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| 15 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManYes. Someone finally said it. Every single one of my hobbies are stereotypically feminine (and almost all of them solo), so even if I met a non gay HVM who was into the same ones, I know I would not be attracted to him anyway because stereotypical masculinity really is what does it for me. So, everytime I read dating advice along the lines of "join a club to meet men" it just made me roll my eyes, even pre-covid. I don't even exist in the same social circles as men and I don't at all intend to f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 88 | Honestly, this wakeup call really is what I needed to turn me off the idea of spontaneous blowjobs for goodYeah that too. How entitled can scrotes get? Does he ever do anything deserving of a compliment though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Chloe_ tells you to walk away and put yourself first.Only 70k? You'd think with all that talk about getting the bag she wouldn't accept anything under 300k... Wow, that's underwhelming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 13 | THE BAR IS SO LOW ITS UNDERGROUNDI can't see her post. I think she got so embarrassed she deleted it! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:26 PM |
| 7 | How to find your sisterhood?It's already been discussed on here but the risk is that there could be men larping as women on here who would have access to our personal info and harm us if we ever decided to meet up. But I wish... I have been really struggling in the friendship département lately because there is no woman in my life with which I could say I share a FDS worldview. Heck, I have been even exploring new hobbies and skills lately but no one in my already existing social circle seems to be into them. Of course, co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 10 | What would a young HVM look like?Absolutely. I have no desire to fall madly in love with whoever I end up marrying. But he needs to be the kind of man I can deeply respect and even admire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:58 PM |
| 8 | Found on fbCan we actually make a whole post about this? Stereotypically feminine interests constantly getting put down by men and now by libfems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:46 PM |
| 13 | when the wife & husband are both shallow 😄 (23F/31M)Yup, and never mind that actresses in teen porn are most of the time portrayed in roles and outfits that make them look younger than their 18 and 19 years. College freshmen come in all heights and sizes, the fact that there is such a focus on the sub 5'2 and sub 100lbs ones with A cups is very telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 08:23 AM |
| 83 | Moved to the US.. can't believe how men treat women hereI agree with everything you and the others have said about dating in Paris. Parisian born and raised here. No way she is talking about the same Paris as we are. This city especially (I get the feeling the rest of France isn't quite as bad) is 50/50 libfem culture central. Parisian men are S-T-I-N-G-Y and no effort. They do not take you on great dates at all and they definitely do not have the provider's mindset. As someone said, at least, American men will at least try to impress you with money.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 09:58 AM |
| 59 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️Some are already saying that... 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 4 | ✨Y’all heard?✨Yeah, I am so over the whole "women weren't allowed to work until a few decades ago which is why men were expected to pay" thing. That's nonsense. Most women have always worked. They just did not have access to the same kind of career fields that men did or to academia (but to be fair, neither did most men). For most of human history, people were so poor that even children as young as 6-7 were often expected to go out and earn a living. So in that kind of context it makes no sense financially fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:05 AM |
| 41 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.The other day, I was watching a documentary on another family annihilator and it got me thinking that women should absolutely not hesitate to be the kind of wife who would leave her husband if he ever became broke, no matter how materialistic and cold it makes them look. Men do not deal well at all when they are suddenly unable to provide like they used to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 11 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!God I wish... As of now, I have legitimately zero girl friend with whom I could say I truly share a world view or even just similar interests. I'm eventually going to cut the most extreme pickmeishas from my life but the remaining 2-3 friends I'll have left would still be the type who buy into libfem culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 73 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Such a beautiful and efficient system... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 36 | Reminder to not have casual sex. These degenerates don't give a shit about you. (PS this is from r/ steroids. Wanna bet these dudes are ugly, aggressive losers with roid guts and ED?)This was my first thought too after seeing that post. Yikes, female heterosexuality should be qualified as a mental illness. But more realistically, in my case my standard for sex has just now escalated from "waiting 4-5 months for a serious commitment" to "that engagement ring better be outrageously expensive". