Tomridddle Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	For average men, getting a female partner mostly comes down to luck, everything else is insignificant. Getting a good partner is mostly down to luck—not getting a partner in general. When I say good partner, I mean good partner for you, i.e., shared interest, similar sense of humour, kinks, and temperament. It’s not that difficult finding a relationship; it’s just difficult finding a quality one. The big difference between men and women is that women have more options and don’t deal with rejections as often since they aren’t the pursuing sex. TBH, I genuinely think a lot of men are delusional unt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 10:17 AM
3	Why don't you approach men? Social anxiety, and I don’t need to since I’m a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 10:06 AM
1	How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them? Based opinion	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/24 07:17 AM
10	How do you show your interest in a guy? Nothing other than existing and maybe occasionally stalking their social media. My success rate is shockingly not zero. The guy that I thought was cool and attractive-ish asked me, but unfortunately, it was literally on the day I was moving back home. As usual, I left him either on deliver or read. I can't lose my femc*l status because it literally makes up 3/4 of my personality. Ugh, imagine having to develop a real personality and have interest. Totally not my vibe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/24 09:07 AM
3	It's a good idea for men to get practice girlfriends I’m a girl, and I unironically thought about getting a practice boyfriend on a few occasions. My idea of a practice partner is completely different from yours, though. This person would need to be someone I could potentially see myself with. They would need to be someone I could also be friends with and feel safe around. My ideal PB would be someone who has as little experience as me. We could experiment, explore each other, and learn together. They need to be someone who isn’t afraid to laugh a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/24 11:43 PM
2	Makeup plays an enormous role in women’s upper hand and allows them to play several leagues up, many of them look unrecognizable without it. Then, men shouldn't be allowed to grow beards since they improve a person's appearance far more than makeup ever could.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 01:58 PM
2	Opinion on this? Comments were wild on this It’s a transactional relationship. They both know they wouldn’t be together if he was poor or she was ugly. I hope it’s an unspoken mutual agreement. She had fun in her youth and now needs a man to financially support her. I honestly don't feel sorry for the guy because he's shallow. Also, she gets the better deal, as beauty is a depreciating asset while his wages are very likely to appreciate.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 04:23 AM
2	Baldpill is brutal for some We live in an age where you can get a hair transplant or use minoxidil. If you have money and haven’t tried those, then it’s nobody's fault but yours. Having a bad hairline will mess up your golden ratio. It unfortunately makes a huge difference in your appearance.	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 04:13 AM
0	Do you get sick of how many otherwise attractive chicks have adopted trashy behavior trying to emulate urban culture, especially suburban white chicks using cringe AAVE, rapping trashy vulgar lyrics on TikTok and the brain dead infatuation with pit bulls? I'm sorry, but this is incredibly pathetic. Why do you have such a strong opinion of people who neither cares about nor knows of your existence? Even if these women were more traditional, they still wouldn't like you. If the multiverse is correct, then there still wouldn't be a universe or time that you would consider desirable. It's like a homeless guy complaining about a billionaire taste in furniture. Don't be bothered by things that aren't offered to you. Focus on yourself.	/r/AllPillDebate	19/10/23 01:13 PM
1	What is the argument behind "femcels" existing? I just say I’m a femcel because I think it sounds funny, and I’m khv. It’s not something I would call myself Irl. I’ve noticed a trend in women calling themselves femcels while having a boyfriend. Being a virgin is literally the bare minimum needed to be one of us. Our struggles and cultures aren’t for them to appropriate. We need to purge our movement of fakecels.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/23 04:51 AM
1	Have you ever called out a girl for rejecting you? Serious question: do you have autism? The truth is, she won’t care, and she’ll probably laugh about it with her friends. You can't afford to say stuff like this unless you’re cool with being charged with harassment or something. It’s just not a good look.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/10/23 04:33 AM
1	The Black Pill is not just for unattractive incels I would most likely be an incel as well because of my personality. I'd like to think that being the "advertising" sex instead of the “choosing” one would force me to adapt, but I doubt it. I sometimes think if I had no attention or options, I would be way more likely to be in a relationship and not be in this predicament. A starving person isn't going to turn down food.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/10/23 09:38 AM
1	What's your pill ideology and what made you subscribe to it? Blackpilled on life because I have terrible luck and confidence issues. I tend to overthink things that normal people wouldn’t even think about.	/r/AllPillDebate	04/10/23 09:20 AM
1	Does experience from paying for sex counts? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 12:30 PM
1	Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience? That’s the correct answer, but also, inexperience men have the potential to be a lot more delusional. Real life forces you to be more realistic and grounded because you know what their is on offer. Everyone knows that one guy who’s never touched a woman but always has something negative to say about their appearance. Typically, a man with more experience is going to treat you better and have a better understanding of relationship dynamics. He is just the safer choice. It's the sad truth. As a wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 12:28 PM
1	"Just be confident bro and stop complaining. Just be yourself and you'll get a girlfriend." “Just be confident, bro” aka creepmaxxing if you don’t meet the attractiveness threshold.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/08/23 02:05 PM
