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Tokemoke/r/seduction31/08/15 05:37 PM
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It’s basically the only advantage they have in this world.
/r/seduction17/10/24 07:07 PM
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You can’t wait for everything to be ok to live your life.
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:17 PM
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Practice. I feel the same way with girls. You have to take a risk and it will feel awkward but you have to be the one to take it there. I used to be bad at getting flirty with girls I like but I’ve had enough awkward experiences to realize it’s not the end of the world if she doesn’t like me. You are a girl so you will actually have a much lower chance of rejection. Good luck out there.
/r/seduction16/06/20 12:48 AM
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Look dude I’m not trying to start a flaming war with some random internet guy. I saw myself in OPs post and remember what my options were 1. Continue to piss and moan while sitting on the sidelines or 2. Take action no matter which way or how. Which option would you pick hun? Ya that’s what I thought. Too many ppl on here mentally masturbate and don’t put themselves out there.
/r/seduction06/02/20 09:18 PM
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Yes but not as hard as you think. Don’t put any pressure on yourself, if it goes bad don’t beat yourself up. Say what you want to say and make the interaction fun for you. Girls like it when guys talk to them. Get after it dude!
/r/seduction31/01/20 10:47 PM
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You are overthinking and being a pussy. I’m not gonna coddle you bro. You want to get pussy you have to approach. Your first approach will probably be shit but it also might not be. It takes time to get good at this. Although everyone here likes to belief you go out once and mumble your way through a few interactions and now you become a pussy magnet. Not the case, you gotta rewrite all that negative programming and it’s not easy. Just like the Wayne Gretzky quote right?
/r/seduction31/01/20 06:26 PM
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If anyone is rude to you it’s their fault not yours. She was probably just having a bad night or is a sociopath because she wants to feel good by making some guy feel bad. In either case you don’t want her. Don’t worry about it, that behaviour will be punished out of her over time. Not all girls in America and Canada are bitches, don’t get me wrong a lot of women here are low quality/ bad attitude/ fat/ ugly but don’t concern yourself with them. There are lots of amazing girls out there it’s jus…
/r/seduction30/01/20 06:26 PM
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Slide into those dm’s bro. What’s the worst that could happen - no response? What’s the best that could happen - Meet your soulmate/ future wife?
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:47 AM
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It was really nice reading this. You are lucky your old man is a G. I remember asking my dad for advice about women and inner game but he wasn’t too good with women back in the day (lol).
/r/seduction10/12/19 10:25 AM
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I am a man but have been told by ex girlfriends that I am like a cat. I love both dogs and cats, I also have a dog as a pet.
/r/seduction06/12/19 06:33 PM
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I think she likes you dude or is just bat shit crazy. Both are possible.
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:55 AM
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Honestly I would rather have her ghost. In my opinion it is the most honest and non abrasive way to tell someone you aren’t interested. I have ghosted girls as well because I didn’t want to hurt her feelings by telling her I wasn’t interested.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:04 AM
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Ok so you are speaking only from your EXTREMELY limited perspective and experience. Fact of the matter is I have approached many girls and while I have been rejected a lot I have also had some success. I don’t really expect you to understand what I am about to explain because as different genders we inherently face different challenges in the dating game. As a man who has been shy and awkward for most of his life and had horrible luck with dating and women just up until recent. Men are expected …
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:54 PM
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Nah man. I’m referring to the Charles Bukowski looking mofos. Ever read the book called Women?
/r/seduction31/10/19 07:29 PM
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I bet there are fat ugly guys who are sluts. I would love to meet a man like that and hear his stories. Would be very inspiring lol
/r/seduction31/10/19 06:01 PM
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Nice one
/r/seduction31/10/19 11:45 AM
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I actually haven’t been to the humane society in ages. Will have to check it out.
/r/seduction28/10/19 12:12 PM
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They don’t have puppies at pet smart. Only cats and rodent like creatures. Who honestly takes a date to SPCA though. Not knocking your strategy but really?
/r/seduction28/10/19 09:44 AM
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Where the hell are there puppy shops? Lol I live in Canada.