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Have any other women noticed that some men are obsessed with being accepted as they are, but want the women who work out, study, and pay careful attention to their sense of style?And don't forget hair removal. So much time spent (and money) removing all that damn body hair, in places they do not even imagine (they legit believe most women only grow a darkish fuzz on their calves and armpits and that's it), while also making sure that our skin looks naturally silky smooth. Worst thing is, all of that is not even done to look hot, but just not to be a social reject... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:50 AM |
| 58 | Remember - if he wanted to he would! #justHVMthingsYes! While we often discuss how many mothers turn their sons into man babies, we should also be talking more often on here about the importance of only marrying a man who will as a default put you as a priority over his mother. Too many wives of 10 years out there having to compete with their MIL like she is the other woman in their relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:16 AM |
| 26 | Have any other women noticed that some men are obsessed with being accepted as they are, but want the women who work out, study, and pay careful attention to their sense of style?I actually do not think I am disagreeing with you here. The whole spirit of giving more thought into your appearance than just picking up whatever Forever 21, H&M, etc happens to be selling this season IS what being high maintenance is. It's not so much a price thing as much as an effort thing, because putting together a non conventional wardrobe is much more work, and people do feel it when they look at the final result of how one presents themselves. It just so happens that the women who put a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 63 | Have any other women noticed that some men are obsessed with being accepted as they are, but want the women who work out, study, and pay careful attention to their sense of style?Yup, the highest maintenance looking women in my circle with the prettiest clothes, the most feminine faces and fit bodies are perpetually single while the ones who look more like "Plain Janes" are the ones in 1+ year relationships. But then again, their relationships I do not envy at all and I feel like this also has lots to due with my age group (I'm 21) as well as the way natural looking women are glorified in Parisian culture. I doubt it would be the same in places like Beverly Hills per exa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 5 | The Myth of the Modern HousewifeHonestly, I have identified as childfree for the past few years but after discovering FDS, I have come to question why that was. I realized that the main reason why I did not want kids was because the 50/50 model of relationships I have been surrounded by my whole life would suck the life out of me if I had to add child rearing in the mix. It was not due to the children themselves but due to the way I had internalized the unappealing conditions in which I'd have to raise them. So yeah, assuming … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:11 AM |
| 23 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?I've lived in Paris for all of my 21 years and honestly, I know I won't be finding a potential husband here. I haven't dated in almost 4 years. The moment I have my master's, I'm out of here. The relationship culture there is a libfem 50/50 cool girl nightmare. Like, I feel like everywhere else, men at least know they are being low effort when they act this way I don't know if the outrageous price of rent is what drove men to be like that or if it's the leftover 1968 vibes, but I feel like this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:41 AM |
| 9 | We need to be attached to a man to be worth an ounce of respectHonestly, in a world where we aren't scared of how men might react at cold rejection, the best way to go would be to do the whole "I'm not attracted to you" speech that was shared on here yesterday, since it is where the truth is. Damn, it hits hard to realize women do not even feel safe enough to be honest... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 24 | FDS is anti polyamoryYeah, I too have been getting weird pickme vibes from many upvoted replies in the last few days. Maybe this sub does need some kind of purge... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Another reason NOT to accept drinks dates.Thank you. I didn't dare to say "we should make alcohol illegal" because people seem so attached to this poison. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:49 AM |
| 51 | Another reason NOT to accept drinks dates.Yup, it's actually convenient to be a non drinker because it can allow you to make sure they respect your boundaries. If they insist on making me drink (no matter the alcohol, because some people will insist wine is "gastronomy"), I'll just assume they are a creep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 41 | Another reason NOT to accept drinks dates.It really is not a coincidence that places centered around alcohol consumption are the hotspots for men hitting on women. This is at least 80% of the reason why I do not drink alcohol, ever. Drinking culture is both unhealthy and predatory. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:43 PM |
