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Be yourself. A general question deserves a general answer..
/r/seduction25/07/20 05:01 PM
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Its good to learn to love urself. Even if u get into a rel ship, it wont be a fulfilling one for both parties anyway. Id say work on that first though.
/r/seduction01/07/20 03:48 PM
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U learned how to be yourself without the stuff people put on themselves (ie ego, pressure, limiting beliefs etc etc) and learned that through osmosis from the girls u was living with and their interactions. Thats how u truly learn. Books and courses etc, are designed to get u to learn through theory, not real life. This is the quickest way to success. Many dont have this luck of learning from the inside. They have to learn it from the outside in. Good for u ☺️
/r/seduction30/06/20 12:02 PM
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It doesnt make sense, since u havent thought this through. OP said it doesnt work w strangers, just people u loosely know. So if u have never met them, they are a stranger right? So in order for this to be effective, u need to greet everyone one time first, before u go in and greet them. As the second time, u know them loosley. IF u dont know them already or have never met them in ur life. Not my logic. Ask OP for further explenation.
/r/seduction29/06/20 01:26 PM
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Ur plan is flawed. This works in theory. In practice u need to know everyone, at least a little. Only way to know everyone would be to greet them once quickly, then come back to them again enthusiastically, as a ”first meet” (again).
/r/seduction29/06/20 01:47 AM
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Its split on this matter. There are dominant women also, so chances are that if she asked u to her place, is because she wants to and is not ashamed of it. She might instagate it, but at this point u know its gonna happen bro. The signal couldnt be clearer. So u do it, or her. Whomever is the quickest dont matter. Id always want to control the outcome myself, not wait for the opportunity. Coz it might not happen. Why risk it. At what point DIDNT she give u a clear sign!!??? she gave u the CLEARE…
/r/seduction27/06/20 11:58 PM
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Its not hard. Ur making it hard. Its your confidence level, u have uncertsinty in ur head. Get rid of that by doing and failing. After a few tries with different women u will know when.
/r/seduction27/06/20 03:41 PM
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Yeah dude. From exp I’ll tell u that u havent gotten enough of those to have skin in the game to be non reactive to this. It doesnt matter. Accept u’ll get those and move on. Its not u, its her. SOMETIMES its u, and I think that in this specific case, it was u. But it depends on the situation. But u need to brush it off and think about HOW and WHAT specifically you do, in ur intro (walking up/running up to girls). But mostly, just brush it off. Unless ur approach is not solid.
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:48 PM
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Only natural that skills decline and lower self esteem comes out. But u gotta remember. The same feelings and thoughts creep into the opposite sex as we live in the same situation. So even if u decline a little, women will too. So basically, ur both at the same level as both begin to go out and start meeting people again. Trust me, after a week or 3, u’ll be at the same level again when u go active again 😉👍
/r/seduction24/06/20 09:11 AM
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Sounds like a Jordan Belfort thing. And he was snorting all over the place 😅 Anywho. I agree with the poster here. Wait til people are comfortable shaking hands at least
/r/seduction20/06/20 03:26 PM
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Exactly. So this tells u that its OK, to do stuff. People or guys tend to think its not. But its worth it if u guys get together. In this regard, never listen to women.
/r/seduction19/06/20 08:58 AM
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Yeah dude. My advice will do u little good. First its a matter of the situation. There is an infinite of ways u can. What u do is dependent on who u are. The only way u get to be confident is failing over and over, until u doscover that its not as bad as u thought. THEN AFTER that realization, u will stop feeling like u need something or need to act a certain way. THEN ur gonna be good. If ur looking gor me to tell u do this and do that, BEFORE u are outcome dependent, none of my opinions will m…
/r/seduction17/06/20 10:44 AM
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With playful confidence.
/r/seduction16/06/20 07:29 AM
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Have the same mentality with both, as u have for guys u dont care of getting. Fact that ur scared of loosing the guy makes it almost a certainty. Let go..
/r/seduction16/06/20 06:30 AM
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Ive been wondering the same thing actually. Would be helpful if someone made a video or a program about this particular thing
/r/seduction15/06/20 09:04 AM
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Its not about stopping putting them anywhere. Its about growing u and ur character and identity. Only way people put other people above themselves is if they dont trust themselves, are unsure of themselves, dont value or love themselves. So I suggest u work a little on that exclusively, instead of trying to fix something, thats not really the problem.
/r/seduction13/06/20 01:35 AM
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Haha yeah 😅 Both high quality girls and low quality girls both look for only dick and both look for rel ships
/r/seduction12/06/20 03:04 AM
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Not true. Some girls only want sex. So..I think u are refering to girls that want to have a relationship 👍
/r/seduction12/06/20 02:33 AM
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She walks away. Only signal u should concern yourself with.
/r/seduction10/06/20 05:06 PM
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Your first mistake is to come here in the first place seeking advice from everyone. WHEN you have a SPECIFIC situation u need advice on, then come here. And then only take advice from successful people. Not those self proclaimed keyboard warriors. Read/study 10% and take 90% action. The rest will fall into place. U learn at ur own pace. Dont take advice on dieting from a fat person (unless they are thin and have success), is all I can say.
