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So you already have a wife or girlfriend in which these tactics were successfully applied, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:59 AM
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And then he goes back to smashin'-and-trashin'. Stacy becomes a trophy wife or a successful gold digger. Seems like you're the one "deviating" (if not outright backtracking)... Make up your mind... are Stacies still having' their cake and eating it too "Sex-in-the-City" style, or are they failing to lock down men? (the latter was exactly my point, very few Stacies are getting what they want because there's very few men who fit the ridiculously excessive expectations they have). When you see wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 07:17 AM
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That's why I acknowledged it. We don't operate that way, we operate individually. She may not use another guy the same way, just as men don't treat every women the same way. You only know your perspective of someone, two people can see the same person very differently. One of my favorite quotes: "Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time. -Paulo Coelho If one person treats you a certain way, it's them, If multiple peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:28 PM
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So over millions of women had the same experience with the top 10% of men-a few hundred thousand, BUT the other 90%-90 million or so men had dating experience with 100% -over 100 million of women? The math isn't mathing. 🤔 You must not have gone outside recently as you don't have to go far to see regular looking women and men together. It's actually not shaming at all. It's honestly worrying, how warped your thinking is. Underline reasons come to light in sessions. Don't knock it, until you try …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:18 PM
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You say that... but then state this... Still doesn't invalidate what I said. It's situation dependent. just like any other skill,people can practice something and still be bad at it, some will excel at it, most will be okay at it. Some people are bad liars-easy vetting, some are great liars-difficult vetting, others slip up and get exposed further down the line-situational vetting. Which is what my answer was.... Asking questions is easy. Asking the RIGHT questions is hard. It's personal respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:30 PM
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Ask Women and Female Dating strategy is precisely that - huge numbers of women with similar or identical experiences with a wide range of men, finding patterns in male behaviour. When millions of women have similar or identical experiences, you can generalise about men to a large extent. Unless you're invalidating the experience of millions of women. Teapot meet kettle. If this statement isn't valid as well, then you invalidated yourself as a hypocrite. Have a good one! You should look into ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:05 PM
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Just search for the videos where men are physically/emotionally abused in public vs women are physically/emotionally abused in public. People will come and rush to the protection of the woman. People will sit back and laugh at the man under their breath. That's exactly what I was referring to. Women wouldn't be safe in these situations. What would you expect a woman to do, if a man who is stronger than her is in danger? People may have called the police off camera, or went to get help only to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:38 AM
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It does but you’re not looking. Men are increasingly more sexless, and fast. Women are not. That tells you there are men at the top who are getting more and more sex I must have missed it, as chad is not used in this data. I am also not seeing where a small subset if men are tying up a large group of women. If you would be so kind to point out an example or two for me to start. This is a trend that began long before Covid It wasn't as prominent. Aaaw did I hurt your feefees by not calling you a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:20 AM
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It's not a gendered issue, That's why the vetting questions is on the responsibility of the person. I as a man have to vet women to make sure they are not using me as a foodie call or are not gold diggers and etc. No system is perfect but you do the best you can. I agree. Sure and there are thousands of men saying the opposite and plenty of women who agree and disagree all over reddit it's the internet you'll find every opinion. It's up to you to vet which ones are useful to you or not. I agree.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:47 AM
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⁠most men don't feel they are entitled to sex...ive never met a man who thought that I agree, but I have met men like that. There is also this scary group of people(men and women) called rapists. I have never met a women that feels she is entitled to a man's resources for nothing in return either, but you may have met women like that. ⁠most men KNOW they arent chad... Most women KNOW they aren't Stacy.. ⁠Most men dont think deserve or are entitled to a relationship...small minority do I agree. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:27 AM
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Trust me, Stacies are also getting fucked-n-chucked in the modern era. The ones that actually manage to become "trophy wives" and "successful gold diggers" are as rare as top 1% rich men that they leech off of are. I don't need to trust you to know this. Chads are also getting heartbroken after falling in love with what he thought was the one or leaving his whore ways behind. It's life people change, situations change. Every chad is not winning and every Stacy is not being a house wifed. This is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:18 AM
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Only a small fraction of all our opinions in regards to theses subreddits pertain to either gender. We exaggerate a narrative on our minute experiences and via ingesting unhealthy quantities via varying forms of media and try to apply it to 10s of millions of people. ( I, myself have also done this.) We can't factually state..all women are... or all men are... and in the same breath say..except me, I'm not like that. Our opinions are also usually about western women/men as other cultures have di…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:01 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:17 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:17 AM
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👍-Still wish you the best!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:17 AM
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I did not at all. At all? So you've had a conversations with several sisters, who are less than 0.00000001% of the population and they iterated in these conversations they no longer prefer dates, but rather lay up with a man as a rebuttal to why they no longer go on dates? You made this discussion about things I never equated to each other and of illegitimacy of such equivalence, that I again never brought forth. "These women are increasingly more unwilling to spend time on dates with men that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:21 AM
