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Yes…so the correct lesson is to stay away from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:45 PM
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Because bad people are always going to exist. Robbers, rapists, murderers, etc… are just fundamentally morally deficient human beings who will always be part of the world no matter how you try to educate them out of it. So the rest of us have to learn to stay away from these type of people. Unfortunately women even more so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:45 PM
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Anybody who took the bear thing seriously were dumb people who spend too much time on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:39 PM
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But that’s not what I’m saying. I made that clear in the first paragraph. A person getting mugged is not at fault for getting mugged. But, if you know a lot of people get mugged in certain areas, it’s reasonable to suggest avoiding those areas. Rape is a much more serious crime, but the same principle stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:39 PM
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I’m not saying it would prevent 100% of sexual assaults. I’m just saying there are certain scenarios that make it more likely. A drunk girl at a frat party is statistically more likely to get raped than a nun. That doesn’t mean one doesn’t happen, it just means one is more prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:35 PM
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I’m not talking about not blaming the violent criminals, I made it clear they’re the ones to blame 100%. I’m only referring to practical measures that will actually prevent more women from becoming victims. Practical and fair rarely coexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 03:32 PM
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Uhh, actually living amongst real people who seem to by and large like having children. Doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with the people who don’t, but again, you’re the minority. And given that it’s a pretty big deal breaker, unless you change your mind you’re simply going to be dating within a minority. People don’t owe it to you to change just to fit your desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:09 AM
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Maternal qualities are attractive to men who are seeking a partner to build a family with. Single moms just happen to have to openly display these qualities on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 06:02 AM
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Cool, the OP can date one of them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:59 AM
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Ok, cool, but you’re in an extreme minority. Most people like kids, and women who like kids are therefore going to find themselves incompatible with a man who doesn’t, therefore you are going to be dating within a limited range. Sorry, that’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:56 AM
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I mean, you can have kids or not have kids if you want, but if your whole reason for not wanting them is to avoid the burden of having to take care of them, that’s going to telegraph self centered and irresponsibility to potential partners. Having any kind of relationship with anyone is tiresome and creates complications, but that’s the trade off if you want meaningful connections in someone’s life, be it kids or a partner. Also, most people just want kids because it’s a basic human desire to re…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 05:44 AM
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For a while it did, but then that resentment shifted toward the friends of both sexes who kept giving me that advice, because I realized it was just a hollow way of shutting me up. And that’s not to say self improvement isn’t a good thing, everyone should always being trying to live more healthy and learn new skills, but that’s the thing, these are just base level things you should already be doing as a human being. When someone starts prescribing it as advice on how to attract a partner, what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:51 AM
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I feel like there’re multiple layers to this question. Are some men overly needy and get upset anytime a woman they’re interested in has priorities outside of them? Yes, absolutely, and women should rightfully avoid these guys. Luckily they’re pretty easy to spot. But, regarding some of the “anti single mom” rhetoric, I think some of it comes from stand offish, double standard attitude a lot of single moms tend to project in the dating world. From personal experience, the “my kids come first sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:29 PM
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This is a very rational response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:40 PM
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I suppose it’s good advice on a practical level for a woman looking to have the most possible experiences and then settle down. The problem is on a moral level you’re objectifying people as experiences rather than approaching them as people with their own feelings and goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:59 PM
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Consideration for others is healthy when done an individual, case by case basis based on exact circumstances. It becomes a problem when it’s used to make broad generalizations about entire groups of people in the interest of receiving some type of special treatment for said group. The whole idea of standing in complete solidarity with strangers whom you know nothing about other than you have the same reproductive organs is kind of absurd. And the same applies when men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:19 PM
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…and asks you constantly if you find her attractive? Which presumably YOU DON’T, considering that’s the whole thing you want women to remember? So this right here is the fallacy with your question. It’s not that men want to make the women they’re with feel unattractive, it’s actually quite the opposite. The men in question want to have the unique ability to make her feel attractive. If a girl knows she’s hot, it’s not going to mean as much when you tell her you think she’s hot, because obviously…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:36 PM
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Possibly, but the things mentioned in the OP go much farther than the type of taking for granted most guys engage in. The average man isn’t calling his girlfriend a bitch or skipping Valentine’s Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:53 AM
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On the subject of your last paragraph, that’s fair to a degree, but at what point do just draw the line and say “she’s an adult and what she does is her business.” It’s kind of the same thing with age gap relationships where you have a very young (but legal adult) woman with an older man, most feminists tend to have something to say about that and they’ll use the argument that she isn’t mature enough to understand she’s being manipulated, but isn’t that itself taking away agency from an adult wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:51 AM
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The same type of people who currently seek out prostitutes illegally would be able to do so without fear of legal consequences. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:44 AM
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I understand what it’s a response to, but it’s still implying a collective mentality, which is contradictory to saying that everyone should be seen at all times as an autonomous individual. Giving an accuser the benefit of the doubt simply because of historical injustices that happened that happened to other women implies a complete lack of objectivity, you’re coming in with a preconceived bias that because she’s a woman she’s probably telling the truth. As for women supporting women, if all wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:42 AM
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Blanket statements such as “believe women” or “women support women” imply that there an inherent set of traits common to all women that making them worthy of belief or support, rather than simply viewing each individual as an individual without factoring their sex into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:54 AM
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I like the description in the first paragraph, but besides occasionally nut on her face, I don’t really want to do any of those other things you listed in the bullet points. So to answer your question, I guess I like and would date girls with the typical pick me personality, I would just choose to appreciate her rather than treat her like crap. Because contrary to popular belief, most guys don’t get off on treating their girls like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:30 AM
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Funny enough, as a man who just recently got back in the dating scene, I see these same things from a lot of women. It feels like a lot of people in general are just looking for “situationships” these days, like they’re trapped in this state of perpetual adolescence without any inclination to seek out a partner to build a family with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:53 PM
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