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Question For MenTop-Middle-2791/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:33 AM
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I think AI can really be used to set up date logistics, time both are free, local venues and their open times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:16 PM
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You are baiting but I actually talked to a guy who was part of this dynamic, being a "bull" for some couple he found online. He said the cuck shit was an inside kink for wife and husband. Wife and husband were really close and connected and he basically felt used as a sex toy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 09:33 PM
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I had a pretty serious health problem when I was 17, it would've been better if I died
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:13 PM
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Tbh it's even more complicated, you need friends but the kind of friends who arent going to judge you as rude if you leave them to talk to girls, or who are even interested in this kind of stuff and not just go out for the sake of going out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:23 PM
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What percent of average young women do you would find this acceptable from an average young man To have a chat? Maybe 50% and what percent of average young women do you think would consider going on a date at some time in the future Less than 1% imo That's just my experience of a guy with autism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:13 PM
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Lol, you see, even you muddy the waters with "I pity men AND WOMEN" like you dont actually pity aspie men and our unique struggle, you and everyone else I can find online have to add this qualifier with "btw aspie women have it hard too"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:04 PM
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autistic men get no pity with our failures with women, instead we are constantly "reminded" that we aren't entitled to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:59 PM
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autism is the blackest of pills
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:57 AM
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Women work to remove disadvantages by shifting disadvantages on men, it's really a zero sum game at the end of the day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:33 AM
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People do, you have a democratic society and feminism exists only because people want feminism to exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:28 AM
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I think a good first step would be to refuse to vote for any politician who does not talk about men's issues (and not about men's attitudes about men's issues aka "men's mental heath"), Why the fuck are "men's interests" spaces so right wing coded, Ive never heard a single politician on the right to advocate for men as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:25 AM
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Our society is extremely communitarian-leftist except for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:33 PM
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male entitlement legitimate frustration that's the same thing framed differently And Ive also noticed that men's issues with dating are treated uniquely, indeed literally every issue except this gets at least some empathy, I guess there are reasons why, to address men's frustrations one will have to change women's behavior and people are icky about it. Still the lack of empathy is truly unique
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 09:33 PM
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I really feel like you know what you are talking about, there's actually some substance in your comments here. Write a book or something
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:17 PM
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What do percentages refer to here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:13 PM
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Ive been to therapy and I found it almost useless. People seem to hate on therapy in comments, I don't, but I really wish there was a dating talk community where it is a banable offense to relentlessly bully men into it. Maybe there is a place for therapy but on reddit it is ultimately one of the derail tactics to stop discussing men's dating problems and reframe them as "men's mental health" problems
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:05 PM
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Wasn't there something like "civilization" between chimps and second half of the 20th century?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:40 PM
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I was kicked out of a bar, albeit I had a way less hostile interaction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:46 PM
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Yeah I wanted to comment on dating_advice that from my experience it has about the same success rate as dating apps, Im not sure if the conclusion is that it's "not worth it", like what's the alternative, "accept being a failure in something human biological existence is based on" doesnt seem particularly easy mental trick either. Im legit sick from the apps, at least talking to someone in person can be fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:16 PM
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What did you do, if it's not a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 10:07 AM
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Interesting. For me whenever I play games I then feel guilty that I haven't gone somewhere I can talk to women instead, wasn't trying to find a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:42 AM
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Hows the project of making oneself happy going? Ive been constantly rejected for 8 years with maybe like 2 cases I can count as success
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:15 AM
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Have a conservative society where women are pressured into 1-1 mating instead of the current situation Like what is the solution to being rejected from a 1000 jobs? To have a kind of system where you are "put into your place" by society without much freedom. Clearly the commitment to freedom is holding low value men back. And being rejected by women is way more damaging to mental health than job rejections
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:13 AM
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All true and I also suspect that men are more hostile and less likely to befriend other men these days because women created the dating market where men are in a ruthless competition against one another
