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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	I can feel my sex drive DIE when my BF vents about his insecurities :\| To add to my comment my husband and I have worked through stuff like this, gone from chubbyish to fit together, done really well financially, etc and still going strong after 12 years! People say you can't change someone but good communication can go a long ways! And if it won't work out with him but work on communication you'll be better off in the future and with other people. 🙂	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 10:14 PM
5	I can feel my sex drive DIE when my BF vents about his insecurities :\| Totally get it! Also makes me feel like a b*! Does he have anyone else he can vent to like some guy friends or an online community? Does he know what effect it has on you? Something else to think about is also that you might be unknowingly encouraging it - do a lot of other people in your life talk to you about their insecurities? I really don't think it's a dealbreaker like others are saying if the rest of the relationship is good. No partner is perfect!	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/21 09:52 PM
2	Fasting Wait you're going two days without talking!? That's not good.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/21 01:36 AM
6	Betrayed by a friend again Yeah I'm guessing the friend fell in love with the ex and then they decided to block OP and keep it a secret because they guessed that OP would react exactly the way she is. Not a nice way to go about it but he is an ex and she's not betraying you by dating him. That said I really hope you get help with the suicidal thoughts and not trusting people. Sounds like you have some unhealthy thought patterns and I'm sure it sucks to be feeling that way!!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/09/21 01:31 AM
10	How do you deal with the feeling of " but I deserve better" when it comes to settling down with a man? What I hear from men is they like women who are young, fit and feminine. How attractive are you? Are you a kind and caring person? Education doesn't really matter. Neither does being poor unless you have a ton of debt and bad spending habits. Being sloppily dressed is bad but men don't care how expensive your clothes are. You're not getting with high quality men so I'm guessing your assessment of yourself is wrong. As harsh as it sounds you're probably less attractive than you think, or don't ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/07/21 03:15 PM

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