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| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYikes. You sound horrible and a person I’ll avoid at all costs. You are right, many fields of science were created to justify slavery, mistreatment of minorities, and women. That is well researched and written by feminists in academia. Another thing you and I agree on! Even if the academics haven’t always been accurate. The patriarchy has been supported by many people in academics and people in general. But I guess that isn’t good enough for you? Because I get the feeling you are just here to ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, calling a women delusional is classic red puller incel behavior. Calling a theory that many people believe in is incel behavior. That’s why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy bad, you are acting like one. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI am being delusional because redpillers like you and feminism have something in common? Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s a wild take because most of the things you listed is the result of the patriarchy. The goal of feminism is to bring down the patriarchy. Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Cmv: American women are hypocritical children compared to non American women due to how they view splitting bills such as on first datesAlways think equity in terms of policy and quality of life. Women’s struggles with equality extends outside of the dating world. What you are describing, men needing to pay for everything and provide … that’s the patriarchy. You have a good reason to believe men are more than what they provide. That idea is anti patriarchal thinking, so good for you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?I literally cringed for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Nope. You are wrong. It exists if you like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?That’s a weird turn of events. Andrew Tate, is that you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Unfortunately it won’t be possible to unpack in a Reddit comment. It’s a complex answer. A really good book that explains that stuff is So You Want to Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?I didn’t call you that. I was quoting the definition of the patriarchy. Again, you are misunderstanding my intent. Well considering the majority of people holding important positions of power are men…. It exists if you like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?That is a interesting conclusion. Can you help me understand where I called you those things? To me it seems you missed read the original quote from bell hooks. This quote explains how patriarchal thinking are taught to children. You are literally telling me you are angry at the patriarchy! See? “As their their daughter I (bell hooks) was taught that it was my role to serve, to be weak, to be free from the burden of thinking, to caretake and nurture others. My brother was taught that it was his … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?I didn’t say men are overlords. You did. I can speak for myself, I have the ability to understand and communicate my emotions. Noticed how you been throwing insults at me while I haven’t? Why do you think that is? Maybe you need to step away for a bit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Nah, you are just blinded by your own hate towards me. You are on a mission to insult me and prove me wrong to protect your ego. I’ll read your book once you actually read mine! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Stop speaking for me. I am a real person with the ability to understand my own feelings. I do not hate men. I hate how men are treated as the default person for every single thing. That’s not what I meant about reading a book , silly! The will to change by bell hooks is my recommendation. If you think I hate men form the quote above you might need to reflect on that because that’s not the meaning of the text. Here’s another quote from the same book I quoted above. The will to change by bell hook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?You think they added nothing to this word. Why do you believe that? Many fictional stories have great social criticism! Books are often written by educated people. For example, I love Dune. I learned a lot from Franks teachings. Did you know he studied environmental science and biology? You can see that in his books! What if people in position of powers feel the same way you do… Don’t even brother to give women in academia a chance. Why do you think that is? I do not hate men. You are assuming t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?That makes me happy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?You are right! A lot of women do. It sucks and it’s frustrating. “To indoctrinate boys into the rules of patriarchy, we force them to feel pain and to deny their feelings.” “We need to highlight the role women play in perpetuating and sustaining patriarchal culture so that we will recognize patriarchy as a system women and men support equally, even if men receive more rewards from that system. Dismantling and changing patriarchal culture is work that men and women must do together.” “Patriarchy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?I didn’t say anything about not believing you. I am not against capitalism. I see Capitalism as a catalyst that pushes white supremacy and patriarchy thinking to make money. For example, Weddings, bachelor and bachelorette parties. Gender reveal parties. Blue and pink toys, makes parents by twice as may toys. Profiting from the prison system. MLMs profiting off stay at home mom’s loneliness There are people purposely profiting off these systems. These ideals you are speaking of is patriarchal th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:44 PM |
| -1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Everyone you said had been researched, and written and published by academics. It is caused by capitalism, white supremacy and the patriarchy. Your comment tells me you haven’t done any good research. Why? What is stopping you from reading research by published women? I shared my thoughts but you shut them down. They haven’t been good enough for you. Why do you think that is? The truth hurts but I know you can cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Childhood identity, how a person understands their place in the world comes from their parents. As they grow older, identify begins to reflect their own life experiences. Your behavior and the topics all over this sub tells me other wise. That feeling is caused by the patriarchy and capitalism. Not by women not dating you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:24 PM |
| -2 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Nope. It’s from bell hooks! She is one of the most influential feminist in academia. The passages are from her book The Will To Change. That’s a real answer, women are capable of giving real answers! I know that’s surprising to you but that’s the truth. It’s hard but I think you have the ability to change! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:21 PM |
| -2 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?LOL “Patriarchy is a political-social system that insists that males are inherently dominating, superior to everything and everyone deemed weak, especially females, and endowed with the right to dominate and rule over the weak and to maintain that dominance through various forms of psychological terrorism and violence.” bell hooks “. As their daughter I was taught that it was my role to serve, to be weak, to be free from the burden of thinking, to caretake and nurture others. My brother was taug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:15 PM |
