Tomboylov3r Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Do most women even need to make the first move with men?	Question For Women	Tomboylov3r	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:20 PM
5	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women.	CMV	Tomboylov3r	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:58 AM
3	Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls?	Question For Men	Tomboylov3r	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 08:07 AM
1	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected.	CMV	Tomboylov3r	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:05 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. So then you think none of what I mentioned harms women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 03:35 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. I see where the confusion is. I should’ve said “wanting a submissive women for the purpose of controlling her”. My apologies. As for everything else, most women do not want men who hold views that I mentioned above unless they were abuse victims.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 03:32 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. Cope. Liberal women have children too	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 03:25 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. I didn’t say they liked them more. I said they would be less misogynist. How do you think incels are created?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:58 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. Found the coomer 👆	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:45 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. Benevolent sexism isn’t the same as misogyny. I’m talking about theocratic dystopia levels of misogyny. Many women do have enough self respect to reject and stay away from men like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:44 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. Women can be misogynistic too. Most conventional porn is unethical. There are very few porn studios that are transparent about their ethics. Plus women are mostly into erotica	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:41 AM
–	Most attractive men are not misogynistic. But misogyny is one of the many valid reasons why average men today are getting rejected. It’s funny you think religious guys don’t watch porn. Look up Utahs most searched results.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 02:39 AM
1	Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom? How the fuck are we gonna know? We don’t pry into everyone’s bedroom. Even if it’s alive, it doesn’t mean they are enjoying it. If people are having bad sex, then there are people having good sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 01:09 AM
1	Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens. I stopped reading when you brought up fairy tale believers. Americans don’t believe in god anymore. There is zero proof.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 11:06 AM
2	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. Neither. There needs to be some disagreement in order to make thing’s correct. If I’m lost then she’s lost. We both need to be able to tell each other if we’re wrong. Constructively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 11:14 AM
1	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. The dude with the blackpill flair is calling me sexist. Get real. That’s also not what I said nor meant. I’m just pointing out that most manosphere guys say that they want a feminine women, but the way they describe it sounds more like a SUBMISSIVE woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 11:12 AM
1	Women receive better treatment in relationships and the "sassy" pejorative is evidence of this Ok fine. But this has been posted ad nauseam on this sub. Yeah most western gen z women suck and don’t give a shit about you. I wish you luck. Maybe someone in another country will be fair game (not Thailand).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:58 AM
1	Women receive better treatment in relationships and the "sassy" pejorative is evidence of this Then why did you make this post lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:51 AM
2	Women receive better treatment in relationships and the "sassy" pejorative is evidence of this I could say the same thing to you based on your reaction to the tik tok ( which for the record is just people being dumb. Happens everywhere).	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:47 AM
2	Women receive better treatment in relationships and the "sassy" pejorative is evidence of this Maybe don’t base your world view off of tik tok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:40 AM
5	CMV : You being unattractive is literally only your fault Yeah, having a 3 inch pecker, a 5’2 stature, a recessed chin, and bug eyes are your fault. Did I miss something? Was there a cure discovered for these?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 09:35 AM
2	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. I admire your self awareness and maturity. I wish you well on whatever you decide to become :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 08:49 AM
1	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. It can be. I’m just saying the masculine ones tend to have better control imo	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 08:44 AM
1	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. Feminine is not a moral compass. It’s simply describes traits women have. How feminine you are has nothing to do with your morals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 04:01 AM
4	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. So then is a caring man feminine then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:34 AM
8	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. Pretty much. There’s a big difference between wanting a woman who isn’t a bitch vs wanting a woman who will put up with you being a dick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:31 AM
10	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. Yes we are. I’m arguing that feminine doesn’t equal submissive, and many red pilled guys think every feminine woman is submissive. It’s like when someone says they want a car that’s expensive, but then get surprised that expensive doesn’t always mean high quality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:28 AM
3	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. This is just a No true Scotsman my guy. We aren’t even arguing about what counts as feminine. I’m saying that men don’t want all the downsides that come with being a feminine women so they mistake it for submissiveness. If you want a partner like what you described, that’s ok. However you have to admit that a feminine women will probably have traits you won’t like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:26 AM
6	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. If you see it that way, that’s fine. But lemme ask you; do you think a masculine man could be submissive? Think soldiers and blue collar workers working for rich fucks who don’t care about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:13 AM
6	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. So then how do you define submissive? Is it different from feminine?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:09 AM
