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This isn't the first time you have had that thought is it...? 😉
/r/MensRights16/07/17 08:06 PM
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Skim the books yourself (no need to really read them, you will get the picture), then call him out on each tactic he is doing using the exact terminology used in the books, total power suck! "Sorry honey, NEGGING is not going to work today" "Are you trying to MAINTAIN FRAME?" etc.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 02:54 AM
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Read and understand Models by Mark Manson
/r/ExRedPill02/04/17 11:33 PM
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I made her Finnish with my tongue, then couldn't understand a bloody word she said! FML
/r/MensRights28/02/17 09:32 PM
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If they always cum though, doesn't that actually make them the best?! ;)
/r/MensRights28/02/17 09:27 PM
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I would need to take the day off to be with my son (female teacher), but presumably I would not need to look after my daughter right?
/r/MensRights17/02/17 02:24 AM
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I love Penn Jillette's idea, make it gender-neutral and just call everyone an asshole!
/r/MensRights16/01/17 10:08 PM
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Glad you agree "to some extent" Get left by your husband with a newborn, chances are you are not working. Sure you will be able to get a job and support yourself, but it won't be instant. Maybe a fast transition to unemployment benefits would be the appropriate path There just has to be enough balance in the system between fiscal conservatism and compassion
/r/PussyPass06/10/16 05:17 AM
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Not everyone gets to choose the circumstances that they are having/raising children in. If you have to quit a job because of caring for a child, I believe there needs to be a level of kindness built in, some leeway period of a few months to get back into the workforce. The extra money spent would be negligible, but the effect on the family would be really appreciated
/r/PussyPass06/10/16 04:35 AM
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I don't have a problem with the payments stopping, but there should be a transitional period while the parent can get back into work/supporting themself. If they have had to quit work and are relying on the money, getting a new source of income may not happen as suddenly as the loss of a child (and there will be a grieving period that will make gaining this new job even more difficult too)
/r/PussyPass06/10/16 12:17 AM
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I Think the wage differential certainly has something to do with it. I would love to move from IT to a more socially active field, but that is not going to pay for a house and put 2 kids through school and allow us to live the life we currently enjoy. I understand that we could lower our expectations, no more travel / ski trips etc, but its a big ask
/r/MensRights20/09/16 02:16 AM
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Link??
/r/MensRights19/08/16 03:28 AM
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Think it through though. Wages, conditions and legal protections would all have to improve to get enough men to apply for teaching/nursing type jobs to achieve a balance. Would be an interesting prospect. I would love to throw in my IT job and teach literacy and numeracy at a primary school level. I think it is one of the most essential points where we start losing kids from academic development, but it is never going to pay enough to raise my family, so it will not happen (well, maybe after ret…
/r/MensRights11/08/16 06:46 AM
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Maybe freeze hiring of women until a 50/50 balance has been achieved?
/r/MensRights11/08/16 06:10 AM
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Open up by all means, but with other men only in a non-judgmental way. Check on Meet-Up for men's groups, one of the best things for my mental health and happiness I have ever done!
/r/MensRights29/07/16 04:43 AM
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Or is it a function of men being more likely to take initiative and actually getting things done, rather than spending more time talking and analysing as women may do? Unfortunately a percentage of these acts will be ill-conceived and wrong, but is it part of a larger pattern?
/r/MensRights28/07/16 06:32 AM
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Statistically aren't kids safer with men other than their fathers? (not that that is a great argument in hindsight!...)
/r/MensRights17/06/16 01:55 AM
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Keep an unopened small bottle of water next to the bed?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 11:28 PM
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No, don't suffer in silence! Talk with other men on the same journey. They are hard to find, but awesome company if you can find some
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 06:41 AM
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Best thing? Join a men's group where you can talk it all out of your system away from women. I'm in a "No More Mister Nice Guy" group (read the book if you haven't yet), and it is awesome. His podcasts are great too Check Meetup for a group in your area
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 06:40 AM
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I don't cultivate dread, it is beyond that. Dread is like an illusion you can project to scare her, but if you won't actually do it, she will see through it. If you are thinking of it as 'cultivating' dread, I think there must still be a lot of oneitis happening. My wife knows what I want and that if she doesn't step up I will find my fun somewhere else. She knows I love her, our kids and my life, but I have told her this won't stop me discretely (for her sake and mine) and safely (STI etc.) get…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 06:44 AM
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Dread game while dating, she knows you can just dump her and move on. Dread is natural. Once married, she is pretty sure you will stay. It doesn't mean you won't stay with her (and any kids) but still get a bit on the side, this is the angle to go for IMHO
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/15 04:37 AM
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Better to ask her to take the kid outside to calm down, win win!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 07:58 AM
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I think this is partly on you, don't shy away from examining that. From her comments it sounds like she already saw what changes in her you were after, so why push it and make it an issue by giving her the book? It seems like it was a way to speed up changes in her that in my opinion can only take place over time while you are constantly demonstrating that it is safe for her to soften and relent to your leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/15 11:12 PM
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All of this depends on her thinking about what you have said or done to create the tension. She has to be engaged and wanting your time/attention/approval. If she forgets about it once you leave the room/house/conversation, there is just no way this can work (ask me how I know)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 12:39 AM
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I have banned PJ's, done! If she wants her back rubbed (which is always) it all comes off.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/15 01:39 AM
