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| 3 | Advice on futureSorry that you were victimized... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/26 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Are Men Inferior to Women? Her Campus Article Defends Teaching 5-Year-Olds Misandry as "Necessary"Just googled it, and it looks like that technology (gestation via incubator) doesn't exist just yet so men would still need women as surrogates... either way, I get the feeling that we're in for some pain, if you're optimistic then that's great | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/26 03:08 AM |
| 8 | Are Men Inferior to Women? Her Campus Article Defends Teaching 5-Year-Olds Misandry as "Necessary"There are always sperm banks and simps that can allow them to keep reproducing... Nature + modern technology is putting them in a fairly advantageous position. Again, maybe I'm being too pessimistic, but I seem to notice that a lot of these women seem to make an exception for the top 10% to 1% of men and reserve their misandry for the rest of us... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/26 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Are Men Inferior to Women? Her Campus Article Defends Teaching 5-Year-Olds Misandry as "Necessary"The other possibility is that the way things are going, she will come across a lot of boys/men who society has programmed to be subservient and lots of other women who uphold and reinforce her beliefs and that this group could become large enough and powerful enough to be insulated from consequences. I don't mean to be pessimistic but I fear that us men are in for an era of further marginalization and maybe eventually oppression that breaks a lot of us for generations... I hope I'm wrong but wit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/07/26 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Is UN Women misandrist?I was going to say the same thing. They will play it down as a single example in a sea of patriarchal oppression or say that they women and girls are more vulnerable (relatively) and that men will already be prioritized due to systemic privilege or come up with some other mental gymnastics to carry on with their agenda. Honestly, this is something I am seeing across the entire left, they just want to get ahead at someone's expense while maintaining the facade of virtue, and it's disgusting and I… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/06/26 05:05 PM |
| 2 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)Okay, I think I get what you're saying, past prejudice cannot be reconciled with the reverse prejudice now it can only be reconciled by letting go of all prejudices. For my part, I also think that working to give people what they need right now (without prejudice or discrimination) i.e. policies that take care of people's basic needs and allow them to exist and progress in a space free of discrimination/prejudice is how we actually get to a fair, balanced, and for lack of a better word progressi… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)Sorry , that sucks that you were abused. All abuse is bad and no one should get a pass for it because their gender / sex is seen as more sympathetic. You deserve to be heard and to be vindicated, but as you know life is often not fair or righteous. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 2 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)I commend you for calling out misogyny. I hear what you are saying about the limitations and even risks of being an ally (and often stay quite for this reason) and also understand how toxic shaming can become. Also I certainly don't want to push anyone including yourself as I've been pushed quite a bit myself and don't want to experience this further either so your feelings about this resonate. I just want to engage and learn from others. Your perspective was valuable towards this. I appreciate … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 02:03 AM |
| -11 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)I was thinking more access to the labor market and capital for survival and to an extent at least a little more access to power but I understand that a lot of the power was concentrated in the hands of a few and that most everyone else was struggling. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 01:56 AM |
| 8 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)I appreciate what you're saying. At some point it becomes too cumbersome to do all the oppression calculus and it really just makes sense to work on bringing people together and focus on meeting peoples needs so that we can move forward. Thanks for taking the time out to answer my question. It's helpful to get this perspective. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/06/26 01:54 AM |
| 9 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)It seems women are more coordinated when it comes to acting collectively. I think one thing that could help is for men to start supporting each other (this sub is a great example) and also withdraw association from the men who do this, especially when those men find themselves cast out (and honestly women who do this as well), there needs to be some consequences to throwing other men under the bus. Admittedly, we are limited in how much leverage we can exercise, but we need to start somewhere. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/26 11:59 PM |
| 6 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)This is a great point! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/26 11:55 PM |
| 12 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)I may get downvoted for this too but I think that men are in an inferior position to women right now. Women through years of collective liberation are able to access and express the full range of human emotion/energy from masculine to feminine including the roles they can play in society. In addition they are the ones who can gestate life which requires more labor. Consequently I think men crave sex more (biologically) and are at a loss for intimacy (socially conditioned). Further with women out… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/26 11:54 PM |