6	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. Yea when you put it that way, it sounds good. But that’s not the only traits feminine women can have. There are pros and cons.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:08 AM
7	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. Some are	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:06 AM
3	Men who say they want feminine women, don’t want feminine women. They want SUBMISSIVE Women. To each their own.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:03 AM
1	If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearance Also to point out, there is a ceiling that some men hit when looksmaxxing. An ugly guy can become normal and a really ugly guy can become ugly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:14 AM
2	If men want to even the dating field they should take better care of their appearance This is just one part. They still have to get money, mentally strong, and emotionally stable. Otherwise you WILL attract women the opposite of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:12 AM
1	CMV : You may as well just be yourself because women will all interpret your personality differently The second one is a good point lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 02:09 AM
1	CMV : You may as well just be yourself because women will all interpret your personality differently Thanks for clarifying!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:48 AM
1	Men are NOT protectors So then you own a gun right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:46 AM
–	Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily lives Same reason unmasculine men are treated that way. Biology tells them these men serve no purpose to them as they go against the grain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:45 AM
2	CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive Friends You are vastly underestimating what most men can be attracted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:41 AM
1	CMV : You may as well just be yourself because women will all interpret your personality differently Women aren’t a hive mind. Many women will fake agreeing with each other to not start conflict.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:37 AM
1	CMV : You may as well just be yourself because women will all interpret your personality differently Unless yourself is overweight, stupid, or poor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:36 AM
1	CMV : You may as well just be yourself because women will all interpret your personality differently Attractive to who? Women? Women don’t even agree on what they find attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:35 AM
1	CMV : You may as well just be yourself because women will all interpret your personality differently Well no shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:34 AM
4	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? So the patriarchy is made up of women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 08:31 AM
0	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? I strongly disagree. The abortion argument is often debated by men who know nothing about it. If you ask a right wing man what happens in an abortion, or if an abortion ban will even stop abortions, he’ll most likely get them wrong (I heard someone say that abortion can give the mother cancer 🤦🏼). If these men truly knew about abortion and were against it, they’d advocate for contraception and helping the poor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 08:11 AM
1	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? I understand. I hope you find people that don’t piss you off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 08:02 AM
5	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? I agree with you, but every time a feminist brings up that argument, it’s usually to shift the blame from what women do to men sometimes. It’s an ad hoc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 07:55 AM
2	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? Well you seemed to not hate me enough to respond. You do you, but realize you can still be safe and not hate men. You don’t even have to like them. But hating them just gives them more power and makes you more stressed. Just be indifferent and don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 07:52 AM
1	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? I hope you get well soon :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 07:33 AM
2	Could you fall in love with someone you don’t find physically attractive? I could “love” them but not be in love with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 09:07 PM
1	Nervousness or Fear Attracts Women the most Post hoc fallacy my guy	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 09:05 PM
8	Would you date a gender activist (Feminist/MRA)? I’ve noticed that feminists who are conventionally attractive are less likely to hate men (ie no hair dye, piercings, tattoos, or overweight). So yeah, maybe if she was attractive and mentally sane.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 09:04 PM
3	What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'? Nobody tries a bunch of ice cream to find their favorite. If it has enough sugar, there’s a good chance people will like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 08:51 PM
0	What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'? It’s also a gamble if she has a dick too or coochie that smells like the San Francisco Bay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 08:49 PM
4	What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'? Freedom? If your relationship doesn’t give you freedom, find a new one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 08:47 PM
–	Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship? No. Not true at all. It’s easy to give yourself away to anyone who looks decent, but it’s hard to find someone amazing to give yourself to. If someone isn’t concerned with getting casual sex, it doesn’t matter if it’s hard for them to get it (because they don’t want it anyway).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 08:44 PM
7	Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship? I’m not here to convince you to not have casual sex. All I’m saying is that it’s not a good skill builder for romantic relationships. Too many people try to build relationships on sex and it never pans out well. I have known women who have had casual sex for years and they have all regretted it. Some got stds, raped, drugged, and dumped. More men benefit from casual sex than women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 08:15 AM
11	Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship? I don’t care if other people have causal sex. I’m just saying it’s not a good idea and will lead to loneliness. You’re just seeing them as a fleshlight/ dildo. How are you going to see someone else as a person if all you know and think about is sex? There’s more to a relationship than screwing your SO. If you truly appreciate sex within a loving relationship, then why fuck anyone who doesn’t love you? It’s not shaming, it’s just my personal opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:52 AM
