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Lmao. You ever been punched for saying no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:02 AM
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Because men would fuck a literal cow if they were horny enough. Being admired or wanted is different to being rooted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:51 AM
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I have known men who can manage multimillion dollar political portfolios, but crumple like a cheap suit at the sight of baby poo. They gag and flap pathetically until someone else (wife usually) takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 07:42 AM
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You can’t tell how someone is going to act under pressure until they are under pressure, and having a newborn is a high pressure situation. Instead of rising to the occasion, some men just can’t cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:26 AM
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Did he get to have sex with any of these women after incarceration?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 01:08 AM
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Nope https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2018/03/08/womens-wealth-is-rising
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 02:56 AM
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Besides him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:15 AM
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The overwhelming majority of wealthy and powerful people are men, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 09:06 AM
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No one is telling you to be like Prince Valium.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:40 AM
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No one is completely good or completely bad. I mean, Obi-Wan left his protégé to die in lava after slicing his arm and legs off rather than granting him a mercy kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 07:35 AM
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That’s a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:12 AM
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Depends on the age, culture and desire of the woman. As I said earlier, there’s plenty of young women mooning over weedy pop stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:54 AM
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Lmao. So they can catch him later? It’s not going to make you in-dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:52 AM
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You said earlier that there was no point in having an ultrasound unless is was to make a decision about aborting the pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 07:50 AM
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Insist to your employer on taking half of the parental leave and do your half with school holidays, early pickups and sick days so that her career isn’t mummy-tracked.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 11:43 AM
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If a person’s suddenly single and has bills to pay and kids to support; the two alternatives are the former partner paying for a period of time, or the state paying for a period of time. You don’t like it? Help dismantle the barriers to gainful employment for parents and carers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 10:32 AM
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For other girls, yes. If you do that for a man who isn’t your little brother or son, they get emo about you emasculating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:12 AM
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No. If one partner has been rendered unemployable due to supporting their spouse and his/her career, then they will need support in order to retrain and become employable again.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:58 AM
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Because one sex is much more likely to be killed by their date than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:43 AM
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So what’s with all the “no one will ever love me because shorter than 6 foot” histeronics?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:42 AM
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Shorter and younger might tweak the “boy” instead of “man” strings for a more mature woman. Plenty of teens and young women swoon over pretty boy kpop singers though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:29 PM
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Were these victims killed by male or female perpetrators?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:13 PM
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So you don’t think a parent should be able to mentally or financially prepare for a sick or disabled child?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:00 PM
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That the people living under a despot still care for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:59 AM
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The American healthcare market is a corporatist free for all. As for preparing? One of my children was born with Patau Syndrome. I was able to mentally and financially prepare for his birth, his short life, and his death. I couldn’t imagine the pain of finding that out on the birthing stool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:57 AM
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Rulers are not the entirety of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:19 AM
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So she wouldn’t want parents to be able to prepare for a sick or disabled child? If the free market brought prices down, you wouldn’t have insulin or epipens costing thousands of dollars. Do you know what percentage of bankruptcies are caused by medical expenses in that free market utopia, America?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 07:18 AM
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She wouldn’t recommend potential parents being forewarned about potential conditions by having an ultrasound? She wouldn’t want them to be able to prepare for caring for a child with - for example - a heart condition or spina bifida? Lmao at the idea of the free market bringing costs down. Reaganomics is demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 06:40 AM
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Does your wife see no cultural or economic or geographical impediments to antenatal care? Does she consider ultrasounds, blood tests, urine tests and blood pressure tests unnecessary medical intervention?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:20 AM
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It’s a postcode lottery. Wealthy areas do better than poor areas. White women get better care and better outcomes than coloured women and immigrants. Women who access antenatal care do better than women who can’t or won’t do this. As I said earlier; I work for the coroner’s office. The post natal women I see are already dead. Free birthing is where a woman doesn’t seek medical care throughout her pregnancy and is only attended by doulas during birth. Lotus birthing is where no medical interventi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 03:22 AM
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I work for the coroner’s office. Childbirth is much safer in my country than it is in America, but it’s still unfortunately never completely safe. American medical care is everyone else’s “learn from my fail”. Please tell me your wife isn’t part of the freebirth/lotus birth coterie.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:52 AM
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And we’d prefer to be alone than with someone we didn’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:34 AM
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Have you ever seen Fatal Attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:31 AM
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Are you generally anxious? Or are you still in the tail end of puberty?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:31 AM
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It’s an unpopular opinion because, while it happens, it’s not universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:30 AM
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When the alternative is tearing up through the cliterus or down through the perineum to the anus, an emergency episiotomy saves an awful lot of reconstructive work later. Of course no one wants one, and no one wants to have to perform one; but when the alternative is a cloaca, you don’t always have the luxury of choice. Your wife only manages low risk pregnancies, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:27 AM
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You think tearing is rare? Really? Most older primigravadia tear. I live in a country and culture where you only see an ob/gyn when things are really complicated, but every dr or midwife I know (I’m a dr, but I don’t usually deal with births or pregnancies) has sewn up multiple episiotomy cuts and hundreds of small tears and grazes. It’s incredibly easy to damage or pinch a nerve in such a sensitive area.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:46 AM
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I got called “ironing board” and boys would spit at me and tell me I was a skinny dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:29 AM
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Older women have standards for a reason. If that bothers you, then you’re probably one of the ones we all avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:23 AM
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It depends on your hardware, I would assume. Are you looking to improve your singing range or your speaking voice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:19 AM
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I gave you a couple earlier. Did you read them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:18 AM
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I’d prefer to be self employed than have to deal with a boss who was hobbling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:14 AM
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Nothing to do with feelings. The cold, hard truth is that a woman is safer around other women than she is around men. You don’t have to like it, and you can have a cry and call me a sexist meanie, but the fact remains that men are more dangerous to women than women are to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 08:12 AM
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Have you considered speech therapy? Up and coming politicians and executives often use it to develop a voice that’s easier to listen to. Margaret Thatcher famously used a vocal coach in order to develop a deeper and more authoritative tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:58 AM
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You’re seriously implying that the non violent person would be at fault here?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:50 AM
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Is it worse to die alone, or to settle for someone you don’t like just to say you’re not single? FWIW; everyone slips into that great unknown by themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:40 AM
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Stay on topic. Race, and the systematic targeting of black communities by KKKops has nothing to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:37 AM
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The vagina is only one part of the anatomy that gets pounded during birth. She’s never had to stitch up a tear? Deal with a prolapse? Stop a haemorrhage? Deal with placental retention or placenta previa? What would you have done if your offspring required resuscitation? Two of mine did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:28 AM
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Rich, white boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:02 AM
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Would you be likely to check up on an elderly neighbour during a heatwave? Or pick up the mail for a friend who was on holiday? Help someone up if the fall over beside you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:54 AM
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And more sympathy towards a neighbour, local, or member of your faith or football supporter base than an unknown random. If a mate’s sister or the girl next door was getting roughed up you’d be more likely to step in than if it was just some random chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:51 AM
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It wasn’t you talking about bears killing cubs or chimps beheading each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:46 AM
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Do you understand how to interpret data sets? My premise is that women are safer around other women than around men. Every single study ever done regarding homicide backs this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:45 AM
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A community or society is bigger than just a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:31 AM
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As was your comment. Make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:30 AM
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Lmao, really? You don’t understand that women are more frequently Kilby men than by other women? Really? https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/fvv.pdf https://www.unodc.org/documents/data-and-analysis/GSH2018/GSH18_Gender-related_killing_of_women_and_girls.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:29 AM
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Not all men. Certainly not none of them, though. Probably a decent few on this sub. The “manosphere” is their source of indoctrination.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:15 AM
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Have you ever partaken in animal husbandry? My sheep and cattle look out for each other, and the group all circle to protect their young. When one of my bitches has pups, my other dogs are all very protective of her. When one of the vixens on my property has cubs, her mate and older children are very protective of their territory. Heck, even my chickens share the duty of watching for predators while the others scratch around. Your examples are of out-group violence; similar to how rape and murde…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:13 AM
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Women are objectively less safe around men than around other women. There’s absolutely no way of getting around the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:06 AM
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I was shopping at Tesco and some random asked me if I had plans on Saturday night. When I said that I did, (I literally said yeah, visiting my sister, she’s just had a baby) he punched me hard enough to shatter my orbital bone. No warning, just punch. I was out like a light and ended up with three operations to repair the damage. He was only arrested and charged because my family are locally politically influential.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:03 AM
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Lmao, as if non Muslim men wouldn’t do that if they thought they could get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:54 AM
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I’d want to know how long the relationships lasted, why they broke up, that there weren’t any bunny boilers, or that there weren’t going to be any kids showing up on the doorstep claiming kinship. If women were wildly different looking to me it would feel a bit off, but looking exactly the same as all his exes or his mum would be just as off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 05:04 AM
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Everyone is responsible to look out for each other and be decent members of society. That’s how mammals function.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:34 AM
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Women, generally, are unsafe around men. Sorry if the facts hurt your feelings. As for dressing provocatively; women in head to toe religious garments are raped just as frequently as women in bikinis.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:31 AM
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Were you alive when the Iron Bitch was taking away everyone’s livelihood, destroying communities and turning the troops on workers? Do you remember what the unemployment rate was? Or how long the lines to the soup kitchens were? Have you been north of Brum and seen what she’s done to places like Warrington or Manchester?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:25 AM
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My biggest fear - being widowed with young children - has happened. I’m never going to date again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:06 AM
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So obviously people were happier in the immediate post war period than they were under Thatcher. Most people are pretty miserable after 10years of foolish austerity measures, too. It’s hard to be hopeful or cheerful when your politicians are so obviously screwing you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:01 AM
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You’re a fertility specialist, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 02:33 AM
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1950s Britain had the optimism of post-war reconstruction, the creation of State based industries and the NHS. Rationing was winding up, people were no longer starving, dealing with the blackout or under siege from a hostile foreign power. Of course they were happy and optimistic. That’s why they set out to improve the lives of everyone, instead of just the upper crust.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:24 AM
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You know what Romeo and Juliet laws are, don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:09 AM
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How motile is a frozen spermatozoa? How do you go about harvesting ovum? IVF isn’t a guarantee and it’s expensive and painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:08 AM
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18yo, excepting Romeo and Juliet laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:01 AM
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I owe it to myself and to my children to remain as healthy as I can. Not much you can do about ageing, the effects of pregnancy and childbirth/breastfeeding/parenting, injury or illness though. If someone can’t handle their partner getting grey hair, wrinkles or needing glasses, then they’re pretty pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:58 AM
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People do. I met and started dating my husband when I was 15. You usually have to kiss a few frogs before you find a prince, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:51 AM
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Across the board, not just people with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:45 AM
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Abortion is a consequence in and of itself. It comes with the same risks as any other medical procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:44 AM
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IVF has a 23% success rate. You don’t just pull it out as a “get a baby” card. It’s also incredibly difficult on a woman’s body .
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:41 AM
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Lmao. They’re attracted to the idea, the poor fools. The men aren’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 03:11 AM
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What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:55 AM
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You don’t see daughters of nobility or industry clutching a fat, hairy hogrider as his bike farts down the dirt roads to some grotty clubhouse so she can watch him play pool and chug pints of fizzy beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:56 AM
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To a 17yo in a trailer park working at Denny’s and getting beaten by her stepfather; a fat old bloke on a Harley is a knight in shining armour.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 06:48 AM
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Patriarchy is just an Anglo term for bourgeois. Conservative women are also agents of and complicit with the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:58 AM
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I think everyone’s forgetting that unless you live in a place where childcare is free or very cheap, or you’re earning a lot, being a SAHM isn’t a choice but a financial necessity. Would men want to be forking out so that both parents can work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 04:02 AM
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Her staying at home and picking up the slack allowed him to do that. He wouldn’t have got as far if he was leaving work to collect kids from OOSC and couldn’t work weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:26 AM
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Massive red flag for a man to think like that. 10/10 would run away and not leave a forwarding address.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 11:13 AM
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So you’d prefer poverty and crime?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 01:52 AM
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Nowhere near as many as a couple of generations ago. These days women can earn a living, take out a mortgage/rent a property, open a bank account, enrol at university, make a will or become a parent without ever needing a man to so much as look sideways at her. The only reason left for marrying someone is that you love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:41 PM
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You’re conflating correlation and causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:34 PM
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She’d set her teeth on fire before calling herself a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:30 PM
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She’s an awful person. Why is it a surprise that she’s surrounded by other awful people?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:29 PM
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Who’s fawning?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:27 PM
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What’s attractive about her?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:17 PM
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I found my 30s to be my best decade, too. The sweet spot of disposable income, independence, no pimples, parents who aren’t elderly or frail, kids who aren’t teens and joints that didn’t ache.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 12:05 PM
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Men -not boys your own age - but gross, adult men old enough to be your father constantly bothering you. Surely they realise that 14yo me would find them as attractive as a bag of fertiliser? Do they just get off on frightening teenagers? Now that I’m older; men who assume that I’m flattered by their leering, grotty comments or catcalls. It’s bizarre that they think that cats is a lesser option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 11:37 AM
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What’s wrong with a safety net?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 11:19 AM
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Because we’re in the middle of a pandemic. Otherwise no, men still approach and pester.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 08:21 AM
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I’m not a member of the royal family, so I wouldn’t know. There is definitely a social stigma for a man in wealthy circles to not have a “kept wife”, though. My husband’s colleagues and family were scandalised when I retained a professional career rather than retired to lubricate sociopolitical wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:01 AM
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It’s expected of established families that the wife stays home, undertakes charitable works, volunteers and networks. Nappies, housework and drudgery is outsourced. It’s a job, but she’s working for the family rather than an outside employer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 11:43 PM
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Then deep six the unpopular sport and swap in something that people want to play. I love basketball, but we could never get numbers for a team because everyone wanted netball, lacrosse, hockey and tennis.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:56 AM
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Women are increasingly choosing cats over men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:46 AM
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I haven’t seen you throw a fact yet. I don’t think you have any to throw, hence the emotional overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:26 AM
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Lol. Yeah, girls get a place on the team just for showing up, smh. I mean, Lauren Jackson doesn’t even train, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:06 PM
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So why did you say it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:04 PM
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Have you done anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:04 PM
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More boys are diagnosed with ADHD because girls primarily have the inattentive variant and don’t get treated because it’s easier to spot a wriggling boy than a daydreaming girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:03 PM
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I’m not sure cold and calculating is how I’d describe Oscar Wilde, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 10:00 PM
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Not my problem that you can’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:59 PM
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There’s a lot more family to fall back on for old money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:56 PM
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That’s not a convincing argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:54 PM
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Successful isn’t a social class. A middle class kid with good family support, who attends a good school with a parent who has time to nurture him is going to do better from a kid with a penniless teen mum from a sink estate. Interestingly, children of abandoned or widowed sole parents do much better than the children of divorced but still fighting parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:38 AM
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I think it’d be harder to find a politician that hasn’t said something revolting or stupid than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:55 AM
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You think all those women turning tricks on the eastside around Jack the Ripper were doing it for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:52 AM
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You’re the one making claims kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:46 AM
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That’s heavily dependent on social class, and on the reason for single parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:45 AM
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Nope. Just turn up in court. Shared care in default these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:04 AM
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Because you lack social skill, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:02 AM
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Dude, my eldest is a pilot. If someone fucks up then their arse is grass in three seconds flat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:01 AM
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Except that it hasn’t. Men who bother to apply get their kids. Men don’t want their kids, they want to whinge.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:55 AM
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What’s your point? That poorhouses, Magdalene laundries and rickets or scurvy didn’t exist because it was the ruling classes who documented them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:44 AM
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Have you ever opened a history book?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:34 AM
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Except if one closes, the other does too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:23 AM
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Why wouldn’t I be? Men gatekeep over the stupidest things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:30 AM
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Bullshit. You are talking out your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:28 AM
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Atlas has linked it about a hundred times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:26 AM
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Is better pay going to attract worse teachers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:25 AM
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Just like men are keen on feminism when it means she’s paying for dinner, operating on his tumour, collecting his garbage or delivering his mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:49 AM
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There’s nothing inaccurate in her statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:37 AM
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Women have been relentlessly competing against the male gatekeeping since infancy. We also get called much worse than cockfags, and the death threats come with a rape threat attached. They’re not just going to asphyxiate us; they’re going to rape us afterwards. Layoffs are last on, first off. As they’ve always been. Don’t bitch about Fort McMurray until you’ve been to Barrow Island or Kakadu.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:34 AM
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So you’re going to get worse teachers for the boys coming behind you? Why do you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:03 AM
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And that perception has been demonstrated as being false time and again on here. Why perpetuate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:00 AM
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Female engineers: I need to bar and bolt the door to my donga so I don’t get raped in my sleep, I have to squat in the bushes because there’s no female toilet onsite, I’m constantly spoken down to, when I pull up men for patronising me I’m told I’m a bitch, the PPE doesn’t fit properly, I’m hauled before HR for defending myself from a potential rapist, and I have to do twice as well to be considered half as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:21 AM
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I hire women because they’re gentler with the equipment for the same results. Men are too rough and clumsy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:52 AM
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So pay teaching better and attract more male teachers. Your president is a man, our prime minister is a man, and both upper and lower houses are majority male; why aren’t you asking them to do anything about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:44 AM
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So steady harder and do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:42 AM
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How quickly you forget about Jordan Peterson and his fanboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:37 AM
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It’s funny how libertarians go all big government when it comes to paying for their crotchspawn. Have a vasectomy and be grateful that you’re not the one who has to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:34 AM
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What’s your personality match?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:08 AM
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You can only argue with stupidity for so long before you realise you’re wasting your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:01 PM
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Some boys. Not boys per se. Same as working class girls getting pulled out of school to care for younger siblings. This is a class issue as much as a gender issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:59 PM
1