| 5 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)I was also wondering this and also why women would be okay with their men being part of the "all other men group" to every other woman. I think in their mind it's like a group affiliation thing wherein by being connected to them, their man, becomes part of an implied group of men that are the good ones, and that every other men that hasn't been vouched for by a women, particularly a sufficiently progressive/feminist woman. Then, they (the unvouched for men) are guilty by association until proven… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/26 11:45 PM |
| -31 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)u/Beginning_Addition_3 u/ExcitableSarcasm I have heard some people say that it's different because of the history of marginilization. Men had collective privilege over women, whites had collective privilege over blacks therefore comparing prejudice towards blacks to prejudice towards men is not accounting for the direction of net oppression in both cases, i.e. women can be subversive towards men but whites cannot be subversive towards blacks. It kind of makes sense to me. Can you please let me k… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/26 11:39 PM |
| -12 | "I hate men!" (...but not that man)At the risk of sounding like a simp, do we call out misogyny ever? Maybe we just assume that we cannot influence the men who act in misogynistic ways, silently categorize ourselves as different and righteous, and then move forward. I'm not trying to give women who are being hateful a pass but what if we're really not holding ourselves and other men accountable? What do you think? I really want your honest opinion on this? If I'm wrong can you please tell me why? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/26 11:34 PM |
| 49 | Ana Psychology misses the point of benevolent sexism.On a tangential note, I think that we need 3rd spaces again. If we had more of this and could connect with our fellow humans we wouldn't be exposed to all these internet gurus and their crazy takes all the time. Also, might be good to have unions back (or increased) as it would make is easier to earn a living and have some more time to connect with our fellow humans! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/26 10:36 PM |
| 1 | PatriarchyThat last part really drives it home. Well said! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/26 05:22 PM |
| 2 | How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people?I agree with you 100% on that point!! The other point was just something I’m struggling and coping with personally. Thanks for humoring me. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/26 11:25 AM |
| 4 | How come the "patriarchy" harms men but white supremacy doesn't harm white people or heteronormativity doesn't harm straight people?Yes, I've heard other progressives say the same thing. I think many of us men (including myself) are coping somewhat with our loss of status. Also, even though we have made gains to dismantle a lot of the patriarchy, especially those that harm women, we as a society, including feminists, are still holding up some of the norms that harm men, because in the aggregate, women/powerful men/ and even some progressive men may be benefiting from the exploitation of middle and lower class men under these… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/05/26 10:55 AM |
| 7 | The Projection of negative Male stereotypes on neurodivergent folksThis slightly a tangent but when I hear a lot of behaviors that women/society complain about like having to their male partners/coworkers how to do things or repeatedly having to stay on top of them, the behaviors they are often complaining about seem like they could be stemming from Neurodiversity/disability and somehow women who have these are somehow either able to mask better or are considered more sympathetic (in some cases) | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/05/26 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Feminist student organisation made SoCal gym inclusive - by banishing men - so that "women and non-binary students can exercise with a sense of ease"That might be the way to go then. Just have three separate spaces to accomodate each population. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/26 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Feminist student organisation made SoCal gym inclusive - by banishing men - so that "women and non-binary students can exercise with a sense of ease"Okay, I didn't see that part. Thanks for pointing that out. I see your where you're coming from. These things can certainly snowball into some of the scenarios where we are seeing women openly calling men second class beings or even worse and they are celebrated by parts of the progressive left for it. Fair enough. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Feminist student organisation made SoCal gym inclusive - by banishing men - so that "women and non-binary students can exercise with a sense of ease"I hear what you're saying its a slippery slope if you let it get too far. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/04/26 05:18 PM |
| -5 | Feminist student organisation made SoCal gym inclusive - by banishing men - so that "women and non-binary students can exercise with a sense of ease"I understand people's sense of outrage. Does the fact that it is one room in the facility for one hour two days a week, change how anyone views it? The rest of the facility is available to men. If I'm understanding the argument correctly the fear is stemming from men being stronger, and perhaps more prone to physical violence (though I understand this claim is challenged and perhaps false) and this helps women and non-binary who are historically and perhaps currently marginalized (maybe non-bina… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/04/26 03:42 AM |
| 2 | What's your response to feminists who claim that the Epstein's case proves the patriarchy or men's nature?I hear where you're coming from, and this resonates with me too!! Thanks for holding the line!! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/03/26 08:00 PM |
| 7 | What's your response to feminists who claim that the Epstein's case proves the patriarchy or men's nature?I hear and appreciate where you're coming from. The generalization and attacking is wearing on my empathy as well. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/03/26 11:58 PM |
