
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If you're going to misrepresent personal negative characteristics as Red Pill, there is a sub specifically for you. Let's be real, your BF wasn't abusive because he was Red Pill, he was just an insecure asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 09:16 PM
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Marriage is the last thing on his mind now. This needs to be quoted in case anyone misses it. We do think the CC is inherently bad, but the difference between a Red Pill man and anyone else is that we realize that the only way the CC would actually directly affect us is if we marry. Once a man actually understands what marriage is in this day and age, he would never find this kind of agreement acceptable. Personally, I'd like to think I'll find a woman, she'll become my other half, and we'll liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 08:56 PM
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I never said I agreed with him, I simply explained how he reached his opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 01:11 AM
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The thread in question was about a man that was frustrated that his GF preferred to hang out at a bar with her co-workers every weekend instead of being with him. The way you quoted me, it looks like I'm saying she would cheat on him because she's a woman, but that's not what I meant. It's because she repeatedly put herself in situations where she's tempted to cheat, while her BF sat at home masturbating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 01:00 AM
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Feminists shouldn't be afraid to call out BS from other feminists. RPers shouldn't be afraid to call out BS from other Red Pillers. I'm curious how much each side criticizes each other. Red Pill is decent at identifying BS, but I've never seen a feminist call out one of her own. The only reason I can guess why is because of the herd mentality women have with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 12:52 AM
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if a married/taken woman is somehow in a room alone with a sexy guy (or genders reversed) I feel like a line has already been crossed on some level. Bingo. For example, when I read stories of men that are suspicious of their GF cheating, they usually say something along the lines of, "I trust her not to cheat", while completely ignoring the fact that she's putting herself in situations where she's tempted to cheat. A hot topic a few months ago was whether or not people were okay with their partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/14 12:39 AM
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I have two sets of standards, one for being fuckable and one for LTR. If she's a 2 out of 10 on my fuckable list, I generally don't think she's high on anyone's list. Being gamers definitely play a huge role in the situation. I've seen their photos and I wouldn't be surprised if they were virgins. It's hard to turn down something when you're searching for it your entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 08:14 AM
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The only reason I can think of that someone would actually want to sleep with her is if they're sexually deprived.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 07:33 AM
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Shame on me for thinking body chemistry would change her decision when she's near such a specimen. Everybody knows people always use logic to commit oneself to a specific course of action whenever necessary even when their body is demanding to do the complete opposite. I should take everyone at their word during a hypothetical. You are not contributing to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 06:31 AM
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Partner count # under 5 is totally realistic at 22, that doesn't fall into the weird expectations category at all. You'd be surprised.. I lost my virginity at 20, and I've never been with a woman with a partner count of less than 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 06:03 AM
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Actually, I'd have a HUGE reason to make an 11/10 guy wait for sex- I'd want to score him long-term and I would know that putting out right away would make me seem like non-marriage material. (Of course, this scenario provides I'm single). I'm sure all women would say the same thing, but what would you really do if you found yourself alone in a room with Ryan Gosling? You'll be horny as fuck and so will he. What happens if you tell him no? Would he go find another girl to satisfy his needs? Why …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:51 AM
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I made him wait a few weeks for sex, which was apparently "beta-izing" him and something that an alpha would never put up with- making me a bitch/prude because only a bitch would wait more than 2 dates to put out. lololol. His reasoning behind it is that if you had the chance to sleep with a 11/10 guy, you probably wouldn't make him wait. So why is it fair to make me wait? In my opinion, as long as you make every man wait for sex, that alone puts you leagues ahead of every other contender. The b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:30 AM
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Women are attracted to status because to her instincts, the man that is respected among his peers is usually the man that her offspring have the best odds of survival. A well-respected man has better genes as well. Confidence, status play a much larger role in the selection of men to women than it does for women to men. Even if it's not as widespread as we claim, the mere existence of it makes Red Pill men put more effort in improving themselves so she won't want to find a better rope to jump to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 05:19 AM
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It's why women primarily seek commitment and men primarily seek out sex. To reproduce, you spend 10 months + raising the child whereas I'm able to do my part in less than 30 minutes. It would be interesting to see how the dynamics of our culture changed if we both only spent 30 minutes on reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 04:17 AM
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I could say that I know a red piller who abused and cheated on his girlfriend (I actually do) Curious, how do you know this man is Red Pill? I see Blue Pillers use negative behavior to describe Red Pill men all the time even though these behaviors have nothing to do with us. The point he was trying to make is that there are people that disagree with hypergamy, AFBB, etc and he's trying to open a discussion using her as an example. Not every single woman on the planet is hypergamous, a liar, or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 04:08 AM
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That's hypergamy for ya. If only you could pump babies out faster, we wouldn't be in this mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 04:01 AM
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TL;DR: For a very attractive girl, if you're anything less than Ryan Gosling, you are invisible to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 03:46 AM
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cheating on the men she was cheating with too Cheatception. I too find this intriguing. If sexually deprived white-knights will conspire with an (unattractive) woman that cheated on her boyfriend with multiple men, it makes you wonder how far she would actually have to go for these men to call it quits. The biggest thing I find fascinating is that this woman with a very low SMV could find six different men to sleep with. A land whale, nicknamed, "5 guys burgers and fries" did this. One man even …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 02:50 AM
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Nobody's opinions are going to change as a result of these threads. Anyone that visits this subreddit already know what they believe in and will stick to their beliefs religiously. The only way anyone will be convinced otherwise, is for them to experience both sides. Most Red Pill men started out Blue Pill. How many Blue Pill men started out with Red Pill behaviors? The same goes for Blue Pill women. How many have actually been in a Red Pill relationship? How many of these women would actually b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/14 02:37 AM
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If you let your girl fuck date another dude, you're a fuckin' chump. I don't care if you're not jealous, and I don't care if it turns you on knowing she's getting railed by another dude (wtf?) It puzzles me that men generally think it's okay for their wives to deny sex on a consistent basis. The comments are pretty stupid too. It's in women nature to lust after men that are in relationships. That's not a bad thing - the complete opposite actually. No better way to start a relationship without go…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 01:43 AM
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Why can't I have both?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:54 PM
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You can't honestly expect anyone to find you attractive just because of your "values". Literally the only scenario I see this possible is if everyone had the exact same physical features.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 08:48 PM
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Personally, I think a lot of RPers blur the line between "I am not personally attracted to this type of woman" and "this is what a good woman is, and this is what a bad woman is." There are many qualities that you should look for, when considering who you think is the best mother of your children, and partner in life. Whether they are good or bad is up to you. Qualities women have that RP says Red Flag: Cock Carousel Post-wall, or near it Overweight Rude/bitchy girls Feminist Of course, everyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/14 06:02 PM
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Don't get married. Ever. You have nothing to gain!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 01:15 AM
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Reward good behavior. You seem like the kind of person that very rarely shows any gratitude, so when you do show it, it's that much more special.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 10:05 PM
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Dread game is pretty much your only option here if you don't want to break up.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:10 PM
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Is marriage obsolete? Yeah. What's in it for the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:24 PM
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The RP women I talked to claimed that men can be both alpha and beta, so they could be happy with one. I don't see how this is denying AF/BB. What they meant was that all men have the capacity to be her AF and BB, but most don't because they're busy just being themselves. Every man exhibits both alpha and beta behaviors - it's just a matter of how much of each. AF is just another term for the behaviors (on the primal level) that give her the 'gina tingles. BB is just a term for the guy she latch…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/14 12:14 PM
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I think your boyfriend should meet with a financial counselor and/or lawyer. He's reading up on worst case scenarios, and that can be terrifying. Because they happen 50% of the fucking time. Even if it happened 1% of the time, it would still be a big risk. and doesn't have a streak of distrust towards you, or women in general, or whatever it is). I saw this coming the moment OP wrote that he was subscribed to MRA. They completely disregard how the system is set up. It's not set up against them, …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 10:31 AM
