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having a fat gf is better than having no gf having a fat/skinny/anything gf that you're not into is worse than having no gf what do you want if you like her keep her, if you don't dump her, but if you're basing it on judgment of your fucking neighbor then you deserve all the shit you're getting either way
/r/askTRP11/12/20 03:44 AM
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currently on the front page as we speak https://imgur.com/a/L9WA4nu
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 09:40 AM
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The more I read your comments, the more I realize the issue is with me. Thanks guys.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:25 AM
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I'm not tall. In fact, I'm short for my country standards. But blessed with a pretty face though either way, unlimited pussy will not get you happy
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:24 AM
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- I likeyour dog! - Yeah he's a little cuddly piece of shit, I love him.. come get to know us in a nutshell
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:23 AM
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I'm really not And to tell you the truth, my subjective feeling is like I slept with 4 women in total If I haven't made a list of all the women I've had sex I would nearly forgot about them. Sometimes I go over this list of names and I swear to god, I can't even remember who these girls are. I don't feel like someone who slept with 80 women
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:22 AM
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lol, made me laugh
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:18 AM
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I swear to god it became 100% more enjoyable to just jerk off than to fuck any women
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:13 AM
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exactly women will not fuck me because of a dog, but it's easier to break ice and proceed eventually to sexting or inviting over
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:10 AM
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I mean, it's easier to catch attention and start the talk In a sea of "hey" messages they're getting, pets do attract more interesting attention
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:10 AM
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well english is not my native language, but thanks for that
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:08 AM
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I feel like I experience your comment as well, but never was able to put it into some real words. Thanks for this. Very good advice.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:06 AM
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I was better at sex with the first half of those women than with second, slowly progressed into me feeling like I’m fucking a piece of meat Which kinda brought me to this whole thread
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:29 AM
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either not attractive enough or series of bad mental behavior and characteristics
/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:11 AM
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they didn’t want more (the ones that I wanted) used me as dildo mostly
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:52 AM
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I wonder, how many red pillers do you think are actually Oreos? Me first. And I’m not afraid to admit it. I’m a beta in disguise mimicking alpha. Due to poor upbringing with pussy father and manipulative dominant mother I was very much pathetic most of my life until I cut it all and started working on myself, and stoped treating women like Disney princesses along the way imagining what OP described, that fantasy family life in future. I’m basically trying to do what alphas are naturally doing an…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 05:27 PM
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take my dog for a walk and see if I can meet someone, everyone wants to pet a cute dog
/r/askTRP24/09/20 01:17 AM
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do whatever you feel like doing and she will follow you still don’t understand how much they don’t give a fuck initially
/r/askTRP23/09/20 08:43 AM
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that's very true, but every guy from here should try this, just to get that dimension how much your first comment is true and how much unknown men are expendable, until someone actually experience and feel this, it's very hard to imagine and believe: "...that pussy has intrinsic value and dick does not on a fuck strangers app"
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 01:35 AM
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Oh yeah, if you want any insight how much men are expendable, make a fake tinder profile, with like HB7, not too much, not too ugly either. By the time you go to editing your profile you'll have like 25+ likes. And that's only on surface. Imagine all other apps combined. And you'll get idea how much women are swimming in abundance mentality and what they really need is quality man edit: also, another important thing you might learn from this experience, men in general (on tinder) are either beat…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 12:02 AM
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Thiw might be the best post on reddit
/r/askTRP13/09/20 06:03 PM
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Oh yeah, happened to me a few times It's some retarded female logic that doesn't really work and leave us both unfulfilled. Funny thing is, one of those girls was actually very likable and I did wanted more of her, but ironically her attempt to get me into relationship with refusing to do oral ( until we date she said explicitly) made me lose any respect for her, firstly it shows some serious calculations and manipulation from the very beginning that I despise, and second, c'mon it's so freaking…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 03:04 AM
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It depends, are they friends (part of the group) or not. If not, woman can be to other woman biggest enemy and they're highly competitive to get the best man. On the other hand if they're part of same group, what women do is actually extremely smart thing to do which is managing neediness and something that Franco wrote about So to manage neediness you gotta give the brain it´s dose of good social contact in a managed way. Women do this instinctively all the time. Go out to the town and look aro…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 03:17 PM