| 10 | What's your response to feminists who claim that the Epstein's case proves the patriarchy or men's nature?I have to disagree, I feel affinity for them the more struggle I have to go through. They were ruthlessly exploited and decimated. That one girl ended up killing herself. The pain and suffering that they must have experienced is awful. I don't appreicate women generalizing all men, especially when we should all be united in taking out the powerful men but actions of awful women like that doesn't lessen my sympathy for the victims. It kind of increases it cause they also have to share a world wti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/03/26 07:36 PM |
| 5 | For the women and non binary people on this subThanks for pointing this out then. That makes a difference. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/03/26 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Men’s Issues (The gerontocratic Approach)We had actual slavery where black people were brutalized, raped, tortured, and killed. and people held picnics right next to their slain bodies. How can you say that current-day feminism is anything close to this? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/26 04:05 AM |
| 0 | Absolutely fantastic article by philosopher Michael Huemer, hits on academic misandryI agree, he is way worse and Andrea Dworkin was actually the victim of abuse as well and may have been quite traumatized. WTS, the underlying point that misandry does exist and is minimized in many feminist circles resonates with me for sure. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/01/26 08:24 PM |
| 3 | The "weaponize incompetence" myth.I saw the video and if what she describes is true then there probably are a lot of men who are not very keen on contributing to their partner and kids… cause there were a lot of women who talked about leaving and being much happier. I think that we’re caught in a rough period where our women’s dependency on us and our relative roles are changing and our society did not prepare us. I can look back and can see how I reflected some of these negative traits earlier in my life. WTS I also think that … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/05/25 02:18 AM |
| 1 | New independent press to focus on male writersI love how the older generation of men who enjoyed all this privilege are so quick to throw younger men under the bus and how they are often lauded for it. It seems like those of us of the historically privileged groups who are struggling the most seem to receive the brunt of the attack, if that makes sense. Also, I wish that intersectionality would focus on class a lot more, as that covers a significantly larger swath of the population, but that seems to have to wait until white women of the el… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/05/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Invisible Men: The Pyramid Feminism Won’t Talk AboutThis was very insightful. To me it feels like the system is is drowning all of us (some more than others) and we are having a harder and harder time coming together so instead we try to push each other down to keep ourselves afloat... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/25 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Exposing Some Feminist Claims That Are Inaccurate And Misleading.I appreciate that you take the responsibility off of groups(men, women, etc) and mention that most of us are struggling under the boot of a small powerful group but just in different ways. I'm glad that you could come to this position and that you were brave enough to state it here. IMHO, we need more Feminists and Men's advocates to be able to stake out common ground so that we can all ward off extremists from both camps. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/25 12:56 AM |
| 4 | Need Suggestions: Influencers for Young MenWaving the red flag is good. They are all men of color and seem to do a good job of taking a comprehensive view of topics. https://www.youtube.com/c/WavingtheRedFlag | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/25 07:52 AM |
| 1 | feminists can't claim feminism is about equality and not also advocate for equality for men."If you want to be big boss lady, doesn't it stand to reason that you should be finding a nurturing, tender natured man who will keep house and home and support your career?" If I'm not mistaken this is another complaint of feminism, that there are not enough men who can step outside their prescribed gender roles to take up more caretaking / domestic labor... I also think that Social Media brings out so many opinions from various women and in aggregate this results in men being attacked every wh… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/04/25 03:30 AM |
| 10 | Anyone know the actual figures for the claims made in this image? It cites no sources.These posts are depressing. I know that this is the first step towards organizing but we may need to find a way to start implementing policies faster or future men are going to be screwed in a huge way... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/03/25 01:07 AM |
| 7 | When a man is the abuser vs when a woman is the abuserRight? It's almost our fault with that segment of women. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/25 02:12 AM |
| 21 | A question for the women of this sub.Thanks for standing up for us and sorry that you get called out in a space where your contributions should be truly valued. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/03/25 12:46 AM |
| 7 | DNC's "Run for Office" Webpage excludes men wile Democrats struggle with getting young male supportJust curious, What do you think of the Forward Party as an alternative to the current duopoly? Most people dislike both parties and the Forward Party seems pragmatic (to me anyway) and might be able to unite enough people to push a few solutions through and get us unstuck. Perhaps they could be a home for disenfranchised young men among others. What do you all think? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Culture war updateWell said, it's not always easy or even feasible to push back against those that have more power than oneself and it can cause hesitation | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/25 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Opportunity to promote men’s rights and oppose misandryI sent this to the DNC and RNC. Thanks for offering some actionable suggestions. I often feel frustrated when reading this sub because I feel powerless to do anything. This helps to channel my angst so I appreciate the opportunity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 05:30 PM |
