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Thanks so much for your insights, and for taking the time to write this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/22 05:02 AM
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Simp isn't a gendered insult. It means anyone who does undo gymnastics to get the favor of the person they like. But if you guys are overly sensitive about words like 99% of the rest of Reddit/the Internet, I'd sooner just stop posting here. Coddling people and creating safe spaces doesn't do anyone any good. It's one reason that society is in the sad state it's in. No one has grit. And you don't get it by being afraid of words. I doubt our forefathers worked as hard as they did so their descend…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/22 01:50 AM
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Thanks a lot :) It's the methodology in which they use to come up with misandrist beliefs like that women raping men shouldn't be considered as rape. This certainly sounds like emotional reasoning. I've not heard women state this exactly, but I've heard this type of reasoning used to hand wave women using a man's sperm to conceive a child with, and other stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/22 02:22 PM
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If you have the time and inclination, could you define that for me? I'm interested in this sort of stuff. I can google it, but I'd rather hear it from someone's theory of mind. To be clear, I don't know or care which 'side' of things you're on. I'd just like it in your own words if you care to. No pressure. I'm an aspiring novelist, so it's always useful for me to hear things in people's own words. To me, patriarchy is a natural, and an unfortunate, result of sexual dimorphism that humans are ad…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 02:50 PM
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Yep. Which is the point i was clumsily trying to make. To many, feminism means one thing behind closed doors and another thing in public. Many feminists are what we might call womanists. And to be fair, there are men who could be called manimists or w/e. It's like we're all human and self interested...or something. The point being that women are not automatically in the right just because they're women. That's sexist, afterall.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:24 PM
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By using this framework to understand and dismantle traditional gender roles Sure...except that the idea that gender roles are problematic is a fabrication. Gender has a basis in biology. Male animals are often more aggressive, for instance. The role of a male wolf is to defend the pack against a bear should one encroach too far into their territory. The female, though capable of defense herself, will get the pups to safety if that's an option. See, these are instinctual behaviors. Humans are cl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 01:24 PM
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Don't they claim that feminism "just means equality" and that it's "for everyone?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 11:51 AM
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You really should...but don't put yourself in line for physical harm of course (edit: white knights who will jump to defend a woman you're having a friendly disagreement with). At 37, I can tell you that the juice often isn't worth the squeeze. Many ladies make little effort in relationship these days. They are told that a man will just magically show up in their lives to serve them, basically. So this is what they expect. I love women dearly...but the sophistry you mentioned earlier is getting …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 11:48 AM
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Anyway, that's a game i'm just not willing to play anymore Me too, though I'm not bi. Sometimes wish I were. Hope that's not disrespectful to say. I'm saying it with an awareness that a lot of work went into fighting stigmas that I have not personally had to face. Anyway....with regards to this issue...I simply don't approach these women. The entitlement is real, and it's not all that hard to spot. Just move on, guys. "Pretty" is just an illusion generated in your own lizard brain, anyway. Don't…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/22 09:13 PM
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A guy is a nobody/loser if their focus isn't attracting women. As a man who is out of the dating scene for the foreseeable future, I can tell you that women do find this a threat. No matter what they might say. They want/need men to remain interested in pairing with them. This is why, deep down, they poke fun at men who aren't actively dating. I mean normal guys who aren't "red pills." Even guys who just quietly turn down blind date "opportunities' get ridicule.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/02/22 08:48 PM
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What people need to understand is the difference between someone with a personality disorder versus someone without. An individual with a cluster B, man or women, can be very dangerous. Most people have empathy, though. Better education about this in general would be beneficial. Someone should make a documentary. Basically, you have wolves, and you have sheep dogs. Most men are sheep dogs. According to the FBI, around 3% of men are psychopaths. It's around 1% of women. The difference is that men…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/22 08:24 AM
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Typical. Science supports the existence and prevalence of transgender people. I didn't say it didn't. You are overreacting. Use your PHD to read and interpret what I actually said. What I said is that it is a condition that must be diagnosed, and that people should not be self-diagnosing. See the DSM-5. I don't know how common it is for someone with undiagnosed depression or bipolar or schizophrenia to acquire a delusion that they're trans, but I know it happens. Then they transition. When that …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/22 08:03 AM
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Thanks. Group think has a big impact. The mob is dumb. People just upvote the current "correct" thing to say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 11:54 AM
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Fair enough. The counter to your argument is that people should have learned critical thinking skills by a certain age. And it is up to them to want to do so. But like I said, I wish they'd just leave the law alone, in the end.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 04:33 AM
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There is actually a study showing that women prefer more stoic men as long term partners. This makes sense evolutionarily. But super feminists don't seem to believe in science. Evolutionary biology, to be precise. In our natural habitat, a lady doesn't give a french toast about your feelings. She cares about your ability to kill a snake or a cougar that's trying to come into the cave. We are still those people neurologically. Extrapolate that into the modern day, and you get what we have...which…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/22 07:06 AM