| 33 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.Yeah, the only ugly guys I have sympathy for are those whose features straight up look deformed (which does include extreme shortness IMO, because being a man who is shorter than 90% of women must not be fun), just like I feel this way about deformed looking women. The rest are just lazy and it's their own fault that they are "quite unattractive". That said, even in they looksmaxed, truth is, many would still only look barely above average and would still be in no way entitled to dating beautifu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 10 | In order to love who you are as a Queen, you cannot hate or feel shame for the experiences that shaped you today. Giving yourself grace is self-love and self-respect. Today is the day you make peace with yourself and take 1 step forward. Progress not perfection. You are always enough!I like the recent reboot Sailor Moon Crystal so much more than the original only because of how much better quality this couple and Usagi's character are. People are so blinded by nostalgia that this is a very unpopular opinion in the fandom though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:35 PM |
| 12 | All the pickmes in the comments 💀Lmao, depending on where you live, even the most basic courthouse wedding is more expensive than that. I've just checked, in many states a mere wedding licence is around 60-80 dollars. Heck, this ring is less expensive than the nails the woman was probably wearing while she was getting proposed to with this piece of trash... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 12 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women...Saved and will probably be sent to all my girlfriends. This is amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 110 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesThat said, I do not feel like waiting 3+ months to find out my time got wasted on a microdick. I had that experience in the past and it was so disappointing (especially for someone with a high sex drive like me) but by then I was too in love to break it off for this. So is there a way to ask men early on in courtship if their penis is at least in an adequate state without being too crude? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 9 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women...Do you have a link to where/when he said it? I've tried to look but there are so many videos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 48 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women..."Of course I only want my man to be nothing less than a CEO. I'm a woman, duuuuuuhhhhhh. What about you? Would you want me if I wasn't so gorgeous?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:06 PM |
| 13 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women...Yeah, at that point I'm just unapologetic about it. I'm not interested in anyone who isn't at the BARE MINIMUM in the top 10% in terms of income. Like, I'd just immediately get up and leave (and tell him exactly why) if I do not find his occupation (or field of study) prestigious enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:27 PM |
| 27 | The vast majority of men were never supposed to be able to mate with women...Honestly, just as I was typing the sentence about being a concubine, I started wondering: "Wait, why does that actually sound better than even marrying a monogamous guy who is quite above average but not really exceptional?" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 3 | The difference between men and women’s dating strategiesAt this point, I am just refusing to be friends with men. Like, what's the point of us socializing beyond a basic level unless we are romantically attracted to each other? I don't have energy to waste on people I have nothing in common with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 90 | The Ultimate Dating Strategy is Knowing You Do Not NEED to Date Anyone, EverYep, and I've seen some of them comment under "redpill" type videos that women NEED men but men do not need women. Yeah, that would explain the way men act so desperate for female contact be it online or IRL while I have not even kissed a dude in 3 and a half years and you do not see me complaining about it, since it is by choice. Scrotes are projecting hardcore... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 44 | Hollywood big shot started an acting school. Married one of his students when she was 16 and he 51.She apparently was also in love with her daughter's husband or something like that. Insane stuff. EDIT: Just checked the source I got it from (The mother/daughter experiment) and apparently, she propositioned him with a "mother/daughter" thing and also made a move on a then 12 year old Courtney's 17 year old boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Some men love calling women gold diggers, yet here I am (politely) turning down a “rich” guy after 1‼️ date. Imagine feeling so entitled and simultaneously so insufferable that even your $$$ can’t keep a woman interested since that’s all he thinks I’m after, I have to laugh 😘I mean, of course making my own money is non negotiable, but as I said, it's not like I would end up making 6 figures myself either where I live. Only a tiny minority of medical specialists, renowned lawyers, CEOs, people in the entertainment/sports industry and such generate that kind of income. In the field I am studying, I know I'll be