Tooloco Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Another hypocrite getting caught And I should take anything you say as being backed up by science and facts when you haven't given any? Anyway and I think the way you attack me for discussing how everybody does it Irl (term used in gaming to talk about the life outside the game and in this case outside of reddit) makes me actually wanna quit this website, just for stating my opinion. I agree that they are huge generalisation but it is how I feel and it doesn't make in anyway stupid to base your opinions on how you feel about so…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 04:47 PM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught If a casual discussion cannot be backed up by personal experience I cannot keep discussing. I love talking with other people to get different viewpoints specially Irl but I see how it my irk some people when there's no stats to draw conclusions from. But real life is discussing about your personal viewpoints that you may have or not considered from your personal experience. I do not want to come off as sexist what I'm trying to say is society makes us sexist by having us conform to gender roles.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 02:51 PM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught I agree that deformities might be the most limiting factor in attractiveness. But I cant be sure if this is something imposed by society or nor therefore I cant be sure if deformities are objectively unattractive. But I do believe that making progress in the other areas would lead to and improvement in dating (im sure there's deformity fetishes or w/e) maybe not eliminating it but normalising it.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 01:29 PM
2	Another hypocrite getting caught Yes its complicated and I feel like I cannot talk without bias because we ourselves are part of society whether we like it or not. Its impossible for me to imagine what attractiveness is or isn't if I don't have any societal reference right? How do you know what people want to look at if attractiveness is subjective? Yes, it seems impossible to change now, but it isn't	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 01:19 PM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught Yes, there's levels to it. But surgery is not the only solution, making it socially acceptable to have people on tv with the qualities you mention would normalise it, change our perspective, show us that physical appearance has nothing to do with who is in that body. I see your point, but I want to show you that these are societal problems. Yes, we biologically prefer some qualities over other. But they have nothing to do with attractiveness as an objective quality.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 01:07 PM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught Okay, I get that you cant force anybody to like a physical quality. That is a personal choice that should always be respected that's why we have consent. So, In an ideal world where everybody can be attractive (better said: what we consider attractive right now). I feel like attractivenes would change and we would get different goal posts of what is considered attractive and what isn't. Not solving the problem at all. And what about people that like a physical quality that is considered ugly for…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 12:50 PM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught That I cannot agree with. It is biologist to think that something is so primal you cant dismantle it. Like the horrible argument I've heard sometimes: justifying rape just because the 'man' once they get hard (or have the itch) they have to get it dealt with. That might have convinced someone 100 years ago but now we know its a disgusting argument that compares men with animals and justifies rape which I find abhorrent. Are we the animals sometimes we compare ourselves with or are with the domin…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 12:28 PM
0	Another hypocrite getting caught I am agreeing with you that physical appearance plays a part in men and women alike. Obviously im pulling arguments out of my ass im just a random guy on reddit arguing about what I believe. Or do you always have irl conversations where you expect them to cite their personal arguments? I said generally for a reason. I mean go on Tinder, make a fake girl acc on instagram and you'll see how the only thing you get is dick pics. (no girl pics even though there's load of women that feel attracted to …	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 12:12 PM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught I 100% agree with your comment and its a stigma that we have to try and destroy. Like with any stigma that attacks collectives because of physical appearance. Hopefully the world will realise this and try to make the stigma disappear but I think its is way more difficult than other problems (like racism) as is something thats ingrained in our biology. I've notices myself being nicer to nicer looking people but I least now I notice it thats the first step. Education is the solution.	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 11:57 AM
3	Another hypocrite getting caught Exactly! Thanks for clarifying!	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 11:46 AM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught We'll agree to disagree I guess, attraction (not physical) is something that can happen suddenly or something you can develop for someone while you're friends or go out for dates or whatever. More and more people are realising that the limits of their sexuality start and end where society thinks is acceptable. Sexuality changes or not, but you can feel attracted to anything, that is what im trying to say, dont limit yourself because of your physical appearance. Because most women wont base their…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 11:34 AM
-2	Another hypocrite getting caught I do get what you're saying, but its an effort you have to consciously make. Keep your self esteem in check (cause its super attractive), have a good body (It will be healthy and keep your self esteem up if you like your body) thigns like that. Im pretty sure guys that are ugly and 'confident' think of confidence as something you portray to your relationships as a way of getting something out of the other person. I havent met much and my scope is limited (reddit is the source of info which is he…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 11:08 AM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught Sorry I didn't understand what you were referring too I must have misconstrued your comment. I do agree that obviously biology plays a part but thats just being biologist (dunno if that word exists in english here in spain it is being used more and more to justify sexism). The thing is even though it plays a part for example men are generrally (and I say generally cause im one of the exceptions) are more promiscuous than women. But we, as the dominant species of the planet, should be able to rea…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 10:57 AM
1	Another hypocrite getting caught Can you explain? I do agree that relationships have nothing to do with physical appeareance I was just using the language the comment i was replying to used. Im confused hehe pls explain further	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 10:34 AM
-13	Another hypocrite getting caught Dude, most girls dont care about average or ugly guys. Its how you present yourself. Confidence is key, knowing how to dress is great aswell, having friends that are girls that give you pointers is also a great advantage. I mean there's super hot guys that are insecure and havent gotten laid and theres ugly guys that know how to be attractive. Im not saying it takes the same effort, obviously being hot makes it easier. But I rather read stories on reddit that try to stop the stigma that average/…	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 10:24 AM
-16	Another hypocrite getting caught It makes reddit depressing if the only recurring thing I read is self pity	/r/PussyPassDenied	24/06/20 10:05 AM