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TooManlyShoes/r/seduction20/02/16 10:52 PM
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I'm not your sweetie. I'm just pointing out that being aware of social issues could be helpful.
/r/seduction23/07/18 04:39 AM
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There are some things that really shouldn't be joked about. Especially by people who don't know each other well. And you don't really know anything about this chick except she's smart and has smart friends. What if she had someone stalk her in the past? She might not take it well. And that doesn't mean she can't joke around about other things, it just means that she doesn't think the idea of making someone feel terrified for life is funny. Like making a "your mom" joke when the person's mom just…
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:35 PM
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Even a joking way would give be pause. Like. Are you projecting? Have you been stalked in the past and now have some serious baggage about it? Do you think making women feel uncomfortable is humorous? Things like that would pop into my mind.
/r/seduction22/07/18 04:44 PM
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I think not saying that stalker line was a good thing. If a guy said that to me, it would automatically put me on alert and I'd be less likely to initiate or respond to conversation.
/r/seduction22/07/18 04:00 PM
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But. Gaining the confidence to go out and and have the eventful life can be really intimidating. That's where the 'awesome advice' comes in. Ideally, I think, it should be used as a sort of 'fake it til you make it' kind of thing. And I feel like what this article is saying,is basically 'fake it til you make it'.
/r/seduction17/05/18 07:15 PM
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Ah. I see. I meant it as like an addition to what you said. I thought what you said was pretty good. And yeah. As long as someone has basic social skills, what you said is 100% true.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:33 AM
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Right. The thing is that these people aren't self aware. So they don't realize they lack the skills to try seduction. These were just my thoughts when I read the article. And there are people on this sub who do lack these skills and I just wanted to point out. From a female perspective. Some things to be aware of.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:27 AM
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There are a lot of people who seem to be trying it who lack social skills. Even on this sub. It seems to have gotten a lot better in the last year or so but when I first started following, I was shocked at some of the really shitty posts. Like ones promoting negging and stuff like that. I was just saying that people doing seduction should be aware that different people have different social cues. And are comfortable with different levels of closeness. And even though to you (the seducer) it seem…
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:14 AM
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I've been in situations where the guy doesn't get that the only reason I'm sitting next to him is because I was there first and literally every other seat is taken so I can't really move. So. Like. They trap me. Physically. And then seem to think that since I don't punch them in the face or actually say hey back off that it means I'm okay with them. And I'm a polite person. So if someone talks to me, I try to not just ignore them. Also. It's like. You just play along until you can escape. Like w…
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:04 AM
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But be careful. Some of us don't show discomfort with physical proximity the same way others do. And if it's a crowded place, don't mistake necessity for choice.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:41 PM
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The title doesn't say sexual attraction.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:39 PM
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I understand what you're saying. But I view it now as a way to relieve tension. Like. It's a joke. But not really. We joke about it to learn our fears about it. Most of the time, yeah I know no one is going to rape me. But going to a guys home. Alone. I wouldn't do that. I would at the very least have someone on the phone with my phone in my pocket. And I would have someone else who would call the police if thru didn't hear from me within x amount of time. It is a very real fear. But I think we …
/r/seduction03/09/16 02:32 PM
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No. A nice chat can be fine. But the thing is. I'm a server. It's my JOB to have a nice chat with my customers. So it doesn't necessarily mean the same thing to you as it does to me. And guys misinterpret the nice chat I have with them while I'm working all the time. And it's really annoying. I'm not saying this would work in every case. But I'd say that if you're planning on hitting on your server or bartender, this might be something to keep in mind.
/r/seduction21/02/16 09:41 PM
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And if a guy asks for my number and I say no, that's fine. But when I say no and they won't let it go, that's the big issue. and that happens a lot. Most of the time actually. And all it does is piss me off. And no. When guys pull that shit on me, I cut them up and destroy them.
/r/seduction21/02/16 08:51 AM
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Nope. He's introverted and shy. Nice looking. But in an average way. But it's his personality that makes him sexy and irresistible.
/r/seduction21/02/16 08:48 AM
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Yeah I get a lot of guys doing that still. They do the disqualification some too. But. While it does work better, I still think it's kind of stupid.
/r/seduction21/02/16 02:56 AM
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For me, this comes with time. In the beginning of a relationship, silence can be a but awkward. What is he thinking? Omg do I have something on my face? Am I super boring? Did u just offend his entire ancestry? Do we have nothing in common? But once we are friends, those doubts go away. I know he would tell me if I had something on my face, and then we would laugh about it. He obviously isn't easily offended if he's still around. We have loads in common. We just don't really feel like talking ri…
/r/seduction13/01/16 06:45 AM
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Before/when you get the number, that's the important bit. It's the actions leading up to and immediately following the phone number exchange. That's what determines whether or not she will respond to the texts, and in what way.
/r/seduction04/01/16 01:17 AM
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Maybe you should work on being a more interesting person so you don't have to resort to such bullshit methods to get a girl to talk to you...
/r/seduction03/01/16 11:13 PM
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Lol. When guys text me shit like that, it's obvious click bait, so I just ignore, and they move from "maybe tomorrow" to "only if I have no immediately forseeable options, and I want a free meal" then unless he's totally stellar for the date, I don't put out.
/r/seduction03/01/16 11:04 PM
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