30	Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship? What is it with the casual sex obsession on this sub? People aren’t a prize to be won or a flavor to be tried. Sex is better with love, trust, and loyalty in a committed relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 07:26 AM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Chad doesn’t need to use clout to get women. His look’s already take care of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 12:45 PM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Then he’s not a chad	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 12:43 PM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Everything exists for a reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 06:56 AM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 05:08 AM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Oh but when I do it they tell me “sir the bank has no money inside, calm down, don’t shoot me please!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:53 AM
5	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? How’s that working out for them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:47 AM
2	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Nobody wants vegan girls	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:36 AM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? You don’t have to socially conservative to be republican. That’s called a LIBERTARIAN.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:28 AM
3	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Hassan is not a chad. He’s pathetic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:25 AM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Matt Walsh looks like the soyjak meme.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:24 AM
4	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? As a liberal, most liberal women I meet are prone to temper tantrums. Liberal men, Conservative men, and Conservative women don’t come close to that most of the time (with exceptions of course).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:24 AM
1	Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman? Probably liberal man and conservative women. But most conservative women are not attracted to liberal men and vice versa	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:21 AM
2	Why do Childfree women bother so many men? They don’t bother me. I really don’t care. I think you’re confusing red pill with conservative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 04:12 AM
2	Nightclubs are not the right place to meet women It’s the right place to meet women. It’s not the right place to meet the RIGHT women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/23 02:41 PM
1	Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls? Yeah, being healthy will always be attractive No matter what	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:50 AM
1	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? Ok that’s fair. But how am I gonna find a girlfriend who’s values are similar with mine just by cold approaching? It seems like a shot in the dark and completely random compared to warm approaches where I can get a general idea of who the women are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 06:37 AM
3	Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls? They are. It depends on the shape and face.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 02:17 AM
3	Q4M: what do you REALLY think of chubby girls? This is the most mature answer	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 02:17 AM
2	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? I haven’t heard a yes. I’ve only heard 5 no’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 08:32 AM
1	There are no benefits to having kids as a women Just because you listed the downsides doesn’t mean there are no positives. You get to have a beautiful child and teach them about things. You also learn a lot about yourself from the child. Not to mention they can help take care of you when you’re older. Having kids is a form of companionship that fulfills some people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/23 07:26 AM
2	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? Aw I’m sorry about that. I can imagine it’s a worse feeling when your a women and don’t get approached since guys are expected to approach. That definitely can ruin self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 11:28 PM
4	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? Most guys are never going to get that hint lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 11:08 PM
1	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? Ah I see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 04:36 PM
2	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? How hard can that be?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 04:34 PM
5	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? Why wouldn’t it count? Just curious	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 04:25 PM
1	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent If a man has kids with a women, and she leaves. It’s too late to get snipped. You don’t account for men who want children.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 04:07 PM
7	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? Yeah that’s the issue. Getting rejected by five women I knew and got close with really put me out of it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:37 PM
3	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? So then all they would have to do is just ask first? Wish it was like that for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:35 PM
6	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? I already don’t approach any women regardless. Too afraid of rejection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:31 PM
2	Do most women even need to make the first move with men? I suppose so. I guess approaching is what gets men partners and women quality partners.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:29 PM
1	Would it be a dealbreaker to you if a man lied about his height by saying he is shorter than he is? It’s like they think we’re stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:12 PM
2	Men. If you want more control in procreation / the right to financially abort either get snipped or stay abstinent Can’t do that if you both agree to have kids and she just leaves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:08 PM
1	Q4M: what steps do you take to make women less afraid of you? Be calm around them. Have a calm tone of voice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 02:27 PM
1	Is a woman having a job a bad thing? No. It’s only a turn off if she’s a workaholic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 02:09 PM
2	At what point is 'improve yourself' no longer good advice? When you go from a 3 to a 5. Then it’s just luck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 08:56 AM
1	"just be skinny" doesn't work Not the first one. She looks good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 09:13 AM
1	Whats the biggest mistake you did NOT make as a teenager? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPIC Staying with a girl who never wanted me to meet her friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/23 09:06 AM