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You did. Enjoy your book.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:10 AM
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My point was stated above though multiple times. You misinterpreted the original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:08 AM
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I did. What did you misunderstand?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:02 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:59 AM
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That is a "favor" to you??? Playing video games is a "favor in your eyes?? Are you serious? Bowling league or whatever club together, boyfriend not a bowler. Bowling is NoT a favor. How is bowling doing a favor for someone in your eyes? Babysits sibling while they work. How old are you? 12? Activities between friends are not gender specific. Activities are NOT damn favors in any shape of the imagination. I gave examples of things women can do with her male friends and it doesn't involve her boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:59 AM
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Ok, if she has a baby, and she doesn't go back to work, and he divorces her, then what? She becomes a single divorced mother. She has a case that she can't work because the baby is young, so sure, there are consequences, but she will most likely be able to claim that she needs to care for the baby, get full or close to full custody, and then get child support. She doesn't have a solid case. She would have to medically prove she is unable to work, which maternity is only 6 weeks. She will then ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:34 AM
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Can I ask what social experiments would expose men's difficulties as being ignored unless it involved a woman to physically inserting herself or requiring her input? Can you refer me to a video or two, or explain the difficulties? You do understand that women usually are not able to help men in a way of physical situations as men can help women as she can be easily overcome. Women are more comfortable with women. If women are finding the difficulties as pathetic, weird, and creepy, it is usually…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:12 AM
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Why are you crying? Western men have the most privilege in the world, they still hold the majority of wealth and power. Even western chad is taking all the women. He is the most powerful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:03 AM
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How as man are you not misinterpreting what the woman is saying when sex was not mentioned? Did you ask the quoted women what she meant? The original message did not mention sex at all, yet you made it solely about sex. They will no longer waste time on dates as men feel dates equate to sex. Dates do not equal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:59 AM
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Stacy doesn't get fucked and chucked, Becky does. Stacy becomes a trophy wife or a successful gold digger. Nobody brings enough to the table, men and women are only going after a small subset and cry when they are used and rejected. Also, we have 8 billion people in the world. There are more than 400K children in foster care, there have been 27 school shootings this year alone and 119 since 2018. Less people want to bring a child into this world. Hospital stays after birth cost about $16K and on…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:55 AM
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Men apparently cheat more (20% admit to it rather than 13% of women) but that's what is reported. By people. Who have reason to lie. Why would they lie about cheating on their spouse. By that logic, the percentage could be higher as less people admit to cheating as you have stated below. Women can re-partner far more quickly than men. Women also have this tendency to find someone new before leaving the partner they are with - Red Pill calls this "vine swinging". Who is she re-partnering to? Woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:43 AM
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If I admit to that, then you have to admit a majority of single men don't deserve to feel entitled to sex or a relationship with a women because he is not chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:18 AM
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In this case-men bring nothing, and need to have a likable personality to get a women's attention. Women made about a $10K difference less than men in 2020. Women made about $51K and men made about $61K. 10K to settle for average Andy isn't worth the headache. That means the average men's salary isn't even a factor. Women who work full time have a livable salary, looks, and vaginas. Women are able to forgo sex more so than men. Also, since women seem to have it easier, she can aim for chad, stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:12 AM
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Yes but the difference is your responsibility lays with vetting the man and being able to detect if he is acting, or being honest. Ah so women have to develop the talent of mind reading and deception decryption, instead of men just being honest with their intentions from the beginning. Please make a post detailing how women should develop this, what to look out for as manipulation seems to be easily detected through vetting, how to get honesty out of men in terms of their goal for the relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:53 AM
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You aren't listing any kind of favors. List 5 favors a girl with a boyfriend will do for a male friend she isn't interested in? Playing games online together. Boyfriend is not a gamer. Bowling league or whatever club together, boyfriend not a bowler. Babysits sibling while they work. Had a flat tire-boyfriend and her pick up friend and have car checked out. Lend money, if trust enough. She could have been friends before boyfriend, or he may be friends/relative with boyfriend. There are also diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 12:30 AM
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They're not though? Then we agree to disagree. Your comment is just as truthful to you as mines is to me. Men find most women attractive. Men find most women fuckable, but only consider a small amount of Stacys as wifeable. Instead using women as placeholders until a better suitor comes along-similar to how some men seem to think women who have males friends are only using them as orbiters. When he is knocking on death's door then Bleak Becky will settle. I don't see average dudes shooting for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:46 PM
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I'm thinking it's your thought process and personality as a deterrent. If you think all women want one type of guy, then you're not a normie, just low tier. Stop chasing out of your league Stacys and find a Becky with a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:27 PM