stuck in the mid 5 figures in the best case scenario. There is also the issue of housing prices in the area that make it pretty much impossible for even hardwo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Some men love calling women gold diggers, yet here I am (politely) turning down a “rich” guy after 1‼️ date. Imagine feeling so entitled and simultaneously so insufferable that even your $$$ can’t keep a woman interested since that’s all he thinks I’m after, I have to laugh 😘Seriously though. I live in Paris and here it is pretty rare for someone to earn even just 100K euros. With the way I look, most people (even outside of FDS) would expect me to shoot for men who make mid 6 figures if not millions but WHERE ARE THOSE???? Like, a few years ago, I spent a few weeks trolling around on SeekingArrangement and the majority of the "daddies" I saw made between 50k and 80k. That would make them a financial catch here. Do i need to move to the US or what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | I am absolutely horrified of men by witnessing first class of how they speak about us women.I (21F) have always had slight speech issues (I talk too fast and with an irregular pitch) and I have started to strongly suspect it is due to having an easily angered socially defective hoarding slob for a father. His inability to behave in an acceptable manner around other people has constantly held my mother and I back from forming and maintaining proper relationships over the years (we eventually started going out to eat and traveling abroad without him). I grew up with the notion that my fa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 07:21 AM |
| 13 | If this isn’t how my boyfriend reacts, I don’t want itWell, goes to show even among this group we have very differing tastes in men. If a man I was with ever said something like that and with the tone he did, even just once, it'd be enough to make me seriously reconsider the entire relationship. Major turn off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 21 | Don’t make efforts that he won’t make for you! It’s a waste of your valuable time and energy!That quotation angered me so much I almost downvoted you as a reflex 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:21 AM |
| 12 | Saw this gem on askreddit, what a nice fellaEven had it been a simple food intolerance, it should have been enough to completely ban a seafood restaurant from his options when trying to plan an anniversary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:27 PM |
| 59 | Don't you dare give anyone you're dating a gift for Valentine's Day.Idk, I think this really depend on culture. Per example, in East Asia, Valentine's Day is the day where women offer men chocolates and for reciprocation, they have to wait for White Day. Honestly, I live in France and I am not even sure what the proper local etiquette is at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Turned down Stanford Pre-Med to Move to New York to follow some guy who ignored her the entirety of high school. The 90s really had girls out here looking stupid.🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡Yeah, she stayed in Sunnydale because she felt like she had found a better life purpose in the fight against evil. I'd say that out of all the girls, Anya is the pickmeisha due to how she was throwing herself at Xander in late season 3/early season 4 and how she constantly allowed him to practically insult her. Except for the Parker fiasco (which I attribute more to trying to move on from Angel than true affection for him), Buffy herself at least only got involved with men who worshipped the ver… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 7 | The percentage of HVM out of all the male populationI live in Paris and from what I have seen, I do not think it is up to 30% there. In fact, I am especially wary of very ambitious men at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:07 PM |
| 51 | Never met a straight guy who wanted to be my friend without some intentionAbsolutely. The gender mixity they are trying to push is absolute BS. Most straight women and straight men have too little in common to begin with (and brains that work too differently) that except for a sexual/romantic reward, they have no incentive to socialize past a basic or professional level. Seriously, what straight guy will be interested in listening to me talk about color coordinating my outfits and the pompom girl squad I coach unless I am sleeping with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 07:41 PM |
| 70 | I really LOATHE movies/books that end with the female protagonist giving a chance to the guy she had "friendzoned", just because ONE guy she liked did not treat her right.They also don't show him constantly bitching about having a dead bedroom, even though he is the one who continued pursuing a woman who was clearly not attracted to him and then only gave in because she was vulnerable or felt desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Just because a man is tall, handsome and successful does not mean he is not a low value nightmareAccording to French law, she has until November 2026 to report the rape. But as of now, it's obvious she won't, because as of now, she has doormat mentality of not wanting to cause trouble in general. But I am hoping that one day she'll have a snap in her personality that will make her want to actively go after the people who have hurt her (about two months after that first drunk rape, it happened again with someone from her school, most likely because she was already vulnerable). Once, I was ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 06:28 PM |