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:06 AM
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Men's problems are you-problems Women's problems are systemic issues society has to go to war against
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:54 AM
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I dont know, but I certainly dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:03 AM
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I saw a 4/10 guy in a cheap dirty coat convince a cute girl to leave her date early and go with him to a bar. All he did was just a simple conversation but with a confident body language and. It's truly unironically "just be confident". I dont even know if it's a good or bad thing for me but at least Ive discovered something new
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:20 AM
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Men that complain about "asshole dark triad" are just mad they cannot be assholes, manipulate women, nice guys and still get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 07:38 AM
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can I see too? Im considering blepharoplasty
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:32 AM
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same shit exists for autism and it's insanity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:29 AM
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no but I can imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:27 AM
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IRL mentorship group for young men do these exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 11:37 PM
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that's not the topic of OP's post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:53 PM
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"Get off the dating apps and go talk to women in real life" isn't necessarily about cold approaching. For the kind of guy who needs to read dating advice on reddit, cold approaching is the only option to "go talk to women in real life". If the actual advice is to do "social circle"-ing then people should say that explicitly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:45 PM
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People are damage controlling in comments. "No no we actually mean tap into your rich and extensive social circle, not approach strangers" but "go out and talk to girls" for a single guy reads like "go out and cold approach". Also "go out and cold approach" is an actionable advice but "grow your social circle" is not, the latter is complex and consists of much more smaller steps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:31 PM
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what are some good looksmaxing online communities?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:28 PM
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No it's not what it means. If you have money in your wallet and you refuse to give it to charity you are withholding your money even if you have the God given right to do so. How do I I was talking about women collectively, not every individual woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:17 AM
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Not a single problem has this kind of militant derail, only men's dating problems. Inflation? Homelessness? Unemployed? Financial inequality? Climate change? Price of sausages in a corner store? People won't shut up about every possible direct and indirect solution society can try, to move people's behaviour towards what they see as a better option. But when one suggests that there may be some negative consequences of modern women's behaviour, no, you have to treat women's behaviour like it's ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:16 AM
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Do you think you are entitled to a progressive liberal society making sure you are safe and empowered to exercise your rights? Because "No one is entitled to anything" would be something between early medieval Europe, modern day Africa and Afghanistan
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:09 AM
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Why do you attack a strawman? OPs referring to me but I never said women owe affection to man, I only said that they make a choice to withhold it and kill men by causing immense psychological suffering. It's alright, you can actively enjoy your right to perpetuate this system but stop bad faith derailing with this "you aren't owned" and concede that it's what is actually happening. Because it is. You don't even disagree. You just dislike framing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:03 AM
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No it's not actually, you need a peculiar ideological frame to consider the woman exploited. I can as well frame a guy as being exploited for money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:51 PM
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Haven't you got the memo? Women are always entitled to a relationship after sex, otherwise guys "lead them on" "lie" "trick" them. Guys are never entitled to anything. You are not a "real" nice guy unless you are 300% selfless I've seen that tweet. Unless you get someone like the president of the United States pushing against those kind of anti-male tweets I dont see the anti-male environment ever improving
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:29 PM
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No. It would be accepted if we stopped tying men's value to the success he has with the opposite sex. Is it possible? Is it realistically possible? Is it even desirable? Maybe escorts is a decent enough band aid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:03 PM
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shoplifting is basically legal now tho also it's apples to oranges because when stealing one party is clearly at a loss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:01 PM
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I mean that's a low effort post but I am considering doing something like this. Not just for girls, partly because I don't want to pay for the decaying western societies and the state of public safety is not something I can ignore. But what country should I aim for. There are like 20 different options. Taiwan China Japan Korea. Less developed ones like Malaysia Indonesia Philippines Vietnam. Each probably has a different visa regime. I am working as a software dev but I don't really like this jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:36 AM
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Based aspie. Maybe I should start doing it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:32 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 09:01 AM
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What advice do you have for someone with autism
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:16 AM
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In what jurisdiction