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The problem is that a home can function with two working parents, but not with no working parents, so someone is forced to work. The home can also function with one parent working as that use to be the norm. She can't force her husband, if he doesn't agree then consequences will ensue. You seem to have difficulty understanding the concept of this. If a wife decides she wants to stay home she is effectively forcing her husband to work. And to be honest, that is fine, but if a marriage ends, the e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 11:23 PM
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So then chad is not taking all the women as you an average Andy has found a sucker..I mean women that had interest in you, unless she settled. Why not spread your success with the hopeless here?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:56 PM
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The data supporting this is data about sexlessness, dating habits, psychology, mating discrepancies etc. However, non of the data you are referring to mentions chad at all. People are having less sex due to being on places like Reddit and not trying to develop their warped personalities. You also seem to discount the impact COVID has and still have on social gatherings. It might be 3-5 women at a time, but he can tie up 15 women at any given time bc of the lead up, fade out stages. A man like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:54 PM
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I sympathize with women's issues, I just point out the logical inconsistencies in them. If you are pointing out inconsistencies, your aren't sympathizing, you're judging. For example, they are "concerned about their safety" when meeting men, yet that concern for safety goes out the window when the man is hot enough. That is not true for all, but most hot guys are less dangerous due to easily having their sexual needs met. Guys who commit the most violence against women are the ones that get no a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:46 PM
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So men don't help other men or women, but women have to help men and women? Seems like a losing situation for just one gender to shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:36 PM
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Kevin Hart, Zayn Malik, Benji Madden, John Legend, Keith Urban, etc. These men all have taller women. My cousins dates shorter men all the time, she is 5'7". There are more, but as you being willing to date taller women is an outlier, so are the women willing to date shorter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:22 AM
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Same for men, how often do you see men with women that are taller than them. Most men prefer short women as most women prefer tall men. Thankfully the average woman is 5"4.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:17 AM
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The problem with this take is the focus of dating= sex. Dating does not equate to sex. Many women don't crave sex the same way as men(of course there are women who enjoy it with mutual enthusiasm of engagement and pleasure as casual sex, but this outcome is unilateral), so just because women are able to have a moderate number of men willing to use her as a cum bucket, it doesn't correlate to a easier time dating. Men enjoy sex the majority of the time and get off every time and women don't, ie t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 06:13 AM
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If men and women impulses to cheat would be considered split to you, then doesn't that mean women are better at impulse control since more men actually cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:59 AM
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You can't take "most people I know who are married seem happy" at face value because they lie and put effort into hiding their misery. I was referring to your statement about not taking comments at face value. -Also, all people lie. It's human instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:48 AM
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More real than the Easter Bunny too?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:44 AM
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Why should that be the focus? Women shouldn't have to settle to appease the average man if that's not their desire and neither should men. Women get pumped and dumped by chads and average Andy's, so if she would rather try to obtain a chad or die single and lonely, that's on her. She shouldn't lower her standards because more guys want to have sex options.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:34 AM
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I agree! Can I ask, would you agree most men reach for Stacy's as most women reach for Chads, but both are emotionally unavailable to the Bleak Becky's and the Average Andy's? Most women will sleep with Chads in hopes of snagging him, leaving Andy in the friend zone as a back up and most men will use large amounts of their resources in hopes of snagging Stacy, while using Becky as a fleshlight? This may be why many are single and find dating difficult as they don't want to settle with less attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:58 AM
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I asked: Tell me what kind of favors will a girl with a boyfriend do for a male friend she isn't interested in? Anything you do with friends with similar interests that are not sexual or romantic. If not being used by women I'm not fucking is considered "personal insecurity", then so be it ;) We both know that's not the insecurity. Lol What else do most women bring to the table other than looks and WAP that is valuable to the table other than looks and WAP that is valuable to men. Do you see you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:49 AM
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Men would be happy with mediocre sex from an average women weekly. You proceed to say having those qualities would make her man happy, then proceed to list more qualifications, no headache, no whining, no drama. So, even if she did the before mentioned, there is more. It would be varied as good D. A big D does not equal good, and a loose V does not equal bad. If a man does all those things in addition to, wasn't a headache, no whining, didn't cause drama, I can assure you he isn't in the comment…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:37 AM
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How does one act above a fictional envelopment of Reddit men's insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:25 AM
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Their intent is to fuck the girls they're orbiting. They are okay with it because they are volunteering to do it. And the girl isn't telling them that she doesn't want him/them around. So, she is okay with it as well. Seems like a broad assumption of saying the woman didn't tell them, unless you are talking about a specific incident. Anywho, it is mutual then. Okay. Is it also a "bad deal on the female part" who keeps sleeping with a man, and hoping he will marry her? Yup, just because one is st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:22 AM