| 34 | Just because a man is tall, handsome and successful does not mean he is not a low value nightmareMy brain pretty much melted when she told me that with a huge smile on her face. Bitch what... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:01 AM |
| 20 | Just because a man is tall, handsome and successful does not mean he is not a low value nightmareYup, remember that one friend I mentioned who tried to go check on the one who got raped? Well her mom got involved and called the adult in charge in the community to tell her about it. Said adult in charge did not feel like it was her business because "it had not happened at one of the community's parties". Nevermind that the environment also bred plenty of depraved relationships riddled with cheating, which is another reason why I left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:42 AM |
| 18 | “18” 🙄🙄🙄Lmao, why does he look like a less orange version of Trump? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:15 AM |
| 50 | Just when I was starting to change my mind..Not to mention, they say the whole reason why men used to pay for dates is because women did not have jobs and therefore no money of their own. That is not really true. Except for those from wealthy families, women have pretty much always worked, because it made no financial sense for them not to. Being a housewife was not the norm. It was seen as a status symbol for a man to be able to afford his woman not to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:11 AM |
| 15 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Yup, definite red flag. Back in october, as I was about to cross the street, one well dressed guy stopped his expensive looking motorbike in front of me and just asked me "I'd want to invite you for dinner". Though he was stuttering a bit when he did it, it was such a power move considering how "intimidated" other men are that I accepted. We exchanged numbers and started texting once he arrived at his destination. When I applauded him for his courage, he confessed that , he was sure I was going … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Thank you. So many guys these days seem to lack it (at least in my area). They either are wannabe thugs and therefore have the pathetic slouch that come with it or they are pseudo intellectual little sissies. I really should not be forced to exclusively date low income firefighters in order to escape this. Mandatory military service at least had the benefit of truly turning boys into men but it was cancelled just the year before I was born. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:51 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Yeah, our experiences are similar. I haven't even dated since I finished high school because of this. The last guy I ever had a thing with first thought I was pranking him when I confessed I was into him (because he couldn't wrap his head around a girl "like me" being into him). The guy before that had this thing where after each date, he'd text me or post on social media that he needed to "recover from all the emotions". I later understood that by that he meant that he felt the need to work ext… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?I am 21 and aiming to date men who ideally are in their mid 20s. Before that, they almost look like they haven't even finished puberty and let's be real, they have little spending power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 10:42 AM |
| 31 | Anyone else feel like there are NO attractive men out there?Yeah, and that is not just online. While out on the street, I will maybe see a man who I find really attractive once every 3 months or so. Then again, I am Miss Universe contestant tier in terms of physical appearance and I am looking for my looksmatch (because men who are not seem to suffer from confidence issues), which means that any man under 6'3" and 200lbs (of muscle of course) at the very least is automatically out. That means I am left with only less than 0.5% of the male population to c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:35 AM |
| 103 | Cool Girl Explains Why She’s Better Than Us Because She’s Okay Accepting Less Than We AreYikes, did you see her enraged face when she read the parts of the handbook that dared to imply that most men will use women for sex (and that is why it's important to vet them)? What reality is she living in? Also, a $60 engagement ring costs like HALF the price of a Disneyland ticket on peak days. That is what she'd be okay with for such an important gift? Like, I'd say $60 is the kind of money a high school student should pay for their boyfriend/girlfriend's birthday gift. A grown adult has m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 09:03 AM |
| 4 | bUt WhY iS iT mY rOlE tO pUrSuE aNd TrY tO iMpReSs FeMaLeS jUsT bEcAuSe I hAvE a PeNiS? eQuAlItY 2020 reeeeeeeeIt wouldn't be fine by me. I like my role as a woman. But again, that is just me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:01 PM |
| 16 | Some guy got triggered by my post about how males are biologically wired to chase us and made a whole 22 minute video about itDon't get me wrong, I refuse to date any man who isn't tall and good looking (because that is the only thing I am attracted to), but then again, I am tall and good looking myself so I can afford to demand that. So in any case, he is wrong because men I want do see me as up to their standards (and even more) for a relationship anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:59 PM |