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:05 AM
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Cos I know it worked for me to get something And you can just play the BBC game anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:17 PM
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Who the fuck are you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:07 PM
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Did you put any conscious effort to look for dates in your circle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 05:24 PM
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Assume a guy already has a social circle, how long will he stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:21 PM
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Sorry for dumb question but what exactly is "red pill"? I found this sub by searching "autism" and "relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 04:18 PM
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Well I've asked a wrong question then, "how long are you going to stay single while relying on social circle to find partners"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:52 PM
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It never happened because it's such a novel situation but how can you deny it being in the process of happening right now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:22 PM
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One thing is to stop existing because of the war or revolution, another is to literally die because noone has children
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:13 PM
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That assumes freely made choices make one happier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:10 PM
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Liberal societies just die out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:08 PM
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I'm pretty sure they thought of themselves as consciousness. You need to add something about it, you think it's implied from your post but I'm not sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:06 PM
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You can find a girl in a club or bar to make out with this way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:52 PM
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What do people even look for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:52 PM
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It is what it is I've never been told "I like this character trait about you"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:48 PM
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How many guys have a large enough social circle in your estimate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:38 PM
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It's just autism. I was excluded in summer camps my parents would force me to or from the basketball group I was a part of, from some uni groups I tried to join. My current workplace. I had zero "dating" or whatever agenda in all these places. It's a recurring pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:35 PM
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Is average neurotypical guy's social circle large enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:31 PM
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You can do this if you come in super positive, talking to everyone, smiling. It's a rare state tho
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:31 PM
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Some guys are not welcomed into social circles regardless of agenda, I don't know why it's hard to realise. People online need to make this caricature of single guys, desperate, horny, with agenda, so that basic advice makes sense. I think it's the relentless advice givers who can't realise that reality is more complex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:30 PM
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Again that's a bad analogy. It's sort of like "humans are more likely to die from an interaction with a farm animal" doesn't make farm animals are more dangerous than wild ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:26 PM
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It doesn't mean that odds of getting relationship from social circle are better than from an app, rather than that people are more likely to choose to rely on a social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:14 PM
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It directly affects dating. What would your idea of something being about dating tho? Something ridiculous like "feminist ban men from messaging more than one girl a day". I mean this obviously not real but you are putting a ridiculous standard here. What I've described is directly related to dating. Maybe Are We Dating The Same Guy groups being allowed to exist is a good example that's directly about dating I don't want to make a social media research project to prove to you that "womens standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:11 PM
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How large was your social circle? Do you think you are a particularly social guy or was it uniquely large? How long would it take you to get a new relationship through it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:52 PM
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I don't know how you can say this in good faith. Yeah treating normal men like they are one step from committing violence against women and defining every interaction women didn't like as harassment leads to restricting mens dating opportunities Pushing a certain frame on discourse indeed is. And it's not just some few random people on Reddit, it's ubiquitous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:51 PM
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Exactly, I was excluded because I'm anti-social AND because I'm bad at ball games. Thanks parents I won't be upset when you are dead
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:21 PM
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In principle yes, but it's more nuanced Parents pushed me to play team sport I was bad at and never listened to me complaining. As someone with autism it was extra stressful because instead of what you seem to imply, that it can teach socialisation, it constantly put me in a situation where I was excluded, with no option to leave, only giving me anxiety. I don't talk to my mother anymore at all and I'm only talking to my father because I am using him for some of his connections. Do you want this…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:33 AM
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Patriarchy is done for. And so is the developed world. You'd be much happier and have more sex living in a second world country. Luckily for humanity, the "developed" world decided to voluntarily go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:00 AM
