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Question For WomenTomKikkert/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 02:56 AM
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It was pretty common. 40 something year old women groping a 19 yo boy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 12:37 AM
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You could call this an "occupational hazard" but when I was at University to get extra money I did a few "adult entertainment dances" (aka stripping) usually for hen's nights etc. Just the usually dress up as a fireman type stuff which got the girls all "hot under the collar" or if there were a few of us the old "Manpower" type routines. (not full nudity) I would guarantee you that there was always one middle aged aunt who would have a grope
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:40 AM
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I think all men do, but we are told that we are "lucky" to have such harassment. One example I can share is when I was the head of department for a large company. We had a business planning session and the (female) head of another department invited herself back to my hotel room for a "nightcap". I told her we were both married and it was inappropriate so nothing happened but women don't take rejection well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:30 AM
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The basic premise of the red pill is for a man to not be a doormat to a woman. When you have that fundamental premise in the dating market you tend to remove from the dating pool all the low value women who expect free meals, free drinks and a free ride. So you are now left with higher quality women who have more respect for themselves and for you and are likely to less manipulative. Society has a basic premise that “women are wonderful” and so within a framework devoid of responsibility breeds …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:52 PM
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Feminists hate to admit that women have “flaws”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:46 PM
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What is so wrong about a sex positive lady Nothing. No one cares. We only care when you don't take responsibility for when it goes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:25 AM
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"Lads" are not really offended over what a lady does with her body per se. BUT.... it's all about taking responsibility for your actions. If a lady rides the cock carrousel, covers he body in tattoos and dresses provocatively, then we live inna society where she can do that. If a gentlemen wants to go out and hump and dump women, he can too. However, there are always consequences to your actions. If you end up being 40 after the carrousel ride and ask "where are all the good men?" then you shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:24 AM
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There shouldn’t be any stigma and I will give you my personal story. My HS girlfriend and I were pretty cool and when I was at Uni we had gaps but never really broke up as I needed space for exam studies etc. I move states and She got engaged to a boof head who beat her up. I quit my job and inbetween jobs came back to see her. She told me she was going to leave him and I told her she was welcome to join me at my new location Met my (now) wife and we got engaged soon after. Ex GF rings up and le…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:49 AM
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Go to any other board on Reddit where they talk about behavior.. “My girlfriend did <insert bad thing>” - crickets “My boyfriend did <insert bad thing>” - pile on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:19 AM
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Are you saying that to be helpful or hurtful?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 08:16 AM
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You could make the same argument with women * under 60 kg * etc etc The dating scene for men after 30 seems to be over ripe fruit and empty egg cartons
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:45 PM
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Lesbian sex is essentially masturbation so it’s natural to assume higher levels of orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:58 AM
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So sounds like you’re saying you finger and lick women to orgasm then don’t finish off?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:43 AM
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Any imbalance in the sexes is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:08 PM
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Allah ackbah to that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:06 PM
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I only work because my wife spends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:03 PM
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I have had GFs that lie to me and try to manipulate me so that I do their dirty work. One told me lies about a guy and wanted me to be him up. Saw through her like a white linen dress
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:10 PM
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Ask any family law lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:09 AM
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Sad but true
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:38 AM
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no.. we were talking about divorce in general and I was genuinely surprised at the hostility
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:51 AM
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Yes they are. Written by feminists who think women can’t look after themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:38 AM
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In Australia the default position of the courts is 60/40. Retired couple. Why does a women deserve 50% more than a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:34 AM
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And with property settlement. Do you see 50/50 as a fair split?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:20 AM
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My response would be that we have had a happy marriage and been through a lot and supported each other. However, if it was over I would take 50% of the assets, wish her all the best and ride off into the sunset.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:16 AM
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It was a hypothetical question to my wife and I was surprised at how vicious and nasty the reply was. However, I have heard so many stories from friends and clients of women wanting to go for the jugular during a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:10 AM
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Feminists need to be a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:40 PM
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"maybe....."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:56 AM