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This is my main problem as well. I think I'm not providing that real connection anymore as I used to, I was very blue pill, actually I'm still beta in disguise mimicking alpha. So once in awhile comes girl that I actually want to see more after sex, and I'm failing with every single one. I become so bold when it comes to sex, to the point that I'm filtering or polarizing girls very soon, eventually they come to my place, we have sex, but it's mostly performance sex, I'm not enjoying that much, s…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 10:11 PM
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http://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:52 PM
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Because highs are high and lows are dangerous and very low. It's hot now when everything's cool, but try to imagine that one of you is sick of each other (more importantly if she decides to fuck you over somehow) and what would consequences be? Is your business and career gonna suffer? You might lose her as a client, or maybe they just get rid of you. Do you have boss or superiors, heck, even peer colleagues that would look at you negatively? If not fired, would it be difficult for you to advanc…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:30 PM
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also, if his dick is getting MORE attention but still feels off
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:30 PM
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I was just the other day thinking about Pacho’s shirts ( there’s even a store dedicated to them ), while you’re right about that, it is really hard to pull that off in real life, it works in shows with brutal and good looking actors that we’re admiring and know so much context about. If someone’s gonna look like that he has to fully commit to that look, with 100% of confidence, someone on TheRedPill did write about peacocking and attention grabbing with clothes and that it absolutely works (edit…
/r/askTRP30/08/20 01:10 PM
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google?
/r/askTRP29/08/20 09:26 PM
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Men are notoriously bad at taking compliments, we're not really used to them to the amount that girls are having all their life but yeah, simple thanks works
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 01:57 PM
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yep
/r/askTRP29/08/20 01:36 PM
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can’t make links here -667k just google sense of pride reddit
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:36 AM
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Other guys already told you what you needed to hear, you are basically needy and invested as fuck, so I’m not gonna repeat them, but rather talk about different approach If you’re not lying and you’re making that kind of money that you’re mentioning in comments, let that money works for you. Be a little on the douchbag side (but not a complete douchebag) showing rich full lifestyle on ig, take some trips to attractive locations, have fun in good cars listening some music, get a pet. The idea is …
/r/askTRP29/08/20 10:10 AM
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to quote the most downvoted comment on reddit histroy: The intent is to provide players with a sense of pride and accomplishment.. But jokes aside, for real you get a lot better feeling with that sense of achievement when you manage to bed a girl than when you just pay for a hooker. Even if it comes to just plain mechanical sex it's a better sex usually. And for me it's not all about sex 'cause I have it relatively in abundance.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 08:50 AM
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wat
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:28 AM
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immature and unmanly at best, but just autistic otherwise we as man can not afford this type of behavior, it makes us look weak
/r/askTRP28/08/20 03:00 AM
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fuck her good, keep away emotional investment by being playful and fun, eventually she might look for more it’s the only way, and one way street, doesn’t work the other way around
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 06:25 AM
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so many relationships i fucked up the same way when I was younger it’s what they do really
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:03 PM
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for sure, it’s mostly the men who are doing it if you play it right, she’s either gonna fuck you or reject you, as it is should be
/r/askTRP23/08/20 11:01 PM
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well depens on which side you’re on I’m fucking them when they hit me up, if it’s not me it would be someone else but if you’re that poor guy boyfriend, be very careful how much you actually invest emotionally qnd never go with some sappy cringy bullshit, cause you can easily turn put to be a complete fool
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:59 PM
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haha, I wasn’t into her in anything more than sex and made it as a rule from the start later on I found about how much she was into me, like crazy level but that’s not the point, point is she’s giving me one treatment and other tp the other guy that’s not taking actions point is about female dual mating strategy
/r/askTRP23/08/20 10:54 PM
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yeah, I like it when they're sucking my fingers and looking me in the eyes it's authentic feeling and turn on
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 09:00 AM
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Dude, all of them are sluts. If it's the right guy for sex And all of them have a hoe phase. Don't be fooled by sweet innocent "oh I just don't sleep on a first date" crap or "I didn't had sex in like XY years", it's all a lie. Only difference is if they're having some insane n-count. You will never find a unicorn, because they don't exist.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:30 AM
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Been there done that. I bet most of us have. On tinder, at least in my country, if she's any 8+ hot she's either an alpha widow or a girl who is secretly chasing some guy in background, and only want sex and to use some fucker from tinder as a dildo in the meantime for a quick fun and stress release. Otherwise 8+ don't usually hang out on tinder to find relationship Don't be too hard on yourself, this is what they do, women, it's only natural that you develop feelings over time. Most people here…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 06:48 AM
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I think you're very much right How do I stop myself from doing this and still get what I want? Cause I clearly want the girl and have to initiate. If I just say to myself stop this, I think I would calculate those texts even more.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 02:26 AM
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That makes sense
