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I’d say it depends on how crazy she is. If she is crazy but, you know, normal crazy, she will make it easy for you but if she is crazy crazy she will be so confusing you won’t know if she likes you or not. Also, is she is the bitchy type she will make it hard for you because, well, she likes to be a pain in the ass lol
/r/seduction06/06/25 08:13 PM
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The UK. Czech Republic if you are on a budget.
/r/seduction13/05/25 02:07 AM
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It depends—if you’re staying at a party hostel or hitting up coworking spots regularly, that’ll make a big difference.
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:30 PM
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I don’t know, posting online gives you a little dopamine hit, which is nice, but honestly, it feels like a lot of work for not much payoff. I’m planning to stick to a posting schedule this year, though—I get it, it’s a hassle, but kind of a necessary one.
/r/seduction09/04/25 05:19 AM
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It's because you’re not quickly connecting with them online. Both of you need to feel a connection. I get it. It’s damn tough doing this online and takes a ton of skill.
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:41 PM
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Look, it’s a numbers game: X messages sent, Y responses, W dates, Z closes. Heck, you could probably automate the messaging and response parts with AI, eh? And don’t take it personally—80% of the girls who reject you on dating apps / social media do so because they’re already into someone else; maybe 10% are just jerks, and the remaining 10% really think you’re not their type.
/r/seduction18/02/25 05:40 PM
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Here’s how I’d respond, speaking as both a retired seducer and a social scientist: As a retired seducer: Close the book, get out there, meet people, and enjoy yourself. Focus on connecting with a few women you genuinely like. Then, repeat the process. As a social scientist: It’s possible to master seduction through reading alone, but it’ll demand an obscene amount of time and study.
/r/seduction04/02/25 04:11 PM
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Exactly. I get that the position might seem a bit submissive, but if you’re making sure she’s satisfied on demand, I don’t see how that could go wrong, lol.
/r/seduction04/02/25 04:07 PM
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Hell yeah, man. Fuck the system and go have some damn adventures.
/r/seduction03/02/25 04:52 PM
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I discovered Models in 2013 and it’s completely changed my perspective on seduction.
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:35 PM
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False. AI is like the ultimate nice guy, completely useless when it comes to picking up.
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:27 PM
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Some girls seem more interested in finding a personal clown than a boyfriend.
/r/seduction30/01/25 03:21 PM
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Man, this is funny ‘cause I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately. What a coincidence!
/r/seduction28/01/25 07:15 PM
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"you give her the gift of your presence, because your presence alone is way more valuable than anything you can give her on a date and she should see it that way or else she is not the right one" That’s totally the way to go in the west. But if you’re with a Slavic girl making like $400 a month, I’m not sure that’s the best move. You’re assuming most girls act like Western ones. In this situation, maybe hold off on giving her a gift to see if she’s just after your money, but go ahead and bring s…
/r/seduction28/01/25 06:44 PM
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Google "kino escalation" and "last-minute resistance."
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:57 PM
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That’s textbook. A broken heart often leads to low confidence with women. My advice? Start by dating women who might not normally be your type (low-profile girls) and gradually work your way back to the kind of women you’d typically date. Just make sure you’re respectful when things eventually end with the low-profile girls—treat them right, or karma could come back around.
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:49 PM
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First off, don’t put too much stock in what a woman says she likes in a man. More often than not, she’s sharing what she thinks she should like, not what she actually does. Secondly, when social media first took off, most PUAs avoided it, thinking a mysterious vibe was more appealing. But times have changed—these days, women want to see your lifestyle on social media. If you’re not active, they might assume you don’t have much going on. My advice? Don’t post all the time, but every so often, sha…
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:43 PM
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Porn is a cancer in society. Period.
/r/seduction07/11/24 01:08 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but let's be real: a lot of guys here are just focused on hooking up with as many women as they can. Here’s the truth, though—chasing numbers loses its appeal after a while, and it eventually starts to feel like a grind. Finding your purpose, that’s the real game-changer.
/r/seduction23/10/24 04:32 AM
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I've been experimenting a lot on Instagram lately. One of my experiments almost made some of my audio clips go viral, but I was able to get the girl back around and stop any issues. I've found that the best way to connect with girls on IG is to start the conversation by saying how you found her profile and why you think it'd be a good idea to start chatting but skipping the "how I found your profile" part works too.
/r/seduction16/10/24 06:21 PM
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I tried going without a cell phone and social media for a while. Most girls thought I was married or something, which actually made them more interested, so I consider that a win. Honestly, I went back to social media because it's just more efficient for meeting people.
/r/seduction01/09/24 01:29 AM
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This. Need to bed them ASAP, otherwise, he is falling into the BF zone. He has talent he is just not framing it correctly.
/r/seduction23/08/24 08:35 PM
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Why not someone your age if you're taking it seriously?
/r/seduction22/08/24 01:30 AM
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If she likes you, yes.
/r/seduction21/08/24 04:23 PM
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Most girls are looking for fun, connection, or both. It seems like you might be missing the mark in those areas. You also may lack value as a man, or you're not communicating your value properly. Also, you might be portraying yourself one way on dating apps but come across differently in person. Your main problem is your self-esteem. There's no way someone with healthy self-esteem would go on a few dates without any success, even if they make mistakes each time.