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Crazy women are better in the sack
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 12:34 PM
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The only ones using those terms are feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 11:37 AM
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In Australia it would be possible to sue under civil conditions for negligence but the woman would get a lenient judge and the repayment plan would be a small amount over years. As far as criminal charges, she could be charged under a fraud/deception offense if she specifically knew that the child was not his and she lied/misrepresented herself in order to get a financial benefit. The provisions are there at the moment. Sadly, to get the police to prosecute would be difficult as the misandrist l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:09 PM
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Only if money is involved
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 01:08 PM
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Too true. Imagine a woman getting raped and telling her boyfriend who then tells his friends and then they all say to her “stop being a slut”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:24 PM
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Ok, heaps of examples but looks like I’m 20 years older than you so there could be a generation gap. When I was younger I was bitten by a death adder. Luckily I got to hospital and survived. As a result I get a little cautious around snakes and I was with my girlfriend at the time and I nearly stepped on a brown snake and it reared up at me. I jumped and had a panic attack. My girlfriend laughed at me. I explained to her how I survived a snake bite and how I am cautious around them. Fast forward…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:00 AM
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No. What will happen is exactly what is happening in Australia. The population will be propped up by immigration from India
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:56 AM
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Gen X here… met my wife at the bar. I had been in town three weeks and the second Friday night I started getting friendly with the local TV reporter. On the third Friday I was with her at a table and we were chatting and getting along fine. I asked her if she wanted another drink and I was on the way to the bar when a mate grabbed me and said “hey, come over here and meet my high school friend “ I go over there and get introduced to my now wife. Sadly, there is some TV reporter still waiting for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:36 AM
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I love the downvotes but the truth hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:04 AM
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Feminism is cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:37 AM
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I think that is what they are inferring. What do you think they are inferring??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:13 PM
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I think the OP is referring to the fact that most women will blindly believe and support women without knowing the facts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:05 PM
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You only hear about this after the event. People want to be the one who is always right and saying “hey, I was just as bad, or worse” requires them to be responsible and self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:58 AM
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For one, I made no comment about attractiveness. I gave the real world example of my 34 yo niece who, when she was 29 and single, assessed every boy she went to HS with and found the only single one. Then made a concerted effort to get into a relationship with him and that relationship failed due to her controlling personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:13 AM
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Can you please explain what point you are trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:44 AM
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When commenting on stuff like this I always look to real world examples. Like my niece. She is 34 and desperate for a child. Wonders where all the good men are. She was 29 and desperate for some love so went through her high school photo and found the only single boy and chased him. They dated for 4 years and recently broke up. She had been nagging him to get married and put a baby in her and he had enough. Before that she was one of those very clingy girls who had to know exactly where her boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:06 AM
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This post is oozing with misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 10:42 AM
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Feminism is cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:50 PM
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And how many lead to second dates? You must be a King doing all the right things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 07:54 AM
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The women who are horrified at sexbots are likely to masturbate with vibrators and dildos.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:53 AM
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Whenever someone says "be a man", it's usually because they want the man to put themselves in harms way for the benefit of the person saying it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:45 PM
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"Can you please explain your post?" I think she just proved your point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 12:44 PM
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No, we actually want stable women https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxTDzaOXJcU
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:48 AM
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This is one of the most misandrist posts for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 09:19 PM
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LOL. Don't ask me, I'm not judging
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:37 AM
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Women have an "ick factor"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:38 AM
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Women love gay men because they’re “safe” whereas a bisexual man has a “dirty Dick”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:46 PM
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LOL. Indeed we do not them as you note. When I was a young man I was between jobs and an old GF reached out to me. Her fiancé was using her as a punching bag and we shagged for about a month. Got a call to say she had a kid 9 months later and the fiancé thought it was his. He skipped a month before the girl was born and didn't pay child support. The old GF is now dead and gone about 8 year, the girl is 34 and I'm friends with her on FB. I told her the story that I am likely her dad. She said tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:13 AM
