Toodleshoney Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
94	What does good sex even look like?	SEX STRATEGY	Toodleshoney	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 07:03 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Problem with this sub. It's not the same lol. Repill encourages men to feel entitled to relationships and women, as if they are objects. It's a reinforcement of patriarchy, to the extreme. FDS and pretty much any similar sub (Twoxchromosomes, wgtow) teaches women to protect themselves from patriarchal norms, and either thrive alone or hold men to a higher standard. It might blow your mind to know how many women are murdered every day by their entitled, abusive male partner. Let alone raped. So no, the two subs aren't …	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/21 11:35 PM
35	Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late. This exactly! I have seen this in action so often now that I'm older! Men who claim they are into younger women, but obsessed with a woman their age who told them to eat dirt. The younger girl is still figuring life out and really believes whatever the man told her. She'll figure it out too, eventually!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 02:59 AM
45	Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late. I will say that moving to a city definitely helps with this. I'm 43 and I still go out regularly. One my best friends is a super gorgeous 52 year old and he goes out multiple times a week. Back in my college home town, I was considered a cougar at 26. This was even though I looked 15! It was wild. I'm so glad I moved away. All of my friends back home seem like they are living their lives as if they are 75 with one foot in the grave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/21 02:53 AM
3	tell me if i'm right Some people also are alcoholics and meth heads. Many will do things that aren't good for them on purpose or because they can't help it. There are plenty of "nice guys" with girlfriends and wives. As long as your hygiene is good and you have a decent personality and aren't a shut-in, you'll meet women who are interested. You should not design your personality and life around "getting women". That's where you lose. Biology will always bring the women. Just focus on self improvement, always.	/r/ExRedPill	01/09/21 06:56 PM
3	💡Don’t have penetrative sex with a man unless he can bring you to orgasm with his hands and/or mouth first.💡 I think yes.....! But he was a friend who almost became more, and she lived with her brother so the guy was used to sleeping on the couch sometimes after nights out with them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 07:43 AM
8	💡Don’t have penetrative sex with a man unless he can bring you to orgasm with his hands and/or mouth first.💡 I have a friend who told me that she asked him to get her a glass of water... And she locked the bedroom door behind him when he left. 😹 That might be harsh? But I've always admired that move.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/07/21 06:35 AM
6	Girl please 🤦🏻‍♀️ Yikes they aren't even married yet. Girl, wash your face.... And then RUN!!!! (Working title of my upcoming self help book.)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/07/21 11:47 PM
4	Curious what this sub thinks about "cold approaching" If four out of five women don't like being approached by strange men, would you do it? What if nine out of ten don't like it? They say it's a numbers game, without ever considering the number of women who felt uncomfortable, upset, scared, or objectified. Keep that in mind. Don't cold approach. Instead, aim for an invitation to approach. Eye contact that is welcomed (don't continue to stare if they don't welcome it.)	/r/ExRedPill	30/05/21 09:58 PM
66	Hmmm.. I wonder why this is? Only one made me cum and it was 3x in minutes. So it turns out I'm very easy to please, men just suck that bad in bed. It's extremely disappointing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 02:37 AM
18	Social conditioning Omg same. Whaaaaat	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/21 05:28 AM
4	Consumption of porn makes me lose attraction Yes I noticed that a lot of lesbian porn was also terrible and made for the male gaze! It's so bad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 08:15 PM
24	Consumption of porn makes me lose attraction It used to not bother me, but pretty much all porn features men abusing women (ooh kinky 😒) or if it's not violent then it's licking a woman's pvssy for two minutes before getting himself off in multiple ways. There's no believable women's pleasure. It's all misogynistic af. I found it frustrating as hell and I can only get aroused by lesbian porn as a very (sadly) hetero woman.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/05/21 10:11 AM
12	Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman. Yeah and she was only wearing a t-shirt. Watching tv on the couch. I guess the man was so shocked he turned around and left. She called the police and then me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 09:26 PM
29	Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman. Omg same!!!! I was 20! I was gone, my friend was there and it was midnight, and he had been looking for me! I can't even imagine what might have happened if I was home alone. We later figured out it was probably the maintenance man who had keys to all the apartments. That still haunts me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/05/21 08:37 PM
