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Thanks again
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 07:48 PM
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OYS 32 Mid-30s, married 8, 4 y/o sprog. Now divorcing. 6’1, 196lb. Bench 175 x 11, Squat 225 x 10, Block Pull 280 x 14, OHP 110 x 11 60 DOD - Finance All of my bills are now hands off and automated, same date so I know exactly what’s coming out and where my budget is at. I have doubled down on investing and having a strict budget, but left nothing for fun. This will be fixed for once the divorce expenses are paid, no point living like a monk to secure my future and not leave anything for fun. Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 05:57 PM
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OYS 31 Mid-30s, married 8, 4 y/o sprog. 6’1, 196lb. Bench 175 x 11, Squat 225 x 10, Block Pull 280 x 14, OHP 110 x 11. Few week hiatus due to travelling with work. 60 DOD: Diet Very strong on this front, considering work travel too where I’d usually let go. Survived on greek yoghurt, steamed chicken and protein powder. Gave myself some flexibility towards the end to enjoy myself, whiskey and tacos. But I still kept my momentum on my cut. The discipline is what gives me the flexibility now and ag…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/21 08:32 PM
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Thanks, great points/questions. I have taken responsibility for the mess I'm in - I know all the shit that has happened to make my marriage worse than ever was due to me going full Rambo/monk mode with my finger on the divorce trigger and not having the frame to handle situations. There's still a glimpse of a woman I want to be with, but it is mostly in the past. My standards are pretty low for a quality wife at this point - as you say re-engaging in the marriage and being pleasant/respectful so…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 03:13 PM
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OYS 30 37, wife 31, married 8, 4 y/o sprog. 6’1, 198lb. Bench 160 x 13, Squat 220 x 11, Block Pull 265 x 12, OHP 110 x 11. 60 DOD / Physical I started Stronger By Science hypertrophy program. 21 weeks, solid program. A lot of reps/volume hence the stats, hopefully enough to stimulate a metabolic response and cut through my weight loss plateau, then focus on building muscle. The last few weeks I’ve been miserably hungry and low energy, then compensate with calories and end up maintaining weight. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 08:32 PM
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Tried wearing a thick belt to brace your core against? I am of the mindset that you're doing OHP to train shoulders - can work on core in other ways while you fix things like lack of shoulder mobility and thoracic extension (which is probably why you overextend your lower back, I know that's my problem)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 10:01 AM
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Perfect timing, I've stalled on my cut, finished my strength program and got a bunch of travel coming up to test my discipline outside of a lab-like environment I've created for myself. I'm fuckin' in.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 09:55 AM
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Thanks, perfectly linked gem from j10. Most of the stuff I read was post-ILYBINILWY and early OYS. As j10 said, the less fucks I gave, the happier I became. Not sure what that means for the future, but I’ve already protected myself legally.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/21 08:44 AM
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OYS 28 Mid-30s, married 8, 4 y/o sprog. 6’1, 198lb. Bench 265, Squat 335, Deadlift 415, OHP 165. My last ditch effort was to try some catch and release. I went out and enjoyed myself socially but didn’t number close. On return instead of the desired “wife suddenly wants to fuck me passionately,” or ideally just some peace, I got handed an ILYBINILWY amidst a barrage of arbitrary insults. The format was different, but Judging from HOA and other’s posts here, as well as my gut - I know what this m…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 09:06 AM
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Thanks a lot. I’ll get to work on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/21 05:13 PM
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OYS 27 Mid-30s. 6'1, 198lb. Married 8, 3 y/o sprog. 1RMs - Bench 265, Squat 335, Deadlift 415, OHP 165. Reading Re-visiting the sidebar basics WISNIFG and NMMNG with much more intent, rather than passively listening and getting the dopamine hit of agreeing with the content then doing nothing with it. Marriage I had a secondary Rambo period. This led to more drastic changes, tension and explosive fights. I have left multiple times, returning to 48 hours fuck fest and getting what I want, only to …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 09:04 PM
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OYS 26 Mid-30s, 6’1, 200lb. Bench 265, Squat 335, Deadlift 415, OHP 165. Sidebar. “Be prepared to nuke your nuclear family.” - HOA. The message is not “have many sparring sessions, keep firing warning shots and never do it.” After multiple escalations I actually had to nuke my family to go for what I want. It is a bitter fucking pill to swallow. Luckily MRP prepared me. I found myself through owning my shit - the grind, lifting, reading, reflecting, taking notes. Eventually, I had an epiphany an…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 11:48 AM
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It didn't, I just had to delete my account.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/21 04:50 AM
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OYS 25ish Mid-30s, 6’1, 91kg. Bench 265, Squat 335, Deadlift 415, OHP 165 I had an OpSec fail, DNGAF so much that I left my laptop unlocked and on my OYS notes, wife went snooping and found everything. I am at least 6 months in. Physical Best shape of my life, feeling strong as fuck, visible abs. Gym has been consistent through everything. Marriage Main event kept repeating. I tried different approaches each time. Eventually, I became confident that it was not a competence issue, the marriage is…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 12:19 PM
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