| 72 | Some guy got triggered by my post about how males are biologically wired to chase us and made a whole 22 minute video about itHoly shit, notice how it's never the "Chads" (who we supposedly do not deserve) who make that kind of videos. It's always the bitter ones who are salty that above average women do not want to "give a chance" to their subpar asses. But in my particular case, I am so far out of this guy's league that we don't even belong to the same species. 😂 Trust me dude, you won't ever have to worry about paying for me on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 25 | Some guy got triggered by my post about how males are biologically wired to chase us and made a whole 22 minute video about itThat is exactly what I replied to his PM before blocking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:35 PM |
| 11 | Some guy got triggered by my post about how males are biologically wired to chase us and made a whole 22 minute video about itNot to mention, of what little I have watched of the video (and read in the comment section), he is completely wrong in his assumptions. Not all women have "orbiters". I certainly don't. I am certainly not pinning for "Chad" to want to impress me either. First of all, let's be real, most of the guys complaining about paying are not the super ones women all want. Second, where is the so called "Chad"? Because without exception, all the men I have found attractive so far have seen me as completely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 21 | bUt WhY iS iT mY rOlE tO pUrSuE aNd TrY tO iMpReSs FeMaLeS jUsT bEcAuSe I hAvE a PeNiS? eQuAlItY 2020 reeeeeeeeYeah, no one "deserves" love, especially not men, since they are by default less in demand than women. If they can't level up by being one of the most attractive/resourceful men out there, it is not my problem if they become incels. In a way the 80/20 rule is true but not in the way that TRP think it is. Women are not really hypergamous. It's just that the top 80% of women just has the same worth as the top 20% of men. The natural state of things would be that only those few select men get to pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 62 | bUt WhY iS iT mY rOlE tO pUrSuE aNd TrY tO iMpReSs FeMaLeS jUsT bEcAuSe I hAvE a PeNiS? eQuAlItY 2020 reeeeeeee"bUt WhAt If He HaS a CrUsH oN yOu BuT hE iS sHy?" Not my problem. Shyness to the point you can't even go after what you want is insanely unattractive to ANY woman worth a damn. Either go work on your confidence or die a virgin. It wouldn't be a "missed opportunity at what could possibly be a great love story" like so many of these morons say but a dodged bullet for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 142 | "Test drive before you buy" is a sexual strategy for WOMEN'S benefit, not men'sTHIS. Men are so full of shit when they say they NEED to have sex early in order to determine sexual compatibility. No, it is just an attempt to guilt you into early sex. Whether or not a woman is good in bed makes little difference to their pleasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 01:24 PM |
| 7 | Where do you meet men?Honestly, OLD really feels forced to me. My first dating experiences (back in 9th/10th grade) were that way (I had trouble socializing at my school) but the guys I met were really forgettable and we had no chemestry. Then, in 11th/12th grade, I would meet guys IRL by chance and it felt way more organic that way (though they were far from perfect). I haven't been able to go back to OLD since then. My bestie, who is a Tinder user, tried to talk me into it but especially now, knowing how opportunis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 9 | Where do you meet men?I do think I am already there, but let's be honest, a romantic partner does fill a role that no one else could and this is why I want one. I have been completely single and celibate for a long time now and that hasn't crippled my life. In fact, I'd rather die alone than settle for some mediocre dude tbh but if I am presented with a real opportunity, I do not want to screw this up. What I am telling you here is that since I know that, at the pace I'm going now, I'll only meet very few men in my e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:57 PM |
| 14 | OLD Message Exchange—He asked me to coffee. My response (good?)+ what should I say next?I agree. If I a man told me I seemed chill, I would drop him like a hot potato. It clearly means "I am planning to put as little effort as possible into this". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 12:12 PM |
| 4 | How do you feel about double dates?If you mean "double date" as a way to get to know a new partner, hell no. This isn't high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 11:25 AM |
| 14 | PSA: Control your alcohol.Yeah, that is the reason why men flock to clubs and bars to socialize with women more than any other place. They are attracted to the idea of preying on vulnerable inebriated women and manipulating her into bed. I am a non drinker (partly for this reason) and any time someone has said to me "Oh you have never drank alcohol? We need to make you try sometime!" it has always been a man. Pigs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 10:48 AM |
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