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So do people who consume alcohol.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:24 AM
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It is that. I know there is little desire behind it. It'll keep me occupied so that I can better work on my head shit without flipping out and fucking myself up more. I'll keep doing pre-lifting exercises whilst I wait for baby then move to proper lifting, and work on my shit via re-reading, etc. No point doing any other RP stuff until then, I'll just damage things more I suspect.
/r/askMRP18/03/16 02:06 AM
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Yesterday she pretty much said she will be giving me pity sex whenever I need it in the way a woman does. Yay I thought, sex-on-tap. However it didn't feel right, something was wrong. I woke up to today went about doing the usual, then realised in the shower. FUCK I've gone to straight to complacency. The urge to lift/better myself/lead has significantly dropped. It was then I realised just how badly I get my validation from her. I also wonder if that was the reason behind her pity sex, to drop …
/r/askMRP18/03/16 01:09 AM
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The only way.
/r/askMRP18/03/16 12:59 AM
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Fuck you guys are brutal. I am doing exercises, obviously not enough. I'll pile into that more. I've read No Mor Mr Nice Guy, that was ages ago. I'll reread it., I've obviously missed the point. I stopped doing covert contracts a while ago. Now I realise that as long as I need that button pushed. I'll find some way to try get it done. I didn't consider sleep issues may just be that, a covert contract. After I reread and exercise more, I'll ask questions if I got them.
/r/askMRP16/03/16 08:30 PM
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I know why. I do. The problem is my SO's validation is the only confidence boosting thing I've got. And yeah, I'm addicted. I've started doing a bunch of strength building shit, waiting until baby is born before asserting the gym. If I force the gym now, there will be an increase in dread and I've been told to avoid that. I've got a placed lined up, the dude is giving me cheaper rates, as a favour from a friend. The only way, I see, to gain true inner confidence is through adversity and rising t…
/r/askMRP16/03/16 09:04 AM
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That's a much better word. Much better.
/r/askMRP13/03/16 09:18 PM
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Yeah, I thought about that using the word menial, but couldn't think of a better one at the time. I didn't want to say it as putting her down, it's important stuff to do. She is good at it, I am not. Why should I try and take that. Is probably a much better way of doing it. I get wayyy too much validation from her, slowly changing it can't expect to change 10 years of behaviour in a couple days.
/r/askMRP13/03/16 12:34 PM
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My partner has legs that are a bit chunky, a bit out of proportion to the rest of body. I don't tell her they look good, they don't really. She knows that, she is insecure about it. But fuck I love grabbing that sweet flesh in my hands, I get real horny just grabbing those thighs. I tell her that sometimes, but I show it much more often when she feels my hard dick pressing against her butt when I do it. Don't lie dude.
/r/askMRP13/03/16 11:04 AM
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I dunno, I'm a shit MRP beginner. But maybe this guy you are with its a shit MRPer too. It's his actions that make you feel distanced, his actions should make you happy and want to let him fuck you over and over and over. It's part of his job to make you feel secure, without pandering to you. He should be the leader and you should feel compelled to follow, feeling confident he will provide. What man leaves his woman unhappy, miserable and in a state that she wants to bolt?? So yeah, up your shit…
/r/askMRP13/03/16 10:58 AM
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Woot, I've been doing half clapping, not full otherwise I crap out too early. As in half of the push ups are claps. Yeah now I see what is meant by Oak up. I sorta didn't get it. Now it makes much more sense. You can lead without stirring shit. Yeah I've stopped that pattern, at least for now. Old habits. It did indeed do significant damage, holy shit hay. Yeah it's going to take a while to repair that. What's good is my work is giving me 2 weeks, paid, time off. Not even from my annual leave. S…
/r/askMRP11/03/16 06:17 AM
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Yeah I fucked up, accidentally caused dread and holy shit the response was pretty huge. That was before people here said shut up, sit down, and beta up for a bit You whiny dipshit. I have captained more though, and yeah it's helped. I've dropped pressuring sex, cause I'm a beta nub, at least I managed to stop both direct and indirect talk. I probably still do body language shit that I don't notice and certainly does. I had to postphone going to the gym. She has serious issues with it and her pre…
/r/askMRP11/03/16 04:31 AM
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It's because they read only the surface of TRP and don't look into MRP and don't bother to see what it's really about. Then they hit the internet and scream WHAT TRP IS REALLY ABOUT!11one Oh, and people like me give it a bad name when we are just starting and failing. Sorry about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 03:49 AM
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But what the hell, you won't listen. In my opinion, being a dick when she's pregnant is plain stupid. Be a good beta to her, be an avid listener and reader here, be a bad motherfucker at the gym. There is no point with showing her a "faux alpha" attitude (aka "being a dick") because it is what it is - a lie. Talking to her about your new alpha bad boy life is also useless, it is a waste of time, because talk is cheap. Actions not words. Yup, I've been told that enough. I see why I'm being a dick…
/r/askMRP10/03/16 12:58 AM
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It will take a long time.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:36 PM
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Oh I am, I'm also cranky as hell. I do love her. It's my own making I can't blame her for my shit and I should stop thinking she did this, she did that. It's I did this and I did that.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:27 PM
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The first two are for sure, the third I dunno. Going to do paternity check on the side though. Yeah I've been a massive pussy. Have to be up there amongst the most plugged in of beta's, I still am. But fucks if I will stay that way.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:25 PM
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Oh. She browses reddit, hence the throwaway, that won't be thrown away.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:12 PM
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Well I'll let up on most things but lifting, it takes a couple months to get solid progress I believe. Fuck me or fuck you, will backfire spectacularly won't it. I'll reread dread stuff, and other important books again while I wait. You've all been helpful.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:09 PM
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It's easy for me to get up at nights several times and continue on the next day. Unfortunately she will be exclusively breast feeding as long as she can, so I'll have to be the putting baby to sleep, no feeding from me.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 09:07 PM
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Already have, also using the kids playground (is fucking good hay) to do chin ups. Take the dog for walks, with periods of sprinting. Also picked up his training considerably and he is happy with it. A sign if things to come perhaps, either way the dog is nicely trained now. I walk him off leash.
/r/askMRP09/03/16 08:55 PM
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Yes, it's been entirely my own making. All of it. I haven't given an ultimatum, I've told her what I need. See I even fucked up then, I didn't say I'm out but I wrote it. I'm entirely accepting it had been me. What I'm having trouble with, is accepting the hypergamy of my partner. Old beta habits are hard to stop, doing it now. I should just STFU and go to the gym before I do anything else. Thanks dude, love the tell it as it is approach of TRP
/r/askMRP09/03/16 08:26 PM
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