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Or were you not really "submissive" as a sexual/relationship preference at all, and just a garden-variety doormat and/or very passive? Bingo. I didn't date these girls for a very long time so just the fact that I was having girls interested in me was a big deal. I just did what I was taught: be myself. She didn't want to have sex? That's no big deal, we haven't seen each other for only a week. She doesn't want to kiss me? That's strange, I have gum in my mouth. I didn't realize (at the time) tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:50 PM
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to the extent that we require fundamentally different forms of education to function? It's not about what you learn, it's how. If you tell your wife to go on the internet and look up ways of how to be more obedient, what's that going to do? Absolutely nothing. She'll probably laugh in your face. However, take it upon yourself to show her how to be obedient, she may find herself playing with your penis more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:42 PM
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Because we're different. There are all sorts of ways to command obedience, but only one way to learn how. When you "train" someone, the interaction is usually between you two only. When you "teach" someone, it can be between many people. That's what I meant by a hands-on approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:32 PM
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How can you possibly objectively evaluate how satisfying such a relationship would be for a submissive man or a non-submissive woman? First of all, you must understand that there is no 50/50. There is no equal relationship. One person will always hold more power than the other. When people get married that power shifts dramatically in the woman's favor because of the way the legal system is set up against men, but that's aside the point. By personal experience, I meant that I've been a submissiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:26 PM
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To an extent, however training tends to be used for skills, whereas teaching tends to be more intellectual/academic in use. Exactly. When you "train" a woman, it's more of a hands-on approach. I wasn't really paying attention to my terminology, my subconscious decided for me. When I referred to men being "taught" how to lead women, it's because it's in an educational and logical approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:22 PM
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Maybe he thinks he loves her in the absence of respect, but it's not a healthy, true kind of love. Fully agree. A lot of this logic comes from times before this era. Women, to men, were simply there to give birth to their children. That was their primary role. To women, they needed a capable man that would be able to provide and protect their offspring. If a man commands your respect, the quality of life of the offspring are much greater than the ones compared to a man that in another sense, doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:17 PM
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please don't hit me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:07 PM
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but it's still pretty damn niche if you're trying to take everyone into account and give general advice about relationships and human beings. I agree, but the original context was obedience, which was that women were to be submissive. It's my opinion that if every relationship had a submissive woman, dominant man, relationships in general would be much more fulfilling. I've been on both sides of the grass, so I'm speaking from personal experience. Otherwise, it doesn't change anything to use a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 02:06 PM
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Obviously women aren't literal animals Yes you are... Man is animal. Woman is animal. We are all animals. TRP teaches men through lessons and whatnot, but train women through punishment/reward and signals, because women are supposedly animalistic in only responding to indirect signals. You are over-analyzing the whole thing. Take a step back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:58 PM
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Basic obedience for your husband This is bad because if you are submissive (as a man), you are not attractive to women. The same holds true for dominance. Too much of any side is a bad thing. The key is finding balance (1/5.) Whenever there's a TV show or some other media talking about "training your man," TRP and MRA goes apeshit. Because nobody else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:56 PM
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If your husband doesn't respect you, he doesn't love you. Men and women experience love differently. For women to love men, a condition must be met that she holds respect to him. The same is not true for men. Sure, but she doesn't have to respect-you-as-in-superior-officer respect you, she can just give you the basic respect due an equal human being It's all in the types of relationships. Some women like it, some don't. We're not the ones that invented the Captain/First Mate thing. Women did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:54 PM
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Train: 1: to teach (someone) the skills needed to do something (such as a job) 2: to give instruction to (someone) 3: to be taught the skills needed to do something (such as a job) 4: to cause (someone or something) to develop an ability or skill http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/train
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:49 PM
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doesn't really change the fact that women are the animals that need to be trained, not men, and saying 'well men are kinda like that too' is completely disingenuous You misunderstand the entire point. When you train a woman, her body tells her that you're sexy. Is being my sex slave and locking you up in my basement humiliating and/or demeaning? Maybe. Did I ask to do it? No. She did. If women became sexually aroused around men that were submissive, while she were dominant, I would be her little…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:47 PM
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Totally, but that's pretty irrelevant to whether it's ok to seriously treat your partner like that What, demanding obedience or domestic discipline? I wouldn't do these things if they weren't such a great turn on for women. If these behaviors didn't appeal to their sexual fantasies and their sexual fantasies were in-line to society's definition of whatever is politically correct (at the time), I'd do something else. If "just being myself" caused women to change panties regularly every two hours …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:45 PM
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Personally, spanking is a flat turn-off for me. A guy did that once out of nowhere in bed and it just killed my mood dead. We didn't continue. Thankfully, he wasn't RedPill so he actually listened when I told him not to do it again instead of assuming it was a shit test, and no other moments were ruined. Lmao. Spanking doesn't really do much for me (or her either), it's just the situation in which it was used. She has a fetish for domestic discipline. If it was really about simply offering "cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:41 PM
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Because society regards women as creatures that can do no wrong, and it expects men to be the ones to do the wrongdoing. Age isn't discriminated in this case for men, either. Saw a post on the front page yesterday how a boy had his first sexual experience with his 17 year old female babysitter in the bathtub. He was 11. Nobody gave a fuck. Reverse the roles, all hell breaks loose. So when it comes to women training men, it's "you go girl". What she's actually trying to accomplish is completely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:36 PM
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We're taught to assume father figure roles because it demands respect. If your wife does not respect you, she does not love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:32 PM
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Train, teach, same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:30 PM
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but you didn't put that on your training list because you don't help dogs improve by training them, you get them to do what you want. That's relationship(and life) 101, you can't fix someone, they have to fix themselves. There was a great post about women changing a week ago. The gist of it is, she has to want to change for you because to do so would make her happy, and in turn, would make you happy. By training women, it makes you satisfied as a man because of her loyalty, and it satisfies her …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:27 PM
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It treats women as some distinctly lesser "other." Not only that but an inferior other that must also be controlled. CTRL + F: "inferior." Nope. CTRL + F: "superior." Are you sure you're in the right thread? "basic obedience for your wife" ::shudder:: It's actually pretty hot. I spanked a girl for breaking my bong and made her stand in the corner for 15 minutes. She fucked my brains out immediately after. That was the best sex of my life. But he doesn't necessarily know what's best for her, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:13 PM
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As do men. Do men need to be trained like dogs as well? They do, just in a different way. They don't get the luxury of having someone else teach them how to have a successful relationship - they have to teach themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 01:03 PM
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Well-trained wives also don't shit on the floor or chew up your slippers. Where in my post did I say they did these things? Women do, however, do certain things that work against the nature of a monogamous emotional commitment. Perhaps you should give my post a read, your post details how little you understand about the topic at hand. other than to confirm the sexism prevalent in Red Pill philosophy. Politically correctness is irrelevant in our domain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 12:28 PM
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Thanks. When I was done writing it, I thought of submitting it to TRP. Decided against it. I haven't made any submissions to TRP yet. if the women comes from a decent enviroment she is already "trained" and know how to behave and be respectful of her life partners without any effort. This is why all men should learn how their fathers raised them. If they have a strong father figure in their life, your work is cut for you because she's already a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 12:26 PM
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Cute, but you misinterpret shit-testing. It's a gradual process that happens over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 12:24 PM