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Sounds like the typical woke-thing-at-the-moment for a celebrity to say. They have to appease the mob. Though, ironically, they have a lot to do with why society is so hyper-sensitive to words now. There was a time when people were dying of hunger instead of stomping around demanding apologies. Hey...some humans still are. Would be nice to get back to caring about that somewhat. They will try to cancel him, I suppose. If he shoots back at her. Honestly, the sooner cancel culture goes the way of …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/22 08:47 PM
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Women are taught that romance is only for women. It's something that men must give in order to be good partners, but women are free to do so only when they feel like it. In many ways, women are taught that men only want sex. So as long as they give a guy poom poom every now and then, they're good. You can find women espousing this attitude on TikTok all the time. Lots of videos about this on YouTube providing commentary. I'm sure that a decent percentage of the time, when a guy breaks up with a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/22 06:28 PM
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Not because of danger. A wolf can smell period blood from a mile away under near perfect conditions. A bear can do the same from ~5 miles away. In times of low food availability, both of these animals will hunt humans. This type of blood is distinct from blood you'd get from, say, cutting your finger. It contains lining from the uterus that is breaking down and is very pungent. Also, women are smaller than men. These predators will instinctively hunt the smallest humans they can find. Any menstr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/22 01:28 AM
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It's nonsense. This is one of the main reasons it was frowned upon for women to be in early navies. You had to eat your shipmates sometimes. If you got lost at sea on a small vessel, your only chance was to resort to cannibalism at some point if you weren't rescued fast enough. No one fancied the notion of eating a woman. This unfortunate practice is where the phrase "draw your lot" comes from. If you got the short lot, you were dispatched as humanely as possible and devoured. History is far dar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 11:59 PM
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Yes, this is the Titanic thought experiment. It's useful to illustrate how sexism isn't automatically harmful to women. But is instead a collection of biases that can be inferred as beneficial or harmful...based on someone's POV and the time in which they lived. Getting rid of sexism is an ideal. But let's not pretend that it's always been harmful. And shout out to the ladies on trains and subways who now complain because no one will get up for them. The problem is that we're human—we are the me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 11:51 PM
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nothing about men fighting and dying in wars. Don't you know that if women ruled the world there would be no wars? Even though this is complete nonsense. And that someone can only believe that if they are entirely moored in their POV.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 11:47 PM
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Fundamentally? It's probably because women have an irrational fear of being taken back to the 1960s or earlier. Even though they never lived in that world. I was born in the '80s. I grew up with Sesame Street. I have no interest in seeing women forced into kitchens. But I suspect a lot of women carry a subconscious fear that men want precisely this. They learn in college to fear men. Further, they apply their theory of mind to women who lived back then and assume they were unhappy. This is myopi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/22 11:45 PM
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Because they're a tribe? Just like men are a tribe? That's reality. You're defaulting to decrying buzz words while ignoring science. Humans are tribal by default. It's inherent to our DNA. To ignore that is to engage in social constructivism, which never works. They are a community. They have insights into their community that the other half of the species doesn't. Therefore, logically, there is probably work they could be doing there. They certainly don't want to hear it from us. You may be eng…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 11:52 AM
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Those comments are indeed gross. Bottom line, if the genders were reversed, the Internet would explode. And yes, no one would call her a "woman child."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 07:39 AM
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I wasn't banned for my way of thinking. I was banned because of a misandrist mod who was probably around 17 yo based on the reply she left. If the literal truth triggers you (your body, your rules...and your consequences), then you're not mature enough to mod a sub that big. Either that or it was A Hopeful Henry hoping to impress his online girlfriend. Either way, adults in society should be treated like adults. A component of that is expecting adults to take accountability for their actions. Wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 03:32 AM
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I'm all for a reasonable standard of responsibility, but 6 weeks is a shockingly short time to figure out if you're pregnant, decide what your plan is, and find an available appointment while also doing all the potentially state-mandated requirements of making sure you're of sound mind. How? Emergency IUD can be implanted up to 5 days after sex. No pregnancy. After Morning pill exists. 6 weeks is 42 days. If I were a woman with a very active sex life, I'd take pregnancy tests as a matter of cour…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/22 03:31 AM
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Great post. My priority is that we retain legal abortion wherever possible. I'm saddened by what's going in Texas and elsewhere, though. But as far as I understand, the new Texas law limits abortion to six weeks and does not ban it. I am not happy to see a state overriding precedent. But, IMO, this is a "women need to take accountability" issue. There are very fast, very accurate pregnancy tests available now. Women also have access to around 35 emergency contraceptive options. Their bodies, the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 09:33 PM
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This is why more and more people are making the observation that some women must surely have what could be termed PTSD by proxy. The mechanism? Women's study class. We are teaching generations of young women to hate men for things they did not do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/22 09:49 AM