/r/seduction08/08/24 08:12 PM
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I've even been punched in the face because of this. My advice is to learn about amog.
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:53 PM
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You're mistaken. Attraction can be developed through game; if you can't build attraction that way, your game sucks. Now, game isn't about silly tricks you find online. It's about real-life experience with dating and relationships.
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:54 PM
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Turkish girls often lean towards being conservative and may expect you to date them a few times before getting physically close. To close the deal as soon as possible, try to arrange as many dates as possible within the first two weeks of dating.
/r/seduction30/07/24 05:06 PM
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I don't know; American girls are not that hard, either. I think most passport bros are broken guys and weirdos.
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:38 PM
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It's crazy. Women in developing countries often go for some loser (who barely gets pussy) from the first world just because they think he's better since he's a foreigner.
/r/seduction27/07/24 03:33 PM
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This. Social media changed the game in a ways that a lot of old school guys are still negating.
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:19 PM
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I pacticed the game for a shit ton of time in total. I got bored about it and found out meaningful connections are the real deal. I just come here time to time to help whenever I can. You don't need to go out to game to get laid. Two years ago an old friend was having a dry spell of YEARS. Advised him to just go out and do activities he enjoys and become regular in some social places and meet people and have fun and make friends (both girls and guys) and just learn to do whatever he wants when h…
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:04 PM
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American women usually needs to feel amazed by you in the first date or you are ghosted. You either show an amazing game in your first date or bye. A lot if immigrants are used to dating for weeks or even months before escalating but that is not the case in America, she needs to feel you are the one right from the first date. Read about escalation and scale as much as possible in your first date and you will be fine.
/r/seduction04/05/24 09:29 PM
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That's the reality of most beaitiful girls. It sucks, but you need to face it and move on.
/r/seduction25/04/24 05:59 PM
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I mean, you can find a girl like you. In several religions this kind of behaviour is pretty acceptable, so I'm sure you could find a suitable girl that would prefer a guy like you. But you are not against sex for religious reasons, but for personal ones. There, the lines blurry. I'd say you need to talk with a therapist about this since we can't really diagnose or discard something trough reddit.
/r/seduction25/04/24 01:21 AM
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Dude, make new friends. How can you play with the idea of cold approaching women on the streets yet can't contemplate the idea of making new friends? Just do things outside and be social.
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:48 AM
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Cold approaching rarely works. It is just weird. Dating apps are full of ugly girls or beautiful girls just ditched by their boyfriends. The old "my friend introduced me her" is still the best way to meet girls. Just go out, be social, make as much friends as possible (both men and women) and eventually you'll meet a match.
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:38 AM
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Harassment. Worst part it is kinda working. Tell him he should stop otherwise you are calling HR or the cops.
/r/seduction14/04/24 06:22 AM
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Pilates: Full of girls, me and the trainer are the only guy around. Languages exchanges: Plenty of cool people, men and women, around. Art gatherings and expositions: Mostly girls and gay guys, with the occasional rich dude with his wife.
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:36 PM
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The best results are with free style. Put attention to your body and feelings. When you feel sexual attraction/tension then make a suggestive, flirty comment. We are animals and like most mammals, we got mating rituals. Your body already knows when to push and when to pull. Do you feel like kissing her? Kiss her. Do you feel like talking only? Talk. Listen to your body. For this, you need to put the pressure and the scripts and the routines on hold and just do what feels right. If you insist on …
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:40 AM
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Google search "limerence". You're welcome.
/r/seduction06/04/24 06:50 PM
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Most guys in the seduction world will tell you pursuing someone is a bad idea. They will tell you you need to next her and move onto the next girl. But sometimes, a man wants to pursue. This article talks about what is the right way to pursue thou because most guys are particularly good for pursuing a girl in the wrong ways: https://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/persistence.htm Anyway, my recommendation is to have more girls on your plate if you pursue this particular girl otherwise you may end up…
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:45 PM
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It depends enterely how she sees you. If she thinks you are such a great catch, one in a million, the perfect guy on earth, etc. Your compliments will make her extremely happy. If she is unsure about you, a compliment may make her think you are lower value than her. Is she thinks you are not attractive, a compliment may make her feel harassed or make you look like a simp.
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:38 PM
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No a good idea. You ruin all the fun for her. Just invite her on a date and play the flirting game.
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:33 PM
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I can even pull it without an IG profile. I got two, one for friends and one for picking up girls. The one for picking up girls got no profile photo on it and no posts. I just know what to say to make them intrigued. However, most IG girls are so self absorbed it is not fun anymore. LinkedIn is better. The kind of girls there are better for settling down.
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:30 PM
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Bro, when you start the seduction journey one of the first traps you will encounter is the pressure of picking up girls. If you meet a girl and you won't pick her up, you may feel like a failure. In reality, things are not like that. Even Mystery got to try thousand of times before picking up any girl he wanted. Basically, you need to practice. Don't expect nothing more than a talk with them, but always aim for the close if you know what I mean. Just keep practicing and eventually, you will not …
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:25 PM
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It depends on her options, your value, her beliefs, etc But generally speaking, attraction got an expiration date. The hotter she is, the shorter the expiration date. In my opinion, if you are not doing something (:wink: :wink:) the first two weeks after meeting her you are making things harder.