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The WE in this case is the family and 2 kids. It is really the kids I don't want to lose. I have come to the point where if I lose her it will be sad, but fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 12:01 AM
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I have been Mapping for about 19 months, and have changed quite a bit. I read this a month ago, we are now in counselling together. I'm not sure we are saveable, but we will see. Th issue is my wife does not see anything wrong with our situation, so she is not really buying into her changing, she just wants me to
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 01:27 AM
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As her doctor said, if you have to have cancer, yours is the one to get. Just finishing up radiation, (8 sessions to go). All looks positive. It has lead to some major rethinks of what we want on our lives, and what we value and want to achieve in the time left to us
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 11:27 PM
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No, I'm the guy with the cancer wife and two kids! You understand exactly the question I was asking. In the Athol Kay/MMSL parlance, I was looking to lower the alpha and up the beta without going too far. Alpha asshole I can do, trying to take it down to 80% is hard as there are few good examples in our culture between total Alpha and supplication
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 09:47 PM
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Well she is going through the tail end of cancer treatment at the moment, so I am attempting to soften up a bit, but don't want to go too far
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 09:40 PM
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I don't think it is relevant to the question as asked. I was after a less a/hole-ish way to phrase this
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 06:43 AM
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We are having a heavy time with some life changes at the moment, hence trying to be as polite as possible without being too deferential
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 03:39 AM
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Remember most guys think this in the post-pill phase. they see how shitty they have been and can't believe she WOULDN'T have!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 12:39 AM
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Huge help for me. It gives you the time and energy to get your shit correct
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/15 10:48 PM
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In a cheery voice "thanks love" and a wave!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 12:27 AM
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I disagree. She is only stating what she feels to be true RIGHT NOW. If he can turn this around, in a few months she will be saying the EXACT opposite, and will genuinely mean it just as much as she does now. Womens truth is fluid and emotion/situation dependedent, don't mistake it for what a guy would mean if he were saying it!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 12:24 AM
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Dread is like a fart, if you have to force it, it is probably shit. Stop trying so hard!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/15 11:59 PM
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It depends if you are attracted to her at all. In the past few months I have lost all attraction, and honestly don't care what she does any more. My plan is to live seperately in the same house (as her parents did while she was growing up) until a better option comes along or the kids are old enough for me to leave
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 04:24 AM
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Look inside and be honest with yourself. If you feel like fucking, do it. If you don't then dont. Maybe stop overthinking it so much!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 10:58 PM
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Or laugh...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 11:30 PM
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Go buy a L and an O and another L and put them up instead, then laugh at it!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/15 10:01 PM
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I have a shitty thyroid too, but now on the right level of medication and losing weight/muscling up. It should not be an excuse for her if sher manages it properly
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 09:44 PM
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Give it to her in a fancy envelope explaining that you found it laying around and she can redeem it any time she wants! (Cue smack on the ass!)
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 09:50 PM
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She may frame this as you are bad and evil and doing wrong things to her, but did she respond well when you did it? Always watch for the way she reacts rather than what she says afterwards once the hamster has had time to think up reasons she should not enjoy it. She may need to make you the bad man to let herself off the hook for enjoying what she has been programmed by society to think is "wrong" I would try playing up the "I'm the bad guy going to do bad thngs to you" with a big grin and see …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 09:09 PM
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Welcome to the club! Kids need to learn the full range of expression, they will anyway! But they also need to learn when each is appropriate. What we might say around grandma is NOT the same as when we are out on a 4X4 trip in the woods! What you might say ragging a buddy is not the same thing you say to a humorless boss when annual bonuses are due. Life/expactations/behavior all a big game, and your job is to teach them the rules, then support them while they take the field!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 06:26 AM
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Ultimately in is on YOU to fix this if you are the real head of the household. She is telling you she is unhappy, you need to find a solution before it is too late and she finds someone else she thinks can make her life better
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 03:24 AM
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Catch up with friends at lunch? Bonus points if you FB with pics of you guys having fun!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/15 03:21 AM
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NEVER sleep on the couch! You are the man of the house, you belong in the bed. Giving the bedroom up to her when she is pissy?. She thinks she is the queen and you are too scared to confront her. Just suck it up and sleep in the bed. If she is too uncomfortable with the situation, SHE can take the couch!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 10:35 PM
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Chill out, let it slide. Wherever you are going, they probably sell bikinis there too!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 09:39 PM
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Don't underestimate the power and usefulness of a good apology. Apologise once, do it well and make it clear that you are drawing a line on that behaviour/issue and move on. If she ever brings that issue up again do not apologise again! Explain that it has been dealt with and you are moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 04:39 AM
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