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Tomica333/r/Divorce_Men20/08/21 11:07 AM
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Regardless of your lengthy explanation. Im certain its not often as simple as he served his purpose.. but nice mini lecture there mate
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 10:05 AM
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Request time.. every day They pick what they want to do after an assigned chore is completed. Skies the limit if its free. Pancakes every Sunday. Bike rides together every evening. Routine Disney movie every friday night Mine are very young..
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/23 01:47 AM
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The stat has nothing to do with reasoning.. I just believe it's more than "no longer useful" but as a blanket reason yeah probs good enough
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 10:16 PM
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I think there is so much more to it than that ..
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 08:47 AM
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🤣 I left
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 03:42 AM
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Not if you were married to her before 30.. and don't forget , the men that are her age are aging aswell so she plays the game smarter part this age
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:41 AM
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100% it changes after children I would love to know the real reason why
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/23 02:40 AM
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I just gave tinder a whirl. I've met a few randomly also
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 06:10 AM
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Yes man, this is very common once you talk to other fellas about it. In the last 12 months I've had 8 partners and varying results. The takeaway I have from it is very simple, some women will inspire your passions and others don't. Nothing to feel bad about imo, as I'm thinking as newly or newly ish single people we're still getting to know our new selves. Don't feel bad just enjoy the ride. . Persay
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 02:46 AM
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Amen to this, as hard as it is to be in the little house alone.. its still better than the constant slow painful death of my mind and confidence.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/23 07:42 AM
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Yes haha I was talking about the dog.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 08:24 PM
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Except it fucking hurts when they depart
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 04:43 AM
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Mate , the first step is to forget numbers.. you're not an accountant and while this sucks try to just stick with she fucked up and is wrong for you, if you can. I know it's easier said than done but life must move on.. forward is the only way
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/23 07:53 AM
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Haha i can sympathise, mind you the real blow came for me while she was pregnan with our 1st boy..
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 02:12 AM
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Then you have no legs to stand on do you mate
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/23 02:35 AM
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Fck knows.🤣 it's somewhere
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 11:39 PM
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IMHO, you trust people to look after their best interests.. personally, I see women and keep it very very relaxed. No consecutive nights together, they HAVE to have their own place, and they all get tested regularly for any sogn of thinking that they have any sort of control.. trust them within a very small amount of power to trust them with. If that makes sense? Again just my humble opinion
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/23 04:11 AM
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Well there you go, thankyou.. I thought I was just fu$%ed
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 01:31 AM
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I think it truly depends on the circumstances that created the seperation, the reasons behind it..
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 11:04 PM
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The random thoughts pop in no matter what, I think old mate is trying to say don't keep thinking them once they start, shut them down and distract yourself if you can, im still thinking about the one I could have been with 10 years later and not even a thought of the exw , we all the one like that
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 06:28 AM
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That explains to some degree why it takes me 5 years to get over people mostly. . Is it a fact?
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 06:26 AM
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Still a shit ton better than making no effort whatsoever and having her claim something that never happened and having no legs to stand on. I also backed up my recordings with a dairy of all interactions. Nothing ever came of them and now I do it as a habit now im alone and free of her.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/23 04:41 AM
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Pretty much my point with much better selected wording. Thankyou
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 07:13 AM
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You clearly missed the father comment it was nothing special
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 03:00 AM
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My father sees my children when they are with her and im grateful for the fact that she is wiling to keep him involved without the need for me to be there. You should be to, its an act of kindness in my opinion , its good for the children to see their grandparents regardless of which side of the family they are on.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 02:22 AM
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Way to support family mate. You would write your own father off over him having coffee with the kids .. fuck right off. My dad sees the ex and the kids regularly and im grateful she keeps him in the loop making it easier for him to be included in their lives regardless of my presence or not.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 02:19 AM
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Mate you forgot the most important one. : narcissist.....
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/22 07:58 AM
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Definately install cameras or start recording all transactions between you both
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 09:54 AM
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If being the operative. Stay clear
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/22 10:42 AM
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Man, I want to give you a double up vote for this. But can't
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/22 12:35 AM
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Me too mate
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 08:18 AM
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Mate, our operative word is "miserable" . In my humble opinion is that miserable turns into contempt over the years, at least it did in my case.. dont hang in there hoping it will just get better. It just doesn't 99% of the time. Get out before thing become more and more complicated, that is my only regret was not bailing sooner. I have to young sons and both of them have told me they love seeing a "happy daddy" and tonstay in my own house to keep being the "happy daddy" they )love.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/22 02:18 AM
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For me it was her telling me it was abnormal to take care of an aging parent who had a stroke..
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 07:52 AM
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Mate, you cannot think its even close to anything but absolutely stupid to give more ammunition to a breed of human that will get mad about the dishes drying in the rack..
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/22 12:09 AM
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Mine are the same ages.. im living seperate to my ex and every time I think I've made an error in my judgement.. she says/ does some wild shit that reminds me I have 100% made the correct choice
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 11:37 PM
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All I can say is at this point at least your daughter is capable of some form of critical thinking..help her to see the people around her for what they are and then she will make the sensible choice . Im sorry to hear this, im recently seperated/divorced and my ex informed me she wants to go into adult entertainment to pay the bills..
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 09:12 PM
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Cant blame you for being upset man, we don't want these types "fathering" our children
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 08:42 PM
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That makes a huuuge difference, still none the less you think that wouldn't be a priority in all honest hey
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 06:46 AM
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Wtaf did I just read?? Hopefully you got that sorted my friend
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 05:59 AM
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Man I feel for you. But I think part reason your so hurt is because you're investing yourself into. You need to put your energy back into number 1. You that has to be your first step before anything. Find your centre because I think you're making her your centre. After you've done this make the next move, I don't think you should complicate things further until you have your sanity. It's only my humble opinion but I believe from my own experience it will only be bad until you put yourself at the…
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 11:36 PM
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100% i see the change after children.. its scary
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 03:32 AM
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Put an end to it. No one deserves needs this type of leverage. Better now than at 19 years
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 01:58 AM
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That's what I have done. What I'm asking is if one valued higher than the other but has a higher debt attached to it how do you divide them. The second has a smaller value but a smaller debt. Do you work out a percent of debt to value for the two and see where they sit compared? I honestly don't know what's fair
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/21 09:06 PM
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I wasnt stating a fact. More a line of thought.. if you kept a dairy it may be a factor in your favour is all.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/21 02:29 AM
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But if you keep records of giving her half for all the years shouldn't you be paid in full anyways?
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/21 01:02 AM
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