| – | Weekly check-inThat’s a tough three months. I hope that nature will give you a break this coming month. | /r/MenSupportMen | 14/10/24 01:34 AM |
| – | Weekly check-inStruggling with addiction, chronic fatigue, and depression but hopeful that next week will be better | /r/MenSupportMen | 14/10/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you not spiral?I can second this. I spiral as well. Sometimes journaling or expressing it to a friend or forum helps. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/10/24 02:48 PM |
| 3 | So close to calling it quits.Sorry that you’re going through this. I am not sure where you live but in some places there is some assistance for medications and low cost clinics available. As far as mental health, I’m not sure if you would like it but I’ve found ASMR videos to be helpful (even if just to relax). Wish I could offer more advice. Hope everything gets better. | /r/MenSupportMen | 11/10/24 08:57 AM |
| 1 | The double speak of "it's other men" or "men do this to themselves" when it comes to male gender roles.They also say "Well women are individuals and can't be responsible for the actions of other women" but continue to treat men like a monolith. They are so belligerent about it and their behavior is never considered hostile. Further when men get hurt and feel bad about it then we're considered fragile because they (women) have to put up with so much more (though maybe our struggles aren't known because we're expected not to say anything). but then we're also told that we have toxic ideas about vul… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/10/24 03:10 PM |
| 4 | The reason why feminism is right-wing is not because feminists say mean things about men, it's because they don't believe in this one fundamental principle of the leftThank you | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 08/09/24 04:24 PM |
| 14 | The reason why feminism is right-wing is not because feminists say mean things about men, it's because they don't believe in this one fundamental principle of the leftDo you happen to have more information about the U.N. denying food to men. I googled this and nothing came up | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/09/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Suicide is a killer. As LWMAs it's our duty to be there for men too. How is life for you these days?u/Stellakinetic u/Global-Bluejay-3577 u/depressedf1sh I've been going down this path (am in my mid (40s) and would love it if you could recover and not end up like me. WTS I'm wondering do any of you struggle with GI issues or Neurodivergence because that can drive a lot of other issues. Secondly are there any particular skills that you are interested in developing? If you can find some volunteer opportunities where you can practice these be it a trade or technology it can help you economically … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/08/24 02:02 PM |
| 3 | I need helpSorry that you are going through this brother!! What can I help with? Do you need to vent for right now? Are you in the U.S.? Can you call 988? | /r/MenSupportMen | 27/02/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | “Why don’t men build their own resources?”Thanks for sharing the sub. I see some truth in what you’re saying about men benefitting from more movement building! Regarding feminists, most of the ones I met were fairly antagonistic, hostile, and just contentious with me even when I meant well so I would love to meet others who could envision a place for me in the world. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/24 06:04 AM |
| 1 | “Why don’t men build their own resources?”This is heart breaking, they don’t seem to have any other solutions besides put it somewhere else and make it there problem and also it’s queens, there are probably schools everywhere. I am starting to wonder if we should start pulling our votes from Dems/progressives | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | “Why don’t men build their own resources?”Did you report on change.org or somewhere else? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/24 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Are women more negatively perceived when being assertive?I wish had had more managers like you! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | r/Ask a feminist 'hey, y'all think it's a heteronormative complex or what?'....🔥 Exactly, they have been pulling this over our heads for too long and the decent feminists don’t seem to be able to promote their voices over the hypocrites | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/24 02:37 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone else just stopped caring about politics/social justice because of the hypocrisy?What you say resonates with me a lot. I grew up with a bunch SJWs who weaponized others oppression and aimed all their hostility at me in what looking back feels like narcissistic ways where none of their standard ever applied to them and if I or anyone else ever pointed it out they would gang up and retaliate, even and as Then as soon as I started holding my ground they dropped me. TBH I keep running into people like this on the left who continue to use others oppression as a way to attack byst… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/24 02:16 PM |
| 28 | I'm getting tired of my feminist girlfriendThat’s pretty rough. I concerned for you because these types can wear you down over time and leave you in a really bad place. I wonder if it’s worth letting her know how you feeling about the relationship or maybe even taking a break. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/24 01:49 PM |
| 7 | Most insane serious article I have ever read.I was thinking something similar, I empathize with them and can only imagine some of the pain that comes experiencing misogyny their whole life but I also feel like most of their misandry won’t get aimed at the misogynists who hold the most power and make life difficult for all of us and instead a lot (and maybe most) of it will be aimed at men like us who would have rather allied with them to affect change but instead most of us will end up more hurt and angry and bitter | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/24 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Working class men just don’t matter🔥💙✊🏽 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Working class men just don’t matterThis hits home. Everybody needs to feel connected and valued and in today’s society so many of us are feeling this loss | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/02/24 11:01 PM |