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Their intent is to fuck the girls they're orbiting. They are okay with it because they are volunteering to do it. And the girl isn't telling them that she doesn't want him/them around. So, she is okay with it as well. Seems like a broad assumption of saying the woman didn't tell them, unless you are talking about a specific incident. Anywho, it is mutual then. Okay. Is it also a "bad deal on the female part" who keeps sleeping with a man, and hoping he will marry her? Yup, just because one is st…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:19 AM
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Child support is not guaranteed as less than 50% receive it, even after divorce. Men and women can get child support based on who has majority of custody. Also, they are both the parent, if one took care of the home and raised the child, that was her/his job, and the other worked, they both could stay home, but bills wouldn't be paid. Child support is not for the parent, it's for the child. Just because one gets divorced doesn't mean the child no longer has needs. You don't see the child as cent…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 04:00 AM
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If changing a diaper was all there was to raising a child, then more men would be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:55 AM
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I think you forgot about IVF and sperm banks. Women don't need men to physically have sex with them to get pregnant. If only the 1% of chads decided to house their sperm, the population would still continue. Single moms would rise expeditiously, but without the shame of regular Andy pumping and dumping them and leaving her single anyway. Just as men go for Stacy's, women go for chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:47 AM
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Looks are subjective. Who's attractive to you may not be to another. Also, if looks are # 1 to men, regular Andy's are reaching out of league as women are to hypergamy. Men are chasing a small percentage too, the Stacy's. What would regular Andy bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:34 AM
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Looks are subjective. Who's attractive to you may not be to another. However, she could be an 7-10. Seeing how she doesn't need/desire a chad, what would regular Andy bring to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:28 AM
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So men are okay with being used for their money, time, and attention for years just for the chance to have sex with women? Seems like a bad deal on the male part. You seem to be projecting. I am not implying anything, you are. If he knows she is not interested, made it clear she is not interested, and he decides to stay around and do those thing unrequited, then that's on him. However, if she does him favors(non-sexual) as well, it's just a regular friendship. Have you never had female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:24 AM
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Wow, this is oddly specific and exaggerated? Did you get this from a sitcom or your previous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:18 AM
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You were misinterpreting what you got from the statement. I as a woman, was clarifying it means if she is not interested she will not be wasting her time on the date as most men feel entitled to sex due to the date. It's not community based, it's individual based. Also, your original statement didn't even include sex, so how did you interpret she only wants sex and no dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:15 AM
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The same thing regular Andy brings to the table in pursuing the women you're describing. Probably nothing of value. What do so called non-chads bring to the table for a women who is financially stable and owns her own home?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:08 AM
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That's what Reddit is about. Taking people's skewed views at face value. The point she is making is Chad is not the only type getting married, happy or not. If there are 61.45 million married couples and chad is only 1%-single and taken, then there are more regulars married than chads taking all the women. So men are able to find women and vice versus, it will just take time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 03:03 AM
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It's not delusion as it is fallacy. The delusion is MOST men on these forums will list themselves as potential prospects, but state women will not give them attention ONLY due to some chad taking all their interests. It is never in relation to their views of women, their personal attributes, personality, financial status, etc. resulting in their exclusion from selections and it seems far fetched. Also, if all these men knew a chad that is taking their potential LTRs, then there seems to be more …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:53 AM
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Isn't the same expected from women, replace eat box w/ BJ and good V game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:19 AM
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Dates are still a before sex activity, sex would still come after. They are implying they would go on the date then sleep with you, but if she doesn't intend to for lack of interest, she won't waste her time. It's the same motto for men, if she openly said she is not going to have sex, there would be no date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 02:03 AM
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Is it? I wouldn't think anymore than average Andy pumping and dumping her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:57 AM
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That's how it goes. He only sees value if he can have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:55 AM
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Single dudes who are attracted to you. If he doesn't find you attractive, he won't look at you the same, but will still fuck you with a paper bag on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:54 AM
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Must have hit close to home. You should pursue a woman who has shown interest in you. The first paragraph is still true. Women are literally getting killed for rejecting men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:53 AM
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So by this logic men know what their doing and only see women for sex? They hope if they stay around long enough and give her time, attention, and buy things for her, women will have sex with them. Don't you do those things for friends as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:47 AM
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Becky may not be attractive, but an easy pit stop for release. Most men cheat with uglier women than their main.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:44 AM
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That's not always true, women are more likely to date a guy in the friend zone, than men are willing to LTR a women in the fuckzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:41 AM