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Yeah, women pushing their interests regardless of whatever it does to men is a good definition of feminism. Do, you can't really play this bad faith game of "not real feminism"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:56 AM
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Shaping public discourse has consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:40 AM
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Perceiving any guy who talks to a girl or even goes with girl on a date as a potential rapist murdered. This actually results in action, if you approach a woman there's a good chance some other woman intervenes to save her from "harassment", if you go on a date you'd get waiters asking your date "are you ok, this guy is creepy, do you need a taxi" All the anti-workplace harassment measures that can get you fired for asking a woman from the largest social circle you have, your workplace, on a dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:39 AM
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Who the fuck cares what's the experience of men who are openly hit by women then. The post was about men in general. I guess you're the one coping by bragging to strangers on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:16 AM
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There's a lot of false advertising
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:34 AM
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It may be the case that for me it's better to approach in person to filter out those whom I put off. I've seen this line of thinking, I'm really not sure tho. I only managed to get sex once and it was from an app. At this point I find both online dating and approaching in person with a low success ratio as too bad for my mental health. But for your average neurotypical man, if the goal is to get dates, apps are still the best avenue imo. You can swipe your daily like limit in a time it would tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 07:04 AM
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Women will respond positively to your approach. But because you are married you don't try to push interaction further so you don't see that even if they'd smile and laugh with you during your approach they are unlikely to go on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:50 AM
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It's true that approaching is less "risky" than reddit men pretend but if you are a man and are willing to pay for professional pictures for apps you'd get more dates this way as a return of investment on your time than from approaching. I'm autistic so the social circle game is like not even an option, but I'm not sure if it's an option for neurotypicals. Like how many dates a month would a guy expect to have from "expanding his social circle" realistically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:21 AM
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However, women do not want make the approach I think it's the main reason. And precisely because of that There are also a lack of spaces where it’s expected or accepted to approach. However men are nervous to approach because of being perceived as an intrusive or a creep. Men have also heard stories online or from friends of men who have been made of fun or called harassers for trying And thats somewhat overblown in online discussions. In practice it just won't work in a more banal way, women ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 06:00 AM
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actually an underrated comment, discord servers would literally have a better gender ratio that any tabletop shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 01:01 AM
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I disagree that porn is a problem lol. Maybe porn addiction, like any addiction, but so is any addiction Look at what happened to the alchohol prohibition, it didnt work in ONE country. It did work tho, in a sense that it reduced alcohol consumption Most guys who have plenty of female attention do not watch porn. (Even as teenagers) No, that's just not true What are the alternative to them? Just be pent up 24/7? Prostitution, just imagination and fap. I dont watch porn because I find it boring, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 12:41 AM
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Arcades in my experience aren't sausage fests but mainly are for the groups of friends who came to play together, you can't really squeeze yourself into one. Well maybe you can if you try enough times but you can as well go cold approach in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 10:59 PM
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Board games place is one ok girl, one fat girl, 30 guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:23 PM
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No girls there
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 08:02 PM
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Men really do this mostly to try and use ubiquitous leftist rhetoric to their advantage, not as a first principle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:22 PM
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Is there any evidence that saying "I'm sorry I may look a bit off, I'm autistic, are you ok with that" is a good strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:22 PM
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I'm going to read every single comment on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:15 PM
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Modern society gets extremely aggressive when men discuss men's issues from the point of men's interests, regardless of any dark humour or connection to crime. he doesn't spend his free time seething about how mean women are for not fucking him Again, just more downright invalidation. "Why don't you just stop spending ALL YOUR TIME HATING WOMEN". Implying. Implying. Implying. Bro I've went dancing to clubs probably more than an average guy, it's shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:02 PM
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There genuinely aren't even remotely enough available autistic girls. People are absolutely correct to tell you that your advice sucks. Of course you also needed to smuggle the "model tier" lie
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:51 PM
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That's alright, I was never even remotely as angry at women for rejecting me as at the people who created absolutely disgusting and useless discourse around this issue I feel entitled to something else I feel entitled not to be constantly trivialised and my feelings downplayed with how "relationship is not a big deal actually just focus on hebbies" I feel entitled to at least have a space for discussions on how I feel and what practical steps I can take, something more sophisticated than "try mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:41 PM
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