Very rarely. If I accused you of rape, no one would believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:56 PM
1

Extremely rarely. Dude is more likely to be raped than accused of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:54 PM
1

He was fucked because he had a moron lawyer and the public loves to condemn black men and boys. Never would have happened if she’d accused a white boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:53 PM
2

I regularly have women hold doors for me. The only men who have done so are my husband and drivers when I’ve booked a cab. Anecata?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:05 PM
1

A bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:01 PM
0

And when yesterday’s rooster becomes today’s feather duster; they move on to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 12:00 PM
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You’ve honestly had people screech and scream at you for holding a door for them? Not sure how you’re equating being polite and considerate with being a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:15 AM
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I don’t think he would, either. Not sure what all the workers he bilked out of their entitlements would call him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:12 AM
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I get it, you’re a fan. Objectively though; the dude’s a nobody. He’s a small fish in a big pond, and he thought he was bigger than he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 11:08 AM
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More diverse in that they had several irons in the fire; a bigger creative resume.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:57 AM
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“Boys” aren’t doing badly. Working class boys are. Usually, but not always, because being a shiny arse with a desk job is held in contempt by their working class communities. Public school and Grammarian boys are doing just fine in the academic stakes. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/06/150610093116.htm Boys’ own sexist attitudes is making them fail, apparently. https://teachmag.com/archives/133 Peer pressure to be “cool” https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.irishtimes.com/news/educati…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:54 AM
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Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:44 AM
2

A fool and his money...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:30 AM
4

No one is making you date anyone. Get a blow up sheep and sign out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:29 AM
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If it keeps you off the streets, I’ll buy you a blow up doll of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:26 AM
1

And they appreciated the caliber of his work so much that they came in to bat for him. Oh, wait...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:20 AM
2

What do you mean by “political realist”? Pragmatist? Opportunist?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:17 AM
1

They say she’s clingy, neurotic, needy and desperate instead, and that it’s her fault for frightening the men away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:09 AM
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Williams and TIP were both much bigger, more diverse and more established stars. Keith Richards has probably raped more women and taken more heroin than everyone in Hollywood combined; but nothing would stick, he’s just too big.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:06 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:40 AM
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And ones telling them to diet, buy overpriced beauty products and apparel, that they’re not good enough and that they’ll never be good enough. The pushback against the commercialisation of women’s bodies is minute in comparison to the money making matching of telling women they’re ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:39 AM
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Was told to confess and to plead guilty by his lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:36 AM
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Except there’s not. https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympathy-no-prison.amp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 09:32 AM
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Of course not. Have you ever heard of a boy being convicted of anything (not just rape, but theft, arson, assault, littering...) on the word of a single classmate and absolutely no other evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:51 AM
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That’s happened to plenty of artists over the years. Just ask Ariana Grande, Kanye or Beyoncé. Talented people and resilient people get back up and keep trying. That’s why Miley Cyrus is still performing, and Robin Thicke is a washed up nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:47 AM
4

How much did multiple accusations of rape hamstring Trump’s career?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:28 AM
1

By SJW, I’m guessing you mean keyboard warriors rather than actual activists?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:22 AM
2

Not because Thicke was a talentless hack?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:20 AM
0

Who has sympathy for ugly or socially inept girls? crickets
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:13 AM
1

If you try to help people, you’re going to get hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:06 AM
3

I have three. And if any of them refuse to give their seat to an elderly, disabled, pregnant or otherwise incapacitated person, I would be ashamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:00 AM
2

You’re blaming someone with uncontrollable morning sickness for your decision to assault them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:58 AM
3

That myth has been busted many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:57 AM
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All women? Your mother didn’t. Go look for a woman who’s more like your mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:57 AM
1

And Woody Allan did in the 1960s. There has always been a subset of men who will pay for the woman to go away afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:54 AM
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There are affirmative action hiring quotas for men in education, social care and Vet sci.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:51 AM
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When I was pregnant, the only people who ever offered me a seat were other women. Same story when I had crutches and a broken leg in plaster. Men are selfish and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:48 AM
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I would love to see a paradigm shift to greater equality. It’s something that I have actively worked towards all my adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:43 AM
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Answer the question. How about an elderly woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:36 AM
0

Where has anyone, ever said that sex and relationships are a level playing field? Do you assume ugly girls don’t exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:35 AM
2

If we had an egalitarian society, feminism would be redundant. Until then...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:56 AM
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What gave you the idea that feminism vanished during the depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:54 AM
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Leftist women are more concerned that he’s not going to get raped than if he can’t get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:23 AM
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I honestly don’t think you’re going to find very many middle class anti feminists who give a brass farthing about the plight of the working classes, either. America needs a Labour Party.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:15 AM
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As long as they’re not breaking any laws, management reserving the right to refuse service is pretty universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:05 AM
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At the stage of pregnancy she’s at, you’d be charged with homicide in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:55 AM
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What would you expect and elderly man to give you in exchange for your seat?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:43 AM
1

Wouldn’t you spend more time stuck in traffic than actually moving?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:37 AM
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What percentage of that 2% have religious reasons for celibacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:34 PM
3

I’d never run a car in London. When I’m working in town, my cars stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:25 PM
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What percentage of people in cities actually own cars? They’re more trouble than they’re worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:58 AM
1

Are you saying David Cameron’s escapades with a pug skull were made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:17 AM
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Uninterested doesn’t mean incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:46 AM
2

Skipped leg day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:59 AM
3

She’s unrecognisable until she sings. That voice is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:58 AM
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The cadavers are evidence, not friends. I don’t actually deal with the men beyond documenting the samples they leave. One “donor” actually cross referenced with the animal cruelty database for me last night, though. Think David Cameron.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:52 AM
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I’ve yet to see it in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:46 AM
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My husband used to show and breed them. Highlands are cranky bastards. The only dog who’s happy to move them is my Australian kelpie, who must more courage than sense, and the cat, who believes he has nine lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:45 AM
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Poor Doge, being associated with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:01 AM
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You made out like she was blending in with all the other girls by being exactly the same. Camouflage isn’t always in relation to the background.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:23 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:22 AM
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Men have sex with cadavers; they prefer what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:26 AM
1

He couldn’t be worse than the current one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:06 AM
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He was a sailor, so likely had a girl in every port. Olive just kept the home fires burning, bought spinach and looked after Sweetpea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:05 AM
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The cows don’t think so. My highland bull wants to kill him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:04 AM
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So it’s camouflage? Same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:03 AM
5

The women Nazis and sadists probably need some nookie too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:02 AM
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Everything is about sex. Except for sex, which is about power. Wasn’t that Oscar Wilde?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:58 AM
9

Bright colours are to warn off predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:57 AM
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One of my sisters is a paramedic. Some of the situations she’s freed penises from are pretty eye opening. Car exhaust pipes is a frequent one., as are paddocks of sheep or cows.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:20 AM
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Men must be very poor quality if you prefer to take a bone from a dog. Have you ever seen a dog’s penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:15 AM
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Work with cadavers, can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:16 PM
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That’s saying something about the quality of men they’re coming across.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:15 PM
2

Sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:13 PM
2

Yep. Think Olive Oyl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:10 PM
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He’s married to a Kennedy, so he’d get the Democrat vote anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:10 PM
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Lol. Relevance deprivation syndrome at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:08 PM
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I can feel let down by someone without hating them. I right the wrong by making different choices than my parents did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:07 PM
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This one’s a big tabby. He shares a kennel with my border collie bitch and tries to help herd the livestock.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:05 PM
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Spielberg?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:38 PM
1

So he can rip it off you and kill you? Yeah, nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:34 PM
1

I’m not giving Roosh a click.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:25 PM
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People who give don’t stay on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:24 PM
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I don’t hate him. He was a product of his generation, social class and upbringing. All you can do is just try not to make the same mistakes as your parents, without making lots of new ones, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:23 PM
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He’s a republican. Not sure why he’d swap sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:21 PM
1

He looks worried to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:07 AM
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What did you write?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:43 AM
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If America considered chadish masculinity to be the cornerstone of politics, they’d have Arnold Schwarzenegger running the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:33 AM
2

Really? Wow, I hadn’t heard that one before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:28 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:26 AM
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Who has the most power and respect is king of the gutter, even if he doesn’t have a penny to his name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:26 AM
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I grew up in a tradcon environment, where dad was head of the household, and we stood when he entered the room. I was taught that women were inferior, weak, silly, deformed men. Parents fuck you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:24 AM
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I’m skinny and unattractive. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:20 AM
1

Butterface isn’t that common?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:18 AM
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Western, white wealthy women. No one is doing the chavs who work as cleaners or telemarketers any favours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:15 AM
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I have a cat who acts like a dog. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:13 AM
1

Your article says that it increased women in management in one department, but not in others. That doesn’t scream clear cut to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:10 AM
1

Really? You have anything I can read about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:49 AM
5

Why’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:35 AM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:35 AM
1

Of course they do. Wealth just doesn’t always mean cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:34 AM
1

Probably similar to my brothers. A girlfriend or two in high school, then settle down with “the one” at uni.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:46 AM
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There’s just as many arseholes in the working class. It’s just that the greasy pole looks different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:35 AM
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Alien as in foreigner, or as in little green men? Furries though? That’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:04 AM
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I think it’s my lived experience of being born into a social class full of political and industry leaders. You’re not bought up to be kind; you’re bought up to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:36 AM
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I would assume that most men old enough to have gone on an end of season footy trip or a bucks party to have visited a brothel.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:39 AM
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No. Being married ensured I was kept in the loop as my husband died, that I had the privilege of being beside him as he passed, and that I didn’t have to fight his family for our children to inherit his estate. If I’d been a girlfriend - his parents would have been given those decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:38 AM
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As well as ruthless, aggressive, willing to exploit loopholes, not concerned about who they step on on their way up, and - in regards to most of my social circle - born that way. Old school tie opens doors, otherwise Boris Johnson would be sweeping floors.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:42 AM
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You think people become rich through being kind or generous?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:20 PM
1