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He always replies "I would divorce you" (we aren't even married), no matter how slight the change is. Is that a pass? I guess I'm supposed to know that already, haha. Passed with flying colors. Agree & Amplify is the best way to pass a shit-test because you don't learn what the boundaries are because he's obviously joking. When he won't tell you what the upper boundaries are, it makes your relationship that much more enticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/14 11:05 AM
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When I read shit like this: However - to be totally blunt I do want to screw my ex a couple of times and make her scream again before saying "see ya" Translates to: I want to fuck her real good, make her want to come back to me, then go no-contact. You want to hurt her emotionally. TRP does not condone this behavior because it is not healthy, and it will come back and bite you in the ass. If you you think about your ex and revenge comes to your mind, you are not over her. You recognized that the…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:11 PM
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I know exactly what I need to do to get a specific man in bed with me. ...sit there and wait for him to approach you? The fleeting touch of other men is reassurance that I am still desirable, nothing more. It’s a cheap, temporary ego boost. It counteracts the years of verbal venom my dad spewed at me, telling 12-year-old me I was trash, a worthless whore. Yet, I wonder, what have I become? Take note, men. If you are seeking a LTR with a woman, make sure you learn how her father raised her.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:53 PM
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If there's ever a time to shit test a girl, it's when you're sick.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:32 PM
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The entire idea of AWALT is reinforcement on your part so you're able to keep an eye open to catch these things. Love is blinding, as they say. Everyone has a hamster. The only way to keep it in check is to understand it. When we're talking about AWALT, it's a generalization. People denounce our logic because generalizations are considered bad, but they don't understand that you have to speak like this because the subject at hand demands it. It's generally true. Not every woman will act accordin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/14 08:45 AM
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I'm pretty conservative when it comes to marriage. I very rarely agree with divorce. With that being said, she is a waste of your time. She doesn't care about you. If there was a poster child for beta bux, you would be a great contender. You are so damn lucky you don't have kids. End it.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:24 AM
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If a girl sends you pictures without asking, she probably wants to fuck you. Stop asking questions about the pictures. It reeks of inexperience. The next time she sends a picture, tell her that the next time she's in your city, she's staying at your place.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 04:38 AM
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Every relationship needs a safeword. Some people argue that safewords are only for bdsm-type relationships, I say they're full of shit. A majority of people seem to confuse sexual control with non-consent. I always tell my partners what their safeword is and to this day, I've never had it used. Without a safeword, the sexual fantasy is limited.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 08:20 PM
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Reddit admins will likely never ban TRP because their job requires them to be subjective concerning cases like this. Oh, and they actually have reading comprehension. Ignore the children.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 08:00 PM
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make sure there is a nice resonating * click * to that lock before ravaging her. If you're not careful, you'll condition her vagina to open the flood gates whenever a door locks.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:30 PM
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90% of women can't cum from sex. I could be wrong, but I think some women's inability to come from pure penetration is a mental thing on her part, while it's physical on yours. I've had several women tell me they haven't orgasm'd from penetration before they met me.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 06:02 PM
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Men really have been given a bad script to operate from and I don't even think the women get that that is what's going on either. If the topic of female sexuality wasn't so fuckin' taboo, this wouldn't be such a problem. The more I learn about other relationships, the more I appreciate TRP.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:57 PM
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You should consider investing in a Fleshlight. IMO, you don't need to worry about it replacing the real thing because they don't compare. Source: I used to own one.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 05:44 PM
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Aside from the obvious intrusion on my genitals as a toddler, the foreskin contains millions of nerve receptors which enhance the sexual experience. It also protects the nerve receptors on the penis because it stops it from rubbing against your underwear. A lesser known case is that it can cause problems from overmasturbation because the foreskin is used to aid masturbation. As a teenager I was forced to use a blanket because my hand had too much friction, and my sexual stamina was already unnat…
/r/MensRights25/07/14 06:52 AM
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Male circumcision is outdated. If you have access to clean water, circumcision does you more harm than good. The reason it used to be positive medical practice is because people did not have access to water the same way we do, and it was difficult keeping their genitals clean. Back then, trading a few hundred million nerve endings for what could be a life-threatening disease was worth it. Now it's not.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 05:23 AM
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Plus you get that feeling where you sit down to eat and everything is in place. :D
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 04:28 AM
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If you can't clean as you cook, you're not doing it right. I cook for three adults and by the time the food is on the table, the sink is spotless.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 04:04 AM
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Why would I want to be with a person who just uses me? The only situation in which you'll be used is if you let them. Why is it worth the effort to go after such a fickle and insensitive gender? Yes. You need to accept that neither the world nor our biologies are perfect. If you don't like fickle and insensitive women - don't date them! These women are perfect for plate status. When you find someone you think is above the rest, you'll know how to teach her about your expectations. Why couldn't I…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 02:51 AM
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I asked her in the middle of this week whether she had friday night off, she said yes and we set up a dinner date. This is where you fucked up. You don't ask her if her schedule is free. She doesn't get to decide the logistics. You do. Tell her when and where to be. Take charge. You give off the impression that your time is more valuable than hers and ladies are turned on by men that exert dominance. Win-win. To her, a date with you is not important enough to decline an invitation from her frien…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:01 AM
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You do not understand how men communicate with each other. This is not hate speech against women. It is a a pep talk for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 10:21 PM
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In my opinion, the thread was directed at new TRPers and men that are still in the bitter phase. These men are bitter because they finally realized how unfair society is to men. They finally accept that men are the disposable gender. That thread simply told you to embrace it. Be thankful for who nature designed you to be. Most of the TRP readers (including myself) read it, and we're like, "ok." Any TBP readers read it, they're like, "WTF WHY U HATE WOMENS? U THINK UR BETTER THAN WOMENS?" If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 07:38 PM
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If she can't walk, she won't want to go out. Win-win. ;)
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:50 AM
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One thing I know has worked with my ex-SO in the past was to give her a great fucking before sending her off. That way, you'll be stuck in her mind. I knew women did this, but I never once thought to do it myself.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:47 AM
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You could consider the sub itself an album for that, if you just filtered by "blue pill example". What I meant was you don't see TRP members passing out these albums in other subreddits. Our "album" strictly pertains to TRP whereas the TBP album is on the front page of reddit whenever TRP is brought up. We also don't make fun of these men, as some of us have been in very similar situations to these men. It's why we're TRP. "What's the red pill?" "Here's an album full of comments taken out of con…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 05:12 AM
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I asked a moderator yesterday to ban the use of these albums since they are irrelevant to most, if not all discussions. Here's our problem. While we'd like to only have stuff that "adds to the discussion," we've found that that type of moderation leads to bias. What one person thinks adds to the discussion is different from what another person thinks adds to the discussion. So we decided to not mod based on content. We only remove the stuff that's insulting, blatantly off-topic, or 'jerking. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/14 03:18 AM
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The gap between men and women is closing as women become more liberated. Women used to have to date up as they had no career. Now they are much more likely to date across. Of course what I'm saying is a generalization, which you have to speak in if you're going to address these types of problems. Women have been liberated for quite some time, yet they still seek someone of equal or higher status than them. But don't consider us equally important human beings. This is a common misinterpretation o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 10:11 PM
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but as someone in a helping profession with largely male clientele shame actually seems to be a really shitty motivator I would have thought the opposite was true, especially for men. Telling a stranger or an acquaintance (even a male one) that they're too fat to get laid might be true, but it's unlikely to be actually useful to them. I've had friends ask me how to be successful with women because they've observed me. I'm not attractive by any means, but I'm able to approach women with positive …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 10:00 PM
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You seem to have a dominant personality. Not until a year ago. :p I tend to view the dominant male/submissive female paradigm as cultural rather than inborn Well, first off, all relationships are dominant and submissive. There is no 50/50. TRP teaches you to find a sweet spot and keep it that way. It's widely regarded that 80/20 is the sweet spot. I don't think relationships where the female is dominant will naturally fail because she's a woman," it's because if you're too submissive, you are un…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 09:49 PM