| -1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Did you know that the matrix is written by two trans people? It actually represents the transitioning from gender roles (patriarchy) into their own genuine identity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?No. Gender. Wealth. Capitalism. Patriarchy. Racism. All matters. That’s what systemic oppression means. There are different systems all interacting together, like wheels in a machine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Men and women contribute to the patriarchy. The last part is patriarchal thinking. Power is a social construct, a tool used to justify the oppression of people. The vast majority of guys made it through because those in power let them. Women have a harder time getting to those positions because men stop them. Wild how you guys say the patriarchy doesn’t exist and then use the patriarchy to justify your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:06 PM |
| -2 | Do you think in 2023 we are living in a Patriarchy, a Matriarchy or a completely gender neutral society?Both men and women contribute to the patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Have you guys ever read a book called Seasons of a man’s life by Daniel J. Levinson? It’s one of the first long studies done on adult male development and identity. Believe it or not, there’s a ton of research on identity. The difference stages from childhood until later adulthood. They all have a factor to play in a person’s behavior. In our 30s we reached early adulthood. That means a person finally understands their needs and wants. Childhood is no longer the biggest influence on one’s life. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Do Women have higher standards OR are we failing as Men?It’s really not that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:25 PM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourI don’t thing there is anyone to blame here. We are all under stress. It is natural for a person under stress to communicate they are overwhelmed or stepping away from the situation. When a women wants to “get an ego boost” to feel confident within themselves. I don’t think anyone is doing this to hurt men. I think we are all suffering in different ways and trying our best to manage it. In general, I don’t think women not dating or being super selective to hurt men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | “Overwhelmed with messages” is NOT an excuse for women’s awful online dating behaviourI don’t like this take at all. Women leaving apps or communicating their feelings, that individual is doing their best to protect themselves. The intent is not to punish anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/23 05:02 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Lol You are thinking about this is a weird way. The current healthcare infrastructure is failing all women. That includes women who sleep with “chads”, it includes the women who sleep with men like yourself. In general, having sex is risky for women. Plus we go online and download an app and see the same sad boy logic…. It turns them off and the uninstall the app. lol Think about it this way. A women who made all the right decisions, (according to you) dated a purple pill man, perfect weight, ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 12:11 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"That’s what you said… and I agree your original logic is utter nonsense. You can not troll on Reddit spreading misinformation about women. You can vote for better politicians that pass policy to make health care safer for women. Duh! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:42 AM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"You literally are saying that women deserve to die because they are not having sex with you. It’s your responsibility not to kill or hurt us. Your actions and beliefs have consequences too. That’s why no one wants to have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:17 AM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Ohhh gotcha. Thank you for explaining that to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:14 AM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"How did you come up with that conclusion? I didn’t write or comment about me only liking thug guys. You are so silly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 11:14 AM |
| 2 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Can you help me understand. Did you read his post history? Where he quoted some random study on women’s rape fantasies. Using that to justify his logic? Did you miss the posts where he called women delusional? That’s not very civil to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 03:34 AM |
| 0 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Dunno depends on the person. A lot of beauty is a social construct too. It depends on the culture and the individual person’s preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:20 AM |
| -1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Are you okay?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 10:57 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I stopped reading your comment at “A truly women moment”. Having sex with men is too risky for women. That’s why men are not having sex. You are an incel. Big time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I refused to comment on the “chad” argument because it’s not based in any scientific research. It’s a social construct used to justify your delusional beliefs on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I didn’t say that men are evil. My argument is having sex is risky for women, and that’s the reason why men are not having sex. It is a normal response to an unsafe environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 08:32 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Your lack of critical thinking skills are becoming more and more apparent as we go along. The articles and data I linked is meant to give perspective on women’s experiences. The consequences of having sex with men are huge. It hurts our “body counts”, increases STDs exposure, men will label us as “whores and sluts. Many of us personally experienced sexual violence or had a loved one experience sexual assault. Giving birth is becoming riskier. Many women no longer have access to abortions. Having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:56 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"I can’t believe I have to spell this out for you. Men in general are responsible for fostering a community that makes women feel unsafe. Withholding from sex is a natural and normal response to an unsafe environment. Surprised Pikachu much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:38 PM |
| – | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Oh look. Another incel with zero critical thinking skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:24 PM |
| -2 | I am NOT seeing "average" men having sex "all the time"Okay, can you help us make sex safer for us? Maternal deaths in the U.S are on the rise U.S. maternal deaths keep rising Firearms overtook auto accidents as the leading cause of death in children woman was told to wait until she's 'crashing' for abortion care The U.S. has a high rate of preterm births, and abortion bans could make that worse Homicide leading cause of death for pregnant women in U.S (2022) Intimate Partner Homicide Statistics Sexual violence statistics https://www.cdc.gov/violenc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/23 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Most single people aren't actually happy singleStop telling us how to feel. It’s annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThank you for taking my considerations. I personally do not agree with all of Ryan’s conclusions in his book. It is a few years old, so it’s probably a little outdated. I feel Ryan’s book does a decent job at breaking down the “Darwin paradigm”. My undergraduate environmental degree focuses on taxonomy. In my experience, studying the founding scientists of environmental sciences, how they developed their theories is key. This helps ground your brain so you don’t get carried away chasing white ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI got two books that come to mind. Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Come As You are by Emily Nagoski. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 06:29 PM |
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