| – | I’m lost right now.I’m sorry that you have gone through this. I am 45 have both my parents with me and am still struggling so I have respect (even reverence for you) for pushing forward with all you have gone through. FWIW there is an app called Circles which is effectively peer and professional support for people dealing with trauma and grief. I am on there and it is helping me a lot. I wonder if you might find it helpful too. | /r/MenSupportMen | 30/01/24 05:22 AM |
| 2 | On the topic of military draftGood point. Thanks for throwing this out. What you're saying is true, if anyone even hinted that the birthrate could have negative consequences some feminists would claim persecution and blame men for all of it somehow... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/12/23 04:26 AM |
| 2 | On the topic of military draftI think they might come back with an argument about how women bear all the burden of pregnancy and childbirth which continues to provide citizens for the nation so men should be the ones to defend the country since women will do the work of rebuilding the population through child birth and rearing, et al. I am not sure how we as men can offset this contribution that many of them make to society. I know that this doesn't necessarily mandate a draft but I just don't know how I would refute it espe… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/12/23 07:05 PM |
| 3 | So, Blake Lively is a misandrist, apparently. Is it really getting this bad?Yeah, I remember that ad where a man is standing on a rug with a woman's head attached... As I man, I'm a little afraid of how much runway the men who came before us have given to women of today to take shots at us and in some cases degrade and denigrate us... I can see how this was meant to come across and perhaps it wasn't an attack on men (though the part about cruelty might have been a little over the top) but I feel like there might be worse on the horizon... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/12/23 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Feminism expects men to bend over backwards for empathizing with womens issues while shitting on men, and is then is surprised men double down imto toxic spaces.thanks | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/11/23 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Feminism expects men to bend over backwards for empathizing with womens issues while shitting on men, and is then is surprised men double down imto toxic spaces.That was really helpful (and didn't feel like a speech, to me anyway) I checked out The catalogue of female shaming tactics and will try to remember your advice when I come up against people that try to persuasion tactics on me to gauge whether they really have my interests at heart and will try my hardest to repel those who don't and really force the issue with them to let them know that we (men) are catching on... Thanks for the feedback brother. It is much appreciated!! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/23 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Feminism expects men to bend over backwards for empathizing with womens issues while shitting on men, and is then is surprised men double down imto toxic spaces.Ah okay, I see what were you saying in the original post. Something that was intended to foster more understanding and support was instead weaponized to create divisions and justify cruelty. I guess I misunderstood. Thanks for clarifying! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/11/23 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Feminism expects men to bend over backwards for empathizing with womens issues while shitting on men, and is then is surprised men double down imto toxic spaces.I have so much to say about intersectionality and yet so little time to write it out. Suffice to say that I despise it, not because of its intended purpose, but because of how grievously it has failed in its mission. I mean this without hyperbole---I have never seen an idealogy so outrageously go against its own mission as severely as intersectionality. Even communism doesn't hold a candle to it when it comes to backfiring although it had far more disastrous and bloody consequences when it did. … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Feminism expects men to bend over backwards for empathizing with womens issues while shitting on men, and is then is surprised men double down imto toxic spaces.They use shaming language to trigger embarrassment and guilt for not doing as they say or target the masculinity of their victim to push him into affirming it via doing their bidding. They are manipulative, ruthless and absolutely callous when it comes to dealing with male humans, but the tactics they use are tailor made to entrap men into becoming their allies and even hating their own gender. Anyway, the point of this isn't a rant against feminists as much as it is a warning about how to spot … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Feminism expects men to bend over backwards for empathizing with womens issues while shitting on men, and is then is surprised men double down imto toxic spaces.do you know where to find statistics like this, is PubMed the best place? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/23 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever heard a woman being called a loser?I would agree that calling men losers is like insulting women's virtue or looks and while there are men who do this they are usually considered boorish and rejected by civilized society and on the left (these overlap a fair amount I'm sure) but on the opposite end women who call men losers don't seem to be shunned as much at least not by the same civilized society and or the left. Could be because of the historical oppression of women but it seems like given women's gains especially recently (ab… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/11/23 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Wanting men to communicate their needs / open up / be 'vulnerable' OR stop putting women in the position of being 'emotional servants'? Which is it?These studies were really eye-opening. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Do you think society is more hostile for women now?sorry you had to face so much trauma... hope you are afforded the resources to heal someday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Do you think society is more hostile for women now?good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like whatever a man says/does is scrutinised under the worst faith possible?Exactly!! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/23 12:52 PM |