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Emotional reasoning is at work here. It's something that we can all engage in. But some women engage in it to rationalize feeling superior or justified or entitled. The appropriate response to this argument is, (point to yourself and your present male friends) ".....And we didn't do that." Then she might say, "Yeah, but you might if we don't stay on you." Then you can say, "That's bigotry...and sexism." And as others have pointed out, this argument ignores the realities of feudal life and serfdo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/22 09:27 AM
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Thanks. I've gotten backlash on the internet for saying so little as "women aren't above criticism" Me too. I was banned from r/sex for saying basically this. The topic was body count and I pointed out that a man has a right to consider it as a data point if he wants to. That is a bannable offense, it seems. I think what triggered the mod specifically was when I said, "Your body, your rules...and your consequences." It's a literal statement of truth, but they put on a layer of emotional reasonin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/22 06:34 AM
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The problem for a lot of younger men these days is it's becoming harder to find a potential partner who believes in having a relationship that's founded upon true fairness and equality. The reports I'm hearing from my little brother's friends is that many young women treat men like ATMs these days. AKA, as objects. The 'foodiecall' is apparently very common. All older guys can do is tell them to not put women up on pedestals. If they poop, like you do, you buy them soup. If they emerged glisteni…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 10:44 PM
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How much effort is it to clean up some cheetos vs paint an entire room? Hint: relatively very little. How much effort is it to close a shower curtain vs fix the car so you don't have to have someone pay to fix it? And yes, some women can fix cars. Most cannot. And I've never expected any girlfriend I've never had to be able to cook. In fact, only one could cook at all. Even though cooking is an essential life skill that everyone should have at least basic proficiency in. I don't think men expect…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 10:33 PM
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I can't help but chuckle at this, dump your BF because he doesn't close the shower curtain. Honestly men need to be more selective. We should honestly just stop dating some women. As controversial as Kevin Samuels is, SIGN is a fairly accurate indicator of a woman a guy should not go out with. If she's aiming SIGN at other people habitually, she will eventually do it to her BF/partner. (read: all the time) • Shaming • Insults • Guilt Tripping • Need To Be Right Habitual use of these indicates so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 10:27 PM
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There are a lot of problems with this concept and especially how people have been applying it and talking about it. My biggest problem with this phenomenon is the assumed superiority of women in relationships and how women typically behave (or at least, how the typical woman is being portrayed in these posts). What prompted me to make this post was seeing a meme on instagram of a girlfriend complaining about her boyfriend leaving a damp towel on their bed, leaving clothes outside their hamper, l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 10:20 PM
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If she has an ego investment in the idea men have it harder, you may be out of luck. Any type of ism (feminism/veganism) can become part of the identity, or self image. She may see challenging her views as attacking her. She may become defensive if she uses men have it harder as a reason to remain moored in victimhood/receive special treatment. But more and more I feel that the conversation you want to have with your friend is one that all of society needs to have, in a way. The myth that modern…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 10:04 PM
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But the very idea that there are an equal amount of harmful people among genders is often itself a feminist talking point. Because if 1% of the population has a propensity of violence, why then do we see a majority of violence done at the hands of men? Feminists argue that's because of male privilege and patriarchy. I never said that. Because if 1% of the population has a propensity of violence, why then do we see a majority of violence done at the hands of men? 1% women. 3% Men. That's why. I t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/22 12:41 AM
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If you run into this nonsense...please feel free to use the following thought experiment. It may or may not work. It depends on the person's ego investment in 4th wave feminism (how much a part of their identity it is). Also, I just wrote this on the fly. I'll come back in an hour or so to make sure it's typo free/double check. Imagine you have a factory that has two lines of production: bits and bobs. Both bits and bobs are produced from the same basic materials, though they do have significant…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/22 05:19 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. That sounds frustrating. Some thoughts. This is a silly argument that disregards the existence of cluster b personality disorders...which women get too. A psychopath doesn't care about 'patriarchy.' They only care about what they want. Period. If she is willing to hear you, you can easily dismantle her argument with the above. Dr. Todd Grande's YouTube channel is a great place to start to learn about this stuff. I have noticed some magical thinking among the women I've d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/22 05:08 PM
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How do you get there as a reasonable, fairly intelligent and supposedly rational human being? Approximately 1% of women are psychopaths, according to the FBI. Probably that. The general public has a very dim understanding of personality disorders. I am not speculating about this woman's mental health. I am speculating about what could be going on in a case like what you described. You have detected a woman who seems to have no empathy for men. Well, if low empathy is a pattern of behavior, along…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/22 04:43 PM
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How is it that I'm able to eat Clif bars and fruit for most of the day and still be 150lbs at 5'10''? You're still sensitive to insulin. That's how. That might not last forever. If you start getting fatty pancreas, and your beta cells hit exhaustion, you'll be in trouble. By the time you see symptoms in the form of rising A1C, the damage is done. It is reversible, but it depends on severity. Keto is not a fad diet. It's the diet that our ancestors were on for 99.9% of human history, by default. …
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