You can’t help people who don’t want to be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:19 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:29 AM
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In a just world, that would happen. Unfortunately, we live in a rich man’s world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:14 AM
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What was your point, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:15 AM
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Men have more fast twitch muscle fibres, which is where that explosive speed comes from. Women have more slow twitch fibres, which is why they can get through a 25hour labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:30 AM
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American single digit is medium to large everywhere else. Anyway, I thought big arses were all the rage these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:13 AM
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The one you made just then; it’s not all sunshine and rainbows.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:07 AM
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And who would choose to be a slave?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:06 AM
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Boys in working class families were rarely educated. Why is that so unbelievable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:05 AM
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My husband was a very pretty boy in his early teens. I thought He was way too pretty to be taken seriously, and preferred my boys a bit more rugged. He cut his hair shorter in his late teens, and started needing to shave, which piqued my interest. My eldest son is pretty in a babyfaced, blue eyed sort of way, and gets attention from younger girls rather than girls his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:47 AM
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Or they could be enjoying the career break. I love my children, but I’m not going to whitewash the fact that full time caring is usually boring, messy and monotonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:38 AM
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As someone who was married to a high powered, 1% earner; I don’t think you’re correct. By the time we made our 15th wedding anniversary, I was the only starter wife left out of his university social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:25 AM
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You can’t pay rent with good intentions alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:22 AM
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Girls weren’t educated, and boys rarely were in working class families; so there was a captive workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:21 AM
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Then take it from someone who has; it’s a hard, boring slog some days. There’s poo, blood, vomit, sleepless nights and constant cleaning. I’m currently doing everything one handed, because my 6yo shouted “catch me, mummy” as he launched himself off a 2m retaining wall at me, dislocating my shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 07:59 AM
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No. Have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:15 AM
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I’m not saying they’re more relevant. I’m saying they exist. Which is what you have been denying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 02:14 AM
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“My balls will hurt if you don’t have sex with me” doesn’t scream “high value” to me, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:58 AM
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Killing yourself because you’re ashamed of asking for help, not seeing the dr about that strange mole on your back because drs are for sissies, or ending up a quadriplegic because you couldn’t back down from a mate daring you to dive into surf are the kind of life shortening situations I’m talking about. Stupid risks, born of fear of being shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:56 AM
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And some argue that it’s gender discrimination that men die younger than women. They need to decide what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:43 AM
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https://everydayfeminism.com/2016/03/myths-stay-at-home-moms/ https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/m.huffpost.com/us/entry/14419752/amp https://medium.com/the-ascent/being-a-stay-at-home-mom-is-my-kind-of-feminism-37fb409d9252 https://www.mothermag.com/stay-at-home-mom-feminist/ https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/takeaway/segments/277141-choices-and-challenges-feminist-stay-home-moms
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:36 AM
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I married because that gave my husband and I joint legal power of attorney over who pulls the plug on life support. Joint say over fruit of the union, assets and investments was important, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 03:02 AM
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A 4yo opinion article. I’m sure you can do better. I’m also not an American, and watching their economy tank while Trump claims it isn’t is train crash funny not funny. I’m English, so we have to get our schadenfreude somewhere these days. Given you’re from the subcontinent, this is a good “learn from my fail” moment for you. Feminism is not in agreement regarding SAHMs, otherwise there wouldn’t be a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:12 AM
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TM is why men die young. Is that the outcome you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:19 AM
1

Have you ever raised a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:13 AM
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Yeah, you are. No one wants to waste their life in a job that they don’t find satisfaction in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:12 AM
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You linked a PPD conversation. That’s pretty poor. I linked a Forbes article detailing the phenomenon, as well as the sociopolitical background of wage stagnation. Given it’s a known fact, and one that there’s almost universal consensus on, I’m not sure why you want to die on this hill. Is this just an ideological thing to you? Up there with climate change denialism or or flat eartherism, perchance? I’m not sure how you managed to read an entire academic paper and miss the point about there bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:10 AM
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So all older men are naive enough to be manipulated by teenagers?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:00 AM
1

How did you choose your career path?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:58 AM
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You don’t think people try and gain employment in areas they find meaningful or fulfilling?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:52 AM
1

How is being stuck as primary caretaker beneficial?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:50 AM
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Would you, personally, find it harder to manipulate an older, more worldly person; or a person who isn’t legally old enough to buy alcohol in most of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:49 AM
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Real wages have stagnated for decades. Yay liberalism. https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.forbes.com/sites/stevedenning/2018/07/26/how-to-fix-stagnant-wages-dump-the-worlds-dumbest-idea/amp/ I’m not sure why you’re still trying to insist that 3rd wave feminism didn’t happen, that neoliberalism didn’t affect the movement, that the politics of poverty wasn’t ever examined by the movement or that bell hooks didn’t spend a career trying to dismantle the fashion. https://www.colorado.edu/genders/201…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:47 AM
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How is outsourcing childcare so that he can progress his career not beneficial to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:26 AM
1

Payroll tax and VAT are a small percentage of taxes collected. Welfare is a small proportion of GDP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:24 AM
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If they didn’t care, they’d have other jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:22 AM
1

The employer pays his employee: husband gives wife housekeeping money. The employment contract terminates: divorce. The employer pays out LSL, TOIL, sick leave and other entitlements: alimony. The former employee is a subcontractor to their former employer: wife is payed child support for continuing to raise ex husband’s children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:34 AM
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If he’s bringing home the bacon, who do you think is being told to cook it, how to cook it, and clean up afterwards? He earns money, so she’s expected to do everything else. If she fails to meet his arbitrary standards, who gets the backhander? If he leaves, who has the current resume and is able to keep earning money, and who is starting from the bottom rung? Given the child support debt is into the billions in America, it’s not like she can rely on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:45 AM
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Are you trying to say that liberal feminism - the dominant ideology within the movement since the rise of neoliberalism in the 1980s - is a made up concept? Really? Two income households are due to the rise in the cost of living, combined with the stagnation of real wage growth, rise in casualisation of the workforce, and lack of job security as much as women not wanting to be left high and dry if a spouse dies or abandons them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 08:37 AM
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There’s no measurement of “happiness” which has been taken before the 1950s, so how would we know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:58 AM
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That’s why there’s no women involved in trade unionism, labour law, nursing of male patients, teaching in boys schools, working or volunteering in delinquent rehabilitation or youth justice, or working to bring justice for alter boys abused by the clergy...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:43 AM
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Do you think it’s hard or easy to manipulate a person who is much younger than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:26 AM
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Are you trying to claim that a 65yo is naive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:23 AM
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That’s one country. Who are doing better than the UK and the USA. Who else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:16 AM
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How am I, a single mother and a widow, dependent on a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:14 AM
1

Yes, these are radfem opinions. I agree with their position on this, but claiming that this is the only position that the entire feminist movement has on workplace participation is disingenuous. I’m not sure why you’re trying to make this claim, or why you’re trying to deny that liberal feminism, choice feminism or attachment feminism exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:12 AM
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She was a radfem. Most feminists these days are liberal or intersectional. They aren’t as prescriptive as old Simone was.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:43 AM
4

When you’re a SAHM, your husband is your boss, HR and payroll all in one, and you can’t leave without taking a huge financial hit. Would you take that job?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:41 AM
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I’m a widow. If I’d have left the workforce to raise children (my husband died while I was pregnant with our youngest) , we would have lost our house and gone hungry while waiting for his life insurance to pay out. Being dependent on another person is reckless and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:36 AM
1

I’m going with boredom. There’s only so many times you can Hoover the floor or play sudoku before you’re bored enough to cold text exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:24 AM
1

She’s not wrong, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:21 AM
1

Who do you think is looking after those sick and dying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:19 AM
1

Which countries with women leaders have been doing worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:19 AM
1

They’ve been fundraising desperately to move at-risk women out of DV situations in my neck of the woods.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:18 AM
2

Feminism is the logical conclusion of women wanting to be seen as being as human as men. How is this a luxury?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:17 AM
1

Encouraging cleanliness increases feelings of disgust and encourages conservatism? I think this author is seeking to confirm a bias rather than seek knowledge. https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(20)30526-2/fulltext This article suggests you are putting the cart before the horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:15 AM
1

They think knowledge about inferior things makes them a cuck/inferior/a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:22 AM
1

Men with that ubiquitous barbed wire around the arm or No Fear or similar brand name. Why not just put “I thought I was cool in the 90s” on your forehead? A cheese grater though? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:20 AM
2

It’s the gender equivalent of forelock tugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:51 PM
1

False accusations of DV are dwarfed by actual instances of DV. It’s also well established that men - generally - don’t want the hassle and responsibility of childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:49 PM
1

So it’s a concept you have imagined.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:46 PM
1

https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.smh.com.au/politics/federal/a-fraction-of-fathers-lose-access-to-their-kids-why-the-family-court-isn-t-anti-men-20190919-p52syn.html https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/hbr.org/amp/2020/01/metoos-legacy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:46 AM
1

There’s no such thing as the alt left.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:30 AM
1

The idea that a senior manager with ministerial connections being called to account on a “he said she said” accusation is very fishy. Either you’re not telling the whole truth, or they were looking for a reason to move you on. Bias against men in assault, rape and family/DV circumstances has been comprehensively disproven.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:29 AM
1

Actually, you’re going to need to cite that assertion, because what you’re saying is rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:21 PM
0

Downvoting me won’t change the fact that most of us have very low weights, very low fat percentages and that every oz counts when you’re hanging from your fingertips off the side of a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:20 PM
1

Marxism and socialism are completely different things. As is fascism and antifa. I would have thought the “anti” part was a hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:17 PM
1

It’s not up to either person to prove what happens. It’s up to whoever is investing the claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:19 AM
1

I was having this fight with our school recently, except it was a male classmate who - in front of the entire class and teacher - who lifted my daughter’s skirt and grabbed her bum. Apparently it was just “boys can be silly “ and she should have seen it as a compliment. Bad behaviour in schools isn’t taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:24 AM
3

Nice friends! /s. I hope you told them that they fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:56 AM
1

I get what you mean. My best friend’s married to a jockey. EDs are de jour in the profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:51 AM
1

When was the last time a man was convicted of anything on the sole testimony of one woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:48 AM
0

I have 30 + years experience dealing with naked bodies. You get to a point where you can guess height and weight very accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:46 AM
3

Given the fastest growing homeless demographic is older women who took time out of the workforce to raise children and didn’t accrue enough retirement savings, I think it’s going to be a self limiting phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:32 AM
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Young people. Discipline isn’t fashionable these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:05 AM
1

I have. I still don’t see how you’ve conflated benefiting from systematic and historical oppression, with actually being instigators of oppression. The call to arms stuff was more Engles and Lenin’s bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:04 AM
1

Are you seriously saying that men in America are treated the same way as women in Iran or Saudi Arabia?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:58 AM
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I recently lost one of my young accountants for putting that in her report.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:42 AM
1

Everyone gets a verbal, then a written, then gone everywhere I’ve worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:40 AM
1

HR would be all over that like a rash here in the UK, or when I’ve worked in Europe, Canada or Australia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:38 AM
0

My experience is different to your experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:34 AM
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Wiry and athletic, not anorexic. When you’re hanging off a cliff face by your fingertips, every oz counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:33 AM
1

Then use your head, and don’t opine anything that will potentially embarrass your employer. You are a representative of their values and they’re going to protect their reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:15 AM
1

When did Marx say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:34 AM
2

Then do what women have always done, and protect your reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:33 AM
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Then why are you even thinking about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:31 AM
1

Sounds like a good idea. Compatible lifestyles usually work out for the best. Protip; go for rock climbing girls. None will weigh more than 100lb unless they’re very tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:29 AM
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That’s how workplaces operate. Reputation is everything, and a company with a reputation for being above board attracts a better quality of staff and contracts than a company with a reputation for burying inconvenient incidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:55 AM
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You’re going to have to focus in the workforce. This is where you practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:49 AM
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Absolutely. I’ve been subjected to “did you swallow a dictionary” and “why do you use words no one understands” since nursery school. No one likes blue stocking girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:43 AM
5

I’d say it’s about the way these preferences are expressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:37 AM
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You’d also get in trouble for saying bald men are deformed or redheads are orangutans. Being at work, in uniform or identifiable as an employee means not embarrassing your company by being a dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:35 AM
2

How? By telling your mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:32 AM
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If body shaming wasn’t a thing, then women wouldn’t have an issue with divulging their weight. You’re not going to get what you want until you stop body shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:29 AM
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It doesn’t matter how unreliable a complainant is. What matters is that the company is seen as keeping its house in order. Any accusations of impropriety need to be aggressively put to bed, otherwise the board and the shareholders get cross.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:26 AM
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So you’re into weight training, and fish in that pool?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:22 AM
3

How did she establish that an accusation was false without any sort of investigation? Why did you quit instead of trying to exonerate yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:51 AM
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Same deal if a male colleague accused you of embezzling. All accusations need to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:48 AM
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Plumbers are usually sole traders or subcontractors. Their secretary doesn’t have an HR department to complain to if he gooses her; she can either put up with it or leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:24 AM
0

Would you divulge your weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:22 AM
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There’s plenty of jockeys all over fitness magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:21 AM
3

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:48 AM
1

People who have a moral compass. If you desire to rape and kill, why haven’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:14 AM
1

It depends on how badly you want your insurance companies to know about your genetic makeup. Is a lifetime of increased premiums going to cost more than $50 for the test if the kid’s yours? Or more that 18 years of child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:07 AM
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In the same way that every goods or services provider takes advantage of a want or a need. Do you think McDonalds is exploiting consumers by advertising their products?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:57 AM
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Fear of being caught and punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:37 AM
1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:35 AM
3

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:36 AM
1

FIFO workers stuck in a donga beside an oil rig for weeks at a time, according to my friends who work FIFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:21 AM
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He’s a lumberjack and he’s ok He works all night and he sleeps all day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:16 AM
2

If that’s the case, then women going on diets, developing eating disorders, undergoing plastic surgery, shelling out for gym memberships, makeup, hair styling, tanning, waxing and shape wear are due to male sexual power.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:25 AM
1

In the navy...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:34 AM
1

Girls mature faster than boys. I thought you lot were all over biothruths?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:11 AM
2

Older is relative. A 13yo thinks an 18yo is ancient and scary; but a 40yo thinks a 45yo is someone about their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:10 AM
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Because young men still light their farts and get into “hold my beer” type stupid situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:06 AM
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Put your money where your mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:57 AM
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If women held sexual power, then rape would be impossible, because she’d have the power to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 09:08 AM
1

Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 09:15 AM
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Most people are two missed paydays away from going hungry. A 25yo with a job and a car looks less broke and more exciting than a 17yo with a pushbike and pocket money from mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:53 AM
1

I’m not American. Which women have tried to force you into forced labour or tortured you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:52 AM
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Because an older woman will take single with cats every day of the week over an inadequate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:44 AM
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Of course I have. Almost every woman has. Now tell me about these radfems who are forcing men into labour camps and torturing them...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 11:58 PM
1