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:48 AM
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I think it would not matter, since it’s situational and not copy pasting same content like a robot. I think it’s the attitude. I’ve explained it better in my other comment what he does
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:46 AM
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yeah my problem exactly, I’m mimicking alpha irl to some degree successfully, but fuck it up with text with overthinking and sending some stupid shit my friend is cute and that’s as far as it goes for a look, but his biggest advantage is having decade old relationship and understanding the women’s emotions perfectly, it also probably helps that he already has a women home and he’s not actually thirsty for sex but just to KNOW someone, girls are magnetically attracted to him via phone. To the poi…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:36 AM
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oh yeah that’s me fucked up this way just last week
/r/askTRP18/08/20 10:35 AM
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how?
/r/askTRP18/08/20 05:44 AM
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by knowing that we all got played at some point of our lives, most of us sooner some later, the only men who never got played and hurted are ones who never had girls It's a lesson, we all went trough it, not a stigma that should cripple you for life
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:12 AM
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I truly believe it should be one of the pillars of TRP so many good plates broken (prematurely) and relationships fucked up because I couldn’t keep my mouth shut All I was signaling is that I’m a bitchy drama beta boy who can’t keep his emotions in check
/r/askTRP01/08/20 02:34 AM
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Females are not beta by nature, women have natural abundance by default, females are females
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 01:01 AM
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fuck her even harder, that’s how you should repay her otherwise unless she goes for it don’t change anything, business as usual. You’re developing fear that you’re gonna lose her, that’s a step from oneitis, in case you being tested known as pull back, don’t panic and lose your frame best thing I’ve heard on TRP that I wish someone told me earlier in my life: Drink your cup of STFU Wash it down with some more STFU And don’t forget to STFU
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:27 PM
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well unless you expect magical spell from us here that would lengthen your legs, there’s not much besides lift and be aloof in approaching while having fun edit: being short is not your only problem you’re also fat and lazy
/r/askTRP31/07/20 04:52 PM
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makes sense
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 11:13 PM
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We at the main TRP (for men) are more like “We are not your army, TRP is not your support group” Is that because of the differences between men and women, or is some sub more right about this?
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/20 07:16 PM
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if she says she’s not looking for a relationship, that means she doesn’t want a relationship with YOU if she’s unusually nice to you initially, some fuckery is happening that you don’t know about if she's more or less chasing you and you can't find any reasonable reason why is she so magnetically attracted to you and persistent other than it's just happening, you should turn on the the warning lights in your head 'cause it's an illusion If she’s presenting you to the world very soon, you’re bein…
/r/askTRP25/07/20 01:23 AM
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oh yeah, I understand and agree what you’re saying but what was I talking about I think women can KNOW for example that her man is powerful outside of bed, let’s say he’s powerful ceo, or some beast athlete, I dunno, some type of power, but if the same man has a Mommy kink she’s repulsed to the point that she will not entertain an idea of that as fun
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 11:35 PM
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Not to judge your personal preference, but it’s interesting how much “Daddy” fetish is common and popular, so many young girls called me that and like to be handed that way, but the exact same opposite is apparently a huge turn-off for majority of women, I guess because they see a guy now as weak, regardless of his status and power outside of the bed
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/20 09:14 PM
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because gays are usually more promiscuous and she usually isn’t judged by them You sucked 5 dicks this week? You go girl! it’s usually girls who has mostly male friends, for the same reason, and because other female friends are “too much drama” ( usually they themselves are the source of 90% of that drama ), when you’re hoeing other female friends are first to judge you because they don’t want to be with a dirty slut and some fear to not take their boyfriend Male friends, orbiters are different …
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:18 PM
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I mean you can always fight him if you’re not a pussy but in a long run it’s gonna turn out the same as in a short run, you’ve gonna lose her ‘cause you are not prepared to walk alway from her, you will never hold her this way
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:29 AM
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I did not, except few kisses if that counts because I’m a beta in disguise mimicking alpha and crave too keep a monogamous relationship when i’m in one
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:19 AM
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you’re right, but sometimes they’re not exactly low confidence it more that their below average gf is lifting their ego and worshiping them like gods, there’s too much work with 8+ you can forget about shit-tests and just enjoy the ego high
/r/askTRP22/07/20 02:13 AM
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good call
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:11 PM
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By accepting that she fucked you over, like we all have some girl or girls that did the same to us. You’re no special snowflake. It’s part of maturity and learning how to not invest yourself in something that you shouldn’t. Best revenge is getting a successful life and being happy. And not just creating an image of that but actually being happy and successful. The only way to get revenge is to not care about revenge because you’ll be preoccupied with more important things. You have only one shor…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:06 AM