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Yes, we can thank feminism for allowing both women and men to leave horrible marriages. Seriously, do you know no one who cheats, is an alcoholic, or a generally horrible person? Would you want to stay married to them? Not all marriages are as bad as divorces make them out to be. The state receives kickbacks behind the scenes when someone makes child support payments (10%), and the one who pays them is the father because he usually has higher income. Child support by itself is based on income ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 12:05 PM
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one thing I don't like that this subreddit is supporting gaming, seduction etc. The idea of creating strategies to get chicks kind of lowers the true purpose of TRP for me anyway. Everything you do involving a woman is a strategy whether you're aware of it or not. Choosing which strategies to employ can only improve your chances of success.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 11:31 AM
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True, but wouldn't you agree that a good barometer of how well the man is achieving the goal he has in regard to a relationship with one or multiple women (aside from those who wish to avoid them altogether) would be having sex as it shows the he has made himself desirable to her. Sure. Sex with multiple women is a great indicator of your relationship value. But I wouldn't go so far to say that the ultimate goal of TRP is to simply get laid. It's so, so much more than that. The ultimate goal for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 10:24 AM
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It is good enough for about 85% of the male population. "Just be yourself" is really shitty advice, no matter who you are. This advice attributes to the 50% divorce rate because men are making things up as they go as opposed to reading a book by someone that's been there, done that. Why are you opposed to self-improvement?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 10:03 AM
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For example, believing that women are equivalent to children isn't at all rational. That is not a reasonable conclusion to make, and you would need to selectively look and distort life to reach that conclusion The idea of treating women like children isn't because they're women, it's because of the way society treats them and what is expected of them. Women are not held accountable for their actions growing up, so they are completely new to the concept of accountability. Women are also much more…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 08:15 AM
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You guys misunderstand what communication really is in the context of a relationship. Communication: the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to exchange information or to express your ideas, thoughts, feelings, etc., to someone else When someone suggests, "There's a problem in the relationship? The answer must be to communicate more, or better." That's them telling you to use verbal communication to fix things, which is essentially a way of negotiating desire, which we kno…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:20 AM
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It's amusing that whenever something is comprised of a majority of females, it ends badly.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:31 AM
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Looking at the divorce rate (50%), yeah I'd say most relationships are zero sum games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 05:27 AM
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The idea of the male being dominant, female being submissive is long ingrained in our biology and cultures. I've had both types of relationships, and I can say with absolute certainty that the relationship where I was dominant was much more fulfilling. It just seems that males are happier taking a leadership role, and females are happier taking a supplemental role. Flip these dynamics, it fails more often than not. Is this because men lead better than women? Maybe. We're built differently, that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 05:02 AM
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In the context of TRP (where success is defined as sex) You've mistaken TRP for PUA. TRP Success is reaching whatever goal you've set. Sleeping with a woman is incredibly easy. Maintaining attraction from a woman over a long period of time is much more difficult. Every TRPer has different goals. We've got people from all age ranges. Some men want to lose their virginity, some want to revitalize their marriage, some want to win back a girl that left them, some want to go their own way without any…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 04:53 AM
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The Myth: Women should just laugh off online harassment and not take it personally. The Reality: This kind of harassment leaves long-lasting damage. It affects our friendships, and can cause us to be distant from others. You have two options: A) Ignore an insult from an anonymous stranger on the internet. B) Make a big deal about it and take it personally. Most of the time if there's a female in the chat, people be like, "GRILL!!". I think it's hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 03:11 AM
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Holy acronyms batman! I'm sure this happens, but it's definitely not the only source of criticism. IMO the value of the concept is just plain overstated on TRP. I agree, it's not the only source; but in my opinion it is the main one. Nobody likes to be judged by their looks; but the fact remains is that our brains are wired to do exactly this. (And I'm sure you're aware of this, but that would be a really weird, off-putting way to suggest somebody work on improving themselves. Most people react …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 03:03 AM
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The problem people have with SMV is that most of us have a hard time with the idea that it "exists" in the sense of being an objective, quantifiable thing rather than a thought experiment to aid understanding of complex human phenomena. People (women, mostly) tend to refute the existence of SMV because they misinterpret it as the value of their PV (personal value). For example, if you tell a woman with relationship problems that she has low SMV, will she take it as an insult or constructive crit…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/14 02:35 AM
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There's a lot of understandable anger and frustration here and it's grown with the sub's reputation, as it attracts more and more men with more and more ressentiment against women and feminism, but it ultimately gets in the way of understanding and useful action. The squeaky wheel receives the most attention. People are only noticing the wheel when they should be paying attention to the car.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 11:58 PM
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She is the most honest and sincere person I have ever met Yeah, which is why she goes out and gets drunk at parties without you. Fool. EDIT 3: At a user's suggestion, I feel it might be good to point out that she was unable to consent and that this was definitely rape. Why the fuck do people jump on this bandwagon? I'd wager most ONS have alcohol involved. Fuck the legal system; you're essentially giving women a blank check to fuck someone's life up if they feel like they made a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:10 PM
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"then she will naturally animate her masculine. She will want space, she will want freedom to pursue her own direction, and she will be repulsed by your clinginess." I have seen "strong women" yield in the presence of me and completely love being dominated in bed, told where to meet, and led. It's always been my opinion that strong, independent, feminist women simply haven't had the experience (or pleasure) of being dominated by a man. I'll keep my eye out for that book, sounds like a good read.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 06:42 AM
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You may find even greater success by referring your husband to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:53 AM
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As my man George Washington once said; fuck her right in the pussy.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:55 AM
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I think a lot of the shit can be attributed to a lack of red pill in our relationship Most likely, yes. and the timing of our relationship as it relates to her maturity. (dating from 16-20) These are the kind of girls that RP men want to start a LTR with. You needed to teach her things that her father didn't. Fact: women don't need to ride random dick to become more mature. she used to say that she thinks if we met when we were older our relationship would be perfect. AFBB. This girl is very muc…
/r/askTRP19/07/14 06:49 PM
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is it possible to use redpill game techniques and lifestyle changes to Yes. IMO, the best way to go about this would be to start spinning plates. When you talk to her again, plate her. Make sure she knows that you sleep with other women. Do not ask her if she wants to become exclusive, she must do this on her own. Even when she asks - I still wouldn't do it. Make her beg for it. The most important rule you need to know is that you cannot negotiate desire. Dread game is one of the most effective …
/r/askTRP19/07/14 09:23 AM
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Western culture raises women to be selfish. They're taught from birth that a great (10/10) man will find them and love them for who they are. If she's with her Alpha fucks, she'll be glad to be the one to do his laundry. Doing his laundry gives her gina tingles, because she knows perfectly well other women would gladly take her place. If she's with her Beta bucks, she can't stand to think about another person's wants or needs. Notice when a woman makes a post to /r/relationships how often she sa…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 09:23 PM
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So she wants to say his name during sex and wants me to do the same things he did in bed; wear the same smelling cologne, say the same things, etc. ...wat. I was totally blown away... initially refused and our sex life just dropped. At least he didn't go full bluepill. Never go full bluepill. Finally two days ago I agreed to do what she wanted. I bought that cologne, dressed in polos during foreplay cause that's what her ex did, and sadly she was completely animated during the whole night. ....g…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:25 PM
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Seriously if you are being honest about being "too busy cleaning" to have sex, stop. fucking. cleaning. You are fucking up your marriage. My two cents is that cleaning is just a shitty excuse to help victimize herself. I know wives that have multiple kids, keep the house spotless, and still have time to fuck their husbands. She just doesn't want to get off her fat ass. If she wants to watch Friends, that's fine but his cock better be in her hand.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 07:10 PM
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Men aren't entitled to sex from their wives! #YesAllWomen!