Treated like shit? Or just not lionised.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:25 AM
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Unlike the threats of death and rape leveled at them, I suppose? You deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 10:24 AM
1

So avoid radfems. Like women avoid incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:52 PM
5

The opinion I expressed is hardly fringe amongs incels. It’s their main talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:39 AM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 10:07 AM
1

No one says shoot em, don’t root em about ugly men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:28 AM
1

Good men aren’t good in every sphere of their lives. A longtime friend of mine is a loving husband and father, philanthropist, industry leader and scoutmaster. He’s also a compulsive gambler who has pushed his family to the brink of bankruptcy several times.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:18 AM
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I love my mother, sisters and girlfriends, and I value their opinions. If they point out a red flag, I’m going to pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:06 AM
1

Don’t gamble what you’re not willing to lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 09:01 AM
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If incels were less nasty to women, they’d get more sympathy. No one is going to make nice with men who think you’re a dumb hole who deserves to be raped to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:59 AM
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Would any woman know you’re a virgin if you didn’t tell her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:53 AM
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When you stop the thot, slut, cat lady, harpy, nag, scrag, fat cow, oldest teenager in the house, useless, etc insults and stop raping us. It can’t be that hard to not hurt others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:52 AM
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Why would a woman show mercy to a people who have regularly threaten to rape and kill her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:47 AM
3

This goes on way beyond graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 08:31 AM
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If a woman is walking up to a man and saying “wanna smash?”, then unless he’s also desperate and not afraid of being with a “slut”, he’s going to laugh and walk away. Men are scared of being seen with sluts, and that’s what women who approach are seen as. The women who tell her girlfriends that she thinks he’s hot, and those girlfriends tell his mates that she’s keen on him is approaching, as is the woman who gives him an opening (can I borrow your pen/what sort of dog is that/I’m trying to buy …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:45 AM
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There’s a different dynamic between talking to a young woman by herself, and talking to a middle aged or old woman, or women in a group. We see what you’re doing, and call you out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:13 PM
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It depends on the ages and the age gap. For a 15yo girl, a 20yo man is old, weird, scary or creepy; but for a 50yo woman, a 55 yo man is a peer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 09:06 AM
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I was under the impression that RPW was about just sucking it up and staying with him and propping him up because that’s what females are biologically designed to do: be a supportive first mate to their captain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:50 AM
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In the back of a police van when we were both picked up as students protesting about poll taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:14 AM
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Most young women have body image issues, and some variety of sub clinical eating disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:12 AM
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I’ve had one partner. My husband. We met young and were each other’s first time. It happens, just not that often. Most low count women I know have body image issues, are devout, or met their SO very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:11 AM
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I maintain all my own vehicles. I wouldn’t do anything beyond oil/water/tyres and cleaning on anything within warranty, because I wouldn’t want to void that warranty. Things like changing a tyre or a wiper blade is taught to kids as part of their license requirements. If you can’t check your own oil, you don’t get your P plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:42 AM
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The ones I know fall into two catagories: Desperados who will take anything in order to not be single, and permasingles who would rather eat their toenails than put up with a man cluttering up their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:49 AM
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The age of consent where I live is 16 (leaving aside Romeo and Juliet laws). If it was my 16yo daughter, niece, etc... I would certainly let her know that she was in a potentially dangerous situation. Why would a man, who is old enough to drink, vote, drive or travel the world want to hang out with a schoolgirl?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 12:56 AM
1

Good on you for getting professional support. That’s the biggest stumbling block for so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 12:15 AM
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My late husband lived with PTSD. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone, and caring for him was a huge emotional and physical marathon. Managing a partner’s mental wellbeing takes a massive toll, and I’m glad that young men these days are willing to seek professional help , rather than expecting their partner to shoulder the burden for them. Don’t get me wrong; I loved my husband, and I miss him every day, but it would have made my life much easier if I wasn’t his emotional scaffolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:04 AM
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Except that he was just a rich brat who was trying to use his parents money to buy friends and look cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:26 AM
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It’s a really bad idea. Removing yourself from the workforce leaves you in a very precarious position, and totally at the mercy of your spouse remaining with you, employed and alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:34 PM
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It’s a metaphor, which means that people are more likely to act in their own self interests rather than be altruistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:26 PM
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I think that’s a pretty safe bet. In a two horse race, always back self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:31 AM
1

The men in the orchestra pit have every girl in the chorus and corps de ballet lusting after them. Artistic types date and mate other artistic types.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:21 AM
1

Read what I wrote again, because you’ve misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:43 PM
1

How did you arrive at that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 08:27 AM
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I think there was, but not necessarily in the way the accusation was made. One of the more common forms of false accusation is misdirected accusations. Dad being accused instead of the parish Priest is the most common one I’ve come across, along with stepdad being accused when it was dad or grandpa. The idea of #metoo was to suspend automatic accusations of dishonesty against people divulging painful experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:55 AM
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There have been abuse claims made against Depp by Winona Ryder, Vanessa Paridis, Lori Anne Alison and his daughter, Lily Rose. There have also been multiple public incidents of violent and alcohol induced misbehaviour. He’s currently accusing Heard of getting medical staff to paint bruises on her, and trying to prevent her from testifying against Harvey Weinstein. Does this sound like an innocent victim to you? Or someone who’s nature finally caught up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:32 AM
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And I’ve pointed out to you that the end result is what usually happens. Making accusations is demonstrably the surest way to destroy your reputation and career. Has Depp’s name been dragged through the mud, despite the fact that this was a mutually violent relationship? Double standards ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:49 PM
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Because forceful women are ubiquitous in those cultures. He rules outside the house, but she rules the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:45 PM
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I think it sounds like a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:42 PM
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Of course it’s not. I’ve never claimed otherwise. When you have someone like Harvey Weinstein, Jimmy Seville or George Pell, it’s pretty safe to say that where there’s smoke, there’s fire, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:39 PM
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I’m trying to help you learn to use evidence and logic. Tell me how Amber Heard is benefiting from making her allegations. Then find me anyone who has benefited from making claims of domestic abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:52 AM
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Or robbery, or murder, or manslaughter... aplenty of the Grenville tower victims took a payout rather than continue through court. Does that mean their home isn’t burned out anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 07:47 AM
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I used to say “daughter 1, dad works hard all week, so you can go mow the lawn while daughter 2 trims the edges and daughters 3 and 4 help me dead head the flowers. Dad can start the mower and supervise.” It usually took about fifteen minutes before he couldn’t bear it any longer and I’d have four kids wielding secuteurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:15 AM
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I’m old. YMMV as a young man, but my children tell me that not much has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:03 AM
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I think dating rituals are a bit like job interview rituals. No one expects you to be immaculately presented and word perfect on every day of your working life, but it’s certainly expected in that interview. No one expects a man to pay for everything, but he’s generally expected to pay for the first date. No one expects women to be permanently set to male ego massage setting, but a man paying for a first date expects that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:39 AM
1

So how has her claims of being abused worked out for her? What has she ended up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:32 AM
1

Is an accusation of dishonesty sufficient of guilt?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:31 AM
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Your article was unclear as to whether payments had been taken or just offered. I’m not sure why you’re getting the idea that accepting an out of court settlement means nothing’s happened though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:51 AM
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Don’t you know any European women? Any south East Asian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:45 AM
1

If the OP was arguing in good faith, he would have pushed the idea of innocence until proven guilty for both parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:18 AM
1

And how’s that worked out for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:16 AM
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Pulling out can mean many things besides dishonesty. Accepting an out of court settlement means you get to avoid the trauma of court.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:15 AM
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How was Amber Heard made powerful by accusing Depp of assault? She’s still a b grade celebrity, and now one who’s unhirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:12 PM
1

Then clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:09 PM
1

Same thing. Birth rates below replacement level is a negative birthrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:08 PM
1

I’m not strawmanning. I’m seeing intent. You tell me what you think of rape accusations...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:07 PM
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That doesn’t say 23 out of 25. It’s talking about trying to get people to settle out of court, which is an extremely common thing, in all varieties of trial. It’s “shut up and go away” money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 08:06 PM
1

Why should we tolerate intolerance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:00 PM
2

Jew hurt Nazis, did they?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:35 AM
7

Why on earth should I have empathy for people who wish nothing but ill on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:25 AM
3

That’s literally what the OP has opined.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:20 AM
1

Where did you hear th At?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:09 AM
1

Innocent until proven guilty applies to the person making the accusation as well. Why should the accused be given the benefit of the doubt, but the alleged victim be assumed to have committed a crime? It’s not actually that hard to believe that an alleged victim has had a crime committed against them, whilst maintaining that the crime may not have been intentional, or committed by the accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:04 AM
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Who gains power by making an accusation of abuse? Usually you’re assumed to be lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:12 AM
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Given the culture of victim blaming and assumption of lying, I think carrying on over false accusations is a malicious strawman, with the intent of silencing victims. It’s the favoured method (children lie) of the Catholic Church when trying to discredit victims of abuse by clergy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:11 AM
1

You’re beautiful, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:05 AM
1

More people dying than being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 07:23 AM
4

If you got women with the libidos of men, you’d just slut shame them into becoming political lesbians anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:34 AM
2

Thanks. He was an old relative, well into his 80s, who’d lived a rich, full life and was laid to rest beside his late wife, parents and brothers. It was a celebration of his life as much as it was mourning the loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:07 AM
1

I’m an old person who remembers when rock was dangerous, punk was savage, and metal used to frighten people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 06:05 AM
5

The feminist “single girl” politics kids I know (my kids and their friends) would rather be alone than with someone who’s political opinions rendered them unattractive. I remember American friends holding similar opinions regarding men who supported Nixon back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 04:20 AM
1

Lily Allen, Pink, Gwen Stefani, Courtney Love, Patti Smyth, Tones and I and Dolores O’Riordan are all extremely political.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:46 AM
1

Who’s singing about politics rather than swords and necromancy in metal? Punk and folk is political, metal is dungeons and dragons and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:39 AM
1

Family funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:18 AM
2

Johnny Depp has form as an abuser from his relationship with Winona Ryder. I think most people are thinking what goes around, comes around, or that it was a mutually violent situation, rather than not caring about men per se. Contrast with Terry Crews.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:02 AM
1

What defines ugly? One person’s awful can be another person’s rugged, or exotic, or “has character”. A friend of mine has a huge scar from his eyebrow to the side of his mouth (he fell out of a tree onto a fence as a kid), and he looks swashbuckling.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:21 AM
1

It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:06 AM
1

Having money is important to everyone. Back in the old days, the only way a woman could have money was to be born into or marry into it. While this attitude is still around, it’s petering out and being replaced with women preferring to be able to make their own money, than beg it off a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:30 AM
1

Use it or lose it. So many men die within six months of retirement, because it’s such a shock to their system to not be doing something all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:15 AM
1

Karens don’t though. They get old and cranky and write letters to the editor about kids these days. In the old days, they’d have had a “Richard Bucket” henpecked husband who built model trains in his shed to avoid them. Don’t bother with Karen. Try shy Suzy from archives who’ll act out her Nancy Friday fantasies with you once you’ve earned her trust; or kooky Dora from design who has the good drugs and will make her golden retriever sleep on the couch when you stay over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:17 AM
3

That’s why I’ve stayed in the workforce. Plenty don’t, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:09 AM
3

Except that the college grad will be in the same situation Karen from HR was 20 years ago, and not interested in a go-nowhere relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:49 AM
4

Wouldn’t most people prefer to be independently wealthy and just do what they wanted all the time? Until they got bored, that is...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:45 AM
2

Dodged a bullet. No one likes a liar. Assuming that I’m a gold digger would be insulting and a turn off. Money doesn’t buy class.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:59 AM
5

Same. I was fortunate that there weren’t any kiddy fiddlers amongst the uncles though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:54 AM
3

A father going to school events means “dadulation”. A mother going is expected as part of her job as a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:15 AM
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Yes, it’s very easy when you’re not getting up in the middle of the night for feeds and nappy changes anymore, lol. All jobs are much easier when you’re not doing them on minimal, broken sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:12 AM
1

That’s the one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:09 AM
4

Can you trace your family back to the Norman Conquest? Appear in Burke’s? No? Then you’re not. Fortunately, no one cares these days anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:50 PM
1

In the past 200 years? Where about sis this?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:11 PM
1

UC English.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:05 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:05 PM
3

Of course the can. Bunny boiler is a trope for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:44 AM
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In my culture, it’s expected for men to discretely take lovers, and for women to turn a blind eye as long as he remains discreet. It’s all about the family, not the partnership.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:26 AM
1

Rubbish. The French exist for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:22 AM
3

I learned that the French value enjoyment and sexual fulfilment over stuffy rubbish like loyalty and duty. Europeans have lovers, Englishmen have hot water bottles.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:20 AM
4

Why concern troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:15 AM
1

Allowed to work for money that they can keep. Historically, many professions were off limits for women, and most were expected to leave employment after marriage. This left working for family and cottage industry jobs like taking in washing or keeping chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 03:35 AM
1

Which cultures allowed complete fiscal and social autonomy, thus allowing this kind of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:34 AM
1

I think it’s human nature, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 12:32 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:13 AM
2

Socialisation, not nature. Young women have always been expected to marry up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:15 AM
3

My job is figuring out how dead people got that way. DV very much runs in families.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 08:11 AM
1

I’ve never been there, so I wouldn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:18 AM
1

You’re saying it’s to do with men being competitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:17 AM
3

More conscientious, ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:17 AM
7

It’s a familiar tale. Well done for breaking the cycle, most people can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 05:05 AM
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There’s a few reasons. A man’s self identity is much more closely tied to his job than a woman’s. This is why men frequently crash and burn after retirement. Women are expected to the majority of the unpaid care work (looking after elderly parents, picking up sick kids from school), which eats into their ability to work longer hours. It’s still expected in some cultures that men out-earn their wives
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:51 AM
5

No dad on the scene?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:40 AM
1

I’ve never heard women say this. IME it’s a thing men say to their sons and coaches say to young footballers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:02 AM
6