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you got that cute dog only to attract girls! oh yeah, since I’m obviously all shit at least something with a slight smirk
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:53 AM
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“I’m enough” attitude could get you far
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:33 AM
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i lol’d
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:18 AM
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Never ever invest (more than you need) in girl that you haven’t even fucked yet It might look cool in your head and that you’ll swoon her or some bullshit but in reality you’re placing yourself on simp level You always need to have neediness level lower than hers. And for man, sacrificing your thoughts or actions if the other side is not willing to do the same is needy. Would she buy you a gift?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:08 AM
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rich and famous I need that attention
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:42 AM
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yeah, but don't forget she's a Serbian Alpha Widow double crazy
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:52 AM
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aside with Will and Jada, why the fuck is Will kissing his son on his lips? I would like to know more thoughts about that some on reddit said: “As a child of a publicly over-affectionate parent I can confirm it likely indicates far more inappropriate behavior in private.”
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:36 AM
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neediness No 1 attraction killer. She lost all respect for me.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:26 AM
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you’re probably completely right, I did wanted to connect with her and I didn’t even seen it (BPD), after yours and all the other answers here I’ve decided to fuck off this girl good thing I have my dignity intact because someone on the main TRP once said Drink your cup of STFU Wash it down with some more STFU And don’t forget to STFU if only someone told me that sooner in my life
/r/askTRP17/07/20 12:20 AM
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yes and no some guy that she wanted to have his kids has screwed her over beyond repair, that’s the only guy she thinks and talks about but yeah there’s way more stuff going in that fucked up little head
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:27 PM
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ahahahaha funny thing is, I am Serbian
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:35 PM
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I am! thank god for trp, much younger me would go insane. I’m just discussing possibilities edit: how is it possible that nature made them broken forever, I didn’t believe it first but they truly are
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:00 PM
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oh yeah, the last one that made me question this is red like communist flag almost every single red flag managed to get came to my house to fuck me in 20 min of knowing me ( we were texting few day before that ) shit ton of tattoos daddy issues step dad used to beat her sexually insatiable and saying this very loudly no respect whatsoever for a men, talks like a major bitch, few mental issues and many many more but aside that she’s hot as fuck ( and the main reason i’m getting attached ), she is…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:51 PM
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that’s what i’m asking, and it seems like the only solution, but has anyone managed to handle them with any method or are all of them gonna make me lose my mind in process
/r/askTRP16/07/20 06:43 PM
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https://www.francoseduction.com/neediness-management-2/
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:31 AM
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Fight Club about shit tests and finding your raw inner masculinity Deadpool to some degree about relationship and treating your women initially as a little bratty sister Blue Valentine as blue pill example when you get yourself go and getting lazy how it all goes to shit, even though both characters are mentally flawed to begin with Trainspotting I think is a very good red pill movie that no one ever mentions, doesn’t have to be specifically heroin that is masking your world and making you live …
/r/askTRP15/07/20 01:39 AM
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this might or might not be the correct answer but based on my experience and having this same shit to deal with as well, I think the problem is that girl is trying to put you in one of two categories, fuckboy that she can reveal herself to and fuck you without regret or “boyfriend materijal” that she’s gonna be a “good girl” and take it slowly, the trouble is somehow you’re both or neither of those two things but somewhere in between, which makes her to say fuck it I think you need to pick a sid…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:31 PM
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This is the male lion protecting the savanna from a pack of jackals. 😂😂😂 dude she's gonna do whatever the fuck she wants either way, she's only testing him to see is he jealous
/r/askTRP20/06/20 09:11 PM
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Same thing that goes through anyone’s mind. Mark Manson has a great article on this topic, and it basically breaks down to: Self-gratification > intimacy = cheating Never forgive a cheating girl, hard next
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:35 AM
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You're welcome. What you're gonna learn from Models, related to your problem is: You can not get 100% of girls. Be attractive in an unconventional way that turns some women way off but turns some women way on. You cannot be an attractive life-changing presence to some women without being a joke or an embarrassment to others. But most importantly, you need to learn to be ok with yourself. That's ground zero.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:45 AM
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First of all: Mark Manson - Models Second: I don't know you, but I think you are not ok with yourself and have a low confidence, all the things that you have named are not important if you're not trully ok with yourself. Once you are, you're gonna naturally get rid of entitlement that you deserve a hot model that would fuck you for eternity. By all means, improve your image if it's going to lift your confidence, image is important, but don't expect it do your job like women do, and when you do i…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:21 AM