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 06:52 PM
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Because it gives feminists the tools (social shaming) to get what they want.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 08:14 AM
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I didn't know 'shun' meant 'stick my dick in someone I denigrate' Denigrate doesn't accurately describe it. If you're okay with your women having dozens of sex partners and being ridden with STD's, that's your choice. In my opinion, the CC is detrimental to society but me opting out won't make it go away so I might as well enjoy it responsibly too. what they look for in a woman like it's a universal checklist. Women keep a bigger list of what kind of men they desire. If you've ever been to datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 08:11 AM
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The more qualified "catchers" there are, the worse for fish, but the better for women. So that comparison is silly. Of course it's silly. I read something earlier about a RP man's GF finding his Rational Male book. She started reading it and by the end she was distraught. He asked her if she was mad at him and she said, "no, but you guys really shouldn't have access to this information." I think this applies to women everywhere. When women find out they were charmed by someone because he read so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 07:37 AM
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I'm not going to reply to your cherry-picked album. Most of the pics weren't even relevant to the conversation anyway. TRP is a library. Do you judge a library by the genre of books it has? How about the awkward nerds that spend their days in the computer lab? What about the hidden porn mags? You don't. Take what information you find useful and disregard the rest. Comments made by individual posters do not represent TRP, even endorsed contributors. What the fuck was that graph? Where is that gra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 07:07 AM
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Stupid for thinking a man calling her out on her bull shit is misogynistic Not stupid, this is mainstream feminism. If you do something a woman disagrees with, you are misogynistic.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:58 AM
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Gut feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 05:19 AM
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You are so wrong I can't not address your points. is that men have the right to judge a woman's value based on her attractiveness We judge her Sexual Market Value on her attractiveness. Her Personal Value does play a part, but both are very separate. that if she does the god-awful action of simply aging, she is a worthless piece of human skin to be ignored. This happens to all unattractive people. It's relevant to TRP discussion because women do not age as gracefully as men, and their behaviors …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 03:13 AM
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Alpha and beta terminology is just a way to classify behaviors. Alpha refers to dominant behavior, beta refers to submissive behavior. A person is considered alpha if he exhibits mostly dominant behaviors; likewise, he's considered beta if he exhibits mostly submissive behaviors. Mostly we refer to people being alpha/beta in the third person perspective because it is relevant to the discussion and it's ridiculously easy to spot an alpha or beta male. Using this terminology to refer to yourself i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 02:16 AM
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TL;DR of it is that women are attracted to a mixture of 'powerful' and 'sensitive' characteristics. This is true. If you're too dominant, you come off as controlling and manipulative; likewise if you're too sensitive, you're just plain unattractive. Many men, myself included have adopted a 1/5 rule. Five parts Alpha, one part Beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/14 01:59 AM
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If they have the propensity to ask you, they aren't too concerned about losing you and/or don't respect you enough not to ask. That makes a lot of sense now. Either you run active pre-dread game or file for divorce.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:30 AM
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Why guys continue to this is astounding. Because they buy into the shit society feeds them. They honestly think getting married will stop any urges she has behind your back. If anything, it makes cheating more exciting because she feels that ring on her finger while another guy stuffs her with his cock and you're out providing for her. Alpha fucks, beta bucks motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:27 AM
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All relationships should in all honesty be ended by a guy if his girlfriend/wife ever broaches such a topic. Is this the only option? Like, if my future wife even suggests that she regrets not experiencing the CC I should just divorce right then and there?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 01:08 AM
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I think about it all day long. You need to keep this shit off your mind. It's hard, I know, I've been there. Do whatever you can to keep yourself occupied. One day, you'll realize you haven't thought about her for a week, then it'll be a month, then it'll be six months and by this point, you won't give a shit. You will think about her and feel nothing.