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Throw ten men together who don't know each other together at a barbie and at the end they are best mates. Throw ten women together who don't know each other together at a barbie and at the end you don't get the same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 10:34 AM
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Female control like this is tolerated by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:32 AM
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It matters to some
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:43 AM
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https://www.wgtn.ac.nz/news/2014/research-shows-disparity-between-tax-paid-by-women-and-men#:~:text=Research%20from%20Victoria%20University%20of,and%20receive%20more%20government%20assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:28 AM
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https://www.wgtn.ac.nz/news/2014/research-shows-disparity-between-tax-paid-by-women-and-men#:~:text=Research%20from%20Victoria%20University%20of,and%20receive%20more%20government%20assistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:28 AM
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A prosperous capitalist country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 11:39 PM
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Perhaps you live in a third world country where there is no welfare
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:11 PM
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If you believe the pay gap, men earn 18% more and so pay 18% more tax Additionally, there’s a NZ study confirming that women pay receive more government benefits than they pay tax. It’s on the web if you wish to Google
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 01:16 PM
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Women rely on governments for a handout. Most taxes are paid by men, so accepting help from the government is essentially getting help from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:36 PM
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Us men just switch off when women nag
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:32 AM
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It’s not like women have any respect for what men like to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 10:17 AM
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You are correct Birth rates for western women is plummeting and we face a population collapse, however, probably not for the reasons you suggest. The number of barren women as a % is rising rapidly. For women with children the % of women with kids with 1 kid, 2 kids, 3 kids, over 3 is essentially the same, but the % of barren women has risen from a historical rate of around 5% to something close to 20%. -Men nowadays don’t make enough money to even have kids. How are you going to support your pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:47 AM
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It's interesting that that is your take on that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 02:10 AM
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TLDR: The most desirable women for men is a women who is feminine, loving and compliments him. We are not interested in obnoxious women who see themselves as victims, who bully others, think they have to be aggressive and treat people badly, and have their hand out for a free ride and off nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 12:57 AM
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My wife of over 30 years is 4 years older than me. Ideally as men die 4 years earlier than women, we will both be sliding into the grave at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:45 AM
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Red pill is all about responsibility, so any behavior that reflects a lack of being responsible for their actions goes against the Red Pill. Same too with equality. Comments like “I’m a girl, it’s different for me” are a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 11:37 AM
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Women hate being judged so will frame it as them being victims all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 09:51 AM
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Oh dear... I'm a "true rich" "cis-gendered white male" with adult kids in professions. No wonder I'm hated by some
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 12:24 AM
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Women hate being judged
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:02 PM
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It’s actually a bullying tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 09:53 PM
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Easy, start by saying “hi”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:44 PM
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Oh wow. If you are a male and this is a serious question, then you are a very lucky man. However, if you are not then "What do you mean by an absolute cow?" is a classic example of the passive aggressive mental games played behind the scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:37 AM
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We have all had that girlfriend who flirts with our mates and they think she is great, only for her to be an absolute cow when they are not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 11:16 PM
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Love bombing is about manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:55 PM
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Feminism has absolutely nothing to offer and does not care about “cis gendered” men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 01:49 PM
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… and women’s safety is not a man’s problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:12 AM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incel#:~:text=Originally%20coined%20as%20%22INVCEL%22%20around,a%20romantic%20or%20sexual%20partner
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 10:16 PM
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Let’s not forget the term was coined by a woman describing herself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:58 AM
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The thing that women hate is judgement. When you comment about her dress sense it’s ok if it matches her opinion of it and herself. If women feel uncomfortable about being challenged by others (men and women) about how they dress, then perhaps reflect on whether it’s a good choice in the first place. If you are comfortable about judgement no matter how you dress, then good choice
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 01:26 AM