/r/seduction28/10/19 06:04 AM
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Dude why are you being so negative. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe your beliefs are the reason you are not getting these dime piece girls? Let me ask you what do you think gets more pussy?: a) The guy that is a 7/10 but believes he isn’t worthy of a girls time? OR b) The guy that is a 5/10 but believes that he is the shit? I’ll give you a hint honey. It’s not a). There are lots of hot guys that act like total fucking chodes around hotties. I could give you numerous examples where my atti…
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:22 PM
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Don’t beat yourself up dude. She goes to your gym, there is always another time. At least you broke the ice kind of and next time you see her, you can nod and say hi, maybe chat her up for a bit.
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:20 PM
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What book is this from?
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:40 PM
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Dude all it takes is just asking for the number. You could have talked to the girl for less than a minute and still got her number. The sooner you take these chances the sooner you will up the ante so to speak.
/r/seduction10/10/19 08:30 AM
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If it is then it works haha I’m gonna call a girl out next time I get called bro
/r/seduction10/10/19 08:26 AM
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It annoys me very much when girls call me bro.
/r/seduction10/10/19 05:18 AM
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I got a good one for you. Toughest rejection: So I just stopped in at a Shoppers Drug Mart after hitting the gym. I always buy a litre of chocolate milk after a workout. While walking in the store, I catch a glimpse of this skinny blonde girl sauntering through the store. She was with her friend. Initially I didn’t approach in the store and I just thought to myself; forget it. Fast forward to after I pay and leave. Walking to my car I see the two girls and I think to myself: Fuck it. I ran up on…
/r/seduction30/09/19 11:58 PM
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I’m sure you are correct in some respects but from my own personal experiences I have witnessed too many 2 and 3 sets of girls just sitting there looking bored or hopping around on the dance floor; they all had sparks in their eyes after I approached and the interactions were fun and positive. Shit I’ve gotten laid from approaching groups of girls There are nuances to this game we play after all. Can’t go speaking in absolutes.
/r/seduction30/09/19 04:38 PM
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So...are you a chick? Lol
/r/seduction30/09/19 04:11 PM
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I feel like a boss playa approaching sets of 2+ girls. The way I think of it is: Did these girls really get all dolled up to dance around in a circle by themselves? - Fuck No! They came out to get hit on by guys. You gotta keep talking after the open. I would say that groups are even easier than a single girl because the awkward silences will be filled by each member of group. Just gotta get to the sweet social hook point.
/r/seduction29/09/19 03:45 PM
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Look good. Feel good. Game good.
/r/seduction24/09/19 01:03 AM
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Tinder and other online dating apps are for the bottom feeders. Cold approach ftw
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:42 PM
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Props dude. Nice work
/r/seduction17/07/19 06:30 PM
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Practice. You have to fail in order to know what not to do and how to push the envelope. Try being subtle at first and then gradually escalate but try not to compliment too much. Holding eye contact. Establishing touch. Be playful. Just a few things you could start on.
/r/seduction11/07/19 07:47 PM
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It’s a hostile world out there for men trying to improve their dating life. Women have problems too no denying it but often times it feels as though society tries to put its foot down whenever you stray too far from the norm.
/r/seduction03/07/19 04:59 AM
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Approach anyways. Your first approach will never be good but sometimes it will be. You are not trying to be perfect. I’ve gotten girls interested in me walking up a nervous wreck. Build momentum rather than being analytical.
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:28 PM
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Not in the way that you think
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:26 PM
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Objectively to who? You? There are lots of attractive women who go with total fucking nerds (no disrespect nerdy people). You don’t know what she likes what if you are the exact type of guy she is looking for? But because you did not approach she settles for one of these other guys and 2 years later they start and end a relationship an blah blah so on and so forth. Go for it you are overthinking this.
/r/seduction12/06/19 09:38 PM
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Good for you man. I know how that is. Life is hard sometimes and it is easy to get into a rut when things aren’t going your way. I hope you are doing well.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:21 PM
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He did but he was always depressed. Even after he beat Klitschko.