6	Can anyone else also not partake in romance movies/books anymore? I have seriously considered it after Bridgerton. It just made me so sad at just how fictitious that really was. A man who cares about you, defends you, is your bestie, and gives you a million orgasms? Ha! In what world? Only the imagination of a woman. Meanwhile that is the minimum a woman offers. Real men are depraved, period. Pretty much all of them, just on different levels.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 01:22 AM
17	Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s) We should start correcting them every time. Dad bod is beer belly. And that's not cute. Hello!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 01:10 AM
48	It’s 2021- no more getting scammed for straight women.🌺 Reject casual sex and normalize sex as an extension of a loving relationship for our youth. I find it one of the great tragedies of our time. I'm super hot, I loooove sex, being sexy, and sensuality. And unfortunately I'm all the way f*cking hetero. Plus I have no issues with men wanting to be with me, I actually can't get rid of them. But I'm through with them. I'm all the way over relationships and men. And the one thing these losers should be good at, meaningless sex, they can't even get that right. I know I sound bitter but really I'm depressed. Men are so whack.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 11:29 PM
78	It’s 2021- no more getting scammed for straight women.🌺 Reject casual sex and normalize sex as an extension of a loving relationship for our youth. I do NOT understand casual sex at all, solely because of #2. Men are terrible at sex even when they want to be good at it. So imagine they don't even know you or care about you. Like, what? Make it make sense. I'm serious. I want to be a slut, y'all, but these men are useless! I'm so sad. I just want some O's but men aint giving them that's for damned sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 10:57 PM
0	How do I overcome shame over my past involvement in PUA and associated behaviors? Atonement, and make amends. You could make a public apology for having bought into patriarchal sexist behavior, and that you feel extremely embarrassed by your actions. Tell anyone that you've hurt that you were wrong, and if they want to contact you to tell you how you've affected them, you're open to that. And understand also if they choose not to. Tell other men that it's important to change if they recognize themselves in your apology. And that you're there as a sounding board. Hold other me…	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/21 09:30 AM
5	Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wild I know I find them to be pretty bad in bed, if they are a man. And yes, so absolutely boring. I once humored a man and let him spank me. JFC it was a total snore fest, not to mention he sucked at actual sex and had problems getting it up. It was so disappointing... as usual. I had bruises on my ass, and nary a goddamn orgasm from that loser, ever.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 12:07 AM
11	Are younger women that are married and/or have kids nicer to men than their unmarried counterparts? If so, why? I read your question as "why aren't these women interested in me? Why aren't they smiling and open to me?" This is a huge problem with men in general. It's a very entitled expectation. As a woman, I had a hard time putting myself in your shoes, because I don't expect strange men, or strangers in general, to smile at me or to be open to me. I'm not even looking for any kind of reception or reaction. So why are you?	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/21 09:50 AM
33	The Most High Value Response I’ve Seen on Reddit I have one ex who does this. He has also pretty much lost his mind (undiagnosed disorder of some sort) and also has charges against him of soliciting minors. He's 45. Pretty sure it's all connected. Most "normal" men I know do not do this. At least not openly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 08:26 PM
3	What does good sex even look like? To be clear: he didn't do anything magical besides actually prioritize my pleasure! And ask for consent even when I obviously was attracted to him. And be a decent person. I could not believe how easy it was to make me orgasm. It was a huge eye opener. Every man I have ever been with has described themselves as wanting to please, and very much wanting me to orgasm. But in practice they are obviously just trying to get to the part where they orgasm, and it's obvious because they don't take their …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 06:45 PM
–	What does good sex even look like? Ok, so here's what that experience looked like. It was an LDR in terms of friendship. He was a friend of a friend, and I was traveling to his area and planned to crash on his couch the first couple of days. We got along really well over messages, but there was nothing romantic at all because I was just out of a relationship, and he wasn't even my type at all. When I got there we had a wonderful night, having cocktails and talking about all kinds of things. The next day we actually didn't get alo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 06:39 PM
1	You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here. It's always ridiculous to compare the victim to the abuser as if they could ever be the same. As long as patriarchy rules the planet, and women are oppressed, there's no such thing as misandry. Six women are killed every hour. Every 73 seconds a woman is sexually assaulted, and that's just what is reported. And there are so many other insidious actions against us besides those things, which we uncover and discuss here. There's no two sides. Feminism is not the same as patriarchy. Wanting to prot…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 05:59 AM