/r/seduction10/06/20 08:41 AM
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Fuck if I know. US is way easier than some countries. Like Sweden, Finland and most Asian countries is fucked bro. U need an iron will to penetrate that forcefield
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:36 AM
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Sorry. Was having a sexting session with a girl. I did game for about 7 days a week, 8-10h/day for 2,5 years. No pause. Then u know, corona and shit..
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:29 AM
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White. Ive dated asian, but white women are really hot. Tried to pick up this Swedish bombshell model on the streets once. She was 100% black. Never dated a black woman, would want to try though
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:13 AM
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How’d u make this killer poll?? Nice!
/r/seduction09/06/20 07:59 AM
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Yep. Prefer daygame over anything else!
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:55 AM
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Thats the million dollar question I would like to know as well 😅 coz if ur not attached, then what the fuck is the point in being in a rel ship?? And if u get too attached, u become needy in the end. So... 🤷‍♂️???? The above statement was not meant for this, I want to know how u stay in the sweetspot of not getting too attached (while still having feelings) in a rel ship. And to the OP. The answer is: Getting over it takes time and u need to get out there to live ur own life. Reason u feel like …
/r/seduction08/06/20 02:39 AM
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Indirectly it can. Money can buy whatever result humanly possible on earth.
/r/seduction07/06/20 11:23 AM
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Dude. If u have a job where women come to u, u dont need to hunt. That was my thinking. But I also lohe the hunt so I dont abuse that power, but go out daygaming instead. ”Get ur own damn leads! 😅😉”
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:31 PM
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Dude. Why u think I became a bartender? For my love of booze? 😅
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:28 PM
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Fuck dating apps. This is better. Yep I do this shit too. Sometimes when u ask a girl about her girl friend she may tell u a bit of a spin on the situation. Think about this emotionally, If she likes u, she would want u for herself right? If some dude came up to u asking to give ur friend a million bucks because he’s good looking (lets say, and that was the reason he was dropping of the cash), ud normally go, ”oh yeah he’s great!” And u would naturally start downplaying him to get the other pers…
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:26 PM
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How I feel. Fucking online dating. Only spam and clickbait that dont lead to nothing. Before covid I was out picking girlsoff the street, coffeeshops n busses. Now there’s only crap online. I dont live in the US btw. So people tend to be more reserved and the ones that I match with, are 1000’s of miles away. Go figure! What the F am I gonna do with a woman 1000’s of miles away?!
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:28 PM
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Yeah. U stand up for urself needs to come gradually. Its like playing basketball or driving a car. Practice practice practice
/r/seduction05/06/20 10:10 AM
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Yeah this is not being authentic. Ask urself what u like and stick to that no matter what reactions or opinions others will have of u. How to stop being needy? Same principle. U do what u want, when u want how u want (not to say this outside of social and logical context, use ur brain).
/r/seduction04/06/20 07:05 PM
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I didnt say it didnt work, I said it was crap. Its too slow. And we all fear the unknown. So what ur saying that everything we fear is a phobia then. Dude, I dont care if u believe me. Thats not the reason for my comment. If I wouldnt have done it I wouldnt comment that ur completely wrong, as I would not have done it and wouldnt know. And again, your belief is more important than my knowing for u and my knowing is more important to me than ur theory. End of story.
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:54 PM
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Actually u can. This is overexposure therapy. AA is not a phobia. And actually I do, the fact that u havent tried it, means u never did it, and there is no reason for me to take ur info as valid. I did this, thats why I know for a fact that ur wrong.
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:42 PM
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Yeah this is more of an amateur hour. I started approaching 9’s and 10’s from zero skill. This is faster. Do it until you dont feel scared anymore, until u dont feel like throwing up, stay in set as long as possible, and when u want to eject, stay anyway. This is how u rape approach anxiety, not some bullshit ask for time crap. Sorry.
/r/seduction03/06/20 02:51 PM
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Yes. Excluding ur mindset, I went from antisocial to picking up girls 7 days a week for 8-10h a day for 2,5 years straight. I started out with approaching 9’s and 10’s from zero skill or experience. And my first gf was a model from Ukraine. The thing is to do it over and over again (approaching and refining what works and what doesnt). But what truly got me great results was learning and understanding sales. Sales is human behavior, and if u only watch puck up videos, u wont understand why somet…
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:08 PM
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Start by waking up and enjoy life. Have reverance for the small things in life. Only reason u dont, is u see no point in life, as in, u dont know where ur heading. So enjoy that sandwitch, love the small things in life. U gotta train urself on enjoyment.
/r/seduction28/05/20 03:51 PM
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Good luck with that then. Ur not trying to attract a logical creature here.
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:48 PM
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Learn to play the game. There is a fine line between whats socially acceptable and whats not. Learn to dance that line. But be unapologetic about it.
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:12 PM
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The mating game is about feelings not thinking. Dont mistake this logical conversation for how u feel for a man when he does these exact things to u and u feel xy & z.
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:07 PM
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Oh definitely! Only a confident man can break a confident womans gaze. Thats the first indicator if a man is worthy of you, is who breaks first. If its the man, then he’s not confident enough to have you.
/r/seduction26/05/20 05:54 PM
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Its not a habit, just biology. And its not bad 😊
/r/seduction26/05/20 04:29 PM
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Thats a good thing.
/r/seduction26/05/20 03:49 PM
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Yeah, without any info about what u do and what u project, I cant tell u what u specifically do or need to improve in order to be more attractive to them.
/r/seduction26/05/20 03:49 PM
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