| 2 | What if people started calling it "toxic woke"I'm at a loss too... Empathic exploitation? Coopting? Virtue Signalizing? Exploitative Advocacy? Red herring? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/10/23 02:42 AM |
| 12 | What if people started calling it "toxic woke"Yeah, that's the main thing for me, they weaponize genuine empathy and concern for others to center themselves, claim authority, and perpetrate abuse. It's disgusting and has gone unaddressed for way too long. I'm glad someone is starting to brainstorm ways to push back. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 16/10/23 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I think men's activists in general we underestimate the dangerous side of the potential that comes with the feminist hijacking of narrativesexactly! | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/23 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why 'toxic masculinity' isn't a useful term for understanding all of the ways to be a manBut then the exact same concept is labeled "internalized misogyny" if the subject is women, and there an agenda is made crystal clear. Do you mind elaborating on this and giving some examples? It sounds possible but I'm also thinking that toxic masculinity could be manifest as misogyny but that there could be other forms of misogyny. Do you have examples that could illustrate how they are pretty much exactly the same thing? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/23 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Why 'toxic masculinity' isn't a useful term for understanding all of the ways to be a manI think that's true and I like that you used the term gender warriors, I think we need to start having a rhetorical strategy (I don't know if that's an official thing or not because I am not well-educated in this area) to be able to push back against these gender warriors. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Just saw a post on the Predaddit sub about a guy who is bemoaning not being able to escape being a father when the mother refuses an abortion. It bothers me that men get shredded to pieces for that thought while women receive support since it's "her choice".same, and when you don't submit they start yelling and throwing tantrums and playing the victim, and in progressive spaces no one can challenge or reject a womens' distress and just have to yield as preventative measures or punishment for past sins/harms. This is starting to wear thin and we need to start having each other's back in pushing back and holding them accountable to us as well | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/23 05:08 AM |
| 16 | Why does it seem like whatever a man says/does is scrutinised under the worst faith possible?I’ve found on the internet and when I interact with certain women, despite me not saying or implying anything of the sort my words and actions are assumed to be the most malicious possible and I’m judged on the slightest misstep. If it was just me I’d chalk it up to just the people I interact with or just do some soul searching to see where I went wrong but this seems incredibly common online. This is so true, for some messed up reason there is a group of us men who end up being the target of li… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/10/23 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Are you being abused by a woman? Men often don't even realize that what is being done to them is actual abuse, or don't speak up about it.sorry that you went through that brother | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Are you being abused by a woman? Men often don't even realize that what is being done to them is actual abuse, or don't speak up about it.Also, men become meek because society will come down to them if they defend themselves against abusive women and will pile on so much that the men become traumatized. Also, women and society as a whole will undermine men as a group and individually with constant slights and attacks but since it isn't all out physical terrorizing it gets looked over and further women have the sheen of feminity makes me people think that they are not capable of abuse and destruction. Things are becoming really tou… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/10/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy or competition-based society?I appreciate a lot of what you are saying and understand the benefit of making feminists feel some empathy for us but aren’t there a lot of misandrists who love to mock men’s feelings and struggles(I feel like most of the comments I see in the most popular feminist subs express contempt for men) who are going to just keep condemning us at the top of their lungs and continue to enjoy solidarity with most feminists? I hope the ones that have empathy for us will carry enough clout to shift the conv… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy or competition-based society?I feel like some feminists make an attempt to advocate for other marginalized populations through intersectionality and a lot (and often the loudest and most vitriolic) use members of these populations as tokens to demonize other people and gain clout for themselves. I personally have experienced being manipulated by the latter… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/23 11:45 AM |
| 1 | What are the duties of modern men? And what are your expectations of modern women?The duties of modern men imho are: 1)Take care of ourselves physically, mentally emotionally, spiritually in particular work towards developing more and more emotional intelligence 2) Keep on developing our skills and building our financial strength and abilities to contribute as much possible 3) Support each other in the above as much as possible cause women have grown tired of helping us so we need to care for each other and build community 4) Take up more domestic and care responsibilities i.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 09:30 AM |
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