Did she come from an abusive home herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:55 AM
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I’m not sure where you get the idea that women who stay with violent men aren’t punished or told that it’s their fault for choosing him or staying with him, op. Why didn’t she leave? Is usually the first question asked over a body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:55 AM
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You can, but it’s more difficult and confronting than replicating what you’re familiar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:46 AM
2

Well, this is why widowers remarried very quickly back in the day. A wife is much cheaper than a cook, nanny and wet nurse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 02:50 AM
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Usually. Not always.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:48 AM
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I think it’s a good term by which to screen for the kinds of men who aren’t worth knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 12:07 AM
1

Absolutely. Young people are insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:10 PM
1

We did. Not that it worked on all our siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:09 PM
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No need to be rude. I was just asking for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 11:05 PM
1

Not a trad Christian either? Lots of my Sunday school girlfriends were pushed into marriage with church boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:19 AM
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I married young, so they never got the chance. Mum tried out the Mrs Bennett routine with my sisters though. Funnily enough, my brothers were free to sow their wild oats though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:17 AM
1

Look at how politicians kiss babies while electioneering. They’re doing it for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:05 AM
2

So kids have a similar standard of living in both homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:02 AM
2

Worse than whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:52 AM
1

Really? I know one woman like that, and that was because she was 6’2” in socks and was dating a 7’ basketballer and it was a huge novelty for her not to tower over her date. Amusingly, the man she eventually married is about my height (5’5”), and both of them get a massive kick out of making people stare.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:43 AM
1

The only thing hotter than a semi naked stud is a semi naked stud holding a baby or puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:36 AM
1

Girls don’t spontaneously give you their number (a real one) if they’re not keen. Think about all the firemen holding kittens type calendars and posters. Same principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:32 AM
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Lucky and tenacious. Most teen marriages don’t last.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 08:27 AM
1

You’re willfully ignoring a market. A man cuddling a baby will always be surrounded by women. They’re just more likely to be Becky than Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:20 AM
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Absolutely. My husband’s friends used to borrow our eldest when we were at the pub for exactly this reason. A man cuddling a baby gets lots of numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:16 AM
1

Gay frogs is true? Wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:16 AM
2

Well done on the high effort post. While woman and cats is an old cliche (interesting how we conveniently ignore ships cats, church cats and food shop cats kept by men to keep rodents under control); dogs as “man’s best friend” is a bit of a misnomer. “Man” as in default human is the historical meaning, rather than male human, when it comes to dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 11:30 PM
1

Be honest. No need to be an arsehole. You’ll eventually find someone who’s just looking for a shag, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:32 AM
2

Emo and nerd cross pollinated for My Chemical Romance fans, but not many others.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:18 AM
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The nerd girls I come across tend to prefer a good session of painting orcs for tabletop with their friends to dealing with a computerboi who thinks he’s a DM. Guys also gatekeep up to 11 and turn girls off before they’ve even got a first name.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:15 AM
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I don’t think they do. There’s a large percentage of men who think coercion, getting someone drunk, getting someone drugged and not stopping when asked are sex rather than rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:30 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 10:26 PM
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Because it’s not a legal right that women have. It’s still legal to circumcise girls for “cultural reasons”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:00 PM
1

Where have I ever said that medically unnecessary circumcision should be allowed?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 04:12 AM
1

Don’t even start on baroque.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:01 AM
1

You never know...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:00 AM
3

All music is real music. Some is just more real than others, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:19 AM
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I was hoping that there were other ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 08:18 AM
1

Meals of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:10 AM
1

A man who’s into opera would be inundated with fans, musicians and chorus girls, wouldn’t he? Men who appreciate real music are like hens teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:06 AM
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I see a lot of vetting for looks, who their family is, where they went to school, and where they go to church. There should be more vetting for sexual compatibility, social compatibility, willingness to breed, willingness to stay home with children (you want an Oxbridge graduate, but want her to stay home and wipe bums after she finishes her articles? Lol, no.), and career compatibility. This is why most men I know are onto their second or third wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:46 AM
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What are you planning on cooking with 10lb of flour and 10lb of beef?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:33 AM
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Circumcision is an overwhelming problem to a girl who gets her clitaris sliced off and her lab is sewn shut. It’s the equivalent of having a man’s entire penis head removed. Would you like to go through that? Liking a source has nothing to do with its validity. Honey badgers are a biased and inaccurate source. Find an accurate and unbiased one. If men don’t want to support their children, they’re free to have a vasectomy and not produce any.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:14 AM
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You don’t see how traditional gender roles and men being unwilling to care for their own children are in any way related? Really? Paying for your children isn’t forced reproduction. I’m really not sure how you arrived at that conclusion, tbh. Personally, I favour a more robust welfare state, where abandoned mothers and children, those fleeing family violence, and those unable to make a non custodial parent pay up were cared for. No one wants to deal with their abusive or obnoxious ex. Just raise…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:08 AM
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Men used to get primary custody because married women weren’t allowed to work professionally, or have a bank account in their own name. Paying for your children isn’t forced reproduction, it’s consequences of your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:44 AM
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Circumcision is a male and female problem. Both should be illegal except when medically necessary. Honey badgers aren’t really a reliable source. Find me a reliable one. Forced? US$10billion in unpaid child support says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:40 AM
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Like I just said; people give more credence to an accusation when the accused rapist is a foreigner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:51 AM
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No different. People just jump onto the idea of a refugee raping a white woman with much greater enthusiasm than they do when it’s a local boy. It’s an ownership thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 01:40 AM
1

And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:13 PM
1

What do you mean by “not having a good time?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:13 PM
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There’s plenty of hipsters getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 10:08 PM
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Or you give her money so the kid can eat at her place...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:58 PM
0

Local men rape just as much as migrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:54 PM
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You’d still be paying for your child if he lived with you 100% of the time and his mum was dead. Food, clothes, utilities, medicine, travel to school, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:15 PM
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He literally says it’s a kink. Second paragraph, twelfth word.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:36 PM
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Lol. Go on. Put your money where your mouth is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:34 PM
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Circumcision is carried out on boys and on girls. This is a fact. Neither boys nor girls are protected from this. I provided documentation to show where your shortfall in thinking was. Men don’t get primary custody most of the time because they don’t want it, or are unwilling to make it workable. This is a fact. Men have exactly the same rights as women to end a pregnancy that’s occurring inside their body. This is also a fact. Deal with the fact that you are blinded by ideology and your victim …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 08:33 PM
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What else do you mean by “not going to have a good time”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:55 AM
1

As opposed to not letting children socialise with their peers in case they get picked on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:40 AM
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There are plenty of parents of alter boys who’ve said the same thing. No childhood is without risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:08 AM
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You can tell by how they interact with you, how they’re going to interact with your child when you’re not there?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:31 AM
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Do you know this person has a mental illness? Are they being financially abused, or is this a sexual kink? Because being abused and getting off on LARPing abuse are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:21 AM
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You’re trying to convince me that you’ve never met an unpleasant adult?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:19 AM
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If it’s consent that’s given by someone who’s capable of consent, and not coerced; then it seems bizarre but that’s what he wants. Would it be unethical to force this man to not be able to remain in a consensual situation because it made other people uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:43 AM
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I’ve never said anything other than circumcision should be only when medically necessary. I’m not sure why you’re trying to take issue with that. If a father can prove paternity, he can go on the birth certificate. Same as the mother with proving maternity. Women who freebirth have this issue; why should men have more rights than anyone else? If you can’t prove that you’re the parent; you don’t go on the birth certificate. Mothers usually receive primary custody because men don’t want it, don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:38 AM
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That’s my take on it. Not many mistresses a happy when he shows up with a suitcase.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:53 AM
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A man who cheats with you will also cheat on you. I’m sure some women like the rush of adrenaline or feel flattered, but I wouldn’t consider it worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:51 AM
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Are you seriously trying to tell me that adults are never nasty to children?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:31 AM
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How does a child remove himself from a bigger, stronger and smarter adult, who is charged with interacting with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:39 PM
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I’m not dodging around anything. I’ve been very plain that non-medical circumcision shouldn’t be carried out. The rightful father? I’m a widow. My late husband died when I was five months pregnant with my youngest. Should the birth certificate just be not filled in? Similarly, when donors are used, a father is unknown or unwilling to file paperwork? Kiddo just doesn’t get a birth certificate? No ignorance or arrogance. Just familiarity with the way a court works, and knowledge that if you don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:37 PM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:26 PM
1

Answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:49 AM
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How does a child remove himself from a bigger, stronger and smarter adult charged with interacting with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:26 AM
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In an era of zero hour contracts, poverty wages and spiraling living costs; I think good on them for being able to keep their heads above water in a safe way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:56 AM
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There’s no need for a “ritual nick “ at all, ever. “Culture” is a primitive, superstitious, non- reason to poke holes in or cut pieces off children. Who do you think should fill out the child’s birth certificate? Do you realise that child support is ridiculously easy to avoid, even with proven paternity? https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/news/10-billion-in-child-support-payments-going-uncollected-according-to-estimates/ Men have equal access to children. They just don’t bother …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 06:42 AM
1

You absolutely are stuck with the adults in your life when you’re a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 01:04 AM
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What makes you think adults won’t reject a child who doesn’t measure up to some arbitrary standard like being on the football team?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:16 AM
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Bugger.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:50 PM
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So boys can only be sporty and popular, or non sporty social pariahs, with no middle ground? Not sure where you’re getting the idea that adults aren’t ever nasty to children, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:50 PM
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You find me any examples of female circumcision being beneficial. Any. Male circumcision is necessary when there’s no opening to the foreskin, scar tissue preventing retraction, or tightness preventing retraction. Explain how men’s parental rights are linked to the mother. Does he suddenly stop being a father if she dies? Men absolutely have equal rights regarding child custody. They just usually can’t be bothered exercising those rights. How have I argued that men don’t deserve equal rights? I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:24 PM
1

All children fail constantly. Several times a day. It’s how we learn. Have you learned to ride a bike? Write your name? Did you get it correct the first time? So no boy who’s average or bad at sports is ever going to succeed at anything or have any friends? Ever? He’s going to do better by only interacting with his parents until he turns 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:12 PM
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circumcision is sometimes necessary (phimosis isn’t healthy), for boys, but never for girls. Take away religion and both would drastically reduce. a man’s parental rights are those he’s actually prepared to pony up for. You don’t get custody that you don’t bother to ask for. if that’s true, it’s because America has stupid, traditionalist ideas about gender roles. Everywhere else, it’s taken that whoever’s caring for the child before the split, cares for them afterwards. who’s forcing you to repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:58 PM
1

If you never let your child socialise, and face social rejection through interaction with their peers, how do you think they’re going to cope when they’re passed over for a job or turned down by a girl as an adult. Childhood is when you learn that life’s not fair, and how to build resilience around that. Why do you think denying someone that opportunity is doing them a favour?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:46 PM
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Is it school holidays? That tends to bring in the shitposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:43 PM
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Men have those rights. What makes you think they don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:41 PM
1

How do you think someone who’s never learned to cope with rejection is going fare when they don’t get the first job they interview for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:48 PM
1

What human rights do men lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:46 PM
1

Everyone fails and gets rejected. That’s how we learn. We make a mistake, build resilience and try again. A kid who’s never been allowed to experience rejection or learned how to cope with disappointment is going to crash and burn as an adult. A kid who learns the nuances of social interaction is going to be much better equipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:25 PM
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The guy who thinks women wearing trousers is male oppression? Not hate, more smh. If not being able to root any woman who has an arse that turns you on is oppression to someone, then they need to get out into the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:15 PM
1

So you’re trying to tell me that people only Aquire skills from 100% positive interactions?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:07 PM
1

You think you can quarantine your children from feeling bad by isolating them from their peers? How to you expect them to function in a classroom or workplace?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:50 PM
1

I’ve seen quite a few limbless smokers and ones with gangrene. I’m pretty sure it’s going to come down to ration books again before America eats the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:09 PM
1

I take it you’re dealing with an ASD diagnosis then? Also, kids might learn from adults, but teens and young adults also learn from their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:06 PM
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Socialisation happens within the family for preschoolers. Kids need friends. They need to learn how to cope in the real world. The end goal of parenting is to be redundant. If your adult children are still reliant on mum and dad to cope, then you have failed at parenting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 11:12 AM
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Kate Moss only ate heroin, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:57 AM
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Not so different to the long term outlook for alcoholics and smokers. But taxing fat and sugar a la tobacco or alcohol is too nanny state for Americans to cope with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:52 AM
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I know his work well. He’s one of the groundbreakers regarding attachment theory. His theories regarding infant primary socialisation, and the famous Romanian orphans study are primarily concerning babies up to 18months of age. The immediate family Needs to start being replaced as the primary source of socialisation and security during late childhood, and continue throughout adolescence. By the end of adolescence, your child should be socially independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:43 AM
1

What makes you think any number of rejections is justified? What makes you even think it’s several rejections rather than one?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 07:30 AM
1

Bonkers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:52 AM
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Women cry at their girlfriends when they get rejected. Men go psycho at the person who dared to reject them, stalk them, even kill them. Find me a woman who’s killed a man for turning down her advances; because the opposite occurs every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:45 PM
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Link it, because that sounds like garbage to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:37 PM
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Celibacy and long term singledom. In Ye olde days, (as in when my mother was a young woman in the 1970s) a woman needed her husband or father to sign for a loan or mortgage, co-sign her savings account and cheques, and give permission for her to attend university, get a driver’s licence or travel abroad. Back a generation before that, there was no welfare for widows or abandoned wives, and married women were barred from most professional jobs and education beyond 14yo. Even in my young adulthood…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:36 PM
1

