Tooslowtoohappy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do you guys read and implement books?		Tooslowtoohappy	/r/seduction	11/01/19 10:40 PM
2	Recently got into the dating game, not sure what to do now		Tooslowtoohappy	/r/seduction	28/05/17 03:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	18M How do I avoid becoming an incel? Not at all wtf, many people come from different, diverse backgrounds. Some may have less interaction with women than others. I was in an all boys boarding school. That book helped me be single for the first time in an open world.	/r/seduction	15/07/26 01:37 AM
3	How to talk to a girl to see you as a potential partner, not as another guy-friend? I've felt the same way for a long time to the point that my philosophy now is that if you have a lot in common with a woman, even if you feel excited about having that many things in common, they are not indications of interest and can actually be counter productive while building attraction. It's wild to me that this is the case but anytime I've met a woman with a ton of things in common most likely it's going the friend route, even though I want to date cause of the commonality	/r/seduction	08/07/25 03:31 PM
2	What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman?? My guy it sounds like you are getting these girls drunk and taking advantage of them in their drunk state. There's a single word for that and it can take you to jail.	/r/seduction	01/04/24 02:50 PM
3	What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman?? Don't listen to this guy lmao he's obviously tryna promote his content. Communication matters. Doesn't matter the sex, you only get to know if you communicate that you're interested. Be outcome independent and be vulnerable enough to tell someone how you feel :) As a side note, Mark Manson does a great job about explaining vulnerability in his book Models. It's a great read for men, but also helps women	/r/seduction	01/04/24 02:18 AM
7	What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman?? What are you afraid of by being sincere? That she rejects you? And then what? You move on. What's really scary here, and I say this as someone who feels the same as you, is being vulnerable and saying your feelings out loud and being rejected for it. There isn't a patch solution for this sadly... If you've been on this sub as long as I have people talk about oneitis and abundance mentality. Once you believe that if it's not this girl, it'll be someone else, you won't think these things anymore.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 08:41 PM
2	What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman?? Indications of interest, see my reply above.	/r/seduction	31/03/24 08:25 PM
36	What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman?? Yeah I used to be into pickup a lot before, actively going out and meeting women on the streets. I'm familiar with IOI (since someone else asked, this means indications of interest). I personally don't do well with this. Not everyone can pick up subtle social cues easily. I'll give you an example: this girl I mentioned in my comment. At the end of the event, she seeked me out (I was elsewhere getting a drink and she was about to leave). She found me and hugged me for a good 5 seconds and it was …	/r/seduction	31/03/24 08:25 PM
142	What are subtle hints that a man can give to communicate he is romantically interested when going out with a woman?? Honestly, the older I get the less time I have to waste. In the past, I liked to keep things vague and escalate while we are going out (a light touch here, a flirty comment there). In my experience, this did not work as sometimes I'd just waste a night out trying to get to know someone when at the end of the night it didn't go anywhere. Yes you can make the case that you should be friends with anyone you are trying to date, but I'm not here to make friends, I'm here to date. I can be friends wit…	/r/seduction	31/03/24 04:32 PM
41	[deleted by user] Bold of you to assume since I have standards I have options xD	/r/seduction	28/09/21 04:02 PM
1	Getting Attention Without Trying Unless you’re a 6’5 guy or have other things going for you, I’d temper your expectations. I lost 80 pounds and my dating life went from going on 1 dates a year to 2. Technically doubled my dating so it’s not all bad lol	/r/seduction	17/09/21 04:02 PM
6	Overconfidence works more than being nice, especially over text Big +1	/r/seduction	29/06/21 04:04 AM
11	stop TEXTING women I normally text women I’m interested in on Mondays to set plans for the week. I don’t meet women online, so my text usually has a throwback to a conversation we’ve already had, or the plans include some mention of it. Something like: “Heyyo, happy Monday! Do you have plans this week? If you’re free, let’s grab/do X on Thursday evening” where X is is the thing you’re both interested in from previous conversations.	/r/seduction	23/11/20 04:49 PM
1	How to meet girls in 2020? The guy before you said lose weight. So I did. It did nothing. The guy before that said take better pictures. So I did. It did nothing. Believe me, I’ve tried reordering and shuffling shit around. I’ve tried it on multiple apps. I’ve tried Long form bios, short form, funny, explicit; it doesn’t fucking work lmao. But hey, maybe some muscles will solve my problems 💪🏾	/r/seduction	20/06/20 05:56 PM
2	How to meet girls in 2020? Haha man I’ve lost 90 pounds over the course of 3 years. Trust me, I’ve gone through everything. I’ve come to accept it as one of things that is what it is. Oh well. I guess I haven’t tried weightlifting... it’s really the only thing left and if it’s not this, I’ll officially give up. Women tell me I have an amazing personality too, I’m very extroverted. So it really perplexes me how I can still be so unattractive lol 🤷🏽‍♂️	/r/seduction	20/06/20 05:18 PM
2	How to meet girls in 2020? Also paid :) didn’t work for me in the past. As for the ok looking bit: you be the judge https://imgur.com/a/hqxwlQA Actually wait that’s not totally correct. I did get matched with 3 scammers and 2 women who asked me to venmo them gas money before they came to go on a walk with me. So I Guess I’ve been getting Some matches lol.	/r/seduction	20/06/20 04:42 PM
4	How to meet girls in 2020? Let me know how it goes lol, I tried it at a park the other day. Shit was hard with people wearing masks and having to be 6 feet apart	/r/seduction	20/06/20 04:33 PM
2	How to meet girls in 2020? Lmao done done done and done. Still no matches. Also... shadow bans for swiping right on everyone. So there’s that fun stuff.	/r/seduction	20/06/20 04:31 PM
8	How to meet girls in 2020? Sounds great... if I ever got any matches lol	/r/seduction	20/06/20 01:40 PM
12	What makes a man mysterious and what do girls feel about them? Dear lord that sounds fucking exhausting.	/r/seduction	16/03/20 08:25 PM
1	Let's get YOU a wingman! Boston!	/r/seduction	22/09/19 04:22 AM
1	[FR] Cold Approached an actress. Spent 2 hours in the park Hey good for you man! I do think you should’ve escalated more. No one spends 2 hours with someone without being interested in them. On a side note, do you mind if I PM you regarding how you got a visa to work? I’m thinking of migrating too (am in tech) and I could use some guidance	/r/seduction	20/06/18 12:16 AM
3	day game question There are three questions I go with as conversation during day game: 1) What do you do? 2) What do you do for fun? 3) What are you doing here (where you guys are)?	/r/seduction	09/03/18 07:21 PM
1	How do you approach a girl who wont give you eye contact? ^ lol if it was so easy would he be here asking for someone's help	/r/seduction	05/06/17 01:21 PM
1	Recently got into the dating game, not sure what to do now Thanks haha, if only I read this a couple of hours ago. I texted her once more, should've just called. Ah well, maybe next time!	/r/seduction	28/05/17 05:48 PM