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I understand what you're asking. You are getting shit from the other guys for a good reason, but I understand. You might preselect some girls that you're after, but as soon as you open your mouth or react certain way that they can smell from a galaxy away, it all falls down. And you're back at square one, only with a shitty tattoo, that you don't even really want. Btw, have you seen how many libtards and other male shits now have tattoos, do you think they're "bad boys"? Fuck no. "Bad boy" is ve…
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:59 AM
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Nope. That's not it. He has the right answers but the way he puts it out there is making reporter prying for more. He uncomfortable, sweating, can't look in the eyes, smiling after answer like are you gonna be ok with me being like this. Reacted way to emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/20 05:07 PM
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Oh god, sorry. I only lurk this sub, didn't see which one is it before posting
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 03:40 PM
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can someone ban him please?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:16 PM
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Compare to your previous self When you start comparing to others you're never ever going to win, there's always going to be someone stronger, smarter, richer than you This post ain't about girls, but just to add, when girl is shit-testing you, she's testing to see are YOU ok with your own insecurities. You don't have to be the best ('cause you're never going to be), just to accept yourself, and try harder for more.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 02:51 PM
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For me it was Models - Mark Manson
/r/askTRP02/06/20 01:39 AM
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The weird thing is a day before she wanted to go on a break we face timed for hours and I had a great time and I thought she did too. This is actually a very common thing before break-up/complete ghosting. Not sure do they do this out of guilt or as an ultimate shit-test known as pull-back, but it is very common. They usually know weeks if not months that they're not feeling anything and want out, some girls get guilty about it and forcing a shit tone of nice emotions (but usually still no sex, …
/r/askTRP02/06/20 12:25 AM
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you remind me of this guy
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:22 PM
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Well not me and not the rest of the planet, but I respect your decision
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 01:17 PM
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"wait you're more intelligent than you look," This! x 100
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:08 PM
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Exactly! It's a one way street. This is why you should always come across as the non-jugdgmental casual sex alpha from Day 1 with girls and doing some low effort stuff, because you can always add in later where necessary, nothing stops you to take her to fucking Louvre if you want later after you fuck her, but if you start off as the nice sophisticated guy its much much harder to then convince her that you're really an alpha guy, by then her Anti Slut Defense is through to roof. You can be a hor…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:02 PM
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She should naturally drop the other plates if she's in LTR with you. But You have to accept one thing. Your and any other girl is bombarded with msgs, especially on social media, daily. When she's with you in relationship, she's not concerned how good looking you are (like we are with women), she's comparatively to that always asking herself Alright how cool is this guy that I'm with. So she's shit-testing you, because your behavior is the only real thing for her, to see are you a real deal, to …
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:41 PM
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I like wine, there’s a good and various wine production in my region, can you imagine me taking you to the wine cellar, out of the blue, to talk to you next 2 hours about wine, grapes, barrels and all the small sophisticated details? and if you’re not impressed and enthusiastic about meeting me again does that mean that you’re low class and stupid? no. you’re stupid for other reasons, mainly your annoying smugness. but I can’t blame you for not being interested and excited in something niche and…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 11:05 AM
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dude why are you taking women that you haven’t found in museums to the museums? museums require higher knowledge of either history or art or culture and therefore putting her on the spot and challenging her intellectually, why are you making it more difficult for yourself? And for what, just because of your illusion that she’s sophisticated? If it’s a first date, you don’t even know this girl. And even if she is, it means a fuck’s nothing, because she’s not into being intellectually challenged b…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:46 AM
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ahaha, sophisticated woman are horny just as any other “trashy” woman in fact, many times she’s even more down to fuck especially if that’s what she’s after, because she has more to offer and has more in her life except dick right now, unlike trashy who’s keeping that sex card like it’s her only thing she has, and it mostly is, so while you’re boring her to death with museums and putting her on a very fine sophisticated pedestal, she’s gonna turn on anti-slut defense, give you a very nice promis…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 10:20 AM
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I agree with everything except 6. Well I agree with that too but partially. Sure regarding sex it’s just a fucking hole same as any, and you would do both yourself and her a favor if you treat it that way. But on the other hand, we do want a reproduction, it’s like, our second main instinct after survival. There are some more quality women than the other, that would make a better candidate. You can’t have a good offspring if you made it with a lunatic degenerate “hole” Bottom line is, your point…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 08:23 AM
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museum/dinner is a try-hard for me, go for a regular coffee/drink and work from there you want to fuck her ( hopefully ), and she wants to feel you, while you’re showing her some shitty exhibits she’s getting texts from guys that would gladly exhibit her ass on their bed if you’re really insisting on museum, go for a bar nearby and visit museum “spontaneously” after, don’t make it a main date unless you actually meet a girl in a museum that’s actually interested in that
/r/askTRP28/05/20 07:55 AM
10