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:35 PM
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Some days are better than others. I find the pain from loneliness basically cancels out approach anxiety. I approach WAY more now than ever before. I once read somewhere, “the world does not give a person all this pain and say well that’s it! You have to choose what you do with the pain. You can either let the pain elevate you or destroy you”
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:07 PM
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Exactly, I find with me the girls that come to me are never the ones I want. You have to be the master of your own destiny if you are a man and want to have a bomb dating life. We have to maximize our potential which inevitably leads to a lot of rejection. There have actually been times in the club where I wasn’t feeling it and was off in the corner while some average guy has literally been dancing, having fun and making out with girls left and right. I have to work on improving my mind now. Bod…
/r/seduction23/04/19 11:01 PM
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Won’t get you laid. I work out hard 4 times a week and do yoga once a week. I am in amazing physical condition. If you are in a bad place I respect you and hope that you feel good soon. I’ve been there. I’m going through it right now. Contrary to popular belief. You can be in amazing shape and still be depressed just look at the boxer, Tyson Fury. Exercise is positive but in order to get pussy you have to go after it. Indirect ways are futile in my experience. In my opinion, the core cause of so…
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:28 PM
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Low self esteem. A lot of women have it. I wouldn’t worry about it. Move on. If a woman cannot accept a genuine compliment that is a HUGE red flag. She would probably be the type to kill you in your sleep or case your house or something. Some women are damaged goods and it’s really too bad but you have to look out for and protect yourself as a man at the end of the day. You don’t want anything to do with someone like that. I’ve been there.
/r/seduction23/04/19 06:20 PM
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“Hello I thought you were attractive, my name is...” and keep talking after that until she slowly starts reciprocating interest, if she does at all.
/r/seduction31/03/19 12:34 PM
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Good job, love hearing stories like this. It reminds me of an RSD video in which Tyler describes the grind of the game; if you really stick with it you may not get laid immediately but the universe will throw you these small cookies to reward you for your efforts. Maybe you have levelled up. Yesterday I went out day gaming and I’ve been really depressed and anxious lately going through a bit of a dark period. First girl I approach doesn’t go to well. She wasn’t feeling me haha but as I left her …
/r/seduction31/03/19 11:12 AM
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It’s tough out there. Women don’t respect men anymore. I feel as though women look at us as bumbling idiots because that’s how we are portrayed on television shows and movies. I find this extremely offensive. I have seen YouTube videos where an interviewer asks women, “What do women do better than men?” And “what do men do better than women?” All of the women went on for days about what women do better than men while few could come up with anything that men do better than women (critical thinkin…
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:44 AM
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Dump your girlfriend. Forget about the guy, for all you know she could have lied to him and said she was single or even if she did tell him what’s done is done. There is no positive outcome that can result from you trying to contact this guy. It would be a waste of time.
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:41 PM
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Well done
/r/seduction30/01/19 09:42 AM
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Dominant basically means to talk with a LOUD voice, act slightly dickish towards other women and men. Call them out if what you think they are doing is shady or stupid. There are probably better words to describe it than this but since adopting this behaviour I have noticed women look at me a lot differently. Dominant in the bedroom means experienced, at least that what I take it as. I remember when I was first starting out and not very experienced I hooked up with a girl from my social circle a…
/r/seduction23/01/19 05:55 PM
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That’s awesome. You are a rare find for sure. Wish you the best.
/r/seduction28/12/18 01:40 AM
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Can’t say for myself because I don’t use tinder but I have had friends who use the app and describe a MAJOR difference between paid and unpaid version.
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:57 PM
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Everyone is special in their own way. You are special. Stop giving people the ability to control your self worth. Women are human just like us, they have insecurities and problems as well.
/r/seduction26/12/18 05:53 PM
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Don’t feel bad. Don’t feel ashamed. I was a 19 year old virgin at one point. If your friend got laid that means there is hope for you to.
