Tomspookery Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Deathly afraid of ever asking a woman out I think that choosing in which jurisdictions you engage in dating, can dramatically reduce the risk. Certain countries are very pro-love, so women there haven’t been brainwashed into thinking anytime a man asks them out, that’s an attack. Other countries indoctrinate women from a young age, that all men are out to get them, The police in certain states and cities require hard evidence of sexual harassment or assault, before making a charge. Others will blindly believe anything a woman says. A un…	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 10:52 PM
3	Deathly afraid of ever asking a woman out When gyms were invented in Ancient Greece, they were absolutely safe spaces for men. Sometimes even to the point of being gay spaces. They literally worked out nude and didn’t allow women in LOL. Even the word “gym” is a short form of “gymnasium”, which has the Greek root “gymno” which means naked.	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 10:26 PM
3	Deathly afraid of ever asking a woman out Very interesting. Men should have the right to settle for average women, or women in their league, owns also have the right to instead shoot ambitiously high for attractive, high value women. Women who later dumbed their over-ambitious parter, women who observed this high-aiming phenomenon and jealous men did not like this, then took away the rights of both the ambitious and settling men.	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 10:10 PM
1	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. Minefield? Yes if you ask out a coworker, close friend, or family member if you’re from Alabama, that’s a minefield. You would have a coworker who now hates you, or friend that does not want to be around you because she thinks you’re a creep. But some random woman or an acquaintance from soccer practice, she is easily avoided so who cares if she thinks you’re creepy! Women are extremely sensitive to rejection, and will therefore rarely make the first move, even if there’s a 80% chance you’re sin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 09:51 PM
1	My nephew asked me if he is going to grow up to be a rapist ... I mean you could start by making him delete TikTok and getting him a flip phone	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 10:39 AM
3	My nephew asked me if he is going to grow up to be a rapist ... This narrative is warfare. When multiple people oppress each other, that’s war. And to deny that’s even possible is also war.	/r/MensRights	17/04/25 10:39 AM
1	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. Bars and clubs are definitely still acceptable to approach someone. By definition these are social environments. With Parks, cafes, grocery stores, etc, the social custom has changed and it is now frowned upon. You can still do it though, as an act of rebellion and free will, to assert control over your own life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 04:05 AM
1	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. Women are wired differently and can not handle rejection nearly as well as men. While a woman shooting her shot might have a success rate of 60% or more, that 40% risk of rejection is simply too high, because women are more sensitive. On the other hand, men can easily brush off rejection, move on, and accept that 1% success rate. I think part of it is the uncertainty. When a man approaches, he already knows and accepts that he is getting rejected, and can just keep rolling the dice waiting for t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 04:01 AM
1	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. With metoo and all the backlash against cold approach, doing cold approach is a good way for men rebel against these nonsensical social norms that hurt both men and women, and reclaim their personal power and free will. There is a subset of women who who don't like being approached, and there's also a subset that do like it. When you see a cutie in a bar, cafe or even a grocery store, you don't which subset she belongs to until you make the approach! You're telling me that you could be attracted…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/25 03:56 AM
1	Why is the sub hated so much on Reddit? Crazy how any time start a sentence with "both genders" or "women too" or "men too", everyone starts coming at you calling you a misogynist.	/r/MensRights	12/04/25 08:14 AM
1	No, virgin men are not more likely to be misogynistic or violent nor are incels are a threat to women. Debunking a new study showing that unwanted celibacy is associated with misogyny or pro-rape attitudes. I think virgin men are more likely to view women as a game than non-virgin men. It is a numbers game, so the more women they speak with per week, the sooner they will get laid. Every women is seen as a stepping stone closer to that goal. Once he achieves the goal, the game is over, and he can now treat women as human beings. However, feminism takes this too far and assumes that all virgins are misogynistic and guilty of objectifying women, which doesn't make sense because that means all men who …	/r/MensRights	11/04/25 03:25 AM
1	See Her? Read This. Now. FUCK SAFE. Yes, always use protection.	/r/seduction	10/04/25 08:23 AM
1	You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibe Nobody actually knows exactly what their quota is. For me it's probably 50-100 women. For a super attractive men, it could be as little as 5-10. Others may require well over 1000. What matters is every woman you interact with increases your probability of success. Each woman who rejects you is a stepping stone towards your next success. While enjoying spending time with women, making sure they are having a good time too, and treating them with respect is the right thing to do, there is no escapi…	/r/seduction	10/04/25 07:57 AM
1	You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibe While seeing them as people first does help, you can't simply change the fact that you are on the lookout for a mate. Even if you talk to a woman as if she is just another human being, each one still serves the purpose of racking up numbers in your numbers game. We all know that anyone who reaches their specific threshold of women talked to, whether that's 50, 100, 1000, or 10,000 will eventually find what they are looking for. Anyone who is around you age, and of the gender you are attracted to…	/r/seduction	10/04/25 02:24 AM
0	You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibe While seeing them as people first does help, you can't simply change the fact that you are on the lookout for a mate. Even if you talk to a woman as if she is just another human being, each one still serves the purpose of racking up numbers in your numbers game. We all know that anyone who reaches their specific threshold of women talked to, whether that's 50, 100, 1000, or 10,000 will eventually find what they are looking for. Anyone who is around you age, and of the gender you are attracted to…	/r/seduction	10/04/25 02:23 AM
1	You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibe This is a great thing to strive for, but unfortunately it is easier said than done. Many people go "looking" for a relationship or sex, and it is very hard to stop looking, in order to successfully find someone. It is self-contradictory. You are expecting something to happen, as a result of you stopping expecting that thing to happen, so therefore you are not really cutting the expectations at all. You are looking by not looking, or trying by not trying. It is very difficult to genuinely control…	/r/seduction	09/04/25 06:50 AM
2	You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibe The more you control the vibe, the less it will matter if you say the wrong thing. The vibe is about the context, which includes everything that was said previously, body language, hints, and environmental or situational factors. As a man, it is attractive to take control of the context, and as a woman, it is more attractive to relinquish control to other factors. This is why a lot of men struggle with women in Tinder, Bars, and Nightclubs. It is because you are relying on an environment created…	/r/seduction	09/04/25 06:33 AM
2	How shows like “adolescence” are used to brainwash people and promote radical feminism Insufferable double standards. A man who is trying to get laid is a creep, horndog, womanizer. But as soon as he is successful and starts having sex regularly, all is forgiven. By this logic, a man losing his virginity, or ending a dry spell is sexual assault, but all subsequent sexual encounters are consensual and okay. I think it stems from the human nature of sexual selection. Sexual selection is not only done by women being choosy about which men they sleep with, it is also done by an entire…	/r/MensRights	07/04/25 11:29 PM
2	TheTinMen's post on men is really heartbreaking Unfortunately, most people believe that to even discuss men's rights, is to take away women's rights. This is not true. It is not a tradeoff, and we can absolutely make space for both. It is sad that mainstream society would have you believe otherwise.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/04/25 11:06 PM