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Men are expected to be this. Look at all the entitled “strong independent women” complaining about men who want to split the bill on the first date or asking women to be accountable for their actions. If a man if not a trad husband who provides free stuff for his (female) partner, he is not a catch. Hence the “man drought” A woman who doesn’t want to be a “Tradwife” gets celebrated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:52 AM
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I got 43% so whatcha gunna do ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:43 PM
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Anyone who has ever had a conversation with a “cool celebrity” would realize how narcissistic they are and how poor they are at interacting with people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:53 AM
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It’s actually quite a manipulative nasty bullying thing to say. Very coercive and covert. There is no response that can quell the “rage” and so it forces the accused to remove themselves from the group. With women, bullying is all about exclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:17 AM
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At one point of time I would flip their memes and repost them, but while “kill all men” is considered OK by Meta, “kill all women” is considered “promoting violence”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:23 AM
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Report report report
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:20 AM
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Men don’t resent women. There is a lot of hate on men and especially white men. So long as the narrative is that “white men are evil” you may find that men will push back against this disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:25 AM
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Hypergermy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:27 AM
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Ask any man, when you are single is seems like you can’t get it right, then as soon as you are in a relationship, seems like all the women are interested in you. That’s when a smart man draws up his “bench” and if things go wrong he can make a quick substitution off the bench, but subbing in a bench player when the other player is in the game usually leads to a disqualification
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:30 PM
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Another great example of how out of touch feminism is. If you consider Sex and the City, there are 4 main characters, all stereotypes of women, but created so that women could identify with one of them. Samantha is favorite with probably 30 to 40% of men, Miranda, the feminist Ice Queen is about 10%. Trad wife Charlotte about 30% and ditzy dreamer Carrie about 20 to 25%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:03 PM
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No. But men bottle things up because it is beaten into them at a young age. Men only open up to men because when we open up to women it is help against us, or we are ridiculed. Women use their emotions to gain resources from men so it is in their interests to do so. Women do not offer resources to “fragile men”, but as soon as women do, you’ll see a lot more men open up about their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:29 AM
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Yes, and when you have a blind date thing you know that the other people think you would be suitable for each other so there's no need to be stupid to impress or anything, just let it flow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:53 AM
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Ditto. You are both up for it and the pressure is off
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:28 AM
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The best is via mutual friends. They know your likes and dislikes. Blind dates are actually no too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:09 AM
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For the women: Oslo. God if ever I’m single I’m spending my last cent on a flight there
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:12 AM
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It's marketing......
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:45 AM
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Usually 2…. Only the mentally deranged ones are good in bed, then 1. Takes over and you find your bunny on the boiler or your car keyed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:18 AM
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A woman’s world is ruled by fear, jealousy and self loathing. A man’s world is ruled by pride. Fear is not an emotion that drives men, pride does. So anything a woman does maliciously to hurt a man’s pride causes real harm. As a woman, if you want to get hurt, you deliberately attack a man’s pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:16 AM
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Hypergermy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:41 PM
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I saw a video saying the worst insult you can call a woman is a tease
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:50 AM
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It’s starts with women not seeing men as wallets on legs. As soon as men stop doing stuff for women because they are women the happier men will w
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:09 PM
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I find it hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:46 PM
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I don’t place too much emphasis on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:56 AM
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Liberal women are more arty, the man is likely to have a “9 to 5” job and the woman be an “influencer” or something useless like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:37 PM
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"The last guy (m28) I (f20) went out with expected me to spilt the bill on our first date and it felt absolutely horrible. The guy literally makes over 10x my income in a year. I absolutely hate it. It sends me the signal that I’m not worth your time or money or that you’re sleeping with so many women you just can’t afford another. So what do I do about this? It set a horrible tone for the entire situationship and I have to decide tonight if I want to see him again and amongst way bigger problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:55 AM
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A lot of men do fill the void by doing sport and other activities. Men grow tired of the pathetic rules that women want to thrust upon men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:51 AM
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A lot of men do fill the void by doing sport and other activities. Men grow tired of the pathetic rules that women want to thrust upon men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:51 AM
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