/r/askTRP16/07/14 09:14 PM
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I want to be me, but better. You are you because of who you are, your experiences in life, and your lifestyle habits. You can't take away any of these things, but you can add to them.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:11 PM
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Holding back: Prosecutor Sue Baur (pictured) said she feared charging Cassandra might discourage other girls from reporting sexual assaults There just isn't any way for men to win is there? Either you start charging women for false rapes and lose the ability for them to come forward on their own, or you give them all a pussypass so they can accuse whoever the fuck they want without repercussions. This is bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:21 PM
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TL;DR: Just be yourself. Just because your mom told you to do that, doesn't mean it works.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:12 PM
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The lessons learned: It’s all in the covert message you send. It’s the fear of loss that you subtly instill in her. If I would have sat her down and openly talked about how much I was frustrated with the lack of affection and sex in our relationship, things wouldn’t have improved. If anything, they would have worsened. Women do not react to such overt messaging. Thought I'd duplicate this message in the case that someone new reads it. This is pretty much the backbone of TRP. Women do not react t…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/14 06:48 PM
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That was... interesting... Did some googling and apparently the dogs sperm can live up to 9,000 days (25 years) inside a woman's vagina. His sperm is literally fighting the dogs sperm to get to the egg, to this very day. She did this for at least 6-7 years, I wonder if her parents know.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:02 AM
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If you think self-confidence and attraction will stop her from cheating on you, hypergamy is going to slap you in the face.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 02:05 AM
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You're looking at it the wrong way. It's not about her "chances of cheating on you." It's about her respecting you enough to not find herself in such a location. If she declines an offer to go there because she knows you'd be uncomfortable with it, fantastic. However, if you tell her not to go and she goes anyways, you now know where her priorities are.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 12:16 AM
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Except if I examine the record of the guys I like, and the guys I've gone for, in addition to my behavior when dating, it would prove you wrong. You speak for all women? There's a word for people like you: solipsism: the view or theory that the self is all that can be known to exist. I've generally gotten along better with genuinely nice guys, that weren't trying to pull a constant, "Alpha Male" scenario What is an "Alpha Male scenario?" The one that comes to my mind is standing strong like a fu…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 12:06 AM
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Generalizations, generalizations So are you implying that we're not animals? We are. Are you implying nice people can't be "Alpha males?" They can. There's a huge difference between being nice and being a fucking doormat.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 12:01 AM
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Just be yourself. Talk about it like fucking adults. Share your feelings. Whenever I see someone give advice comprised of any of the above points, I assume they've never been in a relationship before, and if they have, they were left behind by past partners because they were fucking boring. You cannot negotiate desire.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 11:48 PM
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Honestly? I'd trust my SO anyways: just because its easier to cheat doesn't mean she would. That said, I would discuss it with her before hand and warn her that not only will it be easier, but people may pressure her into it. I can at least prepare her for it. Beta male hamstering in the works. All you've got to to is take a step back and ask yourself, "why does my girlfriend want to hang around a strip club?" Of all the places she could choose to be, she chooses to hang out at a strip club. Tha…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:32 PM
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6 - Human think it not animal, when it be.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 11:18 PM
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So my dog died, I am feeling sad as shit and I can't go hug her and cry my heart out. While her mind may tell her that you're grieving over the death of your dog, her body is telling a completely different story. I will have to find another person for that,is it? Male friends are great for this. relationship is a lot more complicated than simple alpha and beta stuff. Of course, AF/BB is just a way to simplify it. I do recommend you give that post I linked a read. It explains things a whole lot b…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:37 PM
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You are able to be emotionally intimate without showing weakness or vulnerability. The main idea is to become her emotional pillar that she can lean on. As a man, you are not allowed to do this. There is a double standard. Here is a relevant post on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 06:21 PM
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If u choose to get married and can't ever be vulnerable or emotional in front of ur wife,better stay single. People seek companionship. Spinning plates doesn't appeal to everyone. The sex life of a marriage is a very good indicator of how well things are working out. As much as we all wish it to be true, men and women were not biologically designed for monogamous marriages. Especially in our modern society, which is overly sensitive to females. Love is not everlasting by default. You can learn h…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 05:40 PM
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You are a man, you don't understand. It's not about self-worth or confidence. A woman being used by a big strong man has a very wet pussy.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:06 PM
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This was an interesting read. The comments are funny as well; talking about morality, and doing the right thing. He's been doing the right thing, and it failed on both marriages. Then this guy says, "fuck morality" and goes nuclear on the dread game. And it works. Morality takes no place in nature, likewise in human biology. Women would rather share an alpha, than have a beta to herself. OP, do you have a vasectomy? If she just happens to get pregnant, she will keep that baby no matter what you …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 03:48 PM
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It's littered with SRS and BP members. Because those people are the only ones they can actually recruit. Their mods posted a thread to TBP and I'm sure they did the same to SRS. Either they didn't bother posting one to TRP or they did and nobody gave a fuck because we know better. Some TRPers have tried posting relevant discussion and they get mindlessly downvoted even though it's against the subreddit's rules. I guess that kind of thing is bound to happen when most of your members have particip…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 05:10 PM
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Not at all. I meant the assumption that most women will end their relationship with an alpha simply for committing infidelity. Men and women view cheating differently. When a man cheats, his woman worries more about whether he's making an emotional connection to the other woman. When a woman cheats, her man worries more about whether she had sex and less about the emotional connection. Cheating by itself isn't alpha behavior, it's shitty behavior.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 11:41 PM
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That's a fairly ridiculous assumption and has nothing to do with RP. Yes it does. Women would rather share an alpha than have a beta to herself.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 11:01 PM
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I came to gain a greater understanding of your movement. How much material did you read on the sidebar? Don't lie to yourself. We. Are. Not. A. Movement. We are not striving to accomplish anything. We are simply a wealth of knowledge, where anyone can contribute. Our purpose is not to insult women, or dehumanize them. If it's your opinion that we do, then you're simply missing the point. I find the attitude toward women in this sub to be degrading We do not care about being politically correct. …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 07:39 PM
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It's so easy to tell when someone comes to TRP with a motive planned out. "Someone told me you're all bad people, so I spent 3 minutes here and I've come to the conclusion that you're all a group of..." What exactly do you seek to accomplish by posting here? Are you here to learn? Are you bored? Are you here for a stimulated intellectual conversation? Are you here to call us names? who shy away when asked to justify such views in real life. A comparison would be like attempting to explain to you…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 06:39 PM
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Is this for real...? I need feminism because I'm too weak You're in for a really shitty life if you need your wife to make the decisions, mommas boy. This is how I imagine typical male BluePillers. This kid was definitely raised by a single mother.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 02:05 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. People hear this quote all the time, but most don't realize how it explains the entire state of relationships in one sentence. Women use sex to secure commitment. Modern men have forgotten or lost the standard means to use commitment to secure sex. Our society makes this extremely hard for men to use commitment for security because she can just leave and take half your shit while the government ensures she maintains her sta…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:14 PM
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She doesn't deserve closure, and as a matter of principal it's always a good thing to leave those who have wronged you in a state of suffering. It just sets a good precedent. /thread If every man immediately cut contact with a woman that wronged him without giving her closure, that would associate pain with bad behavior. The world would be a better place.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 02:36 PM
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They want men to look at them, just not ugly men.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 02:28 PM
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I think you should try again. In my experience, when girls reject someone they usually try to avoid that person.
/r/askTRP04/07/14 02:23 PM
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Can I recover this relationship? You can always recover a relationship. Question is, is she worth it?
/r/askTRP04/07/14 12:36 AM
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The CC should be praised, promoted, and used to our advantage. I disagree for several reasons: Spreads STD's more often Even with condoms, there is still a risk. The bigger the carousel is, the faster STD's spread. Who knows though, with medical advancements, STD's may not pose a threat much longer. The more men that learn how to properly attract women, the more women are enticed into riding the CC This mainly affects people that want to settle down with a quality girl. If any women are quality …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:57 PM
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When you're sick, this is a good time to shit test her. If she doesn't make you soup, kick her ass to the curb. She should feel lucky you let her be the one to take care of your needs when you're sick.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:02 PM
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Shallow is just an adjective sensitive people use to take the blame off themselves and onto another person, so they can play the victim card for sympathy points instead of facing reality. If they don't find you attractive, then find someone who does. If nobody finds you attractive, fucking do something about it. You can also take the feminist approach and tell all your grill friends on social media, "IM BIG AND IM PROUD."
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 01:57 PM
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Men's Rights is a good example of this. They offered to change their views to be more politically correct for women (for whatever fucking reason) and they're still despised.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 08:11 PM
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I had a bad feeling you were about to go down on her after eating chipotle.