1	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly It's called "case2" and is found towards the bottom of the page.The most heartbreaking part of the case study is that he seems to be a good partner who was just never given an opportunity to prove himself. I really hope his story has a happy ending. I feel like women of that era were far more forgiving for his flaws. People didn’t expect their partner to take on as many roles as we do now. Men were really only expected the provider and handymen around the house.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 03:36 PM
5	Arguing with women is so pointless The truth is that most women simply don’t care. Do you think about all the starving people when you’re eating?	/r/AllPillDebate	13/08/23 12:24 PM
1	What do you think is at the root of the “Femcel” phenomenon? I jokingly refer to myself as a femcel because I’m a virgin. I’ve now learned not to share that information with most men because they seem to think it’s an invitation to ask you out or act weird. It's just a stupid joke. I’m a femcel because of my social anxiety. I’ve actually started working on it, so I actually might not be a femcel by the end of this year. As a woman, you literally don’t have to do anything, and men will approach you. I’m bascially a chronically online hermit, and I’ve been …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/23 03:15 PM
2	I believe autism is a bigger death sentence for your romantic prospects then looking ugly This reminds me of a case study I was reading about. It was about a young man who had tried to commit suicide multiple times because he realised that only a bleak future awaits him. He was very self aware and that’s why he suffered. Some autistic people constantly blame shift and develop a narcissistic personality to help cope with reality. Unfortunately from him , he was too self aware and intelligent to do that. He also didn’t even have any of the super bad austistic traits like meltdowns, ego…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/23 02:52 PM
4	The dating scene A normal sized women with an average looking face is considered above average. That’s the unfortunate reality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/23 06:00 AM
1	An example of an actual guy that is fleeing the west to find better women, not the "loser" PPD thinks they are: I’m not sure why, but Hapa men tend to have more dating difficulties than full Asian men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 05:13 AM
1	Another gem found Because men are more desperate, fat women still have it WAY easier than fat men. The majority of the women on "My 600lb Life" had a partner, but the majority of the men didn’t. The average dude is getting less matches on OLD than a morbidly obese women. Life is not fair..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/23 05:08 AM
3	Passport Bros. Discuss. Koreans are very obsessed with physical beauty. It’s probably the most looks obsessed country in the world. The openly hire and fire people based on looks. It’s also the plastic surgery capital of the world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 03:14 AM
0	Passport Bros. Discuss. It's not only creepy and predatory, but also pathetic. Imagine being forced to relocate to a developing country in order to find a partner. I'd much rather be single than do that. My ego couldn't deal with the reality of being so undesirable.You have to live with the fact that no single woman in your country thought you were attractive or worthy enough to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/22 03:11 AM
3	The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in dating I always assumed my dating and life problems stemmed from my social anxiety, depression, or even possibly SPD. It wasn't until I met this autistic guy who basically called me a psychopath for my lack of emotions/empathy, lack of small talk, and called me a weirdo. After he said that, I began to suspect that there was something wrong with me and that I might be autistic. My nurse sis used to joke and say that I was autistic. Realizing I might be on the spectrum was a very black p... moment for me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 10:26 AM
9	The importance of male neurotypicality is underrated in dating If you watch Love on the Spectrum, you'll notice two things. First, regardless of how low functioning the women are, they all have previous partners or were asked out on a second date during the show. The second thing is that almost all of the high-functioning men had never been in a relationship. Only the lower functioning dudes in the show had or were able to find partners. I'm not sure why HFA guys have such a hard time finding and maintaining relationships. I used to hang out in a Discord se…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 03:04 AM
2	Why is porn hated by so many women? I don't believe the statistic that only 5% of autistic men marry is correct. Autism, in my opinion, should not prevent you from forming a relationship. Anyways, porn is bad because it rewires your brain and forces you to watch more extreme material over time. Overconsumption of porn always leads to an escalation of interest. More extreme stuff is required to achieve the same level of dopamine as you used to get from more vanilla stuff. There are numerous examples of this on r/nofap. Men who are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/22 01:27 AM
3	The Rise of The Single Lonely Male Women no longer need men, so we only date those who add value to our lives. No woman wants to date an emotionally unavailable man-child who is incapable of communicating properly. We do not want to live the same lives as our mothers, who spent their entire lives catering to and cleaning up after their husbands. We expect and want more from our partners. A lot of men need to start going to therapy instead of watching certain content.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/22 06:59 AM
2	Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? The unfortunate truth is that you are at a disadvantage. The most important factor, in my opinion, is how good you are at masking and how mild your symptoms are. I know autistic men who are rude, pushy, perverts, and who are hypersensitive to themselves but completely insensitive to you. The stereotypical “nice guy” who watches PUA, MGTOW or redpill content and has absolutely no idea what women want or how to treat them. Obviously, people like that will not find a partner, but I also know other …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 03:43 AM
3	Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? A lot of the posts on r/niceguys are probably from men on the spectrum who don't know how to mask or who haven't received proper therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 02:11 AM