Where did you get the notion that children don’t benefit from socialising with peers?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 08:01 PM
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https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/science/2015/may/14/early-men-women-equal-scientists https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.iflscience.com/environment/early-humans-had-gender-equal-societies/ One of us can put our money where our mouth is...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:27 AM
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You made claims before I did. Show me yours and I’ll show you mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:07 AM
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Because I’m visiting friends in Australia and it’s too hot to do anything but be narky on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:04 AM
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If you want your children to be socially isolated, then that’s your call. I can’t see it lasting though, it’s an opinion that rarely stands the test of time. Even sink estate comprehensives are going to insist on some level of extracurricular participation though, especially if you want to get past year 10. I’m pretty sure you’re trolling with the dumpster diving comment; but please look up the damage that ill fitting and preworn shoes do to growing bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:52 AM
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Traditional conservative. Think Enid Blyton. Girls know how to cook, sew, clean, run a household, which blend of tea for the time of day, at least two other languages, always has food for guests, can graciously host a dinner party,knows which fork to use and when to discreetly retire from the conversation. They also know that while the man is the head of the household, his wife is the neck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:48 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:40 AM
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Firstly; they grow like weeds. There were times when my older sons were growing ten cm or more in a season. New trousers or dorky ankle flappers? New shirts of bellybutton flashers? Well fitting shoes are essential, and a growing boy’s feet are easily damaged by ill fitting shoes. Length and width need to be fitted for regularly, or you’ll be paying a fortune in podiatry and orthopaedic fees down the line. Following from that; food. Women like us need what? 1200 to 1500 calories a day; a little …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:38 AM
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My eldest is 25, and my youngest is six. I have eight children, and the boys attended public schools while the girls attended grammars. An 8yo is extremely cheap and easy compared to a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:15 AM
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The goal was different, but the practice is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:10 AM
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I never said anything about oppression, but go off boyo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:09 AM
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A couple of hundred euros? A school blazer will cost you that. How old are your kids? Edit - spelling
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:05 AM
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This is how the aristocracy did relationships for hundreds of years. It’s an idea who’s time has passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:09 AM
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Back atcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 05:51 AM
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I don’t see anyone saying otherwise, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:47 AM
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It’s a shame when people are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:45 AM
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Except that you’re incorrect. All able bodied people hunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:44 AM
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Because this also happens. It’s crazy to think that it’s not easier to railroad a less powerful person into your way of thinking or doing what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:43 AM
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With decreasing frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:38 AM
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Big, dangerous animals were group hunting situations, and everyone who was able took part. Also, define dangerous? People are killed by sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:37 AM
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In tandem. That’s how most couples work, by working together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:34 AM
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We are, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:29 AM
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What sort of meat do you think hunter/gatherer tribes subsisted on? Men have no advantage over women regarding catching birds, fish, rabbits or any other of the small animals people primarily ate back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:29 AM
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Running a small business is no walk in the park. It’s a bit poor that someone who works in business doesn’t grasp that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:25 AM
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Is that actually the law, though? It sounds very strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:22 AM
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Where did I say women get no say? Household budgets are almost always a joint venture. It’s just that she’s the one putting diesel in the car, taking the kids to Clark’s and running the dog to the vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:21 AM
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Begging your parents to clothe your children isn’t a very sound parenting strategy. Excluding them from social activities isn’t going to do them any good, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:18 AM
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This says that mum buys the groceries, not that she’s in charge of what money goes where. That tends to be a joint decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:16 AM
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Mum buys the groceries and pays the utilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 01:14 AM
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In agrarian societies, women were tilling the fields beside the men; usually with a baby on their back as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 12:41 AM
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And be abused in the meantime? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:47 PM
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What gives you the idea that women predominantly manage the budget?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:42 PM
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Wait until they start needing things like orthodontics, school uniforms, sports fees, more food (have you ever seen how much a teenager can eat?), more clothes (have you seen how fast they grow? Kids shoes cost a fortune, too), money for socialisation and not to mention the fuel and electricity costs of them being online, being up studying and needing to go places. Babies might be cheap, but kids and teens cost a fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:38 PM
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No. Chad is socially competent and knows how to return a text. He’s also confident that his advances will be welcomed and therefore won’t play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:28 AM
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That’s why there’s “Romeo and Juliette” laws. Kids can have sex, but only with other kids within 2 years of their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:23 AM
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My kids wouldn’t accept alcohol offered to them. Kids are different these days, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:20 AM
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If you want to go all eco-psych about it, it’s because you’ll give her tall, athletic, good looking sons, who’ll have a better chance of survival than little, weedy, ugly sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:15 AM
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Women tend to prefer “nothing” (well, cats, if you must) over a poor quality mate these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:13 AM
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Most women I know date and marry someone around their age, education level and income.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:11 AM
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How is him furthering her career not caring about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:44 AM
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Both genders did both back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:01 AM
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It’s more the stud/slut double standard for me. You want these women to root you, but you shame them for it afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:56 AM
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It’s a much smaller proportion of female teachers abusing students than male teachers abusing students.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:48 AM
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Too pushy. Men after sex who act like cold calling telemarketers are just as appealing. Also; dick picks. Why? A dick is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 03:19 AM
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Your experience tallies with mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:52 AM
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None. I have one ex, and we broke up when his family moved away (we were in high school).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:50 AM
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Leave and go where? Feed your children on what? My sister was able to take her children to my parents’ home, but not everyone has that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:29 AM
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That’s what happens when you’re an occupied territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 07:09 PM
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Either have I.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:02 AM
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I’ve held many of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:50 AM
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It’s harder to fumble a baby than a phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:31 PM
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There’s going to come a time when we’re going to have to pull together. All animals compete for resources, we’re going to have to evolve from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:29 PM
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That’s why we’re choosing cats instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:27 PM
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If cats are preferable, men need to start getting their acts together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 07:13 AM
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You forgot the part where the wild, alpha player matured into beta as he got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:12 PM
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Sure there is, we just haven’t found it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 09:08 PM
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If you can actually get it to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:51 PM
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Of course it’s not. No one is. People are too selfish to care about anyone else these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:32 AM
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I’m saying push all of everyone up. Make the safety net better so no one falls through the cracks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:21 AM
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What’s your reasoning for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:55 PM
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So how do we go about creating a complete overlap?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:15 AM
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Old Ludwig was considered mad, bad and dangerous to know back in his day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 10:13 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 08:08 AM
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What sort of dancing?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:56 AM
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Because you know they’re smooth talkers, and that you’re just another sales pitchee.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:54 AM
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The devil has the best music is an historical constant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:46 AM
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Lol no. They seethe that they’re being used as an emotional tampon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 07:40 AM
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Of course not. I’m saying that there’s a huge amount of retouching, lighting, airbrushing, professional makeup, personal training and professional styling on that photo of a model. Girls and young women don’t realise that, and kill themselves trying to achieve the impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:20 AM
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Obesity is often symptomatic of an eating disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 04:17 AM
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How much experience do you have working with people with eating disorders?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 09:08 PM
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Actually, unrealistic beauty standards are more likely to cause obesity due to self harm and comfort eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:40 PM
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It would make me wonder what else he was lying about. I doubt I would stay, because I wouldn’t be able to trust him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:37 PM
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There’s never just one lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:35 PM
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What percentage do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 08:38 AM
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Huge crush on a guy, but he was only being nice to me because he was keen on my older sister. Now he’s my brother in law.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 07:51 AM
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Ring size and shape is heavily dependent on the wearer’s bone structure. A heavy ring on a dainty hand looks stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:15 AM
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Same. His grandmother told me that he was going to propose, and to choose one of her rings to customise so that “our family don’t have to kill any more darkies to get pretty rocks”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:09 AM
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That’s the top 2% of earners, so on a good wicket and frequently with the expectation that mum will stay home and have at least two or three kids and be involved with charity. Most households need two incomes to keep afloat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 03:03 AM
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How young? Maternity leave rarely extends beyond 6 months. A man supporting a family is either on a very good wicket, or doesn’t earn enough to cover the shortfall after childcare costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:35 AM
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Thanks! Very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:40 PM
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Widowed, not interested in ever dating again at this point in time. He would have to be an extremely special person, and it wouldn’t be until after my children have all grown up. There are always random approaches, but men my age are experienced enough to understand a polite brush off rather than keep going and making a scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:31 PM
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No. It’s very easy to ignore clues if you’re not looking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:21 PM
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Go ask them if Hillary was uppity or if feminism has gone too far.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:12 PM
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I think flattening the pyramid and turning it purple works better than zero sum men v women thinking. We need to help child brides and trafficked sex slaves just as much as we need to help disabled men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:09 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 07:58 AM
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Who does that anymore, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:14 AM
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Given the way the world’s heading, we’re going to have to cooperate or starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:10 AM
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Men’s problems are usually society’s doing, too. That’s how it works in a pyramid scheme like corporatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:09 AM
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Happier in general, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 06:06 AM
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Absolutely it’s true for men, too. For every Pentecostal teen bride, girl who’s father won’t let her finish high school, or honour killing; there’s most likely a man who’s PTSD renders him homeless, a worker forced into risky situations or killed because his boss wouldn’t she’ll out for scaffolding.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:21 AM
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Unmarried women are happier than men, married women are less happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:05 AM
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All cats, certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 05:00 AM
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Wealthy, white women are doing pretty well. Structural inequalities are still very limiting for women who are poor, working class, religious, immigrant or disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:54 AM
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It’s the dominant train of thought within the broader conservative community. You’re from Cali, aren’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 03:40 AM
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Bad choices don’t happen in a vacuum. The obesity related deaths I see are almost always helped along by poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:41 PM
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The clap has been around for as long as people have, and wasn’t called the great pox for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:26 PM
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I’m not sold on that vein of thought being confined to the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:23 PM
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Unfortunately, I don’t think the men on here consider it to be a caricature. I’m also not sold on the pyramid being the structure that works best as a model of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:20 PM
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So why are the men at the bottom blaming women rather than doing anything productive about curbing the power of the men at the top?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:52 AM
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Every single working man is at the bottom of society, and invisible to women? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:20 AM
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I’m saying that without increasing taxation on high earning individuals and big businesses to pre-Reagan levels, pensions will go the way of the dodo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:19 AM
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So why isn’t it the responsibility of the men at the top to look after the men at the bottom?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:16 AM
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Now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:20 PM
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Taxing churches and multinational corporations might be a start. Also, people have enforced self subdued retirement savings these days, and boomers have plenty of bricks and mortar assets to liquidise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:39 PM
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How are men - who hold almost every single seat of power on earth - the bottom of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:36 PM
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Bottom of society?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:50 AM
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That’s why we need to emancipate and educate women everywhere. Drive everyone’s living standards up and fertility rates down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:06 AM
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It took me well over an hour to wrangle my 5yo son into the bath. I think that once they leave home, a lot of them revert to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:59 AM
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Tea rooms and break out spaces are where people take their breaks, eat their lunches and dinners away from their desks or workstations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 07:04 AM
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Thank you for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:32 PM
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Only in your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 10:31 PM
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Not buying it. Men stick their dick in anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:22 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:47 PM
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Rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:45 PM
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You honestly don’t realise how inheritance has worked for generations?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:44 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:40 PM
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Are women complaining though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:32 PM
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Who cares about fertility going down. It’s not like we’re an endangered species.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:31 PM
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Men don’t like women, as you can see from the comments already.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:30 PM
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Wanting a fuck isn’t the same as liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:26 PM
1

Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:17 PM
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That’s why most of the 1% are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:16 PM
1

Being slut shamed is much more than being called a “bad word”. Men know that, otherwise they wouldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:13 PM
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I don’t play Google fu. Tell me what you mean or admit that you’re trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:11 PM
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Not cheated, nor been cheated on. Miracles happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:08 AM
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Wow, it’s like none of the men on here have ever come across the hurt/comfort trope, compulsive rescuing behaviour, nurse/patient stereotype, or “saved by the love of a good woman” old standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:29 AM
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Men have historically had greater opportunity to become part of that 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:16 AM
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https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2009/jun/05/women-victims-d-day-landings-second-world-war As you can see, assumptions regarding collaboration were often tenuous at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 08:09 AM
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So explain what you did mean rather than playing silly buggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:23 AM
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Guard sex or be slut shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:47 AM
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Boys are only after one thing. He won’t respect you in the morning. Looks are #1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:30 AM
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You implied all. Stop being weasly and own it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 02:22 AM
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Did you mean all? Because that’s what you seemed to be implying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:42 PM
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I’m claiming that a not insignificant proportion of them would have been. Same as the Russian women under German occupation, the German women under Allied occupation and the Korean “comfort women” under Japanese occupation. Rape is and always has been a weapon of war. Why ar you trying to claim otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:41 PM
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I always thought it was dentistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:48 PM
1

Better than a coconut.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:44 PM
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You sound like a James Blunt song.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:42 PM
2

Invalid as in ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:38 PM
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Firstly; this isn’t about me. I wear a uniform to work, and revealing is one thing it isn’t. Have you ever been a woman in a male dominated industry? A lone woman in a tea room or break out space? Yes; actions have consequences. The actions of sexual intimidation, harassment, discrimination and assault are finally going to get you more than a slap on the wrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:38 PM
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Men have never really had to try hard, it’s just that now women are emancipated, being a slob has consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 10:12 AM
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This is my BIL. Total anorak, but attractive in a lanky, Richard Ashcroft kind of way. Girls throw themselves at him, only to be bored senseless being told about the relative merits of GWR and LNER.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 08:18 AM
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Some can, some can’t, some don’t have the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 07:15 AM
1

What do you think it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 06:25 AM
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Sexual harassment is a tried and true way of getting women to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:43 AM
1

All of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 03:42 AM
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It isn’t about attraction. It’s about humiliating an enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:07 AM
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That’s part of it. Widespread sympathy for the Nazis and active collaboration with them was also part.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:06 AM
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Women are trying to intimidate these men, and drive them out of the worksite?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:01 AM
1

What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 01:00 AM
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Because he didn’t want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:23 AM
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Absolutely not to the same extent, or with the same goal in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:01 AM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 09:01 AM
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Which is amusing, because sex tourism is a predominantly male occupation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:48 AM
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What were you wearing? Why were you alone with him? Were you leading him on? You just regretted it afterwards. Stop trying to ruin his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:38 AM
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It’s a fresh hole to savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:25 AM
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Neuroticism and paranoia are usually assumed in women who engage in protective behaviour. A woman who insists on a chaperone or witness to meetings is systematically derided as irrational.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:21 AM
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I’m under the impression that The allies were much worse in France than the Nazis in this respect, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:17 AM
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Because sticking it in isn’t considered gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 08:11 AM
4