/r/ThankTRP02/07/14 06:10 PM
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I think you meant the anger has to run its course. It's the second of the five stages of grieving.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 11:20 PM
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"True love exists, but only with yourself." I like it.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 09:51 PM
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There is no message. We're just a community that contributes to it's own wealth of knowledge through self posted theories and field reports. We don't care what other people think of TRP. Either they swallow the pill, or they stick to their confirmation bias and choke on it. We're not responsible for their happiness.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 08:36 PM
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What the Red Pill strategy does is flip that power dynamic on its head. When it works, now it's the man who is in power and the woman who is suffering. My main beef with his entire argument. His premise is that women are "suffering" because their man now calls the shots. Is it really emotional abuse when you hold all the cards? He writes, "And it's damned effective in some cases. It'll get you what you want if you do it right" but he completely ignores why it works. Women love men, but they love…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 08:01 PM
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Psychology's general "five stages" model of the grieving process applies to TRP. Denial: "Women aren't like that! They're people just like everyone else! Treat them all as individuals, and you're sure to find the right one!" Anger: "WTF! Bitches are all like this! They have no honour, no loyalty, and they don't really love anyone but themselves! Fucking cunts!" Bargaining: "If I work real hard and learn all the pickup moves, then at least I'll get laid." Depression: "Getting laid by shallow, obn…
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:59 PM
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so it's basically 5 guys in a little more than 2 years. Five guys in a span of 24 months. That's basically one new guy every 5 months during her sexual prime. Take into consideration how easy it is for girls to get laid, her number is completely fine. IMO, any girl with a number less than ten shouldn't have her deciding factor be how many men she's been with. Every guy on TRP wishes he could have a girl with under two, but let's be real, those girls are as rare as unicorns. You've taken your RP …
/r/askTRP30/06/14 04:50 PM
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"Like nigga Im not gonna work out just to make you happy." Good luck living alone for the rest of your life. When you're 60 with them heart problems I bet you'll think differently. "Well he's a asshole" Yeah, because he declined sex from a previous FWB because she stopped caring about her body and became hideous. Such a asshole. Fat Gurl Power Squad. Hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 03:22 PM
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I appreciate the compliment and all, but those kind of statements should really be taken with a grain of salt. I've only come from oral once, and that was because she deepthroated. She's probably had a ton of practice.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 05:31 PM
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Her mentality is hilarious. He suggested that she fuck his friends because she probably came off as a huge slut. She has a different view of herself and assumes everything else has that same view. Actions speak louder than words, princess. I deserve to be respected The entitlement is real. It's my loss that i'm losing a great fuck buddy. It's good for me that i'm walking away from a shitty person. Translated to, "I lost my alpha cock and I can't get him be my beta cock so he's a shitty person." …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 08:58 AM
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In my mind a dumb girl you have to teach is better than a smart whore that is bitter and spiteful about past relationships and projects that onto you. That's what I needed to hear. The only thing that worries me about young women is that if you end up marrying them, they will always wonder what they might've missed out on. Fuckin' hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:41 PM
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It’s a trade off, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years. Reality hits hard. Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that’s what ‘keepers’ do. BluePillers gonna have a field day with that. Are you saying all par…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 05:51 PM
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Of every single post I've read about convicting someone for false rapes, the woman's body always mimics some type of whale. Makes me wonder how often the attractive ones are reporting false rapes and getting away with it.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 02:29 PM
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But there are people here that seem to legitimately hate women, whether it's them coming to terms with reality or they're just a dick, and they pop up in threads all the time. Denial: "Women aren't like that! They're people just like everyone else! Treat them all as individuals, and you're sure to find the right one!" Anger: "WTF! Bitches are all like this! They have no honour, no loyalty, and they don't really love anyone but themselves! Fucking cunts!" Bargaining: "If I work real hard and lear…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 11:25 PM
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If all men adopted redpill concepts and the "abundance mentality" that goes along with it, there'd be no such thing as rape anymore. You can almost hear the feminists' keyboard clacking after reading this. How dare men figure out that we're not all speshul snowflakes! My pussy is worth a lot dammit!
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:48 PM
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A prison sentence will put even more women off reporting, enabling even more attacks from violent men. ...or, bear with me, how about not reporting false rapes and changing people's lives negatively just to make yourself feel better about a bad decision? These women are disgusting. Will it ever end? I honestly fear for the future... feminism is a crazy bitch and it must be stopped.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 12:25 AM
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You words are always music to my eyes. Great read.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 12:19 AM
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Her father is just protective of his little girl. It's natural. It's actually a good thing for you because she had a good father figure in her life and that itself makes her a cut above the rest. He seems to like you so he will pass the torch on to you eventually. I'd just ignore it if it were me. Sex toys are usually pretty discreet by the way.
/r/askTRP26/06/14 05:55 PM
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I've been seeing posts inside TRP "Getting laid is all that matters..." I remember seeing that post but I can't seem to find it. Anyways, take every post with a grain of salt. TRP doesn't have a central belief system, it's a collection of knowledge. Not every post applies to you. That's part of the reason TRP reps a bad name, one RPer makes a post on another subreddit asking, "why it's bad to hate women", someone takes a screenshot and since one RPer doesn't know why, then all RPers must not kno…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:30 PM
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A woman who has enough self-awareness to control her instincts the way we try to control ours. Genuinely curious, is this possible?
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:18 PM
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2) TRP only helps you to get laid, not with LTRs I've never seen this. PUA is specifically for getting laid, TRP is specifically for LTRs. To elaborate, TRP shows you how females work the system so you can spot red flags and get the fuck out. It teaches you what shit tests are and how to pass them. You learn how to keep your girl attracted to you over the long term. 3) You can't communicate with women/You can't use women for emotional support When you seek emotional support from your girl you te…
/r/askTRP25/06/14 06:04 PM
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But I wonder if younger men just go "Wow! I've hit the motherlode!" I sure do. I'm 21 and if I hadn't discovered TRP until my mid-30's I probably would have been a slave to the legal system. Is it becoming easier to swallow the Red Pill, or is its bitterness still too much for most people, I wonder? With the feminist movement, it's definitely getting harder.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 02:22 PM
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I'm always interested to see how people change their mind about us and why. Slow process or radical turn around? One day they read a post about how TRP is a bunch of mysogynists and because it got upvotes, it must be true. Then one of three things happen: They notice how TRP makes sense. Their girl leaves them and they break so when they read TRP it really makes sense because the cognitive dissonance isn't there. They actually read the sidebar and realize the people against TRP either misunderst…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:39 PM
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(Monday) So just so you know and nothing happens that I'm not comfortable with. I love my boyfriend and would never do anything to hurt him ever. Neither of us are cheaters. So I don't mind if you get in bed next to me, it is your bed after all. But just remember that I'm not consenting to anything other than sharing a bed as friends. I just really thought I should say this so I don't get stuck in an awkward situation tomorrow morning and aren't brave enough to say it to your face. (Wednesday) w…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 01:36 PM
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It doesn't matter how you come off like. When you set boundaries like this, if she were to say something like, "oh now you're treating me like a dog." It doesn't matter even if you just gave her a doggie treat for telling that random guy she has a boyfriend, all you need to do is hold frame because that is just another shit test in itself. You're the man and your relationship has the greatest chance of success if you hold all the power. Put the power in her hands and shit will start to crumble. …
/r/askTRP25/06/14 12:14 PM
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The issue here is not that she's going out without you, it's where she's going without you. In your post, you detail, "I go to sporting events, house parties, music events, all sorts." You go to each of these events because they're fun. You don't go for female attention/validation. You go there to socialize, not hook up. However, when you let your girl go to a bar/club by herself, I don't care how you try to justify it, she has no business going there if she's already exclusive. You can have all…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:30 PM
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I'd like to add that this is the majority of cases simply because the men let their guard down and drop whatever frame they had. Being married is all the more reason to keep your frame stronger than ever. Marriages doesn't have to be a bad thing, but it's on you to make sure of that.