sure, if you want her anti-slut defense to be through the roof
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:40 AM
3

Oxytocin is a hell of a drug
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:43 AM
3

I guess you told it yourself by calling it dumbest, but I’m still confused and curious, what did you think you would achieve by blocking your plates honestly? How is this even an advice worth posting it’s common sense If your gf can’t handle you having history ( and present for that matter) of other girls contacts then you shouldn’t have such insane girlfriend. Otherwise you deserve everything that happens with that girl cause you are insane as well
/r/askTRP28/05/20 12:37 AM
2

Whatever your decision is, I suggest you don’t rely on stuff you did for her. You can go through both heaven and hell with her, but when the time comes women don’t take that into consideration, it’s all about feelings and how is it “in the moment”. Light switch effect is very real, everyone thinks their girl is not like that, nope, you haven’t found unicorn, when it’s over, for her it’s like it never existed. Also make sure it’s your decision, if it’s hers it might hurt like a motherfucker, beca…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:52 PM
1

well you still have to initiate occasionally, need to give some attention, if you don't plate will break, that's how I fucked up my main plate during quarantine but try to make a difference between giving some attention and being needy
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:59 PM
1

you can in initial contact, like on tinder, or switching to ig/texts, but after you meet and fuck in person, texting/sexting too much just fucks up attraction unless she initiates texting/sexting, then go full on it's a one way street, needy girl is tolerable, needy man is disgusting
/r/askTRP26/05/20 10:39 PM
4

you really want to treat blowjobs like awards? that’s a beta mentality, besides sex isn’t everything, her genuine affection is much more needed and I’m a sucker for that. And from that affection you can do anything
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:05 AM
17

tell her that you love her, attack her with jealousy, spill emotions all the way, continuously for days, that’s the only thing that’s going to make her run from you she crazy
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:51 PM
2

big time, i’ve been there tragic for a man
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:07 PM
3

duuude, no, just no, move on
/r/askTRP21/05/20 01:06 PM
0

in ltr relationship? sometimes I can’t be on point 24/7
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 01:02 PM
1

sure, I agree regardless of that, what I’m saying if you’re invested with someone and building some relationship together, especially this being married red pill, and maybe kids involved and whatever, if women is accusing you of cheating don’t go immediately in your head that you’re a hot shot who is deciding how this “shit-test” is going to be handled, stop for the moment and think, in most cases it’s not even about you, in most cases it’s about her and her “cheating” because she’s worried abou…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 01:01 PM
4