/r/seduction24/12/18 12:41 PM
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Stop overthinking just do it. You are probably not as socially retarded as you think. You want pussy don’t you? Don’t be afraid to be direct, usually it’s when you pitter patter and day some dumb shit like “Oh would you happen to know the time? And by the way you’re really pretty!” that will cause you to lose her.
/r/seduction20/12/18 06:15 AM
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You can’t predict how these things play out. It had nothing to do with you. Props to your friend for having your back though I’ve had friends stab me in the back over stuff like this. I would stop texting that girl. Pursue more than one girl.
/r/seduction20/12/18 06:11 AM
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Get out more. Put yourself in more social situations. You will realize that there is no need to be so serious and that most people are really just looking to be heard and want to feel important. I used to be similar.
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:40 AM
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Have fun dude. That’s it. Don’t put pressure on yourself. Dating is a two way street, she is probably just as nervous as you. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:39 AM
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I haven’t ever hooked up with a woman who is ALOT older than me (like 7+ years) but from occasionally encountering them from time to time they seem much more mature and straight forward about what the want. Younger girls tend to bullshit you a lot like flaking or giving out their number/ hooking up just because they are bored and want attention.
/r/seduction12/12/18 02:13 PM
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I appreciate your willingness to give advice. Do you get approached by men during the daytime (romantically) How do you feel when you are approached by men?
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:47 AM
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Everyone has things that they are good or bad at but the truth is no one cares that you may suck with girls. People who were always social and had good associations with socializing and making friends seem other worldly. I know your pain I find myself there from time to time. You have to keep going. It fucking sucks but the other alternative is to stay bitter and miserable. You probably have a lot of things going for you. It just doesn’t seem apparent because you are taking on an endeavour you a…
/r/seduction12/10/18 04:55 PM
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This is so true. I think maybe it has to do with the potential of slut shaming. I only get called handsome in person by elderly women. Whatever though, I’ll take any compliments I can get haha
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:01 PM
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Maybe start carrying a gun or pepper spray? Not really sure what you are trying to accomplish by posting on this sub. Women have to deal with a lot of bullshit from men, I understand that and empathize deeply because it shouldn’t be this way in 2018. This group is for self improvement and positivity. Dating is tough, approaching random women on the street takes courage. Especially nowadays when the world tries to make you out as a predator for trying to start a conversation with a pretty girl.
/r/seduction22/09/18 02:02 PM
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I can’t be friends with women I am attracted to.
/r/seduction21/08/18 02:00 PM
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I would lose her number. I don’t date broke bitches lol
/r/seduction21/08/18 01:57 PM
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Then invite her to your place to “watch a movie”
/r/seduction22/07/18 07:55 PM
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Who cares about politeness? Girls at the club will blatantly ignore you, some women you approach during the day will refuse to give you their name because you are a strange random man. Fuck it run away, they would do the same to you given the chance. Don’t waste time.
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:36 PM
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I would lay back a bit. Get talking to some other girls. Wait for her to engage you.
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:33 PM
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Women that I approach compliment me if they like me. I would say I have definitely been getting them from women more often within the last couple years since taking a more proactive involvement in game. I am a gym rat but most of the compliments I get are from other dudes sadly lol.
/r/seduction21/06/18 12:39 AM
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Chin up dude. I would have nexted her after she said she wasnt looking for anything. Good on you for trying, it sounds like that girl is an idiot anyways.
/r/seduction11/04/18 10:18 PM
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I still get bogged down by these limiting beliefs. Thank you for making this post.
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:07 PM
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I prefer to think of Tinder as a dating platform for the bottom feeders of the interwebz.
/r/seduction10/04/18 01:40 PM
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I love reading posts like this.
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:20 PM
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just go for it, if she moves away but doesnt leave you she is still interested, it just wasnt the right time. As long as you don't full on mouth rape her she will still hang around if she is interested in you.
/r/seduction05/04/18 02:04 PM
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People come to this section to find real advice about dating and improving their relationships with women. You are a little girl with no real life experience. I wonder what possessed you to think that you are in a position to give any kind of advise on this subject. I hope the backlash you get from this post will encourage you to be more intelligent with your posts in future.