Get to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 05:04 AM
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Everyone should protect themselves. Never meet with any member of staff without an employee representative or HR present.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 04:19 AM
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I think the threat is that people are punishing women for speaking out by saying they’re causing paranoia, distress and will be rendered unemployable. They’re trying to shut women up again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 02:07 AM
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Coco Chanel was well known as a Nazi sympathiser, and large parts of the French upper class were too. Why do you think France fell so quickly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:48 AM
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Are you trying to say that no French women or girls were raped by occupying German forces? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:41 AM
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Men would certainly care that the toilet was clean, kitchen tidy and floors not sticky. I’m sure some men are happy to live in squalor, but most wouldn’t be. They just don’t want to be the ones holding the scrubbing brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:13 AM
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I doubt conquering armies use birth control when they’re raping and pillaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:10 PM
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Fit German in SS uniform = she doesn’t have a choice. Rape is a weapon of war, and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:09 PM
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What has she actually said that’s factually incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:16 PM
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I’m certainly not going to argue with her about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:26 AM
1

It’s pretty well established.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 04:49 AM
2

Yes. Huge issue with breast cancer survivors who relapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 11:56 PM
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Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 11:25 PM
1

Asking you to back up your claim is sea lioning?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 10:00 AM
8

I’m pretty sure tha happiest and healthiest demographic is never married, single women; so men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:50 AM
2

How old is this kid? Telling my 10yo that girls who ghost him at the class disco aren’t interested in him, and to look elsewhere is completely different to telling my 25yo that no girl will touch his dick if he send them an unsolicited photo of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:48 AM
5

How did you get this idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:31 AM
3

Who’s lying to their son? About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:29 AM
2

Do single mothers not have male relatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 09:00 AM
2

Who didn’t have their own fathers, or brothers, or brothers in law... I’m a sole parent. My father and father in law are his primary male role models.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:59 AM
1

Or a frigid virgin who doesn’t ever want sex? Because those are the only choices around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:56 AM
1

You’re in luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:54 AM
1

Who usually draws quicker?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:46 AM
1

According to the state? Where would I find that piece of legislation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:44 AM
1

Your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:37 AM
1

So you never had a screaming, reflux or colicky baby, always slept through, no tantrums or sleep regression, no getting into everything? I remember breastfeeding my second child, and hearing a crash in the kitchen. Running in - screaming baby now detached and milk spraying everywhere - I find my toddler has pulled a Tupperware full of cocoa powder out of the pantry and is making brown snow angels on the kitchen floor. When I told her she was being naughty, she threw a cup at me and pissed her pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:37 AM
2

It doesn’t make a difference if he has one as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:31 AM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:55 PM
1

Wage garnishment means going to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:54 PM
1

Wage garnishment means going to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:53 PM
1

So the issue is your insecurity here. STD’s aren’t always sexually transmitted, and there’s nothing stopping you from using a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:51 PM
1

People with double digits (she’s 25, so that’s sex once a year since she was 15) end up with people of similar experience and sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:49 PM
1

I’m outside. What am I supposed to be seeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:47 PM
1

Why can’t it be both? Are you under the impression that common is 100% and nothing lower?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:46 PM
1

Apart from weekends, holidays or illness. Have you ever dealt with newborn and toddler at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:42 PM
2

See a stylist. An ugly guy in well fitting, flattering clothes, a stylish haircut and good shoes is going to do better than an ugly guy with scruffy trainers and poo catcher trews. Pay attention to your hygiene. An ugly guy who smells of clean linen, toothpaste or a nice aftershave will do better than an ugly guy who smells of BO. Exercise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:53 AM
1

There’s nothing special or magical about a virgin, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:38 AM
1

How would a dorky virgin even move in the same circles as a hot player? How would they even cross paths or strike up a conversation? Assuming by some freak incident they connected, they’d realise their incompatibility that first date when one tried for sex and the other declined.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:33 AM
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Attractive people get allowances made for them that ordinary people don’t. It’s just the way of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 09:26 AM
2

General society. She can’t keep a man or she drove him away are the usual assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:55 AM
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Lol, no. Most people assume they’re dumb sluts or nagging harpies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:54 AM
2

Strange but true. People with similar sex drives usually end up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 08:50 AM
2

Who says that? Single mothers are usually bearing the brunt of social disapproval.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:26 AM
2

They’re not attracted to him. They’re attracted to the lifestyle of a wealthy older man who’s going to take them skiing in Switzerland and partying in New York, before dropping dead and leaving them a fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:25 AM
1

It’s part of women not being taken seriously at all, ever, that creates this overcompensation. I’m looking forward to Throne of Glass turning this upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:12 AM
1

Lamarr was quite a gifted person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 06:01 AM
1

You can prove that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:59 AM
1

Wives and children. Leaving a wife happens, and while it’s unhappy, it’s not the end of the world. Leaving your children is a different thing entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:58 AM
2

He’s injured and unable to fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:52 AM
1

My FIL is a war veteran with PTSD. When they had a home invasion, she was the one doing the defending.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:52 AM
1

Or that you can rape them at gunpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:47 AM
1

Or rape them at gunpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 05:46 AM
2

It’s akin to begging in these circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:20 AM
1

Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:18 AM
2

Along those lines; Sarah Connor in Terminator. The first movie breaks her, but she pushes through that in the second one and relearns how to hope. Frozen, Brave, Matilda, Charlottes Web and Beauty and the Beast all show girls/young women as strong in a way that’s not men with tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:18 AM
1

Katherine Hepburn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 04:06 AM
1

There’s plenty of butterfaced girls snogging gorilla men in the fitness cliques.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:40 AM
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https://www.google.com.au/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/quilted-science/201006/copying-others-when-choosing-mate%3famp The effect is higher in women, but present in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:28 AM
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Because they like to think she only has eyes for him, and all the other men will be scared to cross him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:21 AM
2

Who’s lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:19 AM
1

This isn’t about me; I’m not divorced. You’re welcome to talk to the wall that is High Church of England about the relative merits of class and wealth, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:19 AM
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If you have family coffers to fall back on, you’re not going to embarrass yourself by chasing him for money. Statistics show claims made to recovery agencies, not raw numbers of missing in action fathers afaik.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:14 PM
2

Men overrating themselves is one of life’s constants.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 11:12 PM
4

My husband’s social circle are university educated, high earning UC men. All of them bailed on kids cramping their style. You can’t spend weekends off piste or network the corporate box with toddlers in tow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:27 PM
2

Men who care aren’t worth crossing the radar of someone who’s into lots of casual sex. High count people end up with each other, not with some prudish mummy’s boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:22 PM
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If he’s choosy, he can stay a virgin. What’s “standard” in your 20s? For my social circle, it’s one or two long term relationships if you’re not already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:20 PM
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How can she tell how fatherhood is going to impact on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:11 PM
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I’m the only starter wife left in my late husband’s circle of university friends. To a man, they left when it got too hard (colicky babies, tired postpartum wife not wanting sex, busy mum with toddlers not wanting that last chore of sex after she’s got kids to bed, done dishes, cleaned up after the dinner) for a younger model, and didn’t want kids cramping their style. Nothing says UC deadbeat dad like a high end sports car that won’t fit a child seat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 10:10 PM
5

It’s not just middle eastern men. Conservative religions men are all of this upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:13 AM
1

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:43 AM
1

You’re unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:42 AM
3

Are you trying to tell me that the men here aren’t obsessed with virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:10 PM
3

Children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:08 PM
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Most women do the household bookkeeping, family budgets and grocery budget. How much yard work is an everyday thing? You mow the lawn once a fortnight, if that. Deadhead the roses occasionally. Who even works on their own car, unless they own a classic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 07:04 PM
1

It’s easy to fall in love with those eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:13 AM
1

Demanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:35 AM
2

My husband’s no longer around. Thankfully my father and father in law are. Ask the fisherman...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:27 AM
2

I’m pointing out that being demanding isn’t a one way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:08 AM
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We’re not the ones demanding virgins so there’s no one to compare with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:33 AM
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https://www.cbc.ca/radio/thesundayedition/the-sunday-edition-for-december-1-2019-1.5377096/30-years-since-the-montreal-massacre-we-still-see-a-deadly-hatred-of-women-1.5377220?__vfz=medium%3Dsharebar&fbclid=IwAR2dSFFIHAmUTaoOSeHd5qPQrj5P-TRiuARBdAlLUa4EYlvhHw-9eF-tYWU Hatred of women isn’t new. Hatred of women having rights isn’t new either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 03:29 AM
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Being a cat/dog/horse/cow person is usually the first choice when the alternative is marriage and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 02:17 AM
3

So why do you think it should be a mother’s job?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 01:47 AM
2

How did your mum teach you how to get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 11:16 PM
3

I’m trying to think of a movie where this has happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:48 AM
1

Until recently, complete hysterectomy was common in disabled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 06:40 AM
2

I’m going to agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 03:56 AM
2

One who’s presence brings more than his absence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:56 PM
2

How much of an overlap do you think there is? Draw a Venn diagram of men who think women should be forced into continuing all pregnancies, and men who think women shouldn’t access child support, education or employment. I’m going with an almost perfect circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:55 PM
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It’s a mine field, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:52 PM
2

How are the elected representatives not mainstream or supporting the wishes of the majority? Read the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:30 PM
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Older women generally prefer to pick a quality man, but will happily stick to being single if they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:24 PM
1

It’s very hard for carers to keep sexually active, intellectually impared people safe. Using prostitutes is the easiest way for male service users, but disabled women (who are significantly more likely to be raped or sexually assaulted than the general population) tend to be put on the pill and left to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:22 PM
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State legislators aren’t powerful or mainstream? https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2019/nov/29/ohio-extreme-abortion-bill-reimplant-ectopic-pregnancy?CMP=soc_567
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 11:05 PM
2

It’s part of the thinking. Keeping women barefoot and pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:11 PM
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You mean like trying to pass laws that mean abortion is punishable by death, and ectopic pregnancies need to be reimplemented?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 06:48 PM
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There’s plenty of conservative white men who want women back in the kitchen and under the thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 09:34 AM
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It’s not just low value men. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2019/nov/29/ohio-extreme-abortion-bill-reimplant-ectopic-pregnancy?CMP=soc_567 Germaine Greer once said that women have no idea how much men hate them. She’s an awful old cow, but she’s not wrong about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 07:37 AM
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Good thing she’s your ex. Men don’t do emotional labour. They outsource it to wives, mothers or PAs. Which is hunky dory until there are kids, and Mr Where did I leave my keys needs to fend for himself while the Mrs changes nappies and remembers to buy barrier cream and Calpol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 07:47 AM
2

I raised my sons to understand that masculinity and femininity aren’t absolutes, and that almost everyone has some qualities of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 04:15 AM
1

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 02:31 AM
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The wall will be a welcome relief. I was hit on at my husband’s funeral. Men need more filter between brain and groin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 10:40 PM
2

You never came across evil stepmothers, wicked witches or ugly stepsisters in books or films as a kid? Never kindly woodcutters, loving fathes or brave knights? Male virtue and female evil is the basis of much of western literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:48 PM
3

Same as men under 30, but with more baggage and ego. I’m single and 45, and a dog is much more appealing as a companion than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:41 PM
1

That’s really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:36 PM
1

You don’t think “nice guy” has entered the lexicon by now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:35 PM
1

I do this with an animal shelter I help at. A picture of a bitch nursing puppies pulls more donations than a dog by itself. I imagine a ragged looking woman with a baby in her arms would strike people in the feels much more than a picture of a young man with track marks up his arm or a redundancy notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:44 AM
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After the birth of our twins sex died completely. I remember we actually fell asleep DTD one night, as we were both utterly exhausted. Things picked up again once they started sleeping better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 09:36 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:17 AM
1

Motherhood was cheap, and mothers not valued. Otherwise feminism wouldn’t have even been thought of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:16 AM
1

Sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 08:14 AM
1

So is this just for early pregnancy, as with abortion, or can dad nope out whenever prior to jr turning 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:09 AM
5

Lack of remuneration and respect of the first and lack of enforcement of the second is what gave rise to feminism. How do you change that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 11:01 PM
5

And men. Feed and take on walkies. Agility training is good, urge training is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:20 PM
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I think “nice” is a loaded term now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 08:17 PM
1

NHS hasn’t killed Dr prestige in the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:59 AM
2

So much this. I’m going to a wedding in a few weeks, and the couple met at a book signing by Terry Pratchett. My eldest son met his girlfriend at a chess tournament.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:58 AM
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Only for family
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:46 AM
2

I didn’t. I was clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:31 AM
1

IME, they give up on men until they get over being hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 07:29 AM
0

If course it’s not. But a morbidly obese person who’s just started exercising is healthier than he was last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:24 AM
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I dare say it would depend on your budget and caring commitments. A gym nearby isn’t any good if you have a toddler and they don’t have a crèche, or if you only have £5 left to eat after paying rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:22 AM
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But shaming an obese person for trying to be healthier (and a big part of HAES is the training wheels for becoming healthy, and taking that first step) doesn’t help anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 02:12 AM
1

Where did you hear that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 12:18 AM
1

Google is your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:29 PM
1

How did you arrive at that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 11:17 PM
2

So protest. Like the women are doing. In a world where multinationals skip tax, why should you pay to wipe your backside? It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:47 AM
5

A future where my sons and my daughters were considered just as human as each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:19 AM
5

Toilet paper isn’t taxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:03 AM
4

Walk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:28 AM
4

Giving birth is a huge deal. It’s not like 40 weeks gestation, birth and recovery are like buying someone a guinea pig.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:19 AM
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I grew up with the “knowledge” that feminists were ugly, hairy, ungoldly whores, who damaged the family unit, stole jobs from men, refused to know their place, and disrespected the natural order of things. Then I realised that they just wanted to be considered as human as men, rather than as “weak, mutilated men” who needed supervision by their betters.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 08:17 AM
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Because men never walk out, have affairs or decide parenting is too hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 07:58 AM
1

There should be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:21 AM
1

What did you think I meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 04:20 AM
1

Ask your sisters if they chat to their mum, and what they talk about. Boys will be high on the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:30 AM
1

If you read about Carson, you would understand why her story was groundbreaking then, and pertinent now. Nobody else had the courage to do what she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 03:28 AM
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Because that’s what mothers and daughters do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 02:02 AM
2

Who’s that hard up that they’re hustling for a meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:59 AM
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That’s the idea. No fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:58 AM
1

I’d take Steady Eddie over both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:39 AM
1