/r/seduction06/04/24 02:17 PM
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I agree you should focus on girls actually wanting you, it is just a better investment of your time. But some girls will tell you they have a boyfriend just to put off the weight from their shoulders, because they feel guilty, but they might be open to cheat on them with you. I wouldn't mess with a girl with a boyfriend/husband thou. I find it disgusting.
/r/seduction04/04/24 06:26 PM
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Agree but you can befriend them and their friends would be available for you.
/r/seduction03/04/24 04:56 PM
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Find the stylish photographer with a solid portfolio taking shots to models. He will know how to make you look cool. There are also photographers specialized on dating apps. For clothing, you can hire a designer girl into fashion. More affordable than a specialist and similar results, although the specialist will give you a PR strategy. Personally, dating apps are not good to find hotties. Most girls over there are desperate, socially awkward, psychos or recently broken up. It is easier to impro…
/r/seduction02/04/24 06:27 PM
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Yeah, in general ¡, it is more enjoyable spending time with girls with similar goals and objectives as you. Having her own career, etc Most guys complaining about it want the lead in a relationship. Career oriented girls will accept your leadership if you are good, not only because you are a man or her partner. In other words, they are not as naive and as impressionable as the girls OP prefer, you really need your shit together to lead them. Also, you don't need to lead if both of you are happy …
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:12 PM
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You need a job, basic hygiene, realistic standards, and a relatively healthy personality (confidence is key here) to get laid. You can improve a lot, but these are the basics.
/r/seduction26/03/24 04:01 AM
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What concerns me the most is the naturallity you use to talk about it. Like man you are acting like a human with next to no morals/ethics.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:09 AM
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Mmm, maybe she is manipulative and is trying to reel you in, there is a boyfriend on the picture, she gets annoyed by your response timing and is trying to get back at you, etc Meet her or move on. For experience I can tell you this kind of virtual/long distance relationships won't work until you escale them ASAP (most of the time, there are exceptions).
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:04 AM
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This, Even when you screw up if you promise something, you need to stick to it. If you don't do it, your decisions are weak and nobody can rely on weak decisions so you wouldn't be a reliable man. Breaking promises could work with some girls with daddy issues thou.
/r/seduction25/03/24 05:00 AM
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It depends how you do it. Direct approach in the streets will get you a restrain order but going out to activities, being social, meeting up people, having fun, etc will expose you to far more girls than a dating app. What about social media? You can start the convo relatively easy and move it to rl.
/r/seduction25/03/24 04:57 AM
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Girls like: Social position Economic position A good game Physical attractiveness So work every week a bit on your fame, your money, your psyche and your game and eventually you'll get plenty of girls Or become extraordinarily successful in one area of your life: Extremely famous, extremely rich, extremely handsome, etc Be the 1% in one category
/r/seduction01/10/22 07:02 PM
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Bring her to her door, ask to use the bathroom, start some small talk afterwards. If she wants it things are going to flow smoothly from there
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:33 PM
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You definitely can. Just don't make it your first priority
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:29 PM
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A park, cinema, a car, her place, a hiking trail. If she is into you, a motel room... However, I think you need to focus on your finances first.
/r/seduction27/09/22 01:09 PM
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Best path: Therapy. Second best path: Create worthy goals and achieve them.
/r/seduction16/09/22 04:46 AM
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You need to find another girl with the same beliefs as you. It won't be easy, it isn't common to find men/women with your values, but there are some others like you out there. So, for the majority of girls (that don't share your values), yes, it will be a turn off. Maybe try dating someone in your church? Go to as many events your church is involved as possible
/r/seduction12/09/22 09:13 PM
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Nah, in fact, look is the less important factor here unless you are dealing with very young girls or very rich girls. Money and status wins everything.
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:19 PM
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It's funny how guys think it's the same everywhere. That girls are the same. No, the west is full of the one night stand culture and girls make as much money as men. Girls don't think about settling down until their late 20s, early 30s, if ever. Outside the west, most girls don't sleep around. They don't make much money and they want to get married in their early 20s. Their family plays a fundamental role in their life, they have to ask parents permission to go out even in their 20s. It's a huge…
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:14 PM
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Nah, you are thinking like a man. As a man, look of a girl is everything but for a girl it isn't. Social status, money, personality and looks are what girls look for
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:09 PM
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I guess you could lie more and tell her you got some shit in your spine that made you shorter. If she feels something about you she will support you. However, if you are serious about this girl, stop the lies and just ignore it, stop using the heels and act like nothing happens. If she insists on the issue, come clean but without making a big deal about it.
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:23 AM
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The success rate of cold approaching is ridiculous. Most girls find it silly, intimidating or they assume you are a complete player. Honestly, it's just easier having a great IG account and send a few DMs here and there
/r/seduction02/09/22 02:30 AM
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