Be aware that accusations are many time projections. When a girl is accusing me of cheating I know she at least had some thoughts about doing it herself if not already. Cheaters are paranoid and trying to find their own hidden actions in others.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 09:21 AM
1

I dunno, you might be right as well, good thing you can drop her any moment though
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:34 AM
1

from what I’m see you handled that well? you might have got angry but you didn’t go into apologetic beta mode to make excuses like you did something wrong only to keep fucking her, which she was testing. Why nexting her?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:38 AM
2

4 before 47 after of those 47 only 5 I actually remember, the rest was so meaningless and empty that I can’t remember how they look liked or who they are, I have it on a list of names TRP shouldn’t be only about sex it will not make you happy
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:10 PM
2

I’m paying, but i’m not taking us at something fancy just a regular coffee, sometimes alcohol that’s not expensive in my country.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 01:14 PM
8

yeah dude, she waited 1,5 months for you to call her over how about a simple Hi her_name and start from there
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:38 AM
2

yep, me too
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:27 AM
2

Completely retarded
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:26 AM
2

Can someone ban him please
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:24 AM
1

You were playing for too long I think, and you can’t hide neediness, they evolved to smell it from another galaxy
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:00 AM
4

Oneitis, happens to me all the time, mostly because sex is so much better when I'm a bit emotionally invested, as I become older I have side chicks/plates so it's not life-threatening like it was but it's still a personal hell Due to stupid childhood (ultra beta father, manipulative mother), barely existing social circle in early adulthood and some psychical limitations, internally I'm beta, acting like alpha. Like most of us here are, we're basically mimicking what alphas do without thinking as…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:45 AM
1

I lol'd
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:33 PM
34

Be a 6 ft 7 rich celebrity or do what the rest of us here is trying to do, improve your life and bla bla bla, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:01 PM
1

do not overthink it, since you posted this your first instinct is to solve this problem and overthink it don't relax business as usual https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1UUBtFMCKM&feature=youtu.be wish someone told me this earlier
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:59 PM
8

pussypassdenied
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:43 PM
3

it means don’t go into explaining when you’re expected to be defensive, especially when she’s shit-testing you. That’s weak, don’t seek approval, validation and forgiveness from her, like an employee explaining himself to his boss your thoughts and opinions about other stuff are fine but do remember that women don’t listen what are you saying, they are more concerned WHY are you saying that something
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:30 AM
1

She wanted attention, probably bored with LTR, plus sounds way to crazy, more than average hamsters. Good thing you did that.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:00 AM
2

whose promiscuity? it’s natural for man to plant their seed as much as possible
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:04 AM
12

it’s not that money matters in a way that you’re attractive simply by having it, if that was the case I wouldn’t see so many rich guys being retarded with women and crying ( especially in my country when some beta faggot comes from Europe and gets crushed when he figures out he can’t buy his way into the game and is only good for an unhappy beta provider which he doesn’t want to be anymore ) and so many poor guys absolutely nailing it what money should do is to give you attractive behaviors like…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:36 AM
1

She’s shit-testing you as well. I’m 100% serious. Just not for the same intention girls do (obviously) but to see is her little boy grown up and to feel secure if it is. It’s a subconscious thing, they can’t help it. And mothers do get jelly of young girls when they don’t have attention. Treat it like a shit-test, either ignore it or make fun of it, but in both cases don’t give a fuck And later on, when she comes to her reasonable senses, introduce some boundaries
/r/askTRP18/05/20 04:10 AM
1

Every woman is in a need of provider, only difference is what can you provide, sometimes validation sometimes money. TRP works for both And she can’t be in ultra affectionate phase forever, usually runs out at this point and looking to see are you really this hot shot Yeah, male friends do. You and I are not friends, stranger males you treat with respect and friendly calmness otherwise you look insecure
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:58 AM
1