/r/seduction03/04/18 08:28 PM
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Sounds about right.
/r/seduction03/04/18 02:22 PM
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So many of you post on here with the same information, like you know all the answers. Truth is you probably have no idea about the hurdles a socially awkward guy has to overcome and the pain that goes along with improving and changing. To be honest I would be surprised if you have ever done anything remotely bold like approach a stranger you were attracted to or hang in there on a dying conversation just to turn it around and get the reference experience. You have no idea of the male perspective…
/r/seduction03/04/18 09:43 AM
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bravo
/r/seduction14/03/18 06:50 PM
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I been there dude. Good luck, you will be amazed at what can happen when you get after it.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:18 PM
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change your attitude. I really only started seeing real results at 26 because I stopped caring and went for it. I am 28. Chatting up women on the street in broad daylight is a gift to both you and the women you approach or go to clubs if you like. You have tons of time dude.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:15 PM
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go for what YOU want dude, reject the less attractive girl who gives a fuck? Do you think if the situations were reversed that she would think twice? nah.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:11 PM
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This mysterious vibe thing is a myth. You have to take action. You know what people find mysterious? a guy who is flying solo but can work a whole venue or even just be friendly with everyone because 99% of most people are incapable of being that free.
/r/seduction09/03/18 05:07 PM
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I had recently moved to a new city and I was walking around the main strip on a Saturday afternoon. I had already approached a few girls when I saw this tall blonde girl in a summer dress. I walked up to her and startef chatting her up. Turns out she was visiting from out of town by herself. I told her I thought she was attractive in between small talk and getting to know her. She asked if I wanted to hang out. We ended up going on a ferry ride to the island, explored downtown and ate at a nice …
/r/seduction16/01/18 07:38 PM
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My train of thought has always been to show respect to women. Even in the rare instance where a girl is rude to me I will not say anything negative to her. There is enough negative energy in the world. In my opinion, having a code that you live by is one of the defining traits of a man. Relating to your question I also have friends who will hook up with a girl any way, any how. For myself I have rejected girls who tried to get with me because something about their personality just rubbed me the …
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:39 PM
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Just go for it and quit being passive. Attraction happens in seconds not over months and weeks. Pull the trigger before someone else gets in there. At the very least you will feel good that you did.
/r/seduction10/11/17 01:56 PM
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I'm just learning this myself but having some solid female friends are nice for social proof and networking. If you meet a cool group of guys now you have some girls that you can bring to parties and events and give to them as a gift lmao.
/r/seduction18/09/17 11:59 PM
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Potentially. It is better to get rejected right off the bat than wasting your time on a girl that isnt interested.
/r/seduction18/09/17 11:33 PM
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Declare your intentions early on, you will save alot of time.
/r/seduction18/09/17 11:19 PM
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Go out to events hosted by your school. As a girl just by putting yourself in social situations should result in you meeting more guys. If you really want to be proactive try chatting up any guys you like. Since you are a woman you basically have a very small chance of getting rejected and the guy will most likely do all the work.
/r/seduction24/07/17 04:40 PM
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Stop being a pussy. Start lifting. Approach every girl you find attractive. Anywhere. Anytime. The solution is easy but I doubt you will follow through
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:35 PM
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I average about 30+ a week. 4-5 each day during the week and 10+ on Saturday and Sunday. There have been times I have been driving home from work and seen a cutie walking down the street and have literally pulled over to step to her. I have really just ramped it up to these numbers over the last month.
/r/seduction21/07/17 04:29 PM
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I try very often but I am at a stage where alot of rejection and flakey numbers occur frequently. It's nice to hear success stories. It inspires to what is truly possible in this crazy world we live in. I've had successes as well but I like hearing about other ppls stories.
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:28 PM
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So true.
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:26 PM
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It's because white girls put out lmao
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:24 PM
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It's posts like this that really ignite my ire. Keep on living the dream bro.
/r/seduction19/07/17 04:18 PM
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This is a great post. Cuts to the bone for a novice like myself.
/r/seduction18/07/17 04:33 PM
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