It’s a power thing. People show deference to those who they consider socially above them by laughing at their jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:11 AM
2

You’ve never studied any history, old mate? Never even cracked open a Dickens? The hunger of the working poor following the migration to industrial centres defines the phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:09 AM
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Why would they lie about thinking OLD is for oldies? I mean, what benefit would they derive from saying “I met him at the grad afterparty “ rather than “I met him on dates for mates”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:06 AM
1

Do you remember what happened between the IR and the wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 01:03 AM
3

Men aren’t going to trade down to something girly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:22 AM
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That’s the thing about male preferences being default. Women are seen as niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:20 AM
1

That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:14 AM
1

I’m going to have to organise a babysitter and check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 11:14 AM
1

Maybe it’s a regional thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:56 AM
1

Read Vanity Fair, Then read Emma. Same premise, different gender authors trying to write women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:54 AM
1

Is that worth seeing? I loved T1 and T2, but couldn’t get into the later ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:53 AM
1

Men consider extraordinary people to be men. Someone like Eleanor of Aquitaine (married two kings, ruled England and most of France as regent, bore and raised three kings, lived to help bring about the signing of the Magna Carter while in her 90s), Rosa Parkes (civil rights activist), Rachel Carson (scientist, environment activist and author of Silent Spring) or Nancy Wake (WW2 spy) would be dismissed by men because they were women, but you can’t say their lives weren’t extraordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 09:50 AM
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Men don’t realise that women laughing at their jokes is performance art
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:22 AM
1

That’s a common complaint of people who work outside the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 12:33 AM
1

I don’t think that’s confined to academia. So many meetings that could have been an email last week...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 10:05 PM
1

It’s called inherent bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:58 PM
1

How much does she make compared to a male dentist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:57 PM
2

Lol. Have you ever tried teaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:53 PM
1

You think all academic thinking is around feminist theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:52 PM
2

For industrialists yes, for the working classes, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:46 PM
2

Lol, no. The push for women to get out of cottage industry and into munitions factories and the land army was because Britain was under siege, starving and fighting for their existence against the Nazis. Funny how sewing clothes wasn’t real work, but sewing parachutes was.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 09:13 PM
2

No. By families.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 08:10 PM
4

Neither. Be the best version of yourself and look for autistic girls to nerd out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 08:06 PM
5

From the perspective of my daughters, aged 25, 20 and 17; all potential dates are met through friends or classmates/colleagues. OLD is for boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 08:00 PM
1

Which is a bizarre notion. It’s like these men have no insight into female friendships beyond a few movies made in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:45 AM
1

So you have to take the time and expense of court when Jr needs new school shoes, rather than talking to each other like adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 12:34 AM
1

How many people - given so many are living hand to mouth - can stump up that on short notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:35 AM
1

Have you never studied any history?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:34 AM
1

So each and every necessity will be paid?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 06:33 AM
1

Student loans are very different than personal finance loans. How much does an abortion cost where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:12 AM
1

Of course it can. But it’s the CP who can’t feed the kid if the NCP decides to play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:10 AM
3

Most women want to get rid of them too. It’s lowest common denominator bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:08 AM
2

Why do you assume that nerdy women aren’t bullied?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 09:04 AM
4

DND has always been coed; men just got neurotic about it when it went from tabletop to online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:58 AM
4

Because they’re scared that the women will be better at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:54 AM
2

How much does an abortion cost in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:48 AM
1

There’s an expectation of having four or more children in old money or high status families.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:47 AM
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Lol. Women are just sick of being the punching bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:39 AM
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The tabletop community is much more welcoming and kind than the keyboard warriors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 08:38 AM
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1 can afford a sperm donor and nanny if she wants children, and an escort service if she just wants men. 2 probably has lots of fun, and knows she’ll always have her mother for support and babysitting if she wants children. Both are doing pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 01:30 AM
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Not that it allows men to manipulate, control and gaslight their ex? You honestly can’t see how this system can be abused by the NCP to bully the CP?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 01:24 AM
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How much money do you think child support actually is?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:59 AM
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They are. Girls just expect you to have a fedora and stock whip.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:57 AM
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I’m 5 ft 6in, and my husband was 5 ft 8in. We got funny looks when I wore heels and was taller. That type of standing out can make some people insecure; a short girl is never going to tower over anyone, even in the tallest heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:49 AM
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So he gets an itemised grocery receipt and decides what he will and won’t reimburse, and she has to prove that the kid ate nine bananas one week, but none the next?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:16 AM
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If they want companionship, why do they bitch about getting friendzoned?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 02:12 AM
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Her share being what, 50%? Because I’m telling you now that 50% is much more than most fathers pay. Fathers generally have very little understanding as to the cost of raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 01:37 AM
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Lack of government regulation in the market allows corporations to call the shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:47 PM
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How about the farmer who’s working at a loss because supermarkets are undercutting on price, and have regulated away the farm gate or co-op market?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 07:58 AM
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Which is where things get fiddly. How do you cover only the child’s part of the utility bill? Only the child’s portion of the bread and milk?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 07:46 AM
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You’re assuming they’re not divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:52 PM
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No one liked the cool kids; they didn’t want to be the next target for bullying. I was a nerdy girl, and the nerdy boys were the nastiest of all the boys, even the pillheads and rugby creeps. They sucked right up to the posh girls though, and got burned for being like dogs humping legs over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:03 AM
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Nerds aren’t nice to everyone. They’re usually rude and snarky and off putting. The coolest kids were bullies, but they weren’t liked. They were asquienced to because no one wanted to be the next target. The most liked kids tended to be assertive and kind, rather than aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:42 AM
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My high school experience and lived experience says otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:29 AM
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Apex fallacy. Women like Betsy DeVos or Ivana Trump don’t see the punching until it’s at them; the rest of us do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:10 AM
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Drinking in general is becoming less tolerated. It’s the most damaging legal drug available, and the juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:06 AM
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I don’t think men who bully men but don’t bully women exist. Someone who punches down is going to hit whoever they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:04 AM
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If a man just wants a root, he’s more likely to strike out with the girls who want something more, more likely to pull with girls who just want rebound sex/hookup/validation sex, and most likely to avoid bunny boilers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 03:01 AM
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TRP has always been around. It just used to be the default “back in the day”. As society’s pendulum has swung back to conservativism, the thinking of women as weak, deformed and stupid has firmed in the minds of those who benefit from putting them back in their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:58 AM
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Because young men are annoying. Same as young women. Fun in small doses, but really annoying really quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:19 AM
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How’s she meant to walk the kid to school barefoot?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:14 AM
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Of course he bullies men. Didn’t you see him tormenting that disabled reporter? Or ripping into John McCain?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 02:13 AM
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She didn’t represent herself well to anyone. She was the wrong person for the job. This doesn’t change the fact that if Trump’s appeal as a bully is attractive to men rather than women, and that being a bully is generally unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:31 PM
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Because he’s a Hollywood star. Regular Joe doesn’t have the same luck with bombshells.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:27 PM
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I think it should go towards the welfare and care of children. I also think it should be at the discretion of the person actually raising the child day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 10:23 PM
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Insecurity or because he knows he can get away with it, and feels entitled to behave like that. Oversecurity, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 08:02 AM
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Which has nothing to do with my statement. Didn’t he also lose the popular vote, but won because of the electoral college gerrymander?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:59 AM
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Dags if you’re English.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 07:57 AM
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Or they just think it’s fun. Do you think Donald Trump had a traumatic childhood? How about Alan Sugar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:14 AM
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Which is why every woman loves Trump, amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:12 AM
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She’s 10 years younger than him, just doesn’t dye her hair like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:37 AM
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The light in her bedroom is using electricity that the kid doesn’t benefit from, though. Her shower doesn’t clean the kid. Don’t laugh, I have heard men argue this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:07 PM
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Russian roulette regarding how he takes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:21 PM
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Men are notorious for getting butthurt if you try and guide or correct them. Q: Why do men want to date virgins? A: Because they can’t cope with constructive criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:04 AM
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Most of you don’t have older brothers, cousins, friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:01 AM
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I expressed myself badly. There’s a larger proportion of domestic homicides in the lowest income bracket (29% iirc), but while that’s “more”, it’s not “most”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:51 AM
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How much non essential do you think child support buys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 02:11 AM
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Domestic homicide
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 12:25 AM
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You would be very surprised by how controlling ex partners can be. My sister’s ex insisted on receipts for everything, and would refuse to pay for kids shoes bought at Clark’s rather than the supermarket, non supermarket brand cereals/bread/cheese, any fruit (he considered it a luxury) or heating outside of winter. Thankfully she swallowed her pride and asked our parents for help while she found somewhere to live and a new job. He’s now furious because he can’t exert that control over her, but h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:24 PM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5486977/ The breakdown of victims by income bracket is towards the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:16 PM
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So you want to shame and punish women, rather than make things better for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:10 PM
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You want your kid to go hungry? Or would you rather hamstring your career and be the primary carer out of spite?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:02 PM
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Am a woman, and I use Dove, same as my older kids. Baby stuff like Johnson and Johnson isn’t used much past toddlerhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:00 PM
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What about things like dr or chemist, fuel for the car/train ticket or groceries that needs to be paid upfront? Are you requesting a dietary and grocery breakdown so mother and child have seperate soap, shampoo, detergent, box of weetabix so she doesn’t inadvertently benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:22 PM
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How about the electricity bill or water bill?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:55 PM
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Faking your personality in different to presenting the best version of yourself for the situation. It’s called situational awareness, and it really should be taught in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:49 PM
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No, that’s garbage. There’s plenty of suburban murders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 07:46 PM
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Oi!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:26 AM
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Personal hygiene. A good prospect becomes a no way if he smells unwashed. Clothing. Mr interesting becomes yikes in double denim or elastic waisted slacks. Grooming. No one is going to swipe on someone with crumbs in his beard or a haircut by his mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:21 AM
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That’s what “fake it till you make it” is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 10:15 AM
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Absolutely. Same as I behave professionally at work and respectfully around my grandparents. All the world’s a stage, and the men and women merely players.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:31 AM
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I’m just going on how my teenaged sons became markedly broader across the shoulders when they became serious about swimming squad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:17 AM
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The first “being a hard working and good person” is the baseline. The “learn protective behaviour and put forward the most exciting and fun version of yourself” is how you behave when you’re trying to sell yourself. This is basic socialisation, not gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 08:15 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:45 AM
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It builds up the shoulder muscles in a different way to lifting weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 05:24 AM
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Swimming will help with shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:28 AM
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Next time a woman is murdered by her partner, have a look at interviews of neighbors and family/friends. They’re almost always waxing lyrical about how unexpected it was, and how he was such a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 02:24 AM
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Deliberately difficult people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:29 PM
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Blame runs two ways, and it’s not always 50:50. Yes, some people are wilfully self destructive. Some are just young, easy to manipulate, honest and trusting, recreating the relationships they grew up with or easy to bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:18 PM
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I bemused that anyone older than six hasn’t realised this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:13 PM
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What does this have to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:10 PM
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Unfortunately you just have to move past that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:05 PM
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Hippies tend to be “live and let live”. She’s not expecting you to live by her rules, just enjoying your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:07 AM
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Cassie Jayeput it on the map.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 11:01 AM
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I understand why you don’t like it. But he’s an ex for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:59 AM
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Did she actually want to go clubbing, or was she doing her cousin a favour by going,
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:57 AM
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That would bore me, too. I tend to lean towards Connie Booth, Dawn French, Jennifer Saunders, Catherine Tate, Sarah Hadland or - in a pinch - Hannah Gadsby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:56 AM
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Were there other venues her and her cousin both knew of?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:47 AM
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That’s really interesting, thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:46 AM
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Was it her choice of venue? Is a club her scene, or somewhere she’ll go if she’s asked?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:46 AM
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Clubs are gross, I get that. I’ve been dragged out to them by single friends and I’d honestly rather have my pubes waxed by a cat. I prefer that my daughters don’t frequent them, either, because I know how unsafe they can be. I’m saying that he’s stroppy at the wrong person, because going out with a cousin could well mean that cousin’s choice of venue.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:45 AM
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My brothers are visiting to admire my sheepdog’s new litter, and I asked them: Fun, sex, thinks I’m hot, sex, can cook, sex, willing to have my children, sex, al fresco sex, morning sex, beach sex, sex... They’re both married with several children to wives who are career driven high achievers. Apparently the secret to lots of sex is childcare, staying in shape and constantly finding new stuff to enjoy together.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:38 AM
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Swap out #2 for slim and fit rather than cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:27 AM
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Women are less keen on blonde jokes and women driver jokes, while men are less keen on domestic ineptitude or critical path blindness jokes. Everyone laughs at Monty Python, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:23 AM
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The “labia” stuff is the female equivalent of the male sexual conquest pratfalls. Dropping your only tampon in the toilet or nicking your fanny shaving is universal to women the way getting an erection or tripping over when you ask your crush out is universal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:19 AM
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What did you do that was being a jerk?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:08 AM
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Be mad about the fact that your girlfriend couldn’t go out with her cousin without being groped, not about the fact that she went somewhere that wasn’t a library or church.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 10:07 AM
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Disagreeable or just not desperate? “Playing it cool” is a very old trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:53 AM
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Having fun doesn’t mean you get to stop being vigilant. Can I see my drink? Was that a red flag? If I smile and excuse myself will he arc up? Can I see the exit? Can I get to my car before he realises I’m not coming back?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 03:42 AM
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Because women are sick of being shat on. If you want to be a dickhead, go ahead. Just don’t act all surprised when people consider you to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 09:59 PM
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That’s true of the general population, though. If I’m agreeable towards a mechanic or plumber, rather than businesslike and assertive, I’ll get taken advantage of. Same as a salesman, employer (how many trade union negotiators are agreeable? None. They’re hard bastards) or potential date who want to just dip his wick and bugger off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 09:57 PM
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That’s Don Juan.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 07:42 AM
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Have you ever seen a catcalling bloke lose face in front of his mates? It’s explosive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 03:44 AM
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I have no idea where you’re pulling this from. 20 to 25% is the usual initial quota ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 11:56 AM
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A quota is the first step in putting diversity into people’s minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 11:33 AM
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It’s obvious you’re butthurt and have nothing to contribute. Get back under your bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 10:42 AM
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