“Did you learn about this from relationships subreddit?” Dude, why are you shit testing me, that’s a women’s job. Relax And yes some of us are having relationships with women, plates, FWBs, call it whatever. It’s a good thing to know https://youtu.be/-1UUBtFMCKM
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:40 AM
1

around 3rd - 4th month (not exact science, sometimes sooner sometimes later), chemistry in her brain runs out, or so called honeymoon phase, that’s when she starts Pulling Away to test are you really a hot shot or beta in disguise Most of us fail this If you’re not counting you should
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:19 AM
1

i didn’t watch the show but from what I think it is, that shit wouldn’t work in 2020, this is a time of ultra short attention span girls who get validated in second and lack any social construct that was present in time frame of 1960-1970 Unless you look like the fucking John Hamm, if we looked like him we wouldn’t be here
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:06 AM
2

only his material, privately he’s a beta husband
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:00 AM
1

this was me, still cringe hard when I think how stupid I was that night. But her Anti Slut Defense was as strong and my inner beta
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:54 AM
2

they have fathers?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:38 AM
1

why are you complaining shit tests are a good thing, if she’s not doing it to you she’ll be doing it to someone else ‘cause she ain’t interested in you anymore and one day she won’t, plates break sooner or later, so just keep doing what you’re already doing and stop bitching
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:31 AM
6

for a rich guy you seem very limited, two women and a defeating view on dating market, that’s it?
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:21 AM
5

super interesting read, not sure how much true but super interesting do you have some practical examples or convos that could describe it better?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 12:00 AM
1

well, it’s much easier to recover from “you never called” than “oh god you’re so needy”. So you have that on your side. But regardless I assume you don’t actually give much of a fuck for this girl, and only want to fuck, so send a text who cares
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:39 PM
2

sorry for the loss and you dodged a bullet
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:17 PM
3

so. fucking. true. It’s a one-way street
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:35 AM
32

If all plagues of Egypt happen at once right now worldwide there would be no shortage of dicks for girls, they will miss nothing don't be naive
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:13 PM
1

Even dropping both of them is better idea then being a slave in her frame She's gonna demand his commitment and fuck other dudes
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:41 PM
33

“I would say we are exclusive FWBs” 😂 almost a brand new sentence dude, she’s your girlfriend
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:51 AM
2

oh yeah, then I stop fantasizing
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:22 AM
5

Well you asked for a roast We all do. Good luck bro, for a one internet stranger, I mean it
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 02:33 AM
24

ahahaha, dude ok here’s the worst: you went to imagining marrying this girl, and you probably still have some Disney fantasy in your head of finding a unicorn. The whole point of why we call them unicorns is because they don’t exist. And that’s ok. Accept the women’s nature and you’re gonna have an awesome time. You don’t need to marry at all, you don’t need to marry a slut for sure, but are you really expecting to find an experienced virgin innocent hot girl that has a 100/100 personality waiti…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 02:04 AM
6

Such a good post. I don't have much meaningful to add right now, but leaving a comment to look at it later as well.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 02:40 PM
1

oh yeah, sometimes even more, love is, by my definition, a sacrifice. And it could be various things, sometimes it’s your time or goals, or commitment, or maybe even concrete example like SO having cancer an you still staying with her (just an example ), or being dead-broke and continuing, etc. In a nutshell, accepting someone’s flaws and bad things and still caring for them. There’s no love without sacrifice. As corny and cheesy as it sounds, that’s why multi-millionaires have a “problem” that …
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:41 PM
3

This is wrong. Well semi-wrong, the part about having to experience a man first under his physicality like burka is real But the reason why women love “assholes” that are firstly “bad boys” is honesty. Like not as virtue but as true raw honesty and a character trait that not afraid to say and do what he wants. The thing with betas, “nice guys” or simps how they call them nowadays is they’re trying to manipulate they way into sex, and would say anything, pretend and sacrifice themselves to get th…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 11:46 AM
3

Listen, and listen carefully. Drink your cup of STFU Wash it down with some more STFU And don't forget to STFU You'll do yourself a huge favor that you're not aware of right now, your future self will thank you big time edit: god I wish someone told me that in the past, it’s almost tattoo worthy
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:46 AM
6

Listen guys, there's no definitive answer to this. AWALT and shit, but it really depends on a person. Some girls will "not only have their cake and eat it too, but have it with ice cream and sprinkles" (read Michael's Story) and some girls will get destroyed. Women's nature is same, but some women are smart and some are dumb as rock. The point is, don't obsess with this shit. Improve yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 04:10 AM
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