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I see what your motivation is but this is coming from the mindset that beauty is the only element of attraction. Declining friendship with anyone because they're beautiful feels like a decision made from insecurity. On the flip side, heartbreak shouldn't automatically be perceived as a bad thing and is a very normal part of personal growth.
/r/seduction27/07/17 04:08 AM
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I'm afraid I'm out of my element and can't give you an educated response. I'm not even that confident that what I told you is actually at the heart of your obstacle. If you're able, I'd suggest talking with somebody who's qualified to help diagnose the cause of your anxiety. Are you able to speak with a therapist, for example? Assuming you have health insurance, you may be able to get one for little cost. Hell, there might even be a therapy subreddit here, somewhere. Hope you do well! Good luck!
/r/seduction27/07/17 03:57 AM
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I hear what you're saying but this feels like an "all my problems are nails" approach. If I bring my car to a mechanic because it's the wrong color, he's going to tell me I'm in the wrong place. There's a level of severity when using the word "depression" and can't in good faith tell him getting laid is the correct path to mental stability.
/r/seduction27/07/17 03:52 AM
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Hey man, I have basically no experience in this subreddit so take my comments with a grain of salt. That said, I kinda' feel like what you're describing has little to do with girls. Simen Sinek, a marketer, talks about dopamine addiction and how one utilizes technology as a method of receiving pleasure. I ponder if your use of technology is your method of fulfilling general interaction. While you say you're depressed if you're not speaking with girls, is it possible you're simply depressed when …
/r/seduction26/07/17 09:41 PM
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This is the right answer. The motivation shouldn't be to get a hot girlfriend, the motivation should be to be in a happy relationship. I hypothesize your intent on getting a hot girlfriend to be a symptom of low self-esteem and insecurity in oneself. Work on growing yourself as an individual. Everything else comes later.
/r/seduction17/04/17 04:24 PM
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Marketer here! Observability is an extremely real problem that absolutely requires resolution before a product can become successful. Who knew my schooling would help me at dating?!
/r/seduction18/08/16 02:42 AM
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Because he's not an asshole?
/r/seduction28/06/16 04:24 PM
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In retrospect, do you think it may have been more effective to have called instead?
/r/seduction13/01/14 07:19 AM
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