TomHutch1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Wtf am I missing?	Conversation	TomHutch1	/r/seduction	31/05/22 04:51 PM

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2	Girls, does texting back quickly make me seem needy? Sometimes this happens to me. Also I’ll question and second guess myself of what to say back. But here’s the thing. If you’re looking for wife material, not just sex, then remember this. If it’s meant to be, nothing I do will screw it up. Texting back to soon, waiting too long, saying the wrong thing, etc. if you’re vibing together, you can do very little thinking and still have a good text convo that you’re happy with. And by extension, if it upsets you now that she takes long to reply, then yo…	/r/seduction	30/08/22 03:22 PM
1	Family obligations causing me to feel trapped and hopeless I highly recommend the book “no more mr. Nice guy” I promise it’s not as derogatory as the title infers. I too grew up in a small town and have always made reasons(excuses) why not to leave. If you live within an hour of a big city, go there on weekends as much as possible. Not just for night life. Take a cooking class, join a sports team, get a weekend job at a country club (or join it). If you’re in your 20’s go to a local college campus, and just hang out. Talk to people. And small town means…	/r/seduction	08/08/22 01:26 PM
2	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys Women don’t value a man’s indifference to a situation. She values your boundaries and authority. Like I said, women put a value on EVERYTHING. There is nothing which they are “unbothered” by. - that’s why they can’t understand how guys can be happy doing nothing or in this case be indifferent. Lol. And I think too that if you put this boundary up, she may not “like it”, but she’ll respect you for having the boundary. And she will respect you more for having the boundary than she will for being i…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 12:32 AM
5	Girlfriend noticing attractive guys It’s definitely a shit test. She wants to know “at what point would he stand up to another guy for me?” By testing you with “when will he stand up to me calling other guys hot?” She wants to know how much mistreatment you’ll take before you defend her. So put that boundary down real quick and tell her that you won’t tolerate being compared to other guys anymore. Including “look how hot he is” or “that movie star is so cute”. - all that stuff is a shit test about what behaviors you’re willing to …	/r/seduction	28/06/22 07:34 PM
-17	Confusion Maybe the next time you see her at the gym you can bring it up saying something silly like “I saw your insta story about me. let’s get coffee together and your next post can be about how amazing our date was.” 🤷🏼‍♂️ - just off the top of my head. Lol.	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:17 PM
96	Confusion Maybe for the drama it would attract to her account?	/r/seduction	14/06/22 04:11 PM
1	Wtf am I missing? Ahhhh. So it’s more of a “the first rule of fight club is don’t talk a bout fight club” situation. meaning I’m over thinking it and it’s only a made up norm so as to not “poison the well” as you say. 👍🏻	/r/seduction	31/05/22 05:16 PM
1	Girls that workout.... I’d like to know how girls are the gym would like to be approached/ talked to. Even when I have no expectations about dating you, when & how do you want me to start a conversation with you?	/r/seduction	27/05/22 08:10 PM
5	Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest? As I always say, you age around your eyes. No matter how old a man is, a hot 22 year old girl will always be a hot 22 year old girl.	/r/seduction	21/05/22 08:11 PM
2	how to act on first date? and how to make sure condom is being used properly so a girl doesn't get pregnant? Lmao. There’s no coffee involved. Just sex. Haha.	/r/seduction	22/04/22 03:07 AM
2	how to act on first date? and how to make sure condom is being used properly so a girl doesn't get pregnant? Haha. By all means. It’d make for a great coffee mug. 😂	/r/seduction	22/04/22 02:56 AM
1	how to act on first date? and how to make sure condom is being used properly so a girl doesn't get pregnant? On a first date, be kind and ask follow up questions to whatever she says. Also don’t expect sex on the first date and you’ll be much more calm. You may get a kiss goodnight, but don’t be all anxious thinking about sex. If it happens then great. And if she invites you up for coffee after the date, always say yes. Coffee doesn’t mean coffee. It means you’re getting laid. Just buy regular sized condoms. And there’s no trick or tips to it. Just roll it on from tip to base and you’ll be fine. Watch …	/r/seduction	22/04/22 12:54 AM
1	Gym cold approach - just introduce myself and then carry on? I like that too. I’ll remember it. Yes you always want to express keeping your value up. (Not in a douche way) and she’ll interpret it as “this guy only does what adds value to his life. Therefore I (the girl) must be adding value to his life otherwise he wouldn’t be talking to me.”	/r/seduction	17/04/22 04:20 PM
3	Gym cold approach - just introduce myself and then carry on? The best gym opener I’ve used is: On approach ask “hey, once you’re done with (this machine) can you grab my attention so I can use it after you? - no rush or anything.” Then go back to your exercise and wait till she grabs your attention. When she does come tell you she’s done with the machine, that’s when you say stuff like “oh thanks, I’m (insert name), nice to meet you. She responds with her name. Then say, “I don’t want to keep you away from your workout for too long, could I get your numbe…	/r/seduction	17/04/22 04:06 PM