/r/askTRP24/06/14 09:31 AM
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It's not really asking. If she doesn't agree with it then she's gone. Betas ask, Alphas tell.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 11:45 PM
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Of course you should care. Making sure your partner had an orgasm is not BluePill mentality. Quite the opposite actually. Just don't focus too much on her that you forget about yourself. If I didn't make her come more than 5 times then I did something wrong, but that's me.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:33 PM
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so to say she cheated with me on her (at that time) boyfriend and gave me a blowjob the first night Ive been to her place. Your mistake was entering in a LTR with a person you know has committed infidelity. Just because she cheated with you doesn't mean she won't cheat on you. Get out. Now.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:22 PM
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It's pretty simple. "When you do X, it makes me uncomfortable, and it is not desirable behavior from someone I'm seeking an emotional connection with. I'm asking you to stop. If you don't, then we will no longer be exclusive because I'm not going to sit around waiting for you to make a mistake." One of the main TRP theologies is making sure that she knows you're allowing her to be in a LTR with you, not the usual other way around. If she can't respect your wishes, then you'll find someone who wi…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 09:08 PM
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I'm certainly not okay with a LTR going to a bar/club, even if it's every three months or so. She's in an exclusive relationship, she has no business there. With all of the alcohol and male attention, it's awful easy for her to "make a mistake." You need to set boundaries. Let her know that you trust her, but you don't trust alcohol and you're not okay with your girlfriend being surrounded by and dancing with horny drunk guys. It's a shit test. She's testing you to see what she can get away with…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 08:46 PM
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Less is more. Kissing is basically an orchestra with your mouth. You're not exploring a cave with your tongue. Don't worry if you embarrass yourself. It happens to everyone. If you make a mistake, laugh about it. If she makes a big deal about it then she's a cunt. After the kiss, just chill. Let things happen on their own.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 11:22 AM
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Let's see... Is sex easily available for women at a club? Yes. Is sex easily available for men at a brothel? Yes. I get your idea behind the analogy, but the big difference between a club and a brothel is that if a male goes to a brothel, you have to pay to fuck the slut. Lose-win. When a woman goes to a club, she gets validation, attention, drinks, and fucks for free. Win-win-win-win-win.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 07:11 AM
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I owned a Fleshlight in high school. When I went to college, I threw it away because I didn't want anyone to stumble upon it, plus I wanted the motivation to seek out pussy. Lately, I've been thinking about giving up on women, so to speak. When I discovered TRP, I realized that I didn't really have a need for women in my life. I don't have plans to start a LTR, or have kids. The only women that I hang out with are fuck buddies, that's it. Is there any reason I shouldn't buy a Fleshlight? Looking…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 09:56 AM
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My wife stays at home, watches our son, is pregnant with our next, and watches after our home. When I come home she's in heels, pearls, makeup, and a dress or skirt. She undoes my tie, sits on my lap, and we talk about our day. Every night a good dinner is on the table, and the house is clean. We have an active and regular sex life. This sounds reasonably normal, but it's not; most married men do not live like this. They are not respected. They do not have much, if any, sex. They complain, drink…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:42 AM
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So attempted murder ON A COP is okay, but only if you're a woman. What the fuck....
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:08 PM
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She never knows what she wants She can never decide things for herself She’ll flip a switch and go bat shit crazy over nonsense She constantly seeks validation and vies for attention She flakes She sends mixed signals AWALT. I wouldn't say they are red flags, the key is knowing how to handle these situations. For example, she doesn't know what she wants/can't decide for herself. Who cares. As a RedPill male, you should be making these decisions in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 11:59 PM
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I'm 100% convinced that the only happy + successful marriages are those with RedPill values. You will not keep a woman happy unless she's in the passenger seat. Thanks biology.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 01:09 AM
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I'm pretty sure age has a lot to do with it. Seeing a woman with a similar mindset at a young age is very, very rare, if it exists at all.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 12:52 AM
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But not smart enough to stay away from a single mom. Better late than never I guess.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 12:49 AM
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It's never too late. There's always something you can do brother.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:50 AM
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TRP especially works for marriages. These are my favorite kind of posts.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:55 AM
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but it's not a world I want to live in It really sucks, but you do. It's not about not having trust in anyone. It's about keeping an eye on things as opposed to walking around blind.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:07 PM
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It takes people like you to submit marriage-related RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:50 AM
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Here is what some people get wrong: the redpill is not just for those who want to chase tons of women and be a manipulative PUA, it is not just for those who want to spin plates, but also essential for those who wish to have traditional long term relationships too. For a man to be happy and have successful relationships with women, both short and long term, redpill ideas are so important ... essential stuff to get your head around. If people understood this, /r/TheRedPill would have quite a few …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 01:36 AM
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This is a shit test by your girlfriend to you under the false premise that you remain true to your word but she actually wants you to validate shitty behavior. If this were me, I'd tell my GF that I had time to rethink the situation, and that I'm telling him face-to-face that his wife is cheating on him. If she has a problem with it, then it just proves she's okay with dishonesty and infidelity. Call her out on her shit. If she ends the relationship, then you've dodged a bullet. The logic that i…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:12 PM
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#5. They Prey on the Insecure (With Misdirection) They disagree with the fundamental beliefs of TRP because it points out the hidden nature of women, and how to manipulate the system to their advantage. After being subscribed to TRP for a few months, I know what I have to do to find a quality mate, and how to keep her around. It's a win-win for everyone but people tend to hate what they don't understand. If I don't see a certain woman as relationship material, I let her know that I keep her arou…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 04:57 AM
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Look at it this way: asking us to respond to this article is like asking /r/atheism to disprove a God. We simply don't have to and even if we tried to, no answer would be good enough. Plus apparently you guys frown on people who aren't 'part of your community' participating in discussion. Not true. If anyone posts here that's not a 'part of the community', they're only here for argumentative purposes so they can link our responses to SRS or TwoX. If you're trying to get information on something …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:34 AM
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They (attractive males) just toss her aside because they have options, not because they exhibit "redpill" characteristics. When you're an attractive male and you know you have options, you will naturally exhibit redpill behavior.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:16 AM
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I swallowed TRP because of a post like this. It's always interesting to read how RedPill changes marriages.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 05:34 PM
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That was dumb.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 09:07 PM
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I'll just leave one of my favourite quotes here: "everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler". Lmao. It doesn't matter how simple or complex your points are, she's gonna hamst either way.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 09:03 AM
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If she asks where you went, say you went to fuck another girl. There's no way in the seven hells she won't fuck you now.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:10 AM
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But most will tell you "no, I want it gentle with little kisses and butterflies and bla bla bla". I've had a lot of success starting very, very, gentle, then whenever I decide foreplay is over, switch to rough with zero warning. I've had women tell me that its like someone flipped a switch and I turned into an animal. I do this every time I have sex and they LOVE it. What's the surprise party theory?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:57 AM
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She does like him. A lot. And the best part is that she doesn't know why.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 11:25 PM
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