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How often is Chad really in the picture? Also, if she wasn't going for the chad, would you be a prospect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:36 AM
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Depends on his/her desperation level. If he wants any woman, then yes multiple people, but you can't get to know multiple people as well as one, and it's harder to focus on one, when you keep your options in the background. There will be a grass is greener thought process. Though you shouldn't be upset if you find out the women are multi dating as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:29 AM
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So then you look desperate with the sole intention of getting laid. After the first girl, others will see they are second, third, etc. option, not your initial internet and be turned off. You wouldn't be okay with a woman approaching 4 guys to dance and then approaching you, just to dance with you all in rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:23 AM
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If chads are so rare and pumping and dumping women, how is he tying up the dating scene. That means you would just have to wait a month or two until 'chad' is done with her and put your best foot forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:17 AM
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Do you honestly believe if she said she was off the market due to her waiting for a 'chad', you would be a prospect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:12 AM
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Where is the data supporting this? Also, in a big city, 15,000 women hanging on to 1000 chads is not much, though highly unbelievable as you are suggesting 1000 men are keeping 15 women apiece busy and deluded enough to think they are in a sole relationship with him. (Maybe 3-5, but 15?) There are still tens of thousands to millions of single woman available(depending on the city), even if 50% are in LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 01:05 AM
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You should do the same as an average woman, it would be an interesting social experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:51 AM
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You guys also don't date men. Just because we are perceived to have many offers from men, doesn't make it easier for us. Most of these nice guys offers are for sex and if sex is not in the desired timeframe, many will rescind their offer and forgo the nice guy act. We can't give every guy a chance or perceived as a whore, but then it's seen as selfish to reject the others. People are manipulative and not easy to read, so saying no don't pick those guys, you or others here could be in that group.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:50 AM
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I honestly believe it because of social media sites-like Reddit-Red, purple, blue, black, fds, etc, celebrities, and other forms of media portrayals. Just as people gain stereotypes and discrimination against other races/sexes(like this)without much or any interaction. When men mention needing sex a few times a month or week, or without sex a relationship won't work, etc., woman believe that you have access to it. Just as guys believe that women are after their money, if they don't give up sex. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:32 AM
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Why is this responsibility on women? Men have difficulties=men help them. Women have difficulties=women help them. As above people have sympathy to those close to them, woman or man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:21 AM
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You went back to your original mindset. It's the same as to why most men can't sympathize with women issues and dismiss them, they can relate. Men will more often sympathize with men and women sympathize more with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:19 AM
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It goes both ways..women have difficulty seeing from a man's perspective and men have difficulty seeing from a woman's perspective as their ideologies are appear differ, though both desire a healthy and loving LTR. Reddit brings out the worst and most opinionated commenters, many of which don't have real life experience, but monumental projection. Mens sole desire in a relationship shouldn't be focused on sex as their main source of physical release and connection to a woman as she will feel lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:14 AM
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MOST men wouldn't pursue women if sex was not in the cards, you yourself wouldn't pursue women if they weren't eventually having sex with you. Women gravitate toward financial stability, companionship, and security, and MOST can go without the sex aspect. Men want sex and companionship, and MOST would end the relationship/cheat over not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 12:03 AM
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I put blame on both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:26 PM
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Men won't give or keep giving unless they receive...sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:21 PM
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So your one experience makes men more romantic. 'Maybe it's the women you picked', same excuse said often to women. What is your perception of romance to a man, besides swallowing his cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 11:13 PM
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At times, this is to allow the woman to get the know the guy better without the expectation of sex. Women remove guys from the friend zone all the time as more time with a person can develop feelings. If she is not expecting you to pay for things when hanging out, or using you for anything except company and good vibes, then it could be worth it. She could also hook you up with her hot friend, relative, or roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:48 PM
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Do you consider yourself a decent guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:42 PM
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That's only due to men feeling as though they would lose more financially, if divorce was free, men would initiate just as often or more. Men are also perceived to have a harder time finding a partner and would rather stay in a miserable marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:38 PM
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There seems to be a trend here that women don't bring anything to the table but sex, their orgasms aren't important, they need to help with half the bills or they're gold diggers, take care of the majority of the household chores, mess up their bodies carrying that man's child, and most of the child rearing. If women have to deal with all that, why not choose a guy who is above average. Especially, if she doesn't mind being single. The men who you perceive as decent and successful, may be chasin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 10:20 PM
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